The Purpose Podcast

One Flesh Ep. 120 - FIRE | Solo

Wed, 09 Jul 2025 23:33:34 +0000

FIRE

Ep. 150 - Work to Worship | Solo

Sun, 06 Jul 2025 19:06:31 +0000

How I try to turn my place of work into a place of worship.

One Flesh Ep. 119 - Reset | Solo

Thu, 03 Jul 2025 00:26:45 +0000

Good tip about resetting with your wife when things go south

Ep. 149 - Growing Up Part 5 | Solo

Sun, 29 Jun 2025 20:05:16 +0000

All about the effectiveness of your presence and how you leave people feeling.

One Flesh Ep. 118 - Steady | Solo

Wed, 25 Jun 2025 20:01:31 +0000

Quick talk about the importance of being steady in chaotic times, but not overcorrecting into emotional unavailability.

Ep. 148 - Growing Up Part 4 | Solo

Sun, 22 Jun 2025 19:59:02 +0000

All about a hard lesson I learned by ignoring wisdom and how it changed my total approach to seeking and accepting advice.

One Flesh Ep. 117 - Your Kids Path | Solo

Thu, 19 Jun 2025 00:42:51 +0000

Little talk about having influence on your kids path in life.

Ep. 147 - Growing Up Part 3 | Solo

Sun, 15 Jun 2025 18:51:26 +0000

This episode takes me back to 2023 and my realization of the importance of organized Religion.

One Flesh Ep. 116 - Be Present | Solo

Thu, 12 Jun 2025 00:20:17 +0000

Short talk about being present in all areas of life

Ep. 146 - Growing Up Part 2

Mon, 09 Jun 2025 00:12:07 +0000

Part 2 of our Growing Up series all about hard work.

One Flesh Ep. 115 - Ephesians 5 Part 2 | Solo

Thu, 05 Jun 2025 00:23:01 +0000

Ephesians 5 and the call to love you wife as you love yourself

Ep. 145 - Growing Up Part 1 | Solo

Sun, 01 Jun 2025 23:40:23 +0000

First installment of my new series "Growing Up". This series will feature 8 things I have learned in the past 8 years that I have been out on my own. Episode 1 is all about managing friendships and a large circle of relationships.

One Flesh Ep. 114 - Ephesians 5 Part 1 | Solo

Thu, 29 May 2025 01:16:38 +0000

Talking Ephesians 5 and making your marriage a priority over your children.

Ep. 144 - Graduation Gratitude | Solo

Sun, 25 May 2025 23:27:23 +0000

A message to grads

One Flesh Ep. 113 - His Image | Solo

Wed, 21 May 2025 23:21:08 +0000

A new perspective on men and women both being made in God's image.

Ep. 143 - Made To Work | Solo

Sun, 18 May 2025 23:07:01 +0000

'The Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to till it and keep it. '

Genesis 2:15

One Flesh Ep. 112 - 1 Corinthians 7 Pt. 2 | Solo

Thu, 15 May 2025 00:43:06 +0000

1 Corinthians 7 Pt. 2

Ep. 142 - Put To The Test | Solo

Sun, 11 May 2025 20:14:37 +0000

Short talk about being put to the test and how to embrace suffering when it shows up at your door.

One Flesh Ep. 111 - 1 Corinthians 7 | Solo

Wed, 07 May 2025 22:53:32 +0000

1 Corinthians 7

Ep. 141 - A Good Return Part 6 | Solo

Sun, 04 May 2025 21:17:25 +0000

Wealth Management and Prudent decision making

One Flesh Ep. 110 - Yes or No | Solo

Thu, 01 May 2025 01:36:25 +0000

Taking advantage of the new Yes or No expansion pack for some easy and rich content packed with good lessons.

Ep. 140 - My Sandbox | Solo

Mon, 28 Apr 2025 00:22:32 +0000

Short talk about the importance of setting rules of engagement and boundaries with family and friends.

One Flesh Ep. 109 - A Shining Example of Grace | Solo

Thu, 24 Apr 2025 02:06:40 +0000

A short story of how my wife gave me an excellent example of withholding criticism and giving overwhelming love and grace.

Ep. 139 - Easter 2025 | Solo

Sun, 20 Apr 2025 11:15:26 +0000

He is risen!

One Flesh Ep. 108 - Find The Big Lever | Solo

Tue, 15 Apr 2025 23:40:43 +0000

Short talk about finding the big problem and fixing it.

Ep. 138 - A Good Return Part 5 | Solo

Sun, 13 Apr 2025 21:19:55 +0000

Little talk about giving and Mark 6:1-4

One Flesh Ep. 107 - The Christian Household | Solo

Thu, 10 Apr 2025 00:17:03 +0000

Ephesians 5 21:33

Ep. 137 - A Good Return Part 4 | Solo

Mon, 07 Apr 2025 02:32:53 +0000

Chapter 4 : Secular or Sacred?

One Flesh Ep. 106 - No Way Out | Solo

Thu, 03 Apr 2025 00:53:07 +0000

What it truly means to be married and the covenant you are entering into.

Ep. 136 - A Good Return Part 3 | Solo

Mon, 31 Mar 2025 22:31:05 +0000

Part 3 of our series on A Good Return by John Lennox

One Flesh Ep. 105 - Covenant Cooperation | Solo

Thu, 27 Mar 2025 02:01:18 +0000

An intro to a deeper conversation about the marriage covenant and how to work together inside of it

Ep. 135 - A Good Return Part 2 | Solo

Sun, 23 Mar 2025 19:52:07 +0000

All about motivation and the reasons we work

One Flesh Ep. 104 - A Wedding of Purpose | Solo

Wed, 19 Mar 2025 21:41:45 +0000

Short talk about the proper purpose and focus of a wedding.

Ep. 134 - A Good Return Part 1 | Solo

Mon, 17 Mar 2025 00:44:51 +0000

We will be starting a new series on the theology of work guided by A Good Return by John C. Lennox.

One Flesh Ep. 103 - The Important Things | Solo

Thu, 13 Mar 2025 00:14:16 +0000

Short episode about the important conversations I try to have at work and a specific discussion that I thought was interesting.

Ep. 133 - The Practical Conclusion | Solo

Sun, 09 Mar 2025 21:11:56 +0000

Mere Christianity Book Two: What Christians Believe Chapter 5 The Practical Conclusion

One Flesh Ep. 102 - Forgive, Not Forget | Solo

Thu, 06 Mar 2025 01:49:55 +0000

Quick little talk on the Biblical understanding of forgiveness and a recent shift in my perspective on the matter.

Ep. 132 - The Perfect Penitent | Solo

Mon, 03 Mar 2025 00:43:46 +0000

Mere Christianity Book 2 Chapter 4 The Prefect Penitent by C.S. Lewis

One Flesh Ep. 101 - Be Agile | Solo

Wed, 26 Feb 2025 22:00:00 +0000

Little conversation about being agile in negotiations with your wife and agile with the information you learn across all facets of your life.

Ep. 131 - The Shocking Alternative | Solo

Sun, 23 Feb 2025 21:18:37 +0000

Mere Christianity Book 2 Chapter 3 by C.S. Lewis

Ep. 100 - What Will You Give Up? | Solo

Wed, 19 Feb 2025 23:36:19 +0000

Little discussion about priorities

Ep. 130 - The Invasion | Solo

Mon, 17 Feb 2025 02:40:11 +0000

Book Two Chapter 2 The Invasion C.S. Lewis

One Flesh Ep. 99 - Broken | Solo

Thu, 13 Feb 2025 02:39:38 +0000

Little talk on sin and the brokenness inside of us all. Specifically from the perspective of someone outside a relationship trying to help someone they care about.

Ep. 129 - The Rival Conceptions of God | Solo

Sun, 09 Feb 2025 17:31:42 +0000

Book 2 Chapter 1 of Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis

One Flesh Ep. 98 - Habits of the Household Part 11 | Solo

Thu, 06 Feb 2025 04:13:05 +0000

Chapter 10: Bedtime

Ep. 128 - Uneasy | Solo

Mon, 03 Feb 2025 01:31:25 +0000

Mere Christianity Book 1 Chapter 5: We Have Cause To Be Uneasy

One Flesh - Ep. 97 Habits of the Household Part 10

Wed, 29 Jan 2025 22:08:16 +0000

Chapter 9 Conversation

Ep. 127 - Love In The Christian Sense | Solo

Sun, 26 Jan 2025 21:13:49 +0000

Continuing our review of Mere Christianity in Book 3 Chapter 9- Charity.

One Flesh Ep. 96 - Habits Of The Household Part 9 | Solo

Thu, 23 Jan 2025 03:19:20 +0000

Chapter 8 - Play

Ep. 126 - Count The Cost | Solo

Mon, 20 Jan 2025 02:15:11 +0000

Counting the cost of being made perfect through Him.

One Flesh Ep. 95 - Habits Of The Household Part 8 | Solo

Thu, 16 Jan 2025 03:34:39 +0000

Chapter 7 - Work

Ep. 125 - The Law Of Human Nature | Solo

Mon, 13 Jan 2025 02:00:39 +0000

Chapter 1 of Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis

One Flesh Ep. 94 - The Best Advice | Solo

Thu, 09 Jan 2025 04:01:45 +0000

Marriage advice from some seasoned professionals.

Ep. 124 - The Great Sin | Solo

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 02:24:45 +0000

Our first episode of a new series on Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis

One Flesh - Ep. 93 Habits of The Household Part 7 | Solo

Thu, 02 Jan 2025 13:31:08 +0000

Chapter 6: Marriage

Ep. 123 - 2025 | Solo

Sun, 29 Dec 2024 22:30:01 +0000

Wrapping up 2024 and preparing for 2025

One Flesh Ep. 92 - Habits Of The Household Part 6 | Solo

Thu, 26 Dec 2024 01:00:22 +0000

6th installment in our series on Justin Whitmel Earley's Habits Of The Household. We are covering Chapter 5: Family Devotions

Ep. 122 - Hope | Solo

Sun, 22 Dec 2024 19:56:16 +0000

After a tough couple of weeks being forced to exercise patience in multiple areas of life, Jeremiah 29:11 was recommended by two different friends. In this episode I cover shortly the theological virtue of Hope and how it helps us exercise patience in this world.

One Flesh Ep. 91 - Habits Of The Household Part 5 | Solo

Thu, 19 Dec 2024 02:21:57 +0000

After forgetting my book at the office I decided to grab my wife's copy and go over what she thought was important enough to highlight in the Screen time Chapter

Ep. 121 - Tradition | Solo

Sun, 15 Dec 2024 22:51:28 +0000

A discussion about the importance of tradition in our lives

One Flesh Ep. 90 - Habits Of The Household Part 4 | Solo

Thu, 12 Dec 2024 01:53:38 +0000

Discipline from the perspective of Justin Whitmel Earley in his book Habits Of The Household.

Ep. 120 - Family Debt | Solo

Sun, 08 Dec 2024 23:38:02 +0000

Little episode about the responsibilities and debts we owe to our extended families.

One Flesh Ep. 89 - Habits Of The Household Part 3 | Solo

Thu, 05 Dec 2024 02:16:01 +0000

All about mealtimes and their importance to building your family.

Ep. 119 - Comfort Ambush | Solo

Sun, 01 Dec 2024 15:25:00 +0000

Going back to Discipline Equals Freedom by Jocko Willink to understand how that slow slip into detrimental comfort really starts.

One Flesh Ep. 88 - Habits Of The Household Part 2 | Solo

Wed, 27 Nov 2024 14:30:00 +0000

2nd episode in our series of Habits Of The Household by Justin Whitmel Early.

Ep. 118 - I Feel Fine | Solo

Sun, 24 Nov 2024 14:30:00 +0000

Diving in to some Jocko Wisdom on pushing through the tough times.

One Flesh Ep. 87 - Habits Of The Household Part 1 | Solo

Thu, 21 Nov 2024 02:09:08 +0000

Introducing a new series on Habits Of The Household by Justin Whitmel Earley

Ep. 117 - Correction | Solo

Mon, 18 Nov 2024 02:22:00 +0000

After a week full of opportunities to accept and learn from correction I wanted to share my experiences and some Proverbs that help us to understand the importance of being open to advice.

One Flesh Ep. 86 - All Things | Solo

Thu, 14 Nov 2024 02:35:37 +0000

Wrapping up our series on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. We cover Love's ability to Bear, Believe, Hope, and Endure All Things.

Ep. 116 - When, Why & How to Argue | Solo

Sun, 10 Nov 2024 21:38:49 +0000

My thoughts on arguing and how it should be done.

One Flesh Ep. 85 - Civic Duty | Solo

Thu, 07 Nov 2024 01:21:03 +0000

Some thoughts about your responsibility to lead your family through elections.

Ep. 115 - Recharge | Solo

Mon, 04 Nov 2024 02:09:50 +0000

Short little episode about recharging after a period of hard work.

One Flesh Ep. 84 - Love Does Not | Solo

Wed, 30 Oct 2024 23:50:24 +0000

1 Corinthians 13:6

Ep. 114 - All Fall Short | Solo

Sun, 27 Oct 2024 23:00:27 +0000

This past week one of my very favorite internet personalities, a man I considered a role model, was involved in a scandal that corrupted the person I thought he really was. I wanted to discuss the fallibility of all men, and the importance of finding the right, and only, Savior, Jesus Christ.

One Flesh Ep. 83 - It Is Not | Solo

Wed, 23 Oct 2024 23:43:47 +0000

A little conversation about Loving better by understanding and avoiding what Love is not.

Ep. 113 - Seek To Understand | Solo

Sun, 20 Oct 2024 13:15:00 +0000

Short little discussion about a theme I noticed from this past week: Those who don't seek to understand seek to control.

One Flesh Ep. 82 - Its Own Way | Solo

Thu, 17 Oct 2024 01:51:00 +0000

Continuing our series on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, we discuss the sacrificial and selfless part of Love

Ep. 112 - Listener's Judo | Solo

Sun, 13 Oct 2024 20:29:26 +0000

After a having a few tough conversations this week I knew I could have done better. I spoke too much, listened too little, and failed to capitalize on a couple key opportunities. Today I wanted to take a quick look back to one of my favorite books, Never Split The Difference, and try to re-learn a few lessons that I had forgotten.

One Flesh Ep. 81 - Love is Not Envious | Solo

Thu, 10 Oct 2024 00:06:56 +0000

Continuing our series on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 by discussing how and why Love does not Envy.

Ep. 111 - Media Removal | Solo

Sun, 06 Oct 2024 22:35:37 +0000

As we continue with the idea of Via Negativa, I share an inadvertent experiment I did recently that helped reinforce Via Negativa in my life.

One Flesh Ep. 80 - Love is Kind | Solo

Thu, 03 Oct 2024 00:58:50 +0000

Some pontification on kindness and its place in a healthy marriage.

Ep. 101 - Via Negativa | Solo

Sun, 29 Sep 2024 22:22:23 +0000

"Keeping one's distance from an ignorant person is equivalent to keeping company with a wise man"

One Flesh Ep. 79 - Love is Patient | Solo

Thu, 26 Sep 2024 01:32:41 +0000

This week we dive into a new segment covering 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

One Flesh Ep. 109 - Projection | Solo

Sun, 22 Sep 2024 21:32:30 +0000

This week I talk a little bit about the importance of labeling your own emotions before you attribute them to someone else.

One Flesh Ep. 78 - Emotional Unintelligence

Thu, 19 Sep 2024 00:33:38 +0000

It's time for men to buck up and accept it: Emotions are real and you must know how to handle them

Ep. 108 - Overwhelmed | Solo

Sun, 15 Sep 2024 20:29:16 +0000

This week we take a look at what Jocko says about being overwhelmed and how to use that stress to make you better.

One Flesh Ep. 77 - She Ain't Always Right | Solo

Thu, 12 Sep 2024 01:35:14 +0000

I am sure you've heard the age old marriage advice given by every guy who seems to have a good enough marriage. Something like "just say 'Yes Dear'", "get really used to saying 'you're right, honey'" or the best one "Just accept it now, she's always right".

Well, she ain't always right.

Ep. 107 - Gifts | Solo

Mon, 09 Sep 2024 00:01:31 +0000

Many people know how to give a gift, and a lot of people know how to say thank you when they get one. However, for adults and men especially, our pride can get in the way. Gifts of service, time, and money may feel like debt or even an insult. This episode is all about receiving gifts well and building relationships through gifts of all sorts.

One Flesh Ep. 76 - Be The Believer | Solo

Thu, 05 Sep 2024 00:52:13 +0000

After all the changes I have made over the past 3 years I wanted to look back and Identify they key ways my wife supported and helped me.

Ep. 106 - 25 | Solo

Sun, 01 Sep 2024 22:18:36 +0000

My birthday always seems to remind me how fortunate I am to be surrounded by great people. After another years of success and underserved blessings I give thanks and share a little story about the power of silence in a conversation.

One Flesh Ep. 75 - Momming Is Hard | Solo

Thu, 29 Aug 2024 01:04:14 +0000

Quick episode of appreciation for my wife after having to fill her shoes one night a week.

Ep. 105 - Own The Past | Solo

Sun, 25 Aug 2024 21:52:43 +0000

We all have a past and there are surely moments in everyone's lives that they might regret or at least wish hadn't happened. In this episode I advocate for owning those moments and changing the lens that other people might see you and your reputation.

One Flesh Ep. 74 - Vision | Solo

Wed, 21 Aug 2024 13:30:00 +0000

Quick episode about the importance of clarifying your vision for those that you are leading.

Ep. 104 - More Information | Solo

Sun, 18 Aug 2024 23:04:10 +0000

Quick talk about the need to search for information and look for things you might not know before you go into a stressful conversation

One Flesh Ep. 73 - Clarity Is Charity | Solo

Wed, 14 Aug 2024 00:32:29 +0000

Quick episode about the necessity of being clear with your wife about your desires and expectations.

Ep. 103 - Let Nature Work | Solo

Mon, 12 Aug 2024 00:57:41 +0000

Quick little brush up from Leadership Strategy and Tactics about the relationship between someone's nature and their occupation

One Flesh Ep. 72 - Internet Marriage Advice Pt. 4 - Solo

Thu, 08 Aug 2024 01:46:52 +0000

One of my favorite episode formats where I browse the internet looking for marriage advice. I decide whether they agree with me or if they are wrong. Then I talk a little bit about the principles at play and how I think they actually apply in marriage.

Ep. 102 - Work VS Play | Solo

Sun, 04 Aug 2024 22:28:41 +0000

After a couple weeks for the book Drive to really set in and a conversation with my Brother, I solidified my new mindset and approach to the difference between work, play, and the rewards of both.

Ep. 101 - Networking is Stupid | Solo

Sun, 28 Jul 2024 23:56:53 +0000

Solo episode about the importance of treating strangers with respect and building genuine relationships with everyone you meet.

One Flesh Ep. 71 - Rules are Fun | Solo

Sun, 28 Jul 2024 23:52:13 +0000

Solo episode about the liberty and joy that results in a biblical marriage with robust rules and structures.

One Flesh Ep. 70 - Just The Beginning | Solo

Thu, 25 Jul 2024 00:24:28 +0000

An episode all about the life after marriage and the absolute necessity of continuing to make good decisions and follow through with your commitment.

Ep. 100 - Drive Part 3 | Solo

Sun, 21 Jul 2024 23:33:14 +0000

Third installment of our series on the book "Drive" by Daniel H. Pink

One Flesh Ep. 69 - Find An Example, Be An Example | Solo

Thu, 18 Jul 2024 01:17:57 +0000

A short direct challenge to think about the ways your marriage is an example to others and a call to reach out and build relationships with strong couples in your community.

Ep. 99 - History In The Making | Solo

Sun, 14 Jul 2024 23:58:32 +0000

Slight political commentary on the History we saw happen on Saturday.

Ep 98 - Do What You Ought | Solo

Mon, 08 Jul 2024 02:14:47 +0000

As the Fourth of July passes I want to re-center our minds on what I believe the true meaning of freedom to be.

One Flesh Ep. 67 - Attitude Is Everything | Solo

Thu, 04 Jul 2024 02:27:26 +0000

Short little episode about the impact that a positive attitude can have.

Ep. 97 - Drive Part 2 | Solo

Sun, 30 Jun 2024 20:48:38 +0000

Second installment in our series on "Drive" by Daniel H. Pink. I discuss the general theme of the book and a couple key realizations I have had about my hobbies, work, and parenting.

One Flesh Ep. 66 - Paint A Picture | Solo

Thu, 27 Jun 2024 02:51:46 +0000

An episode about the utter importance of painting your wife in a positive light to others.

Ep. 96 - Drive Pt. 1 | Solo

Sun, 23 Jun 2024 19:32:29 +0000

While having lunch with a friend I stumbled upon the realization that I had been in a rather severe motivational drought. More accurately, a motivational drought to do the things I ought to do. He recommended to me the book Drive by Daniel Pink. I skeptically ordered it and within the first few pages I realized that I know so much less about myself and motivation than what I'd like to admit. I am incredibly excited to dive into this book especially after wrapping up our series on setting and achieving goals so I wanted to take you along with me in hopes that it is just as eye opening for you as it has been for me.

One Flesh Ep. 65 - Marriage First, Baby Second | Solo

Thu, 20 Jun 2024 00:55:58 +0000

Quick rant about the importance of prioritizing your marriage over your children.

Ep. 95 - Cadence of Accountability | Solo

Sun, 16 Jun 2024 22:00:16 +0000

Wrapping up our series on goal setting & achieving, we touch on the last Discipline of Execution: Establishing a Cadence of Accountability.

One Flesh Ep. 64 - Never Go To Bed Angry | Solo

Thu, 13 Jun 2024 01:19:56 +0000

In my search for a good topic this evening, I took on a new perspective of an old saying.

Ep. 94 - Do Hard Things | Solo

Mon, 10 Jun 2024 02:13:37 +0000

After 3 long days performing what was supposed to be a 1 day job, I just wanted to share my sense of achievement with y'all and highlight why I think it's so important to do hard things.

One Flesh Ep. 63 - Baby Tips | Solo

Thu, 06 Jun 2024 02:02:56 +0000

Just a couple good lessons learned from 3 months of parenthood

Ep. 93 - An Honest Scoreboard | Solo

Sun, 02 Jun 2024 23:29:07 +0000

In our 3rd installment on the 4DX series we discuss the importance of keeping an honest scoreboard.

One Flesh Ep. 62 - The Same Page | Solo

Thu, 30 May 2024 01:00:02 +0000

A discussion about the importance of being on the same page with your wife when handling conflict as a team.

Ep. 92 - Be The Example | Solo

Mon, 27 May 2024 01:05:06 +0000

Managing conflict in close relationships is incredibly tough and something I have unfortunately had to deal with more than I'd like due to my own ignorance. This episode focuses on the action I consider to be the only effectual starting point to repairing broken relationships: becoming an example for others.

One Flesh Ep. 61 - The Perfect Date | Solo

Thu, 23 May 2024 00:15:09 +0000

Couple of pointers on how to have the perfect date!

Ep. 91 - Lead Measures | Solo

Mon, 20 May 2024 02:06:33 +0000

In the second installment of our series on setting and achieving goals we look at the second discipline in the book 4DX: Act on The Lead Measures.

We learn how to define a lead measure, break them down to binary choices, and measure success using those actions.

One Flesh Ep. 60 - Strategic Stress | Solo

Thu, 16 May 2024 01:27:55 +0000

How to plan and prepare for stressful situations with your wife and avoid hyper-fixation on hypotheticals.

Ep. 90 - Extreme Friendship | Solo

Mon, 13 May 2024 00:47:31 +0000

In desperate need of a place to rest during a daunting 6 hour drive with Jonah, my friend Brett Hart and his wife Shannon opened their home and treated us like kings. I could not be more grateful for their hospitality which is why I wanted to take this opportunity to thank them and outline an excellent example of what I will call Extreme Friendship.

One Flesh Ep. 59 - Stress Part 1 | Solo

Wed, 08 May 2024 20:25:16 +0000

Short and incredibly ironic episode about stress in your marriage and how to approach it.

Ep. 89 - Focus | Solo

Sun, 05 May 2024 22:29:28 +0000

This first little step into our series of achieving goals challenges us to define our goals and narrow the scope of excellence to one definable breakthrough. The theme for this episode in one I struggle with greatly and will be making significant changes to incorporate into my life: Focus.

One Flesh Ep. 58 - How You Leave Them Feeling | Solo

Wed, 01 May 2024 10:00:00 +0000

The importance of accepting help from a third party, the necessity of being an example when asking someone to change, and the incredible importance of distinguishing between your intentions in an interaction vs how the interaction affects the other person.

All three of the big topics discussed greatly changed the way I handle my interpersonal relationships and made me a better friend, coworker, and husband.

Ep. 88 - What Have You Done? | Solo

Sun, 28 Apr 2024 21:42:12 +0000

We will be starting a new series based on the setting and achieving of goals guided by the book "The 4 Disciplines of Execution". I remember a key moment when my mindset on the topic completely shifted. It was when I told my friend Nick Shelton that I wanted to help other people solve problems, achieve goals, and build things. His reply was a simple yet effective question: "What have you done?". His question forced me to take a serious look at my accomplishments and truly consider their validity. Had I really done anything yet that I could share with others? Were my accomplishments intentional? What accomplishments really fit my strengths? Which ones actually fell short of where they were supposed to end?

This is an important part of learning and is absolutely necessary if you want to continue setting and achieving progressive goals.

One Flesh Ep. 57 - Time Alone | Solo

Wed, 24 Apr 2024 23:51:38 +0000

Tips and lessons learned from the first few weeks of parenthood.

Ep. 87 - Make Your Time Matter | Solo

Mon, 22 Apr 2024 03:35:34 +0000

How are you spending your time? I am taking stock of my minutes, and challenging you to do the same.

One Flesh Ep. 56 - Paternal Priorities | Solo

Thu, 18 Apr 2024 01:05:11 +0000

No doubt raising children is tough, and even only 6 weeks into it we've been tested and challenged. I wanted to share our approach to prioritizing our marriage and my thoughts on how it has helped us.

Ep. 86 - The Path of Purpose pt. 6

Mon, 15 Apr 2024 04:00:00 +0000

The conclusion of our Path of Purpose series revolves around the entrepreneur. I share my experiences starting and failing in business. I give some hot takes on how to choose which business to start, and I'm pretty sure I learned just as much about myself in this episode as you will. Enjoy!

One Flesh Ep. 55 - Baby Basics - Q&A | Solo

Thu, 11 Apr 2024 02:17:15 +0000

How do you schedule your life around a new baby? Unexpected emotions? Advice to new parents? In my first episode dedicated to parenthood I take on your questions and try to give some decent answers!

Ep. 85 -The Path Of Purpose Part 5 | Solo

Sun, 07 Apr 2024 23:03:07 +0000

My career and business pursuits when I made this one astounding realization. There is no way around the hard work, only through.

One Flesh Ep. 54 - Short & Sweet | Solo

Thu, 04 Apr 2024 00:45:26 +0000

Short episode about the importance of establishing the first Law of Combat in your marriage: Cover and Move.

Ep. 84 - He Is Risen | Solo

Sun, 31 Mar 2024 23:33:20 +0000

On this wonderful Easter I felt like there was nothing I could say that would help more than simply proclaiming the Good News we are celebrating.

One Flesh Ep. 53 - Peppers & Onions | Solo

Wed, 27 Mar 2024 22:23:17 +0000

While cooking breakfast the other day I paused for a moment and thought about how our meals have changed over time. One thing that stood out in particular was that peppers and onions are now a staple in most dishes that I make in some form or fashion. 3 years ago my wife wouldn't eat a pepper to save her life, let alone in her breakfast on a random Tuesday. This episode reflects on how I was able to make that change and influence her taste and the applications inside your marriage.

Ep. 83 - The Path of Purpose pt. 4 | Solo

Sun, 24 Mar 2024 21:53:49 +0000

The Path of Purpose pt. 4: Focus on gratitude and the search for purpose inside your occupation.

One Flesh - Ep. 52 Reaping What You Sow | Solo

Wed, 20 Mar 2024 21:39:09 +0000

I get told often that the exceptional or uniquely pleasant parts of my marriage are either temporary or just a result of getting "lucky" with who I chose as a wife. They say "just wait until you have the kid", "yeah wait till you are married as long as I have been", or "yeah I think you just got lucky with a great woman".

Make no mistake, I am incredibly blessed, God has given me much more than I deserve and I am very sure that all Good things ultimately come from Him. However, I know that actions have consequences, both good and bad, and I am here to tell you that if you do the work the results will follow.

My wife and I have worked hard, non-stop, to develop and maintain our marriage. We've prepared for the hard times. We have had disagreements, worked out issues, and stayed committed to the daily discipline it takes to handle new stresses and obstacles that appear. Yes we are blessed, and we have been given much, but we do the work.

My son Jonah arriving has tested our marriage in new ways that sometimes catch couples off-guard. While it has been tough we have clearly seen the benefits of our work and been incredibly thankful for the commitment we made to continuously better our marriage and work as a unit.

All in all, this episode is not about me trying to brag, or sing mine and my wife's praises. I am simply trying to convey the truth: this stuff WORKS. The methods I talk about, all of which I have learned from other people, do work and they work well. Your marriage is obviously unique, but I assure you that the core tactics of my episodes; Extreme Ownership, Daily Discipline, Living in Service, etc. will bear fruit when you apply them to your marriage. So take action now. Assume the leadership role you are called to in your marriage and commit to doing the work. I promise the results will follow.

Ep. 82 - Jonah Houston Rauscher | Solo

Sun, 17 Mar 2024 17:49:20 +0000

We welcomed our baby Jonah into the world this week and today I give the honest feedback I said I would about the whole experience.... sneak peek... it's awesome!

One Flesh Ep. 51 - You Get What You Ask For | Solo

Wed, 13 Mar 2024 13:00:00 +0000

After a long hard day I often look forward to walking into my wonderful home and meeting my lovely wife to start the evening. However, this particular day, I quickly realized that my wife had given me exactly what I had asked for. Months and years of discussion, conversation, and hard work finally produced results. I was reaping exactly what I had sown. Of course, I was excited and grateful..... wrong.... I was upset, annoyed, and frustrated.

This episode is coming at an excellent time, as I should be hours away from welcoming new life into the world, something we have been awaiting for years. This experience I had as I walked through the door is mirrored in so many aspects of life and so often people miss the valuable opportunities to enjoy the moment, make progress, and capitalize on past work due to one simple fact: the best moments in life are never found on the easy path. Take the hard road, and be happy about it. Sow, and Reap in Joy. Ask, and be grateful when you receive.

Ep. 81- The Path of Purpose pt. 3 | Solo

Sun, 10 Mar 2024 13:00:00 +0000

The Path of Purpose pt. 3

One Flesh Ep. 50 - Exceptions Prove The Rule | Solo

Wed, 06 Mar 2024 14:00:00 +0000

Little talk about getting your priorities straight between work and family. I stress the importance of establishing rules based on your priorities and give you examples of how I do it.

Ep. 80 - The Path of Purpose pt. 2 | Solo

Mon, 04 Mar 2024 00:32:17 +0000

In the second installment of our Path of Purpose series, we take a step back from the future goals and evaluate our current situations. We establish two destinations, one that reflects our big dreams and answers to the "where do you want to be" question we asked last week. Then we have a destination that reflects our current habits, the path we are already walking down. After acknowledging and defining those two destinations, we map out a path to the 5 year goal, hacking our way through brush and cutting our way up the mountain to those goals up high. Lastly we talk about the Default Aggressive mindset and how it aids us on our new path.

One Flesh Ep. 49 - Internet Marriage Advice Pt. 3 | Solo

Thu, 29 Feb 2024 01:00:47 +0000

Solo episode about dating your wife and using common goals to lead your marriage.

Ep. 79 - The Path of Purpose pt. 1 | Solo

Sun, 25 Feb 2024 21:51:45 +0000

This episode kicks off our Path of Purpose series where I will give my thoughts and recommendations for creating a vision of your future and choosing a career and purpose that gets you there. We will discuss broad topics like 40 year goals as well as more tactical advice like how to start a business and which business to start, all through the lens of purpose. This week the focus is thinking big and in the future. I outline where I see myself at 5, 10, 20, and 40 years from now by addressing my priorities and pushing the limits of what is possible at each of those checkpoints. I hope you enjoy this series but most of all I hope it helps you find your path or, at the very least, take the next step.

One Flesh Ep. 48 - Buy In | Solo

Thu, 22 Feb 2024 01:35:36 +0000

I have talked a lot about taking ownership. I have talked a little bit about giving ownership. Today, I wanted to talk about what to do once you have given ownership. I have a really bad habit of giving ownership and saying "I don't care" afterwards. Giving your wife ownership of a task or process is important and necessary, but that doesn't mean you are done. Give her ownership, trust her leadership, and BUY IN...

Ep. 78 - Redemption | Solo

Sun, 18 Feb 2024 22:44:42 +0000

I have been continuously disappointed and haunted after failing a hike a year or two ago with my coach Nick Shelton. This weekend despite sketchy weather and a continued lack of confidence in my knees, my friend Jacob and I got it done. I tell this story to wrap up our series on fitness and to encourage you all to continually set and crush milestones that correlate with your health and fitness priorities. I also do a little introduction for the next series about developing one's purpose in business and how to choose a path for a fulfilling career.

One Flesh Ep. 47 - Valentine's Day is Important | Solo

Thu, 15 Feb 2024 00:18:58 +0000

Short solo episode about the necessity of treating Valentine's day with importance and making your woman feel special. I also give a little insight to my thought process and mentality as the baby train keeps chugging along.

Ep. 77 - Move | Solo

Sun, 11 Feb 2024 19:50:49 +0000

The final episode in our little series about weight loss and physical fitness. This episode focuses on getting moving and the physical aspect of my weight loss formula "Do More. Eat Less".

One Flesh Ep. 46 - Give & Take | Solo

Thu, 08 Feb 2024 03:07:23 +0000

Quick baby update with some great news and some thoughts about not only taking ownership of household duties, but giving up ownership and control.

Ep. 76 - On Track | Solo

Mon, 05 Feb 2024 00:46:02 +0000

Solo episode about food tracking and all the details I've learned over the past 3 years.

One Flesh Ep. 45 - Pregnant, Barefoot, & In The Kitchen | Solo

Thu, 01 Feb 2024 03:56:12 +0000

The most obvious and evident truths, in a society that rejects truth, become the most difficult truths to speak. We as a people are made to believe that the truths are actually lies, and that you should be ashamed to even think them. Like the kid with a girlfriend that "goes to another school" or the homeless guy committing stolen valor. They want truth speakers to be embarrassed, or even fearful to make a sound. If your "lie" cuts too far into the narrative, you shall be assured, it could be the end of your credibility, job, friendships, and place in society. In my experience, once you say the "unsayable", you do feel awfully embarrassed. You feel embarrassed at being afraid to say something so obvious, so irrefutable. You do feel ashamed, ashamed that it took you so long to say it, or post it on the internet for all to see.

Well, friends, in this episode I believe I am speaking one of those truths. It isn't my discovery, and I am far from the first to say it. I am sure it has been said in Churches, homes, and conservative talk shows countless times this week. Nevertheless, I feel the need to ponder it and express it for those of you that still are not convinced, or still consider it a lie.

I am talking about women's place in society... the reason women exist … their Purpose.

I still approach the topic from a man's perspective and I highlight the responsibility that men have to uphold this truth. It is with great emphasis and passion that I call men to the mat, imploring them to support and reinforce their wives' proper state of being... Pregnant, Barefoot, & In The Kitchen.

Ep. 75 - Do More. Eat Less. | Solo

Sun, 28 Jan 2024 22:56:59 +0000

In the beginning of 2021 I weighed around 334 pounds. Today I weigh 235 pounds with my lowest weight in December being 231. Many people have asked me recently how I did it and the answer is quite basic: Do More. Eat Less. It really is that simple, but it is NOT easy. This episode covers my thoughts and many of the methods I used to lose the weight and change my life.

I want to say a very large thank you to so many people that have helped me get here and that will help me continue getting better. Most of all, my wife DeEllen. I could not have gotten anywhere without my marriage. I promise I won't stop here.. and I WILL NOT go back...

One Flesh Ep. 44 - EVERY DAY | Solo

Thu, 25 Jan 2024 02:32:07 +0000

This episode takes some of the most intense and aggressive language found in Jocko Willink's Discipline Equals Freedom Field Manual and applies it to the most intense and important human relationship you will ever have. Your marriage.

Ep. 74 - Curiosity, Catechisms, & Candela | Luke Brown

Sun, 21 Jan 2024 21:52:58 +0000

My new friend Luke and I sit down to talk about his Purpose and we dive deep into his Catholic faith. Coming from a non-denominational childhood and currently being a member of a Baptist church, I had plenty of questions for Lucas and did not hold back an ounce of curiosity for what Catholics believe and practice. We also dive into his employment as a Marketing & Branding Strategist for Modlite Systems, discussing the advantages of purchasing Modlite in a market full of stiff competition.

One Flesh Ep. 43 - DON'T CARE | Solo

Thu, 18 Jan 2024 03:41:11 +0000

"Pick your battles"... I have heard this many times from men who might have learned the madness but likely not the method. Which battles do you pick? How do you pick them? How hard do you fight once you've picked? Typically the phrase is given in an open-ended manner and without these answers. This week I decided to return to Leadership Strategy and Tactics by Jocko Willink for some hard hitting advice all about the tool of not caring and when to use it.

Ep. 73- Instagram Advice Column | Solo

Sun, 14 Jan 2024 22:15:07 +0000

Scrolling through my feed this week I came across a post by long time friend of the show Clint Walker @the_Clint_Walker asking for advice from men over 30 to men in their 20's. I spent a long time scrolling through the comments and in this episode I decided to go over my favorite and, of course, my least favorite pieces of advice!

One Flesh Ep. 42 - Don't Lose The Gunfight | Solo

Thu, 11 Jan 2024 01:28:08 +0000

When the shooting starts and the fight gets heated, don't overreact... Take a step back and get to the root of the problem.

Ep. 72 - Self Talk | Solo

Sun, 07 Jan 2024 23:50:54 +0000

Biggest fan, worst critic, helpful, harmful... That voice in our heads can take quite a few forms and I find myself in a constant battle to keep it constructive. Must it always be kind, constantly assuring you that you are enough no matter the circumstances? Softer types and more sensitive folks will agree. Must it be harsh and cruel, callusing yourself and preparing you for a world full of criticism and competitors? Plenty of billionaires, athletes, and high performers would say yes. I don't have an exact answer, though I know it lies somewhere in the middle of the two, or maybe that there is a time for both. In this episode I simply share with you my process and some of the reasons I talk to myself the way that I do.

One Flesh Ep. 41 - Matrimonial Motivation | Solo

Thu, 04 Jan 2024 00:08:34 +0000

With 2024 already in progress and all the talk about goals, I decided to make a type resolution you don't hear very often, a resolution for my marriage. In this episode I share that resolution with you and call you all to do the same.

Ep. 71 - Happy New Year | Solo

Sun, 31 Dec 2023 16:15:40 +0000

As I sit and think about 2023 and all the wonderful events and opportunities that happened, I can't help but be pumped and inspired to make 2024 even better! In this short episode I am simply calling on you to do the same. What went well in 2023? Count those blessings! What can be improved? Set your goals in 2024 and get after it!

One Flesh Ep. 40 - Don't Deny Your Nature | Solo

Thu, 28 Dec 2023 01:53:48 +0000

After watching the movie "Four Christmases" with my Wife DeEllen, I began to think about all of the people that I know, and even myself at one time, who were defying their nature and resisting the traditional family lifestyle.

Ep. 70 - Merry Christmas | Solo

Sun, 24 Dec 2023 19:55:41 +0000

Short little Christmas episode talking about a recent live I watched by Forrest Cooper of [Redacted] and the importance of establishing tradition.

One Flesh - Ep. 39 Simplifying Stress | Solo

Thu, 21 Dec 2023 02:32:29 +0000

Stress comes in many forms and can't be avoided. Especially in a marriage, the beauty is found in confronting stress and overcoming it together. I took a new approach to stress after reading Discipline Equals Freedom by Jocko Willink. That perspective shift benefitted me most in my marriage and helped my to become a better husband.

Ep. 69 - Integrity | Solo

Sun, 17 Dec 2023 21:12:28 +0000

After a couple different conversations with some old friends I was struck by the idea of integrity and one individuals relentless adherence to what was right. After asking my audience on Instagram what "Integrity" meant to them I wanted to sit down and discuss my thoughts on the matter.

One Flesh - Ep. 38 DETACH | Solo

Thu, 14 Dec 2023 01:41:59 +0000

It's Tuesday and you just had an awful day at work. Flat tire on the way home, check engine light is on. You walk in the house and your wife is already mad about something, who knows what. Your phone dings.... overdraft..... again.... 3rd time in two months. You feel your chest get hot, you start to throw your things down a little harder than usual. She walks by and has the audacity to ask you why you were home SO late.... Fight starts in 3.... 2.....

If you are married I know you know what I am talking about. You've been there time and time again. Every time it's a 3 hour yelling match with at least a 3 day silent treatment and NO progress.

Next time... when you start to throw your keys down, or your chest gets tight.... Stop. Step Back. Head Up. Deep Breath. DETACH.....

Ep. 68 - Realistic Rhythm | Solo

Sun, 10 Dec 2023 22:45:08 +0000

Continuing the conversation on rhythm, turning from a marital point of view to approaching rhythm through a lens of goals and priorities.

One Flesh - Ep. 37 Rhythm & Marriage

Thu, 07 Dec 2023 01:10:24 +0000

Many people try to achieve some perfect level of "balance" in their responsibilities. Be it work, school, wife, kids, fitness, etc... We always have to juggle responsibilities and perfect "balance" is a pipe dream. A far more achievable goal is rhythm. Establishing a routine, communicating effectively, and honoring your word goes a long way to quell the frustration and anger typically present when couples try and fail to create what they see as "balance".

Ep. 67 - Freedom = Discipline | Solo

Sun, 03 Dec 2023 19:37:57 +0000

Jocko Willink has changed countless lives using the phrase "Discipline Equals Freedom". It is his MO, his message, maybe even his identity. He has given speeches, dedicated podcasts, and written books about the phrase and the meaning behind it. However, I think it is grossly misinterpreted by most people who hear it. I myself have spent years using the phrase with the most ignorant interpretation possible. This morning I finally understood the true meaning behind that phrase.

One Flesh - Ep. 36 A Disciplined Marriage | Solo

Thu, 30 Nov 2023 01:54:04 +0000

An episode highlighting the magnificent results of hard work, the amazing efforts of my wonderful Wife DeEllen, and the importance of exercising Jocko-Level discipline in your marriage.

Ep. 66 - Stewards of the Truth | Solo

Sun, 26 Nov 2023 20:38:51 +0000

A big turning point in my life occurred when I began to view myself as a steward of the Truth. Being a good steward of the Truth requires not only a relentless search for what is True but also a keen awareness for how you share that Truth with those around you. Building good relationships and being a good example are fundamental aspects of finding, holding, and sharing Truth.

One Flesh - Ep. 35 Internet Marriage Advice Pt. 2

Thu, 23 Nov 2023 01:04:07 +0000

I hop on the internet again to review and provide color commentary on random marriage advice. This time the article focuses on couples that have been together for 25+ years. There's a lot of good info in here I agree with and of course, some that I don't!

Reference Article by Fatherly:

https://www.fatherly.com/life/marriage-advice-from-couples-married-25-plus-years

Ep. 65 - Fear of Failure | Solo

Sun, 19 Nov 2023 21:38:13 +0000

Short little episode about defining failure and using the fear of failure as motivation

One Flesh Ep. 34 - Cover and Move | Solo

Thu, 16 Nov 2023 02:29:18 +0000

Short little episode about Jocko's first Law of Combat "Cover and Move" and how you can apply that to your marriage.

Ep. 64 - Separation Season | Solo

Sun, 12 Nov 2023 22:41:31 +0000

I talk a little bit about the mentality of "Separation Season". Separation Season is a phrase used by many high performers to describe the time of the year that most people lay off the gas or even put it in reverse. I apply this mentality to fitness, work and financial goals and give you an insight to how I take advantage of Separation Season in my own life.

We also turn back to Jocko Willink's "Discipline Equals Freedom" for a few thoughts that help me take full advantage of Separation Season.

One Flesh Ep. 33 - Internet Marriage Advice | Solo

Thu, 09 Nov 2023 01:57:07 +0000

I pull up a random Buzzfeed article about getting married young and give you my thoughts on each piece of advice. Some of them were really good! The others... well just listen for yourself!

Link to the Buzzfeed article: https://www.buzzfeed.com/amatullahshaw/young-married-couples

Ep. 63 - No. More. | Solo

Sun, 05 Nov 2023 22:28:21 +0000

Jocko Willink's book "Discipline Equals Freedom" delivers concise and poignant thoughts from a winning mindset. Resembling Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, the book has helped so many people change their lives through small thoughts and monologues touching real life situations we all experience. I personally have used Discipline Equals Freedom to overhaul my mindset and unlock my potential in ways I never could have imagined.

In this episode I cover two of these thoughts and how I have leveraged them in specific situations.

One Flesh Ep. 32 - Lose Yourself, Find Love | Solo

Thu, 02 Nov 2023 00:45:15 +0000

Solo episode about the necessity of leaving parts of yourself behind and coming together as one with your wife. I cover the three reasons why I think people push off marriage, some examples of ways you may have to sacrifice, and I make the argument for getting married sooner rather than later.

Ep. 62 - Stacking Wins | Solo

Sun, 29 Oct 2023 20:47:43 +0000

After a whole day of doing manual labor, which I never do, I came away with some critical thoughts about achieving large goals and the seemingly impossible task of turning chaos into order.

One Flesh Ep. 31 - Mr. & Mrs. Hoss Rauscher

Thu, 26 Oct 2023 00:50:02 +0000

In this episode I discuss the importance of truly becoming One Flesh, a sovereign unit inside a social and familial network. Holidays, finances, big life events, children; these are all areas that are highly subject to influence from outside parties for young couples and can be very hard on a young marriage. It is crucial to establish boundaries and declare yourselves independent of the outside family and social structures you were in before the marriage. This does not mean leaving those structures behind or turning away from your family, but simply changing the dynamic. There is no longer just "Hoss Rauscher" at the Rauscher Family Christmas. It is now "Mr. & Mrs. Hoss Rauscher". Establishing that difference and declaring your own identity with your spouse is key to the success of a long and happy marriage.

Ep. 61 - Serve & Be Served | Solo

Sun, 22 Oct 2023 21:15:45 +0000

Many understand the broad concept of service especially in the extremes. Most people instantly think about the military, first responders, missions, etc.. They may think about the transactional "service" like customer service, waiting, and professional services. Most people fail to recognize the societal economy of service we live in. Think about that time you did someone a favor, or gave someone a gift, made them dinner. This episode is all about that type of service. Small acts that allow people to become invested in the lives of others. I am absolutely not an expert here, and I've made many mistakes in this area. However, I have had a lot of realizations over the past few years that have helped me greatly improve my relationships and live a much happier life in general.

One Flesh Ep. 30 - Accountability Culture | Solo

Thu, 19 Oct 2023 00:48:05 +0000

I talk a lot about holding high standards in your marriage. However, those standards are worth nothing if you cannot hold yourself and your wife both to that standard. Building that culture of accountability inside your marriage is incredibly difficult and not something that should be overlooked. In this episode I reiterate the reasoning behind holding both your wife and yourself to those standards, the importance of backing those standards with an accountability culture, and I share a story about the rewards of doing both in my marriage.

Ep. 60 - Yes or No #3 | Solo

Sun, 15 Oct 2023 21:48:44 +0000

I discuss 3 different topics from cards in the Yes or No game from The Micheal Knowles Show. I touch on politics, habits, and the impacts of Trump on the Republican party. This game is designed to help you discuss political and cultural topics with your friends and is a great party game for people who like good and deep conversations.

One Flesh Ep. 29 - When the Goin' Gets Tough

Thu, 12 Oct 2023 00:32:19 +0000

Every once in a while we all have to "Get After It" in the words of Jocko Willink. Those busy seasons can get incredibly frustrating for couples and can often act like a negative feedback loop. More busy, more frustration, less time spent together, more frustration.

In this episode I lay out a few tips that have helped me make the busy times easier on my marriage and more worth while.

Ep. 59 - College 101 | Solo

Sun, 08 Oct 2023 21:17:29 +0000

College has been a common point of conversation for a few different people around me the past few weeks, so I decided I would share my thoughts on the matter. I did some things right, I did some things wrong, and I studied the decisions and results of a lot of different peers who struggled. I also talk about the transition from college to work and what helped me. This advice is strictly my opinion and experience, it's worth exactly what you are paying for it, but I really hope it helps!

One Flesh Ep. 28 - Give All

Wed, 04 Oct 2023 23:50:31 +0000

Little solo episode about the importance of giving all you have when you get married. All the good and bad. Making yourself vulnerable is the only way to truly grow a fruitful marriage and it's impossible if you are holding back the slightest bit of yourself.

I also talk about the importance of giving grace when standards are not kept. Grace and high standards truly go hand in hand, it's important to apply them both with a prudent and just hand.

Ep. 58 - Faith & Friends | Joshie Ruiz

Sun, 01 Oct 2023 13:00:00 +0000

My new friend Joshie and I sit down to discuss his Purpose. We talk Espresso, bourbon, high standards, and giving Glory to Him.

This episode is dedicated to Joshie's friend John and his brother in-law "Ankle Showin Andrew"

One Flesh Ep. 27 - Advocate & Ally | Solo

Thu, 28 Sep 2023 00:29:19 +0000

As husbands we are called to be our wives' largest advocate and best ally. That's no easy task and often it takes persistence. In this episode I talk about the times when taking a stand for your wife is necessary and what to do when that stand is against people she loves, jobs she enjoys, and even against her. It's not easy, but it's your responsibility, and you must persist.

Ep. 57 - Purpose in Pursuit | Forrest Cooper REDACTED

Sun, 24 Sep 2023 18:50:35 +0000

Forrest Cooper, creator of the REDACTED Culture Cast joins us to re-state and expand upon his Purpose. We talk about Liberty safes, the hubris of Man, and strategies for reading The Word.

One Flesh Ep. 26 - The Right Person | Solo

Wed, 20 Sep 2023 12:00:00 +0000

How important is it to find "The Right Person"? Does "The Right Person" even exist? Will they always be "The Right Person"? I share my thoughts about the necessity of focusing on the commitment of marriage vs the qualities of the person your are marrying. It's a tough balance and not something to be taken lightly.

Ep. 56 - The Man In The Glass | Wil Willis

Sun, 17 Sep 2023 16:15:27 +0000

Wil Willis joins The Purpose Podcast to share his Purpose and how it has changed many times throughout his life. We focus in on Integrity and holding standards both internal and external. Wil talks about some of his failures as a father and his mission to rectify those moving forward.

As always this was a great episode and I could not be more appreciative of Wil for taking the time to be on the show!

One Flesh Ep. 25 - Do You Got It Like That? | Solo

Thu, 14 Sep 2023 01:58:01 +0000

I hear it time and time again "If I ever said anything like that to my wife I'd be dead"... "I'd end up on the couch".... "She wouldn't speak to me for a week"....

It's unacceptable. As leaders of our families we are called to influence and better our wives and kids alike. In this episode I cover what I think are the steps to building the level of influence with your wife most husbands never have and frankly, never earn.

Step 1: Set the kind of standard for yourself that is worthy of influential respect.

Listen to the rest in One Flesh Ep. 25...

Ep. 55 - Why I Quit Crossfit | Solo

Sun, 10 Sep 2023 20:30:56 +0000

I address the controversy and tell all about why I left Crossfit....

One Flesh Ep. 24 - 3 Must Haves | Solo

Thu, 07 Sep 2023 00:13:00 +0000

Quick discussion about the 3 must-have qualities of a good husband.

Ep. 54 - Year in Review | Jonah Trahan

Sun, 03 Sep 2023 18:57:18 +0000

365 days after the very first episode of The Purpose Podcast, Jonah Trahan returns. Jonah and I cuss, discuss, and laugh a ton while catching up.

One Flesh Ep. 23 - Baby Rauscher | Solo

Thu, 31 Aug 2023 00:08:29 +0000

I am extremely happy to announce that my wife DeEllen and I are expecting a baby in March 2024! I am no doubt ready for the joys, challenges, and excitements that will inevitably come with the new life we have made. In this episode I talk about the importance of holding a standard and my resistance to statements like "Everything changes" and "I said that too". I also try to explain WHY I am such a big fan of marriage and the benefits I think it brings.

Ep. 53 - Laymon's Terms | Laymon Durbin @ban0div

Sun, 27 Aug 2023 14:00:00 +0000

Laymon Durbin from "The Boys" shares his Purpose along with a tough story that highlights the importance of his faith and trust in Christ.

Go follow Laymon on Instagram @ban0div

Follow me on Instagram @The_Purposepodcast

One Flesh Ep. 22 - A Christ Centered Covenant | Mikey @Sing_Your_Warsong

Wed, 23 Aug 2023 22:56:49 +0000

Mikey and I sit down to discuss his marriage story and his relationship with Christ in the marriage. We discuss some hard hitting questions like

"Why should Christ be the center of your marriage?"

"Are there ever any grounds for divorce?"

"If so what are they?"

"How do you raise your kids in the Faith without over-sheltering?"

"Homeschool vs public school"

Follow Mikey on Instagram @Sing_Your_Warsong

Follow me @The_PurposePodcast

Ep. 52 - Art in Argument | Solo

Sun, 20 Aug 2023 20:33:12 +0000

This episode focuses on one of the very few things that I am very good at: Arguing. Most importantly I discuss the factors necessary in making an argument or discussion productive.

One Flesh Ep. 21 - Don't Ignore The Dragon | Solo

Thu, 17 Aug 2023 00:20:07 +0000

Is it "worth the fight".... if you even have to ask, then the answer is probably YES. In this episode I talk about my successes and failures in toeing the line between letting it go and bringing it up as well as some expert advice from 12 Rules For Life by Jordan Peterson.

Ep. 51 - Do It Anyway | Solo

Sun, 13 Aug 2023 20:14:29 +0000

Quick little episode about putting your head down and using discipline to do the thing that you just don't wanna do.

One Flesh Ep. 20 - Wedding Do's & Dont's | Solo

Thu, 10 Aug 2023 01:25:02 +0000

I give you guys my best wedding advice from deciding when to get married all the way to the reception. Go follow me on Instagram @the_purposepodcast and let me know what you think!

Ep. 50 - Yes or No #2 | Solo

Sun, 06 Aug 2023 20:48:52 +0000

I discuss 3 different topics from cards in the Yes or No game from The Micheal Knowles Show. I touch on Debt, Liberty, and College. This game is designed to help you discuss political and cultural topics with your friends and is a great party game for people who like good and deep conversations.

One Flesh Ep. 19 - Clyde Settled Down (Married Up) | Clyde Pratt

Thu, 03 Aug 2023 01:47:34 +0000

Clyde joins the One Flesh Podcast to talk about his wonderful wife Emily and all the ways she has him a better person. He shares funny stories about his wedding and the first date as well as opening up about a previous relationship that went south.

Ep. 49 - To Be An Example | Alex / The Leaderless Gentlemen

Sun, 30 Jul 2023 13:00:00 +0000

Alex with The Leaderless Gentlemen joins me to tell his story and share his Purpose. We talk all things life, lifting, and leadership.

One Flesh Ep. 18 - Random Advice 2.0

Wed, 26 Jul 2023 23:00:00 +0000

I take on popular pieces of marriage advice and discuss my thoughts on them. However, instead of asking around the office I go straight to you, the listeners, and review your feedback from Instagram. I really enjoy this format and it is definitely something I'll do again!

Ep. 48 - Trevyn Don't Listen to This One | Clyde Pratt

Sun, 23 Jul 2023 12:00:00 +0000

Clyde and I have a good time discussing his Purpose of helping people by utilizing the outdoors. We talk about the meaning of Purpose, Clyde's job as a life skills teacher, and his weight loss. This was a really fun episode and I hope you all enjoy it as well.

One Flesh Ep. 17 - Random Advice | Solo

Wed, 19 Jul 2023 12:00:00 +0000

A couple weeks ago I asked all of my married coworkers in the office what their best piece of marriage advice was. I share those tips with you along with my thoughts about each piece

Ep. 47 - A Purpose of Truth

Sun, 16 Jul 2023 13:00:00 +0000

Aaron Ginn is a young Tech entrepreneur well known in the area of Growth Hacking. He has built 4 different tech companies and recently found himself at the forefront of the Anti-Lockdown movement during the COVID-19 fiasco. However, he is now making a name for himself through his Substack dedicated to masculinity. Aaron and I sit down to discuss the what and how of masculinity. Aaron, a passionate Christian, lays out a road map for men not rooted in worldly buzzwords and facades, but in biblical teachings and principles.

One Flesh Ep. 16 - California Love | Blake Flannery

Wed, 12 Jul 2023 12:00:00 +0000

Marine Recondo Blake Flannery joins One Flesh to share truly a silver-screen worthy story The two met at the Marine recruiting office and after a little bit of Tupac they began a 12 year long journey that would end up in a fruitful marriage. Blake talks about the challenges and success of being a step-dad and balancing the roles in a mixed family. He also touches on arguably the most important skill a married man can have: Communication.

Ep. 46 - The Boats | Solo

Sun, 09 Jul 2023 20:48:06 +0000

Do you have that one guy you can count on to push you when you need it? Brett and I talk at least 5 days a week, and when we get together in person, work gets done. This episode focuses on the importance of having the guy that will push you to be better 24/7, the guy that won't let you make excuses, the guy that will know if you aren't giving 100%. Find that guy, and do the same for him.

Much Love, Brett. Stay Hard.

One Flesh Ep. 15 - Cold Showers Will Save Your Marriage | Solo

Thu, 06 Jul 2023 01:02:15 +0000

Yep, you read that right. Cold showers will absolutely save your marriage. If you are anything like me, controlling certain emotions is difficult. Doing so is even more difficult when it comes to my marriage... I feed off of DeEllen's energy and it often causes far more discomfort in our marriage than it should. This episode is all about me finally making the connection between my cold shower training and my marriage. I am now in control of the way I react... not her and definitely not the angry little man in my head. Me.

Less petty fights, more rational conversations, more happy marriage!

Ep. 45 - A Smile That Testifies | Max Mankin

Sun, 02 Jul 2023 13:00:00 +0000

A good friend of mine joins us to discuss his purpose and share his thoughts on the importance of a smile.

One Flesh Ep. 14 - Q&A | Solo

Wed, 28 Jun 2023 13:00:00 +0000

What do you do when your wife is being irrational? Maybe you are being irrational... What if both of you are just having a hard time getting it together?

What challenges did I expect before getting married? Were they real?

Communication about any topic in a marriage is difficult, but what are the hardest topics?

Check out the answers to these questions in the very first One Flesh Q&A episode!

Ep. 44 - Day One | Solo

Sun, 25 Jun 2023 20:35:21 +0000

Solo talk about the struggle to get a routine started and the importance of developing a "Day One Mentality".

One Flesh Ep. 13 - 11 Things I Love About My Wife | Solo

Thu, 22 Jun 2023 00:26:14 +0000

Short little episode discussing some of the things I love about my lovely wife, DeEllen.

Ep. 43 - Passion & Purpose | Chapman Lake Knives

Sun, 18 Jun 2023 14:00:00 +0000

Ross and Brock Hardisty of Chapman Lake Knives join me to share their Purpose and talk knives. Their story is inspiring and one you definitely want to hear!

One Flesh Ep. 12 - As a Team | Solo

Wed, 14 Jun 2023 23:53:16 +0000

Just a little talk about the importance of social functions and how to handle them with your wife.

Ep. 42 - Convicted & Capable | Forrest Cooper Redacted

Sun, 11 Jun 2023 14:00:00 +0000

Forrest Cooper from the Redacted Culture Cast joins us to discuss his Purpose. We dive DEEP into what defines a Purpose, the importance of Purpose, and how to balance reading and touching grass.

One Flesh Ep. 11 - 80/20 | Solo

Thu, 08 Jun 2023 00:40:53 +0000

Just a short little Solo conversation about how, why, and when you should pick up the 80%.

Ep. 41 - Purpose Built | Jake Knight Gridbase

Sun, 04 Jun 2023 13:00:00 +0000

Jake and I sit down for an impromptu conversation about his purpose and his brainchild Gridbase. Jake believes in challenging people to be free thinkers and leaders, something he does well. We talk about being purpose-built without getting blinders on and we nerd out on his self-reliant tech called Gridbase. Check out the episode and let me know what you think!

One Flesh Ep. 10 - The Benefits of Marriage | Solo

Wed, 31 May 2023 22:30:50 +0000

As I struggle to find words and use them, I attempt to discuss the benefits of Marriage, which I believe to be invaluable. While I know there are more benefits than I could ever record a single episode, I focus on four that I personally think are the most prominent: children, solving problems, it's hard, and being truly selfish. Listen to the whole episode and let me know what you think!

Ep. 40 - Coffee and a Smile | AJ Kazmierczak

Sun, 28 May 2023 14:00:00 +0000

The Coffee Viking returns to The Purpose Podcast to update us on his never-ending grind. One of the busiest people I know, he shares how he makes sure he is effective, not just busy. While his business is taking off his personal life is about to get crazy with baby Kazz due this summer. Tune in to hear his plan to manage the chaos and keep the hammer down!

One Flesh Ep. 9 - Wealth & Poverty | Clint Walker

Wed, 24 May 2023 14:00:00 +0000

Repeat guest Clint Walker joins us on the One Flesh Podcast to discuss finances in marriage. Making money, spending money, and managing; we cover it all.

"The two great tests of character are wealth and poverty"- Charles A. Beard

Ep. 39 - Those Who Do | Jared Arceneaux OTG

Sun, 21 May 2023 14:00:00 +0000

Jared from Orion Training Group shares his purpose along with an awesome story about how he found it. We discuss change and the necessity of it as well as that itch every man gets when they aren't fulfilling their purpose.

Jared truly is one of the most thoughtful and well-read guys I've met and it makes this episode worth every second.

Thanks for listening, tune in to the next one!

One Flesh Ep.8 - The Golden Rule | Solo

Thu, 18 May 2023 01:07:20 +0000

Just a little rambling about the importance of holding a standard and treating your wife the way you want, and need, to be treated.

Ep. 38 - I was Wrong | Solo

Sun, 14 May 2023 20:28:55 +0000

This Sunday I cover my thoughts on sharing opinions and unsolicited advice. It is absolutely crucial to make sure that your opinions can stand on their own two feet, and that you don't let your ego get in the way of someone trying to help. I also talk about a couple of things that I have completely gotten wrong like sex and living together before marriage.

Check it out and let me know what you think!

One Flesh Ep. 7 - Those Who Wait | Jacob Osborn

Wed, 10 May 2023 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode, I sit down with my friend Jacob Osborn to discuss dating and his recent marriage to his wife Tiffany. Taking the road less traveled in their relationship, Jacob had some unique insight into the value of sex and the emotional connection between a man and his wife.

I was super excited to have Jacob on and I hope you all tune in!

Ep. 37 - Hard Work and High Standards | Jerad Neeve

Sun, 07 May 2023 14:00:00 +0000

Jerad Neeve from the YouTube channel Neeves Knives sits down with me to discuss his purpose and share his story. After living a life of crime and addiction Jerad lost everything... everything except his high standard for hard work. After getting through withdrawals and deciding to never go back, Jerad worked his ass off to build Neeves Knives, a YouTube channel that centers around his passion for pocket knives. He now creates videos and sharpens knives full-time. I've watched Jerad for years on YouTube and it was an honor to have him on. Go check out his channel and show him some support!

One Flesh Ep. 6 - Scott & Eli Are Smarter Than Me | Solo

Wed, 03 May 2023 22:37:45 +0000

This episode is all about how I am the Silliest Goose and how discipline in a relationship is the ultimate path to a better love.

Ep. 36 - Yes or No #1 | Solo

Sun, 30 Apr 2023 20:48:07 +0000

In a fun new segment, I discuss 3 different topics from cards in the Yes or No game from The Micheal Knowles Show. This game is designed to help you discuss political and cultural topics with your friends and is a great party game for people who like good and deep conversations.

One Flesh Ep. 5 - Show Her Your Why | Austin Reinold

Wed, 26 Apr 2023 14:00:00 +0000

Austin and I sit down to discuss marriage and why it is so crucial to share your hobbies with your wife.... and yes.... join in on her hobbies as well!

Ep. 35 - Simplifying Success | Solo

Sun, 23 Apr 2023 19:56:53 +0000

Short little solo episode about building a good community of men and establishing markers for success early on in your goals.

One Flesh Ep. 4 - Chaos | Clint Walker

Wed, 19 Apr 2023 14:00:00 +0000

Clint Walker Joins us again, this time on the One Flesh series. He gives us all the dos, don'ts, and jokes associated with mitigating chaos in an effort to create and maintain a happy marriage.

Ep. 34 - Whatever It Takes | Solo

Sun, 16 Apr 2023 20:02:22 +0000

Short little episode about doing whatever it takes to Get. It. Done.

One Flesh Ep. 3 - Tough Talkin' | Solo

Wed, 12 Apr 2023 23:38:32 +0000

Hard Conversations. Have them. Discuss married people topics with your girlfriend. Talk about the real things. Religion, Money, Health and Fitness, etc... Make sure you and your girlfriend know where each other are at and know what they believe. Have a plan for the finances. Talk about what you want to do when you have kids.

When it's time to make tough decisions approach those decisions as if you are married... You will be soon enough! That $40k 72mo car note for a busted ass Camaro will be your problem eventually, make sure that you and her approach decisions like that together as if you are married. Because you will be. When you are married, that independent decision either you or she made a year ago will put tension in your marriage... not good!

Ep. 33 - Raising the Bar | Solo

Sun, 09 Apr 2023 20:49:35 +0000

In this short episode, I give my thoughts on raising the bar and how to keep the standard you set for yourself.

One Flesh Ep. 2 - Friends for Her | Solo

Wed, 05 Apr 2023 23:47:48 +0000

I sit down and give my thoughts on finding a community that supports your wife. As a man, it is your responsibility to make sure that you not only have men that support you but that your wife is able to have that support system as well. Get out of your comfort zone and find a community that has women who will support your wife. Your marriage and wife will thank you.

Obviously, every relationship is different, and you may not be the social butterfly of the two, but it is still your responsibility to make sure that your wife is surrounded by the right women and the kind of women that understand her. Don't leave her on an island with you being the only lifeboat.

Ep. 32 - Aggressive Patience | Solo

Sun, 02 Apr 2023 21:37:56 +0000

I answer some Q&A and discuss the idea of Aggresive Patience

One Flesh Ep. 1 - Promises Made. Promises Kept. | Solo

Wed, 29 Mar 2023 23:42:25 +0000

We have a YUGE announcement! Your Wednesday episodes will no longer be the Book Club, we are starting a new series called One Flesh. I am incredibly excited to start One Flesh and I am really looking forward to the impact I think it is going to have.

What is One Flesh you ask? Listen to the episode and find out!

Also, what do you think about the new Logo?? Let us know on Instagram! @The_PurposePodcast

Ep. 31 - Progressive Overload | Solo Episode

Sun, 26 Mar 2023 19:24:03 +0000

After a pretty rough two weeks, the phrase "when it rains it pours" came to mind. After reaching out to my friend Jonah he reminded me of "Progressive Overload", the process of putting more weight on the bar than you are comfortable lifting, and then lifting it anyway... No this doesn't just apply in a gym setting. God will throw more weight on the bar, and I discuss how to handle that.

Thanks for listening and I hope you enjoy!

The Purpose Book Club | Blood Meridian Ep. 4 The Dance Chapters 19-23

Thu, 23 Mar 2023 00:27:10 +0000

As I conclude the last section of Blood Meridian I discuss the dance between man and evil. I cover the final scenes of the Glanton Gang and the final scenes of The Kid at the hand of the Judge. I ask you and myself a lot of questions, which is exactly where I think the value is to be found in books like this one. I hope that you enjoy it!

Ep. 30 - Just One Purpose | Austin Reinold Just One Outdoors

Sun, 19 Mar 2023 17:00:00 +0000

I sit down with Austin Reinold from the Just One Outdoors Podcast where they celebrate the outdoors through the lens of divine creation. We get nerdy about hunting, talk about supporting our brothers, and discuss his purpose of serving God.

The Purpose Book Club | Blood Meridian Ep. 3 Stones and Trees Chapters 7-19

Thu, 16 Mar 2023 00:47:09 +0000

In this episode, I cover chapters 7-19 of Blood Meridian by Cormac McCarthy. This is the longest section of the book and presents quite a few questions about good, evil, war, and life. We also get to see the character development of Judge Holden and Tobin. The Kid moves in and out of this space only serving to the development of Judge Holden. I hypothesize (not well) the relationship between the three and what we can take from it. I also talk about a tale of fathers and the generational passing down of failure. I hope you enjoy this episode and catch me next Wednesday for section three!

Ep. 29 - Family and Failure | Clint Walker

Sun, 12 Mar 2023 20:19:38 +0000

Clint is a Husband, Father, and Entrepreneur who has built a fruitful and fulfilling life. He shares with us his stories of battling through failure to succeed and describes what exactly it's like to watch your own children fail. Clint is a family man and a great role model if you might be in need of one.

Lastly, I want to thank Clint for his patience and understanding with the technical difficulties I had on this episode. He gave me a ton of grace and more importantly his time to finish the podcast.

The Purpose Book Club - Blood Meridian Ep. 2 Death Hilarious Chap 1-7

Thu, 09 Mar 2023 02:55:39 +0000

I cover the first section of Blood Meridian by Cormac McCarthy. This section follows "The Kid" from Tennessee to a jail in Mexico. Along the way, he meets a host of significant characters. The reader quickly encounters the senseless meanness of the Judge when he ruins a Reverend's service. We are ambushed with the uncomfortable hate of the time and forced to reckon with the idea that you can hat and appreciate a character at the same time. We see The Kid's first kill, a squabble over whiskey. Lastly, we encounter a brilliant depiction of massive violence when Comanches decimate the Filibusters. It's a jaw-dropping piece of literature and I try my best to do it justice.

Thank you for being a part of The Purpose Book Club! I hope you are enjoying your read of Blood Meridian and join me for episode 3... It's gonna be good!

Ep. 28 - Beating The Recon Curse | Ron Holmes

Sun, 05 Mar 2023 15:00:00 +0000

I sit down and talk with Ron Holmes, a retired Recon Marine Instructor, Father, and Husband. We discuss his time as a Marine, his bout with Testicular cancer, and leading a family. We also cover Ron's experience as a Vetrepenuar and his innovative new product, the Ryker grip.

Ron gave me an awesome interview and shared years worth of wisdom within this episode.

Please go check out Ron on Instagram @Instructorone

The Purpose Book Club | Blood Meridian Ep. 1 Intro

Thu, 02 Mar 2023 02:29:31 +0000

This is the introductory episode of Cormac McCarthy's Blood Meridan. I try to help the listener get into the right headspace to approach this magnificent and violent work of art. I describe the challenges with the book and provide an idea for the density of meaning by breaking down the first page. Lastly, I give my first and final warning to those that can't handle the discomfort that McCarthy's writing purposely delivers. I am super excited to review this book and I hope as a listener it helps you get the most out of your experience.

Ep. 27 - Brothers at Arms | Milspec Mojo

Sun, 26 Feb 2023 16:00:00 +0000

Milspec Mojo joins The Purpose Podcast to tell his story and share his purpose of saving lives. We dive deep into the necessity of strong male bonds and building a support system of men. Lastly, we cover the importance of finding something you enjoy to aid rehab and repairs, both physical and emotional.

The Purpose Book Club | Meditations Ep. 5 Books 8-12

Thu, 23 Feb 2023 00:57:50 +0000

I wrap up my review on Meditations by discussing a theme I found in books 8-12 that I think we can all relate to. At some point, I think we all get to a point when we aren't at peace with ourselves and it mostly has to do with not exercising discipline through a purpose. I cover Marcus' thoughts on the subject and his recommendations on how to pull yourself out of the funk and get after it.

The Purpose Book Club | Meditations Ep. 4 Book 7

Mon, 20 Feb 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Book 7 of Meditation. I give you the highlights of the chapter and relate the timeless wisdom of Marcus Aurelius to everyday life here in 2023.

Ep. 26 - One Flesh | Cade Carter

Sun, 19 Feb 2023 18:36:42 +0000

Cade and I ponder the essential union. The union of man and woman. We give a comprehensive guide on how to find a woman, how to date a woman, how to make the decision to marry that woman, and what it takes to make that marriage last a lifetime. This is by far one of my favorite episodes to date and something I think every man should hear. Give it a listen!

The Purpose Book Club | Meditations Ep. 3 Books 5-6

Thu, 16 Feb 2023 02:21:04 +0000

In this episode of The Purpose Book Club, I cover Book 5 and Book 6 of Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. I hit Purpose hard, cover the theme of Discipline, and talk a little bit about Humility.

Jockos "Good"

https://youtu.be/IdTMDpizis8

Ep. 25 - Priorities | Solo

Sun, 12 Feb 2023 18:22:18 +0000

I sit down alone this week to give you my thoughts on prioritizing your time. I personally hate the phrase "I don't have time". I share why I think that the phrase is detrimental and how it sabotages your goals. I also give you a few tips and tricks I learned from Dr. Andrew Huberman that help me stay awake and alert throughout the day. Thanks, guys and I hope y'all have a great week!

The Purpose Book Club | Meditations Ep. 2 Books 1-4

Thu, 09 Feb 2023 02:47:53 +0000

I explain my theory of how I approach Meditations and the way I am going to review it. I discuss Books 1-4 and cover the central themes of Purpose, Discipline, and "Good".

Ep. 24- Break The Ceiling | Red Beard Outdoors

Sun, 05 Feb 2023 23:36:58 +0000

I sit down with Johnathan from Red Beard Outdoors to discuss his purpose of helping people live happier, healthier, more successful lives by getting outside. Johnathan also tells the story of why he created his brand and what made him decide to take the leap into fulfilling his purpose.

You can find Johnathan and his work at the links below:

Insta:

@red.beard.outdoors

Facebook:

RedBeard's Fit Crew

1stphorm Outdoors

The Purpose Book Club | Meditations Ep.1 Intro / Leadership Strategy and Tactics Wrap Up

Thu, 02 Feb 2023 01:26:43 +0000

I do my best to wrap up Leadership Strategy and Tactics, then transition to Meditations. I discuss my approach to reading the book and my process to review it moving forward.

Ep. 23 - Thoughts | Solo

Sun, 29 Jan 2023 16:58:03 +0000

I wasn't able to get a guest on this week but I just sat down to talk to myself a little bit in hopes that you all can get something out of it. I discuss friendship, finding a passion, and keeping your foot on the gas pedal.

The Purpose Book Club | Leadership Strategy and Tactics Ep. 4

Thu, 26 Jan 2023 03:41:48 +0000

In this episode of The Purpose Book Club, I discuss "Because I Said So". One of the phrases leaders should never use. Jocko covers it well and I share real-life examples of how avoiding it can be of benefit.

Ep. 21 - The Truth of the Matter | Cade Carter

Sun, 22 Jan 2023 15:00:00 +0000

My friend Cade and I sit down to discuss his purpose. We stagger around it and end up contemplating truth and societal value structures. We do the best we can do to break down what makes society tick and hypothesize why it seems like ours ain't tickin' very well at the moment.

This has been one of my favorite episodes so far and I hope y'all enjoy it too! Thanks!

The Purpose Book Club | Leadership Strategy and Tactics Ep. 3

Thu, 19 Jan 2023 02:26:02 +0000

Got a quick one this Wednesday talking about Reflect and Diminish, a strategy used to handle emotional situations and gain leadership capital.

This is something that I am still very bad at, but I have gotten better and seen the awesome effects it can have when it goes right. Thanks, everyone, keep tuning in!

Ep. 21- Open Mind, Open Doors | A.J. Kazmierczak

Sun, 15 Jan 2023 18:10:59 +0000

I sit down with my friend A.J. Kazmierczak to discuss his purpose, the benefits of having an open mind, and how to utilize your open mind to build relationships. We also cuss and discuss bow hunting and life in general. This was a fantastic episode and it's safe to say a new friendship was made. Please go follow my guy A.J. on Instagram and show him some love!

Instagram- @The_Coffeeviking

The Purpose Book Club | Leadership Strategy and Tactics Ep. 2

Thu, 12 Jan 2023 02:14:42 +0000

In this episode of The Purpose Book Club, I discuss the section "Leading Peers" from Leadership Strategy and Tactics by Jocko Willink. I also elaborate on the future of the book club, what books we are going to read, how we are going to read them, and what to expect from my commentary.

Ep. 20 - Leading From the Front | Collin Cottrell

Sun, 08 Jan 2023 15:00:00 +0000

I sit down with Collin Cottrell to discuss his thoughts on purpose, leadership, and faith. Collin has built a life around creating High Caliber men through his passions for Christ and hunting. This was an awesome conversation and I look forward to having more like it with Collin in the future.

The Purpose Book Club | Leadership Strategy and Tactics Ep. 1

Thu, 05 Jan 2023 00:27:17 +0000

This episode of The Purpose Book Club focuses on "The Boss Wants All The Credit" Part 2 Chapter 3 Section E of Jocko Willinks' book Leadership Strategies and Tactics. We talk about what this chapter means to me and how you can implement the lessons learned into your life.

I also discuss the future of The Purpose Book Club and the motivations behind my decision to keep it going. Thanks, everyone, tune in next week!

Ep. 19 - Purpose in Poetry | James T. Nash

Sun, 01 Jan 2023 18:00:00 +0000

Today I sit down with James T. Nash from the 6 Ranch. James is an outfitter, veteran, and bonafide American cowboy. He comes to the podcast with a life full of valuable experience and an extraordinarily deep knowledge of American western literature. We dive into his thoughts on American literature, discuss his search for purpose, and ponder the values of the modern American cowboy. James speaks intentionally with calculated weight behind his words giving us an episode full of meaningful thoughts and ideas to ponder.

Please go follow James on Instagram and check out his podcast at the link below.

@6ranchpodcast

@6ranchoutfitters

https://open.spotify.com/show/7tmcZTrgyqzZxvBLvS8kYG?si=a84a1cba4d184dfd

The Purpose Book Club | The Comfort Crisis Ep. 4

Thu, 29 Dec 2022 03:24:02 +0000

This is our final episode on The Comfort Crisis. I cover the final section of the book and discuss the effects the book as a whole had on my life. I try to share some lessons learned from my Rucking experience and the direct benefits I've seen from getting uncomfortable daily.

Ep. 18 - Conversatin' on Christmas | Sam Pearson

Sun, 25 Dec 2022 18:00:00 +0000

Sam and I sit down with no aim, only to shoot the shit and enjoy each other's time. Despite our lack of purpose in this episode, we cover a wide variety of meaningful topics from Sam's new child, to our goals in 2023 and the impact that this podcast is having in the community. It's definitely worth a listen and we appreciate you joining us!

The Purpose Book Club | The Comfort Crisis Ep. 3 with Sam Pearson

Thu, 22 Dec 2022 02:21:30 +0000

I sit down with a long-time friend of the show Sam Pearson to discuss section 3 of The Comfort Crisis. We discuss nutrition, hunting ethics, and "Mitakpa" the Bhutanese ideology of impermanence.

Ep. 17 - Full Potential | Tyler Geiger

Sun, 18 Dec 2022 21:42:42 +0000

In this episode, I sit down with Tyler Geiger from the Montana Nocks podcast. Tyler and I explore a multitude of topics including his purpose, the foundations for a good marriage, and the importance of consistently doing hard things. Tyler was an awesome guest, and I personally enjoy listening to his show linked below, go give it a listen!

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/montana-nocks-podcast/id1589739377

The Purpose Book Club | The Comfort Crisis Ep. 2

Thu, 15 Dec 2022 00:12:01 +0000

Episode 2 of the series on the book The Comfort Crisis. I share my notes on loneliness, boredom, and getting out into nature.

Ep. 16 - Hands and Feet | Drew Perkins

Sun, 11 Dec 2022 17:58:51 +0000

Drew Perkins is the Executive Director of the High Plains Children's Home in Amarillo, Texas. High Plains has an amazing campus designed to serve children and special-needs adults in our community. They accomplish that under the leadership of Drew with a mission statement that wholly reflects the motivation of their leadership:

"TO EMBRACE THE CHARGE OF GUIDING THOSE IN OUR CARE TOWARDS CHRIST BY DEFENDING THEIR HEARTS AND INSTILLING IN THEM COURAGE TO BECOME AGENTS OF LOVE AND HOPE."

Drew sits down with us today to share his experiences and thoughts on how we as men can help struggling young men through Christ-like leadership.

To donate to or get involved with High Plains please follow the link below.

https://www.hpch.org/get-involved

The Purpose Book Club | The Comfort Crisis Ep. 1

Thu, 08 Dec 2022 02:14:47 +0000

This is the first episode of The Purpose Book Club covering The Comfort Crisis by Michael Easter. I cover my notes on the first 70 pages, I talk about comfort as an addiction, comfort creep, improving your baseline for discomfort, and why small communities are excellent.

Please share the show if you find value in it, and let me know what you'd like to read next!

Ep. 15 - Jocko's Laws of Combat | Brett Hart

Sun, 04 Dec 2022 22:23:20 +0000

In this episode, Brett Hart and I discuss Jocko's Laws of Combat, what they mean to us, and how we implement them into our daily lives both in our relationship and work life. We also answer some Q&A centering on values. What values do we want to improve in ourselves? If you had a daughter what values would you want to see in the man she marries?

Ep. 14 - Negotiation

Thu, 24 Nov 2022 21:40:25 +0000

Today I sit down and share my thoughts on negotiation in an effort to elaborate on my comments in Ep. 13. I discuss the difference between Compromise and Negotiation, how that works in a marriage, and how to keep negotiating in your career.

Thank you everyone for tuning in, have a great Thanksgiving, and come back next week!

Ep. 13 - No Room For Resolutions

Sun, 20 Nov 2022 18:58:56 +0000

Today I sit down, answer a couple of questions and discuss a topic brought to my attention by my good buddy Tanner. I discuss the balance between chasing money and staying put in a career and why should kids be given non-religious reasons to behave morally. Give this episode a listen and share it if you find value!

Ep. 12 - Visualization | Nick Shelton

Sun, 13 Nov 2022 20:04:58 +0000

I sat down with my friend and coach Nick Shelton to discuss visualization. We cover the what, why, when, and how in this comprehensive guide to visualizing and realizing your largest goals.

For more of Nick check out his Youtube channel at the link below

https://www.youtube.com/c/NickTShelton

Ep. 11 - I Won The Lottery

Sun, 06 Nov 2022 20:04:37 +0000

I start off with a little Q&A before I break the news about my big win. I discuss how to find your purpose, what makes a good leader, and how my perspective changed on a dime this week.

Ep. 10 - Get Married, Dudes | Sam Pearson

Sun, 30 Oct 2022 17:12:42 +0000

I sit down with my good friend Sam Pearson to discuss our marriages and share our experiences building relationships. Too many times people get into a relationship without proper thought and consideration for their end goal. We try to give young men practical advice to set themselves up for success when starting relationships.

Ep. 9 - Q&A 1 Solo Speakin' | Me, Myself, & I

Sun, 23 Oct 2022 19:07:26 +0000

Today I sit down on my own to answer your questions. First, I give y'all some thoughts about my struggles in staying motivated and how to "Get off the X". I answer the much-loved "Rapid" Fire questions, recount how I got exploited and taken advantage of in high school by my wife, and touch on some of the struggles plaguing our young men.

Thanks for tuning in!

Ep. 8 - Uncomfortable | Sam Pearson

Sun, 16 Oct 2022 17:00:00 +0000

My good friend Sam Pearson sits down to explore his purpose. We cover a wide array of topics, but mostly hone in on Sam's desire to get uncomfortable and seek adventure. Sam's unique perspective forces us to ask ourselves "where do we come from" and "where are we going".

This one is special and I am so thankful that Sam gave us his time. Thank you for listening!

Ep. 7 - Ownership, Service, Excellence | Nick Shelton

Sun, 09 Oct 2022 20:25:00 +0000

In this episode, I sit down with my friend and coach Nick Shelton. We talk about what it takes to help others achieve personal excellence and realize their potential. We cover fitness, diet, relationships, and much more. I have learned so much from Nick and I know you will too!

Also, check out his Youtube Channel for more of Nick! https://www.youtube.com/c/NickTShelton

Ep. 6 - Do You Even Deadlift Bro? | Dr. Chase Christy

Sun, 02 Oct 2022 17:00:00 +0000

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Chase Christy to contemplate a wide variety of topics ranging from the deadlift to college. Dr. Christy is a husband, an expecting father, and an excellent friend. I promise you don't want to miss this one!

Ep. 5 - Cashin' Checks & Crankin' Necks | Brett Hart Part 2

Sun, 25 Sep 2022 19:25:00 +0000

We sit down again with Brett Hart, this time to discuss the strategies and tactics we both use to move forward in our athletic, career, and personal development endeavors. We go into detail on Brett's Live Hard experience and we ponder the question on every young man's brain; college or no college? Come listen to Brett share wisdom far beyond his physical years.

Ep. 4 - Faith, Family, Fitness | Jon Larsen

Sun, 18 Sep 2022 16:20:00 +0000

In this episode, we sit down with Jon Larsen and discuss the intricacies of family life, fitness, and dating as an adult. Our discussion is jam-packed with seasoned wisdom and unique lessons learned that you can only hear from a man as devoted to his purpose as Jon. You don't want to miss it!

Ep. 3 - Breakin' Rules & Chokin' Fools | Brett Hart Part 1

Sun, 11 Sep 2022 19:56:56 +0000

In this episode, we sit down with Brett Hart and go deep. We explore his relationship with his stepdad, his path to confidence, and of course his love for choking grown men.

Come back for Part 2 next Sunday!

Ep. 2 - Finding Freedom in Fault

Sun, 04 Sep 2022 17:18:33 +0000

In this episode, I explore the idea that freedom can be found by accepting fault in yourself.

Please let me know on Facebook or Instagram if you have any suggestions, or you can email me at the.purpose.podcast.22@gmail.com

Ep. 1 - Unlikely Friends | Jonah Trahan

Sun, 28 Aug 2022 20:08:49 +0000

My good friend Jonah and I sit down and work out a game plan on how to build relationships and make unlikely friends. We explore topics like leadership, confidence, and our purpose as Men.