The Call Is Costly

DAY 21 AND DAY 22 OF 30 DAYS OF CLARITY

Tue, 23 Dec 2025 18:14:12 +0000

Courage isn’t just about doing scary things it’s about doing what God is calling you to do even when it feels unfamiliar, uncomfortable, or uncertain. And the truth is, courage doesn’t grow in isolation.

In today’s episode of The Call Is Costly, we’re combining Day 22 (Courage Inventory) and Day 23 (Network Audit) to help you identify two critical things:

what God is asking you to step into and who should (and shouldn’t) be walking with you as you do.

We talk about why fear of the unknown is normal, how your brain is wired to resist new territory, and why courage often feels harder before it feels rewarding. Then we shift into examining your relationships — because the people around you can either strengthen your faith and confidence or quietly drain your momentum.

DAY 17-20 OF 30 DAYS OF CLARITY

Sat, 20 Dec 2025 03:18:39 +0000

We’re walking through Day 17 and Day 18 of the 30 Days of Clarity, and both assignments are about lifting your eyes beyond where you are right now.

Day 17: I’m asking you to dream again. Dream big. No limits. Don't be scared. Write out the life you desire, spiritually, emotionally, and professionally.

Day 18: Write a letter to your future self. Speak to the version of you who stayed obedient, disciplined, and courageous on the days it wasn’t easy.

Day 19 and 20: There are no assignments on the weekend Rest. Reflect.Reset

DAY 16 OF 30 DAYS OF CLARITY

Thu, 18 Dec 2025 00:22:32 +0000

This episode walks you through how to look at every role you’ve had — paid or unpaid — and identify the skills you’ve been developing all along and how they can become transferable skills.

If you’re trying to figure out what’s next without discrediting where you’ve been, this episode will help you connect the dots.

DAY 14 & DAY 15 of 30 DAYS OF CLARITY

Wed, 17 Dec 2025 06:09:38 +0000

In this episode we navigate Days 14 and 15 of our '30 Days of Clarity' challenge. This episode dives into the transformative power of our testimonies, exploring how challenges birth not just strength and wisdom but opportunities for greater purpose. Reflect on past deliverances, update personal insights, and align your growing self-awareness with your life's calling. Tune in for an honest conversation about how life's trials can refine and guide us towards divine clarity and meaningful pursuits

DAY 11-13 OF 30 DAYS OF CLARITY

Sat, 13 Dec 2025 22:22:51 +0000

The assignment on Friday (DAY 11) was the spiritual gift study. There are no assignments over the weekend. Use this time to relax, reset, and catch up on days you may have missed.

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DAY 10 OF 30 DAYS OF CLARITY

Fri, 12 Dec 2025 04:16:15 +0000

DAY 10- WE ARE NOT LOCKED IN!

DAY 9 OF 30 DAYS OF CLARITY

Wed, 10 Dec 2025 17:58:51 +0000

Self Esteem VS God Confidence

DAY 8 OF 30 DAYS OF CLARITY

Wed, 10 Dec 2025 06:03:05 +0000

DAY 8

DAY 7 OF 30 DAYS OF CLARITY

Tue, 09 Dec 2025 20:59:18 +0000

Day 7 is here, and we’re talking about something that might seem simple but is deeply spiritual: your VALUES.

God doesn’t just call us to careers — He calls us to character. And the values you honor (or ignore) silently direct your steps. In this episode, we explore how your personal values have been shaped, how they influence your daily choices, and how reconnecting to them brings clarity about purpose and direction.

LINK TO LIST OF VALUES https://brenebrown.com/resources/dare-to-lead-list-of-values/

DAY 5 & 6 OF 30 DAYS OF CLARITY

Mon, 08 Dec 2025 05:52:02 +0000

During this 30 Days of Clarity, on the weekends I will only release a prayer. No assignments.

DAY 4 OF 30 DAYS OF CLARITY

Sat, 06 Dec 2025 03:09:05 +0000

Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us that God assigns time to every season, but John 10:10 warns us that the enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy — and one of his favorite things to steal is our time.

In this episode, we uncover the habits, distractions, and patterns that are quietly robbing you of clarity, purpose, and spiritual sensitivity. If the devil can’t stop your calling, he’ll try to waste your hours so you never walk in it.

Today, we identify the time thieves in your life and learn how to take your time — and your attention — back.

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DAY 3 of 30 Days of Clarity

Thu, 04 Dec 2025 19:42:56 +0000

In today’s episode, we’re diving into 1 Samuel 1–10 and following Saul on a journey he never planned to take We’re breaking down what happens when you’re tired, lost, ready to give up, and you start saying, “You know what… let me just go back home.”

Because SAME. Been there.

But what if the thing you’re searching for has already been handled?

What if you are actually the assignment, not the thing you lost?

And what if God has a whole table prepared for you, but you’ll only see it if you keep walking?

This episode is about identity, insecurity, almost giving up, and realizing God was preparing something for you long before you showed up.

If you’ve ever felt behind, discouraged, or tempted to quit?

DAY 2- 30 DAYS OF CLARITY

Thu, 04 Dec 2025 05:24:02 +0000

Yesterday, so many of you opened your journals and your hearts, and a pattern emerged instantly. The words were different, but the ache was the same. Somewhere along the way, a voice, a moment, a rejection, a comparison, convinced you that you weren’t enough for the life God called you to.

Before we move any further, we stop and deal with it.

Because purpose requires confidence.

Assignment requires courage.

And you can’t step boldly into new territory while carrying old lies.

In today’s episode, we unpack where that belief came from, how it shaped your decisions, and how God begins to rewrite it. You’ll leave with clarity, journaling prompts, and a prayer to anchor you as you unlearn the lies and embrace the truth of who you are in Christ.

The anchor Scripture is Jeremiah 1:5 NLT

DAY 1- 30 Days of Clarity

Tue, 02 Dec 2025 16:42:09 +0000

2026 is just 29 days away… and if you’re honest, a part of you is afraid to set new goals because 2025 didn’t unfold the way you hoped. But friend.. lift your head.

For the next 30 days, we’re getting clear on what God wants you to build, start, release, and walk into in 2026. Today’s assignment is simple but powerful: detox your mind. The clutter, the worry, the self-doubt, the lies you’ve believed, before we can hear God’s still small voice, we must make room for it.

Grab your journal and your Bible. We’re writing down the thoughts that steal our peace and finding scripture to anchor us in truth. This journey is about clarity, courage, and stepping into the future God has already planned for you.

If you’re participating, message me: “Day 1 done.”

Let’s get clear, get disciplined, and get ready—your purpose is calling.

Goal Setting With God

Fri, 31 Oct 2025 14:01:06 +0000

Listen… it’s one thing to make a plan, but it’s another thing to make a plan with God. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by where to start, discouraged by slow progress, or distracted by opposition, this one’s for you. We’re walking through Nehemiah chapters 1–7 to see what it really means to partner with God when you set your goals. From praying with intention, to moving in silence, to staying on guard when the enemy tries to distract you.

You're Not Bigger Than The Program

Tue, 14 Oct 2025 04:54:09 +0000

Have you ever tried to reason your way out of what God told you to do? Maybe you told yourself, “Maybe He didn’t mean right now,” or “Maybe someone else can do it.” In this episode, we talk about what happens when we think we can outrun God’s instructions and how Jonah’s story reminds us that His plans don’t bend for our comfort.

We’ll dig into what happens when disobedience feels easier, how our storms can affect those around us, and why God’s mercy still meets us even when we run.

This episode is your reminder: you’re not bigger than the program.

The Call Is Costly is a raw, honest space for young Christians learning what it really means to give Jesus a full yes. Hosted by Tee, this podcast dives into the realities of walking with God, the obedience, the loss, the stretching, and the beautiful transformation that comes with surrender.

Each episode brings real conversations, relatable stories, and biblical truth that remind you: God’s call isn’t always comfortable, but it’s always worth it.

If you’ve ever felt called yet conflicted — this is your reminder that you’re not alone.

Better Together

Fri, 03 Oct 2025 14:58:57 +0000

If you’ve been feeling isolated, holding onto anger, or struggling with broken relationships, this episode is your reminder: we are better together. Unity is not optional—it’s God’s design.

✦ Scripture highlights: Matthew 12:25, Ephesians 4:26–32, 1 John 3:11–24, James 2:14–15

✦ Real talk on family division, gossip, and unchecked anger

✦ Practical steps to rebuild trust, check in on others, and steward relationships well

This week, I challenge you: send the text, make the call, forgive the offense, check on your “strong” friends. Life was never meant to be done alone.

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I Just Don't Believe.

Fri, 29 Aug 2025 01:02:26 +0000

We’ve all had those moments when our faith feels fragile—when doubt creeps in, when God’s timing doesn’t make sense, and when it feels easier to walk away than to trust. In this episode of The Call is Costly, we’re addressing that faith, fear, and doubt. Drawing from the book of Hebrews, we’ll talk about how early Christians struggled with the same questions we face today, and how we can hold on when our confidence in God feels weak. Because even mustard seed faith—small, imperfect, and wavering

If you’ve been wrestling with uncertainty, this conversation is your reminder that you’re not alone and that God is still dependable, even in the middle of doubt.

LOCKED IN

Wed, 20 Aug 2025 12:00:49 +0000

In this episode of The Call is Costly, Tee returns after a three-week hiatus, to ask the question: Are you really locked in with Jesus—or are distractions running the show? In this episode of The Call is Costly, we talk about what it means to quiet the noise, put down our phones, and sit at the feet of the Lord like Mary did in Luke 10. From social media’s grip on our attention spans to the subtle idols we don’t even realize we’re carrying, this conversation is all about focus, discipline, and intimacy with God.

If you’ve been struggling with prayer, battling endless scrolling, or just feeling spiritually distracted, this episode will challenge you to reset your priorities, build intentional habits, and truly lock in. Because the call isn’t casual, it's COSTLY!

Backpacks and Bills

Thu, 24 Jul 2025 20:10:50 +0000

Back-to-school season hits different when you’re the only one carrying the weight. Between supply lists, growing kids, and unexpected expenses, single parenting can feel overwhelming — especially when the bills don’t take a break.

In this episode of The Call is Costly, we’re getting real about the pressure of being the sole provider — and the promise that God sees, God provides, and God sustains.

We’ll dig into:

💼 The emotional + financial weight of single parenthood

📖 Why 1 Timothy 5:8 isn’t about shame — but about God’s justice

🌾 How Matthew 6 reminds us that God knows what we need

👶🏽 And how Psalm 127:3 shifts the view of your children from burden to blessing

If you’ve ever stared at a school supply list and whispered, “Lord, help me,” — this one’s for you.

You’re not parenting alone. God’s in this with you. Let’s talk backpacks, bills… and breakthrough.

TELL HIM

Thu, 17 Jul 2025 09:07:11 +0000

You keep saying “God’s got me”—but deep down, you’re wondering if He even sees you. In this episode, we’re walking through Judges 6 and unpacking the raw, unfiltered honesty of Gideon—who didn’t fake his faith, didn’t pretend to be brave, and still got chosen.

This one’s for the ones who are scared to admit how they really feel. For the ones silently battling doubt, fear, or frustration.

You’ll learn:

Why your honesty is holy
How God responds to raw questions with real clarity
What it means to speak the lie so God can break it with truth

If you’ve been holding back from God, this is your reminder: He’s not waiting for your performance. He’s waiting for your honesty. So TELL HIM.

Lazy Fools

Sat, 28 Jun 2025 20:00:05 +0000

Spiritually checked out? Just coasting through life, hoping something changes without ever going deeper with God? Proverbs 6:6–8 isn’t just about working hard—it’s a holy warning against spiritual laziness. In this episode, we break down what it really means to be spiritually asleep at the wheel—settling for shallow prayers, skipping intimacy with God, and letting life pass by while our purpose gathers dust.

The ant doesn’t wait for a sign, a mood, or a perfect moment. It prepares. It plans. It moves. And that’s the kind of holy discipline we’re being called to. So if your soul’s been snacking on spiritual junk food and you’re starving for depth, let this episode call you back to alertness, back to fire, back to God.

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Idk Who I Am

Fri, 13 Jun 2025 15:27:00 +0000

In this episode of The Call Is Costly, we're diving deep into the question so many of us silently carry: Who am I, really?

We’ll peel back the layers of labels, expectations, and social media personas to get honest about the identity crisis that hits when the world defines us louder than God does. With the story of the woman at the well as our guide, we're unpacking what it looks like to be seen, known, and named by Jesus — not by our past or performance.

Whether you're in a season of transition, heartbreak, or just feeling lost in who you thought you were supposed to be, this episode is your reminder that your true identity isn’t found — it’s revealed in Him.

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Everyone Can't Go With You

Sun, 08 Jun 2025 01:28:00 +0000

There’s a part of the call no one warns you about—the part where God asks you to leave people behind. In this episode, we explore the story of Abraham, and Lot, uncovering the painful truth that some relationships can’t survive the journey God is taking you on.

You’ll hear what it means to obey even when it hurts, how to recognize when someone’s season in your life is over, and why the vision often expands only after the separation.

Anchor Scripture: Genesis 12:1-4

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Introducing the Host

Thu, 29 May 2025 23:03:36 +0000

Welcome to the very first episode of The Call is Costly. I’m so glad you’re here.

Before anything else, I want you to know who I am and where I’m coming from. This episode is completely raw and unedited—just me, sitting down and sharing my testimony with you. No script, no filter. Just the real story of how Jesus called me out of the world and into something deeper, more challenging, and far more beautiful.

I’m not here to perform or pretend. I’m here to be real about what it actually looks like to say yes to Jesus—what it’s cost me, what I’ve gained, and everything in between. If you're someone who’s wrestling with your faith, navigating hard transitions, or wondering what it really means to be “called,” I pray this episode meets you where you are.

This is the start of something honest, something sacred—and I’m honored to have you on this journey with me.