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Hair Transplants with Dr Dilan Fernando

Tue, 19 Aug 2025 17:00:00 +0000

Hair transplants aren't just about hair; they're about defeating dysphoria and channeling confidence.

Whether you're looking to fill-in your hairline or fill-out your beard, Dr. Dilan Fernando at the multi-award-winning Treatment Rooms London is a true artist. His clinic is known for the incredibly natural results it can give almost everyone looking for gender affirming care, but he also has a special reputation for his work with transgender patients, both MtF and FtM.

In this episode, we explore all the ins and outs of this specialised surgery including the benefits, risks, preparation, recovery, and how to pick the perfect provider. Dr. Dilan's passion for his work shines through, and it's easy to see why he's so pleased with the work he and his co-founder do with painstaking care.

If you're hoping for some hair-raising (or hairline lowering) happiness in your future, please tune in.

You can reach The Treatment Rooms London at https://www.treatmentroomslondon.com/ and via their contact form. While they are physically located in London, they run virtual pre-op and post-op appointments from numerous UK locations. You'll find more information on that on their site.

Note: We met Dilan through a regular consultation process when Rachel was shopping for her own hairline feminisation. Her surgery and the interview portion of this podcast were completed before we invited him to join our book’s sponsor list. We are thrilled he did.

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Dr Marci Bowers (Part Two) – A Life of Firsts

Thu, 31 Jul 2025 20:00:00 +0000

Pull up a comfortable chair and join us as we share the second part of our interview with Dr. Marci Bowers.

Dr. Bowers is renowned for her exceptional surgical work, work that has brought about remarkable advancements for all women, cisgender and transgender alike.

Her dedication to both groups is testament enough, but after thousands of vaginoplasties and hundreds of metoidioplasties and clitoral restorations, she is also a first in more ways than deniers of gender affirming care can count. She is the living embodiment of a theme she espouses throughout this interview: "Don't be afraid of who you are." She is fearless. We could all use more of that.

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Dr Marci Bowers (Part One) – A Life of Firsts

Fri, 27 Jun 2025 14:00:00 +0000

In this very special episode of The Joy Tuck Club, we sit down with Dr. Marci Bowers—trailblazing surgeon, passionate advocate, media-figure, WPATH President, and genuine trans icon. Marci shares her deeply personal journey from childhood in small-town America to becoming the first transgender woman to perform gender-affirming surgery.

We talk candidly about her early attempts to access hormones, the challenges of transitioning while building a medical career, and what it meant to take over the practice of the legendary Dr. Stanley Biber. Along the way, she reflects on identity, privilege, sexism, and why sisterhood sometimes looks like someone holding your pizza box while you pee.

This is the first of a two-part conversation that covers everything from obstetrics to Oprah, all told with Marci’s trademark warmth, wit and wisdom. Whether you’re trans yourself, an ally, or just curious about the lives shaping modern gender medicine—this is not one to miss.

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JTC News Flash - Split me up Scotty: Police policy warps gender norms

Fri, 27 Jun 2025 10:00:00 +0000

In an exemplary move toward clarity, the High Court in the Indian state of Andhra Pradesh has ruled that transgender women are women. This important legal shift helps relieve discrimination against those whose human rights were traditionally filtered through the lens of a being a third, lesser, gender, giving them the same rights as other women. In a notable decision, the judge rejected the notion that womanhood could only be tied to those who may have had a capacity to give birth, thereby outright rejecting the idea that only natal females can be women.

Meanwhile, in the lands of India's colonial forebears, a blighted chaos had reigned since a now well known Supreme Court judgement, and a subsequent alarmingly biased interpretation by the laughably named Equality and Human Rights Commission, unleashed a wave of poorly-informed gatekeeping against not just trans people, but cis women too.

The UK Parliament has now declared that trans women are women if they work there, but not if they are just visiting, but when the history books are written, there will perhaps be no confusion greater than that being shown by the Scottish police force.

Tune in as red and freckles dive into what the heck just happened.

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WPATH and Gender Affirming Surgery with Dr Loren Schechter

Mon, 09 Jun 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Come join us in this episode with Dr. Loren Schechter, one of the United States’ foremost experts in gender-affirming surgery and the President-Elect of WPATH (World Professional Association for Transgender Health).

With over 20 years of experience performing some 150–200 surgeries annually, Dr. Schechter is not short on insights into the evolving field of transgender healthcare.

He also performs numerous types of surgeries, including bottom surgery for MTF and FTM patients, along and strongly believes in the importance of multidisciplinary care including dealing with the emotional realities afterwards.

Of course, being the future president of WPATH, we had us an opportunity to probe, ever so gently, on what the future might hold under the current political threats to trans healthcare. While there were no fiery speeches, you'll certainly get a sense of the steady hand on the tiller he'll provide. WPATH continues to play a critical role in advocacy and setting standards of care, and we all need it to remain relevant.

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Delivering Aesthetics with Dr Oli Curwen

Wed, 07 May 2025 17:00:00 +0000

Injectable treatments are a quick and easy alternative to more invasive surgery to adjust your facial aesthetics to better match your gender. But, as you’ll learn in this episode of The Joy Tuck Club, there are aspects to injectables that also make them first-class participants in any gender-affirming care plan. They can, in some cases, replace FFS, or at least make a very good start at refining your features, but in most others they might also be a necessary complement, acting as the fine brush strokes needed to complete your transformation.

As you’ll hear from Dr Oli Curwen, a very popular practitioner in the community, there are some things to be wary of, including the credentials of the person wielding the pointy bit. But the big one, if you’re needle-phobic, is that you can actually get through this if your practitioner is willing to include some helpful techniques.

We love learning from all the amazing people involved in gender affirming care that we get to interview, and this episode, in particular, is packed with not just a lot of that, but also big lovely heaps of very obvious care.

So have a listen and take the plunger, errr, plunge, into this episode. We promise you won’t end up with trout pout.

If you are within reach of London, you can nab a consult with Dr Oli via his website at https://www.droli.co.uk/.

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FTM Top Surgery with Dr Ioannis Ntanos

Wed, 23 Apr 2025 18:00:00 +0000

Building Bridges, Breaking Barriers

Some walls are fortresses. Each week, new rules, new restrictions, new barriers that make them higher and harder to climb. Some walls need a hero—someone to shatter their faulty logic and malign rigidity. In this episode of The Joy Tuck Club we have a chat with exactly that kind of person.

Dr. Ioannis Ntanos is a surgeon specializing in gender-affirming care, specifically FTM top surgery, operating in London and Athens. He has performed over 980 such surgeries, and is a somewhat unusual counterpoint to the more prescriptive physicians through his emphasis on patient autonomy and shared decision-making.

He is an educator, launching masterclasses and contributing to medical texts, but as you’ll hear in this discussion, he also has a Masters in Ethics and Law, which informs his approach to allyship, and he wields it with surgical precision, scything through the arguments of those opposing gender affirming care. We can only wish there were more Ioannis’ in the world, but alas, there is only one.

Ioannis has a few very important points for anyone contemplating any gender affirming surgery, and it begins with finding a surgeon who is also an ally foremost, and one who won’t put your desired outcome at risk. He says a consultation must always be a negotiation between what is wanted and what is possible. Gatekeeping should never play a part.

But as you can imagine from someone who is also somewhat of a philosopher and polymath, he has many interesting things to say about many things. He leaves on a poetic note, with the full text printed below.

We hope you enjoy, and if you wish to get in touch with Ioannis, please visit his website at https://www.ioannisntanos.com/ and tune into The Top Surgery Podcast on Spotify.

Walls

by C. P. Cavafy

1863 – 1933

translated from the modern Greek by John Cavafy

Without reflection, without mercy, without shame,

they built strong walls and high, and compassed me about.

And here I sit now and consider and despair.

It wears away my heart and brain, this evil fate:

I had outside so many things to terminate.

Oh! why when they were building could I not beware!

But never a sound of building, never an echo came.

Insensibly they drew the world and shut me out.

https://poets.org/poem/walls

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Transpiration Special: Dani St James

Thu, 10 Apr 2025 19:00:00 +0000

In this episode of The Joy Tuck Club we are joined by the delightfully dynamic Dani St James. This isn’t for the faint-hearted though. If you clutch your pearls at the occasional f-bomb, best get them ready.

Calling in from her colourful studio in the seaside town of Margate, Dani shares a transition journey that traces a path from Wales (where trans-miners, yes, miners as in mines, played a key role in her early transition), to Ibiza, where the challenges of tucking and electrical tape sparked an idea that eventually flared into Zoah, a lingerie brand featuring perhaps the best tuckers, binders, and packers any trans person could want. Her dream was to create underwear so comfortable you forget you’re even wearing it.

Along the way she also, much to the surprise of many a parliamentarian suffering from Cassification of the brain, had a good experience at the Tavistock gender clinic, just happened to become the first trans woman to out herself deliberately on a national tv show, became a model and celebrity, and went on to found an incredible charity, Not A Phase, providing vital support to trans and gender non-conforming adults across the UK.

Of course, it wasn’t all smooth sailing, but you’ll have to listen to the episode to find out why.

Dani shares an unfiltered story that is imbued with a monumental amount of joy. It’s also one of perseverance, passion, and a little presale panic, making it a useful listen for anyone needing some entrepreneurial uplifting too. And it all started with someone who initially thought she was just “really shit at being a gay boy.”

Join us for a wonderfully rompish ride through life, love, and the pursuit of comfortable underwear.

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Top Surgery with Dr Giuseppe Di Taranto

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 18:00:00 +0000

Not so long ago (narrator: it was just late last year), we had the pleasure of interviewing Dr Giuseppe Di Taranto—a lively, passionate Italian surgeon now based in London. His fascination with microsurgery led him across continents to Asia, where he discovered a deep interest in the intricate challenges of gender-affirming care.

Dr Di Taranto now offers a wide range of treatments at his own clinic (https://giuseppeditaranto.com/)—from facelifts and breast augmentations to body contouring and non-surgical treatments—and also consults at the renowned Chelsea and Westminster Hospital.

But beyond his surgical skills, he is a true trans ally. When another clinic suddenly shut down, he stepped in to support abandoned patients, and he continues to offer care that goes above and beyond what many surgeons in this field provide.

We were thrilled to speak with him about his journey, his work, what patients can expect, and how best to approach a consultation.

So, tune in, download, listen up (or down), and enjoy this episode with the really quite lovely Dr Di Taranto.

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Transpiration Special: Freda, Warrior Princess

Fri, 21 Feb 2025 12:00:00 +0000

Few combine humor with heartfelt political discourse better than the unbreakable Freda Wallace. Her insights and commentary make for a riveting blend of levity and gravity on the JoyTuck Club. Honestly, it’s a rollercoaster, but one whose twists and turns, ups downs, mirror the reality in which we live.

Recorded in 2023, this interview portends a 2nd Trump presidency and the grave nature of the fight of, and for, our lives as transgender men and women.

Freda's personal battles against doxxing and defamation show the resilience necessary to advocate for equality in the face of adversity. As she peels back the curtain on activism's stark realities, we're reminded of the courage it takes to maintain a public presence, of staying visible, and the importance of fostering empathy in our communities.

The tides of social change are often tumultuous, and this discussion with Freda on the fragility of LGBTQ+ rights, the divisive political climate, and the need for inclusive spaces is an urgent one. Join us for a journey through the complexities of life and self-determination, all wrapped up in the indomitable spirit of Freda Wallace.

You can find more of Freda on her recently relaunch YouTube channel at The Trans Lobby.

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Facialteam and FFS with Dr Daniel Simon

Wed, 05 Feb 2025 15:00:00 +0000

Any surgery involving your bones has, historically at least, always seemed rather brutal, evoking images of saws, hammers and brightly glinting chisels. But any status quo also represents an opportunity for innovation, for disruption, and sometimes all that takes is to step back and look at things a little bit differently. And that’s exactly what happened at Facialteam.

Where other surgeons chose to perform FFS by becoming experts in three different areas, the founders of Facialteam decided to divide the work, use three surgeons in every operation, and standardise the procedures so they could be repeated across an ever expanding team of surgeons, even while ensuring that every operation was guided by 3D modelling and tooling to ensure the best possible outcome.

In this episode of The Joy Tuck Club we chat with Dr Daniel Simon, maxillofacial surgeon, and co-founder of what has become the world’s leading clinic for facial feminisation.

Along with a brief history lesson, Dr Simon also talks about his motivations, the challenges they’ve faced, some of their innovations, and what the future might hold.

If you are considering FFS, or just want to know more, join us in this fascinating conversation.

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Scar Treatment and Surgery Prep with Lisa Lefever

Wed, 22 Jan 2025 15:00:00 +0000

The big day is almost here! Your bag is packed, you’ve got comfy clothes for the hospital, and you’ve even pre-ordered the scar gel. You’re all set, right?

Maybe not. Have you also made sure you had a soft laser pre-treatment performed on the area that is expected to scar? By priming your body’s natural healing response, your skin will have a supply of naturally-produced collagen at the ready, and you’ll not only improve your rate of healing, but also the end result.

In this fourth info-packed episode in our medical series, The Joy Tuck Club talks with renowned scar treatment expert Lisa Lefever about everything skin related, from surgical prep to post-op care, to an essential and very simple daily routine, and how your own body can be prompted with a little mechanical help to start replacing older scars with rejuvenated tissue.

You’ll also hear Lisa talk about her own journey, how she persisted and is now changing the treatment regime for many patients, improving their outcomes and getting surgeons on board along the way. And who knows, maybe you’ll also become one of Lisa’s Lefever Angels and help others in the trans community.

Join us for this fascinating discussion. Scars are more than a bump in the road (or keloid in the dermis), but you don't have to accept their inevitability. Help is at hand.

The post treatment cleanser Lisa mentions doesn’t cost a fortune and is available online and off. You can find out more on their website at Clinisept+.

Contact Lisa through her clinic (Clinic Lefever) or by sending an email to cliniclefever@gmail.com.

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Facialteam and FFS with Dr Luis Capitán

Wed, 08 Jan 2025 17:00:00 +0000

Happy New Year, everyone!

Gender affirming facial surgery (facial feminisation surgery, better known simply as FFS) is one of the most fundamental and important aspects of many an FtM transition. Our face is likely the first thing people notice, and the last thing they remember. It is our signature, our calling card, and unless puberty blockers were in use, the most obvious pointer to our assigned gender.

For many of us, the testosterone-induced changes to our skull wreak havoc on our confidence and sense of self, and fuel overwhelming dysphoria. Our brows are pushed out, jaw flared, chin, nose and larynx enlarged, even while our eyes are narrowed, hairline receded, and crown thinned. And that's not even the end of it.

Not so long ago (just a few decades, in fact) little could be done to erase testosterone's mark on the underlying structures of our face. There were some interventions around rhinoplasty, hair transplants, and injectables, but just the possibility of even a partial reversal of all of those changes was out of the question.

While the deft wielding of scalpels and ultrasonic tools cannot correct this in a way that would completely negate the impact of going through a puberty infused with T, it can and does work wonders.

Today, numerous surgeons offer FFS, but one clinic has risen to the top and you probably already know their name: Facialteam, founded in Marbella, Spain.

In this third episode in our medical series you'll meet Facialteam's enigmatic co-founder, Dr Luis Capitán, in an incredibly candid interview.

You'll hear about Facialteam's founding and guiding principals, their meticulous data-driven research and innovation, and the ethical considerations that underpin every procedure. Dr Capitán also opens up about their aesthetic philosophies, their goal to standardise best practices and procedures through cutting-edge technology, and their hopes for the future.

FFS is a complex interplay of procedures, and so, it turns out, is Facialteam. If you are considering FFS, be sure to listen to this illuminating interview.

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Gender Affirming Voice Therapy with Christella Antoni

Wed, 25 Dec 2024 12:00:00 +0000

Merry Christmas to all you wonderful Tuckers! We wish you an abundance of peace, happiness, and safety.

Christmas gifts take many forms, so we’re going to try to get away with making this episode ours to you. We’re not doing this just to wish you a Merry Christmas, although why not?, it’s that you may discover that tackling one of the most challenging aspects of transition is easier than you had previously thought.

You see, if you are are anything like us, you probably find your voice to be particularly problematic. That barely controlled instrument of communication carries it’s own giveaway: a nature that, if previously doused in T, makes you think twice about using it in public, and absolutely abhor answering a phone call. You’ll end up misgendered in about as much time as it takes to say “hello.”

In the previous episode with Dr Chadwan Al Yaghchi we took a rather deep dive into voice surgery. In this one, we chat with renowned voice therapist Christella Antoni, someone who has helped thousands of people align their voice to their gender identity both as an adjunct to surgery, but also without.

Like all the interviews we’re doing for the medical series on transition, this one has its share of surprises. We hope you find it as enlightening as we did.

Finally, all bookings made in January 2025 through Christella’s website (https://www.christellaantoni.co.uk/) receive a 10% discount.

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Gender Affirming Voice Surgery with Dr Chadwan Al Yaghchi

Wed, 11 Dec 2024 07:00:00 +0000

“When the sunlight strikes raindrops in the air, they act like a prism and form a rainbow. The rainbow is a division of white light into many beautiful colours. These take the shape of a long round arch..."

If you ever have gender affirming vocal surgery, you'll probably become more than a little familiar with this quotation. It's the start of the Rainbow Passage, a standard recitation used to measure the before and after results for patients who undergo this incredibly delicate yet massively life-changing procedure.

For most trans people, the question of whether or not to have such a surgery depends on many personal factors as well as overall transition goals. And there are usually more questions than readily-available answers.

If such thoughts send a small quaver through your own voice, it might be time to join us at The Joy Tuck Club, as we sit down with one of the world's most renowed voice feminising surgeons, Dr Chadwan Al Yaghchi of the London Voice and Swallowing Clinic. You can contact him via the details provided at lvsclinic.com.

In this interview you'll learn more than you probably ever thought you'd need to know, including choosing a surgeon, how to get the most out of your initial consultation, the questions to ask, preparation for the surgery, the recovery timeline, as well as the benefits but also some of the other changes to your voice that may negatively impact your life at work, home, and play.

We also talk about the need for therapy after surgery, and the importance of this type of surgery in easing at least one of the difficulties in getting through a typical day.

This is the first in our series of interviews with leading gender affirming health care professionals from around the world including surgeons, therapists, and more.

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Plans, Trans, and Automobiles

Sat, 19 Oct 2024 10:00:00 +0000

What happens when two trans podcasters decide to trade in negative headlines for personal stories of joy and adventure? Rachel and Phoebe, affectionately known as Red and Freckles, invite you to find out as they kick off season two of the Joy Tuck Club podcast after a long hiatus. We've had a whirlwind of a year, from Phoebe's globe-trotting escapades to our serendipitous nuptials. Tune in to hear all about our unexpected challenges, like navigating the UK border and sharing laughter-filled days at Disneyland Paris. We're reconnecting with our listeners and hope to feature your uplifting stories in upcoming episodes.

Embark on our European escapades as we recount a Christmas spent in a picturesque French cottage and the bittersweet trials of maintaining a long-distance relationship. The logistical gymnastics of finalizing a divorce and tackling visa hurdles led us to the sunlit shores of Cyprus, seeking a warm, welcoming expat community. We'll take you along on a rollicking road trip covering seven countries, complete with mechanical mishaps and an encounter with the Belgian police that turned an ordeal into an unforgettable adventure. Our tales are filled with humor, warmth, and the resilience needed to make a new home in unfamiliar lands.

Join us as we explore the emotional landscape of transitioning identities across borders, sharing the highs and lows of immigration challenges and healthcare frustrations. We discuss the comforting presence of friends like Frances and the joy of reunification with loved ones. Expect candid film reviews and book recommendations, too, as we critique the portrayal of trans stories in media and spotlight the extraordinary within the ordinary. With a sprinkle of humor and a dose of real-life experiences, we aim to highlight the beauty and complexity of living authentically.

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The Man Who Fell to TERF

Fri, 15 Dec 2023 21:00:00 +0000

Ready to get the inside scoop on the recent Doctor Who special controversy? Stay tuned as we, your hosts Rachel and Phoebe, react to the backlash regarding the inclusion of a transgender character. We'll navigate the choppy waters of representation in media, and discuss whether there's ever a "right" way to include transgender characters.

Prepare to dive deep into the less-discussed implications of hormone replacement therapy (HRT). We'll approach this topic with personal tales and raw honesty, exploring phenomena like the surprising shift in temperature sensitivity, changes in libido, and the drastic physical transformations. Get ready to shed the unnecessary guilt and societal pressures as we stress the importance of unique transitioning journeys - reminding listeners that HRT is not a compulsory element.

But there's more! We're digging into the frightening developments around transgender rights and conversion therapy in both the UK and US. We'll unpack the anti-trans sentiments that surfaced during the recent GOP debates, the misinformation being spread about transgenderism and the lonely plight of anti-trans activist Graham Linehan. Additionally, we'll delve into the topic of trans women in amateur sports. Lastly, we'll share our two cents on the topic of bottom surgery, the role of gender identity clinics, and the importance of self-affirmation in the transition process. Don't miss this enlightening, in-depth exploration.

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Transpiration Special: Robin Hague, Changing Orbits for Corsets

Wed, 06 Dec 2023 19:00:00 +0000

Have you ever wondered what it means to truly be yourself? Join us in a heart-to-heart conversation with Robin, a brave individual who shares her enlightening journey of self-discovery and transition. This captivating episode unfolds Robin's tale of unveiling her true identity during the pandemic; an extraordinary period that had us all locked away in our homes and lost within our thoughts. Robin opens up about her exploration of gender identity, throwing light on the unique opportunities and challenges that the pandemic presented.

Transitioning is a journey, not just a destination - and Robin is here to share every step of theirs. From their first night out presenting as their true self, their medical journey involving private consultations, referrals to the NHS, to their experience of facial feminisation surgery - Robin leaves no stone unturned. Not just that, Robin also talks about her newfound passion - the arts. Post-transition, she discovered a love for performance that has further helped her express her true self.

But what does it mean to transition in a professional environment? As an engineer in a male-dominated realm, Robin takes us through her experience, highlighting the impact of transitioning on her career aspirations. The episode concludes with a meaningful discussion around the importance of community and allies, as Robin recounts personal stories of coming out to friends and family. So, plug in your earphones, make yourself comfortable, and get ready to be inspired by Robin's journey of courage, acceptance, and self-exploration.

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Transpiration Special: The Many Facets of Rachel

Tue, 28 Nov 2023 19:00:00 +0000

Ever wondered how it might feel when your identity is at odds with the world's perception of you? Rachel, a remarkable trans woman and mother of four, sheds light on this experience.

In a talk given to a global audience at her workplace during Transgender Awareness Week, Rachel courageously shares her personal journey of self-discovery and resilience as a transgender woman. She explores her transition amidst the COVID-19 pandemic, the challenges she faced, and the impact on her relationships.

But she doesn't stop there. With the rise of anti-trans rhetoric in the media and its devastating consequences on the transgender community, it's crucial for allies to step up. She delves into the issue, discussing the government and media's anti-trans policies and the effects they have on the community. She emphasises the need for allies to speak out against transphobia, offering ways you can lend your support.

Join us as Rachel, this podcast's incredible co-host, explores transgender identities and rights against the backdrop of her own lived experience, aiming for a world with more understanding and acceptance.

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The Trans that Time Forgot

Thu, 23 Nov 2023 15:00:00 +0000

Have you ever wondered about the rich tapestry of transgender history and the challenges we face today? Journey with us, Rachel and Phoebe, as we traverse through the annals of time, retelling the often overlooked stories of our trans ancestors like King Henry III of France and the group "Rebecca and her daughters". We celebrate the beauty in the diversity of our community, sharing personal tales of acceptance and coming out in different cultures and eras, and reminding everyone that transgender identities and expressions have always existed, and will continue to do so.

The conversation doesn't stop at history, though. We tackle the hot-button issues that affect us daily, shedding light on topics like the fetishization of trans women in dating, the struggle for gender balance on public boards, and the complex topic of trans women in sports. Hear us break down stereotypes and debunk myths surrounding these issues, all the while being true to our identities and our experiences.

As we wrap up, remember this: you are valid, beautiful, and transcending boundaries. Come, join us on the Joy Tuck Club, where every episode is a celebration of our diversity and resilience.

Listen to the podcast where we were guests for Transgender Awareness Week at We Recover Loudly.

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The Bonfire of the Tranities

Thu, 19 Oct 2023 17:00:00 +0000

The unprecedented rise of transphobia, which is shaking the very core of our societies, is the burning topic of our discussion today. This unnerving wave of discrimination has prompted the UK government to redefine the concepts of 'man' and 'woman' to 'biological sex', paving the way for a potential withdrawal from the UN's European Convention on Human Rights.

As we navigate this thorny issue, we delve into the disturbing impact of Christian right-wing think tanks and the surge in negative media coverage, which have contributed to the dehumanisation of minorities. We confront the alarming reality of the Conservative government utilising the trans community as a political diversion. The repercussions of this are far-reaching and deeply troubling, particularly for those who don't fit the heteronormative mold.

In the midst of these challenges, we strive to illuminate the resilience and courage exhibited by the trans community during these testing times. We journey through the unsettling narrative of UK Prime Minister Rishi Sunak, whose speech has sparked a wave of anti-trans sentiment, to the proposed blanket bans on trans healthcare in the US. Yet, hope resides in resilience. We draw attention to the signs of resistance from the trans community and their allies in the face of adversity, emphasising the urgent need for empathy and understanding. Join us as we dissect these pressing issues with a compassionate lens, advocating for a future free from hate.

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Transpiration Special: Oliver Radclyffe, from Her to Paternity

Sun, 08 Oct 2023 17:00:00 +0000

On this transpiration special edition, we get down and dirty with transmasc author Oliver Radclyffe, talking about every aspect of his life, from an upper-class girl breaking gender boundaries, and mother of four, to his eventual coming out at a motorcycle rally, the euphoria of aligning with his gender identity, and the challenges and delights of his ultimate transition journey.

A refreshing and enlightening conversation, this episode delves into the complexities of being trans where even the closest of familial relationships can become steeped in what Oliver describes aptly as a "hostile cis perspective".

From Oliver's first-hand account of his life experiences, we navigate the grey areas of gender norms and the back and forth struggle Oliver had with his personal identity that set his transition back for many years until he hadan epiphany reading a famous book by his now namesake, Radclyffe Hall.

We chat about the societal presentation of non-binary genders and the growing acceptance of breaking away from conventional gender-specific clothing. Oliver also opens up about his ten-year journey of coming out and transitioning, an odyssey that he beautifully captures in his upcoming book, 'Frighten the Horses.'

Our dialogue extends beyond Oliver's personal experiences. It touches upon broader issues affecting the transgender community, such as the anxiety of transitioning, the difficulties in accessing healthcare, and the recent legislation impacting the healthcare rights of trans youth in the United States. This conversation provides an intimate look at the triumphs and challenges faced by the transgender community. Regardless of your sexual orientation or identity, this episode will broaden your perspectives. So, tune in and become a part of this enlightening conversation.

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Nope Springs Eternal

Wed, 04 Oct 2023 16:00:00 +0000

Ever found yourself puzzled and curious about gender dysphoria? Let us, Rachel and Phoebe, be your guides on this journey, taking you through the complexities of this condition, its symptoms, common misconceptions, and varied treatment options. Drawing from the well of our personal experiences, we offer a uniquely empathetic perspective on the discomfort often associated with gender dysphoria.

Navigating the labyrinth of GD, we examine the profound significance of clothing, and how it impacts our relationship with intimacy. We recall childhood memories – narratives of joy and fear tied to expressing our gender identities, share personal anecdotes, unravel the nuances of our identities and the complexities of navigating public and private spaces.

In light of recent events, our discussion extends to the election of a transgender homecoming queen and the reactions she faced. We shine a light on heroes like Dylan Mulvaney and the Trevor Project, who tirelessly work towards making a difference in the LGBTQ community. We close out our conversation with a Q&A, providing practical advice on managing dysphoria and ensuring bathroom safety for trans individuals. Sharing our stories, our struggles, and our triumphs, we aim to create a safe space for dialogue and understanding. So, join us, not just to learn, but to grow with us.

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Satan Transed Our Child

Wed, 20 Sep 2023 21:00:00 +0000

How well do you truly understand the vibrant spectrum of transgender identities? Get ready to challenge and expand your perspectives as we share personal stories, debunk myths, and provide helpful insights about the transgender experience. Beginning with the pivotal question "How do you know you're trans?", we navigate the complex terrain of transgender identities, shattering the notion that it is simply about cross-dressing. We also take a look at the DSM's six criteria for diagnosing gender dysphoria and offer a more relatable checklist that could help you or someone you love gain clarity about gender identity.

Moving to the forefront of transgender issues, we discuss California's historic recognition of Transgender History Month, Lady Gaga's advocacy for our community, and the recent controversy surrounding Dr Who actor David Tennant. We dissect the falsehood that androgynous nicknames influence children's gender identities, and celebrate Lady Gaga's support of our community. Wrapping up, we guide you through the often daunting process of coming out. From personal anecdotes of Instagram mishaps to the serious matter of securing safety, we share our wisdom and strategies. Whether for yourself or to better understand a friend or family member, tune in for an enriching episode on the transgender experience.

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Transpiration Special: Meja Foss's Race Against Time

Thu, 14 Sep 2023 22:00:00 +0000

Meeting Meja

Have you ever given much thought to the complex and challenging journey that comes with transitioning? What if you were not just transitioning, but doing so rapidly and globally? Meet our extraordinary guest Meja Foss, a trans woman who decided to take charge of her destiny, racing against time and borders to transition medically and surgically. A successful serial entrepreneur, Meja's journey took her from realizing her need to transition to making it a reality, showcasing her incredible resilience amidst a challenging health care system and the emotional strain of waiting for hormone replacement therapy.

Venturing through the twists and turns of her journey, Meja opens up about her gender-affirming surgeries in Seoul and Istanbul, highlighting the importance of staying longer than recommended post-surgery to prevent complications. She talks candidly about the unexpected side effects she experienced and her decision to embrace the results rather than chasing perfection. Meja also shares the emotional and psychological impacts of these procedures, particularly how her bottom surgery eased her dysphoria.

As we delve further into Meja's life, we explore her ongoing journey as a trans woman, navigating everything from the challenges of passing to contemplating the concept of a magic button to become cis. But Meja's story doesn't end with her transition - she's also a successful woman, wife, and mother. Her story is a testament to the resilience and determination of the trans community, making this episode a must-listen for anyone seeking insight into their experiences. Join us as we explore Meja's inspiring journey, and hear the invaluable advice she has to offer to other trans individuals.

You can connect with Meja online. Just click here: linktr.ee/mejafoss.

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Balls in a Mason Jar

Tue, 05 Sep 2023 23:00:00 +0000

Have you ever wondered about the journey of transition, or have questions about it that you're afraid to ask? We're Red and Freckles, your trans agony aunts, ready to address your queries, thoughts, and concerns. Join us as we set the stage to celebrate the diversity and beauty of being trans, and shed light on every facet of the transition journey – from hormone replacement therapy (HRT) to changing your name and beyond.

In a serious exploration of the struggles faced by trans individuals in the UK, we share heart-rending stories of daunting wait times at gender identity clinics, and how the healthcare system is falling short. Meanwhile, shining a ray of hope, we discuss Beyonce's empowering support for the trans community and the unique Seahorse Parents Project, a beautiful tribute to heavily pregnant transgender parents, and share the curious tale of a mason jar used in an unusual way. We even touch upon our highly anticipated book 'How to Transition' – a comprehensive guide that aims to answer all your queries, and more, about transitioning. So listen in, share your stories, and join us on our quest to foster understanding and acceptance of trans identities.

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