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Remixing Wedding Traditions

Fri, 07 Oct 2022 12:00:00 +0000

BIG NEWS! Chris & Lara have officially launched their podcast Filter Free! They will be talking about all things marriage/relationships, business, and parenting on their show. Be sure to subscribe and leave a review!

Filter Free On ITunes: https://apple.co/3MsRZAJ

Filter Free On Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3CHazBP

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Wedding Videos Are More Memorable Than Wedding Photos + Using Disposable Cameras At Your Wedding

Fri, 30 Sep 2022 18:00:00 +0000

In today's episode, Ashley and Chris shoot the shit at the beginning of the episode and talk about how Ashley is a farmer now!

The rest of the episode is spent chatting about how important hiring a videographer is, pro tips on having disposable cameras at your wedding, and a new idea Chris has that he thinks could be the newest trend with detail photos!

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Getting Ghosted By Vendors & Bridal Detail Photos

Fri, 23 Sep 2022 18:47:01 +0000

In today's episode, Ashley talks about one of her favorite parts of the wedding she photographed last week. This convo leads us down a rabbit trail of talking about photographing bridal details. Chris shares about an experience one of his brides is having with a vendor not getting back to her for 3 weeks and we get on the topic of how to handle a vendor not getting back in touch with you!

Ashley's LA Wedding & The Future of The Podcast

Fri, 16 Sep 2022 12:00:00 +0000

This episode has 2 parts to it! In the intro, we have a conversation about the future of the podcast (we almost called it quits this week yall) and some format changes that are coming. The second part of the episode is us two catching up since we haven't really chatted in a few weeks! We talk about a few random (but entertaining) things and Ashley shares some fun things she saw at the wedding she photographed in LA!

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Why Being Honest About Your Budget Matters W/ Ashley Labus & Aharon Hoopes of The Collective

Fri, 02 Sep 2022 17:45:00 +0000

Brides. It's time for a heart-to-heart about being honest about your budget. Today we are joined by Ashley Labus & Aharon Hoopes of The Collective! These two wedding planners are wedding pros who we are honored to have on the show today. Ashley and Aharon are passionate about couples focusing on what truly matters on your wedding day; your marriage. We chat about wedding day budgets, why it's important to be honest about your budget, and intention vs. expectation.

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Your Budget BFF - Caitlin Earle

Fri, 26 Aug 2022 15:30:00 +0000

Today we are joined by financial coach Caitlin Earle to talk about all things budgeting! We don't know about you guys, but talking about budgeting has always felt like a buzzkill. That is 100% NOT the case in this episode! Caitlin is passionate about helping people create simple and FUN budgets that they love resisting every week! This episode is 100% applicable to anyone who has to manage their own money *cough* everyone *cough*.

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Budgeting Program: https://yourbudgetbff.com/group-budgeting-program

$100 off the group program with code BRIDALBFF

Website: https://yourbudgetbff.com/

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https://www.tiktok.com/@meghanmilesnyc

The Type A Bride & Tik-Tok Sensation Meghan Miles

Fri, 19 Aug 2022 22:00:00 +0000

We are SO excited to welcome Meghan Miles to the show! Meghan creates highly entertaining AND relatable content on Tik-Tok for planning brides! This episode is both entertaining and insightful as Meghan talks about her journey as a planning bride in today's wedding industry climate. She also gives us a peak at some of the intentional choices she made for her wedding day!

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https://www.instagram.com/meghanmilesnyc/

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Wedding Stationery Is Romantic AF w/Kate Oxler Eilert of Ox Ink

Fri, 05 Aug 2022 15:40:00 +0000

Did you know that your wedding invites +stationary can be full of intention and actually help support your wedding why? We are joined by Kate Oxler Eilert of Ox Ink to chat all things stationery! Y'all. This episode is full of SO MUCH HEART! Kate left us inspired and finding a more profound love for the printables and signage that you have on your wedding day! Take out your note pads and prepare to be filled with inspiration!

Ox Ink Website: https://www.ox-ink.com/

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I Wish Someone Would Have Told Me That...

Fri, 29 Jul 2022 23:50:00 +0000

On today's episode we are joined by Ashley's business partner Ashley Knolla! We are bringing you 13 pieces of advice for your wedding day that you most likely have never heard. These pieces of advice were inspired by real conversations that we have had with brides and will serve you well to mentally prepare for on your wedding day. We hope you enjoy this episode and find it not only helpful, but entertaining as well!

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How Long Do I Need A Wedding Photographer On My Wedding Day?

Fri, 22 Jul 2022 10:30:00 +0000

We are bringing you ALLLLLLLL of the wedding photographer insider knowledge with today's topic! We will be doing an in-depth breakdown on how to know what amount of wedding day coverage is best for you when you are picking a package with your photographer. Many people often jump at the cheapest package option and make do with whatever amount of coverage they can afford instead of choosing the right amount of coverage for their big day. We got your back and are going to share all of our tips to help ensure that you get what you need for your wedding day!

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Leveling Up Your Wedding Day Mindset

Mon, 18 Jul 2022 20:55:07 +0000

It can be SO hard to keep your mindset in a healthy space during wedding planning and on your wedding day. After all, there are THOUSANDS of what ifs that are pin-balling around in your head! In today's episode we are going to talk about leveling up your mindset by implementing affirmations into your life! A big part of this process actually starts with understanding what negative mindset you might have that needs to be leveled up. Tune in to this episode for all of the wedding mindset encouragement!

Affirmations From The Episode

I have faith that everything will happen at the exact time and in the exact way that it is meant to happen.
I am calm, patient, and in control of my emotions
I choose hope over fear
I will search for the good that comes in bad situations
I can easily go with the flow when it comes to our wedding.
I am worthy of having our dream wedding!

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Reacting To Tik-Tok Wedding Trends

Fri, 08 Jul 2022 16:15:00 +0000

We've all seen the wedding tik tok trends that get shared around on social media. Sometimes we are inspired by them, other times we are annoyed with them. Either way, we see them ALL the time! In today's episode we are live reacting to 4 popular tik tok trend videos. There aresome serious GEMS that we are obsessed with in this episode that are full of intention!

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Brides Guide To Beauty Course

DIY Bridal Makeup W/ Emily Edgar

Fri, 24 Jun 2022 11:30:00 +0000

On today's show, we talk all things bridal beauty with makeup pro, Emily Edgar! Emily has spent 11 years working in the industry and is on a mission to help brides personify their beauty and look their very best on their wedding day and beyond. Break out your notepads for this one because it is PACKED with all of the makeup tips you need to know!

Episode Links

use code "BRIDALBREAKDOWN" for $100 off her course!

Brides Guide To Beauty Instagram

Emily's Makeup Website

Emily's Instagram

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Something Borrowed Blooms

Trust Your Vendors + Save Money on Wedding Florals + Sparkler Exit Alternative W/ Micha Larson

Fri, 17 Jun 2022 10:30:00 +0000

On today's episode we are doing a wedding breakdown with long time Bridal Breakdown listener Micha Larson! Micha started listening to the podcast before she was engaged shortly after hiring Chris and Lara to photograph her wedding! Micha talks about the importance of trusting your vendors, highs and lows from her wedding day, the best faux rentable wedding flowers you have ever seen, and an epic sparkler exit alternative!

Episode Links

Ecofetti

Micha's Wedding Photo Previews

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How Long Do You Want To Take Photos On Your Wedding Day?

Mon, 13 Jun 2022 10:30:00 +0000

Today I (Chris) am joined by my wife Lara! Have you ever thought about how long you want to spend taking posed photos throughout your wedding day? Have you ever considered that you DO have a say in how long you spend taking pictures and are away from your family and friends? You totally do friend, and we are here to empower you to communicate your feelings to your photographer! Side note: Ashley is taking the week off but will be back for the next episode.

Newly engaged? Here are 3 episodes you’ll benefit from today!

You’re Engaged! Now What?: https://apple.co/3rmV6RD
Define your Wedding Why: https://apple.co/3J06CZ2
Wedding Dress Shopping with Jillian from Dress Gallery (the most inspiring episode ever, it'll take you a bit to get through. Highly recommend.) https://apple.co/3rl1vwv

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Live Like The 90's

Fri, 03 Jun 2022 17:57:10 +0000

We made it to episode 100!

In this episode, we have a conversation around Ashley's new mantra "Live like the 90's". This episode emphasizes social media/technology and how our lives have become so heavily influenced by these things. What if we lived like we did back in the 90's; we existed with technology and social media but our lives didn't orbit around it.

Note: We have had some unexpected life events that have led to us not posting an episode for the past 2 weeks. We appreciate everyone's understanding!

Newly engaged? Here are 3 episodes you’ll benefit from today!

You’re Engaged! Now What?: https://apple.co/3rmV6RD
Define your Wedding Why: https://apple.co/3J06CZ2
Wedding Dress Shopping with Jillian from Dress Gallery (the most inspiring episode ever, it'll take you a bit to get through. Highly recommend.) https://apple.co/3rl1vwv

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Hot Takes - Wedding Party Edition

Fri, 13 May 2022 15:35:00 +0000

In today's episode, we are getting spicy and sharing some hot takes about wedding parties! What financial responsibilities should wedding party members expect to cover? Should Bachelor/Bachelorette parties be separate or combined? Is the stress of having even-numbered wedding parties worth it? How do I unask someone to be in the wedding party? Are wedding party head tables overrated? We will talk about alllll of these things and give our hot takes on them. We would LOVE to hear from you and hear your thoughts!

Newly engaged? Here are 3 episodes you’ll benefit from today!

You’re Engaged! Now What?: https://apple.co/3rmV6RD
Define your Wedding Why: https://apple.co/3J06CZ2
Wedding Dress Shopping with Jillian from Dress Gallery (the most inspiring episode ever, it'll take you a bit to get through. Highly recommend.) https://apple.co/3rl1vwv

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PDF: for Family of Origin

No But Really, My Fiancé's Family Is Crazy!

Fri, 06 May 2022 10:30:00 +0000

We are revisiting one of our very first episodes today that someone got lost in the excitement of the show launching! In this episode, Chris talked about what Family of Origin is and how it's helped him understand and improve his relationship with his wife, Lara. SO much conflict could be resolved in marriages if more couples understood this concept!

REFERENCED IN THIS WEEK'S EPISODE:

BOOK: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality *author writes from a religious perspective but there are great takeaways for anyone.

PODCAST: The Allender Center, Family of Origin Archive

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3 Must Have Photos To Take On Your Wedding Day

Mon, 02 May 2022 21:26:47 +0000

Ok ya'll, we are bringing you some INSIDER photographer deets! In today's episode, we are bringing you 3 must photo to take on your wedding day! These aren't your typical shot list ideas either, these are moments that you are going to make sure you chat with your photographer about. And as you've probably already guessed, these photos are FULL of intention!

Newly engaged? Here are 3 episodes you’ll benefit from today!

You’re Engaged! Now What?: https://apple.co/3rmV6RD
Define your Wedding Why: https://apple.co/3J06CZ2
Wedding Dress Shopping with Jillian from Dress Gallery (the most inspiring episode ever, it'll take you a bit to get through. Highly recommend.) https://apple.co/3rl1vwv

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Reimagining Your Wedding Day Spaces & Places

Fri, 22 Apr 2022 10:30:00 +0000

When you choose a wedding venue. Chances are you were shown a few layout options you could use in the space you are renting. But what if there was a better way to intentionally and creatively layout the spaces you and your guests will be in. What if there was a way you could layout the spaces and places you will be to actually serve your wedding why!? In today's episode, we are going to challenge you to think differently about how you lay out the different aspects of your wedding day because spaces shouldn't just look good, they should feel good too!

Newly engaged? Here are 3 episodes you’ll benefit from today!

You’re Engaged! Now What?: https://apple.co/3rmV6RD
Define your Wedding Why: https://apple.co/3J06CZ2
Wedding Dress Shopping with Jillian from Dress Gallery (the most inspiring episode ever, it'll take you a bit to get through. Highly recommend.) https://apple.co/3rl1vwv

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Popping The Perfection Bubble

Fri, 15 Apr 2022 10:30:00 +0000

Let's be honest, most people go into their wedding day expecting

P E R F E C T I O N. With the rise of social media and the constant b bombardment of presenting "perfect" weddings, how could you not expect that? We are here to tell you that it doesn't have to be that way! You CAN pop that perfection bubble and live in the beautiful moments your day (flaws and all).

Newly engaged? Here are 3 episodes you’ll benefit from today!

You’re Engaged! Now What?: https://apple.co/3rmV6RD
Define your Wedding Why: https://apple.co/3J06CZ2
Wedding Dress Shopping with Jillian from Dress Gallery (the most inspiring episode ever, it'll take you a bit to get through. Highly recommend.) https://apple.co/3rl1vwv

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Show and Tell With Ashley and Chris

Fri, 08 Apr 2022 10:30:00 +0000

In today's episode, Ashley and Chris are playing the podcast version of show and tell! Each of them is bringing wedding inspo or wedding trends to the table to get a blind reaction out of the other person! Today's episode features nighttime photos with direct flash as a trend, Musical chairs with your wedding party, a joint bar (yes marijuana), and a few other trends!

Show and Tell Links and Videos

Night Time Photos With Direct Flash: https://www.brides.com/wedding-photo-and-video-trends-5215035

Musical Chairs:https://www.instagram.com/p/CYmBQEtIX7X/

Joint Bar: https://offbeatbride.com/disco-wedding-joint-bar/

Letters: https://www.instagram.com/p/Cb8ujuOvWf7/

Ethereal Wedding Inspo:https://thelane.com/ethereal-garden-wedding-indonesia/

Cutting Hair:https://www.instagram.com/p/CbEKbAdM_-0/

Themed Bachelorette Parties:https://www.instagram.com/p/CbTnkCrgCwR/

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Awkward Transitions Are The WORST!

Fri, 01 Apr 2022 14:06:24 +0000

We've all experienced an awkward transition at a wedding and let's be honest, they can feel so cringey! On a typical wedding day, the DJ handles most of the transitions and if you got a good emcee, you won't have to deal with the awkward silence that can sometimes happen. BUT! What if there was a way to break away from the "normal" transitions that take place on wedding days and add a little intentionality to them. In today's episode, we are workshopping some creative ways to transition to the different parts of your wedding day!

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Mental Health Monster: Unresolved Conflict

Mon, 28 Mar 2022 17:25:10 +0000

Unresolved conflict is the silent killer! This is conflict that happens but is never talked about and often swept under the rug. Feelings of resentment still exist and grow inside of us until an explosive outburst happens. Yikes! Feelings are further hurt and neither party is taking a step towards resolving what just happened. If you are someone who is dealing with unresolved conflict, this is the episode for you!

Past Mental Health Monster Episodes:

People Pleasing:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-bridal-breakdown/id1550683678?i=1000538678147

Comparison:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-bridal-breakdown/id1550683678?i=1000530738805

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Family Freakouts & Emotion Overload

Thu, 17 Mar 2022 22:30:00 +0000

Having a wedding isn't just a significant event for the people who are getting married, it's also a big deal for those closest to them. In today's episode, Ashley and Chris have a candid conversation about the wide range of emotions that come out from others when wedding planning starts.

Newly engaged? Here are 3 episodes you’ll benefit from today!

You’re Engaged! Now What?: https://apple.co/3rmV6RD
Define your Wedding Why: https://apple.co/3J06CZ2
Wedding Dress Shopping with Jillian from Dress Gallery (the most inspiring episode ever, it'll take you a bit to get through. Highly recommend.) https://apple.co/3rl1vwv

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Intentional Guest Mingling

Fri, 11 Mar 2022 14:50:49 +0000

Most people think that their wedding day will be spent hanging out with their favorite people. The reality is that if you don't intentionally carve out time to mingle with your guests, it might not happen in the meaningful way that you were hoping it would (which could lead to regrets about your wedding day). In today's episode, we shine a light on the importance of carving out time to make sure that this happens, keeping your out-of-town guests in mind, and some creative ideas we have seen at weddings we have photographed!

Newly engaged? Here are 3 episodes you’ll benefit from today!

You’re Engaged! Now What?: https://apple.co/3rmV6RD
Define your Wedding Why: https://apple.co/3J06CZ2
Wedding Dress Shopping with Jillian from Dress Gallery (the most inspiring episode ever, it'll take you a bit to get through. Highly recommend.) https://apple.co/3rl1vwv

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Creating A Memorable Cocktail Hour

Fri, 04 Mar 2022 11:30:00 +0000

If you have attended a cocktail hour where the couple getting married was present vs attending a cocktail hour where they weren't present...you know there is HUGE difference in the atmosphere. The heart your cocktail hour should be rooted in connection, not babysitting your guests while you are taking photos! In today's episode, we dive into a conversation about how to create an atmosphere during your cocktail hour that will be memorable and full of conversations between your guests!

Newly engaged? Here are 3 episodes you’ll benefit from today!

You’re Engaged! Now What?: https://apple.co/3rmV6RD
Define your Wedding Why: https://apple.co/3J06CZ2
Wedding Dress Shopping with Jillian from Dress Gallery (the most inspiring episode ever, it'll take you a bit to get through. Highly recommend.) https://apple.co/3rl1vwv

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The Final Stretch- 30 Days Till Your Wedding!

Fri, 25 Feb 2022 22:05:00 +0000

You are entering the final stretch! You are so close to your wedding day that you can TASTE THE CAKE and hear the DJ blasting your favorite songs! As excited as you are for your big day, chances...you are also exhausted from all of the months of wedding planning! You can't shake this feeling that you are forgetting something (or 100 somethings) either. What's a girl to do?!!?

Don't worry! We've got you covered. In today's episode we are bringing you 4 tips that you wont find in any blog online to help you navigate your final month of wedding planning. And in true Bridal Breakdown fashion, they are going to leave you feeling refreshed and full of joy!

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Patreon Exclusive Episode!- Men Basically Have Periods & The Enneagram

Thu, 24 Feb 2022 18:45:00 +0000

Surprise! We wanted to give all of our listeners a taste of what our Patreon exclusive episodes are like and this episode felt the perfect one to release to the public. In this episode, we discuss the period-like emotional rollercoaster that (some) men find themselves on every month and the enneagram (specifically how it shapes the person you grow into as a child).

ALSO: This Sunday, Feb 27th, is our first patron hangout!

Make Wedding Planning Fun Again

Fri, 18 Feb 2022 11:30:00 +0000

When you first get engaged, excitement is in no shortage! Every decision is exciting and the whole wedding planning process is actually fun! Somewhere along the way, the fun fades and dread begins to set in. BUT IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE THIS WAY! Wedding planning can and should be fun! In today's episode, we are bringing you a concept that you can implement today to begin to make wedding planning fun again!

Newly engaged? Here are 3 episodes you’ll benefit from today!

You’re Engaged! Now What?: https://apple.co/3rmV6RD
Define your Wedding Why: https://apple.co/3J06CZ2
Wedding Dress Shopping with Jillian from Dress Gallery (the most inspiring episode ever, it'll take you a bit to get through. Highly recommend.) https://apple.co/3rl1vwv

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Decision Fatigue During Wedding Planning

Fri, 11 Feb 2022 11:00:00 +0000

If you have ever found yourself exhausted and unable to make 1 more decision.....you probably have a case of decision fatigue going on. When you find yourself in this state, it's almost impossible to continue to move forward and plan for a day that you were so excited about at the beginning of this process.

In this episode, we are adding a tool to your wedding planning toolbox and providing you with 3 solutions to combat decision fatigue!

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Newly engaged? Here are 3 episodes you’ll benefit from today!

You’re Engaged! Now What?: https://apple.co/3rmV6RD
Define your Wedding Why: https://apple.co/3J06CZ2
Wedding Dress Shopping with Jillian from Dress Gallery (the most inspiring episode ever, it'll take you a bit to get through. Highly recommend.) https://apple.co/3rl1vwv

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Anxiety Proof Your Guest List

Fri, 11 Feb 2022 11:00:00 +0000

No one tells you just how anxiety-filled the process of creating your guest list can be when you first get engaged! There is so much to consider. Are we inviting co-workers? How about aunt carol and uncle joe? (we don't even like them). Are we giving people plus ones? What about our new friends the smiths? We have only known them a month though.....UGH! The pressure can feel overwhelming at times! It tends to build even more when your mom and dad are on your back about who to invite as well.

In today's episode, we are going to give you some VERY practical step-by-step advice on how to anxiety-proof your guest list!

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You’re Engaged! Now What?: https://apple.co/3rmV6RD
Define your Wedding Why: https://apple.co/3J06CZ2
Wedding Dress Shopping with Jillian from Dress Gallery (the most inspiring episode ever, it'll take you a bit to get through. Highly recommend.) https://apple.co/3rl1vwv

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Breaking Tradition: Wedding Parties

Fri, 04 Feb 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Most couples choose to have a wedding party made up of their family members and closest friends. But just because most people do it...doesn't mean its the best choice for everyone. Is this the best choice for you?

What if your wedding day would actually be way more enjoyable if you didn't have a wedding party at your side?What if your favorite people still attended your wedding day and played a different role in your day? You might find that your wedding day and all of the planning leading up to your big day would be SIGNIFICANTLY less stressful if you decided to NOT have a wedding party.

In this episode, Ashley and Chris talk about some of the pro's of not having a wedding party and share some practical ways to still incorporate your friends into your wedding day!

Newly engaged? Here are 3 episodes you’ll benefit from today!

You’re Engaged! Now What?: https://apple.co/3rmV6RD
Define your Wedding Why: https://apple.co/3J06CZ2
Wedding Dress Shopping with Jillian from Dress Gallery (the most inspiring episode ever, it'll take you a bit to get through. Highly recommend.) https://apple.co/3rl1vwv

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We Are Back!!!

Fri, 28 Jan 2022 11:00:00 +0000

The podcast is OFFICIALLY back for season 2!!! This season is full of new changes! One of the biggest changes is that there is now Patreon that is full of perks for listeners who want to support the show! The link to join is below.

Patreon: www.patreon.com/thebridalbreakdown

In this episode, Ashley and Chris give some personal updates about what they have been up to over the past two months and how they are doing. SPOILER ALERT: they are both better than they have been in a long time! You can always count on authenticity and vulnerability when you listen to the podcast, and this episode is full of it!

Newly engaged? Here are 3 episodes you’ll benefit from today!

You’re Engaged! Now What?: https://apple.co/3rmV6RD
Define your Wedding Why: https://apple.co/3J06CZ2
Wedding Dress Shopping with Jillian from Dress Gallery (the most inspiring episode ever, it'll take you a bit to get through. Highly recommend.) https://apple.co/3rl1vwv

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Shake It Off; Wedding Day Joy Stealers

Fri, 26 Nov 2021 15:30:00 +0000

On your wedding day, there are likely going to be little things that come up and attempt to steal your joy! In this episode, we are going to talk about very common situations that we see play out in most weddings. You likely can't do anything to change what's happening, all you can do is shake it off!

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Wedding Trends To Jump On In 2022

Fri, 19 Nov 2021 11:30:00 +0000

We are back at it bringing you 7 wedding trends that are expected to be BIG in 2022! Our hope is that you will be inspired by the trends and put your own spin on some of them for your big day.

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Backyard + Desination Wedding Combo Ft. Emily Holtmeyer

Fri, 12 Nov 2021 11:30:00 +0000

On today's episode, Chris and Ashley do a wedding breakdown with long time listener Emily Holtmeyer! Emily planned a backyard wedding reception 2 weeks before they said I do at their destination wedding in Mexico. She shares how they pulled off a wedding reception that felt like a BBQ with friends and tons of destination wedding planning tips!

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Body Transformations And Mindset Makeovers w/ Lena Marti

Fri, 05 Nov 2021 10:30:00 +0000

On Today's Episode, Ashley and Chris interview Lena Marti of Fitbride, a company dedicated to helping brides look & feel their best on their wedding day! Lena helps women transform their mindset & bodies through behavioral coaching. In today's episode, Chris, Ashley and Lena talk about the struggles brides face when it comes to how they feel about their bodies and how closely their mindsets affects their ability to make changes in their lives.

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BONUS RL Horror Stories Ft. Vendors

Mon, 01 Nov 2021 20:51:02 +0000

Surprise! Another bonus episode this week! Our last horror stories episode ran long so we decided to cut it into 2 episodes. This episode features RL horror stories from wedding vendors!

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RL Wedding Horror Stories: I Shit My Wedding Dress

Fri, 29 Oct 2021 16:44:44 +0000

Happy spooky season! What better way to celebrate this time of year than with real-life wedding horror stories! Ashley and Chris bring the drama and jaw drops in this episode, from a best man stripping naked to doing cocaine in the limo...here are your RL wedding horror stories!

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BONUS ASHLEYS BACK

Wed, 27 Oct 2021 21:45:00 +0000

Ashley's back and we are doing a quick bonus episode with some life updates from Ashley.

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Mental Health Monster: People Pleasing

Fri, 15 Oct 2021 10:30:00 +0000

People-pleasing is a place that some people can find themselves in while they are on their wedding planning journey and it is so draining! It can be hard for couples who wrestle with people-pleasing to put their thoughts and desires first. In today's episode Chris and Lara breakdown what people-pleasing is, examples of how it shows up on your wedding day, and how to defeat it!

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How To Avoid Becoming A Wedding Horror Story

Fri, 08 Oct 2021 16:20:00 +0000

We've all heard wedding horror stories that have left us crossing our fingers and praying that we do not become one. Is hoping that we do not fall victim to becoming a horror story the best we can do though? In Toay's show, Chris and Alex Bowman ( of alexbo.photo) talk about 4 ways that you can avoid becoming a wedding horror story!

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Date Night Volume ll With The Philgreens

Fri, 01 Oct 2021 11:25:00 +0000

On todays episode we welcome back Dani and Cam Philgreen to the podcast to talk about an AMAZING resource they have created for couples, Date Night Volume ll! Dani and Cam share the importance of date nights and breakdown why this resource can be a game changer for couple.This magazine has a mix of conversation prompts and fun date ideas for how you can spend time creating new memories together. Listeners, you DO NOT want to miss out on snagging this for you and your partner. Pre-order today!

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Motivational Monday: Life After The Wedding

Mon, 27 Sep 2021 13:20:00 +0000

Chris is flying solo in today's episode!

Have you ever thought about what your life is going to look like after your wedding day. Couples spend so much time in planning mode that they often neglect their health, friendships, goals and so much more! In today's episode Chris is going to motivate you to think about your life after the wedding and give you some practical steps to take to live the life that you want to live with your partner!

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Is Hiring A Second Shooter Worth It?

Fri, 24 Sep 2021 10:30:00 +0000

Have you found yourself wondeinf if you need to hire a second shooter? Are they really neccessary? Is it over kill to have 2 photographers? In today's episode Chris and Lara will be talking about second shooters and if hiring one for your wedding is worth it. Spoiler alert.... THEY ARE! You can expect to hear 5 resons why hiring a second shooter is worth the price and 3 instances when you would be ok going with one photographer.

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Chris & Lara's Wedding Breakdown

Wed, 22 Sep 2021 19:00:00 +0000

On today's episode, Chris and Lara do a wedding breakdown on their wedding that happened back in September of 2013. While so much has changed in the wedding industry since then, the theme of doing what is expected for a wedding was still strong back then as well.

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Intentional Grand Entrance Ideas

Fri, 17 Sep 2021 18:10:00 +0000

Has anyone ever thought about why we do a grand entrance? It's an oppurtunity to give the people who are attending your wedding a chance to get to know the people that are standing at your side....BUT does a silly dance move really help people get to know your best riends? Let's be honest, most of your wedding party will feel pretty awkward going into the grand entrances because of the pressure to do some thing "cool" or memorable. Lets take the pressure off and get intentional! In today's episode Chris and Lara talk about 3 ideas to help get some Intentionality into your grand entrance!

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Wedding Day Timelines That Allow for Your Emotions Ft. Ashley Knolla

Mon, 13 Sep 2021 19:15:00 +0000

Your wedding day will fly by in the blink of an eye. If your timeline doesnt give you down time, you might be in danger of not even being able to expierence your emotions. This episode is a GAME CHANGER for the wedding industry and every person planning a wedding should consider implementing what is talked about in today's episode. We welcome Ashley Knolla (Ashley Akins buisness partner) to the podcast to caht about this topic!

Major Budget Savers When Starting Wedding Planning

Fri, 10 Sep 2021 10:30:00 +0000

What would your wedding planning process look like if you could cut your budget down by 40%-50% of what your total budget is now? In today's episode, Ashley and Chris are going to share 2 HUGE budget saving tips that you can implement to save mone early on in your wedding planning.

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How Wedding Plans Get Derailed With Faith Moore

Mon, 06 Sep 2021 15:20:00 +0000

What happens when wedding plans go off the rails? Couples are usually filled with sadness from unmet expectations and boundaries that have not been established. In today's episode, Ashley and Chris welcome back wedding planner Faith Moore to chat about the importance of setting boundaries with your vendors, within yourself, and with your inner circle.

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3 Ways To Cut Wedding Costs, Today

Fri, 03 Sep 2021 10:30:00 +0000

Let's be honest, we all love to save money and get the most bang for our bucks! It is so easy to find yourself over budget during the wedding planning process. Instead of scraping a part of your wedding that you truly want, take our advice with these 3 tips that will save you money!

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Hot or Not: 19 Rising Wedding Trends

Mon, 30 Aug 2021 18:30:00 +0000

Today we are going to be chatting about an article from Brides.com that highlights 19 wedding rising wedding trends that people are loving!

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Challenging Wedding Traditions

Fri, 27 Aug 2021 18:05:00 +0000

Weddings are full of traditions that many people do, but few know why they are actually doing them or that they dont have to do them. In today's episode, Ashley and Chris break down some super interesting statistics that their friend recently gathered about what wedding traditions people are doing and why they are doing them.

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I'm Engaged! Now What?!

Mon, 23 Aug 2021 16:23:00 +0000

You've been waiting for your fiance' to propose for awhile and it has finally happened! After the excitement passes you are left asking yourself "Now what?! Whats the first thing I should do?". We got you covered in this episode with the first 4 things you should do!

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Unique Wedding Ideas

Fri, 20 Aug 2021 18:10:00 +0000

We have had TONS of requests for some unique wedding ideas. We hope you enjoy this light hearted episode as you head into your weekend.

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Wedding Day Blinders

Mon, 16 Aug 2021 10:30:00 +0000

A wedding day is full of unexpected moments that have the potential to send your emotions on a roller coaster. Most times couples are able to bounce back and set their minds on what truly matters on their wedding day. Other times, they lose sight of what truly matters and allow themselves to put on wedding blinders and fixate on the unexpected moment. In this episode, Ashley and Chris share stories of times that they have seen this happen and provide a solution to help you make sure you don't spend your wedding day with blinders on!

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DJ's Hate Photographers

Fri, 13 Aug 2021 18:20:00 +0000

Ok ok ok, maybe that title was a little click baitey, but there is a real tension that exists between DJs and Photographers. A lot of these tensions exist because some photographers stay gone WAY longer than they should for sunset photos and throw off the reception. In today's episode, Ashley and Chris talk about this tension!

Wedding Trends: Are They Stealing Your Joy?

Fri, 06 Aug 2021 10:30:00 +0000

Ashley is rolling solo in today's episode and she is doing a thought dump on wedding trends and how they have the potential to steal your joy on the wedding day!

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Mental Health Monster: Comparison

Mon, 02 Aug 2021 10:30:00 +0000

Comparison is a mental health monster we can find ourselves having to face every single day during the wedding planning process. Not only do we wrestle with it when we attend our friends and loved ones weddings, but it can show up anytime we are scrolling through social media! In today's episode, Ashley and Chris talk about comparison and how to defeat it in our lives!

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Why Does It Take 6-8 Weeks To Edit My Wedding Photos?

Fri, 30 Jul 2021 10:30:00 +0000

Have you ever wondered why it takes so long to get your wedding photos back? Does it REALLY take 6-8 weeks? In today's episode, Ashley and Chris talk all things editing and break down why it takes the time it takes to deliver a wedding gallery.

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No But Seriously, Wedding Planning SUCKS!

Mon, 26 Jul 2021 15:30:00 +0000

We get it, wedding planning sucks. Nobody tells you that the best part is getting engaged and that after that until the wedding day....the stress piles on. It isnt this way for everyone, some people really do love wedding planning, but this wedding is for everyone who HATES IT! Consider this episode your vent sesh!

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Covid Postponements Round Two

Fri, 23 Jul 2021 10:30:00 +0000

This isn't the conversation anyone wants to hear or have, but we felt it would be a disservice to not have it. With Delta variant Covid cases on the rise in America, it is not outside of the realm of possibilities for stricter mandates and restrictions to be put into effect. We all remember the huge deal that this was for many people, couples planning their weddings included. In today's episode, our goal is simply to put this on your radar and hopefully talk about this topic in a way that doesn't bring fear, but encouragement. It is possible to marry your person and celebrate with a wedding if restrictions are put into place, it will just require some mindset shifts! We dive into this topic on today's episode!

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Ashley & Justin's Wedding Breakdown - What We Did Differently

Mon, 19 Jul 2021 14:15:00 +0000

You have heard tiny bits about Ashley and Justin's wedding day, but they are bringing you ALL the details about their intention-filled wedding day in today's episode!

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The Anatomy Of A First Look

Sat, 17 Jul 2021 19:05:00 +0000

On today's episode, Ashley and Justin (Ashley's husband) break down everything that you need to know about first looks! If you and your partner have been on the fence about whether or not you should have one, this is a MUST LISTEN episode for you!

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Should I Have An Indoor Or Outdoor Wedding?

Mon, 12 Jul 2021 12:50:00 +0000

It's one of the first questions that couples ask themselves when they begin wedding planning...."Should I have an indoor or outdoor wedding?". It's no surprise that each scenario has its own set of pros and cons and you better believe that Ashley and Chris are coming at you with all of them in this episode!

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My Fiancé Has Five Hobbies And I Have Zero

Fri, 09 Jul 2021 21:35:00 +0000

Does your fiancé have more hobbies than you do? Why is it so easy for most men to have multiple hobbies while most women struggle to find one? In today's episode Ashley and Chris talk about why they believe it is easier for men to find hobbies than women. They also discuss a few practical ways to discover hobbies for yourself and more importantly, why you NEED them!

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Wedding Week Emotions

Mon, 05 Jul 2021 14:40:00 +0000

We all know that planning a wedding can be stressful and that our emotions can be unpredictable throughout the entire process, however, most people are not prepared for the emotional roller coaster that happens the week of your wedding! There are bound to be blow-ups, breakdowns, second-guessing of decisions, and so much more. In this episode, Ashley and Chris will help you become aware of what you can expect the week of your wedding with your emotions!

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Colors To Avoid On Your Wedding Day

Fri, 02 Jul 2021 16:50:00 +0000

The color palette that you choose for your wedding day is an important part of visually setting the stage for the environment on your big day! They ultimately help you express your style and taste and add a huge dose of personality to the wedding day. Planning Brides can spend HOURS trying to find the perfect colors that fit the vision they have in their minds and this can be a stressful choice for many to commit to. In today's episode, Ashley and Chris have a conversation surrounding a few potential problems to consider when nailing down your wedding day colors. Spoiler Alert: today's episode has more to do with expectations than actually telling you colors to avoid!

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Ditching Busyness and Embracing Margin Ft. Makenzie Kriss

Mon, 28 Jun 2021 10:30:00 +0000

Many of us live our lives in a constant state of busyness and chaos. We long for change and desire a less busy life, but why does it seem so unatainable? On today's episode, Ashley and Chris talk to Makenzie Kriss. Makenzie left her job in the corporate world to pursue a full time career as a wedding photographer, but also to pursue the life she wanted to live...a life with margin. Margin is what so many of us are missing in our lives. Get ready for the feel goods because this episode is bringing them!

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Help! My Fiancé And I Are Struggling!

Fri, 25 Jun 2021 10:30:00 +0000

Today Chris is joined by his wife Lara to tackle some Q&A questions!

1.) How the heck do I approach wedding registry?

2.)What little details are often overlooked/forgotten about in the wedding planning process?

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Pacing your Reception for a Party!

Fri, 18 Jun 2021 14:45:00 +0000

We've all attended a wedding where the reception moved at a snail's pace and the order of events just didn't make sense. The couple hoped to have a jam-packed dance floor but it never seemed like the night picked up the right momentum. What happened? What went wrong? Chances are the pacing of the night was off and with a little planning, you can make sure this doesn't happen on your big day! In today's episode, Ashley and Chris share tips to help you plan the right pace for your reception to get the party started AND keep it going!

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Is Hiring a Wedding Videographer Worth it? Ft. Nick and Jenn Miller of Wild Oak Films

Mon, 14 Jun 2021 10:30:00 +0000

If you are planning a wedding, chances are you have asked yourself if hiring a wedding videographer is worth it. I mean, c'mon, they charge an arm an a leg! Most people WANT to have their wedding day documented on video but get hung up on the price tag and fitting this service into their budget. On today's show Ashley and Chris chat with Nick and Jenn Miller of Wild Oak Films about all thing wedding video! Get ready,this interviews is LOADED with practical tips!

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Sparkler Exit Tips and Tricks

Sat, 12 Jun 2021 10:30:00 +0000

Have you ever wondered how people get those AMAZING sparkler exit photos? There is more that goes into capturing this exciting moment than you may realize and SPOILER ALER, the success of your sparkler exit will be tied to the preparation you do beforehand! Ashley and Chris dive into tips and tricks to executing a memorable sparkler exit!

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Feeling Overwhelmed AF while Wedding Planning with Greta, The Kansas City Therapist

Mon, 07 Jun 2021 10:30:00 +0000

If you have spent any amount of time wedding planning, chances are you have felt the feeling of being overwhelmed creep up on you. You have family members and friends sharing their opinions with you. Every day brings new choices to be made, which can lead to decision fatigue. What about all of the "shoulds" and "what ifs" that bombard you? What's a planning bride to do?!?! In today's episode, Ashley and Chris welcome Greta Strickland, the Kansas City therapist, to the show to tackle the topic of being overwhelmed. Great has LOADS of gold nuggets to share with you! Get ready to take tons of notes during this highly applicable episode!

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Choosing Your Wedding Party

Fri, 04 Jun 2021 12:00:00 +0000

In today's episode, Ashley and Chris talk all things wedding party and share some tips for you to consider before asking someone to stand at your side on your big day!

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Leveling Up Your Communication With Tim And Lizzy Davis

Mon, 31 May 2021 10:30:00 +0000

Today's episode is jammed pack with two topics that Ashley and Chris can talk ALL DAY about. 1.) Intentional Wedding Planning and 2.) Tips for communicating better with your partner! They are joined by local wedding photographers Tim and Lizzy Davis to unpack their wedding that was loaded with intention! Not only did they plan a bomb-ass wedding, but they also put in the intentional time to level up their communication with one another. They get open and honest with past mistakes in previous marriages and what they have learned from those relationships to help them succeed in their marriage. Get ready for an episode LOADED with tips and nuggets of wisdom!

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MARRIAGE IS HARD

Fri, 28 May 2021 10:30:00 +0000

Let's be honest, marriage is FREAKING HARD! There is so much work that goes into prepping to celebrate your marriage with a wedding that it can be easy to neglect your actual relationship. What happens when you and your partner are in the thick of life and trying to navigate the new land that is marriage? The first year of marriage is not easy, no matter how long you have been together. In today's episode, Ashley and Chris have an honest conversation about how tough marriage is and dive into some real-life examples of how they are winning and struggling.

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How to Thrive in your Marriage and Career with The Philgreens

Mon, 24 May 2021 10:30:00 +0000

Let's be honest. The vast majority of people STRUGGLE with continuing to date their partner after they get married. Chances are, if you have been dating for a significant amount of time, you probably understand this struggle as well! Life happens, busyness becomes the norm, and all of a sudden you can find yourself barely connecting in meaningful ways with the person that you love! Today, Ashley and Chris talk to Cameron and Danielle Philgreen about practical ways to THRIVE in your marriage. These two are people who are not only the sweetest souls EVER, but also passionate about this topic. Get ready to level up your mindset when it comes to date nights!

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I Regret Not Spending More Time with My Mom on My Wedding Day

Fri, 21 May 2021 10:30:00 +0000

In the first half of today's episode, Chris and Ashley shoot the shit about creepy guys hitting on women and making them feel uncomfortable. Get excited, Chris has a cringy story to share where he witnessed a guy hitting on a girl in the gym sauna!

In the second half of today's episode, Ashley and Chris talk about brides regretting not spending more time with their mothers on their wedding day.

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Ditching Pinterest with Shelby Laine

Mon, 17 May 2021 10:30:00 +0000

You know we are ALL about planning weddings with intention and this is the perfect interview to showcase that! Ashley and Chris are joined by Shelby Laine to break down her EXTREMELY unique wedding day. Shelby wanted to plan a wedding that was representative of who she is, in order to pull this off she kicked Pintrest to the curb and tossed all of her favorite things in a blender to achieve the wedding vibe she was after! During her interview, we chat about how she mended relationships in her family, handled wedding party stress, weaved intention into her day and so much more!

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You Do You! How to Define Your Wedding Why

Mon, 10 May 2021 10:30:00 +0000

It seems like every week the idea of having a "wedding why" gets brought up in the show. Although Ashley and Chris covered the importance of a wedding why in ep 2. "Wedding Planning Freaking Sucks", they realized that they didn't do an in-depth dive into HOW to plan out your wedding why. Get ready, because today's episode is ALL about your wedding why!

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Wedding Day Weather Anxiety

Fri, 07 May 2021 10:30:00 +0000

Everyone has their finger crossed for perfect weather on their wedding day. Ideally, it would be sunny, with 0 humidity, a light breeze, and the day would end with a GORGEOUS sunset. Unfortunately, we all know that not every wedding day has perfect weather. On wedding week all eyes are on the weather forecast and anxiety may even start to set in. On today's episode, Ashley and Chris talk about less than ideal weather scenarios on the wedding day. SPOILER ALERT: This one will leave you feeling less worried about the weather on your big day!

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Wedding Day Expectations vs Reality

Mon, 03 May 2021 19:55:00 +0000

What happens when you have a specific image in your head about how your wedding day was going to look and feel, but things play out totally different than you imagined. Typically disappointment, regret, and maybe even anger set in. This is where the expectations we didn't know we had collide with the reality of what the wedding day ended up being. In this episode, Ashley and Chris dive into discussions surrounding MANY different expectations that couples might have about their wedding day and pull the curtain back to show what typically happens on the big day.

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Doing Things You Don't Want To Do

Fri, 30 Apr 2021 10:30:00 +0000

At the beginning of this episode, Ashley talks about her and her business partner's choice to switch CAMERA BRANDS! Making this upgrade is a huge decision and she shares why exactly they are making this shift. Bye, bye, Fuji...HELLO CANON!

Chris shares some recent A-Ha moments that he has had about himself. Spoiler alert, they involve Chris having a lack of discipline. He shares why this is such a pivotal moment in his thought processes shifting and how doing things that you don't want to do are an opportunity for growth!

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Should You Do an Engagement Session?

Mon, 26 Apr 2021 10:30:00 +0000

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Not Your Average Personality Test

Fri, 23 Apr 2021 10:30:00 +0000

Chris recently took an online test that is causing him to have lots of "a-ha" moments. Obviously, Chris sent it to Ashley so that she could take it and the two discuss their results.

This online test is called The Kairos Survey and it is the industry’s most advanced assessment with the purpose of identifying your cognitive preferences. Each of us has a first response to what's coming to us from the universe. A catch of what’s there. What’s fascinating is each one of us has a different set of responses (preferences). These responses give us a different experience of reality. Sometimes this experience is similar to that of the person next to us. Other times, it’s so different, we can wonder if we’re the same species.

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Wedding Day Timeline Tips and Tricks

Mon, 19 Apr 2021 10:30:00 +0000

Creating a wedding day timeline can be an extremely overwhelming task for couples. How are you supposed to know how long everything will take? What if your photographer is faster or slower than the Pinterest timeline you found is? Do we need 10,8, or 6 hours of wedding day coverage? Ashley and Chris got you covered! In this episode, they share all of their insider photographer knowledge with you to bring you tips and tricks that will help you think through your wedding day timeline!

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Working Smarter Not Harder With Jordan Burgardt

Fri, 16 Apr 2021 16:05:00 +0000

Big Announcements Today!

Chris and Ashley discuss how the podcast is going to evolve with new episode formats for the Monday and Friday Episodes.

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Today Jordan Burgardt breaks down her wedding day with Chris and Ashley. Early on in the wedding planning process Jordan decided that her mantra was going to be "work smarter, not harder". A big part of this stratagy was finding the right vendor team to help Jordan pull off her vision for her wedding day. Jordan shares helpful tips to find your dream team, a sentimental tradition involving a wedding dress that is in her family, and so much more!

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Navigating The Unexpected While Getting Married A Second Time With Faith Moore

Mon, 12 Apr 2021 10:30:00 +0000

This week Ashley and Chris welcome Faith Moore of Bel Amour Events to the podcast to dive into one of the most taboo topics in the wedding industry.... divorce and getting married a second time. This is a MUST listen episode for any couple who is getting married because Faith shares on the importance of going through per-marital counseling with your partner. She also helps shed light on unexpected struggles that anyone who is getting married a second time should be aware of. This episode is packed full of honest moments, vulnerability, and nuggets of wisdom. We are so honored to have had Faith on to share her story and we know it is going to help so many of you listeners!

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Planning A Vow Renewal With Andrea Dugo

Fri, 09 Apr 2021 20:20:00 +0000

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Ashley Knolla joins Ashley and Chris to tackle the topic of being EXHAUSTED after planning an intimate wedding due to covid and then planning another wedding down the line to celebrate with people.

Wedding Breakdown:

Andrea Dugo breaks down TWO weddings in this weeks episode. Andrea had a super speedy engagement with her now husband Dan. They had an intimate ceremony and now 5 years later will be having a vowel renewal that is filled with intention!

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I'm Not Happy With My Life

Mon, 05 Apr 2021 10:30:00 +0000

In today's episode, Ashley and Chris look inward and discuss some things that have been on their minds over the past few weeks. They dive into an honest and vulnerable conversation about the lives that they want to live and how they have each in different ways have ended up in a place where they have let their schedule. business and others' opinions dictate aspects of their lives.

Shooting The Shit:

Ashley has been traveling for weeks and she gives us an update on how her trips went and what it was like to meet people who know her from listening to the podcast, but she doesn't know them. She shares about Hangover Anxiety and her experience with it. Chris talks about a road trip that left him and Lara gagging because of the smell of the city,

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Planning As A Perfectionist And Letting Go Of Control With Maclaine Noxon

Fri, 02 Apr 2021 10:30:00 +0000

No Q and A this week!

This week Maclaine Noxon joins us to breakdown her wedding day! Maclaine was a pandemic bride who stayed on her toes during the whole planning process and was ready to pivot at a moment's notice. Totally something that isn't an easy task for a self-proclaimed perfectionist.

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Post-Wedding Day Blues and Overcoming Depression with Abigail Ranney Pt 2

Mon, 29 Mar 2021 10:30:00 +0000

This week, Ashley and Chris dive into the mind of Abigail Ranney of Abigail Bridal Consulting and former wedding photographer for Chapter 2 of her 2 Chapter run on how EVEN THOUGH she planned the most unforgettable night, she found herself sliding into what is called 'Post-Wedding Blues' and found herself in a 2-year depression. If you're feeling this way, please please know you're not alone.

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BONUS!!! Talking Taboo Topics with Abigail Ranney

Wed, 24 Mar 2021 10:30:00 +0000

SURPRISE! We are bringing you a BONUS episode this week! We are talking taboo topics with Abigail! Tune in as we hear her thoughts on first looks, wedding day timelines + photographer involvement, wedding coordinators! Grab your coffee, snuggle up and get ready for an awesome episode!

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Throwing the Most Epic Reception with Abigail Ranney Pt 1

Mon, 22 Mar 2021 10:30:00 +0000

This week, Ashley and Chris dive into the mind of Abigail Ranney of Abigail Bridal Consulting and former wedding photographer for Chapter 1 of her 2 Chapter run on how she planned the most unforgettable night for her wedding reception guests, and for her vendors too. She shares how she incorporated her intention into her wedding reception to create an experience no one would ever forget, knowledge on party psychology and her personal secrets to choosing vendors that fit with her wedding why.

Tune in next week to hear about the shift that comes after the most highly anticipated evening of her and her husband's life.

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Long Distance Wedding Planning With Alexandra Burt

Fri, 19 Mar 2021 10:30:00 +0000

Surprise! Lara (Chris' wife) is joining in on this weeks Q&A!

For the first half hour of this week's minisode, we dive into 4 marriage related questions from our listeners.

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How do you stay connected as you grow and change as people?
How can I handle different views on religion as my fiance'?
What are some tips and tricks to better resolve issues while arguing?
What advice would you give to anyone who is getting married?

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Mom, We Need To Talk- A Crucial Conversation

Mon, 15 Mar 2021 10:30:00 +0000

For those of us who have a mom in our lives, we know that they love us deeply and desire to help in any way they can in our lives and wedding planning is no exception. There is a tension that can exists between helping and hurting. If you were to be honest, you might say that you wish you could sit down with your mom and honestly layout how she is negatively impacting your wedding planning. That isn

t so easy to do with someone who loves us and is just trying to help though. That's where Ashley and Chris come in. In this episode they unpack some common tensions that exist between couples and their moms. In the second half of this episode they actually are inviting you to send the episode to your mom where she can pick up listening at the 1 hr & 4 minute mark. Together, Ashley and Chris work to hype up your mom and encourage her to leverage her influence to positively impact your planning process and wedding day!

TOPIC STARTS AT: 19:22 minute mark

EPISODE FOR MOM STARTS AT: 1hr & 4 minute mark

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Chris shares about their new 8 week old corgi puppy! Follow his instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/canon_the_corgi/. Ashley and Justin have discovered a life changing epiphany. Chris finds a super positive playlist he is starting his day with.

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Putting Your Desires Before Everyone Else With Brenda and Ben Axman

Fri, 12 Mar 2021 11:30:00 +0000

Chris and Ashley tease next Monday's uniquely formatted episode and explain why they won't be doing a Q & A on today's episode.

Brenda and Ben Axman join Chris and Ashley to breakdown their October 2019 wedding day. These two navigated chopping down their guest list, engaging in tough conversations with parents about their faith, a hilarious first dance song mix up and so much more! We LOVED having Ben join us as our first husband on the podcast. he brought some great insight from the perspective of a husband looking back on their big day.

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Finding Self Love Within Wedding Dress Stress with Jillian Forsberg

Mon, 08 Mar 2021 11:30:00 +0000

This episode is for everyone and their mother (literally.) Ashley and Chris have a very special and insightful interview with Jillian Forsberg, the Sales Manager at Dress Gallery in Wichita, KS but the conversation was much more than a conversation about dresses. While Jillian answers listener's burning questions surrounding the wedding dress experience, Jillian effortlessly changes our perspective of ourselves and the mindset shift you can make surrounding regret or perfection. This conversation was more than we ever expected. You will leave this episode feeling insanely good and be instantly compelled to share it with someone you know, it's that good.

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13:27: - The Unspoken Pressure behind a Wedding Dress

Moms and Bridesmaids Dress Questions

25:35 - Online or In-Store for Bridesmaid Dresses

31:10 - Bridesmaid procrastinating getting her dress

36:19 - Bridesmaids' Dress Combinations

38:45 - Mom procrastinating finding her dress

45:22 - Mother-in-law's Dress

BEFORE THE APPOINTMENT

49:12 - Brining friends/family to your appointment

57:07 - What to know before you go to your appointment

AT THE APPOINTMENT

59:28 - Indecisiveness at the appointment

1:02:07 - Needing to let go of your original vision

1:05:21 - Not in a good mental space at the appointment

1:14:06 - Dress Customization

1:18:46 - Shopping Tips for Short Brides and Tall Brides

AFTER THE PURCHASE

1:23:34 - Anxiety while waiting for the dress to come in

1:27:37 - Buying the wrong dress

ALTERATIONS

1:29:41 - When to set up alterations appointment

1:30:47 - Multiple fittings

1:31:52 - Cost of Alterations

1:34:21 - Alteration anxiety

1:38:42 - Choosing/Finding a good seamstress

1:41:09 - Shoes before alterations appointment

1:41:26 - Losing weight between ordering and wedding day

AFTER THE WEDDING

1:42:59 - Keep any "dress regret" thoughts away

1:48:03 - Loving every inch of you

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Having Crucial Family Conversations With Jessica Tung

Fri, 05 Mar 2021 11:30:00 +0000

For the first segment of this week's Mini Breakdown, we dive into 3 questions from our listeners.

This Week's Q+A:

Let's talk about dieting!
How do I choose my wedding colors?
How do I involve my Mother-in-law while not having her too involved?

In our second segment, we interview a past-bride (and now wedding planner) Jessica Tung to dive deep into her planning decisions and mental health surrounding her wedding. Jessica was getting married young, going to school full time all while planned her wedding on a low-budget while working on establishing herself and her way as an individual outside of just being her parent's daughter. That meant she had to have some difficult conversations with her dad and breakthrough building-tension. Jessica offers a unique perspective as a bride who walked into the wedding world not knowing much about weddings, to now working one-on-one with brides as they navigate their own wedding days.

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Accepting Financial Help for Your Wedding

Mon, 01 Mar 2021 11:30:00 +0000

This week, Ashley and Chris dive into the topic surrounding taking money from family members to help pay for your wedding. Some couples worry that this means obligations come with dollars, which to some degree and with many families, that is exactly what it means. We give you a tactic so that you feel prepared when approaching these money conversations with family members or other loved ones who offer financial help. Join us while we dive into this conversation, and unearth potential solutions.

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Buckle up because the banter is all of the place this week! Ashley talks about her most recent vertigo episode, Chris talks about his most recent purchase; a massage gun and an air fryer. Rabbit trails include if babies can be ugly or not, yearbooks, and home videos!

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Paying For Her Own Wedding With Kaitlyn Cocks Dittman

Fri, 26 Feb 2021 11:30:00 +0000

The premiere of our FIRST Interview with a REAL bride is finally here!!

For the first half hour of this week's Mini Breakdown, we dive into 3 budget-related questions from our listeners.

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How do I stick to the budget?
I'm trying to find money for an open bar or can I be okay with guests reactions to a cash bar?
Should I hire a videographer?

In our second segment, we interview a past bride, Kaitlyn Cocks Dittman to dive deep into her planning decisions and mental health surrounding her October 2019 wedding. Kaitlyn calls herself 'not-crafty' while simultaneously being the life of the party. Kaitlyn's wedding why was to truly have one big party. She walked herself down the aisle and had her ceremony 'in the round.' Kaitlyn shares her wedding win, loss, and biggest piece of advice for planning couples.

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Drifting Apart in Your Relationship

Mon, 22 Feb 2021 11:30:00 +0000

Ever find yourself believing that you and your partner are living two lives, completely separate from one another? You're not alone. Ashley and Chris dive into their own personal struggles with this, and what's helped them.

This week, we discuss creating good boundaries in your relationship and how to incorporate finding your intimacy in your relationship, finding your way back to each other, and what having rituals can mean for growth in any relationship.

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Ashley shares her deep love of the post-apocalyptic movie genre. Chris spills the beans on his desire to raise chickens and his new obsession with Keeping Up With The Kardashians.

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Bridal Party Hair And Make Up

Fri, 19 Feb 2021 11:30:00 +0000

In this week’s Mini Breakdown, we tackle questions that our listeners sent us that all have to do with bridal parties! Here are the questions we dive into in today's minisode

1. I'm concerned that my bridal party will cancel because of COVID

2.Should my bridal party get their hair and makeup done by professionals?

3. How do I un-ask someone to be a bridesmaid?

4.How do I deal with the stress of other people's opinions and how rude family members can be?

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You Have Permission To Say No

Mon, 15 Feb 2021 11:30:00 +0000

What do you do when you're getting unsolicited advice from bridesmaids... that maybe you don't want? Your mom wants you to get married somewhere you maybe don't want to. Your vision differs from your mother-in-law. You find yourself irritable with your fiance. All of these scenarios are a reality for many couples while they plan their wedding and this week, Ashley and Chris dive into the conversations surrounding how to say NO when you want to. Standing your ground while keeping strong and healthy relationships during the wedding planning process of your life is possible.

SHOOTING THE SHIT:

Ashley and Chris go down a rabbit hole talking about their favorite ice cream brand and their sophisticated dessert palette's. Chris also shares a story about getting pulled over twice in a 3 day period.

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How Do I Not Regret My Wedding?

Fri, 12 Feb 2021 11:30:00 +0000

In this week’s Mini Breakdown, we answer questions surrounding the topic of mental health. We feel so honored that our listeners would open up and share their struggles with us. We dive into the following questions in today's episode:

1. Help! The anxiety of planning is keeping me from joy and presence for today.

2. How do I not regret my wedding? (after it happens and it wasn't what I hoped it would be.)

3. I'm a bride who has had depression/anxiety for a long time. I need help looking for the cause.

4.What kinds of daily habits do you recommend for the start of the day for your mental health?

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Guest List Anxiety

Mon, 08 Feb 2021 11:00:00 +0000

What do you do when your parents want to invite THEIR people to YOUR wedding? What about plus ones?! This week, Ashley and Chris dive into all things guest list. The common thread between everyone who responded to the IG poll was that the anxiety behind creating a guest list fell between two categories: internal anxieties and external anxieties. We give you actionable items to help you take control of the conversation!

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Ashley and Chris celebrate the OFFICIAL launch of the podcast! Chris also shares about Lara shattering a tooth, his dentist trauma and a friend who is currently texting with someone who has the wrong number.

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How To Stay Motivated During Wedding Planning

Fri, 05 Feb 2021 12:00:00 +0000

In this week’s Mini Breakdown, we answer questions on how to stay motivated while planning your wedding during a pandemic, our take on real flowers, and a little bit about having assigned seating!

Join us each Friday for another quick episode of Mini Breakdown where we answer YOUR questions and in the future, interview real brides to help you with YOUR planning and perspective.

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PDF DOWNLOAD: CHOOSING THE RIGHT WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER

Choosing the Right Wedding Photographer

Sun, 31 Jan 2021 23:15:00 +0000

Ashley and Chris discuss all things related to choosing your wedding photographer. As wedding photographer's themselves, they have a unique perspective and give you a behind-the-curtain look into things to watch out for and what's likely the real aspects that are important to you.

They dive into all things priorities, figuring out how much you "should" budget, why you should care about seeing full galleries and more!

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Because we're into it: SHOOTING THE SHIT

Before we dive in (16 minutes), Ashley dishes on the coolest homemade gift her brother made her (and how no one can believe he MADE it. Ashley and her husband, Justin, also signed up for The Adventure Box Challenge and they're absolutely obsessed. On the opposing side of the mic, Chris had a first this weekend. He officiated a wedding! In other Chris-news, Chris and Lara enjoyed a new trash-TV show and divulged all things Bling Empire. Guest-starring background sound-effects from Chris' son Sterling doing good things on Fortnite.

Episode topic starts at 15:30 minute mark

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Ugh, My Fiancé's Family Is Crazy!

Sun, 31 Jan 2021 22:30:00 +0000

This week, Chris shares on Family of Origin with Ashley and how it's helped him understand and improve his relationship with his wife, Lara. This episode is intended to introduce what family of origin means, how your family of origin impacts your relationships, and how understanding your family of origin can potentially benefit your marriage.

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BOOK: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality *author writes from a religious perspective but there are great takeaways for anyone.

PODCAST: The Allender Center, Family of Origin Archive

Because we're into it: SHOOTING THE SHIT

At the top of this week's episode, Chris and Ashley talk about their awful sleep habits, some of their favorite, most-entertaining influencers, and what they were like in High School.

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PDF DOWNLOAD: BEATING THE COMPARISON TRAP

Escaping the Wedding Comparison Trap

Sun, 31 Jan 2021 21:20:00 +0000

This week, Ashley and Chris dive into their (least) favorite monster, the Comparison Trap. The Comparison Trap plagues us all throughout our lives, and comparison was intended, at the most basic level, to be a tool for us to continuously push ourselves to be better. However, in the age of social media, this took on a new form and became a mental health disaster. Throw in wedding planning into the mix and the beast takes over.

In this episode, explore The Bridal Breakdown's signature method to handling The Comparison Trap, why you should consider a gratitude practice, how to find inspiration to avoid comparing and using social media in a less mentally-destructive way.

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THE SOCIAL DILEMMA: https://www.netflix.com/title/81254224

SHOOTING THE SHIT

At the beginning of this week's episode, we shoot the shit about our common love for the Emo/Alternative genre, Ashley's editing cave and Lightroom frustrations as well as Chris having a really important moment where he puts his 9ness to the side (enneagram lovers) and has a pretty confrontational conversation.

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Pivoting Your Wedding Plans During a Pandemic

Sun, 31 Jan 2021 19:30:00 +0000

Planning your wedding isn't for the faint of heart in the first place. Add in planning during a global pandemic and multiply that feeling by 1000. It's not fun for you. This week, Ashley and Chris dive into a conversation surrounding this, mindset shifts, and pivoting expectations so you're happy with your wedding celebration's outcome. As wedding photographers, they've seen couples go through this first hand and share the way other couples have spun getting married in 2020 + 2021 to improve their wedding day and their mental health leading up to it.

Between the unpredictable nature of new mandates and having to sit in the feeling of 'this isn't how I always thought my wedding would be,' you don't have to feel blindsided.

SHOOTING THE SHIT

At the beginning of the episode, Ashley shares her new relationship hack where she convinced her husband to do all of the grocery shopping and cooking, and Chris dishes on his conservative in-law's binging the one and only Breaking Bad!

Episode Topic Starts at 13:00 min mark

Resources

EMOTION WHEEL: https://fairygodboss.com/career-topics/emotion-wheel

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Wedding Planning Freaking Sucks

Sun, 31 Jan 2021 19:10:00 +0000

Did you grow up thinking planning your wedding was going to be the absolute best... just to realize that now that you're engaged, it's kind of the worst? If you're nodding your head yes, you're not alone.

This week, Ashley and Chris dive into why wedding planning can be mentally taxing and what you can do about it to improve your mental health while actually having FUN being engaged to the love of your life.

We'll discuss the idea behind how planning your wedding with intention will ground you throughout the process, how to building boundaries with family and friends to maintain positive relationships, and why defining your "Wedding Why" first above all else can be so pivotal.

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Wedding With Intention by Karen Hopkins

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Who We Are And What This Podcast Is About

Mon, 25 Jan 2021 23:48:46 +0000

During this episode, Ashley and Chris unpack how they met, how The Bridal Breakdown got started, what kind of content you can expect to hear, how much planning has gone into launching this show, and the importance of self-awareness!

You can expect to hear us hitting on the following topics during an episode:

-Intentional Planning

-Mental Health -Marriage

-Relationships

-Personal Development

We are passionate about creating a community around these topics for brides and couples who are navigating marriage. Follow us to join in on conversations we are having online!

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