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        <title>Gracefully Unraveled: Faith, Identity &amp; Real Motherhood</title>
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        <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
        <itunes:summary>Gracefully Unraveled is a mom podcast for thoughtful Christian and spiritually curious women who feel lost inside motherhood and quietly wonder, “Who am I now beyond being a mom?”. Here you’ll find honest, faith‑friendly conversations about the inner life of motherhood—identity, emotions, the mental load, burnout, and the pressure to be a “good mom,” not more parenting hacks or hustle culture.



Hosted by writer and mom Kelli Lynch, this bi‑weekly show explores the emotional, spiritual, and psychological unraveling that often comes with becoming a mother: losing yourself in motherhood, mom guilt and shame, anger and reactivity, loneliness and “no village,” and a faith that feels either too shallow or too heavy. Through personal stories, vulnerable reflection, and research‑backed insight, each episode gently untangles ego, identity, perfectionism, and the default‑parent weight so you can live and parent with more presence, clarity, and grace.



Blending lived experience, scripture, neuroscience, psychology, and spiritual formation, Gracefully Unraveled gives you language for what you’re feeling and a kinder way to see yourself—without shame, force, or spiritual performance. If you’re longing for meaning, authenticity, and a faith that meets you in real life, this podcast is for you.



💖 Visit https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/ for episodes, companion blogs and the free Heart Check for Moms, a gentle assessment to help you work through what you&#39;re living through—with grace.



🔗 Follow @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast on social media for updates and motherhood inspiration.
http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61580498256792
http://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>Gracefully Unraveled is a mom podcast for thoughtful Christian and spiritually curious women who feel lost inside motherhood and quietly wonder, “Who am I now beyond being a mom?” Here you’ll find honest, faith‑friendly conversations about the inner life of motherhood—identity, emotions, the mental load, burnout, and the pressure to be a “good mom,” not more parenting hacks or hustle culture.</p><p><br></p><p>Hosted by writer and mom Kelli Lynch, this bi‑weekly show explores the emotional, spiritual, and psychological unraveling that often comes with becoming a mother: losing yourself in motherhood, mom guilt and shame, anger and reactivity, loneliness and “no village,” and a faith that feels either too shallow or too heavy. Through personal stories, vulnerable reflection, and research‑backed insight, each episode gently untangles ego, identity, perfectionism, and the default‑parent weight so you can live and parent with more presence, clarity, and grace.</p><p><br></p><p>Blending lived experience, scripture, neuroscience, psychology, and spiritual formation, Gracefully Unraveled gives you language for what you’re feeling and a kinder way to see yourself—without shame, force, or spiritual performance. If you’re longing for meaning, authenticity, and a faith that meets you in real life, this podcast is for you.</p><p><br></p><p>💖 Visit <a href="https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/" rel="nofollow">https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/</a> for episodes, companion blogs and the<a href="https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/momheartcheck" rel="nofollow"> free Heart Check for Moms</a>, a gentle assessment to help you work through what you&#39;re living through—with grace.</p><p><br></p><p>🔗 Follow <strong>@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast</strong> on social media for updates and motherhood inspiration.</p><p><a href="http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook </a></p><p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube </a></p>]]></description>
        
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                <itunes:title>The Mom Guilt Spiral: A Parking Lot Reflection on Overwhelm and Peace</itunes:title>
                <title>The Mom Guilt Spiral: A Parking Lot Reflection on Overwhelm and Peace</title>

                
                <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                
                <description><![CDATA[<p>If you’ve ever replayed a small moment in motherhood over and over… quietly convincing yourself you should’ve handled it better… this episode will meet you right there.</p><p><br></p><p>In this Grace Note, Kelli Lynch shares a real-time moment of mom guilt and shame that unfolded during what should have been a simple Saturday morning—one missed detail, one emotional spiral, and the quiet pressure so many of us carry in motherhood.</p><p>This episode is for the mom who feels like she’s constantly getting it wrong… even when she’s doing her best.</p><p>Inside this short reflection, we explore:</p><ul><li>How intrusive thoughts amplify mom guilt and shame in everyday moments</li><li>What’s actually happening beneath the “I messed this up” narrative</li><li>The connection between mental load, emotional reactivity, and identity in motherhood</li><li>How faith and motherhood intersect in moments of overwhelm</li><li>A gentle reframe that opens the door to grace instead of self-criticism</li></ul><p><br></p><p>This is not about fixing the moment.</p><p>It’s about seeing it differently.</p><p>Because sometimes, the sky isn’t falling…it just feels like it is.</p><p><br></p><p>➕<strong>Follow <em>@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast</em></strong> for more motherhood reflections and announcement of the <strong>Season 1 Growth Guide.</strong></p><p><br></p><p>💖 <strong>Start your personal unraveling journey </strong>with the <a href="https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/momheartcheck" rel="nofollow">free Heart Check for Moms</a>, a gentle assessment and guide to help you put language to the weight you&#39;ve been carrying.</p><p><br></p><p>🔗 <strong>Feed the spirit and stay in the know </strong>by following <strong>@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast</strong> on social media:</p><p><a href="http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Find grace in God&#39;s Word </strong>with my favorite study bible: <a href="https://amzn.to/4cKHN59" rel="nofollow">CSB Experiencing God Bible</a></p><p><em>**As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.</em></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Topics discussed this episode: </strong>mental load, intrusive thoughts, overwhelmed mom, mom guilt and shame, faith and motherhood, identity after motherhood, and emotional overwhelm.</p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;If you’ve ever replayed a small moment in motherhood over and over… quietly convincing yourself you should’ve handled it better… this episode will meet you right there.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this Grace Note, Kelli Lynch shares a real-time moment of mom guilt and shame that unfolded during what should have been a simple Saturday morning—one missed detail, one emotional spiral, and the quiet pressure so many of us carry in motherhood.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This episode is for the mom who feels like she’s constantly getting it wrong… even when she’s doing her best.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Inside this short reflection, we explore:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;How intrusive thoughts amplify mom guilt and shame in everyday moments&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;What’s actually happening beneath the “I messed this up” narrative&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;The connection between mental load, emotional reactivity, and identity in motherhood&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How faith and motherhood intersect in moments of overwhelm&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;A gentle reframe that opens the door to grace instead of self-criticism&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is not about fixing the moment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It’s about seeing it differently.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Because sometimes, the sky isn’t falling…it just feels like it is.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;➕&lt;strong&gt;Follow &lt;em&gt;@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; for more motherhood reflections and announcement of the &lt;strong&gt;Season 1 Growth Guide.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;💖 &lt;strong&gt;Start your personal unraveling journey &lt;/strong&gt;with the &lt;a href=&#34;https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/momheartcheck&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;free Heart Check for Moms&lt;/a&gt;, a gentle assessment and guide to help you put language to the weight you&amp;#39;ve been carrying.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗 &lt;strong&gt;Feed the spirit and stay in the know &lt;/strong&gt;by following &lt;strong&gt;@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast&lt;/strong&gt; on social media:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;http://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Find grace in God&amp;#39;s Word &lt;/strong&gt;with my favorite study bible: &lt;a href=&#34;https://amzn.to/4cKHN59&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;CSB Experiencing God Bible&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;**As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Topics discussed this episode: &lt;/strong&gt;mental load, intrusive thoughts, overwhelmed mom, mom guilt and shame, faith and motherhood, identity after motherhood, and emotional overwhelm.&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>Motherhood | When the Noise Returns: Mental Load, Identity and the Pressure to Be “Enough”</itunes:title>
                <title>Motherhood | When the Noise Returns: Mental Load, Identity and the Pressure to Be “Enough”</title>

                <itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode>
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                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                
                <description><![CDATA[<p>Does your mind feel louder the moment life slows down? The mental load, intrusive thoughts, and identity overwhelm don’t disappear when routines return—in fact, for many moms, that’s when they intensify.</p><p><br></p><p>In this vulnerable episode, Kelli unpacks the quiet unraveling that happens when identity, career, and motherhood collide. Through neuroscience, spiritual reflection, and real-life honesty, she explores how neuroplasticity and faith both call us toward one simple truth: transformation begins with attention.</p><p><br></p><p>This episode is for the mom who:</p><ul><li>Feels overwhelmed by constant mental noise and overthinking</li><li>Notices the cracks in her identity when she’s not busy “doing”</li><li>Struggles to separate her worth from productivity or contribution</li><li>Wants to feel more present, grounded, and spiritually anchored</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Tune in for a short yet powerful conversation about detaching worth from &#34;work&#34;, choosing presence over panic, and why sometimes the pause itself is a gift.</p><p><br></p><p>📚<strong>Books/Authors Referenced This Episode:</strong></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3QwI1o0" rel="nofollow">The Universal Christ by Richard Rohr</a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/4vQ6MeK" rel="nofollow">Hardwiring Happiness: The New Brain Science of Contentment, Calm and Confidence by Rick Hanson</a> (topic: negativity bias)</p><p><em>**As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.</em></p><p><br></p><p>➕<strong>Follow <em>@gracefullyunraveledpodcast</em></strong> for updates and details regarding the <strong>Season 1 Growth Guide, <em>announced this episode!</em></strong></p><p><br></p><p>💖 <strong>Start your personal unraveling journey </strong>with the <a href="https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/momheartcheck" rel="nofollow">free Heart Check for Moms</a>, a gentle assessment and reflection guide to help you put language to the weight you&#39;ve been carrying.</p><p><br></p><p>🔗 <strong>Feed the spirit and stay in the know </strong>by following <strong>@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast</strong> on social media:</p><p><a href="http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;Does your mind feel louder the moment life slows down? The mental load, intrusive thoughts, and identity overwhelm don’t disappear when routines return—in fact, for many moms, that’s when they intensify.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this vulnerable episode, Kelli unpacks the quiet unraveling that happens when identity, career, and motherhood collide. Through neuroscience, spiritual reflection, and real-life honesty, she explores how neuroplasticity and faith both call us toward one simple truth: transformation begins with attention.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This episode is for the mom who:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Feels overwhelmed by constant mental noise and overthinking&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Notices the cracks in her identity when she’s not busy “doing”&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Struggles to separate her worth from productivity or contribution&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Wants to feel more present, grounded, and spiritually anchored&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Tune in for a short yet powerful conversation about detaching worth from &amp;#34;work&amp;#34;, choosing presence over panic, and why sometimes the pause itself is a gift.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;📚&lt;strong&gt;Books/Authors Referenced This Episode:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;https://amzn.to/3QwI1o0&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;The Universal Christ by Richard Rohr&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;https://amzn.to/4vQ6MeK&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Hardwiring Happiness: The New Brain Science of Contentment, Calm and Confidence by Rick Hanson&lt;/a&gt; (topic: negativity bias)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;**As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;➕&lt;strong&gt;Follow &lt;em&gt;@gracefullyunraveledpodcast&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; for updates and details regarding the &lt;strong&gt;Season 1 Growth Guide, &lt;em&gt;announced this episode!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;💖 &lt;strong&gt;Start your personal unraveling journey &lt;/strong&gt;with the &lt;a href=&#34;https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/momheartcheck&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;free Heart Check for Moms&lt;/a&gt;, a gentle assessment and reflection guide to help you put language to the weight you&amp;#39;ve been carrying.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗 &lt;strong&gt;Feed the spirit and stay in the know &lt;/strong&gt;by following &lt;strong&gt;@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast&lt;/strong&gt; on social media:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;http://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>Losing Yourself in Motherhood: From Autopilot to a Conscious Yes</itunes:title>
                <title>Losing Yourself in Motherhood: From Autopilot to a Conscious Yes</title>

                <itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode>
                <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                <itunes:subtitle>Why Loving Your Life Doesn’t Always Mean You Fully Chose It</itunes:subtitle>
                
                <description><![CDATA[<p>If you’ve ever looked around your “good on paper” life — and quietly wondered, “How did I end up here?” or felt like you’re losing yourself in motherhood, this episode is for you. This isn’t about whether you should have become a mom; it’s about what happens when motherhood begins on cultural autopilot and you never <em>own</em> your yes.</p><p>In this episode of <em>Gracefully Unraveled</em>, Kelli shares honestly about realizing she had everything she thought she wanted and still felt misaligned inside. She unpacks the difference between physically becoming a mom and emotionally and spiritually choosing motherhood — not just once, but day after day. Instead of shaming you for being an overwhelmed mom or questioning your gratitude, this conversation gives language to why unexamined choices often lead to unconscious reactions in motherhood.</p><p>In this episode, we explore:</p><ul><li>How many women are groomed to plan careers in detail but left to “fall into” marriage and motherhood on autopilot</li><li>Why you might feel an identity crisis in motherhood even if your life technically followed your plan</li><li>How unowned choices can show up later as anger, resentment, or numbness — and why that doesn’t make you a bad mom</li><li>What it can look like to revisit your story with God and begin consciously choosing motherhood in this season</li><li>Motherhood as an ongoing spiritual initiation that can reawaken you to who God always intended you to be — more than a mom</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Blending personal story, psychology, and faith, this episode gently reframes what “choice” really means in motherhood—and why it’s not something that happens just once.</p><p>💖 Visit <a href="https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/" rel="nofollow">https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/</a> for episodes, companion blogs and the<a href="https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/momheartcheck" rel="nofollow"> free Heart Check for Moms</a>.</p><p>🔗 Follow <strong>@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast</strong> on social media for more unravelings of faith, identity, and real motherhood.</p><p><a href="http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Topics discussed in this episode include:</strong> losing yourself in motherhood, identity crisis in motherhood, overwhelmed mom, mom guilt and shame, identity after motherhood, faith and motherhood</p>]]></description>
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                <itunes:title>The Illusion of Control: When Moms Feel Responsible for Everything (Grace Note)</itunes:title>
                <title>The Illusion of Control: When Moms Feel Responsible for Everything (Grace Note)</title>

                
                <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                
                <description><![CDATA[<p>During a quiet walk on the greenway trail, the smallest details of creation began to speak.</p><p>Blue jays chasing each other through the trees.</p><p>A hawk riding the wind.</p><p>Ancient roots gripping the earth.</p><p>A chorus of frogs calling from a pond I couldn’t even see.</p><p>In this short Grace Note from the <em>Gracefully Unraveled</em> podcast, Kelli shares how a simple walk turned into a reflection on something many mothers wrestle with: the tension between <strong>control and calling</strong>.</p><p>Modern motherhood often pressures women to manage every outcome — behavior, schedules, emotions, and the future of our children. But nature quietly reveals a different design.</p><p>In creation, nothing tries to control everything. Each part simply plays its role.</p><p>Maybe motherhood was never meant to be about holding the entire system together — only stewarding the part entrusted to us.</p><p>If you’re a thoughtful Christian mom navigating identity, faith, and the pressure to be a “good mom,” this reflection offers a gentle invitation to breathe, release control, and remember the God who holds it all.</p><p><br></p><p>💖 Visit <a href="https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/" rel="nofollow">https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/</a> for episodes, companion blogs and the<a href="https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/momheartcheck" rel="nofollow"> free Heart Check for Moms</a>.</p><p>🔗 Follow <strong>@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast</strong> on social media for updates and motherhood inspiration.</p><p><a href="http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></p>]]></description>
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                <itunes:title>Authoritative Stewardship: Letting Go of Control Without Letting Go of Your Kids</itunes:title>
                <title>Authoritative Stewardship: Letting Go of Control Without Letting Go of Your Kids</title>

                <itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode>
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                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                
                <description><![CDATA[<p>If you’ve ever heard “Just do what you’re told” in your own voice and winced, this episode is for you. In this conversation on Gracefully Unraveled, Kelli unpacks two simple stories about kids, cold fields, and sweatshirts—and how those moments quietly expose our fear, ego, and desire to be seen as a “good mom.”</p><p>Through psychology, sociology, and faith, we explore why moms so often default to control, what Alfred Adler and Rudolf Dreikurs can teach us about natural vs. logical consequences, and how Sharon Hays’ idea of <em>intensive mothering</em> turns every parenting decision into a referendum on your identity. We also talk about ego, spiritual formation, and what it means to move from dominion-style parenting to authoritative stewardship—guiding your children with warmth, boundaries, and long-view wisdom instead of fear.​</p><p>In this episode, you’ll hear:</p><ul><li>Why sweatshirt battles and sports gear can feel so triggering for your identity as a mom</li><li>How natural and logical consequences shift you from control to connection</li><li>What “intensive mothering” is and how it quietly fuels burnout and shame</li><li>A faith-centered reframing of dominion vs. stewardship in parenting</li><li>A practical picture of authoritative stewardship: warm, boundaried, and ego-aware</li></ul><p><br></p><p>💖 Visit <a href="https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/" rel="nofollow">https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/</a> for episodes, companion blogs and the<a href="https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/momheartcheck" rel="nofollow"> free Heart Check for Moms</a>.</p><p>🔗 Follow <strong>@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast</strong> on social media for updates and motherhood inspiration.</p><p><a href="http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;If you’ve ever heard “Just do what you’re told” in your own voice and winced, this episode is for you. In this conversation on Gracefully Unraveled, Kelli unpacks two simple stories about kids, cold fields, and sweatshirts—and how those moments quietly expose our fear, ego, and desire to be seen as a “good mom.”&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Through psychology, sociology, and faith, we explore why moms so often default to control, what Alfred Adler and Rudolf Dreikurs can teach us about natural vs. logical consequences, and how Sharon Hays’ idea of &lt;em&gt;intensive mothering&lt;/em&gt; turns every parenting decision into a referendum on your identity. We also talk about ego, spiritual formation, and what it means to move from dominion-style parenting to authoritative stewardship—guiding your children with warmth, boundaries, and long-view wisdom instead of fear.​&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this episode, you’ll hear:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why sweatshirt battles and sports gear can feel so triggering for your identity as a mom&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How natural and logical consequences shift you from control to connection&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;What “intensive mothering” is and how it quietly fuels burnout and shame&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;A faith-centered reframing of dominion vs. stewardship in parenting&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;A practical picture of authoritative stewardship: warm, boundaried, and ego-aware&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;💖 Visit &lt;a href=&#34;https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/&lt;/a&gt; for episodes, companion blogs and the&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/momheartcheck&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt; free Heart Check for Moms&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗 Follow &lt;strong&gt;@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast&lt;/strong&gt; on social media for updates and motherhood inspiration.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;http://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>The Labor of Presence: When Motherhood Feels Too Heavy and the Village Is Missing</itunes:title>
                <title>The Labor of Presence: When Motherhood Feels Too Heavy and the Village Is Missing</title>

                <itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode>
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                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                
                <description><![CDATA[<p>If you’ve ever whispered, “I love my kids, but I don’t know how much longer I can do this,” you’re not broken—you may be experiencing the biological mismatch of modern motherhood. In this episode of Gracefully Unraveled, Kelli unpacks the lonely fantasy of “disappearing” from motherhood, why so many moms mentally escape through work, scrolling, or perfectionism, and what your body is trying to tell you about your missing village.</p><p>Through the lens of the novel <em>The Stories We Keep</em>, anthropology, and faith, we explore allomothering (the science of shared caregiving), the mental load moms carry today, and how our culture quietly shifted from “we can do it” to “you must do it alone.” You’ll hear why motherhood feels so vulnerable, how presence can feel like labor, and how God uses the staying—not the escaping—to turn hearts back toward our children, our families, and ourselves.​</p><p>In this episode, you’ll hear:</p><ul><li>Why you fantasize about escape (and what it really means about your exhaustion and identity)​</li><li>How biology and culture collide to make modern motherhood feel impossibly lonely​</li><li>The truth about mental load, invisible labor, and why work can feel easier than parenting</li><li>A faith-centered reframing of presence as sacred labor, not silent punishment​</li><li>A gentle invitation to rebuild your “village” one honest conversation at a time​</li></ul><p><br></p><p>💖 Visit <a href="https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/" rel="nofollow">https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/</a> for episodes, companion blogs and the<a href="https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/momheartcheck" rel="nofollow"> free Heart Check for Moms</a>.</p><p>🔗 Follow <strong>@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast</strong> on social media for updates and motherhood inspiration.</p><p><a href="http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook </a></p><p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube </a></p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;If you’ve ever whispered, “I love my kids, but I don’t know how much longer I can do this,” you’re not broken—you may be experiencing the biological mismatch of modern motherhood. In this episode of Gracefully Unraveled, Kelli unpacks the lonely fantasy of “disappearing” from motherhood, why so many moms mentally escape through work, scrolling, or perfectionism, and what your body is trying to tell you about your missing village.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Through the lens of the novel &lt;em&gt;The Stories We Keep&lt;/em&gt;, anthropology, and faith, we explore allomothering (the science of shared caregiving), the mental load moms carry today, and how our culture quietly shifted from “we can do it” to “you must do it alone.” You’ll hear why motherhood feels so vulnerable, how presence can feel like labor, and how God uses the staying—not the escaping—to turn hearts back toward our children, our families, and ourselves.​&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this episode, you’ll hear:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why you fantasize about escape (and what it really means about your exhaustion and identity)​&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How biology and culture collide to make modern motherhood feel impossibly lonely​&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;The truth about mental load, invisible labor, and why work can feel easier than parenting&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;A faith-centered reframing of presence as sacred labor, not silent punishment​&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;A gentle invitation to rebuild your “village” one honest conversation at a time​&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;💖 Visit &lt;a href=&#34;https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/&lt;/a&gt; for episodes, companion blogs and the&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.gracefullyunraveled.co/momheartcheck&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt; free Heart Check for Moms&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗 Follow &lt;strong&gt;@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast&lt;/strong&gt; on social media for updates and motherhood inspiration.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;http://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;YouTube &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>When Mom Anger Hurts You: Ego, Triggers and the Mother–Child Relationship</itunes:title>
                <title>When Mom Anger Hurts You: Ego, Triggers and the Mother–Child Relationship</title>

                <itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode>
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                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                <itunes:summary>Mom anger can feel scary—especially when you’re exhausted, overwhelmed, and trying to be a “good mom.” In this honest episode, Kelli unpacks how ego, mental load, and personality shape your reactions, and why repair and grace matter more than perfection. If you’ve ever replayed a moment with regret, this one is for you.

If it resonates, share with a mom who feels alone in her story.💖

You can follow along with @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast on Facebook and Instagram.</itunes:summary>
                <description><![CDATA[<p>Why does anger show up so quickly in motherhood—especially when you’re exhausted, overwhelmed, and trying so hard to do it “right”?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Kelli shares a vulnerable carpool moment that opens a deeper conversation about ego, anger, and how your inner world shapes the mother–child relationship. Drawing from psychology, attachment research, and spiritual wisdom, you’ll explore:</p><ul><li>How ego depletion and mental load fuel reactive anger</li><li>Why guilt, shame, and perfectionism often sit underneath your frustration</li><li>How different personalities approach structure and responsibility</li><li>Why repair matters just as much as regulation</li><li>How humility, prayer, and grace can soften even your hardest moments</li></ul><p><br></p><p>This episode is a gentle reminder that motherhood isn’t about getting it right the first time—it’s about awareness, repair, and trusting God to keep forming you in the mess. If you’ve ever snapped in the carpool line, replayed a moment with regret, or wondered if you’ve already messed it all up, this one’s for you.</p><p>Rate, review, or share with a mom friend who needs to know she’s not alone.💖</p><p><br></p><p>You can follow along with <em>Gracefully Unraveled Podcast</em> on social media:</p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p>🔗<a href="http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;Why does anger show up so quickly in motherhood—especially when you’re exhausted, overwhelmed, and trying so hard to do it “right”?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this episode, Kelli shares a vulnerable carpool moment that opens a deeper conversation about ego, anger, and how your inner world shapes the mother–child relationship. Drawing from psychology, attachment research, and spiritual wisdom, you’ll explore:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;How ego depletion and mental load fuel reactive anger&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why guilt, shame, and perfectionism often sit underneath your frustration&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How different personalities approach structure and responsibility&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why repair matters just as much as regulation&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How humility, prayer, and grace can soften even your hardest moments&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This episode is a gentle reminder that motherhood isn’t about getting it right the first time—it’s about awareness, repair, and trusting God to keep forming you in the mess. If you’ve ever snapped in the carpool line, replayed a moment with regret, or wondered if you’ve already messed it all up, this one’s for you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Rate, review, or share with a mom friend who needs to know she’s not alone.💖&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can follow along with &lt;em&gt;Gracefully Unraveled Podcast&lt;/em&gt; on social media:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&amp;__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&amp;id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>When a Parenting Season Ends: Grieving, Letting Go, and Trusting God (Grace Note)</itunes:title>
                <title>When a Parenting Season Ends: Grieving, Letting Go, and Trusting God (Grace Note)</title>

                
                <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                <itunes:summary>In this short Grace Note, Kelli reflects on an unexpected moment of grief while shopping for her growing boys—one that opened the door to a deeper realization about motherhood and the quiet ache of seasons ending.

Through humor, honesty, and spiritual reflection, this episode explores what it means to let go of who we were as young moms, make peace with who we are becoming, and trust that God’s presence remains—throughout the entire journey.

This Grace Note is a gentle reminder for mothers navigating transition: you’re allowed to mourn, you are not ungrateful, and you are still valuable (and loved) beyond measure.

You can follow along with Gracefully Unraveled Podcast on Facebook and Instagram. Just search @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast.



&lt;&lt;transcript&gt;&gt;

This past weekend, I wandered into a Carter’s outlet store.

And when I say wandered, I really mean I walked in with purpose—because I was on a mission to find sweatpants for my boys.

First, because that’s all they wear. And second, because I’m fairly certain they don’t actually walk on their feet… they walk on their knees.

Which means they are constantly blowing holes through perfectly good pants. And unlike jeans, sweatpants cannot be patched. They just become a dust rag.

Anyway, I was pretty sure Carter’s sizing went up to “big kid sizes” so it was worth a shot.

The moment I stepped inside, I was hit with an atmosphere that felt familiar—but also very far away.

Soft colors. Tiny hangers. Clothing so small it looks like it belongs to dolls. There were glowing parents strolling slowly, almost reverently, hiding their undoubtable fatigue with a deep love for this season of their lives.

The whole place just oozed cuteness.

Then suddenly —I felt like an imposter and my pace quickened because I no reason to dwell in the upper quadrant of the store.

I quietly made my way to the back, hoping no one would ask me anything. I flipped through a few racks, scanned a couple shelves—and sure enough, there were sizes that technically fit my boys, who are now eight and eleven.

But it was obvious.

They were not the store’s primary demographic.

No shade to Carter’s. I loved Carter’s. OshKosh too — when my kids were babies and toddlers but I was no longer a mom of littles.

As I made what felt like a slow, awkward walk of shame toward the exit, I overheard the workers at the counter chatting about a baby—something about a friend&#39;s hospital experience.

And that’s when it hit me.

I wasn’t just leaving a store — for the last time. I was beginning to mourn a season of my life that has very clearly passed.

There will be no more “Mommy’s Number One Fan” onesies. No more tiny jeans with elastic waistbands. No more soft, sleepy weight of a baby curled into my chest.

That gentleness, that warmth, that comfort that filled that space—a place I once fit so easily into—has been replaced with hooded sweatshirts and athletic shorts. With loud voices. Wrestling matches. Slammed doors with stuff falling off the wall.

And if I’m really honest, I really miss cradling a baby and holding a toddler’s hand. Momma, can you relate?

But, as I took those final steps towards the exit, breathing in the vibes, I was growing in soft acceptance that as a mother, I am where I’m supposed to be.

I’m a forty-something-year-old woman raising boys into young men. And, I trust that God is walking with me through this season, just like He has every other one, and the ones still to come.

But knowing that didn’t make closing the proverbial Carter’s door behind me any easier.

I think scripture gets this right when it says there’s a season for everything. Not a season we rush through. Not a season we pretend doesn’t hurt. Just a season that arrives or exits—whether we’re ready or not.

There’s a line in Psalm 139 that says, “Even there, your hand will guide me, and your right hand will hold me fast.”

Even there. Even when we’re standing in the doorway between what was and what is.

So maybe this Grace Note is simply an invitation—to notice the places you no longer fit. The versions of yourself that quietly wave goodbye.

Not resisting it. Not pretending it doesn’t hurt. Just letting yourself feel the ache.

I think we’re quick to spiritualize acceptance—like if we trust God enough, transitions won’t sting.

But I don’t think that’s true.

I think faith often looks like standing in the doorway of what was… grieving it… and still choosing to step forward.

So maybe this Grace Note is simply an invitation—to notice the places you no longer fit. The versions of yourself that quietly wave goodbye. And to trust that even in the ache, you are still being held.

Not by nostalgia. But by grace.

And that’s today’s Grace Note—a small, ordinary moment that opened the door to something deeper. A reminder that God meets us not just in beginnings… but in endings, too.</itunes:summary>
                <description><![CDATA[<p>In this short Grace Note, Kelli reflects on an unexpected moment of grief while shopping for her growing boys—one that opened the door to a deeper realization about motherhood and the quiet ache of seasons ending.</p><p>Through humor, honesty, and spiritual reflection, this episode explores what it means to let go of who we were as young moms, make peace with who we are becoming, and trust that God’s presence remains—throughout the entire journey.</p><p>This Grace Note is a gentle reminder for mothers navigating transition: you’re allowed to mourn, you are not ungrateful, and you are still valuable (and loved) beyond measure.</p><p>💖You can follow along with <em>Gracefully Unraveled Podcast</em> on social media:</p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p>🔗<a href="http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p><p><br></p><p>&lt;&lt;transcript&gt;&gt;</p><p>This past weekend, I wandered into a Carter’s outlet store.</p><p>And when I say wandered, I really mean I walked in with purpose—because I was on a mission to find sweatpants for my boys.</p><p>First, because that’s all they wear. And second, because I’m fairly certain they don’t actually walk on their feet… they walk on their knees.</p><p>Which means they are constantly blowing holes through perfectly good pants. And unlike jeans, sweatpants cannot be patched. They just become a dust rag.</p><p>Anyway, I was pretty sure Carter’s sizing went up to “big kid sizes” so it was worth a shot.</p><p>The moment I stepped inside, I was hit with an atmosphere that felt familiar—but also very far away.</p><p>Soft colors. Tiny hangers. Clothing so small it looks like it belongs to dolls. There were glowing parents strolling slowly, almost reverently, hiding their undoubtable fatigue with a deep love for this season of their lives.</p><p>The whole place just oozed cuteness.</p><p>Then suddenly —I felt like an imposter and my pace quickened because I no reason to dwell in the upper quadrant of the store.</p><p>I quietly made my way to the back, hoping no one would ask me anything. I flipped through a few racks, scanned a couple shelves—and sure enough, there were sizes that technically fit my boys, who are now eight and eleven.</p><p>But it was obvious.</p><p>They were not the store’s primary demographic.</p><p>No shade to Carter’s. I loved Carter’s. OshKosh too — when my kids were babies and toddlers but I was no longer a mom of littles.</p><p>As I made what felt like a slow, awkward walk of shame toward the exit, I overheard the workers at the counter chatting about a baby—something about a friend&#39;s hospital experience.</p><p>And that’s when it hit me.</p><p>I wasn’t just leaving a store — for the last time. I was beginning to mourn a season of my life that has very clearly passed.</p><p>There will be no more “Mommy’s Number One Fan” onesies. No more tiny jeans with elastic waistbands. No more soft, sleepy weight of a baby curled into my chest.</p><p>That gentleness, that warmth, that comfort that filled that space—a place I once fit so easily into—has been replaced with hooded sweatshirts and athletic shorts. With loud voices. Wrestling matches. Slammed doors with stuff falling off the wall.</p><p>And if I’m really honest, I really miss cradling a baby and holding a toddler’s hand. Momma, can you relate?</p><p>But, as I took those final steps towards the exit, breathing in the vibes, I was growing in soft acceptance that as a mother, I am where I’m supposed to be.</p><p>I’m a forty-something-year-old woman raising boys into young men. And, I trust that God is walking with me through this season, just like He has every other one, and the ones still to come.</p><p>But knowing that didn’t make closing the proverbial Carter’s door behind me any easier.</p><p>I think scripture gets this right when it says there’s a season for everything. Not a season we rush through. Not a season we pretend doesn’t hurt. Just a season that arrives or exits—whether we’re ready or not.</p><p>There’s a line in Psalm 139 that says, “Even there, your hand will guide me, and your right hand will hold me fast.”</p><p>Even there. Even when we’re standing in the doorway between what was and what is.</p><p>So maybe this Grace Note is simply an invitation—to notice the places you no longer fit. The versions of yourself that quietly wave goodbye.</p><p>Not resisting it. Not pretending it doesn’t hurt. Just letting yourself feel the ache.</p><p>I think we’re quick to spiritualize acceptance—like if we trust God enough, transitions won’t sting.</p><p>But I don’t think that’s true.</p><p>I think faith often looks like standing in the doorway of what was… grieving it… and still choosing to step forward.</p><p>So maybe this Grace Note is simply an invitation—to notice the places you no longer fit. The versions of yourself that quietly wave goodbye. And to trust that even in the ache, you are still being held.</p><p>Not by nostalgia. But by grace.</p><p>And that’s today’s Grace Note—a small, ordinary moment that opened the door to something deeper. A reminder that God meets us not just in beginnings… but in endings, too.</p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;In this short Grace Note, Kelli reflects on an unexpected moment of grief while shopping for her growing boys—one that opened the door to a deeper realization about motherhood and the quiet ache of seasons ending.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Through humor, honesty, and spiritual reflection, this episode explores what it means to let go of who we were as young moms, make peace with who we are becoming, and trust that God’s presence remains—throughout the entire journey.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This Grace Note is a gentle reminder for mothers navigating transition: you’re allowed to mourn, you are not ungrateful, and you are still valuable (and loved) beyond measure.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;💖You can follow along with &lt;em&gt;Gracefully Unraveled Podcast&lt;/em&gt; on social media:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&amp;__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&amp;id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;transcript&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This past weekend, I wandered into a Carter’s outlet store.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And when I say wandered, I really mean I walked in with purpose—because I was on a mission to find sweatpants for my boys.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;First, because that’s all they wear. And second, because I’m fairly certain they don’t actually walk on their feet… they walk on their knees.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Which means they are constantly blowing holes through perfectly good pants. And unlike jeans, sweatpants cannot be patched. They just become a dust rag.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Anyway, I was pretty sure Carter’s sizing went up to “big kid sizes” so it was worth a shot.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The moment I stepped inside, I was hit with an atmosphere that felt familiar—but also very far away.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Soft colors. Tiny hangers. Clothing so small it looks like it belongs to dolls. There were glowing parents strolling slowly, almost reverently, hiding their undoubtable fatigue with a deep love for this season of their lives.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The whole place just oozed cuteness.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Then suddenly —I felt like an imposter and my pace quickened because I no reason to dwell in the upper quadrant of the store.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I quietly made my way to the back, hoping no one would ask me anything. I flipped through a few racks, scanned a couple shelves—and sure enough, there were sizes that technically fit my boys, who are now eight and eleven.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But it was obvious.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;They were not the store’s primary demographic.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;No shade to Carter’s. I loved Carter’s. OshKosh too — when my kids were babies and toddlers but I was no longer a mom of littles.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As I made what felt like a slow, awkward walk of shame toward the exit, I overheard the workers at the counter chatting about a baby—something about a friend&amp;#39;s hospital experience.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And that’s when it hit me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I wasn’t just leaving a store — for the last time. I was beginning to mourn a season of my life that has very clearly passed.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There will be no more “Mommy’s Number One Fan” onesies. No more tiny jeans with elastic waistbands. No more soft, sleepy weight of a baby curled into my chest.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;That gentleness, that warmth, that comfort that filled that space—a place I once fit so easily into—has been replaced with hooded sweatshirts and athletic shorts. With loud voices. Wrestling matches. Slammed doors with stuff falling off the wall.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And if I’m really honest, I really miss cradling a baby and holding a toddler’s hand. Momma, can you relate?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But, as I took those final steps towards the exit, breathing in the vibes, I was growing in soft acceptance that as a mother, I am where I’m supposed to be.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I’m a forty-something-year-old woman raising boys into young men. And, I trust that God is walking with me through this season, just like He has every other one, and the ones still to come.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But knowing that didn’t make closing the proverbial Carter’s door behind me any easier.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I think scripture gets this right when it says there’s a season for everything. Not a season we rush through. Not a season we pretend doesn’t hurt. Just a season that arrives or exits—whether we’re ready or not.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There’s a line in Psalm 139 that says, “Even there, your hand will guide me, and your right hand will hold me fast.”&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Even there. Even when we’re standing in the doorway between what was and what is.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So maybe this Grace Note is simply an invitation—to notice the places you no longer fit. The versions of yourself that quietly wave goodbye.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Not resisting it. Not pretending it doesn’t hurt. Just letting yourself feel the ache.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I think we’re quick to spiritualize acceptance—like if we trust God enough, transitions won’t sting.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But I don’t think that’s true.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I think faith often looks like standing in the doorway of what was… grieving it… and still choosing to step forward.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So maybe this Grace Note is simply an invitation—to notice the places you no longer fit. The versions of yourself that quietly wave goodbye. And to trust that even in the ache, you are still being held.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Not by nostalgia. But by grace.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And that’s today’s Grace Note—a small, ordinary moment that opened the door to something deeper. A reminder that God meets us not just in beginnings… but in endings, too.&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>What an Accidental Gaming Fast Taught Me About Escape, Numbing, and Motherhood</itunes:title>
                <title>What an Accidental Gaming Fast Taught Me About Escape, Numbing, and Motherhood</title>

                <itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode>
                <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                <itunes:summary>A tech glitch, a video-game meltdown, and a long walk turned into an unexpected lesson on presence, numbing, and motherhood. Kelli unpacks what research says about games, why parental stress matters most, and how faith invites discernment—not perfectionism.

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re doing it “right,” this episode is for you.💖

Follow @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast on Facebook and Instagram for weekly inspiration.
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                <description><![CDATA[<p>After the holiday chaos fades, many moms are left with a quiet, unsettling question: Why did I give everything—my time, presence, energy—and still feel so empty?</p><p>In this episode, Kelli reflects on an unexpected post-holiday lesson sparked by a technology glitch, a meltdown over video games, and a long decompression walk. Together, you’ll explore:</p><ul><li>Why “being present” doesn’t always feel peaceful</li><li>How fear-based parenting and cultural pressure can turn into quiet martyrdom</li><li>What current research actually says about kids and video games</li><li>Why parental stress matters more than screen time alone</li><li>How faith invites discernment and grace, not perfectionism</li></ul><p>This isn’t an argument for more screens or fewer boundaries—it’s an invitation to a more honest, grace-filled understanding of presence in real-life motherhood. </p><p><br></p><p>If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re doing it “right,” this episode is for you.💖</p><p><br></p><p>You can follow along with <em>Gracefully Unraveled Podcast</em> on social media:</p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p>🔗<a href="http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;After the holiday chaos fades, many moms are left with a quiet, unsettling question: Why did I give everything—my time, presence, energy—and still feel so empty?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this episode, Kelli reflects on an unexpected post-holiday lesson sparked by a technology glitch, a meltdown over video games, and a long decompression walk. Together, you’ll explore:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why “being present” doesn’t always feel peaceful&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How fear-based parenting and cultural pressure can turn into quiet martyrdom&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;What current research actually says about kids and video games&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why parental stress matters more than screen time alone&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How faith invites discernment and grace, not perfectionism&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;This isn’t an argument for more screens or fewer boundaries—it’s an invitation to a more honest, grace-filled understanding of presence in real-life motherhood. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re doing it “right,” this episode is for you.💖&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can follow along with &lt;em&gt;Gracefully Unraveled Podcast&lt;/em&gt; on social media:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&amp;__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&amp;id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>When Christmas Feels Heavy for Moms (Even If You Love the Magic)</itunes:title>
                <title>When Christmas Feels Heavy for Moms (Even If You Love the Magic)</title>

                <itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode>
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                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                <itunes:summary>If Christmas feels both magical and unbearably heavy, you’re not alone. Kelli explores why moms carry so much of the holiday pressure, how kids’ big emotions add to the load, and how grace and the story of Jesus offer a gentler way to move through the season.

💖 Share this with a mom who needs permission to let something go this year.

Follow @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast on Instagram and Facebook for weekly inspiration and updates.</itunes:summary>
                <description><![CDATA[<p>Christmas is supposed to feel joyful—so why does it feel so heavy for so many moms?</p><p>In this tender episode, Kelli shares an honest look at motherhood during the holidays: carrying the mental load, managing kids’ big emotions, and trying to hold onto the magic while feeling stretched thin. Blending psychology, cultural insight, humor, and faith, you’ll hear:</p><ul><li>Why kids often seem more dysregulated as Christmas approaches</li><li>Why moms absorb most of the pressure and emotional labor</li><li>How guilt, comparison, and “doing it right” steal your joy</li><li>How grace—and the deeper meaning of Jesus’ birth—can re-center your heart</li></ul><p>If you’ve ever felt both grateful <em>and</em> overwhelmed by the season, you’re not broken; you’re human. This episode offers space to breathe and remember the heart of Christmas.</p><p><br></p><p>💖 Share this with a mom who needs permission to let something go this year.</p><p><br></p><p>Follow @<em>GracefullyUnraveledPodcast</em> on Instagram and Facebook for weekly inspiration and updates.</p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p>🔗<a href="http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;Christmas is supposed to feel joyful—so why does it feel so heavy for so many moms?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this tender episode, Kelli shares an honest look at motherhood during the holidays: carrying the mental load, managing kids’ big emotions, and trying to hold onto the magic while feeling stretched thin. Blending psychology, cultural insight, humor, and faith, you’ll hear:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why kids often seem more dysregulated as Christmas approaches&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why moms absorb most of the pressure and emotional labor&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How guilt, comparison, and “doing it right” steal your joy&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How grace—and the deeper meaning of Jesus’ birth—can re-center your heart&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you’ve ever felt both grateful &lt;em&gt;and&lt;/em&gt; overwhelmed by the season, you’re not broken; you’re human. This episode offers space to breathe and remember the heart of Christmas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;💖 Share this with a mom who needs permission to let something go this year.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Follow @&lt;em&gt;GracefullyUnraveledPodcast&lt;/em&gt; on Instagram and Facebook for weekly inspiration and updates.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&amp;__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&amp;id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>For the Mom on Autopilot: Identity, Ego and Waking Back Up to Your Life (Interlude)</itunes:title>
                <title>For the Mom on Autopilot: Identity, Ego and Waking Back Up to Your Life (Interlude)</title>

                
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                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                
                <description><![CDATA[<p>This special Interlude episode of <em>Gracefully Unraveled</em> takes a deeper look at identity, ego, and the invisible pressures modern mothers carry. Kelli breaks down these big ideas using a blend of psychology (Freud’s id/ego/superego), spiritual teaching (Ram Dass), and relatable humor.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, disconnected, or like you’re living life on autopilot, this episode helps you understand <em>why</em>—and how to reconnect with your truest self.</p><p>Perfect for listeners interested in motherhood, personal growth, self-discovery, mental health, and spiritual development.</p><p>Follow for new episodes every other week and bonus reflections in between.</p><p>And, for more weekly inspiration, you can follow <strong>@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast </strong>on social media:</p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p>🔗<a href="http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p><p><br></p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;This special Interlude episode of &lt;em&gt;Gracefully Unraveled&lt;/em&gt; takes a deeper look at identity, ego, and the invisible pressures modern mothers carry. Kelli breaks down these big ideas using a blend of psychology (Freud’s id/ego/superego), spiritual teaching (Ram Dass), and relatable humor.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, disconnected, or like you’re living life on autopilot, this episode helps you understand &lt;em&gt;why&lt;/em&gt;—and how to reconnect with your truest self.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Perfect for listeners interested in motherhood, personal growth, self-discovery, mental health, and spiritual development.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Follow for new episodes every other week and bonus reflections in between.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And, for more weekly inspiration, you can follow &lt;strong&gt;@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast &lt;/strong&gt;on social media:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&amp;__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&amp;id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>Snapping, Numbing, or Shutting Down: How Your Brain Shapes Your Mom Reactions</itunes:title>
                <title>Snapping, Numbing, or Shutting Down: How Your Brain Shapes Your Mom Reactions</title>

                <itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode>
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                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                <itunes:summary>Why do tiny moments with your kids trigger such big reactions? Kelli explains how your brain, the “Good Mother Myth,” and identity in Christ all shape your responses—and offers gentle, practical ways to move from snapping or numbing to more grounded presence.

If you find it helpful, leave a review or send it to a mom who needs a gentler story about her reactions.💖


For weekly inspiration, you can follow @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast on Facebook and Instagram.</itunes:summary>
                <description><![CDATA[<p>A bead spill in Target. A child pushing limits. A mom instantly flooded with embarrassment. Sound familiar?</p><p>In this episode, Kelli unpacks why these everyday moments hit so hard—and what neuroscience, cultural expectations, and spirituality reveal about the emotional load mothers carry. You’ll discover:</p><ul><li>How your brain predicts emotions before you’re even aware of them</li><li>What the “Good Mother Myth” is and why it triggers instant shame</li><li>Why moms feel constantly watched, judged, and responsible for perfection</li><li>How to begin rewriting your reactions through identity in Christ</li></ul><p>This is a mix of relatable mom stories, practical insight, and spiritual grounding to help you shift from reactivity to presence. Motherhood isn’t about performing—it’s about transforming. Let’s unravel the pressure together.</p><p>If you find it helpful, leave a review or send it to a mom who needs a gentler story about her reactions.💖</p><p><br></p><p>For weekly inspiration, you can follow <strong>@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast </strong>on social media:</p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p>🔗<a href="http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;A bead spill in Target. A child pushing limits. A mom instantly flooded with embarrassment. Sound familiar?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this episode, Kelli unpacks why these everyday moments hit so hard—and what neuroscience, cultural expectations, and spirituality reveal about the emotional load mothers carry. You’ll discover:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;How your brain predicts emotions before you’re even aware of them&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;What the “Good Mother Myth” is and why it triggers instant shame&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why moms feel constantly watched, judged, and responsible for perfection&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How to begin rewriting your reactions through identity in Christ&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is a mix of relatable mom stories, practical insight, and spiritual grounding to help you shift from reactivity to presence. Motherhood isn’t about performing—it’s about transforming. Let’s unravel the pressure together.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you find it helpful, leave a review or send it to a mom who needs a gentler story about her reactions.💖&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For weekly inspiration, you can follow &lt;strong&gt;@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast &lt;/strong&gt;on social media:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&amp;__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&amp;id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>Why Motherhood Feels So Lonely: The Mom-Friend Void, Faith and Your Nervous System</itunes:title>
                <title>Why Motherhood Feels So Lonely: The Mom-Friend Void, Faith and Your Nervous System</title>

                <itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode>
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                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                <itunes:summary>Motherhood can feel surprisingly lonely—even when you’re surrounded by people. Kelli unpacks why the “mom-friend void” hurts so much, what your nervous system and faith have to do with it, and how your longing for deeper community can actually be a sign of spiritual growth. A gentle, hope-filled listen for lonely moms.


If it resonates, share with a mom who feels alone in her story.💖


For weekly inspiration, you can follow @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast on Facebook and Instagram.</itunes:summary>
                <description><![CDATA[<p>Motherhood can feel lonely, overwhelming, and spiritually disorienting—so why does a show like <em>Sweet Magnolias</em> hit so hard?</p><p>In this episode, Kelli explores why moms long for community and how motherhood reshapes friendships, faith, and identity. With insight from psychology, neuroscience, and scripture, you’ll learn:</p><ul><li>Why connection is essential for your mental health and nervous system</li><li>How motherhood subtly changes friendships and church/community rhythms</li><li>Why faith often feels harder (and more honest) after kids</li><li>How your longing for deeper relationships can be a sign of growth, not failure</li></ul><p>If you’re craving sisterhood, support, or a renewal of faith, this is a gentle, hope-filled invitation back to yourself—and to the God who meets you in the loneliness.</p><p>If it resonates, share with a mom who feels alone in her story.💖</p><p><br></p><p>For weekly inspiration, you can follow <strong>@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast </strong>on social media:</p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p>🔗<a href="http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;Motherhood can feel lonely, overwhelming, and spiritually disorienting—so why does a show like &lt;em&gt;Sweet Magnolias&lt;/em&gt; hit so hard?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this episode, Kelli explores why moms long for community and how motherhood reshapes friendships, faith, and identity. With insight from psychology, neuroscience, and scripture, you’ll learn:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why connection is essential for your mental health and nervous system&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How motherhood subtly changes friendships and church/community rhythms&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why faith often feels harder (and more honest) after kids&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How your longing for deeper relationships can be a sign of growth, not failure&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you’re craving sisterhood, support, or a renewal of faith, this is a gentle, hope-filled invitation back to yourself—and to the God who meets you in the loneliness.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If it resonates, share with a mom who feels alone in her story.💖&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For weekly inspiration, you can follow &lt;strong&gt;@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast &lt;/strong&gt;on social media:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&amp;__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&amp;id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>Catching Tiny Glimpses of God in the Chaos of Motherhood (Grace Note)</itunes:title>
                <title>Catching Tiny Glimpses of God in the Chaos of Motherhood (Grace Note)</title>

                
                <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                <itunes:summary>During a sunset walk, a breathtaking trail of glowing pink and orange clouds sparked an unexpected moment of spiritual reflection. Why do we sometimes see real beauty and think it looks “like a painting”? And why do we doubt God’s love when it feels too good to be true?

In this Grace Note, we explore awe, presence, and the quiet ways God reveals Himself through everyday moments. This short reflection invites you to slow down, notice the wonder around you, and trust the beauty God places directly in your path.

If you’re a mom seeking encouragement, spiritual depth, or a gentle reminder of God’s love, this episode offers a moment of peace and truth.

Thank you for listening. Please Subscribe, Rate and Review to help me reach more mommas!

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While walking at sunset, the clouds were simply spectacular. There was this endless trail of puffy clouds—glowing pink, orange, and soft blue. Thinking back on it now, it looked like something out of a storybook, as if unicorns might leap from fold to fold, covered in sprinkles.

But in all seriousness, As I moved closer with each step, I caught myself thinking, “This landscape is beautiful—like a painting.” Maybe you’ve heard the saying, “pretty as a picture.” And then my mind started to wander: Why do we even say that? Why, when we encounter something so naturally amazing, something effortlessly spectacular, do we describe it as if it measured up to a painting—something we create, rather than what simply is?

We rarely look at a beautiful painting and say it’s “as pretty as real life.” It struck me: when we see something awe-inspiring, sometimes our minds doubt its reality. We think it’s too good to be true. I realized we do this with God, too. God’s love, His compassion, His redemptive power through Jesus—all can feel “too good to be true.” Sometimes, disbelief rises up, whispering that what’s most beautiful and transformative can’t possibly be real.

So next time you find yourself gazing at a breathtaking sunrise, a winding river, or caught in a moment of true awe, let yourself meditate on this: the beauty that feels too amazing to be true was created by a God who seems too great to be true—but that doesn’t make either any less real.

And that’s today’s Grace Note—a brief window into presence, awe, and the reminders God offers in everyday moments. May it call to mind the reality of wonder, and the even greater reality of His love.</itunes:summary>
                <description><![CDATA[<p>This Grace Note reflects on a simple sunset walk that turned into a moment of spiritual clarity. A sky filled with vibrant colors led to a deeper question: <strong>Why do we sometimes doubt real beauty — and even doubt God’s love — are they too good to be true?</strong></p><p>In this short episode, we explore the connection between wonder, faith, and the reminders God places in everyday life. If you’re a mother seeking encouragement, spiritual insight, or a peaceful moment with God, this reflection offers a reminder of His presence and the reality of His love.</p><p>Perfect for listeners looking for motherhood inspiration, mindful parenting, or faith-based comfort in daily life.</p><p><br></p><p>Thank you for listening. Please Subscribe, Rate and Review to help me reach more mommas!</p><p>And, for more weekly inspiration, you can follow <strong>@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast </strong>on social media:</p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p>🔗<a href="http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p><p><br></p><p>&lt;&lt;transcript&gt;&gt;</p><p>While walking at sunset, the clouds were simply spectacular. There was this endless trail of puffy clouds—glowing pink, orange, and soft blue. Thinking back on it now, it looked like something out of a storybook, as if unicorns might leap from fold to fold, covered in sprinkles.</p><p>But in all seriousness, As I moved closer with each step, I caught myself thinking, “This landscape is beautiful—like a painting.” Maybe you’ve heard the saying, “pretty as a picture.” And then my mind started to wander: Why do we even say that? Why, when we encounter something so naturally amazing, something effortlessly spectacular, do we describe it as if it measured up to a painting—something we create, rather than what simply is?</p><p>We rarely look at a beautiful painting and say it’s “as pretty as real life.” It struck me: when we see something awe-inspiring, sometimes our minds doubt its reality. We think it’s too good to be true. I realized we do this with God, too. God’s love, His compassion, His redemptive power through Jesus—all can feel “too good to be true.” Sometimes, disbelief rises up, whispering that what’s most beautiful and transformative can’t possibly be real.</p><p>So next time you find yourself gazing at a breathtaking sunrise, a winding river, or caught in a moment of true awe, let yourself meditate on this: the beauty that feels too amazing to be true was created by a God who seems too great to be true—but that doesn’t make either any less real.</p><p>And that’s today’s Grace Note—a brief window into presence, awe, and the reminders God offers in everyday moments. May it call to mind the reality of wonder, and the even greater reality of His love.</p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;This Grace Note reflects on a simple sunset walk that turned into a moment of spiritual clarity. A sky filled with vibrant colors led to a deeper question: &lt;strong&gt;Why do we sometimes doubt real beauty — and even doubt God’s love — are they too good to be true?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this short episode, we explore the connection between wonder, faith, and the reminders God places in everyday life. If you’re a mother seeking encouragement, spiritual insight, or a peaceful moment with God, this reflection offers a reminder of His presence and the reality of His love.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Perfect for listeners looking for motherhood inspiration, mindful parenting, or faith-based comfort in daily life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Thank you for listening. Please Subscribe, Rate and Review to help me reach more mommas!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And, for more weekly inspiration, you can follow &lt;strong&gt;@GracefullyUnraveledPodcast &lt;/strong&gt;on social media:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&amp;__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&amp;id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;transcript&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;While walking at sunset, the clouds were simply spectacular. There was this endless trail of puffy clouds—glowing pink, orange, and soft blue. Thinking back on it now, it looked like something out of a storybook, as if unicorns might leap from fold to fold, covered in sprinkles.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But in all seriousness, As I moved closer with each step, I caught myself thinking, “This landscape is beautiful—like a painting.” Maybe you’ve heard the saying, “pretty as a picture.” And then my mind started to wander: Why do we even say that? Why, when we encounter something so naturally amazing, something effortlessly spectacular, do we describe it as if it measured up to a painting—something we create, rather than what simply is?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We rarely look at a beautiful painting and say it’s “as pretty as real life.” It struck me: when we see something awe-inspiring, sometimes our minds doubt its reality. We think it’s too good to be true. I realized we do this with God, too. God’s love, His compassion, His redemptive power through Jesus—all can feel “too good to be true.” Sometimes, disbelief rises up, whispering that what’s most beautiful and transformative can’t possibly be real.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So next time you find yourself gazing at a breathtaking sunrise, a winding river, or caught in a moment of true awe, let yourself meditate on this: the beauty that feels too amazing to be true was created by a God who seems too great to be true—but that doesn’t make either any less real.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And that’s today’s Grace Note—a brief window into presence, awe, and the reminders God offers in everyday moments. May it call to mind the reality of wonder, and the even greater reality of His love.&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2025 10:00:30 &#43;0000</pubDate>
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                <itunes:title>The ‘Bad Mom’ Myth: Turning Mom Guilt into Grace (Faith &#43; Identity)</itunes:title>
                <title>The ‘Bad Mom’ Myth: Turning Mom Guilt into Grace (Faith &#43; Identity)</title>

                <itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode>
                <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                <itunes:summary>If “I’m a bad mom” is a sentence that lives in your head, start here. Kelli unpacks how culture, psychology, and faith all feed mom guilt—and offers a gentler, grace-filled way to see yourself, even on your hardest days.

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I am a bad mom.

How many times have you told yourself that? Personally, I don’t have enough fingers and toes to count. We live with this quiet fear that we’re somehow messing our kids up. I mean, if we spend time in therapy blaming our parents for how we turned out, certainly our kids will do the same—right? So we start cataloging every blow-up, every sarcastic response, every moment of emotional fatigue like it’s evidence in a trial against our motherhood.

Take for example, the recent morning meltdown I experienced with my youngest son. This child has been dressing himself for years without any real conflict- well, with the exception of going from obsessed with jeans one year to only sweats the next displacing a lot of new pants. But, on this school day, I was really caught of guard. I was still coming down from disciplining his older brother, juggling packed lunches, and needing to get dressed for the day when he hollered that he didn&#39;t have a shirt to wear despite a likely fifteen being in his drawer. After stopping everything I was managing to go hold up every shirt option, we landed on the perfect solid-colored shirt. But he wasn&#39;t done. Next he asked me where a very specific sweatshirt was that he noted as having not seen in over a week. That’s when I lost it. &#34;I can&#39;t help you,&#34; I finally said. The good news is we made it to school that day, a few minutes late, but we arrived visibly unscathed - but emotionally for me, not so much. Que the guilt spiral. On the drive home, I thought of all the ways I had failed him. What else could I have said to help him discern why the shirts were acceptable yesterday but not today. I was too tired and overwhelmed-it was simply my fault. I could have been more kind, less frustrated. And since my drive is longer than 5-minutes, it was plenty of time for my mom-mind to go entirely of the rails narrating the future impact of my bad parenting moment—he&#39;ll grow to hate me, he won’t go to college, he won’t get married, he’ll end up in therapy talking about his mom’s meltdowns. If bad parenting were like speeding tickets, my license would be revoked.

It sounds dramatic, but that’s the mental gymnastics a lot of mothers are doing subconsciously. The invisible scorecard of guilt is real — and exhausting.

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Welcome back to *Gracefully Unraveled*—a podcast where we explore the sacred messiness of motherhood, identity, and ego. I’m your host, Kelli Lynch, and every other week I share reflections, spiritual insight, a dash of data, and a whole lot of honesty to help us unravel—gracefully and intentionally—together.

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News flash - We’re not imagining it. Research shows that over half of mothers, according to a 2023 Pew Research study—say they regularly feel like they’re not doing enough for their children. And the “blame the parents” culture doesn’t help. Popular psychology since the 1980s has overemphasized root causes in early childhood, so now, instead of healing, many of us are stuck in cycles of blame—of others and ourselves.

Years ago, when I started writing a memoir, I thought it would bring me a sense of healing to address childhood trauma, to unravel its effect on my life and relationships. I fell into that trap of hope, that &#34;I&#34; could solve whatever was broken. However, more recently I was reflecting on whether I should pick it back up. And I remember hearing this quiet voice say: *“Are you looking for someone to blame?”* That stopped me. It made me wonder how often we reach for blame instead of grace. How often we dwell in what&#39;s been **done to us**, instead of rooting ourselves in what God **can do for us**--today.

So now I want to flip the script because so much of the parenting dialogue out there today is pressurizing parents to the point of emotional destruction in my opinion. And, let&#39;s instead address the elephant in the room. Don’t children traumatize their parents too—or maybe, retraumatize them?

Who’s looking out for the parents--mommas in particular?

I imagine this like a classroom. Some of you are raising your hands high—eager to say, “It’s my responsibility.&#34; And, you have a moment of pride, feeling like an evolved parent who recognizes that we should not hold our children accountable for how we feel or - for how they make us feel. And, while that’s not entirely wrong, it&#39;s a woke perspective if you know what I mean. It sounds like the kind of thing one would say to show off, instead of show up--vulnerable in this case.

Scholars like Dr. Wendy Middlemiss remind us that parenting behaviors emerge inside a context — stresses, supports, resources, and culture all shape how we show up as parents. In other words, no single parenting ideology (gentle parenting or otherwise) exists in a vacuum — it meets your life. So part of discernment is asking not only ‘what should I do?’ but ‘what can I sustain?’

Now there&#39;s another batch of you I imagine were half-raising your hands—prepared to answer the question with, “My friends, my spouse, my co-workers—they’re my support system.” And yes, God designed us for community. But here’s the thing: even the best friendships and support groups can’t fully anchor you if your identity is misplaced. Because any foundation built on approval and validation is temporary—it shifts under pressure.

Dr. Shefali Tsabary points out something crucial in The Conscious Parent. She says “Our children are here to raise us—to grow us up.” And that means when they trigger us, they’re not just being difficult. They’re often revealing parts of us that are still unhealed.&#34; That my friends is an ah-ha moment because just maybe that&#39;s God&#39;s plan. We are supposed to use difficult moments to grow together in real time - instead of blaming the past or leaving our children to blame us in the future. Presence over performance is one of my favorite phrases, and this is a practice I want to encourage!

So what does it mean to be a present mother. Does it mean, looking at your children saying, &#34;I see you and I hear you&#34;. YES. But I hope you are tracking with me right now, recognizing that this motherhood thing is so much bigger. Because it&#39;s not just about them, it&#39;s about you too--and we cannot do this journey on our own. Job 34:29 says, “When He giveth quietness, who then can make trouble?”

That doesn’t mean storms won’t come. It means you can stand in the middle of one and still have peace. Because when you’re under spiritual attack—whether it’s guilt, shame, or self-condemnation over something you&#39;ve done—Christ becomes your armor. Think of yourself as the bomb, and Jesus as the one always ready to cut the right wire.

In my own life, I accept that I will still have flare-ups—moments when my kids trigger something deep in me, and I respond in a way that feels unrecognizable. But instead of sitting in the shame of “I am a bad mom,” for too long, I know now that I can bring it to God. Because when rooted in holy consciousness, that statement of I am a bad mom...can stop at “I am.”

I am present. I am a child of God. I am saved by His grace.

And my hope—the thing I strive for—is that over time, my responses will become less human and more Christ-like. That I’ll hold the quietness of the Holy Spirit so fully that even in chaos, peace will still be my posture.

As I mentioned earlier, there is an overwhelming amount of conversation today that pressures mothers to the point of emotional exhaustion. Mom guilt and social shame have even created new parenting movements. So I wanted to be sure to mention today, that while every approach has its merits, I think it’s wise for every mother to know their *why*. Take the gentle parenting craze for example—it’s beautiful in its intent, but for some moms, it can become another impossible standard. We’re already exhausted trying to be the perfect mother, and now we’re told to also be endlessly patient, soft-spoken, and self-regulated.

The American Psychological Association has been clear that parental burnout is a real, measurable condition — the mental and physical fallout from prolonged parenting stress — and it’s tied to exhaustion, emotional distancing, and feelings of being ineffective as a parent. That language helps name what many of us feel: this isn’t just ‘in your head’—it’s a recognized phenomenon that often grows out of impossible expectations and chronic pressure.

Modern psychological and self-help suggestions often focus on external stress management—like trying to fix or eliminate the surrounding chaos through selective techniques that simply cannot work for everyone—rather than seeking Christ’s offer of inner transformation that has been proven effective for generations. Remember the storm when Jesus was asleep in the boat? Matthew 8:25-26, when the disciples shouted &#34;Lord Save Us&#34; and Jesus replied, &#34;why are you so afraid?&#34; Choosing to follow and trust in Jesus can quiet the external chaos; and provide transformation from the inside out. He doesn’t just offer suggestive strategies—He offers inner renewal, he offers to walk alongside us and guide us we evolve. Sometimes, motherhood feels like that boat—rocking, taking on water. But quietness isn’t the absence of chaos; it’s the presence of Christ in the midst of it. You are never alone.

Maybe you had a “bad mom” moment today. Maybe you’ll have another tomorrow. But what if instead of replaying the guilt, you rested in grace—and let the “I am” be enough?

You were never called to be a perfect mom. You were called to be a *present* one.

This week, when the “bad mom” thought creeps in, pause. Stop at “I am.” Ask yourself—what truth can follow that pause if Christ is in it?

Thank you for listening to *Gracefully Unraveled*. Be sure to follow and share the podcast, and check out Instagram for this week’s reflection prompt.

Until next time—keep unraveling.</itunes:summary>
                <description><![CDATA[<p>Every mom has whispered, “I’m a bad mom” under her breath—but what if that sentence doesn’t get the final say?</p><p>In this heartfelt episode, Kelli unpacks the hidden weight of today’s “blame the parents” culture and why so many moms feel like walking indictments of their children’s behavior. Through personal storytelling, psychology, and scripture, she explores how guilt, shame, and unrealistic expectations attach themselves to your identity—and how grace begins to loosen their grip.</p><p>You’ll explore:</p><ul><li>Why modern mothers are more prone to chronic mom guilt</li><li>How “I’m a bad mom” language seeps into your sense of self</li><li>What the gospel actually says about failure, weakness, and worth</li><li>Practical ways to move from self-condemnation toward compassion and curiosity</li></ul><p>This episode won’t tell you to ignore conviction, but it will invite you to see yourself as God sees you: in-process, beloved, and not defined by your worst moments.</p><p>Send this to a friend who needs to hear that one hard day—or even a hard season—doesn’t make her a bad mom.</p><p><br></p><p>➕Be sure to <strong>Follow</strong> and <strong>Share </strong>with a mom friend!</p><p><br></p><p>✨Enjoy a steady stream of inspirational messages <strong>on social channels</strong>. Search @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast or click links below!</p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast/" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;Every mom has whispered, “I’m a bad mom” under her breath—but what if that sentence doesn’t get the final say?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this heartfelt episode, Kelli unpacks the hidden weight of today’s “blame the parents” culture and why so many moms feel like walking indictments of their children’s behavior. Through personal storytelling, psychology, and scripture, she explores how guilt, shame, and unrealistic expectations attach themselves to your identity—and how grace begins to loosen their grip.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You’ll explore:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why modern mothers are more prone to chronic mom guilt&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How “I’m a bad mom” language seeps into your sense of self&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;What the gospel actually says about failure, weakness, and worth&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Practical ways to move from self-condemnation toward compassion and curiosity&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;This episode won’t tell you to ignore conviction, but it will invite you to see yourself as God sees you: in-process, beloved, and not defined by your worst moments.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Send this to a friend who needs to hear that one hard day—or even a hard season—doesn’t make her a bad mom.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;➕Be sure to &lt;strong&gt;Follow&lt;/strong&gt; and &lt;strong&gt;Share &lt;/strong&gt;with a mom friend!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;✨Enjoy a steady stream of inspirational messages &lt;strong&gt;on social channels&lt;/strong&gt;. Search @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast or click links below!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&amp;__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&amp;id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast/&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <title>When Your Inner Critic Won’t Quit: Ego, Shame and the ‘Good Mom’ Story</title>

                <itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode>
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                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                <itunes:summary>If your inner critic never shuts up, especially around other moms, listen in. Kelli uses a funny T‑shirt story to explore how ego, image, and the “Good Mom” script shape our choices—and how faith invites us into a more honest, grace-filled way of being ourselves.

➕Be sure to Follow and Share with a mom friend!

✨Enjoy a steady stream of inspirational messages on social channels. Search @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast

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                <description><![CDATA[<p>Ever second-guess a tiny decision—a T‑shirt, a snack, a social post—because you’re worried what other moms will think?</p><p>In this episode, Kelli shares a hilarious T‑shirt moment that exposes something much deeper: how ego, image, and motherhood intertwine to shape who we believe we are. Drawing on insights from Eckhart Tolle, Lao Tzu, and Christian spiritual wisdom, she unpacks how the “Good Mom” story quietly controls our choices and feeds an inner critic that never seems satisfied.</p><p>You’ll explore:</p><ul><li>How ego uses image, labels, and “brand” to protect you from shame</li><li>Why moms often curate their personalities to fit what feels acceptable</li><li>What spiritual teachers say about the false self vs. true self</li><li>How faith invites you to live from belovedness instead of performance</li></ul><p>This conversation blends humor, honesty, and spiritual depth to help you notice where ego is running the show—and imagine a freer, more authentic way to show up as a mom and as yourself.</p><p>If you’re tired of overthinking everything and want permission to be your whole, quirky, God-loved self, this episode is for you.</p><p><br></p><p>➕Be sure to <strong>Follow</strong> and <strong>Share </strong>with a mom friend!</p><p><br></p><p>✨Enjoy a steady stream of inspirational messages <strong>on social channels</strong>. Search @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast or click links below!</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast/" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;Ever second-guess a tiny decision—a T‑shirt, a snack, a social post—because you’re worried what other moms will think?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this episode, Kelli shares a hilarious T‑shirt moment that exposes something much deeper: how ego, image, and motherhood intertwine to shape who we believe we are. Drawing on insights from Eckhart Tolle, Lao Tzu, and Christian spiritual wisdom, she unpacks how the “Good Mom” story quietly controls our choices and feeds an inner critic that never seems satisfied.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You’ll explore:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;How ego uses image, labels, and “brand” to protect you from shame&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why moms often curate their personalities to fit what feels acceptable&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;What spiritual teachers say about the false self vs. true self&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How faith invites you to live from belovedness instead of performance&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;This conversation blends humor, honesty, and spiritual depth to help you notice where ego is running the show—and imagine a freer, more authentic way to show up as a mom and as yourself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you’re tired of overthinking everything and want permission to be your whole, quirky, God-loved self, this episode is for you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;➕Be sure to &lt;strong&gt;Follow&lt;/strong&gt; and &lt;strong&gt;Share &lt;/strong&gt;with a mom friend!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;✨Enjoy a steady stream of inspirational messages &lt;strong&gt;on social channels&lt;/strong&gt;. Search @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast or click links below!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&amp;__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&amp;id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast/&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>Reclaiming Faith When Motherhood Breaks Your Old Picture of God (Grace Note)</itunes:title>
                <title>Reclaiming Faith When Motherhood Breaks Your Old Picture of God (Grace Note)</title>

                
                
                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                <itunes:summary>Welcome to a Grace Note episode—a brief, real-life reflection distinct from the regular, deep-dive conversations. Grace Notes offer quick inspiration for your spiritual journey through motherhood.

Ever wonder if you’re qualified as a [fill in the blank]? In this episode, join me for an honest, real-time reflection on self-doubt and the subtle ways ego limits us. Inspired by spiritual teacher Eckhart Tolle and Scripture, discover how embracing God’s calling means moving beyond insecurity and stepping into gifts of teaching and shepherding—even when we feel unworthy. Whether you’re a mother in the think of it, a mother-to-be, and a mother working through what you lived through -- questioning your own “enoughness,” this episode offers encouragement, and a gentle reminder to root yourself in divine truth, not the noise of self-doubt. Tune in for a real-life look at how holy consciousness changes everything.

Thank you for listening. Please Subscribe, Rate and Review to help me reach more mommas!

And, for more weekly inspiration, you can follow the show @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast on social media:
facebook.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast
instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast

&lt;Transcript&gt;

Who do you think you are? Do you think you read enough…Know enough…or are well-versed enough to talk to people about topics as big as faith and identity…Are you really so skilled at mothering that other people should listen to you??

The truth - everything in my body screams no.

In that flurry, I stopped and whispered a silent prayer: “God, if you see something in me, help me see it too.” Something softened. I realized the doubts were not truth, just noise—the sort of noise ego makes when it senses movement beyond old limits.

Here’s something that might surprise you, ego doesn’t always come in the form of seeming power and strength. According to Eckart Tolle, a modern spiritual teacher respected by many around the globe, he says that emotions like fear and anxiety arise as a result of ego...when it perceives a threat to its carefully constructed identity. So when I’m saying no, this is out of my comfort zone but God is saying yes - Well, I’m left asking who knows better...

Proverbs 16:3 says, “commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.”

So here we are - I’m starting a podcast that will explore faith and identity through the lens of motherhood… and you’re still listening to see if I’m going to say anything that’s actually worthwhile.

So for the sake of this inaugural Grace Note and looking towards where our spiritual journeys intersect, let’s touch on Ephesians chapter 4, where Paul presents what is known as a fivefold ministry.

Here we learn that the Holy Spirit has gifted each of us an ability to build up the body of Christ - apostle, prophet, evangelist, Shepherd and/or teacher - if you’re a mama listening to this, I hope you feel confident in claiming the teacher and/or Shepherd gifts. It’s OK if you don’t feel like your children are not responding to your teaching. I&#39;ll be honest, I feel rejected on regular basis when I attempt to open my mouth without their deliberate request for my engagement. And it&#39;s okay if you feel like you&#39;re not Shepherding your children to follow Jesus as good as the next Mom. I believe that every micro moment counts, — and for many (young and old), sharing God’s promises without pressure can be effective for both the one delivering — and receiving. I have come to realize that becoming a mom is an automatic opportunity to grow your gifts from God, if you are willing to deconstruct your ego so you can reconstruct your faith. Let’s work together to wake up that holy consciousness that lies within us all, so that our gifts are used to achieve good works.

Thank you for listening to today’s Grace Note — a brief, real-life moment where deeper presence turned an ordinary experience into something meaningful. Grace Notes are my way of sharing how conscious awareness and spiritual attention can reveal unexpected insights in even the simplest parts of life, offering gentle reminders that every day holds the seeds of transformation.</itunes:summary>
                <description><![CDATA[<p>🌿Welcome to a Grace Note episode—a brief, real-life reflection distinct from the regular, deep-dive conversations. Grace Notes offer quick inspiration for your spiritual journey through motherhood.</p><p>💭<strong>Ever wonder if you’re qualified as a [fill in the blank]?</strong> In this episode, join me for an honest, real-time reflection on self-doubt and the subtle ways ego limits us. Inspired by spiritual teacher Eckhart Tolle and Scripture, discover how embracing God’s calling means moving beyond insecurity and stepping into gifts of teaching and shepherding—even when we feel unworthy. Whether you’re a mother in the think of it, a mother-to-be, and a mother working through what you lived through -- questioning your own “enoughness,” this episode offers encouragement, and a gentle reminder to root yourself in divine truth, not the noise of self-doubt. Tune in for a real-life look at how holy consciousness changes everything.</p><p>Thank you for listening. Please Subscribe, Rate and Review to help me reach more mommas!</p><p>And, for more weekly inspiration, you can follow @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast on social media:</p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p>🔗<a href="http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p><p><br></p><p>&lt;Transcript&gt;</p><p>Who do you think you are? Do you think you read enough…Know enough…or are well-versed enough to talk to people about topics as big as faith and identity…Are you really so skilled at mothering that other people should listen to you??</p><p>The truth - everything in my body screams no.</p><p>In that flurry, I stopped and whispered a silent prayer: “God, if you see something in me, help me see it too.” Something softened. I realized the doubts were not truth, just noise—the sort of noise ego makes when it senses movement beyond old limits.</p><p>Here’s something that might surprise you, ego doesn’t always come in the form of seeming power and strength. According to Eckart Tolle, a modern spiritual teacher respected by many around the globe, he says that emotions like fear and anxiety arise as a result of ego...when it perceives a threat to its carefully constructed identity. So when I’m saying no, this is out of my comfort zone but God is saying yes - Well, I’m left asking who knows better...</p><p>Proverbs 16:3 says, “commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.”</p><p>So here we are - I’m starting a podcast that will explore faith and identity through the lens of motherhood… and you’re still listening to see if I’m going to say anything that’s actually worthwhile.</p><p>So for the sake of this inaugural Grace Note and looking towards where our spiritual journeys intersect, let’s touch on Ephesians chapter 4, where Paul presents what is known as a fivefold ministry.</p><p>Here we learn that the Holy Spirit has gifted each of us an ability to build up the body of Christ - apostle, prophet, evangelist, Shepherd and/or teacher - if you’re a mama listening to this, I hope you feel confident in claiming the teacher and/or Shepherd gifts. It’s OK if you don’t feel like your children are not responding to your teaching. I&#39;ll be honest, I feel rejected on regular basis when I attempt to open my mouth without their deliberate request for my engagement. And it&#39;s okay if you feel like you&#39;re not Shepherding your children to follow Jesus as good as the next Mom. I believe that every micro moment counts, — and for many (young and old), sharing God’s promises without pressure can be effective for both the one delivering — and receiving. I have come to realize that becoming a mom is an automatic opportunity to grow your gifts from God, if you are willing to deconstruct your ego so you can reconstruct your faith. Let’s work together to wake up that holy consciousness that lies within us all, so that our gifts are used to achieve good works.</p><p>Thank you for listening to today’s Grace Note — a brief, real-life moment where deeper presence turned an ordinary experience into something meaningful. Grace Notes are my way of sharing how conscious awareness and spiritual attention can reveal unexpected insights in even the simplest parts of life, offering gentle reminders that every day holds the seeds of transformation.</p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;🌿Welcome to a Grace Note episode—a brief, real-life reflection distinct from the regular, deep-dive conversations. Grace Notes offer quick inspiration for your spiritual journey through motherhood.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;💭&lt;strong&gt;Ever wonder if you’re qualified as a [fill in the blank]?&lt;/strong&gt; In this episode, join me for an honest, real-time reflection on self-doubt and the subtle ways ego limits us. Inspired by spiritual teacher Eckhart Tolle and Scripture, discover how embracing God’s calling means moving beyond insecurity and stepping into gifts of teaching and shepherding—even when we feel unworthy. Whether you’re a mother in the think of it, a mother-to-be, and a mother working through what you lived through -- questioning your own “enoughness,” this episode offers encouragement, and a gentle reminder to root yourself in divine truth, not the noise of self-doubt. Tune in for a real-life look at how holy consciousness changes everything.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Thank you for listening. Please Subscribe, Rate and Review to help me reach more mommas!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And, for more weekly inspiration, you can follow @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast on social media:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&amp;__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&amp;id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;http://instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;lt;Transcript&amp;gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Who do you think you are? Do you think you read enough…Know enough…or are well-versed enough to talk to people about topics as big as faith and identity…Are you really so skilled at mothering that other people should listen to you??&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The truth - everything in my body screams no.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In that flurry, I stopped and whispered a silent prayer: “God, if you see something in me, help me see it too.” Something softened. I realized the doubts were not truth, just noise—the sort of noise ego makes when it senses movement beyond old limits.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here’s something that might surprise you, ego doesn’t always come in the form of seeming power and strength. According to Eckart Tolle, a modern spiritual teacher respected by many around the globe, he says that emotions like fear and anxiety arise as a result of ego...when it perceives a threat to its carefully constructed identity. So when I’m saying no, this is out of my comfort zone but God is saying yes - Well, I’m left asking who knows better...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Proverbs 16:3 says, “commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.”&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So here we are - I’m starting a podcast that will explore faith and identity through the lens of motherhood… and you’re still listening to see if I’m going to say anything that’s actually worthwhile.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So for the sake of this inaugural Grace Note and looking towards where our spiritual journeys intersect, let’s touch on Ephesians chapter 4, where Paul presents what is known as a fivefold ministry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here we learn that the Holy Spirit has gifted each of us an ability to build up the body of Christ - apostle, prophet, evangelist, Shepherd and/or teacher - if you’re a mama listening to this, I hope you feel confident in claiming the teacher and/or Shepherd gifts. It’s OK if you don’t feel like your children are not responding to your teaching. I&amp;#39;ll be honest, I feel rejected on regular basis when I attempt to open my mouth without their deliberate request for my engagement. And it&amp;#39;s okay if you feel like you&amp;#39;re not Shepherding your children to follow Jesus as good as the next Mom. I believe that every micro moment counts, — and for many (young and old), sharing God’s promises without pressure can be effective for both the one delivering — and receiving. I have come to realize that becoming a mom is an automatic opportunity to grow your gifts from God, if you are willing to deconstruct your ego so you can reconstruct your faith. Let’s work together to wake up that holy consciousness that lies within us all, so that our gifts are used to achieve good works.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Thank you for listening to today’s Grace Note — a brief, real-life moment where deeper presence turned an ordinary experience into something meaningful. Grace Notes are my way of sharing how conscious awareness and spiritual attention can reveal unexpected insights in even the simplest parts of life, offering gentle reminders that every day holds the seeds of transformation.&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>Career vs. Motherhood: When Your Identity Feels Pulled in Two</itunes:title>
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                <itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode>
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                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                <itunes:subtitle>Working Mom Guilt</itunes:subtitle>
                <itunes:summary>If you feel like you’re failing both your job and your kids, you’re not alone. Kelli shares her story of returning to work after baby and unpacks how ego, shame, and cultural pressure shape our choices—offering a grace-filled way to hold both career and motherhood.

💖Share with a mom friend wrestling with work, home, and who she’s allowed to be.

👉Enjoy a steady stream of inspirational messages on social channels. Search @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast or click links below!</itunes:summary>
                <description><![CDATA[<p>What happens when the part of you that loves your work collides with the part of you that loves your child—and both feel like they’re asking for “all of you”?</p><p>In this episode, Kelli opens up about the emotional whiplash of returning to work after her first baby and how ego wrapped itself around both her mothering and career identities. Through vulnerable storytelling, cultural data, and spiritual wisdom from voices like Michael Todd and Richard Rohr, she explores how shame, comparison, and “having it all” expectations shape a mother’s sense of worth.</p><p>You’ll explore:</p><ul><li>Why going back to work (or staying home) can feel like a referendum on your worth</li><li>How ego turns roles and titles into proof that you’re “enough”</li><li>The subtle ways culture pits career moms and stay-at-home moms against each other</li><li>How grace invites you to live beyond performance and either/or thinking</li></ul><p><br></p><p>If you’ve ever felt torn between the office and the nursery—or judged no matter what choice you make—this conversation offers relief, perspective, and a more spacious way to hold your calling.</p><p>💖Share with a mom friend wrestling with work, home, and who she’s allowed to be.</p><p>👉Enjoy a steady stream of inspirational messages <strong>on social channels</strong>. Search @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast or click links below!</p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast/" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;What happens when the part of you that loves your work collides with the part of you that loves your child—and both feel like they’re asking for “all of you”?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this episode, Kelli opens up about the emotional whiplash of returning to work after her first baby and how ego wrapped itself around both her mothering and career identities. Through vulnerable storytelling, cultural data, and spiritual wisdom from voices like Michael Todd and Richard Rohr, she explores how shame, comparison, and “having it all” expectations shape a mother’s sense of worth.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You’ll explore:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why going back to work (or staying home) can feel like a referendum on your worth&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How ego turns roles and titles into proof that you’re “enough”&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;The subtle ways culture pits career moms and stay-at-home moms against each other&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How grace invites you to live beyond performance and either/or thinking&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you’ve ever felt torn between the office and the nursery—or judged no matter what choice you make—this conversation offers relief, perspective, and a more spacious way to hold your calling.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;💖Share with a mom friend wrestling with work, home, and who she’s allowed to be.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;👉Enjoy a steady stream of inspirational messages &lt;strong&gt;on social channels&lt;/strong&gt;. Search @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast or click links below!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?__cft__%5B0%5D=AZaSQU0TR6OgfkF1G983W40rYHnJ6eU3tCg9VoWt-oqiC4bD4vYUZrQw19yJz2aLdSErj8rbo-ihdO10iOgx4bLuYxzNiToT0uWrU48S1gFRllQGs-QC8_38G0WFCCLcgmi4Uquzc4JzVDALPWi2NjBdhXfgY0CcsQIeq2gnRrhpQ1gf2sekmdp4m0-P_AOj-t6sXmN3-ChXVjYrKm1y8392YKc8cWRSObicPDwiTCJRaA&amp;__tn__=-UC%2CP-y-R&amp;id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast/&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2025 04:10:35 &#43;0000</pubDate>
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                <itunes:title>Losing Yourself in Motherhood: Ego, Identity and the Search for ‘Who Am I?</itunes:title>
                <title>Losing Yourself in Motherhood: Ego, Identity and the Search for ‘Who Am I?</title>

                <itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode>
                <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                <itunes:summary>If you’ve ever thought, “I lost myself when I became a mom,” this episode is for you. Kelli shares her own identity unraveling after childbirth and unpacks how ego, labels, and faith intersect in motherhood—offering a gentler, more grounded way to answer the question, “Who am I now?”

📲 Bonus content on social channels. Search @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast</itunes:summary>
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                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;Have you ever looked in the mirror after becoming a mom and thought, “I don’t even recognize myself anymore”?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this first episode of Gracefully Unraveled, Kelli opens up about the identity shift that came with early motherhood—the grief, guilt, and unraveling of ego that surfaced when her old picture of herself no longer fit. Through honest storytelling, cultural commentary, and spiritual reflection, she explores how motherhood strips away labels and performance to reveal a deeper question: Who am I, really?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Together, you’ll explore:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why motherhood can trigger a full identity crisis&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How ego attaches to roles, achievements, and “being a good mom”&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;What scripture and spiritual teachers reveal about the true self&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How to begin moving from performance to presence with God and yourself&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you feel caught between who you were before kids and who motherhood seems to demand you be, this episode offers language, compassion, and a gentle nudge toward a more grounded identity in Christ.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If it speaks to you, share it with a mom who feels just as lost—and needs to know she’s not alone.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;📲 &lt;strong&gt;Bonus content on social channels&lt;/strong&gt;. Search @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast or click links below!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledpodcast&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61580498256792&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔗&lt;a href=&#34;https://www.instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast/&#34; rel=&#34;nofollow&#34;&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2025 04:00:44 &#43;0000</pubDate>
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                <itunes:title>Who Am I After Having Kids? Identity After Childbirth [Trailer]</itunes:title>
                <title>Who Am I After Having Kids? Identity After Childbirth [Trailer]</title>

                
                <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
                <itunes:author>Kelli Lynch</itunes:author>
                <itunes:summary>If motherhood has ever left you wondering, “Who am I now?”, this trailer is for you. Kelli Lynch shares the heart behind Gracefully Unraveled—a faith-friendly podcast for moms wrestling with identity, ego, emotions, and the sacred mess of becoming who you truly are.


New episodes every other week, with bonus “Special Episodes” in between. Follow @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast on social media for ongoing encouragement and resources for the journey.</itunes:summary>
                <description><![CDATA[<p>Who are you beneath the roles—mom, partner, employee, friend—that you carry every day?</p><p>If motherhood has ever left you feeling like a stranger to yourself, you’re not alone. In this short trailer, host Kelli Lynch shares the heart behind Gracefully Unraveled, a podcast for mothers navigating identity, ego, and the sacred mess of becoming—and remembering—who they truly are. You’ll hear how her own unraveling in early motherhood led to honest, faith-rooted conversations at the intersection of motherhood, spirituality, mental health, and self-discovery.</p><p><br></p><p>🌿 If you’re longing for space to slow down, name what’s really happening inside, and reconnect with God and your true self, this is your invitation.</p><p><br></p><p>New episodes every other week, with bonus “Special Episodes” in between. Follow @GracefullyUnraveledPodcast on social media for ongoing encouragement and resources for the journey.</p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@GracefullyUnraveledpodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61580498256792" rel="nofollow">Facebook</a></p><p>🔗<a href="https://www.instagram.com/gracefullyunraveledpodcast/" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p>]]></description>
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