The Real Relationship Rapport

Toxic Reasons Y'all Shouldn’t Be In That Relationship

Wed, 22 Apr 2026 06:00:17 +0000

Reasons You Gotta Get Up Outta There...

We got a full house:

Keys

Jay- host of RRR

Haydee- Host of Ladies Pitch Podcast

Glo- Konversations with Glo podcast

Faisal

If you stopped feeling safe
Your goals are just different and sooner than later yall will part ways because of it
One person is putting in more effort than the other
No dick or pussy control
Are you comfortable staying? Easier to be with em than to know what alone feels like?
The emotional connection is just not there
There is no quality time spent
The responsibilities are not balanced, that becomes stressful on you

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Merry Go Round of Disagreements...

Mon, 23 Mar 2026 05:00:12 +0000

When do you get out the rotation?

Where are your limits?

How do you know if you've done enough?

We are talking about allllahhhdat...

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"I" Statements Make A Difference

Mon, 09 Feb 2026 07:22:21 +0000

You knew when the door should have stayed closed. Why did You reopen it?

We should be accountable to the ways in our personality that doesn't work for others. Some people you're with will call you out on ya ish and some won't. Learn to work with the ones who will.

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Conflict Resolutions

Pick People For Your Future Later

Mon, 22 Dec 2025 07:22:49 +0000

We don't have time to believe you will get better. We tryna meet better now.

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Happy Holidays and enjoy your New Year !!

This is the end of season 4 !!!!

Men, Who Come Back Better

Mon, 08 Dec 2025 05:44:52 +0000

Do they come back better? Do women believe them?

We talking about it.

A lot of women may say they want a man who is healing, with boundaries and no toxic behavior... but do they really know how to love that man? Appreciate that man? Show up as his lady?

Most women today enjoy a project... someone they can say I made him better, I fixed his life... All to resent it later.

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RRR: Is Cheating Really Acceptable?

Mon, 17 Nov 2025 05:49:08 +0000

In todays times, depends on who your asking unfortunately.

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Chan

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Fasial

Samantha

What is cheating in a relationship:

If you wouldn't want to tell your partner about it, because they would see an issue with it...its kind of cheating...

girls try to say "Isntt really cheating" are all bad!

Flirting is cheating!

Texting your ex-boyfriend is cheating

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Can Old Ex's Be Future Friends With You?

Mon, 20 Oct 2025 09:36:47 +0000

Its Chans pick, we did it on Stereo...

Short answer: No... it won't last unless they strictly out the closet and for the other team. A linger of hope will always be there if Life was living enough and neither of you had no one else. Stop lying to yourself.

Long answer: Press play.

#RRR #exs #pastloverfriends

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Break Up Etiquette 101

Sun, 28 Sep 2025 00:25:29 +0000

We got 2 guest today and 4 different experiences to explain.

It's Chan & Jay we discuss relationship things for the betterment of you.

Thank you to Faisal & Christina for coming on.

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Accepting That They Don't Want You

Fri, 12 Sep 2025 18:30:36 +0000

Whats goodie, its a solo Show...

We will be doing a panel later this month for a show. I felt like doing something cute this episode.

It's fall, you don't need to be cozy'd up with a person who doesn't want you.

10 Signs They Don't Want You, because you need to know.

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Looking For A Spark Will Have You...

Sat, 30 Aug 2025 04:25:24 +0000

In The Dark... with Joose from Chillin with Joose podcast & myself.

It's a goodie, good laugh and gems to get you understanding the why.

Sparks are temporary.

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That 7 Year Itch Is More Than You Think

Mon, 18 Aug 2025 07:20:00 +0000

On this episode, we think you should... Just correct it, we all got things with us that the next person wouldn't deal with. If you found someone to stick with you good or bad for 7 years... work on that. Dungeon and Chan discuss it all.

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Is Cheating okay, Why or Why Not?

Mon, 21 Jul 2025 06:01:09 +0000

We had Sam, Glo from Konversations with Glo podcast, Dungeon and Josh. We had a great time discussing this topic.

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You Aren't Fully Committed; Admit It !!!

Fri, 04 Jul 2025 07:34:17 +0000

We have to be honest with our selves, if it ain't working... stop trying to fix it. If you keep thinking back to when it was just you and things made more sense, you probably doing something against your better judgement. Lets talk about it tonight on #RRR #episode10

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Is It More Difficult to Apologize or To Accept Apologies?

Mon, 23 Jun 2025 04:05:00 +0000

Apologies and apologizing what y'all picking?

Tell the truth and be honest with yourself.

If you aren't sorry do not waste a persons time.

Have integrity and be accountable

If the apology won't be accepted don't ask for one.

That's it.

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Reprogramming A Lover Girl In Dating w/ Sam

Mon, 09 Jun 2025 06:00:00 +0000

It's common to wish for our partners to perceive love as we do. However, if the affection you give isn’t fully received, or if your Lover Girl perceives love differently, there are ways to bridge that gap.

The Five Love Languages: Learn yours

Reprogramming isn’t just about altering behaviors; it’s about shifting how love is viewed.

Plan Meaningful Dates: places that actually allow you to know each other

Consistency is key to ensuring your efforts to reshape her perception of love are successful.

We talked about:

Encourage Her to Explore Interests
Healthy Convo
Evaluating Progress and Adapting New Habits
Check-In Conversations
Being Open to Change

Reprogramming your Lover Girl for love without limits involves fostering a supportive and loving environment. By understanding her love language, promoting open communication, and engaging in meaningful activities, you can enrich your bond. #RRR #dating

Why Do Women Depend on Men To Provide Their Happiness ?

Fri, 30 May 2025 04:00:00 +0000

It's a solo, Dungeon and I will have a guest for June. We cut the time too close. I got yall with this episode, hope yall enjoy.

...When you are confident in your desire to be in a happier relationship with this person, can help smooth over petty conflicts if you focus on the good rather than the bad... -https://eugenetherapy.com/

Happiness for a woman cannot be solely on a man. He cannot be Mr. Fix it all the time.

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Tilted Texts & More

Mon, 12 May 2025 04:00:00 +0000

Healthy Levels of Privacy

Healthy Boundaries

Good Reassurance

Accept the growth challenges

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RRR: Was It An Interview With A Narcissist ?!?

Thu, 24 Apr 2025 04:30:00 +0000

What is a Narcissist? Dungeon believed the guest fell under that definition... but Chan wasn't too sure. We got the answers and the stories... Lets see.

This ep is available as audio and video will come soon.

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Be self aware as always and if the flag is red... do not proceed.

Men Stay Single To Save $$ & Women Want Relationships To Save $$

Mon, 07 Apr 2025 04:05:00 +0000

This is how the men of past generations wanted the system to be. The issue is the system has changed, but on a society level, the mindset of women have not. Only when it's convenient. Personally I don't believe in a man paying for every single thing in a relationship just because he is a man. But most women do. I wouldn't look at being in a relationship with a man as a place for me to save money. Well, I do less for myself because I don't have to yes but financially should I lean on him 100% no. In this episode dungeon and I have a great discussion on why that should not be a thing.

Welcome back to The Real Relationship Rapport.

Why Did We Choose Each Other In The 1st Place?

Mon, 24 Mar 2025 04:05:00 +0000

The why behind choosing people in your life keep you in check. Let us explain. #RRR

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What Do We Get Wrong When Handling Disagreements?

Mon, 10 Mar 2025 04:05:00 +0000

Misunderstandings and disagreements take patience and grace. You won't learn everything about who you are with overnight.

We discussed the wrong is how we disagree and the way to disagree correctly for solutions.

This is season 4 of the #RRR

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Are You Marriage Material ??? Pt. 2

Mon, 27 Jan 2025 14:00:00 +0000

Had to squeeze the rest in right here. If you haven't played 1... play that.

We talked about a lot and played messages.

Thank you for another great season. Season 3 is a wrap...

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Are You Marriage Material ??? Pt. 1

Mon, 27 Jan 2025 05:05:00 +0000

We talked about a lot and played messages.

Thank you for another great season.

Season 3 is a wrap.

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New Year, New Dating Habits

Mon, 13 Jan 2025 05:05:00 +0000

Some old things.... must stay in the past. We discussed some things that wouldn't work with people for the better dating in 2025.

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Bad Habits You Gotta Drop Before The New Person pt 2

Tue, 10 Dec 2024 16:40:00 +0000

This was a great show, 6 panel person hosted.

Joose - The Chillin with Joose podcast

Kimiko - My cuzzo, and intelligent being

Taroy- Thoughts Of An Average Joe

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Asapzoe

We talked about so many mature things that need to happen. We had a great audience too, thank you for all the comments.

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Bad Habits You Gotta Drop Before The New Person pt 1

Mon, 09 Dec 2024 05:05:00 +0000

This was a great show, 6 panel person hosted.

Joose - The Chillin with Joose podcast

Kimiko - My cuzzo, and intelligent being

Taroy- Thoughts Of An Average Joe

Dungeon

Chan

Asapzoe

We talked about so many mature things that need to happen. We had a great audience too, thank you for all the comments.

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#rrr #badhabits

Unhealthy Attachments Vs. Healthy Attachments

Mon, 25 Nov 2024 05:00:00 +0000

A lot of people don't know the difference between what's healthy and what isn't. An unhealthy attachment style is a combination of extreme behaviors and feelings in a person that inhibit a balanced connection with another.

-Anxious attachment

-Dismissive-avoidant attachment

-Emotional dependence

-Constant reassurance

We had a small discussion about the Tyson fight set up. A few live comments.

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Honeymoon Stage VS. The Smoking Mirrors

Mon, 11 Nov 2024 11:00:00 +0000

A lot of people have hope for the wrong situations. Save yourself the heartache and time... If what they say... you haven't seen... Leave it alone.

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#RRR #honeymoonstage

Bad Birthday Behavior Has To Stop !!!

Mon, 28 Oct 2024 04:00:00 +0000

25+ years old... That's the limit. Dungeon said its decade starters 30, 40, 50, 60 etc... You don't get to hog people and their time because it's your birthday. We got Birthday No's and Birthday Yes's... We should all know better. But here we are.

Press play >>>>>>>>>

#birthday

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Falling In Love While Stupid

Mon, 14 Oct 2024 04:00:00 +0000

These are our confessions and some of yours. When you get older, you know better.

We all had a time in our lives where we did some stupid mess for love... The lessons.

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You Can't Love Them More Than They Do...

Mon, 30 Sep 2024 04:05:00 +0000

We cannot convince someone that they are going in the wrong direction, if they don't think so. If a person cannot find the value in themselves, you cannot convince them that they have value. If the house has structure issues, you cannot convince someone who does not see what structure issues are that there is a problem. So this episode is about the fact that you cannot love someone on a level that they do not recognize in themselves. You cannot tell someone that they are worthy, if they do not see their worth. There are a lot of relationships that are struggling because people do not want to do their self work. Everyone on the outside cannot be your cheerleaders if you don't think there's something to cheer for. Welcome to The Real Relationship Rapport, let's talk.

When "Good People" Give Up...

Mon, 09 Sep 2024 05:10:00 +0000

Wooooooo... A lot of people can relate to this. We all have dated, experienced a break up and hopefully spent some time alone with yourself. You been single for a year, now 4 years have passed... No real urge to date, pick someone to court or further things seriously with anyone. What is it? What is truly, keeping you happy single?

Tonight Jay And I are talking about when good people give up.

https://www.chanbepoddin.com/post/the-top-5-reasons-why-good-people-give-up-on-relationships

#RRR #goodpeople

Do You Really Want An Emotional Intelligent Man?

Mon, 19 Aug 2024 04:35:00 +0000

Welcome back to Ep 13, of The RRR :

We are discussing a great topic:

Being with a man who possesses high emotional intelligence means encountering a partner who is empathetic, attentive, and understanding.This man requires courage and the willingness to be vulnerable, sharing your innermost thoughts and emotions authentically.

In this episode we talk about what people do not want to discuss, because are they sure what they are asking for?

https://www.chanbepoddin.com/post/understanding-emotional-intelligence-what-does-it-take-to-build-a-relationship-with-an-emotionally

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Stop Falling For Dreams "In People"

Mon, 05 Aug 2024 08:00:00 +0000

When we project our dreams onto others, we often overlook the importance of authenticity in relationships. True fulfillment comes from connecting with others on a genuine level, rather than expecting them to fulfill our desires.

Instead of relying on others to make your dreams a reality, channel that energy into nurturing your own aspirations.
Letting go of the expectation that others will fulfill your dreams, you open up a world of possibilities for personal growth and fulfillment.
Growth requires self work too
People should not control your personal happiness
By relying too heavily on others to fulfill your dreams, you diminish your self-worth and agency.

Y'all will enjoy this episode, press play.

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What You Saw Growing Up Vs What You Have

Sat, 13 Jul 2024 09:30:00 +0000

A lot of relationships back then were not the best but the respect never wavered. Today we are willing to go to therapy, unlearn and leave unhealthy set ups. What did you learn from what you saw growing up? vs what you do now?

#evolve #bebetter

In A Relationship & Being Bored...

Mon, 17 Jun 2024 04:05:00 +0000

That's a personal problem stop making it about the other person.

What are you doing individually without that person to improve. Another adult cannot be your life, what is it that interest you?

A lot of being like substance so everyone outside of them turn into personal entertainment.

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All That We Been Through... And !!!

Sat, 25 May 2024 10:15:00 +0000

Just because a person put up with a lot from you for too long... doesn't mean they have to continue staying. People take good people for granted all the time and that entitlement sinks in.

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Provider Vs Taker

Mon, 13 May 2024 04:30:00 +0000

Which one are you?

Do you balance out your relationships?

A lot of people are in relationships to take and take from people.

Jay & Chan discuss it all with live messages.

The Grass Never Been Greener

Mon, 22 Apr 2024 04:00:00 +0000

We had a great discussion on things to think about when you bunny hop around relationships to avoid growing up.

#RRR #grassisntgreener #growup

It Has To Be More Than What A Man Can Provide !

Mon, 01 Apr 2024 04:00:00 +0000

Society talks about men being picky for all the wrong reasons, but what about women looking for the ultimate ride? Not that ride nastttyyyyy !!! The ride of no labor, no job needed, no cooking, no cleaning, no helping, no expectations from you... but that man has to make your life perfect. That's not real. What are you willing to help a man with in the relationship?

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The Foundation Of Us

Mon, 11 Mar 2024 04:05:00 +0000

It's an "Us" thing, we can't be great solo for long.

We require balance as human beings. In order to show love is a healthy way we need to be loved, in order to show empathy we have to show that for someone else... today Chan wants to talk about the unity of it all.

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Lets Talk Green Flags... & Red Flags For Men Over 30

Mon, 26 Feb 2024 05:00:00 +0000

Yeah, everyone wants to talk about red flags... but let's talk about the men over 30 green flags for the greater good. Red flags are easy to bring up because it takes no effort to see. Healthy characteristics rarely get talked about.

#greenflags #men #healthy # RRR

How To Support A Good Man?

Tue, 13 Feb 2024 02:00:00 +0000

We had a ball with this topic... every woman doesn't want the man with values and standards...its too much pressure to stand next to.

#RRR we talking !!!!

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Can You Handle Their Ambition?

Mon, 29 Jan 2024 14:15:00 +0000

A lot of being talk about the life they want, and the person they want... forgetting it comes with many nights apart...traveling... sacrificing things you may want for a later date. Is that what you want to experience?

#rrr #season3

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Love Isnt Blind Your Decision Skills Suck

Mon, 15 Jan 2024 05:00:00 +0000

Love is not blind people choose to not see what isn't favorable.

#RRR

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Renting Relationships These Days

Mon, 25 Dec 2023 05:05:00 +0000

These days we see you. Faking the funk.

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Being "In Love" Is Not A Reason To Make Dumb Choices

Mon, 11 Dec 2023 05:05:00 +0000

It's a choice to ignore the red flags...it's a choice to not self reflect and have boundaries everyday. Picking temporary fun over logical sense... in ya 30's is a no go.

Thank you to Breanna, Dungeon, guests that left messages...

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#RRR #dumbchoices #inlove

Are Y'all Together For Good Attendance or Good Connection?

Mon, 27 Nov 2023 07:00:00 +0000

Picking someone based on good connection is healthy and should be the foundation. Yet most people feel stuck and just pick who's around... that's called settling. You be unhappy and stressed the whole time living a lie as if you wanted that life. We know you don't.

We don't want you to settle; we want y'all to choose wisely.

Lets chat. #dating #settling #choices

Putting Too Much Value On A Date

Mon, 13 Nov 2023 05:00:00 +0000

Slow down y'all, pump y'all breaks, y'all barely know these people. We have to be better with ourselves and the spaces we give strangers too fast. You can date but why they know where ya mama stay and got a key in two weeks?

#rrr

Redirecting Your Emotions

Mon, 30 Oct 2023 04:05:00 +0000

Welcome back to The Real Relationship Rapport, let's talk about why you all up in ya feelings? For all the wrong reasons.

People assume everyone deserves their energy and they don't.

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Does Your Mate Have Control Over What You Do?

Sat, 14 Oct 2023 03:30:00 +0000

A lot of times people think a parter having any control... is a bad thing. It's respect for the partnership more so than control for me. Dungeon also agrees... We are not Jada & Will... we aint Ike or Tina either. Women know who they respect or not... a man you respect doesn't need to control... but there is a mindset that he deserves. A man that respects the relationship shows you in your absence also. Its not one sided.

Lets chat.

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Adulting Basics Before A Relationship

Mon, 02 Oct 2023 04:40:00 +0000

On this episode, there are too many adults who are looking for someone to be responsible for them Adulting. You shouldn't be dating if you can't pay your phone bill, you shouldn't be dating if you don't have shelter on apartment a home yet. You shouldn't be dating if you know your vehicle is not registered for this year and you're driving without insurance. Getting to the date at 8 PM is not your concern. There are so many reasons why people should not be dating right now, but everybody looks over that. In this episode Dungeon, and Chan discuss the adult basics that need to be had before you entertain the idea of being in a relationship. The person you choose to be in a relationship with romantically is not obligated to fund your lifestyle as an adult.

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Why Do Women Stay With The Cheater?

Sun, 10 Sep 2023 04:20:00 +0000

This episode right here.

Many thoughts.

Just saying if you stay you are no longer the victim or their bad behavior. You are an accomplice to the BS. #cheaters #fools #selflove

The RRR Show...

What’s The Point of Masculine Women?

Sat, 26 Aug 2023 21:00:00 +0000

Well, this is a panel show and a good discussion. Maybe two parts not sure yet. The Real Relationship Rapport is done by Chan and Dungeon; this topic has a panel.

Glo

Gigi

Brookington

On Stereo App

I hope you hear great points and something to make you think.

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What In The Stud Confusion Is Happen'n !?!

Sun, 13 Aug 2023 05:05:00 +0000

We had to get to the facts.

How you present yourself to a visual world matters.

We call a duck a duck because its known and seen as a duck.

A red light is a red light, y'all get it.

Why people confused by who they are? We cannot defeat DNA !!!!

We just want to understand.

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We Need Each Other

Mon, 31 Jul 2023 04:00:00 +0000

We have to admit the truth and do better.

I don't care if you love the same sex.

There are men and women for a reason.

We are better people because of it... shoot we got here because of it... we are not emo meat or lab created bodies.

#rrr #weneedeachother #menneedwomen #stopit

Biggest Lies Told

Sat, 15 Jul 2023 01:40:00 +0000

We Back what's good y'all?!? We doing a hour show for y'all, common lies told in relationships or during situations. Y'all need to stop!!!

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#RRR #relationships #lies #growup

Recap: Y'all Dating Questions Suck

Fri, 02 Jun 2023 04:00:00 +0000

What up y'all? This is still a recap meaning we did this episode in July 2022... But it's still a great episode. I think the questions that we need to be asking one another when we're dating or getting to know someone to see if we would ever want something serious needs to be at a higher level than asking what's your favorite color?

We have to elevate in order to get some thing great. This is the real relationship rapport a podcast where we tackle relationship like things dungeon and I will be back in July with new episodes.

#RRR #askbetterquestions

Recap: Silent Treatment is Gonna Sink Ya Ship?

Fri, 19 May 2023 04:00:00 +0000

A quick recap on a season 2 episode. Silent treatment doesn't help your relationship...

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Recap: Good Guy Vs. Bad Guy Talk

Fri, 05 May 2023 04:00:00 +0000

On this episode, pieces of our original show from last season enjoy!!!! Just a recap

new episodes in July…

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In Love With The Idea Of A Person

Mon, 24 Apr 2023 04:00:00 +0000

How many relationships did you have where you were more in love with the idea of a person.

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Can You Love 2 People At The Same time?

Sun, 09 Apr 2023 04:22:39 +0000

On this episode, We discussed the idea of what it would take to love multiple people at the same time... I say its a no and Dungeon said its a no. Somebody is lying... Someone is getting the shitty end of the stick...

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Do Not Do This During Courting...

Sat, 25 Mar 2023 06:50:00 +0000

Too many of y'all doing spouse like things for strangers... Then wonder why y'all only linked for 2 months... Umm they got what they needed up outta ya, Duh !!!

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What Does Committed Mean To You?

Sat, 11 Mar 2023 07:00:00 +0000

Everyones version of commitment is different.

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Alpha Males Don't Need Poly Relationships

Mon, 27 Feb 2023 05:00:00 +0000

On this episode, Dungeon and Chan talked about how real, alpha males don't talk about how much they are alpha... We talked with the audience and they had a lot to say. We talked about the phony alpha males we have and how it doesn't help anyone to allow them to spread false ideals of how relationships should work. We can't hold people hostage... Let chat.

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90% of Women Are Dating 10% of Men

Sat, 11 Feb 2023 05:00:00 +0000

Y'all Valentines Day ready?

Older men stamina lowers, older women be ready and pop'n.People aint dating for the right reasons... too many of y'all in relationships with permanent embarrassments. We don't want that... Men are out here jealous of all the attention women get.

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Dating People With Nothing To Lose

Mon, 23 Jan 2023 05:05:00 +0000

We have to be picky, y'all keep picking people who have nothing to lose... Why?

Who you date is a reflection of self. Do not date when your grieving, suffering or feeling life lost... date when ya mind is balance and healthy...

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What Makes You Undateable?

Mon, 09 Jan 2023 05:00:00 +0000

Welcome back to another season of The Real Relationship Rapport Podcast, we got Jay and Chan back with another season. This episode were talking about Undateable's, what makes you not fit to date?

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Szn 3 of The Real Talk Y'all Need On Stereo !!!

Sun, 18 Dec 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Season 3 is on the way, Jay x Chan will discuss relationship topics. We been at it this long, might as well continue. We will catch you in January, 2 Fridays a month. Happy new Year and we will catch you then.

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Are They Applying Pressure or Harassing You?

Sun, 20 Nov 2022 00:30:00 +0000

Last Show Of The Year

A lot of y'all do not know the difference, it can't just be harassment when you don't like the looks but then okay when you think they're attractive. Everyone needs boundaries and limits. When you don't take the time to get to know people, that's when you end up in court.

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It Takes 2 To Be In Love

Mon, 14 Nov 2022 05:05:00 +0000

Two people gotta be with it!!!

Y'all out here in love while in one sided relationships... stop it!!! Im embarrassed for you.Be better.

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Men Are Lonely & Women Got High Expectations Pt 2

Mon, 07 Nov 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Be honest with yourself, who you want may not be right for you. Work ships, romantic ships, family ships and other ships may not make it. All of dem shits are work. Chan and Jay go in with thoughts along with you on Stereo App. Happy Monday …Let’s go!!!

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Men Are Lonely & Women Got High Expectations Pt 1

Mon, 31 Oct 2022 04:00:00 +0000

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Looking For The Good In Unworthy People

Mon, 17 Oct 2022 04:05:00 +0000

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Relationships Are Work, Not The Lotto

Mon, 03 Oct 2022 04:05:00 +0000

#RRR : Be honest with yourself, who you want may not be right for you. Work ships, romantic ships, family ships and other ships may not make it. All of dem shits are work. Chan and Jay go in with thoughts along with you on Stereo App. Happy Monday …Let’s go!!!

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How Many Times Can They Cheat Before You're Out?

Sun, 11 Sep 2022 03:40:00 +0000

Welcome to #RRR, Chan & Dungeon discuss the limits of disrespect as far as cheating. How many times would it take for you to leave after your person cheats?

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Is Monogamy Realistic???

Sat, 20 Aug 2022 18:25:00 +0000

Y'all, see the title... here is the thing... do what you do just be honest. Can you afford multiple lovers? Can you emotionally take care of multiple emotions? Let's just be honest this episode, too many people fraud'ing.

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Can You Cheat On Me & Still Love Me?

Sat, 06 Aug 2022 11:40:00 +0000

What’s your opinion on someone cheating that says they love you? Can two things be true at the same time and still mean something good. Chan and Jay go in with thoughts along with you on Stereo App. Happy Saturday …Let’s go!!!

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Provide The Treatment You Demand !!!

Sun, 24 Jul 2022 04:20:00 +0000

This episode, our focus included what people asked for from others seems to never measure up to their willing to do in return. You want a good life, but don't wanna give your mate a good life. A lot of people today come into your life to take only, never to pour in.

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Ask The Right Questions

Sun, 10 Jul 2022 01:00:00 +0000

Dropped this on a Saturday but I know most of y’all Monday listeners. Thank you for listening!!!!

I know ain’t asking the right things on dates, how y’all 2 years in figuring out red flags finally? How did you not know they were in debt? How did you assume for 3 years they didn’t want to be marriage?!? Ask better questions mane. Chan and Jay go in with thoughts along with you on Stereo App. Happy Saturday …Let’s go!!!

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Let That Man Have a Say

Mon, 27 Jun 2022 16:09:37 +0000

I definitely get why Men don’t care about a wedding? Chan and Jay go in with thoughts along with you on Stereo App. Happy Monday …Let’s go!!!

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Friends With Benefits is a Trap !! Pt. 2

Wed, 15 Jun 2022 10:00:00 +0000

So because the first episode went so long I had to make a part two, so we're still talking about friends with benefits is it a good thing is it a bad thing. We are also focusing on some factors that come with gambling that friendship for the sake of just having that session every once in a while. Is it really worth it? What is the point for it? And are you really scared of being by yourself? Chan & Jay does it again

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Are Friends With Benefits For You or Nah? pt.1

Mon, 13 Jun 2022 06:00:00 +0000

Friends with benefits in my opinion only works if one person wants more and the manipulating one doesn't. Would you ever do a FWB, why or why not? We just live in a world today where people don't want titles and they wanna assume who people are in their lives, why? Why are we scared to be direct? Why are we scared to try healthy relationships with people? Dungeon and Chan with guess ask so many questions regarding a FWB.

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Stop The Unrealistic Expectations & Get Real Ones

Mon, 30 May 2022 06:04:00 +0000

Main topic: Lets be honest in our 20's we had unrealistic expectations about who we wanted to be and where we were at. At some point we have to adapt reality... Lets talk to y'all about some unrealistic expectations of your own. Chan and Jay go in with thoughts along with you on Stereo App. Happy Monday …Let’s go!!!

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What Age Should Women/Men Stop...

Mon, 16 May 2022 10:57:00 +0000

Main topic: What are the things men and women doing wrong? At what age should men and women know better? Chan and Jay go in with thoughts along with you on Stereo App. Happy Monday …Let’s go!!!

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When To Take Them Seriously

Mon, 25 Apr 2022 05:52:00 +0000

I think a lot of us fall into this comfortable place of not wanting somebody and not needing somebody. Then we forget to make space for someone good to come into our lives to be in a relationship with. You look at everybody in society and everybody seems like they're here to play with your feelings, take you for granted, take things from you, and leave you with nothing. I understand that people don't want to be taken advantage of. But at some point you have to understand the people who are out to get you and the people who want to do right by you. Honestly, for me (Chan) I have been stalling on relationships because I just feel like it's safer to not try. I know in this episode dungeons going to get all my case, but I know it's out of care. Because honestly having consistent Wayne that's also a good friend that's also someone I can depend on would be nice. But is it possible? And this episode of the real relationship rapport dungeon and Chan talk about it. I hope you guys enjoy.

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Unlearning For The Better

Mon, 11 Apr 2022 05:28:00 +0000

RRR: Grow up... We all seen things growing up that we felt weren't right...So now as an adult... do it different. Treat people better... speak to people you care about better. Love people through having consideration, respect, patience and give them space to unlearn what's needed to be great. What are you unlearning?

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Broken Men Shouldn't Dictate

Mon, 28 Mar 2022 05:42:00 +0000

Welcome to an episode worth discussing... The males today are hurt and at a loss of personal purpose. How do we allow broken people to dictate our happiness, love, and worth? How can you point out people healing and tell them what they don't deserve while you struggle for a focus in life? Accountability is at a loss and affordability to be able to have an input when most males lives are in shambles... is alarming.

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When 2 People Want Peace...

Mon, 14 Mar 2022 05:37:37 +0000

RRR: Save yourself stressful times by being with a person who wants peace too.

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Keep Your Options Open

Mon, 28 Feb 2022 07:02:00 +0000

There is common sense and value in keeping ya options open…Real ones know nothing is forever... Liking a person is cool, but if you not committed to a common goal... it means nothing. Chan and Jay go in with thoughts along with you on Stereo App. Last Friday of February!!!! Let’s go!!!

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85% of Men Today Cannot Afford Relationships

Mon, 14 Feb 2022 05:20:00 +0000

RRR: Y'all saw what I titled this? Headphones please. Can we be honest about what men out here can afford, mentally, physically and emotionally... Financially y'all spent... you not keeping a woman because she gonna ask for more than you got. Too many males today spewing hurt disguised as "Alpha male energy"... A man who knows his leadership and confidence is not threatened by any woman who is doing for herself. Lets be honest on this episode...

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The Tryouts Are Needed

Sun, 30 Jan 2022 07:16:34 +0000

Loud Mouf Stereo pod x The Real Relationship Rapport did a Collab show about how some people are just a part of the tryouts...

Catch y'all 2/11 for our next show on Stereo App at 8pm

Cheaters Guilt

Mon, 24 Jan 2022 07:05:00 +0000

On The Real Relationship Rapport Chan and Jay are discussing: People gotta learn the difference btw cheaters guilt and cheaters remorse, what does it mean? Can you rebuild your relationship? Do you want to stay together? #RRR

RRR: 85% of Women Do Not Know What They Want

Mon, 10 Jan 2022 06:30:00 +0000

On The Real Relationship Rapport Chan and Jay are discussing: A lot of people hate that number but we discussed why that number is relevant. Do women know what they need? Do they do by the standards they set? The men they know they need and deserve do they entertain those men? Why do women keep men with stagnant potential but men only want women who are at a point that they need? Everything deserves balance even the good thangs.

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RRR: The 7 Levels of Intimacy

Mon, 20 Dec 2021 07:22:56 +0000

Hey, Dungeon x Chan discuss the 7 levels of Intimacy you can share with your person. It's not just about the sex you have its the bond and deep insight you share that will make intimate things better. #intimacy #love #bonding

RRR: Can You Help Who You Fall In Love With?

Mon, 06 Dec 2021 08:15:00 +0000

Technically you can, emotionally before 28 years of age no. To be in love with a man currently, I have to see them pouring my future... its beyond " what do you bring to the table ?" Only my husband can ask me that... Dungeon and I chop it up about this love thing...

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RRR: Red Flags x Accountability

Mon, 22 Nov 2021 05:05:00 +0000

Dungeon and Chan discuss all the signs that someone doesn't want you. Its okay to be denied... you one step closer to who you need.

RRR: What Makes You "Meet the Family" Worthy?

Mon, 08 Nov 2021 14:05:00 +0000

RRR:Why should they be able to come to dinner? Do you even like them like that? #holidays

RRR: Rich People Aint Paying To Fcuk

Mon, 18 Oct 2021 04:05:00 +0000

Unless they want to... broke people be like... we aint fcukin unless you pay for this, this and that. Thats broke folk problems sis. Sir she aint paying your bills for peen... #therealrelationshiprapport

RRR: Its Okay To Be Alone

Sat, 02 Oct 2021 09:27:00 +0000

The Real Relationship Rapport: Dungeon and Chan discuss the pro's of being alone before meeting someone else. Too many people are not okay with themselves and find other people to blame.

#RRR #beingalone #growth #relationships

RRR: Old Ways That Men Had Power Over Women

Tue, 21 Sep 2021 04:32:13 +0000

The ways men had power over women 30, 40 or 50 years ago will not work today.Women changed their focus and Men want to be the new women... #RRR #relationships

RRR: Your Person Will Change In The Relationship

Sat, 11 Sep 2021 05:15:40 +0000

The person you are with will change, are you open to that change? Are you ready for it? What are the changes you won't stick around for?

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RRR: You Friends Are The Fuel To Failed Relationships

Tue, 24 Aug 2021 12:08:11 +0000

Just saying… I know some people don’t wanna accept that their friends do not want them to have happiness or other good people around them. Most of the time they pick the wrong people to call friends. Y’all give titles around to easily. Oh Dungeon and I talk about it today.

RRR: The Silent Treatment = Another Failed Relationship

Mon, 09 Aug 2021 04:42:41 +0000

Grow up and stop doing that shit. We grown right? Let's talk about it. We are talking about people who like to do silent treatment instead of voicing their issues. Vote for us on Stereo Golden Mics...

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RRR: Can Open Relationships Be Renegotiated?

Mon, 12 Jul 2021 09:00:00 +0000

We all grown if we talking about open relationships... right? Ain't nothing to hide... Are you into sharing with other people? Can you please multiple people sexually?

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RRR: What About You Would Make A Good Man Stay?!?

Tue, 22 Jun 2021 08:14:00 +0000

Do women even know what a good man looks like? Do women today respect good men? What is your idea of a good man? What are the characteristics of a good man? Dungeon and Chan go in on the issues women have with find a man worth the time… some women feel like they have nothing good to give.

RRR: Can You "Afford" To Date Me?

Mon, 07 Jun 2021 05:25:00 +0000

The title seems entitled, rude, and full of a lot of audacity. It's all facts though dating requires time, sharing, money, compromising, adjusting, and self-work. A lot of people are not there yet but keep dating and wasting their time.

RRR: Things To Not Put On Ya Dating Profile

Wed, 02 Jun 2021 11:10:00 +0000

It’s another Real Relationship Rapport episode for those who use dating apps. What do you put in the profile? Do you know what to put in the profile?

We talked to the people and they out here sharing...

#tinder #bubble #datingapps

RRR: Is That Body Count Important?

Sat, 22 May 2021 08:00:00 +0000

Another good show for yall, we talking about body count... Is it important? Is there a real standard? Should it count for women and not for men? Come get this insight with Dungeon and Chan while you enjoy the show.

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Real Realtionship Rapport: Dungeon Word for Soft Males

Sat, 15 May 2021 14:09:44 +0000

Last Call Part 3, hope y’all enjoying so far. dungeon shared a word for these sensitive males out here hope y’all take heed. We can be abusing people who don’t want us. We can’t be killing women who don’t want our phone numbers. Take your no in peace.

Real Realtionship Rapport: Todays Males Insecure x Bruised pt 2

Thu, 13 May 2021 04:02:53 +0000

What’s up y’all, we getting into men’s issues with rejection, women with ill-smelling body parts. Dungeon and Chan discussed many things with our audience and we hope you enjoy our show.

Welcome To The Real Realtionship Rapport Podcast

Wed, 12 May 2021 03:28:33 +0000

Welcome to the Triple R Show, we got some good discussions... We introducing ourselves and the show details. We got a good crowd!!! This was another 4 plus hour show so I got 3 parts for y’all. We addressing the frail male ego and more.