RedCircle VERIFY_TOKEN_a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021 -- Rendered At Sun, 24 May 2026 08:03:34 +0000 Raising His Kids https://redcircle.com/shows/raising-his-kids en-AU All rights reserved. Real Talk for Every Mum in a Blended Family Toni Graham Co-parenting is hard, being a mum is hard, and being a stepmother is one of the most challenging and rewarding roles a woman can take on—but you don’t have to navigate it alone. Welcome to Raising His Kids, the podcast dedicated to all mothers in blended families, hosted by Toni, a stepmum and bio mum. As someone who experiences blended family life from both sides—as a biological mum and a stepmum—Toni offers a unique perspective on the complexities of this roller coaster. A domestic violence survivor who’s faced the chaos firsthand, she shares raw, honest, and relatable insights into the challenges of navigating relationships with high-conflict exes, blending families, and finding balance in the midst of it all. Each week, you’ll find practical advice, real-life stories, and a supportive community that understands the highs and lows of Raising His Kids—whether that be as the bio mum or the stepmum. Toni isn’t afraid to talk about the hard stuff—because she’s lived it—and she’s passionate about empowering biological mothers and stepmothers alike to thrive and find security in their roles within the children’s lives. Whether you’re new to this life or a seasoned co-parenting mum or stepmum, grab your coffee or wine and join Toni for candid conversations about what it means to embrace blended family chaos with grace and humour. Subscribe now to Raising His Kids on your favourite podcast app, and if you love what you hear, leave a five-star review. Let’s tackle this blended family roller coaster together! a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021 Co-parenting is hard, being a mum is hard, and being a stepmother is one of the most challenging and rewarding roles a woman can take on—but you don’t have to navigate it alone. Welcome to Raising His Kids, the podcast dedicated to all mothers in blended families, hosted by Toni, a stepmum and bio mum.

As someone who experiences blended family life from both sides—as a biological mum and a stepmum—Toni offers a unique perspective on the complexities of this roller coaster. A domestic violence survivor who’s faced the chaos firsthand, she shares raw, honest, and relatable insights into the challenges of navigating relationships with high-conflict exes, blending families, and finding balance in the midst of it all.  

Each week, you’ll find practical advice, real-life stories, and a supportive community that understands the highs and lows of Raising His Kids—whether that be as the bio mum or the stepmum. Toni isn’t afraid to talk about the hard stuff—because she’s lived it—and she’s passionate about empowering biological mothers and stepmothers alike to thrive and find security in their roles within the children’s lives.  

Whether you’re new to this life or a seasoned co-parenting mum or stepmum, grab your coffee or wine and join Toni for candid conversations about what it means to embrace blended family chaos with grace and humour.  

Subscribe now to Raising His Kids on your favourite podcast app, and if you love what you hear, leave a five-star review. Let’s tackle this blended family roller coaster together!  

]]> episodic yes Toni Graham raisinghiskidspodcast@gmail.com yes full They “Got Along” So What Went Wrong?! They “Got Along” So What Went Wrong?! 148 Toni Graham This episode is a heavier one.

We’re talking about the Carnival Horizon case involving a blended family, step-siblings, and a situation that ended in the worst possible way.

But this isn’t about the crime itself.

It’s about the conversations that come from it.

The uncomfortable ones.

The ones people don’t want to say out loud.

The ones many blended families quietly navigate behind closed doors.

We unpack step-sibling dynamics, boundaries, what happens when kids feel uncomfortable, and whether we sometimes prioritise “keeping the peace” over actually listening.

This is one of those conversations where we don’t have all the answers… but we ask the questions anyway.

Because avoiding it doesn’t make it go away.

If you’ve ever questioned dynamics in your blended home, or wondered where the line is between normal tension and something that needs attention, this episode will make you think.

]]> <p>This episode is a heavier one.</p><p>We’re talking about the Carnival Horizon case involving a blended family, step-siblings, and a situation that ended in the worst possible way.</p><p>But this isn’t about the crime itself.</p><p>It’s about the conversations that come from it.</p><p>The uncomfortable ones.</p><p>The ones people don’t want to say out loud.</p><p>The ones many blended families quietly navigate behind closed doors.</p><p>We unpack step-sibling dynamics, boundaries, what happens when kids feel uncomfortable, and whether we sometimes prioritise “keeping the peace” over actually listening.</p><p>This is one of those conversations where we don’t have all the answers… but we ask the questions anyway.</p><p>Because avoiding it doesn’t make it go away.</p><p>If you’ve ever questioned dynamics in your blended home, or wondered where the line is between normal tension and something that needs attention, this episode will make you think.</p> 3bb3334f-5c09-4630-a0ec-78e650ba21ef https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/bfd57b60-7889-4a2e-afcb-a645c4626fed Mon, 20 Apr 2026 08:00:20 +0000 1556 yes full The Blended Bond The Blended Bond 147 Toni Graham If communication in your blended family has ever felt hard, tense, or like it keeps going in circles, this one is for you.

In this episode, I’m joined by Ashley, founder of Blended Bond, and we’re talking all things communication in blended families.

We get into why these conversations can feel so difficult, how quickly things can escalate, and what it actually looks like to create emotional safety when there are so many moving parts involved.

Ashley shares the heart behind Blended Bond and how it’s helping families open up conversations in a way that feels more intentional and less reactive.

If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation thinking “that could have gone better,” you’re not alone… and this episode will definitely resonate 🤍


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]]> <p>If communication in your blended family has ever felt hard, tense, or like it keeps going in circles, this one is for you.</p><p>In this episode, I’m joined by Ashley, founder of Blended Bond, and we’re talking all things communication in blended families.</p><p>We get into why these conversations can feel so difficult, how quickly things can escalate, and what it actually looks like to create emotional safety when there are so many moving parts involved.</p><p>Ashley shares the heart behind Blended Bond and how it’s helping families open up conversations in a way that feels more intentional and less reactive.</p><p>If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation thinking “that could have gone better,” you’re not alone… and this episode will definitely resonate 🤍</p><p><br></p><p><span>Want 15% off Blended Bond? Send me a DM and I’ll send you the code 🤍</span></p><p>Follow &amp; Support Ashley here:</p><p><a href="https://blendedbond.com" rel="nofollow">Website</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/theblendedbond?igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw%3D%3D&utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/BlendedBond/" rel="nofollow">Facebook </a></p> dd6d41bb-60ee-49d2-82ee-4506600cb983 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/b63199b9-bd7c-459e-a253-f7a3251d9157 Mon, 23 Mar 2026 08:00:29 +0000 2655 yes full The Things We Wish We Could Say to Each Other The Things We Wish We Could Say to Each Other 146 Toni Graham In this episode, Toni is joined by Lauren as they dive into what stepmums wish they could say to bio mums — and what bio mums wish they could say to stepmums. They read comments from recent posts, unpack the unsaid thoughts, and explore perspectives that rarely get spoken out loud.

Whether you’re a bio mum, a bonus mum, or somewhere in between, this episode is for anyone navigating the blended family roller coaster.

]]> <p>In this episode, Toni is joined by Lauren as they dive into <strong>what stepmums wish they could say to bio mums — and what bio mums wish they could say to stepmums</strong>. They read comments from recent posts, unpack the unsaid thoughts, and explore perspectives that rarely get spoken out loud.</p><p>Whether you’re a bio mum, a bonus mum, or somewhere in between, this episode is for anyone navigating the <strong>blended family roller coaster</strong>.</p> 94b4c030-a394-463a-b7ec-08b6f3025567 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/ba59e5f2-a5ed-48d0-a885-5e7dbeae1acb Mon, 23 Feb 2026 10:11:18 +0000 1963 yes full New Year, Same Chaos, Choosing Goals Over Resolutions New Year, Same Chaos, Choosing Goals Over Resolutions 145 Toni Graham In this episode, I sit down with Jyl Barlow to talk honestly about the new year — and why neither of us believe in resolutions. Instead, we dive into the goals, intentions, and hopes we’re carrying into this year while navigating blended family life, co-parenting, mental health, and personal growth.

From setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care to exploring therapy, writing, and creative goals, this conversation is about choosing what you want to move toward — without the pressure or perfection. Reflective, real, and unscripted, it’s the kind of chat you’d have with a friend about what truly matters.

If you’re done with unrealistic expectations and ready to focus on intentional growth, this episode is for you.

]]> <p>In this episode, I sit down with Jyl Barlow to talk honestly about the new year — and why neither of us believe in resolutions. Instead, we dive into the goals, intentions, and hopes we’re carrying into this year while navigating blended family life, co-parenting, mental health, and personal growth.</p><p>From setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care to exploring therapy, writing, and creative goals, this conversation is about choosing what you want to move toward — without the pressure or perfection. Reflective, real, and unscripted, it’s the kind of chat you’d have with a friend about what truly matters.</p><p>If you’re done with unrealistic expectations and ready to focus on intentional growth, this episode is for you.</p> 4f3eb40d-f4af-4e4d-a04c-42528ce97f30 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/0aa3e1e9-3ebd-4781-80c1-34abf64f907a Mon, 26 Jan 2026 08:00:01 +0000 2246 yes full A Merry Little Ex-Mas! A Merry Little Ex-Mas! 144 Toni Graham Christmas in a blended family rarely looks like the movies.

In this episode, Toni and Jyl talk about how Christmas traditions change after separation and how expectations often need to shift once you’re navigating shared custody and blended family life. They reflect on the traditions they’ve kept, the ones they’ve let go of, and how the holidays can bring up unexpected emotions for both parents and stepparents.

The conversation then turns to the Netflix movie A Merry Little Ex-Mas, unpacking what it gets right about blended family dynamics — and where it completely misses the mark. From awkward stepmum moments to unrealistic co-parenting portrayals, they explore how media shapes expectations and why real life is often far more complicated.

This episode is an honest look at Christmas on the blended family roller coaster, with one focus at the centre: keeping the magic alive for the kids, even when the holidays feel anything but simple.

]]> <p>Christmas in a blended family rarely looks like the movies.</p><p>In this episode, Toni and Jyl talk about how Christmas traditions change after separation and how expectations often need to shift once you’re navigating shared custody and blended family life. They reflect on the traditions they’ve kept, the ones they’ve let go of, and how the holidays can bring up unexpected emotions for both parents and stepparents.</p><p>The conversation then turns to the Netflix movie <em>A Merry Little Ex-Mas</em>, unpacking what it gets right about blended family dynamics — and where it completely misses the mark. From awkward stepmum moments to unrealistic co-parenting portrayals, they explore how media shapes expectations and why real life is often far more complicated.</p><p>This episode is an honest look at Christmas on the blended family roller coaster, with one focus at the centre: keeping the magic alive for the kids, even when the holidays feel anything but simple.</p> e76228aa-024d-4256-a7c4-c4ce452133e9 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/eec92eb0-0ec5-4607-a998-bd55b0ee0e04 Mon, 22 Dec 2025 11:21:44 +0000 3544 yes full AITA or Just in a Blended Family AITA or Just in a Blended Family 143 Toni Graham Lauren is back and we’re diving into your AITA submissions and anonymous stepmum stories — and yes, the chaos absolutely delivered this week. Between the petty, the justified, the unhinged, and the “only in a blended family” moments, we had a LOT to unpack.

But as always, when Lauren and I get talking, everything else comes up too — parenting wins and fails, mental health moments, ADHD life, family dynamics, the emotional needs of kids in blended families, step-parenting challenges, and the real-life stuff that happens around holidays, budgeting, and co-parenting communication.

We talk about the things no one warns you about: navigating different household rules, trying to teach gratitude, dealing with tricky holiday expectations, and figuring out how to protect your kids’ emotional wellbeing while also not losing your mind. The episode still has all the laughs and honesty you expect, but with the actual structured version that didn’t go off on every tangent (you’re welcome).

If you’ve ever wondered “Am I the arsehole… or am I just in a blended family?” this episode is basically your sign.

]]> <p>Lauren is back and we’re diving into your AITA submissions and anonymous stepmum stories — and yes, the chaos absolutely delivered this week. Between the petty, the justified, the unhinged, and the “only in a blended family” moments, we had a LOT to unpack.</p><p>But as always, when Lauren and I get talking, everything else comes up too — parenting wins and fails, mental health moments, ADHD life, family dynamics, the emotional needs of kids in blended families, step-parenting challenges, and the real-life stuff that happens around holidays, budgeting, and co-parenting communication.</p><p>We talk about the things no one warns you about: navigating different household rules, trying to teach gratitude, dealing with tricky holiday expectations, and figuring out how to protect your kids’ emotional wellbeing while also not losing your mind. The episode still has all the laughs and honesty you expect, but with the actual structured version that didn’t go off on <em>every</em> tangent (you’re welcome).</p><p>If you’ve ever wondered “Am I the arsehole… or am I just in a blended family?” this episode is basically your sign.</p> 3e2b13e9-a375-47e0-a63a-5f9c01bb4fd6 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/1410597a-8f20-4443-9e7a-d90adcc0ae5f Mon, 08 Dec 2025 09:00:19 +0000 3263 yes full Unforgettable Unforgettable 142 Toni Graham In this episode, Toni sits down with Jyl to talk about how Unforgettable mirrors so many real-life blended family dynamics — from those awkward mood-killing moments, to the pressure of perfection, to the kind of “helpfulness” that feels more like surveillance than support.

We also chat about:

  • the relatable tension between new relationships and old attachments
  • the curated, image-driven motherhood we’ve all bumped up against
  • how control can hide behind routines, reminders, and “just being helpful”
  • those unexpected drop-ins that send every stepmum’s blood pressure up
  • the school-gate politics that make you feel like you’re walking into enemy territory
  • the emotional manipulation and identity spirals blended families know too well
  • and the truly unhinged moments in the film that had us saying, “Honestly… been there.”


This isn’t a movie recap — it’s a stepmum conversation about the wild accuracy buried inside a Hollywood thriller

]]> <p>In this episode, Toni sits down with Jyl to talk about how <em>Unforgettable</em> mirrors so many real-life blended family dynamics — from those awkward mood-killing moments, to the pressure of perfection, to the kind of “helpfulness” that feels more like surveillance than support.</p><p>We also chat about:</p><ul><li>the relatable tension between new relationships and old attachments</li><li>the curated, image-driven motherhood we’ve <em>all</em> bumped up against</li><li>how control can hide behind routines, reminders, and “just being helpful”</li><li>those unexpected drop-ins that send every stepmum’s blood pressure up</li><li>the school-gate politics that make you feel like you’re walking into enemy territory</li><li>the emotional manipulation and identity spirals blended families know too well</li><li>and the truly unhinged moments in the film that had us saying, “Honestly… been there.”</li></ul><p><br></p><p>This isn’t a movie recap — it’s a stepmum conversation about the wild accuracy buried inside a Hollywood thriller</p> cf87a564-1c50-4bd5-9bdc-3e190d0bd065 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/970b1015-6665-4987-bced-d2ca854cb247 Tue, 02 Dec 2025 10:25:57 +0000 3280 yes full Grieving the Family You Thought You Would Have Grieving the Family You Thought You Would Have 141 Toni Graham Trigger Warning: This episode discusses pregnancy and infant loss. Please listen with care and take a break if you need to. 💗

In this episode, I’m joined by my beautiful friend Bekks for an open and honest chat about pregnancy and infant loss. Between us, we’ve experienced multiple losses, and we wanted to talk about what it’s really like to let go of the family you thought you’d have and find your way through grief.

We share how those experiences changed us — as women, as mothers, and as partners — and what healing looks like years later. It’s not a heavy conversation, but a real one. We talk about the quiet ways loss shows up, the things people don’t always say out loud, and how we’ve learned to honour what could have been while still finding peace in what is.


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]]> <p><strong>Trigger Warning:</strong><span> This episode discusses pregnancy and infant loss. Please listen with care and take a break if you need to. 💗</span></p><p>In this episode, I’m joined by my beautiful friend Bekks for an open and honest chat about pregnancy and infant loss. Between us, we’ve experienced multiple losses, and we wanted to talk about what it’s really like to let go of the family you thought you’d have and find your way through grief.</p><p>We share how those experiences changed us — as women, as mothers, and as partners — and what healing looks like years later. It’s not a heavy conversation, but a real one. We talk about the quiet ways loss shows up, the things people don’t always say out loud, and how we’ve learned to honour what could have been while still finding peace in what is.</p><p><br></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support:</span></p><p>Raising His Kids Facebook Group Facebook Instagram Threads Tiktok Patreon</p> 887ba85f-f7f2-4f40-992e-95c288341078 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/344d2653-0a8a-4101-9f10-b5e5df5448d7 Mon, 27 Oct 2025 09:30:14 +0000 2288 yes full Back to School with a Recovered School Mom Back to School with a Recovered School Mom 140 Toni Graham It’s back to school in the U.S. and the end of spring break here in Australia — which means chaos for parents everywhere.

This week, Toni and Jyl dive into what it really looks like to reset the school routine on both sides of the world. From uniforms and lunchboxes to co-parenting coordination and mental load, nothing’s off limits.

Jyl shares how she became a recovered school mom, and together they unpack what’s worth stressing over — and what’s better to just let go. Because at the end of the day, it’s not about us… it’s about the kids.


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]]> <p><span>It’s back to school in the U.S. and the end of spring break here in Australia — which means chaos for parents everywhere. </span></p><p><span>This week, Toni and Jyl dive into what it really looks like to reset the school routine on both sides of the world. From uniforms and lunchboxes to co-parenting coordination and mental load, nothing’s off limits.</span></p><p><span>Jyl shares how she became a </span><em>recovered school mom</em><span>, and together they unpack what’s worth stressing over — and what’s better to just let go. Because at the end of the day, it’s not about us… it’s about the kids. </span></p><p><br></p><p>Follow &amp; Support us Here:</p><p>Raising His Kids:<a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p>Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p>Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p>Threads:<a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p>Tiktok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><span>Jyl:</span></p><p><a href="https://jylbarlow.com/" rel="nofollow">https://jylbarlow.com/</a></p><p><span>Instagram: </span></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jylbarlow?igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw%3D%3D&utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/jylbarlow?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==</a></p><p><br></p> 3881f8dd-eedf-46b2-86df-c2ff2410d3a7 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/b4f2fb73-ee81-490b-bd60-9265f4fef262 Mon, 13 Oct 2025 10:29:19 +0000 2637 yes full The Homework House The Homework House 139 Toni Graham In this week’s episode, I sit down with one of the podcast’s long-time listeners to talk about what it really feels like to be the homework house — the stable, consistent home that carries the weight of rules, boundaries, responsibility, and yep, all the homework.

We dive into the pride, the pressure, and the emotional toll of always being the reliable one in a blended family. From setting routines to holding firm boundaries, this conversation is a reminder that while being the “safe base” isn’t easy, it matters more than we often give ourselves credit for.


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]]> <p>In this week’s episode, I sit down with one of the podcast’s long-time listeners to talk about what it really feels like to be <em>the homework house</em> — the stable, consistent home that carries the weight of rules, boundaries, responsibility, and yep, all the homework.</p><p>We dive into the pride, the pressure, and the emotional toll of always being the reliable one in a blended family. From setting routines to holding firm boundaries, this conversation is a reminder that while being the “safe base” isn’t easy, it matters more than we often give ourselves credit for.</p><p><br></p><p>Follow &amp; Support:</p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> e2b5d75d-8726-4219-a5b8-5f118f4bb4e6 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/5c299ab9-3892-40f8-89ba-c2d556b2e0f0 Mon, 22 Sep 2025 08:00:29 +0000 3312 yes full The Collaborative Co-Parent The Collaborative Co-Parent 138 Toni Graham Co-parenting isn’t always smooth sailing — especially when you’re navigating high-conflict dynamics, new partners, and kids caught in the middle. In this episode, I sit down with Gabriella Pomare — family lawyer, co-parenting mum, and author of The Collaborative Co-Parent — to talk about what it really takes to create a child-focused approach after separation.

We chat about her new book, co-parenting, keeping the children’s best interests at the forefront, managing expectations, and managing relationships for children with their other parents and siblings. Gabriella also answers some listener questions — you’ll just need to listen to find out!

Gabriella combines her professional expertise with her own personal journey, making this conversation both practical and deeply relatable.

If you’ve ever wondered how to set boundaries, keep your kids’ wellbeing front and centre, and maybe even find some hope in the chaos, this one’s for you.


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]]> <p><span>Co-parenting isn’t always smooth sailing — especially when you’re navigating high-conflict dynamics, new partners, and kids caught in the middle. In this episode, I sit down with </span><strong>Gabriella Pomare</strong><span> — family lawyer, co-parenting mum, and author of </span><em>The Collaborative Co-Parent</em><span> — to talk about what it really takes to create a child-focused approach after separation.</span></p><p>We chat about her new book, co-parenting, keeping the children’s best interests at the forefront, managing expectations, and managing relationships for children with their other parents and siblings. Gabriella also answers some listener questions — you’ll just need to listen to find out!</p><p>Gabriella combines her professional expertise with her own personal journey, making this conversation both practical and deeply relatable.</p><p>If you’ve ever wondered how to set boundaries, keep your kids’ wellbeing front and centre, and maybe even find some hope in the chaos, this one’s for you.</p><p><br></p><p>Follow &amp; Support us here:</p><p><strong><u>Gabriella:</u></strong> <a href="https://thecollaborativeco-parent.com.au/" rel="nofollow">https://thecollaborativeco-parent.com.au/</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/collaborativecoparent?igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw%3D%3D&utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/collaborativecoparent?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong><u>Raising His Kids:</u></strong></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> f822bcac-bb06-4c21-9dd0-c0a48087b472 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/78781747-b963-4a1d-b490-f0869beb0261 Mon, 08 Sep 2025 08:00:11 +0000 2576 yes full The Anxious Stepmom The Anxious Stepmom 137 Toni Graham Ever feel like you're doing all the things — but still questioning if you're doing any of it right?

In this episode, I chat with Michaela, a fellow stepmum and clinical psychologist — you might know her on social media as The Anxious Stepmom. We unpack what it’s like to navigate the ups and downs of blended family life while living with anxiety: the emotional toll of constantly second-guessing yourself, the mental load of trying to be everything to everyone, and how anxiety can quietly shape how we show up in our homes and relationships.

You might notice a few jumpy moments — we had some tech glitches mid-recording — but the heart of this conversation still shines through. It’s raw, honest, and full of those “I thought it was just me” moments.

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]]> <p><strong>Ever feel like you&#39;re doing all the things — but still questioning if you&#39;re doing any of it right?</strong></p><p>In this episode, I chat with Michaela, a fellow stepmum and clinical psychologist — you might know her on social media as <em>The Anxious Stepmom</em>. We unpack what it’s like to navigate the ups and downs of blended family life while living with anxiety: the emotional toll of constantly second-guessing yourself, the mental load of trying to be everything to everyone, and how anxiety can quietly shape how we show up in our homes and relationships.</p><p>You might notice a few jumpy moments — we had some tech glitches mid-recording — but the heart of this conversation still shines through. It’s raw, honest, and full of those <em>“I thought it was just me”</em> moments.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt like your brain won’t slow down and your heart is carrying more than it should… this one’s for you.</p><p><br></p><p><strong><u>Follow &amp; Support:</u></strong></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong><u>Michaela</u></strong></p><p>Website: <a href="https://www.theanxiousstepmom.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.theanxiousstepmom.com/</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theanxiousstepmom?igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw%3D%3D&utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theanxiousstepmom?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==</a></p><p>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theanxiousstepmom?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theanxiousstepmom?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc</a></p><p>YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@theanxiousstepmom" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/@theanxiousstepmom</a></p><p><br></p> 648419f5-d94a-4411-951e-55c8167efae9 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/f829f39d-3504-4e72-be79-fe704a0370bb Mon, 25 Aug 2025 08:00:06 +0000 2537 yes full Courtroom Chaos, Custody Opinions & Conversations We Didn’t Plan - Part 2 Courtroom Chaos, Custody Opinions & Conversations We Didn’t Plan - Part 2 136 Toni Graham We pick things back up with more messy custody stories, emotionally charged depositions, school chaos — and plenty of the stuff no one talks about (or plans to talk about) when it comes to court in a blended family.

It’s emotional. It’s honest. It’s a little unhinged in places.

And it’s exactly the kind of chat that reminds you — you’re not the only one going through it.

Some stories will make you nod along.

Others might make you cringe.

But either way, you’ll feel seen.

Tune in as we wrap up this unfiltered two-part episode and unpack the courtroom curveballs so many of us are navigating behind the scenes of blended family life.


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]]> <p><span>We pick things back up with more messy custody stories, emotionally charged depositions, school chaos — and plenty of the stuff no one talks about (or plans to talk about) when it comes to court in a blended family.</span></p><p><span>It’s emotional. It’s honest. It’s a little unhinged in places.</span></p><p><span>And it’s exactly the kind of chat that reminds you — you’re not the only one going through it.</span></p><p><span>Some stories will make you nod along.</span></p><p><span>Others might make you cringe.</span></p><p><span>But either way, you’ll feel seen.</span></p><p><span>Tune in as we wrap up this unfiltered two-part episode and unpack the courtroom curveballs so many of us are navigating behind the scenes of blended family life.</span></p><p><br></p><p><strong><u>Follow &amp; Support:</u></strong></p><p><strong><u>Raising His Kids:</u></strong><span> </span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong><u>Kassandra:</u></strong></p><p><a href="https://www.wearefamilyish.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.wearefamilyish.com/</a></p><p><span>Instagram: </span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet</a></p><p><span>Linktree: </span><a href="https://linktr.ee/wearefamilyish?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAab_zUtetn9FvRkUala5iIqLzSMPU5E4OZga2AjziwqY3cVQC-wlRlYofEo_aem_rbFsD3NM_A1taDjRMVRqSQ" rel="nofollow">https://linktr.ee/wearefamilyish?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAab_zUtetn9FvRkUala5iIqLzSMPU5E4OZga2AjziwqY3cVQC-wlRlYofEo_aem_rbFsD3NM_A1taDjRMVRqSQ</a></p><p><br></p> 5440ed64-dd6c-42e7-a595-b9881b378261 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/bc943db3-8a3b-43aa-bc46-ab9641b32949 Mon, 04 Aug 2025 09:30:00 +0000 2752 yes full Courtroom Chaos, Custody Opinions & Conversations We Didn’t Plan — Part 1 Courtroom Chaos, Custody Opinions & Conversations We Didn’t Plan — Part 1 135 Toni Graham In this episode, I’m joined by Kassandra and Kelsee — and while we set out to share our court stories and experiences with custody agreements… let’s just say, we take the scenic route getting there 🤭

From heartfelt moments to unexpected tangents, this is the kind of messy, real conversation that only happens when you feel safe enough to speak your truth — even when you don’t all agree.

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]]> <p><span>In this episode, I’m joined by Kassandra and Kelsee — and while we set out to share our court stories and experiences with custody agreements… let’s just say, we take the scenic route getting there 🤭</span></p><p><span>From heartfelt moments to unexpected tangents, this is the kind of messy, real conversation that only happens when you feel safe enough to speak your truth — even when you don’t all agree.</span></p><p><span>This is part one of a multi-part chat (because we had </span><em>a lot</em><span> to say), and the full unedited version is already up on Patreon if you want the whole deep dive, sidetracks and all.</span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support Us Here:</span></p><p><strong><u>Raising His Kids</u></strong></p><p><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><strong><u>Kassandra</u></strong></p><p><a href="https://www.wearefamilyish.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.wearefamilyish.com/</a></p><p><span>Instagram: </span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet</a></p><p><span>Linktree: </span><a href="https://linktr.ee/wearefamilyish?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAab_zUtetn9FvRkUala5iIqLzSMPU5E4OZga2AjziwqY3cVQC-wlRlYofEo_aem_rbFsD3NM_A1taDjRMVRqSQ" rel="nofollow">https://linktr.ee/wearefamilyish?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAab_zUtetn9FvRkUala5iIqLzSMPU5E4OZga2AjziwqY3cVQC-wlRlYofEo_aem_rbFsD3NM_A1taDjRMVRqSQ</a></p><p><br></p> 464bbf53-d5ec-49c6-98e2-37d0a4b6d256 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/4bfb464c-8cb7-43d3-a0f5-7cd9f7bbe732 Mon, 21 Jul 2025 09:26:16 +0000 3137 yes full When Sick Kids and Co-Parenting Collide When Sick Kids and Co-Parenting Collide 134 Toni Graham What is it about sick kids that brings out the worst in co-parenting dynamics? In this episode, Jyl and I unpack the passive-aggressive texts, the missing thermometers at 2am, the drama over doctor visits, and the emotional load that so often falls on one household.

We also touch on how medication decisions, puberty, and step-parent involvement all get tangled up when communication breaks down.

Whether you’re navigating this as a bio parent, bonus parent, or both — you’re not alone. This episode is honest, a little chaotic, and full of those “yep, been there” moments.


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]]> <p><span>What is it about sick kids that brings out the worst in co-parenting dynamics? In this episode, Jyl and I unpack the passive-aggressive texts, the missing thermometers at 2am, the drama over doctor visits, and the emotional load that so often falls on one household.</span></p><p><span>We also touch on how medication decisions, puberty, and step-parent involvement all get tangled up when communication breaks down.</span></p><p><span>Whether you’re navigating this as a bio parent, bonus parent, or both — you’re not alone. This episode is honest, a little chaotic, and full of those “yep, been there” moments.</span></p><p><br></p><p>Follow &amp; Support us here:</p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><span>Jyl: </span><a href="https://jylbarlow.com/" rel="nofollow">https://jylbarlow.com/</a></p><p><span>Instagram: </span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jylbarlow?igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw%3D%3D&utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/jylbarlow?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==</a></p><p><br></p> 38bf4760-5a5c-4d58-9686-0817411af56c https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/d40dc326-9d3a-4cc5-9895-63573b845720 Mon, 07 Jul 2025 08:48:36 +0000 3531 yes full Step by Step, You Will Find Your Place Step by Step, You Will Find Your Place 133 Toni Graham In this deeply honest episode, I sit down with Alex Willumsen — the voice behind Step by Step Brighton — a UK-based stepmum who supports women navigating stepfamily life, particularly those who are childless not by choice.

Alex opens up about the heartbreak of infertility, the emotional toll of raising someone else’s children, and what it’s like to be seen as a “mum figure” while silently grieving the child she never had. We also talk about identity, high-conflict bio mums, and the unspoken tension between biological and childless stepmums.

This episode is for any woman who’s ever questioned her role, her worth, or whether she belongs in the motherhood space.

💞 One step at a time, you will find your place.


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]]> <p>In this deeply honest episode, I sit down with Alex Willumsen — the voice behind <em>Step by Step Brighton</em> — a UK-based stepmum who supports women navigating stepfamily life, particularly those who are childless not by choice.</p><p>Alex opens up about the heartbreak of infertility, the emotional toll of raising someone else’s children, and what it’s like to be seen as a “mum figure” while silently grieving the child she never had. We also talk about identity, high-conflict bio mums, and the unspoken tension between biological and childless stepmums.</p><p>This episode is for any woman who’s ever questioned her role, her worth, or whether she belongs in the motherhood space.</p><p>💞 One step at a time, you <em>will</em> find your place.</p><p><br></p><p>Follow &amp; Support:</p><p><strong><u>Alex</u></strong></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/stepbystepbrighton" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/stepbystepbrighton</a></p><p>Linktree: <a href="https://linktr.ee/stepbystepbrighton" rel="nofollow">https://linktr.ee/stepbystepbrighton</a></p><p><br></p><p>Raising His Kids:<a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p>Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p>Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p>Threads:<a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p>Tiktok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p>Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 4d4ede94-d06d-4d88-80c7-10b9520cc830 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/8617bc9e-3a39-4958-9cda-b3b14e513ad6 Mon, 30 Jun 2025 09:46:35 +0000 3861 yes full Healing Stepmom Burnout Healing Stepmom Burnout 132 Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni is joined by Veronica Grace Andrews—stepmum of over 15 years, former stepmum support group facilitator, and author of You Can Heal Stepmom Burnout.

We talk about the emotional toll of stepmotherhood, how to recognise (and recover from) burnout, and the importance of protecting your peace—especially when your role doesn’t always come with clear boundaries or recognition. Veronica also opens up about the unexpected challenges that can still show up after the kids are grown.

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]]> <p><span>In this episode of </span><em>Raising His Kids</em><span>, Toni is joined by Veronica Grace Andrews—stepmum of over 15 years, former stepmum support group facilitator, and author of </span><em>You Can Heal Stepmom Burnout</em><span>.</span></p><p>We talk about the emotional toll of stepmotherhood, how to recognise (and recover from) burnout, and the importance of protecting your peace—especially when your role doesn’t always come with clear boundaries or recognition. Veronica also opens up about the unexpected challenges that can still show up <em>after</em><span> the kids are grown.</span></p><p>This one’s a must-listen for any mum in a blended family who’s ever felt overwhelmed, unseen, or just plain exhausted. You’re not alone—and you deserve to feel whole again.</p><p><br></p><p>Follow &amp; Support: </p><p><strong><u>Veronica</u></strong></p><p><a href="https://www.veronicagraceandrews.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.veronicagraceandrews.com/</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/healstepmomburnout/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/healstepmomburnout/</a></p><p>Threads: <a href="https://www.threads.com/@healstepmomburnout?xmt=AQF0ir10qUJuz83rLlBsCysSizuiLtwdc70qeBUd73onwGc" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.com/@healstepmomburnout?xmt=AQF0ir10qUJuz83rLlBsCysSizuiLtwdc70qeBUd73onwGc</a></p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com.au/shop/myblendedchaos/list/8XK67KU8R1NC?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_G32DSZ5YGVT2ACZHH7BT" rel="nofollow">GET THE BOOK!</a></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> c71919bb-bf55-40c9-9b4e-ce1da6a67070 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/00428f5e-a1d3-4c17-8718-54b3bc2e7eca Mon, 23 Jun 2025 09:30:37 +0000 2763 yes full When a Karen & Regina Became Friends When a Karen & Regina Became Friends 131 Toni Graham Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about domestic abuse and high-conflict relationships. Please take care while listening.


Ever wondered what would happen if a Karen and a Regina became friends? What if two women, with a complicated history and tied to the same high-conflict co-parent, put aside the past and chose peace, respect, and family?

In this powerful episode, I’m joined by Kassandra (you know her from We Are Familyish) and Kelsee—her partner in co-parenting and, yes, the ex-wife of Kassandra’s ex-husband.

Together, we talk about what it really took to move from mistrust to mutual respect, from surviving to thriving. We open up about our shared experiences with domestic abuse, how we found our way out, and what healing looks like while co-parenting through the chaos.

This isn’t just a story about high-conflict co-parenting—this is about growth, resilience, and choosing connection over competition. Oh, and did I mention? This episode is also full of giggles—our energy just bounces off each other.

If you’re walking this blended family roller coaster, this one’s definitely for you.


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]]> <h3><strong>Trigger Warning</strong>: This episode contains discussions about domestic abuse and high-conflict relationships. Please take care while listening.</h3><p><br></p><p>Ever wondered what would happen if a Karen and a Regina became friends? What if two women, with a complicated history and tied to the same high-conflict co-parent, put aside the past and chose peace, respect, and family?</p><p>In this powerful episode, I’m joined by Kassandra (you know her from <em>We Are Familyish</em>) and Kelsee—her partner in co-parenting and, yes, the ex-wife of Kassandra’s ex-husband.</p><p>Together, we talk about what it really took to move from mistrust to mutual respect, from surviving to thriving. We open up about our shared experiences with domestic abuse, how we found our way out, and what healing looks like while co-parenting through the chaos.</p><p>This isn’t just a story about high-conflict co-parenting—this is about growth, resilience, and choosing connection over competition. Oh, and did I mention? This episode is also full of giggles—our energy just <em>bounces</em> off each other.</p><p>If you’re walking this blended family roller coaster, this one’s definitely for you.</p><p><br></p><p><strong><u>Follow &amp; Support:</u></strong></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong><u>Kassandra:</u></strong></p><p><a href="https://www.wearefamilyish.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.wearefamilyish.com/</a></p><p><span>Instagram: </span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet</a></p><p><span>Linktree: </span><a href="https://linktr.ee/wearefamilyish?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAab_zUtetn9FvRkUala5iIqLzSMPU5E4OZga2AjziwqY3cVQC-wlRlYofEo_aem_rbFsD3NM_A1taDjRMVRqSQ" rel="nofollow">https://linktr.ee/wearefamilyish?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAab_zUtetn9FvRkUala5iIqLzSMPU5E4OZga2AjziwqY3cVQC-wlRlYofEo_aem_rbFsD3NM_A1taDjRMVRqSQ</a></p> 4dc91f93-0459-4d50-9ea3-59580daa38f1 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/efe38dcc-0f30-475c-8786-0b60ca8645fb Mon, 16 Jun 2025 09:00:00 +0000 4069 yes full Supporting Kids Living Between Two Homes with Summer Butler Supporting Kids Living Between Two Homes with Summer Butler 130 Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, I’m joined by Summer Butler—author, speaker, and family coach—who’s dedicated her life to supporting kids and families navigating the blended family roller coaster.

Summer shares her heart behind her latest release, Blended: Navigating Life Between Two Homes, a workbook designed specifically for preteens navigating divorce, co-parenting, and life in two households.

We talk about the emotional toll of transitions, the things kids feel but often can’t express, and how parents can better show up for their children during these changes. Summer also opens up about her own journey growing up in a divorced home, becoming a stepmum, and raising two adult stepsons and an “ours baby.”

Whether you’re a bio mum, bonus mum, or somewhere in between—this conversation will leave you feeling encouraged and equipped to support your kids with more empathy, awareness, and heart.

Learn more about Summer’s resources at https://www.blendedbookco.com

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]]> <p><span>In this episode of Raising His Kids, I’m joined by Summer Butler—author, speaker, and family coach—who’s dedicated her life to supporting kids and families navigating the blended family roller coaster.</span></p><p><span>Summer shares her heart behind her latest release, Blended: Navigating Life Between Two Homes, a workbook designed specifically for preteens navigating divorce, co-parenting, and life in two households.</span></p><p><span>We talk about the emotional toll of transitions, the things kids feel but often can’t express, and how parents can better show up for their children during these changes. Summer also opens up about her own journey growing up in a divorced home, becoming a stepmum, and raising two adult stepsons and an “ours baby.”</span></p><p><span>Whether you’re a bio mum, bonus mum, or somewhere in between—this conversation will leave you feeling encouraged and equipped to support your kids with more empathy, awareness, and heart.</span></p><p><span>Learn more about Summer’s resources at </span><a href="https://www.blendedbookco.com" rel="nofollow">https://www.blendedbookco.com</a></p><p><span>Follow Summer on Instagram </span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/blendedbookco?igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw%3D%3D&utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">@blendedbookco</a></p><p><br></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support:</span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 93ff4a65-68ec-41ab-bc79-397db67c6bec https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/fcf20d87-3797-46ee-8ba3-540860acf6cb Mon, 09 Jun 2025 09:00:00 +0000 3170 yes full The Survivor Center with Vickie Lynn The Survivor Center with Vickie Lynn 129 Toni Graham What does healing look like when you're still stuck co-parenting with your abuser? In this raw and honest conversation, Toni sits down with Vickie Lynn — survivor, coach, and fierce advocate for mums navigating high-conflict co-parenting with narcissistic exes.

Together, they explore the emotional roller coaster of trying to raise emotionally healthy children while protecting them from manipulation, smear campaigns, and trauma — all while being accused of being the “high-conflict” parent. Toni shares parts of her own story too, including the complex dynamics of raising a child who looks like your abuser, parenting as a survivor, and navigating a stepfamily full of tension and judgement.

If you're a mum trying to break generational cycles, protect your kids, and still hold space for yourself — this episode is a must-listen.

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]]> <p><span>What does healing look like when you&#39;re still stuck co-parenting with your abuser? In this raw and honest conversation, Toni sits down with Vickie Lynn — survivor, coach, and fierce advocate for mums navigating high-conflict co-parenting with narcissistic exes.</span></p><p><span>Together, they explore the emotional roller coaster of trying to raise emotionally healthy children while protecting them from manipulation, smear campaigns, and trauma — all while being accused of being the “high-conflict” parent. Toni shares parts of her own story too, including the complex dynamics of raising a child who looks like your abuser, parenting as a survivor, and navigating a stepfamily full of tension and judgement.</span></p><p><span>If you&#39;re a mum trying to break generational cycles, protect your kids, and still hold space for yourself — this episode is a must-listen.</span></p><p><strong>And for stepmums caught in the crossfire or unsure where they fit, this chat brings clarity, validation, and a fresh perspective on building bridges and setting boundaries.</strong></p><p><br></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support:</span></p><p><span>Vickie Lynn: </span><a href="https://stan.store/thesurvivorcenter?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaeuzF7wcKOAf3BFFCvglMxYxQY5d_1ccZ_QJg0YM_3ulrLM0nDJoPY2H1x6Yg_aem_6byLX6TOTprPLxHka1MXGQ" rel="nofollow">https://stan.store/thesurvivorcenter?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaeuzF7wcKOAf3BFFCvglMxYxQY5d_1ccZ_QJg0YM_3ulrLM0nDJoPY2H1x6Yg_aem_6byLX6TOTprPLxHka1MXGQ</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/the_survivor_center?igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw%3D%3D&utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/the_survivor_center?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== </a></p><p><br></p><p>Raising His Kids:<a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p> 98b78802-69c1-4d3b-8b96-3fec0e48ede8 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/2a4d7285-4fa7-48e0-a9f5-2987ddc9cef9 Mon, 19 May 2025 08:30:00 +0000 2543 yes full You're in a Blended Family Now Who Gets the Final Say? You're in a Blended Family Now Who Gets the Final Say? 128 Toni Graham In this episode, Kassandra opens up about the challenges she faces as a military wife in a blended family. From managing a household alone while her husband is deployed, to navigating the complexities of parenting and step-parenting, Kassandra shares her raw and honest feelings about trying to balance it all. Tune in for a candid conversation about who really gets the final say in blended families when you're juggling multiple roles and responsibilities.


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]]> <p><span>In this episode, Kassandra opens up about the challenges she faces as a military wife in a blended family. From managing a household alone while her husband is deployed, to navigating the complexities of parenting and step-parenting, Kassandra shares her raw and honest feelings about trying to balance it all. Tune in for a candid conversation about who really gets the final say in blended families when you&#39;re juggling multiple roles and responsibilities.</span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support:</span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p><p><span>Kassandra:</span></p><p><a href="https://www.wearefamilyish.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.wearefamilyish.com/</a></p><p><span>Instagram: </span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet</a></p><p><span>Linktree: </span><a href="https://linktr.ee/wearefamilyish?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAab_zUtetn9FvRkUala5iIqLzSMPU5E4OZga2AjziwqY3cVQC-wlRlYofEo_aem_rbFsD3NM_A1taDjRMVRqSQ" rel="nofollow">https://linktr.ee/wearefamilyish?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAab_zUtetn9FvRkUala5iIqLzSMPU5E4OZga2AjziwqY3cVQC-wlRlYofEo_aem_rbFsD3NM_A1taDjRMVRqSQ</a></p> 42df6f57-ba0a-4413-9e08-c85627b30f6f https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/5a6280b4-33bb-4d4a-afb1-bb75ead914eb Mon, 12 May 2025 11:17:23 +0000 2492 yes full Health, Family, and the Chaos in Between Health, Family, and the Chaos in Between 127 Toni Graham This week, Jyl and I dive deep into the complexities of blended family life, mental health, and health struggles. I open up about my ongoing battle with chronic pain and the decision to undergo a hysterectomy, as well as how my journey with health impacts my family dynamics. I also share a raw and honest update on where things currently stand in my relationship with lil J.

We explore how life often throws unexpected curveballs and how we adjust, even when things don’t go to plan. From the highs and lows of motherhood and stepmotherhood to the importance of knowing your limits, this episode is packed with personal stories, reflection, and a whole lot of real talk.

Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that will leave you reflecting on your own experiences and the chaos that is life.


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]]> <p><span>This week, Jyl and I dive deep into the complexities of blended family life, mental health, and health struggles. I open up about my ongoing battle with chronic pain and the decision to undergo a hysterectomy, as well as how my journey with health impacts my family dynamics. I also share a raw and honest update on where things currently stand in my relationship with lil J.</span></p><p><span>We explore how life often throws unexpected curveballs and how we adjust, even when things don’t go to plan. From the highs and lows of motherhood and stepmotherhood to the importance of knowing your limits, this episode is packed with personal stories, reflection, and a whole lot of real talk.</span></p><p><span>Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that will leave you reflecting on your own experiences and the chaos that is life.</span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support:</span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p><p><span><span></span>Jyl:</span></p><p><a href="https://jylbarlow.com/" rel="nofollow">https://jylbarlow.com/</a></p><p><span>Instagram: </span></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jylbarlow?igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw%3D%3D&utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/jylbarlow?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==</a></p><p><br></p> 7670e86b-436e-4d65-8069-d074440c5be0 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/7e4c22f7-617f-430b-9b4d-9cde9f2f749a Mon, 05 May 2025 09:15:00 +0000 2923 yes full When Your (Step) Kid is Just an A$$hole When Your (Step) Kid is Just an A$$hole 126 Toni Graham Toni and Jyl unpack the highs and lows of blended family life, sharing practical advice for step-parents, bio-parents, and anyone navigating the complexities of a blended home. They explore the importance of one-on-one time with kids, maintaining strong emotional connections, and coping with transitions—both in family and in life. Jyl also opens up about the challenges of marketing her book after the loss of her mum, and the emotional layers of her relationship with her stepdaughter. This episode offers heartfelt insight and inspiration for anyone juggling family, grief, and growth.


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]]> <p><span>Toni and Jyl unpack the highs and lows of blended family life, sharing practical advice for step-parents, bio-parents, and anyone navigating the complexities of a blended home. They explore the importance of one-on-one time with kids, maintaining strong emotional connections, and coping with transitions—both in family and in life. Jyl also opens up about the challenges of marketing her book after the loss of her mum, and the emotional layers of her relationship with her stepdaughter. This episode offers heartfelt insight and inspiration for anyone juggling family, grief, and growth.</span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support:</span></p><p>Raising His Kids:<a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a> </p><p><span>Jyl:</span></p><p><a href="https://jylbarlow.com/" rel="nofollow">https://jylbarlow.com/</a></p><p><span>Instagram: </span></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jylbarlow?igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw%3D%3D&utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/jylbarlow?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==</a></p><p><br></p> 312932a4-8058-4a15-9945-90e72cbb76fa https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/95c3fc34-6996-413e-bd57-151ab36917b3 Mon, 28 Apr 2025 08:31:40 +0000 3485 yes full If Easter Felt Like a Shitshow... If Easter Felt Like a Shitshow... 125 Toni Graham Easter in a blended family isn’t always sunshine, chocolate, and matching bunny ears. Sometimes it’s tears, tension, and total exhaustion.  

In this solo episode, I’m sharing a voice-note-style chat straight from the heart—for anyone whose Easter felt heavy, overwhelming, or just a bit off.  

We’re talking last-minute plan changes, forgotten bags, overstimulated kids, being left out of family lunches, and the emotional whiplash that comes with holidays in a blended home.  

And if this year actually felt peaceful for you? I’m celebrating that too.  

Take a deep breath, pop your headphones in, and let this be the little bit of validation you didn’t know you needed.


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]]> <p><span>Easter in a blended family isn’t always sunshine, chocolate, and matching bunny ears. Sometimes it’s tears, tension, and total exhaustion.  </span></p><p><span>In this solo episode, I’m sharing a voice-note-style chat straight from the heart—for anyone whose Easter felt heavy, overwhelming, or just a bit off.  </span></p><p><span>We’re talking last-minute plan changes, forgotten bags, overstimulated kids, being left out of family lunches, and the emotional whiplash that comes with holidays in a blended home.  </span></p><p><span>And if this year actually felt peaceful for you? I’m celebrating that too.  </span></p><p><span>Take a deep breath, pop your headphones in, and let this be the little bit of validation you didn’t know you needed.</span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support me here:</span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 4f65d958-f32b-47d4-9c03-8710c1decb79 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/d44211e7-8cb5-41ef-b2b5-a7685cd35159 Mon, 21 Apr 2025 09:30:00 +0000 279 yes full Through the Eyes of A Kid With Two Homes Through the Eyes of A Kid With Two Homes 124 Toni Graham This week, I’m joined by Bella Duncan, the inspiring voice behind A Kid With Two Homes. Bella’s parents separated when she was just three years old, and for over 20 years she’s lived the reality of growing up between two homes. Now, with degrees in law and psychology, she uses her story to advocate for kids navigating family separation and to help co-parents truly understand the child’s perspective.

In this episode, Bella shares what it was like growing up with two homes and the emotional weight of not wanting to hurt either parent. She opens up about the guilt that would creep in during everyday moments—like when a kid on the playground would ask which house she liked better—and speaks candidly about what she wishes her parents had done differently so she didn’t feel caught in the middle of their divorce.

This is a powerful conversation about empathy, reflection, and doing better for the next generation of kids living in blended or separated families.

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]]> <p><span>This week, I’m joined by Bella Duncan, the inspiring voice behind </span><em>A Kid With Two Homes</em><span>. Bella’s parents separated when she was just three years old, and for over 20 years she’s lived the reality of growing up between two homes. Now, with degrees in law and psychology, she uses her story to advocate for kids navigating family separation and to help co-parents truly understand the child’s perspective.</span></p><p>In this episode, Bella shares what it was like growing up with two homes and the emotional weight of not wanting to hurt either parent. She opens up about the guilt that would creep in during everyday moments—like when a kid on the playground would ask which house she liked better—and speaks candidly about what she wishes her parents had done differently so she didn’t feel caught in the middle of their divorce.</p><p>This is a powerful conversation about empathy, reflection, and doing better for the next generation of kids living in blended or separated families.</p><p>🔗 Connect with Bella on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/akidwithtwohomes?igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw%3D%3D&utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/akidwithtwohomes?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==</a><span> </span></p><p><a href="https://linktr.ee/akidwithtwohomes?ltsid=f0e0d38b-9cbe-4507-95b2-1f9f5f6484d6&utm_source=linktree_profile_share" rel="nofollow">https://linktr.ee/akidwithtwohomes?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&amp;ltsid=f0e0d38b-9cbe-4507-95b2-1f9f5f6484d6</a><span> </span></p><p><span>📲 Learn more: </span><a href="https://www.akidwithtwohomes.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.akidwithtwohomes.com/</a></p><p><br></p><p>Follow &amp; Support:</p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 3c6449bd-6a54-4a46-b198-ba78e2e88b70 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/4f3a6912-06d8-464c-96b7-535ded6d9fc0 Mon, 14 Apr 2025 07:58:33 +0000 4083 yes full Co-Parenting in Harmony with Carissa Co-Parenting in Harmony with Carissa 123 Toni Graham In this episode, I sit down with Carissa, the founder of Co-Parenting in Harmony, a Facebook group dedicated to helping women find peace in their co-parenting journey. Carissa is preparing to marry her fiancé and blend families with his 19-year-old twins, all while raising her 9-year-old child. 

We discuss the challenges of introducing a new partner to your kids, setting boundaries as a step-parent, and the emotional complexities of co-parenting with a difficult ex. Carissa shares her journey to reduce conflict in her life and helps others do the same through her support group.

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]]> <p><span>In this episode, I sit down with Carissa, the founder of Co-Parenting in Harmony, a Facebook group dedicated to helping women find peace in their co-parenting journey. Carissa is preparing to marry her fiancé and blend families with his 19-year-old twins, all while raising her 9-year-old child. </span></p><p><span>We discuss the challenges of introducing a new partner to your kids, setting boundaries as a step-parent, and the emotional complexities of co-parenting with a difficult ex. Carissa shares her journey to reduce conflict in her life and helps others do the same through her support group.</span></p><p><span>If you&#39;re navigating the ups and downs of co-parenting or step-parenting, this episode is for you!  </span></p><p><span>📌 Check out </span><strong><em>Co-Parenting in Harmony</em></strong><span> on Facebook to connect with others seeking peace in their co-parenting relationships. </span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1AAF5fdg64/" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1AAF5fdg64/</a></p><p><br></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support Raising His Kids Here:</span></p><p><span><span></span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p> bc2e316f-46fa-47d4-8501-d1a389da6d07 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/634d52be-6e75-4ac6-9b68-2e4b3fda7101 Mon, 07 Apr 2025 10:31:03 +0000 3346 yes full Stepping Back, Setting Boundaries and Blending with an Ours Baby or Two Stepping Back, Setting Boundaries and Blending with an Ours Baby or Two 122 Toni Graham Blended family life isn’t always smooth sailing, and today’s guest, Erika, knows that firsthand. In this episode, she opens up about the reality of step-parenting with a high-conflict bio mum in the mix, the challenges of co-parenting, and why she chose to disengage to protect her peace.  

We also talk about adding an ‘ours’ baby into the dynamic—how it shifted relationships, what she wishes she had known beforehand, and how she’s making it work.  

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]]> <p>Blended family life isn’t always smooth sailing, and today’s guest, Erika, knows that firsthand. In this episode, she opens up about the reality of step-parenting with a high-conflict bio mum in the mix, the challenges of co-parenting, and why she chose to disengage to protect her peace.  </p><p>We also talk about adding an ‘ours’ baby into the dynamic—how it shifted relationships, what she wishes she had known beforehand, and how she’s making it work.  </p><p>If you’re a stepmother struggling with boundaries, co-parenting drama, or just trying to find balance in it all, this episode is for you! </p><p><br></p><p>Follow &amp; Support:</p><p>Raising His Kids:<a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p>Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p>Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p>Threads:<a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p>Tiktok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p>Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 44e132e3-c87d-4151-8771-7be678c069e2 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/3bc109ed-8da6-4196-87f4-1a84b591f815 Sun, 30 Mar 2025 21:00:00 +0000 4262 yes full Cyclone Alfred The Storm and the Co-Parenting Chaos Cyclone Alfred The Storm and the Co-Parenting Chaos 121 Toni Graham Co-parenting is already challenging, but when a natural disaster hits, everything gets thrown into chaos. In this episode, I’m joined by Bekks to unpack what it was like co-parenting through Cyclone Alfred—navigating custody changes, safety concerns, and high-stress communication with an ex while trying to keep the kids safe.  

We also share listener stories from parents who had to make tough calls, stand their ground, or face unexpected co-parenting conflicts when disaster struck. Because when the storm hits, the challenges don’t just come from the weather.  

Tune in for real talk, real experiences, and the lessons learned from co-parenting through a natural disaster.


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]]> <p><span>Co-parenting is already challenging, but when a natural disaster hits, everything gets thrown into chaos. In this episode, I’m joined by Bekks to unpack what it was like co-parenting through Cyclone Alfred—navigating custody changes, safety concerns, and high-stress communication with an ex while trying to keep the kids safe.  </span></p><p><span>We also share listener stories from parents who had to make tough calls, stand their ground, or face unexpected co-parenting conflicts when disaster struck. Because when the storm hits, the challenges don’t just come from the weather.  </span></p><p><span>Tune in for real talk, real experiences, and the lessons learned from co-parenting through a natural disaster.</span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support:</span></p><p>Raising His Kids:<a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p>Bekks: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/rebekkahlouise?igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw%3D%3D&utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/rebekkahlouise?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==</a></p> 6a0cd0f2-3c9c-457c-bc19-5ba934bd4910 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/660d99f0-98b9-4c0d-96e8-bb78cd198046 Sun, 23 Mar 2025 21:30:00 +0000 2317 yes full Raising Her Kids The Chronicles of a Solo Mum by Choice Raising Her Kids The Chronicles of a Solo Mum by Choice 120 Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, I sit down with Sally, a solo mum by choice, to talk about her incredible journey from co-parenting challenges, to choosing to become a solo mum by choice and everything in between.

Sally first became a mum after escaping a DV relationship and navigating a complex custody arrangement with her ex. Over the years, she’s faced financial struggles, co-parenting manipulation, and medical disagreements while working hard to protect her son’s well-being. Now, as her nearly 16-year-old son starts forming his own opinions—and potentially his first job—we dive into how this impacts visitation and their evolving dynamic.

Sally also shares how she later chose to grow her family through IVF, the emotional and financial realities of solo motherhood, and the unexpected gift of connecting with her youngest child’s donor siblings. This conversation is raw, insightful, and packed with wisdom for anyone navigating solo parenting, high-conflict co-parenting, or blended family complexities.

Topics we cover:

🔹 The challenges of co-parenting with a manipulative and financially absent ex

🔹 Managing a child’s expectations of a parent who isn’t showing up

🔹 The realities of IVF and solo motherhood—costs, time, and emotional toll

🔹 Navigating teen independence, first jobs, and changing visitation schedules

🔹 Connecting with donor siblings and redefining what ‘family’ means

This is an episode you don’t want to miss!

👉 Listen now and let me know your thoughts!


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]]> <p><span>In this episode of </span><em>Raising His Kids</em><span>, I sit down with Sally, a solo mum by choice, to talk about her incredible journey from co-parenting challenges, to choosing to become a solo mum by choice and everything in between.</span></p><p>Sally first became a mum after escaping a DV relationship and navigating a complex custody arrangement with her ex. Over the years, she’s faced financial struggles, co-parenting manipulation, and medical disagreements while working hard to protect her son’s well-being. Now, as her nearly 16-year-old son starts forming his own opinions—and potentially his first job—we dive into how this impacts visitation and their evolving dynamic.</p><p>Sally also shares how she later chose to grow her family through IVF, the emotional and financial realities of solo motherhood, and the unexpected gift of connecting with her youngest child’s donor siblings. This conversation is raw, insightful, and packed with wisdom for anyone navigating solo parenting, high-conflict co-parenting, or blended family complexities.</p><p><strong>Topics we cover:</strong></p><p><span>🔹 The challenges of co-parenting with a manipulative and financially absent ex</span></p><p><span>🔹 Managing a child’s expectations of a parent who isn’t showing up</span></p><p><span>🔹 The realities of IVF and solo motherhood—costs, time, and emotional toll</span></p><p><span>🔹 Navigating teen independence, first jobs, and changing visitation schedules</span></p><p><span>🔹 Connecting with donor siblings and redefining what ‘family’ means</span></p><p><span>This is an episode you don’t want to miss!</span></p><p><span>👉 </span><strong>Listen now and let me know your thoughts!</strong><span> </span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support:</span></p><p>Sally: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/twoboys.onegirl.andmum?igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw%3D%3D&utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/twoboys.onegirl.andmum?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==</a></p><p><br></p><p>Raising His Kids:<a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 3a410166-46d6-4fcb-b1d6-13799b6a2151 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/2f41edeb-ea0c-432a-88e0-8d36f03ec97e Sun, 16 Mar 2025 23:30:00 +0000 3829 yes full Unhinged Blended Family Stories Unhinged Blended Family Stories 119 Toni Graham Blended family life comes with its fair share of chaos, but some stories are truly next-level. In this episode, Kassandra from We Are Familyish joins me to share some of the wildest, most unhinged blended family moments—think false assault accusations, unexpected police station visits, wedding crashers, and co-parenting demands that will leave you speechless.  

From bio mums using location tracking to show up uninvited to court order claims that don’t even exist, we’re diving into the kind of drama you just can’t make up. If you’ve ever felt like your blended family roller coaster is out of control, trust me—you’re not alone!  

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]]> <p><span>Blended family life comes with its fair share of chaos, but some stories are truly next-level. In this episode, Kassandra from We Are Familyish joins me to share some of the wildest, most unhinged blended family moments—think false assault accusations, unexpected police station visits, wedding crashers, and co-parenting demands that will leave you speechless.  </span></p><p><span>From bio mums using location tracking to show up uninvited to court order claims that don’t even exist, we’re diving into the kind of drama you just can’t make up. If you’ve ever felt like your blended family roller coaster is out of control, trust me—you’re not alone!  </span></p><p><span>Disclosure: We had a bit of lag and some technical difficulties during recording, which made it sound like we were talking over each other at times. I did my best to clean it up, but a few moments couldn’t be fully edited out—thanks for bearing with us!</span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Support Us Here: </span></p><p><span><span></span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p><p><span>Kassandra:</span></p><p><a href="https://www.wearefamilyish.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.wearefamilyish.com/</a></p><p><span>Instagram: </span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet</a></p><p><span>Linktree: </span><a href="https://linktr.ee/wearefamilyish?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAab_zUtetn9FvRkUala5iIqLzSMPU5E4OZga2AjziwqY3cVQC-wlRlYofEo_aem_rbFsD3NM_A1taDjRMVRqSQ" rel="nofollow">https://linktr.ee/wearefamilyish?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAab_zUtetn9FvRkUala5iIqLzSMPU5E4OZga2AjziwqY3cVQC-wlRlYofEo_aem_rbFsD3NM_A1taDjRMVRqSQ</a></p> 7604449f-82a6-4877-b72a-6aaa7521103f https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/0015a1a8-6f68-49e5-92f4-08c3e9df9d58 Mon, 10 Mar 2025 23:30:00 +0000 3278 yes full Regulating Chaos in a Neurodivergent Blended Family Regulating Chaos in a Neurodivergent Blended Family 118 Toni Graham In this episode, I’m joined by Jo, a stepmum navigating life in a neurodivergent blended family. With ADHD herself, a husband managing PTSD, anxiety, depression, and ADHD, and two stepkids with autism, ADHD, and PTSD, Jo’s home is full of unique challenges and strengths. We talk about regulation, coping strategies, and how nachoing has helped her set boundaries while still being a supportive stepmum.  

We also answer listener questions on navigating neurodivergence in blended families, including co-parenting challenges, diagnosis struggles, and non-medication strategies for ADHD.  

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]]> <p><span>In this episode, I’m joined by Jo, a stepmum navigating life in a neurodivergent blended family. With ADHD herself, a husband managing PTSD, anxiety, depression, and ADHD, and two stepkids with autism, ADHD, and PTSD, Jo’s home is full of unique challenges and strengths. We talk about regulation, coping strategies, and how nachoing has helped her set boundaries while still being a supportive stepmum.  </span></p><p><span>We also answer listener questions on navigating neurodivergence in blended families, including co-parenting challenges, diagnosis struggles, and non-medication strategies for ADHD.  </span></p><p><span>I do want to apologise for a few technical difficulties in this episode that I wasn’t able to completely remove in editing. Thanks for sticking with me—I promise the conversation is still well worth the listen!  </span></p><p><span>Hit play and let’s dive in!  </span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support:</span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 74fa34b0-b13d-42d9-b7f3-add24c7f412e https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/618e2565-3149-4f31-8404-3768b2c14ad8 Mon, 03 Mar 2025 09:30:00 +0000 4298 yes full Blending Bravely with Brittney Phillips Blending Bravely with Brittney Phillips 117 Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, I sit down with Brittney Phillips from Blending Bravely to talk about why your marriage is the foundation of your blended family. As a certified professional coach, teacher, and somatic healing enthusiast, Brittney has walked the blended family roller coaster herself. From navigating loyalty binds and parenting style clashes to overcoming grief and healing from past trauma, she brings wisdom, experience, and practical advice to the table.  

We dive into the challenges that so many blended families face—kids struggling to adjust, co-parenting conflicts, and the constant balancing act of meeting everyone’s needs. But at the heart of it all is your marriage. Brittney and I discuss why prioritising your relationship isn’t just important for you and your partner, but for the entire family dynamic. We share practical ways to strengthen your marriage, set boundaries, and find joy in the midst of the chaos.  

Whether you’re in a second marriage, navigating step-parenting struggles, or just feeling like your relationship has taken a backseat, this episode is full of encouragement and real-life strategies to help you and your partner stay connected. Tune in for an honest and insightful conversation about building a blended family on a strong foundation.


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]]> <p><span>In this episode of Raising His Kids, I sit down with Brittney Phillips from Blending Bravely to talk about why your marriage is the foundation of your blended family. As a certified professional coach, teacher, and somatic healing enthusiast, Brittney has walked the blended family roller coaster herself. From navigating loyalty binds and parenting style clashes to overcoming grief and healing from past trauma, she brings wisdom, experience, and practical advice to the table.  </span></p><p><span>We dive into the challenges that so many blended families face—kids struggling to adjust, co-parenting conflicts, and the constant balancing act of meeting everyone’s needs. But at the heart of it all is your marriage. Brittney and I discuss why prioritising your relationship isn’t just important for you and your partner, but for the entire family dynamic. We share practical ways to strengthen your marriage, set boundaries, and find joy in the midst of the chaos.  </span></p><p><span>Whether you’re in a second marriage, navigating step-parenting struggles, or just feeling like your relationship has taken a backseat, this episode is full of encouragement and real-life strategies to help you and your partner stay connected. 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That’s a whole other challenge. In this episode, I sit down with Ginger Dellaripa, co-founder of *The Family Core*, to talk about how she navigated the chaos of blended family life, gained full custody of her daughters, and found ways to create stability in the midst of uncertainty. 

This episode was meant to be an interview, but from the moment Ginger and I started chatting, it felt more like catching up with an old friend. You know that feeling when you haven’t spoken in ages, but you pick up right where you left off? That was this conversation. 

Ginger shares her experiences as both a stepmum and bio mum, how she handled co-parenting struggles, and the systems she used to keep everything from spiraling out of control. Whether you’re dealing with high-conflict co-parenting, feeling overwhelmed by schedules, or just looking for some practical advice, this episode is for you! 

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]]> <p>Blending a family is never easy, but staying organised while juggling parenting, court hearings, and everyday life? That’s a whole other challenge. In this episode, I sit down with Ginger Dellaripa, co-founder of *The Family Core*, to talk about how she navigated the chaos of blended family life, gained full custody of her daughters, and found ways to create stability in the midst of uncertainty. </p><p>This episode was meant to be an interview, but from the moment Ginger and I started chatting, it felt more like catching up with an old friend. You know that feeling when you haven’t spoken in ages, but you pick up right where you left off? That was this conversation. </p><p>Ginger shares her experiences as both a stepmum and bio mum, how she handled co-parenting struggles, and the systems she used to keep everything from spiraling out of control. Whether you’re dealing with high-conflict co-parenting, feeling overwhelmed by schedules, or just looking for some practical advice, this episode is for you! </p><p>🎧 Grab your coffee (or wine), hit play, and let’s dive in! </p><p><br></p><p>🔗 <strong><u>Where to find Ginger:</u></strong></p><p>🌐 Website: [The Family Core]<a href="http://(https://thefamilycore.com/)" rel="nofollow">(https://thefamilycore.com/) </a></p><p>📸 Instagram: [@ginger_thefamilycore](https://www.instagram.com/ginger_thefamilycore?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==) | [@thefamilycore]<a href="http://(https://www.instagram.com/thefamilycore?igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw%3D%3D%29&utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">(https://www.instagram.com/thefamilycore?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&amp;igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==) </a></p><p>🔗 Linktree: [Family Core Resources]<a href="http://(https://linktr.ee/FamilyCore?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaau3zKxWILqfi3LMaoftKEzEiVl_K-pvUJu-oHu_wwqiE81_5uy-BH5h84_aem_nduHg8R7w-uP2WuKIHCPeg%29" rel="nofollow">(https://linktr.ee/FamilyCore?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaau3zKxWILqfi3LMaoftKEzEiVl_K-pvUJu-oHu_wwqiE81_5uy-BH5h84_aem_nduHg8R7w-uP2WuKIHCPeg) </a></p><p><br></p><p>📢 <strong><u>Enjoyed this episode?</u></strong> Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review! 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In this episode, I’m joined once again by Kassandra from We Are Familyish as we dive into the epic Valentine’s Day fails from past relationships and the big wins we’ve experienced now that we’re in healthy, happy ones.  

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]]> <p><span>Valentine’s Day can bring out the best—and the absolute worst—in relationships. In this episode, I’m joined once again by Kassandra from </span><em>We Are Familyish</em><span> as we dive into the epic Valentine’s Day fails from past relationships and the big wins we’ve experienced now that we’re in healthy, happy ones.  </span></p><p>We’re sharing listener stories and our own personal experiences that highlight just how different love can feel when you’re with the right person. From absolute disasters and forgotten gifts to awkward arguments, sweet surprises, and thoughtful gestures, this episode is all about the contrast between toxic love and real, healthy connection.  </p><p>If you’ve ever had a Valentine’s Day disaster—or finally experienced what it’s like to be truly appreciated—you’ll definitely relate to this one!  </p><p><br></p><p><strong>Follow &amp; Support Us Here:</strong></p><p><u>Raising His Kids</u><span>:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><u>Facebook Group:</u><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"><strong> </strong></a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><u>Facebook:</u><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><u>Instagram:</u><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><u>Threads:</u><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><u>Tiktok:</u><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><u>Patreon: </u><strong><u> </u></strong><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong><u>Kassandra:</u></strong></p><p><a href="https://www.wearefamilyish.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.wearefamilyish.com/</a></p><p><u>Instagram:</u><strong><u> </u></strong><a href="https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet</a></p><p><u>Linktree:</u><strong><u> </u></strong><a href="https://linktr.ee/wearefamilyish?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAab_zUtetn9FvRkUala5iIqLzSMPU5E4OZga2AjziwqY3cVQC-wlRlYofEo_aem_rbFsD3NM_A1taDjRMVRqSQ" rel="nofollow">https://linktr.ee/wearefamilyish?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAab_zUtetn9FvRkUala5iIqLzSMPU5E4OZga2AjziwqY3cVQC-wlRlYofEo_aem_rbFsD3NM_A1taDjRMVRqSQ</a></p><p><br></p> d0a65b06-1b25-4ad1-a9e6-56870af18151 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/6f5a9896-3ef4-4014-91ec-3f85fe673553 Mon, 10 Feb 2025 08:00:00 +0000 3080 yes full Your Stepmum Stories Unfiltered & Anonymous Your Stepmum Stories Unfiltered & Anonymous 114 Toni Graham This week’s episode is all about YOU! We’re diving into the stepmum anons you’ve sent in—real stories from stepmums navigating the ups and downs of blended family life. From hilarious moments to tough situations, we’re sharing it all and reacting to the experiences that make this rollercoaster so wild.  

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]]> <p>This week’s episode is all about YOU! We’re diving into the stepmum anons you’ve sent in—real stories from stepmums navigating the ups and downs of blended family life. From hilarious moments to tough situations, we’re sharing it all and reacting to the experiences that make this rollercoaster so wild.  </p><p>Grab your coffee or wine and join us for this fun and relatable episode, filled with all the honesty and humour you love!  </p><p>Want your story shared? Send me a DM and it might make it into the next episode!</p><p><br></p><p>Follow &amp; Support me:</p><p>Raising His Kids:<a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p>Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p>Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p>Threads:<a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p>Tiktok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p>Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 814ea66b-2657-425e-8f8b-ee7b94676237 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/d4b25dba-93d2-4e6e-b82f-c06c3f665a5e Mon, 03 Feb 2025 08:00:00 +0000 2905 yes full New Chapters of Blended Family Life as the Spare Parent New Chapters of Blended Family Life as the Spare Parent 113 Toni Graham In this episode, I’m catching up with my friend and author, Jyl Barlow, to talk about her latest book, Sparent (Spare Parent). Jyl shares what it means to be the "spare parent" in a blended family and how her personal experiences shaped this important work.  

We also dive into the next chapter of her blended family journey following the sudden loss of her mother-in-law. Jyl opens up about navigating grief, the unexpected dynamics with her kids and their biological mother, and the challenges that have unfolded since her mother-in-law’s passing.  

From the emotional fallout to her daughter Amelia taking a step back from the family, this episode offers a raw and real look at the ups and downs of blended family life. Don’t miss this heartfelt conversation as Jyl shares her insights on parenting, resilience, and the evolving dynamics of family.  


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]]> <p>In this episode, I’m catching up with my friend and author, Jyl Barlow, to talk about her latest book, <em>Sparent (Spare Parent)</em>. Jyl shares what it means to be the &#34;spare parent&#34; in a blended family and how her personal experiences shaped this important work.  </p><p>We also dive into the next chapter of her blended family journey following the sudden loss of her mother-in-law. Jyl opens up about navigating grief, the unexpected dynamics with her kids and their biological mother, and the challenges that have unfolded since her mother-in-law’s passing.  </p><p>From the emotional fallout to her daughter Amelia taking a step back from the family, this episode offers a raw and real look at the ups and downs of blended family life. Don’t miss this heartfelt conversation as Jyl shares her insights on parenting, resilience, and the evolving dynamics of family.  </p><p><br></p><p><strong><u>Follow &amp; Support:</u></strong></p><p><strong><em><u>Jyl Barlow</u></em></strong></p><p>Website - <a href="https://jylbarlow.com/" rel="nofollow">https://jylbarlow.com/</a></p><p>Instagram - <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jylbarlow/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/jylbarlow/?hl=en</a></p><p>Facebook - <a href="https://www.facebook.com/JylBarlow/" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/JylBarlow/</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong><em><u>Raising His Kids</u></em></strong><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a></p><p><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p>Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p>Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p>Threads:<a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p>Tiktok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p>Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 9c82febb-012b-4da8-b4ac-a3a0c8c6a5e1 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/a9fdcc32-ef7f-473e-a20b-5c00df085830 Mon, 27 Jan 2025 08:16:20 +0000 2833 yes full The Impact on Ours in This Blended Life The Impact on Ours in This Blended Life 112 Toni Graham In this heartfelt and insightful episode, Toni and Lauren dive into a topic that resonates deeply with many blended families: how life in a blended household affects the 'ours' babies. These children, biologically shared by the couple, grow up in a unique dynamic filled with both blessings and challenges.

Toni opens up about her personal experience as an 'ours' baby, offering a raw and honest look at sibling dynamics, age gaps, and the emotional complexities of growing up in a blended family. Lauren adds her perspective, reflecting on her hopes and concerns about raising her daughter in a blended household.

Together, they tackle common struggles faced by 'ours' babies and their siblings—like sibling jealousy, time-sharing dynamics, and finding their place in a blended family. You’ll also hear moving listener stories that shed light on the realities of raising 'ours' babies in a blended world.

Tune in as Toni and Lauren share practical tips to support your 'ours' babies and ensure every family member feels loved, valued, and included. Whether you’re navigating co-parenting challenges, sibling rivalry, or simply trying to create harmony, this episode is packed with wisdom and encouragement.  


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]]> <p><span>In this heartfelt and insightful episode, Toni and Lauren dive into a topic that resonates deeply with many blended families: how life in a blended household affects the &#39;ours&#39; babies. These children, biologically shared by the couple, grow up in a unique dynamic filled with both blessings and challenges.</span></p><p><span>Toni opens up about her personal experience as an &#39;ours&#39; baby, offering a raw and honest look at sibling dynamics, age gaps, and the emotional complexities of growing up in a blended family. Lauren adds her perspective, reflecting on her hopes and concerns about raising her daughter in a blended household.</span></p><p><span>Together, they tackle common struggles faced by &#39;ours&#39; babies and their siblings—like sibling jealousy, time-sharing dynamics, and finding their place in a blended family. You’ll also hear moving listener stories that shed light on the realities of raising &#39;ours&#39; babies in a blended world.</span></p><p><span>Tune in as Toni and Lauren share practical tips to support your &#39;ours&#39; babies and ensure every family member feels loved, valued, and included. Whether you’re navigating co-parenting challenges, sibling rivalry, or simply trying to create harmony, this episode is packed with wisdom and encouragement.  </span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support:</span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 389d6ec1-e7bf-49db-b987-2198dec50612 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/0c17f9c4-0f06-4a1a-8a91-6eedea682a38 Mon, 20 Jan 2025 09:00:00 +0000 4309 yes full Letting go of Resentment Letting go of Resentment 111 Toni Graham It’s a brand-new year and in this episode of Raising His Kids! Toni and Lauren tackle one of the most challenging aspects of stepparenting—resentment. Whether it’s feeling overshadowed by the biological mother, dealing with unmet expectations, or struggling with the emotional weight of being a stepmother, resentment is a feeling many of us know all too well.  

Toni and Lauren share their personal experiences with resentment, unpack listener questions, and provide strategies to help stepmothers acknowledge and move past these feelings. From setting healthy boundaries and prioritising self-care to letting go of the “first place” mentality, this episode is packed with practical tips to help you navigate resentment and foster stronger relationships within your blended family.  

This episode also includes some big news—Lauren shares a personal announcement, while Toni talks about the future of Raising His Kids and her vision for keeping it a safe, supportive space for blended families.

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]]> <p><span>It’s a brand-new year and in this episode of Raising His Kids! Toni and Lauren tackle one of the most challenging aspects of stepparenting—resentment. Whether it’s feeling overshadowed by the biological mother, dealing with unmet expectations, or struggling with the emotional weight of being a stepmother, resentment is a feeling many of us know all too well.  </span></p><p><span>Toni and Lauren share their personal experiences with resentment, unpack listener questions, and provide strategies to help stepmothers acknowledge and move past these feelings. From setting healthy boundaries and prioritising self-care to letting go of the “first place” mentality, this episode is packed with practical tips to help you navigate resentment and foster stronger relationships within your blended family.  </span></p><p><span>This episode also includes some big news—Lauren shares a personal announcement, while Toni talks about the future of </span><em>Raising His Kids</em><span> and her vision for keeping it a safe, supportive space for blended families.</span></p><p><span>Grab your coffee or your wine, and join us for an honest, heartfelt discussion about one of the hardest parts on this Stepmother Rollercoaster.</span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support us here:</span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p> 3b56c0eb-262a-4b00-8238-4e001e8e5cd6 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/b450128b-44dc-4b01-8545-913e46648072 Mon, 13 Jan 2025 09:30:00 +0000 1767 yes full New Year, New Intentions New Year, New Intentions 110 Toni Graham Happy New Year and welcome to the first episode of 2025! With Lauren away for this episode, Toni is joined by her good friend Bekks as they reflect on their Christmas and New Year celebrations with their families. In this heartfelt episode, they also share intentions for the year ahead and hear from listeners about their own holiday experiences.  

⚠️ Trigger Warning: Toward the end of the episode, there is a sensitive discussion about miscarriage, as one listener shares the heartbreaking loss of their baby on the cusp of the new year.  

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]]> <p><span>Happy New Year and welcome to the first episode of 2025! With Lauren away for this episode, Toni is joined by her good friend Bekks as they reflect on their Christmas and New Year celebrations with their families. In this heartfelt episode, they also share intentions for the year ahead and hear from listeners about their own holiday experiences.  </span></p><p><span>⚠️ </span><strong><em>Trigger Warning:</em></strong><span> Toward the end of the episode, there is a sensitive discussion about miscarriage, as one listener shares the heartbreaking loss of their baby on the cusp of the new year.  </span></p><p><span>Don’t forget to check out our Patreon for exclusive access to all the juicy coparenting drama Toni faced over the holidays!  </span></p><p><br></p><p><span><span></span>Follow &amp; Support Us:</span></p><p>Bekks: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/rebekkahlouise/" rel="nofollow">Rebekkah-Louise (@rebekkahlouise)Instagram · rebekkahlouise280+ followers</a></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p> 5a269fd6-d048-4f87-859b-14f04b379402 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/6e5ab6e4-34bd-45d2-beb6-deffc3be1b3d Mon, 06 Jan 2025 09:30:00 +0000 3198 yes full NYE – Reflecting on 2024 and Embracing 2025 NYE – Reflecting on 2024 and Embracing 2025 109 Toni Graham As we close out 2024, join us for our final episode of the year! This week, we’re reflecting on the challenges, wins, and lessons from the past 12 months, sharing what we’re leaving behind, and setting intentions for the new year.  

We’ll dive into personal stories, listener reflections, and heartfelt goals for 2025. From letting go of resentment and grudges to prioritizing self-care and saying yes to new opportunities, this episode is packed with inspiration for stepping into the new year with purpose.  

Whether you’re ringing in 2025 with champagne, coffee, or a cozy night at home, this episode is the perfect way to reflect, reset, and get ready for a fresh start.  

Thank you for being part of our journey this year—we couldn’t do this without you! Here’s to a new year full of intention, positivity, and maybe just a little less chaos.  

Happy New Year from Raising His Kids!


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]]> <p><span>As we close out 2024, join us for our final episode of the year! This week, we’re reflecting on the challenges, wins, and lessons from the past 12 months, sharing what we’re leaving behind, and setting intentions for the new year.  </span></p><p><span>We’ll dive into personal stories, listener reflections, and heartfelt goals for 2025. From letting go of resentment and grudges to prioritizing self-care and saying yes to new opportunities, this episode is packed with inspiration for stepping into the new year with purpose.  </span></p><p><span>Whether you’re ringing in 2025 with champagne, coffee, or a cozy night at home, this episode is the perfect way to reflect, reset, and get ready for a fresh start.  </span></p><p><span>Thank you for being part of our journey this year—we couldn’t do this without you! Here’s to a new year full of intention, positivity, and maybe just a little less chaos.  </span></p><p><span>Happy New Year from Raising His Kids!</span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Don’t forget to join the conversation in our Facebook group and follow us on Instagram to share your 2025 goals and intentions!</span></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support Us:</span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 61d586b6-dca6-4407-97a1-41f3df76b3a3 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/ac38f294-bfcb-413e-983b-9ea2e8a7ab03 Mon, 30 Dec 2024 09:16:45 +0000 1247 yes full Keeping It Merry This Stepmas Eve Eve Keeping It Merry This Stepmas Eve Eve 108 Toni Graham It’s Christmas Eve Eve, and we’re here to bring some holiday cheer to your ears! 🎄 Whether you’re wrapping presents, baking cookies, or hiding in the pantry from the kids (we don’t judge), we’re so glad you’re tuning in.  

In this lighthearted episode, Toni and Lauren share their ideal Christmas Day plans—if everything went perfectly smooth (we can all dream, right?). Plus, we answer listener questions about navigating the holidays when stepkids aren’t with you, balancing blended family traditions, and making the season special even when things don’t go to plan.  

So grab your cocoa or cocktail, take a deep breath, and let’s make this holiday season a little bit brighter together. From our families to yours, Merry Christmas!  


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]]> <p>It’s Christmas Eve Eve, and we’re here to bring some holiday cheer to your ears! 🎄 Whether you’re wrapping presents, baking cookies, or hiding in the pantry from the kids <em>(we don’t judge)</em>, we’re so glad you’re tuning in.  </p><p>In this lighthearted episode, Toni and Lauren share their ideal Christmas Day plans—if everything went perfectly smooth <em>(we can all dream, right?)</em>. Plus, we answer listener questions about navigating the holidays when stepkids aren’t with you, balancing blended family traditions, and making the season special even when things don’t go to plan.  </p><p>So grab your cocoa or cocktail, take a deep breath, and let’s make this holiday season a little bit brighter together. From our families to yours, Merry Christmas!  </p><p><br></p><p><em>🎁 Don’t forget—if you want to give us a gift, we’d love a 5-star review!</em></p><p>Follow &amp; Support Us:</p><p>Raising His Kids:<a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p>Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p>Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p>Threads:<a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p>Tiktok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p>Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> b46dd43d-4f40-4983-9aba-4e9f2c6ca58a https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/962b1809-baa4-4e11-9dcb-0e9daca31867 Mon, 23 Dec 2024 09:00:00 +0000 2689 yes full Christmas Gift Giving in Blended Families Christmas Gift Giving in Blended Families 107 Toni Graham The holiday season is here, and with Christmas just around the corner, we're diving into one of the trickiest parts of blended family life: gift giving. In this episode, we’re unpacking how to navigate the complexities of buying gifts in blended families—from who buys for who, to dealing with judgmental kids, to managing awkward situations with exes or their families.  

We’re answering your listener questions, like:  

- Who should the gifts be signed from?  

- How do you handle gift money from grandparents?  

- What do you do if stepkids criticize or mock every gift?  

- Is it weird for kids not to buy gifts for their coparents?  

Plus, we’re sharing tips to make the season smoother, like setting gift-giving expectations, protecting your peace, and encouraging kids to create thoughtful handmade gifts. Whether you're figuring out how to balance traditions, handle entitlement, or just survive the holiday stress, we've got you covered.  

Grab your cocoa or eggnog and join us for this holiday-themed episode!  


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]]> <p>The holiday season is here, and with Christmas just around the corner, we&#39;re diving into one of the trickiest parts of blended family life: <em>gift giving</em>. In this episode, we’re unpacking how to navigate the complexities of buying gifts in blended families—from who buys for who, to dealing with judgmental kids, to managing awkward situations with exes or their families.  </p><p><em>We’re answering your listener questions, like:  </em></p><p><em>- Who should the gifts be signed from?  </em></p><p><em>- How do you handle gift money from grandparents?  </em></p><p><em>- What do you do if stepkids criticize or mock every gift?  </em></p><p><em>- Is it weird for kids not to buy gifts for their coparents?  </em></p><p>Plus, we’re sharing tips to make the season smoother, like setting gift-giving expectations, protecting your peace, and encouraging kids to create thoughtful handmade gifts. Whether you&#39;re figuring out how to balance traditions, handle entitlement, or just survive the holiday stress, we&#39;ve got you covered.  </p><p>Grab your cocoa or eggnog and join us for this holiday-themed episode!  </p><p><br></p><p>👉 Don’t forget to follow us on Instagram @RaisingHisKids for more holiday tips and tricks, and leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review if you enjoyed this episode. Happy Holidays! </p><p> </p><p>Raising His Kids:<a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p>Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p>Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p>Threads:<a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p>Tiktok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p>Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> c3565cfd-bde6-47f5-a51f-9546ca063fff https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/776fddee-51b2-4578-9f94-61de81286071 Mon, 16 Dec 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2938 yes full Two Years of Raising His Kids – Trivia, Chaos, and Listener Questions Two Years of Raising His Kids – Trivia, Chaos, and Listener Questions 106 Toni Graham It’s time to celebrate two incredible years of Raising His Kids! In this special episode, Toni and Lauren reflect on how it all began, sharing hilarious behind-the-scenes moments, including their first recording mishaps and funniest bloopers.  

But that’s not all! Test your RHK knowledge alongside them as they tackle trivia questions about the podcast’s most popular episodes, listener favorites, and memorable moments. Plus, they share some of their own blended family chaos from the past year—because what’s a celebration without a little real-life chaos?  

And, of course, they answer your listener questions, diving into the highs, lows, and laughs of stepparenting, co-parenting, and blended family life.  

Join us for a fun, heartfelt look back and an exciting glimpse into what’s next for Raising His Kids. Here’s to another amazing year of connection, laughter, and support!  

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]]> <p><span>It’s time to celebrate </span><em>two</em><span> incredible years of Raising His Kids! In this special episode, Toni and Lauren reflect on how it all began, sharing hilarious behind-the-scenes moments, including their first recording mishaps and funniest bloopers.  </span></p><p><span>But that’s not all! Test your RHK knowledge alongside them as they tackle trivia questions about the podcast’s most popular episodes, listener favorites, and memorable moments. Plus, they share some of their own blended family chaos from the past year—because what’s a celebration without a little real-life chaos?  </span></p><p><span>And, of course, they answer your listener questions, diving into the highs, lows, and laughs of stepparenting, co-parenting, and blended family life.  </span></p><p><span>Join us for a fun, heartfelt look back and an exciting glimpse into what’s next for Raising His Kids. Here’s to another amazing year of connection, laughter, and support!  </span></p><p><span>Grab your coffee or your wine and hit play now!  </span></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Follow &amp; Support us here:</strong></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><em>(Don’t forget to leave us a 5-star review and tell us what you want to hear more of in the year ahead!)</em></p> 01745197-4f7e-4745-83de-1343d044ad8d https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/236df59a-c07a-40d3-bbd2-009acfc4be8f Tue, 10 Dec 2024 11:38:56 +0000 2951 yes full Outsider Syndrome During The Holidays Outsider Syndrome During The Holidays 105 Toni Graham In this episode, Lauren is joined by Kristen Skiles, the voice behind the ‘Stepmomming’’ blog and host of the ‘Stepmomming Made Easy’ podcast, to explore “outsider syndrome”—a common but rarely discussed challenge for stepmoms. As the holiday season approaches, this feeling of exclusion can intensify, especially during family traditions and gatherings. Kristen shares her personal experiences, practical tips, and mindset shifts to help stepmoms navigate these tough moments and find their place in the family dynamic.  

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]]> <p>In this episode, Lauren is joined by Kristen Skiles, the voice behind the ‘Stepmomming’’ blog and host of the ‘Stepmomming Made Easy’ podcast, to explore “outsider syndrome”—a common but rarely discussed challenge for stepmoms. As the holiday season approaches, this feeling of exclusion can intensify, especially during family traditions and gatherings. Kristen shares her personal experiences, practical tips, and mindset shifts to help stepmoms navigate these tough moments and find their place in the family dynamic.  </p><p>Whether you’re feeling like a bystander in your own home or struggling with holiday traditions that make you feel disconnected, this episode offers relatable insights and actionable advice to help you move forward.</p><p><br></p><p>Find Kristen Here:</p><p><a href="https://stepmomming.com/" rel="nofollow">https://stepmomming.com/</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/stepmomming/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/stepmomming/?hl=en</a></p><p><br></p><p>Support Us Here:</p><p>Raising His Kids:<a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p>Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p>Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p>Threads:<a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p>Tiktok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p>Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 39b75c10-c73d-4b19-b833-4e157cf8cecd https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/e1b2b6c2-056d-4148-9b38-4cb0c3c71170 Tue, 03 Dec 2024 07:18:14 +0000 3072 yes full Gratitude in Stepparenting Gratitude in Stepparenting 104 Toni Graham In this special Thanksgiving-themed episode, we’re diving into the power of gratitude in stepparenting. Whether it’s the family we’ve gained, the lessons we’ve learned, or the small moments that remind us why we do what we do, finding gratitude can help us navigate the ups and downs of blended family life.  

Lauren leads today’s discussion as Toni battles a sore throat (but don’t worry—she still shares what she’s grateful for!). Together, we explore your heartfelt responses to what stepparenting has made you thankful for, from building strong bonds to discovering personal growth and resilience.  

If you’re in a challenging season right now, we hope this episode inspires you to reflect on the positives, no matter how small they may seem. Gratitude doesn’t have to be grand—it can simply be a moment of connection, a lesson learned, or the love we’ve built within our families.  

We’re so grateful for you, our listeners, and the incredible community you’ve helped us create. Thank you for sharing your stories and reminding us that we’re all in this together.  

To our American listeners, Happy Thanksgiving! Whether you have the kids or are enjoying some quiet time, we hope you can find a moment to reflect on what you’re grateful for today.  

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]]> <p><span>In this special Thanksgiving-themed episode, we’re diving into the power of gratitude in stepparenting. Whether it’s the family we’ve gained, the lessons we’ve learned, or the small moments that remind us why we do what we do, finding gratitude can help us navigate the ups and downs of blended family life.  </span></p><p><span>Lauren leads today’s discussion as Toni battles a sore throat (but don’t worry—she still shares what she’s grateful for!). Together, we explore your heartfelt responses to what stepparenting has made you thankful for, from building strong bonds to discovering personal growth and resilience.  </span></p><p><span>If you’re in a challenging season right now, we hope this episode inspires you to reflect on the positives, no matter how small they may seem. Gratitude doesn’t have to be grand—it can simply be a moment of connection, a lesson learned, or the love we’ve built within our families.  </span></p><p><span>We’re so grateful for you, our listeners, and the incredible community you’ve helped us create. Thank you for sharing your stories and reminding us that we’re all in this together.  </span></p><p><span>To our American listeners, Happy Thanksgiving! Whether you have the kids or are enjoying some quiet time, we hope you can find a moment to reflect on what you’re grateful for today.  </span></p><p><span>Grab your coffee or your wine, and let’s get into it!  </span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support Us:</span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> efe493c8-3266-4159-aeaa-ba0fec19f522 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/4eaec7ae-a2c7-4999-8196-e1d0bf564a02 Mon, 25 Nov 2024 09:30:00 +0000 918 yes full Preparing for Christmas Chaos, Custody Schedules, and Everything In Between Preparing for Christmas Chaos, Custody Schedules, and Everything In Between 103 Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni is joined by Kassandra from @WeAreFamilyish to kick off a series of holiday-themed episodes. With Lauren away, Kassandra shares her unique perspective on navigating the festive season, reflecting on her journey from being a stepmum to blending traditions in her "familyish" setup today. Together, they dive into the pressures of managing multiple households, merging family traditions, and setting boundaries to keep the season merry and bright.

Toni and Kassandra explore everything from the magic of Elf on the shelf & December 1st boxes to creative ways to blend traditions across different families. If you’re curious about their new holiday gift exchange idea, you’ll definitely want to tune in. They also tackle some juicy listener questions around custody schedules, co-parenting holiday disputes, and how to keep things fair for all the kids involved.

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]]> <p>In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni is joined by Kassandra from @WeAreFamilyish to kick off a series of holiday-themed episodes. With Lauren away, Kassandra shares her unique perspective on navigating the festive season, reflecting on her journey from being a stepmum to blending traditions in her &#34;familyish&#34; setup today. Together, they dive into the pressures of managing multiple households, merging family traditions, and setting boundaries to keep the season merry and bright.</p><p>Toni and Kassandra explore everything from the magic of Elf on the shelf &amp; December 1st boxes to creative ways to blend traditions across different families. If you’re curious about their new holiday gift exchange idea, you’ll definitely want to tune in. They also tackle some juicy listener questions around custody schedules, co-parenting holiday disputes, and how to keep things fair for all the kids involved.</p><p>For the extra <em>chismosa</em> (that’s Spanish for gossip) and Kassandra&#39;s cheeky take on handling those &#34;mythical creature&#34; challenges that every blended family faces between homes, be sure to check out our exclusive content over on Patreon.</p><p><br></p><p>Follow &amp; Support Raising His Kids here:</p><p>Raising His Kids:<a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p>Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p>Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p>Threads:<a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p>Tiktok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p>Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p>Follow &amp; Support Kassandra here:</p><p><a href="https://www.wearefamilyish.com/blog/page/2" rel="nofollow">https://www.wearefamilyish.com/blog/page/2</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/</a></p> eb68c79d-acf2-4a7e-a3c6-452cff935a51 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/6d6346cf-ce80-411d-8b2b-80b18ecbf491 Mon, 18 Nov 2024 09:30:00 +0000 6023 yes full Gloves Off, Round Two: Unfiltered StepMum Confessions Gloves Off, Round Two: Unfiltered StepMum Confessions 102 Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren revisit one of their most popular topics: all the things you wish you could say to ‘Karen’—the high-conflict biological mother who makes coparenting a challenge. It’s been a while since the first round of venting back in Episode 29, “Gloves Off: StepMoms Speak Up - What You Wished You Could Say,” so it’s time for a refresh!

Lauren and Toni dive into candid listener responses, sharing the unfiltered thoughts, frustrations, and truths stepmums hold back for the sake of peace. From double standards and child support battles to never-ending pick-up drama, nothing is off the table. And yes, some of these confessions might even be their own! Want to know for sure? Join their Gold Tier Patreon for the full scoop.

Grab your coffee or wine, and get ready for some laughs, relatable rants, and maybe even a little cathartic release. Whether you’re navigating the emotional roller coaster of blended family life or just need to know you’re not alone, this episode is for you.

*Note: This episode is a bit shorter than our usual ones, but it definitely gets straight to the point!*


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]]> <p><span>In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren revisit one of their most popular topics: all the things you wish you could say to ‘Karen’—the high-conflict biological mother who makes coparenting a challenge. It’s been a while since the first round of venting back in Episode 29, “Gloves Off: StepMoms Speak Up - What You Wished You Could Say,” so it’s time for a refresh!</span></p><p><span>Lauren and Toni dive into candid listener responses, sharing the unfiltered thoughts, frustrations, and truths stepmums hold back for the sake of peace. From double standards and child support battles to never-ending pick-up drama, nothing is off the table. And yes, some of these confessions might even be their own! Want to know for sure? Join their Gold Tier Patreon for the full scoop.</span></p><p><span>Grab your coffee or wine, and get ready for some laughs, relatable rants, and maybe even a little cathartic release. Whether you’re navigating the emotional roller coaster of blended family life or just need to know you’re not alone, this episode is for you.</span></p><p><em>*Note: This episode is a bit shorter than our usual ones, but it definitely gets straight to the point!*</em></p><p><br></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support Us:</span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> d0d5fbe5-0db7-46bb-acd1-0b6ebeaf06be https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/73a99ecd-55af-48fb-beba-c4d9c7942397 Mon, 11 Nov 2024 10:02:11 +0000 819 yes full Navigating Bio, Step & Half-Sibling Relationships Navigating Bio, Step & Half-Sibling Relationships 101 Toni Graham In this episode, Toni and Lauren dive into the unique sibling dynamics of blended families, focusing on the connections and challenges between bio, step, and half-siblings. They explore distinct sibling types—bio siblings who share both parents, step-siblings who live together through marriage, and half-siblings who share one parent, with at least one child often navigating two households. From competition and jealousy to personality differences and varied parenting styles, Toni and Lauren discuss common struggles and share practical strategies to foster healthy sibling bonds.

Listen in as they share listener stories, answer questions on managing sibling conflict, and offer insights on helping kids build connections at their own pace. Whether you’re a stepmother, biological mother, or navigating the blended family journey in any role, this episode offers relatable stories and advice to support positive sibling relationships. Grab your coffee or your wine, and join us for a thoughtful conversation on Raising His Kids!


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]]> <p><span>In this episode, Toni and Lauren dive into the unique sibling dynamics of blended families, focusing on the connections and challenges between bio, step, and half-siblings. They explore distinct sibling types—bio siblings who share both parents, step-siblings who live together through marriage, and half-siblings who share one parent, with at least one child often navigating two households. From competition and jealousy to personality differences and varied parenting styles, Toni and Lauren discuss common struggles and share practical strategies to foster healthy sibling bonds.</span></p><p><span>Listen in as they share listener stories, answer questions on managing sibling conflict, and offer insights on helping kids build connections at their own pace. Whether you’re a stepmother, biological mother, or navigating the blended family journey in any role, this episode offers relatable stories and advice to support positive sibling relationships. Grab your coffee or your wine, and join us for a thoughtful conversation on Raising His Kids! </span></p><p><br></p><p>Follow and Support us here: </p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 6bb147cd-e4f2-4873-a1c4-558d7da591dc https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/e9390956-4916-45ad-9d1f-2d187e872b6b Mon, 04 Nov 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2910 yes full A Haunted House, But... You're a Stepmother A Haunted House, But... You're a Stepmother 100 Toni Graham Thanks for sticking with us through 100 episodes! In this milestone celebration, Toni and Lauren dive headfirst into the spooky, chaotic, and sometimes downright terrifying realities of stepmotherhood.  

In honour of Halloween, we’ve themed this episode accordingly, sharing the creepiest, funniest, and most intense listener-submitted stepmum horror stories. From awkward run-ins with exes to bone-chilling custody battles—including every mother and stepmother's worst nightmare—no story is off-limits!  

You'll hear about:  

- 🫣 Jump scares from late-night texts and custody dramas.  

- 😬 Awkward family encounters that make you wish you were invisible.  

- 💔 Intense personal experiences, including one with a “trigger warning” —mention of child sexual abuse.  

- 🎃 A hilarious 'A Haunted House, But...' segment, where listeners put a stepmum spin on everyday situations.

Whether you’re in the thick of stepmotherhood or just love a good story, this episode will make you laugh, cry, and maybe even feel seen. Thank you for joining us for 100 episodes and helping us reach almost 18,000 downloads—we wouldn’t be here without your support!  

- ✨ Patreon Exclusive Episode – Join us on Patreon for a never-before-released episode we managed to recover!  

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This episode contains sensitive topics, including a story with mention of child sexual abuse. Please listen with care. If you or someone you know has been affected by sexual abuse, please reach out to a support service for help.  

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- National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)  

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]]> <p><span>Thanks for sticking with us through 100 episodes! In this milestone celebration, Toni and Lauren dive headfirst into the spooky, chaotic, and sometimes downright terrifying realities of stepmotherhood.  </span></p><p><span>In honour of Halloween, we’ve themed this episode accordingly, sharing the creepiest, funniest, and most intense listener-submitted stepmum horror stories. From awkward run-ins with exes to bone-chilling custody battles—including every mother and stepmother&#39;s worst nightmare—no story is off-limits!  </span></p><p><u>You&#39;ll hear about:  </u></p><p><span>- 🫣 Jump scares from late-night texts and custody dramas.  </span></p><p><span>- 😬 Awkward family encounters that make you wish you were invisible.  </span></p><p><span>- 💔 Intense personal experiences, including one with a “trigger warning” —mention of child sexual abuse.  </span></p><p><span>- 🎃 A hilarious &#39;A Haunted House, But...&#39; segment, where listeners put a stepmum spin on everyday situations.</span></p><p><span>Whether you’re in the thick of stepmotherhood or just love a good story, this episode will make you laugh, cry, and maybe even feel seen. Thank you for joining us for 100 episodes and helping us reach almost 18,000 downloads—we wouldn’t be here without your support!  </span></p><p><span>- ✨ </span><u>Patreon Exclusive Episode</u><span> – Join us on Patreon for a never-before-released episode we managed to recover!  </span></p><p><span>- 👻 </span><u>Facebook Group</u><span> – Once you have listened to this episode, share your own stepmum scaries and join the conversation with other listeners.  </span></p><p><br></p><p><span></span><strong><u>Trigger Warning:</u></strong></p><p><span>This episode contains sensitive topics, including a story with mention of child sexual abuse. Please listen with care. If you or someone you know has been affected by sexual abuse, please reach out to a support service for help.  </span></p><p><strong>Australia</strong><span> 🇦🇺  </span></p><p>- Lifeline (24/7 Crisis Support): 13 11 14  </p><p>- 1800 RESPECT (24/7 Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Support): 1800 737 732  </p><p>- Kids Helpline (For young people aged 5-25): 1800 55 1800  </p><p>- Blue Knot Foundation (Survivors of Childhood Trauma &amp; Abuse): 1300 657 380  </p><p>- Parentline (Parenting Support): 1300 30 1300  </p><p><strong>United States</strong><span> 🇺🇸  </span></p><p>- National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)  </p><p>- National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453)  </p><p>- National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (24/7 Crisis Support): 988  </p><p>- Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741  </p><p>- Parent Helpline (Parenting Stress Support): 1-855-427-2736  </p><p><br></p><p><strong><u>Follow &amp; Support Us:</u></strong></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p> 42932f24-04de-4a8e-848b-779aa857db7f https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/e408ffeb-3d17-4c97-a2bd-d030c8b74235 Mon, 28 Oct 2024 09:40:00 +0000 1512 yes full Connecting with Stepkids When Loyalty Gets in the Way Connecting with Stepkids When Loyalty Gets in the Way 99 Toni Graham In this episode of *Raising His Kids*, Toni and Lauren explore one of the toughest challenges for stepmums: building meaningful connections with stepkids, especially when loyalty binds them to their biological mum. 

We unpack what loyalty binds are, why they happen, and how they can create emotional distance. Toni and Lauren share practical tips for fostering trust, staying patient, and creating safe spaces—without forcing a bond or feeling like you're competing with their mum. 

Tune in as we answer listener questions about rejection, overstepping boundaries, and dealing with bio-mums who stir the pot. If you’ve ever felt like an outsider in your blended family, this episode will remind you that connection takes time, and you’re not alone in the journey.


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]]> <p><span>In this episode of *Raising His Kids*, Toni and Lauren explore one of the toughest challenges for stepmums: building meaningful connections with stepkids, especially when loyalty binds them to their biological mum. </span></p><p><span>We unpack what loyalty binds are, why they happen, and how they can create emotional distance. Toni and Lauren share practical tips for fostering trust, staying patient, and creating safe spaces—without forcing a bond or feeling like you&#39;re competing with their mum. </span></p><p><span>Tune in as we answer listener questions about rejection, overstepping boundaries, and dealing with bio-mums who stir the pot. If you’ve ever felt like an outsider in your blended family, this episode will remind you that connection takes time, and you’re not alone in the journey.</span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Support &amp; Follow us:</span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p> 2f977b6f-bff5-4321-8d11-59a99853669f https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/b1ba96d1-1770-4089-9ade-10ced9763d55 Mon, 21 Oct 2024 09:30:00 +0000 1990 yes full Losing Friendships: Divorce, Stepmotherhood, and Shifting Social Circles Losing Friendships: Divorce, Stepmotherhood, and Shifting Social Circles 98 Toni Graham In this heartfelt episode, Toni and Lauren dive into a topic that’s rarely discussed but deeply felt—losing friendships after divorce or when stepping into the role of a stepmother. They share their own personal stories about how life changes can create distance in old friendships and explore why relationships sometimes dissolve during these transitions.  

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]]> <p><span>In this heartfelt episode, Toni and Lauren dive into a topic that’s rarely discussed but deeply felt—losing friendships after divorce or when stepping into the role of a stepmother. They share their own personal stories about how life changes can create distance in old friendships and explore why relationships sometimes dissolve during these transitions.  </span></p><p><span>From navigating grief to building new support systems, Toni and Lauren offer practical tips on how to rebuild your social circle with friendships that align with where you are now. If you’ve felt the sting of shifting relationships or the isolation that can come with blending families, this episode is for you. Tune in, take a deep breath, and know you’re not alone.  </span></p><p><span>Follow &amp; Support us:</span></p><p><span><span></span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 32db5cbd-c755-4a6b-b1a1-1f0f190f9f3f https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/a88c0818-50d5-4f9c-a4e5-42abbd501dc1 Mon, 14 Oct 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2536 yes full Reddit AITA Blended Family Edition Reddit AITA Blended Family Edition 97 Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, we’re diving headfirst into the chaotic, heartwarming, and sometimes downright hilarious world of Reddit’s "Am I the A**hole" (AITA) stories – blended family style! 

After a small tech hiccup with our first attempt, we’re back with a brand new batch of Reddit stories that are sure to resonate with all the stepmums, stepparents, and blended families out there. From boundary battles to holiday dilemmas, these stories explore the complexities of navigating life in a blended family, and trust us, Reddit never disappoints.

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]]> <p><span>In this episode of Raising His Kids, we’re diving headfirst into the chaotic, heartwarming, and sometimes downright hilarious world of Reddit’s &#34;Am I the A**hole&#34; (AITA) stories – blended family style! </span></p><p><span>After a small tech hiccup with our first attempt, we’re back with a brand new batch of Reddit stories that are sure to resonate with all the stepmums, stepparents, and blended families out there. From boundary battles to holiday dilemmas, these stories explore the complexities of navigating life in a blended family, and trust us, Reddit never disappoints.</span></p><p><span>Tune in as Lauren and Toni read and react to a series of Reddit AITA posts and share their own insights, laughs, and advice on these wild situations. </span></p><p><br></p><p>Follow and support us here:</p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p> 1a5fb7fc-0de3-466c-8342-91f449039396 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/8e5a20c4-ce67-4856-9a3a-c16f6b95d64d Mon, 07 Oct 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2238 yes full Patreon Preview: Unreleased Conversations from 2024 Patreon Preview: Unreleased Conversations from 2024 96 Toni Graham In this week’s episode of *Raising His Kids*, we’re giving you a special peek into exclusive content that didn’t make it into our main episodes. You’ll hear a compilation of never-before-heard moments from Episode 57, 62, and 63 — from our New Year's catch-up and Lauren’s surgery before Valentine’s Day, to candid talks about burnout, stepmom guilt, and everything in between.

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]]> <p><span>In this week’s episode of *Raising His Kids*, we’re giving you a special peek into exclusive content that didn’t make it into our main episodes. You’ll hear a compilation of never-before-heard moments from Episode 57, 62, and 63 — from our New Year&#39;s catch-up and Lauren’s surgery before Valentine’s Day, to candid talks about burnout, stepmom guilt, and everything in between.</span></p><p><span>This episode is a taste of what we share weekly with our Patreon subscribers. For more behind-the-scenes moments, personal updates, and bonus content like this, make sure to subscribe to our Patreon!</span></p><p><span>So grab your coffee or your wine, and let’s dive in!</span></p><p><br></p><p>Follow &amp; Support us here:</p><p>Raising His Kids:<a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p>Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p>Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p>Threads:<a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p>Tiktok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 6aff3b8b-2e68-4639-869d-9613921f28fa https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/dbaf7113-5b12-40bf-ae68-3a37298f1a2d Mon, 30 Sep 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2301 yes full Triggered? Us Too! Learning to Manage & Heal from Triggers Triggered? Us Too! Learning to Manage & Heal from Triggers 95 Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, Lauren & Toni dive deep into the world of triggers—those unexpected moments that can catch you off guard and leave you feeling overwhelmed. Whether it’s something your stepchild says, a comment from their biological parent, or just the pressures of a blended family, triggers can take a toll on your emotional well-being.

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]]> <p><span>In this episode of Raising His Kids, Lauren &amp; Toni dive deep into the world of triggers—those unexpected moments that can catch you off guard and leave you feeling overwhelmed. Whether it’s something your stepchild says, a comment from their biological parent, or just the pressures of a blended family, triggers can take a toll on your emotional well-being.</span></p><p><span>Join Toni and Lauren as they share personal stories of their own triggers, answer listener questions, and provide practical tips for managing and healing from these challenging moments. From setting boundaries to seeking professional support, we’ve got the advice you need to navigate your emotional landscape with confidence.</span></p><p><span>If you’re struggling to manage triggers in your stepparenting journey, this episode is packed with tools and insights to help you move forward with grace and resilience.</span></p><p><span>Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and follow us on Instagram for more stepmum support! Find us here:</span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p> aa6196d1-2904-4bd1-8cf3-e6b1702c859f https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/031d8086-7a60-46c2-9c9c-de8d8a96d767 Mon, 23 Sep 2024 09:30:00 +0000 1946 yes full Making it Yours, with Traditions that Stick Making it Yours, with Traditions that Stick 94 Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren explore the importance of creating and blending traditions in your family. Whether you're starting from scratch or combining traditions from different backgrounds, it can be both challenging and rewarding. They also take a moment to recognize National Stepfamily Day on September 16th in the USA and share how it could be the perfect opportunity to start a new tradition with your blended family.

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]]> <p><span>In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren explore the importance of creating and blending traditions in your family. Whether you&#39;re starting from scratch or combining traditions from different backgrounds, it can be both challenging and rewarding. They also take a moment to recognize National Stepfamily Day on September 16th in the USA and share how it could be the perfect opportunity to start a new tradition with your blended family.</span></p><p><span>Tune in as they discuss personal stories, offer practical tips, and read listener submissions on the traditions that have helped strengthen family bonds. Whether it’s around holidays, birthdays, or everyday moments, you’ll find inspiration and guidance on making traditions work for your unique situation.</span></p><p><span>If you’ve been wondering how to navigate traditions in your blended family, this episode is for you!</span></p><p>Find, Follow &amp; Support us here:</p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p> 8b1f6078-6677-40a0-9469-dff3075767c8 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/f31d6532-a45c-4da0-8b96-307cfe09a2c4 Mon, 16 Sep 2024 09:30:00 +0000 1952 yes full Blended Family Weddings Blended Family Weddings 93 Toni Graham In this episode of *Raising His Kids*, Toni and Lauren explore the often complicated topic of blended family weddings. From figuring out how much to involve the kids to navigating relationships with biological parents, they share their own wedding experiences and offer practical advice for making your big day go smoothly.

They also answer listener questions on dealing with tricky wedding scenarios unique to blended families. Whether you're planning a large wedding or thinking about eloping, this episode offers insights into how to make your wedding day a celebration that reflects your unique family.

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]]> <p><span>In this episode of *Raising His Kids*, Toni and Lauren explore the often complicated topic of blended family weddings. From figuring out how much to involve the kids to navigating relationships with biological parents, they share their own wedding experiences and offer practical advice for making your big day go smoothly.</span></p><p><span>They also answer listener questions on dealing with tricky wedding scenarios unique to blended families. Whether you&#39;re planning a large wedding or thinking about eloping, this episode offers insights into how to make your wedding day a celebration that reflects your unique family.</span></p><p><span>If you&#39;re in the middle of wedding planning in a blended family, this episode will give you the guidance you need to move forward with confidence.</span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Support us here:</span></p><p><span><span></span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 7b457193-f3d9-41ff-ad56-e78bd8d9c6db https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/546a758f-5644-4685-9d95-f9c96acd3211 Mon, 09 Sep 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2032 yes full When You Only Have Every Other Weekend When You Only Have Every Other Weekend 92 Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren explore the unique challenges and joys of being an every other weekend stepmother. They share personal experiences, offer tips on maximizing the limited time with the kids, and discuss how to navigate the complexities of this role. Whether you’re an every other weekend stepmother or looking to better understand these dynamics, this episode has something for everyone.

Plus, they answer listener questions, such as whether every other weekend is considered visitation or custody and how to handle having no say in decisions.

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]]> <p>In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren explore the unique challenges and joys of being an every other weekend stepmother. They share personal experiences, offer tips on maximizing the limited time with the kids, and discuss how to navigate the complexities of this role. Whether you’re an every other weekend stepmother or looking to better understand these dynamics, this episode has something for everyone.</p><p>Plus, they answer listener questions, such as whether every other weekend is considered visitation or custody and how to handle having no say in decisions.</p><p>Join Toni and Lauren as they uncover the realities of every other weekend stepparenting. And don’t miss out on exciting updates happening on their Patreon starting September 1st!</p><p><br></p><p>Support Raising His Kids Here:</p><p>Raising His Kids:<a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p>Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p>Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p>Threads:<a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p>Tiktok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p>Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> c6c376ef-d7db-4fe0-b964-51e55dac3659 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/5b91a051-3cfa-4891-9b27-52d236e4430e Mon, 02 Sep 2024 09:00:00 +0000 1253 yes full Bonus Episode: Father's Day Down Under Bonus Episode: Father's Day Down Under 91 Toni Graham In this special bonus episode of Raising His Kids, we honour Australian Father’s Day, coming up on the 1st of September. Toni sits down with Mark, a dedicated bio dad who has full custody of his son. Mark shares his powerful journey of stepping into full-time parenting, overcoming challenges, and the deep love that drives him every day.

Before diving into Mark’s story, Toni discusses an important issue—men’s mental health, particularly around Father’s Day. With suicide rates among Australian men significantly higher than women, this episode sheds light on the pressures and struggles that many fathers face, especially during this time of year.

Mark also answers listener questions, offering insights on his experience in the court process, managing relationships, and how he navigates the complexities of full-time fatherhood. Whether you’re a dad, stepmum, or someone navigating blended family life, this episode offers support, encouragement, and a reminder that you’re not alone.

Don’t miss this heartfelt conversation as we celebrate the resilience and dedication of fathers everywhere.


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]]> <p>In this special bonus episode of Raising His Kids, we honour Australian Father’s Day, coming up on the 1st of September. Toni sits down with Mark, a dedicated bio dad who has full custody of his son. Mark shares his powerful journey of stepping into full-time parenting, overcoming challenges, and the deep love that drives him every day.</p><p>Before diving into Mark’s story, Toni discusses an important issue—men’s mental health, particularly around Father’s Day. With suicide rates among Australian men significantly higher than women, this episode sheds light on the pressures and struggles that many fathers face, especially during this time of year.</p><p>Mark also answers listener questions, offering insights on his experience in the court process, managing relationships, and how he navigates the complexities of full-time fatherhood. Whether you’re a dad, stepmum, or someone navigating blended family life, this episode offers support, encouragement, and a reminder that you’re not alone.</p><p>Don’t miss this heartfelt conversation as we celebrate the resilience and dedication of fathers everywhere.</p><p><br></p><p>If you want to follow Mark and reach out to him or if you just want to support his business you can find him here:</p><p>Mark’s Personal Instagram: </p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/mark_rains___/?igsh=aHJ4dDdlMThudzBh" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/mark_rains___/?igsh=aHJ4dDdlMThudzBh</a></p><p>Rains Rainzy Business Page:</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/rainsrainzy/?igsh=MnI1bThuamppMWho" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/rainsrainzy/?igsh=MnI1bThuamppMWho</a></p><p>For our Australian listeners there is also the Promo Code: Toni24</p><p><a href="https://rainzyrainsaustralianclothingco.square.site/?cc=Toni24" rel="nofollow">https://rainzyrainsaustralianclothingco.square.site/?cc=Toni24</a></p> ecf99d2a-2600-48fd-9e8e-380a8486457b https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/02e07f26-50fb-4149-a9be-4826d964d63a Fri, 30 Aug 2024 09:00:00 +0000 4322 yes full Finding Positivity in Stepparenting Finding Positivity in Stepparenting 90 Toni Graham In this episode, Toni and Lauren explore the often challenging yet rewarding journey of finding positivity in stepparenting. We know it’s not always easy, but there are so many ways to focus on the positives and build a fulfilling family dynamic.

We dive into listener responses and hear how some of you find joy in the little moments, like a heartfelt "I love you" or a big hug from your stepkids. We also discuss how to maintain your peace when the challenges of coparenting feel overwhelming. From disengaging when needed to creating your own little world within your blended family, we cover it all.

Tune in as we answer your questions about preserving peace and staying positive, even when the going gets tough. Remember, it's easy to get caught up in the negativity, but holding onto those positive moments can remind us why we’re on this journey.


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]]> <p><span>In this episode, Toni and Lauren explore the often challenging yet rewarding journey of finding positivity in stepparenting. We know it’s not always easy, but there are so many ways to focus on the positives and build a fulfilling family dynamic.</span></p><p><span>We dive into listener responses and hear how some of you find joy in the little moments, like a heartfelt &#34;I love you&#34; or a big hug from your stepkids. We also discuss how to maintain your peace when the challenges of coparenting feel overwhelming. From disengaging when needed to creating your own little world within your blended family, we cover it all.</span></p><p><span>Tune in as we answer your questions about preserving peace and staying positive, even when the going gets tough. Remember, it&#39;s easy to get caught up in the negativity, but holding onto those positive moments can remind us why we’re on this journey.</span></p><p><br></p><p><span>How to find us: </span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 6e99afc1-4a94-471b-a1bf-748a0500e1fc https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/c0f22950-cc63-4716-a505-8e1f707b707c Mon, 26 Aug 2024 07:25:13 +0000 2154 yes full Navigating from Stepmum to Bio Mum with Jasmine Yow Navigating from Stepmum to Bio Mum with Jasmine Yow 89 Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni welcomes Jasmine Yow, a dedicated stepmum coach who specialises in supporting childless stepmums as they navigate the transition into biological motherhood. Jasmine’s work is transformative for many women, helping them unravel complex emotions and build cohesive family cultures amidst the challenges of blended life.

Join us as Jasmine shares her insights on the common struggles stepmums face when they add their own babies into the mix, how these challenges affect family dynamics, and practical strategies to manage the emotional rollercoaster that often accompanies this journey. From creating unity within the family to fostering open communication, Jasmine provides valuable advice that every stepmum needs to hear.

We also dive into some listener questions, exploring topics like dealing with resentment towards stepkids after having your own child, managing insecurities when it’s your first baby but not your husband’s, and overcoming feelings of being ‘ripped off’ in your first biological experience.

Whether you’re a stepmum on the brink of adding your own little one to the family or simply looking to find peace in your blended family life, this episode is packed with wisdom and actionable advice. Tune in for an honest, heartfelt conversation and discover the support you need to thrive in your unique family journey.

Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and join us for more episodes filled with insights into the blended family rollercoaster.


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]]> <p><span>In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni welcomes Jasmine Yow, a dedicated stepmum coach who specialises in supporting childless stepmums as they navigate the transition into biological motherhood. Jasmine’s work is transformative for many women, helping them unravel complex emotions and build cohesive family cultures amidst the challenges of blended life.</span></p><p><span>Join us as Jasmine shares her insights on the common struggles stepmums face when they add their own babies into the mix, how these challenges affect family dynamics, and practical strategies to manage the emotional rollercoaster that often accompanies this journey. From creating unity within the family to fostering open communication, Jasmine provides valuable advice that every stepmum needs to hear.</span></p><p><span>We also dive into some listener questions, exploring topics like dealing with resentment towards stepkids after having your own child, managing insecurities when it’s your first baby but not your husband’s, and overcoming feelings of being ‘ripped off’ in your first biological experience.</span></p><p><span>Whether you’re a stepmum on the brink of adding your own little one to the family or simply looking to find peace in your blended family life, this episode is packed with wisdom and actionable advice. Tune in for an honest, heartfelt conversation and discover the support you need to thrive in your unique family journey.</span></p><p><span>Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and join us for more episodes filled with insights into the blended family rollercoaster.</span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Links to connect with Jasmine:</span></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jasmineyow/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/jasmineyow/?hl=en</a></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/jasmine.yow/" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/jasmine.yow/</a></p><p><a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/1yZ4RZDEZ0z2-klFk3mrJjElcPOAlnOlC/view" rel="nofollow">https://drive.google.com/file/d/1yZ4RZDEZ0z2-klFk3mrJjElcPOAlnOlC/view</a></p><p><br></p> db2c6398-81c8-40f5-a4f9-db96eb98519f https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/c0030160-39a3-49fe-a3dc-e2d1ca1da2dc Mon, 19 Aug 2024 09:30:00 +0000 3195 yes full Back To School Back To School 88 Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren dive into everything you need to know to get ready for the new school year, whether you're a seasoned pro or new to the back-to-school chaos.

What We Cover:

- Tips for getting your kids back into school routines

- Fun ways to celebrate the last days of summer

- Navigating the financial aspects of back-to-school season with your coparent

- Listener questions about handling school supplies, splitting costs, and making the most of the back-to-school experience

Join us as we share our personal routines, listener tips, and strategies to ensure a smooth transition from summer break to the classroom. Whether you have the kids the day before school starts or not, you can still be a part of their back-to-school excitement.

And don't forget to check out our Patreon for exclusive content and behind-the-scenes goodies. Grab your coffee or your wine, and let’s get this school year off to a great start!

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]]> <p><span>In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren dive into everything you need to know to get ready for the new school year, whether you&#39;re a seasoned pro or new to the back-to-school chaos.</span></p><p><span>What We Cover:</span></p><p><span>- Tips for getting your kids back into school routines</span></p><p><span>- Fun ways to celebrate the last days of summer</span></p><p><span>- Navigating the financial aspects of back-to-school season with your coparent</span></p><p><span>- Listener questions about handling school supplies, splitting costs, and making the most of the back-to-school experience</span></p><p><span>Join us as we share our personal routines, listener tips, and strategies to ensure a smooth transition from summer break to the classroom. Whether you have the kids the day before school starts or not, you can still be a part of their back-to-school excitement.</span></p><p><span>And don&#39;t forget to check out our Patreon for exclusive content and behind-the-scenes goodies. Grab your coffee or your wine, and let’s get this school year off to a great start!</span></p><p><span>If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review and follow us on all social media platforms at @raisinghiskids.</span></p><p><span>Follow Us:</span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p> c5070a7e-32eb-492c-b7a8-85da5a4ddbdc https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/c6bcbb3b-f55f-4ad6-b8cd-879ade259ba5 Mon, 12 Aug 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2186 yes full Blended Family Vacation Blended Family Vacation 87 Toni Graham In this episode, your hosts Lauren and Toni dive into the exciting and sometimes daunting world of Blended Family Vacations. With summer in full swing in the northern hemisphere for Lauren and planning underway in the southern hemisphere for Toni, this episode is packed with tips and advice to ensure your family trip is memorable, fun, and stress-free.

Toni shares her experience planning a big family trip, while Lauren talks about her upcoming vacation. Together, they provide practical suggestions for involving everyone in the planning process, setting clear boundaries, and being flexible with custody schedules. They also explore the importance of creating new vacation traditions, taking alone time when needed, and being prepared for changes in plans.

Listener questions cover a range of topics, including whether it's okay to plan a vacation without 'his kids', how to handle vacation expenses in blended families, and tips for convincing a co-parent to allow a longer trip. Toni and Lauren also discuss the financial responsibilities of childless stepmoms, deciding between family trips and solo vacations, room arrangements for kids, and handling being called "mum" when you're not the biological mother.

Tune in for all this and more, and don't forget to check out their Patreon for exclusive content and join their Facebook group for ongoing discussions and support from other stepmoms. Grab your coffee or wine, and let’s get started on planning the perfect blended family vacation!

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]]> <p><span>In this episode, your hosts Lauren and Toni dive into the exciting and sometimes daunting world of Blended Family Vacations. With summer in full swing in the northern hemisphere for Lauren and planning underway in the southern hemisphere for Toni, this episode is packed with tips and advice to ensure your family trip is memorable, fun, and stress-free.</span></p><p><span>Toni shares her experience planning a big family trip, while Lauren talks about her upcoming vacation. Together, they provide practical suggestions for involving everyone in the planning process, setting clear boundaries, and being flexible with custody schedules. They also explore the importance of creating new vacation traditions, taking alone time when needed, and being prepared for changes in plans.</span></p><p><span>Listener questions cover a range of topics, including whether it&#39;s okay to plan a vacation without &#39;his kids&#39;, how to handle vacation expenses in blended families, and tips for convincing a co-parent to allow a longer trip. Toni and Lauren also discuss the financial responsibilities of childless stepmoms, deciding between family trips and solo vacations, room arrangements for kids, and handling being called &#34;mum&#34; when you&#39;re not the biological mother.</span></p><p><span>Tune in for all this and more, and don&#39;t forget to check out their Patreon for exclusive content and join their Facebook group for ongoing discussions and support from other stepmoms. Grab your coffee or wine, and let’s get started on planning the perfect blended family vacation!</span></p><p>Find &amp; Support Us Here:</p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p> d5b2a576-bd64-49cb-8a78-99af08bee1d0 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/707f74a7-f928-44f2-8f80-ada31bf50195 Mon, 05 Aug 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2297 yes full Christmas In July Christmas In July 86 Toni Graham Today, Lauren & Toni are bringing a bit of festive cheer to your summer (or summer planning) with a special episode all about planning your holiday schedule with your co-parent now.

It might seem a little early to be thinking about the holidays, but trust us, planning ahead can make a huge difference, especially in a blended family. The holidays can be magical but also stressful, so we’re here to help you get a head start on your co-parenting holiday schedule. 

In this episode, we share tips on navigating the tricky parts of holiday planning, from coordinating schedules with your partner and their ex to making sure the kids have a joyful and memorable time. We’ve got lots of great advice and some personal stories to share, so grab your coffee or your wine, get comfy, and let’s start planning for a stress-free, joyous holiday season!

We’ll cover:

- How to bring up holiday plans with your co-parent early

- The importance of getting plans in writing

- How to handle budget constraints while preparing for the holidays

- Setting firm boundaries and making necessary compromises

- Personal stories and listener questions to guide you through your planning

Plus, we have a special gift for you—a free holiday planning template, available via the link in our Instagram bio. We also share a heartfelt Stepmoms Anon story from one of our listeners that you won’t want to miss.

Tune in and let us help you make this holiday season the best one yet. Happy planning and bye for now!


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]]> <p>Today, Lauren &amp; Toni are bringing a bit of festive cheer to your summer (or summer planning) with a special episode all about planning your holiday schedule with your co-parent now.</p><p>It might seem a little early to be thinking about the holidays, but trust us, planning ahead can make a huge difference, especially in a blended family. The holidays can be magical but also stressful, so we’re here to help you get a head start on your co-parenting holiday schedule. </p><p>In this episode, we share tips on navigating the tricky parts of holiday planning, from coordinating schedules with your partner and their ex to making sure the kids have a joyful and memorable time. We’ve got lots of great advice and some personal stories to share, so grab your coffee or your wine, get comfy, and let’s start planning for a stress-free, joyous holiday season!</p><p>We’ll cover:</p><p>- How to bring up holiday plans with your co-parent early</p><p>- The importance of getting plans in writing</p><p>- How to handle budget constraints while preparing for the holidays</p><p>- Setting firm boundaries and making necessary compromises</p><p>- Personal stories and listener questions to guide you through your planning</p><p>Plus, we have a special gift for you—a free holiday planning template, available via the link in our Instagram bio. We also share a heartfelt Stepmoms Anon story from one of our listeners that you won’t want to miss.</p><p>Tune in and let us help you make this holiday season the best one yet. Happy planning and bye for now!</p><p><br></p><p>Find &amp; Support us: </p><p>Raising His Kids:<a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p>Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p>Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p> 249e731d-c4bb-4c3b-8027-7f3dd8303689 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/28182d54-0f67-473a-8fdb-07a5bc41ac28 Mon, 29 Jul 2024 09:30:00 +0000 3405 yes full Staying in Your Lane with Parallel Parenting Staying in Your Lane with Parallel Parenting 85 Toni Graham Toni and Lauren delve into different coparenting styles, with a spotlight on parallel parenting. This episode, a winner of our Patreon vote, is packed with valuable insights for those navigating high-conflict coparenting situations.

We'll cover the three main types of coparenting—cooperative, conflicted, and parallel—based on information from the familyassist.gov website. Toni and Lauren share their personal experiences and discuss how these styles manifest in their own blended families. Focusing on parallel parenting, they highlight essential elements for your parenting plan or court orders to ensure effective parallel parenting.

The hosts also address listener questions on topics such as the necessary shared information in parallel parenting, handling a non-cooperative coparent, transitioning from co-parenting to parallel parenting, and managing communication through court apps.

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]]> <p><span>Toni and Lauren delve into different coparenting styles, with a spotlight on parallel parenting. This episode, a winner of our Patreon vote, is packed with valuable insights for those navigating high-conflict coparenting situations.</span></p><p><span>We&#39;ll cover the three main types of coparenting—cooperative, conflicted, and parallel—based on information from the familyassist.gov website. Toni and Lauren share their personal experiences and discuss how these styles manifest in their own blended families. Focusing on parallel parenting, they highlight essential elements for your parenting plan or court orders to ensure effective parallel parenting.</span></p><p><span>The hosts also address listener questions on topics such as the necessary shared information in parallel parenting, handling a non-cooperative coparent, transitioning from co-parenting to parallel parenting, and managing communication through court apps.</span></p><p><span>Tune in for a comprehensive discussion on parallel parenting and practical tips to make it work, all aimed at keeping the peace and prioritizing the well-being of your children.</span></p><p><br></p><p><span>Where you can find us &amp; support us:</span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p> 495fda6f-a505-474b-8896-dcec373cb957 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/40ffc2fe-9a21-4e23-8691-282890e2f6ce Mon, 22 Jul 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2945 yes full I Win, You Win, We All Win I Win, You Win, We All Win 84 Toni Graham In this episode, Toni and Lauren dive into the inspiring world of stepmum wins. We're revisiting this popular topic to share new stories and celebrate the successes of stepmums in our community.

We kick off the episode by following up on our last episode with a listener response that touches on the complexities of summer holiday plans and co-parenting dynamics. Hear how one stepmum navigates the challenges of a high-conflict bio mum and strives to create memorable summer experiences for her stepdaughter.

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]]> <p><span>In this episode, Toni and Lauren dive into the inspiring world of stepmum wins. We&#39;re revisiting this popular topic to share new stories and celebrate the successes of stepmums in our community.</span></p><p><span>We kick off the episode by following up on our last episode with a listener response that touches on the complexities of summer holiday plans and co-parenting dynamics. Hear how one stepmum navigates the challenges of a high-conflict bio mum and strives to create memorable summer experiences for her stepdaughter.</span></p><p><span>Then, we share a collection of incredible stepmum wins from our listeners. From small daily victories to significant milestones, these stories highlight the positive impact and love that stepmums bring to their blended families.</span></p><p><span>Grab your coffee or wine, get comfortable, and join us for an episode filled with stepmum successes and heartfelt stories. You&#39;re not alone on this rollercoaster—we&#39;re all in it together.</span></p><p><span>Support Us Here:</span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p> 22569421-f753-4f12-8d2f-0ff625fbed2b https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/2cb5efb5-177b-4c40-bef2-2d9f6e4f02a6 Mon, 15 Jul 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2049 yes full Schools Out For The Summer & Winter Schools Out For The Summer & Winter 83 Toni Graham Toni and Lauren dive into the seasonal breaks from school, exploring the unique challenges and rewards that come with having the kids home. With Toni in Australia just starting winter break and Lauren in the USA kicking off summer break, they discuss how custody schedules can change dramatically, sometimes even disappearing altogether during these long breaks.

They share personal experiences on how their families are handling these changes, including adjustments to custody schedules and the financial implications that come with school breaks. Lauren brings up the often-overlooked topic of additional payments expected during school breaks and whether these costs are accounted for in child support.

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]]> <p>Toni and Lauren dive into the seasonal breaks from school, exploring the unique challenges and rewards that come with having the kids home. With Toni in Australia just starting winter break and Lauren in the USA kicking off summer break, they discuss how custody schedules can change dramatically, sometimes even disappearing altogether during these long breaks.</p><p>They share personal experiences on how their families are handling these changes, including adjustments to custody schedules and the financial implications that come with school breaks. Lauren brings up the often-overlooked topic of additional payments expected during school breaks and whether these costs are accounted for in child support.</p><p>The episode also features listener questions, where Toni and Lauren address real-life scenarios sent in by their audience. From funky schedules and summer camp fees to co-parenting conflicts and unexpected changes in communication with the kids&#39; other parents, they provide insights and advice on navigating these complex situations.</p><p>Tune in for a candid discussion filled with practical tips and heartfelt advice. Whether you&#39;re sipping coffee or wine, join Toni and Lauren as they tackle the nitty-gritty of school breaks in blended families. Remember, if you&#39;re struggling with school breaks, you&#39;re not alone.</p><p><br></p><p>Support our Podcast:</p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 8ebad8b8-7adc-4aa2-92e3-0f192df4e6f1 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/56dc40df-e9c6-4722-90ea-e99afaef1c89 Tue, 09 Jul 2024 11:30:00 +0000 2388 yes full Transition Day Tips & Tricks Transition Day Tips & Tricks 82 Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren dive into one of the most challenging aspects of blended family life: transition days. These days can be tough on everyone, especially the kids, but with the right approach, they can be much smoother and less stressful.

Join Toni and Lauren as they share practical tips and tricks to help make transition days easier for your family. They also discuss the top four phrases to avoid saying to your child during these times to prevent emotional manipulation and ensure your child feels loved and supported.

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]]> <p><span>In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren dive into one of the most challenging aspects of blended family life: transition days. These days can be tough on everyone, especially the kids, but with the right approach, they can be much smoother and less stressful.</span></p><p><span>Join Toni and Lauren as they share practical tips and tricks to help make transition days easier for your family. They also discuss the top four phrases to avoid saying to your child during these times to prevent emotional manipulation and ensure your child feels loved and supported.</span></p><p><span>Plus, we have exciting news to share! Thanks to your amazing support, we&#39;ve reached 10,000 downloads and are already on our way to 15,000! Don&#39;t forget to subscribe, like, and review our podcast to keep supporting our blended family community.</span></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 9ed6b51a-cce0-4f86-9300-cf3157b2319c https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/e41c0ec6-f935-48ea-9ac7-eefbb6b9fab0 Mon, 01 Jul 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2417 yes full Advice from Seasoned Stepmothers to Blooming Stepmothers Advice from Seasoned Stepmothers to Blooming Stepmothers 81 Toni Graham In this heartfelt episode of Raising His Kids, Lauren and Toni provide crucial advice for new stepmothers. Tune in as they address common concerns like expressing love to stepchildren, adjusting to custody schedules, navigating court proceedings, and building relationships with children influenced by negative perceptions.

You'll hear seasoned stepmoms share their wisdom, including tips on patience, setting boundaries, and managing expectations. This episode is packed with practical advice and supportive insights, making it a must-listen for both new and experienced stepmoms.

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]]> <p>In this heartfelt episode of Raising His Kids, Lauren and Toni provide crucial advice for new stepmothers. Tune in as they address common concerns like expressing love to stepchildren, adjusting to custody schedules, navigating court proceedings, and building relationships with children influenced by negative perceptions.</p><p>You&#39;ll hear seasoned stepmoms share their wisdom, including tips on patience, setting boundaries, and managing expectations. This episode is packed with practical advice and supportive insights, making it a must-listen for both new and experienced stepmoms.</p><p>Join the conversation and discover helpful strategies to navigate the unique challenges of step-parenting. Don&#39;t forget to check out our Patreon for unedited episodes and join our free Facebook group for ongoing support and community.</p><p>Raising His Kids:<a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p>Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p>Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p>Threads:<a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p>Tiktok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p>Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 7e0e8c33-0a84-4752-9e7b-e188e1f69b4b https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/11a417be-3f36-43bb-a4b4-6a06e5b8c279 Mon, 24 Jun 2024 09:30:00 +0000 1649 yes full The Black Hole That Is The Other Home The Black Hole That Is The Other Home 80 Toni Graham In today’s special episode, we dive into the hilarious, frustrating, and sometimes baffling world of co-parenting mishaps—the black hole, or as some of us might call it, the abyss of Karen’s house. Whether you're a stepparent or a biological parent, you've likely dealt with the infuriating black hole where things disappear between homes. 

Inspired by a simple photo shared on our Instagram stories—where one of Toni’s stepsons keeps coming to their home wearing smaller socks than his four-year-old sister—we explore the baffling behaviour of dressing children in the wrong-sized clothing and the mysterious disappearance and reappearance of kids' clothes and other items in blended families.

Join Toni and Lauren as they share their own experiences and read out a treasure trove of listener responses. From forgotten coats on rainy days to the epic struggle over socks and school uniforms, this episode is packed with relatable stories that will make you laugh, nod in agreement, and maybe even feel a bit of solidarity in the shared struggles of stepmotherhood.

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]]> <p><span>In today’s special episode, we dive into the hilarious, frustrating, and sometimes baffling world of co-parenting mishaps—the black hole, or as some of us might call it, the abyss of Karen’s house. Whether you&#39;re a stepparent or a biological parent, you&#39;ve likely dealt with the infuriating black hole where things disappear between homes. </span></p><p><span>Inspired by a simple photo shared on our Instagram stories—where one of Toni’s stepsons keeps coming to their home wearing smaller socks than his four-year-old sister—we explore the baffling behaviour of dressing children in the wrong-sized clothing and the mysterious disappearance and reappearance of kids&#39; clothes and other items in blended families.</span></p><p><span>Join Toni and Lauren as they share their own experiences and read out a treasure trove of listener responses. From forgotten coats on rainy days to the epic struggle over socks and school uniforms, this episode is packed with relatable stories that will make you laugh, nod in agreement, and maybe even feel a bit of solidarity in the shared struggles of stepmotherhood.</span></p><p><span>We also take a moment to wish a Happy Father&#39;s Day to all the amazing bio dads out there who celebrated American Father&#39;s Day this past weekend! Tune in for an episode full of emotions, community stories, and a reminder that you’re not alone on this rollercoaster.</span></p><p><br></p><p>How To Find Us:</p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> 4610ba50-832f-4eaf-a66e-7cface97aade https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/a966466a-c8e8-4ece-a04e-da54d99ef480 Mon, 17 Jun 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2389 yes full At The Half Way Point At The Half Way Point 79 Toni Graham In this episode of "Raising His Kids," Lauren and Toni check in with each other and the community, reflecting on the past six months since their New Year's episode, "You Good Sis?" They dive into their personal updates, sharing their progress, challenges, and how they’ve been navigating 2024 so far.

Lauren and Toni discuss their New Year’s resolutions, the importance of self-care, and maintaining balance in their blended family lives. They also read listener responses, providing a snapshot of how their audience is doing halfway through the year, with experiences ranging from achieving goals to just treading water.

Join Lauren and Toni for an insightful conversation about the importance of regular check-ins, both with yourself and your loved ones. Whether you’re on track with your resolutions, facing unexpected challenges, or simply trying to keep up, this episode is a reminder that you’re not alone in your journey.

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  • Reflections on New Year’s resolutions and goals
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]]> <p><span>In this episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; Lauren and Toni check in with each other and the community, reflecting on the past six months since their New Year&#39;s episode, &#34;You Good Sis?&#34; They dive into their personal updates, sharing their progress, challenges, and how they’ve been navigating 2024 so far.</span></p><p><span>Lauren and Toni discuss their New Year’s resolutions, the importance of self-care, and maintaining balance in their blended family lives. They also read listener responses, providing a snapshot of how their audience is doing halfway through the year, with experiences ranging from achieving goals to just treading water.</span></p><p><span>Join Lauren and Toni for an insightful conversation about the importance of regular check-ins, both with yourself and your loved ones. Whether you’re on track with your resolutions, facing unexpected challenges, or simply trying to keep up, this episode is a reminder that you’re not alone in your journey.</span></p><p><strong>Highlights:</strong></p><ul><li><span>Personal updates from Lauren and Toni</span></li><li><span>Listener responses to the mid-year check-in</span></li><li><span>Reflections on New Year’s resolutions and goals</span></li><li><span>The importance of self and community check-ins</span></li></ul><p><br></p><p><span>Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that underscores the complexities of blended family dynamics and offers a supportive community for those navigating similar paths. Reach out for support and share your experiences—Lauren and Toni are here to help each other through the ups and downs of blended family life.</span></p><p><strong>Follow us:</strong></p><p><span>Raising His Kids:</span><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a></p><p><span>Facebook Group:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a></p><p><span>Facebook:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a></p><p><span>Instagram:</span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a></p><p><span>Threads:</span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a></p><p><span>Tiktok:</span><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow"> </a><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p> cd83599e-4f55-4745-97b9-8ccb52b72af8 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/9323c9ac-43ee-4842-850f-075025f86840 Mon, 10 Jun 2024 09:30:00 +0000 1389 yes full 10 Things I Hate About Being in a Blended Family 10 Things I Hate About Being in a Blended Family 78 Toni Graham In this episode of "Raising His Kids," Toni and Lauren dive deep into the often challenging reality of being part of a blended family. Inspired by a popular Instagram reel, Toni revisits her top 10 frustrations, from being falsely labeled a homewrecker to dealing with toxic co-parents and the emotional rollercoaster of sharing children with another parent. 

Lauren shares her own top 5 struggles, including the dreaded "golden uterus syndrome" and the constant drama that comes with co-parenting. They also read and react to listener responses, revealing common grievances like lack of control, missed life events, and the ongoing tension with ex-spouses.

Join Toni and Lauren for an honest conversation about the trials and tribulations of blended family life, offering support, empathy, and a reminder that you are not alone in this journey. Whether you're dealing with high-conflict exes, transition days, or the struggle to maintain balance and peace, this episode is for you.

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]]> <p><span>In this episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; Toni and Lauren dive deep into the often challenging reality of being part of a blended family. Inspired by a popular Instagram reel, Toni revisits her top 10 frustrations, from being falsely labeled a homewrecker to dealing with toxic co-parents and the emotional rollercoaster of sharing children with another parent. </span></p><p><span>Lauren shares her own top 5 struggles, including the dreaded &#34;golden uterus syndrome&#34; and the constant drama that comes with co-parenting. They also read and react to listener responses, revealing common grievances like lack of control, missed life events, and the ongoing tension with ex-spouses. </span></p><p><span>Join Toni and Lauren for an honest conversation about the trials and tribulations of blended family life, offering support, empathy, and a reminder that you are not alone in this journey. Whether you&#39;re dealing with high-conflict exes, transition days, or the struggle to maintain balance and peace, this episode is for you.</span></p><h3><span>Highlights:</span></h3><ul><li><span>Toni&#39;s Top 10 Things She Hates About Being in a Blended Family</span></li><li><span>Lauren&#39;s Top 5 Frustrations</span></li><li><span>Listener Responses on Blended Family Challenges</span></li></ul><p><br></p><p><span>Tune in for a raw and real discussion that shines a light on the complexities of blended family dynamics and offers a community of support for those navigating similar paths.</span></p><p><span>Reach out for support and share your experiences. We&#39;re here to help each other through the ups and downs of blended family life.  </span>Follow us:</p><p>Raising His Kids: <a href="https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq" rel="nofollow">https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbq</a><span> </span></p><p>Facebook Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7l</a><span> </span></p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4d</a><span> </span></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3Mjdl</a><span> </span></p><p><span>Threads: </span><a href="https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids" rel="nofollow">https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskids</a><span> </span></p><p>Tiktok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_r=1&_t=8mbr7JFEBAc" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&amp;_r=1</a><span> </span></p><p><span>Patreon:  </span><a href="https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator" rel="nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator</a></p><p><br></p><p> </p> 2b82c402-45a7-491a-8231-5a82a34a0ae6 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/46e4e1da-bd1e-474d-b7fb-3d6c263ee05f Mon, 03 Jun 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2772 yes full When Bio Dad Met Karen When Bio Dad Met Karen 77 Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren dive into a lively discussion about Mother's Day experiences and share their personal stories from the special day.

The main segment of this episode is all about how our spouses met Karen. Many of us feel intrigued about our partner’s relationship with their child's other parent. In many cases, there’s a lot of conflict, making us curious about what initially attracted them to Karen, given how different things seem now.You'll hear personal stories from Lauren & Toni about how their husbands met Karen as well as amusing, brutally honest listener responses on how their partners met their ex’s, from high school sweethearts to random hookups, and everything in between.

Plus, Lauren shares a thought-provoking Instagram post that she was eager to get Toni’s feedback on, particularly because of the complexities of being twice blended.

Join us for a fun and engaging episode that celebrates motherhood, stepmothers, and the unique stories that bring families together. 

]]> <p>In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren dive into a lively discussion about Mother&#39;s Day experiences and share their personal stories from the special day.</p><p>The main segment of this episode is all about how our spouses met Karen. Many of us feel intrigued about our partner’s relationship with their child&#39;s other parent. In many cases, there’s a lot of conflict, making us curious about what initially attracted them to Karen, given how different things seem now.You&#39;ll hear personal stories from Lauren &amp; Toni about how their husbands met Karen as well as amusing, brutally honest listener responses on how their partners met their ex’s, from high school sweethearts to random hookups, and everything in between.</p><p>Plus, Lauren shares a thought-provoking Instagram post that she was eager to get Toni’s feedback on, particularly because of the complexities of being twice blended.</p><p>Join us for a fun and engaging episode that celebrates motherhood, stepmothers, and the unique stories that bring families together. </p> c3b03474-84b0-4c63-9e25-b3da1d6ebc6e https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/fb05520f-69ca-4f1e-8ae8-dc77cede86dd Mon, 27 May 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2706 yes full Tales of Virtuous Stepmothers Tales of Virtuous Stepmothers 76 Toni Graham In this special episode of "Raising His Kids," Toni is out, but we're excited to have Georgina Warren join Lauren as a guest. Georgina has an intriguing story, having grown up with a stepmother and now writing a book that challenges the traditional narrative of stepmotherhood.

Georgina shares her journey, offering a glimpse into her book, "Tales of Virtuous Stepmothers," and the inspiration behind it. She discusses the importance of representing stepmothers in a positive light and how her own experiences have shaped her perspective on family and storytelling.

Tune in to hear Georgina's unique insights, her tribute to her stepmother, and what listeners can expect from her game-changing book. This episode is a must-listen for anyone involved in a blended family or interested in the evolving roles within them.

About Our Guest: Georgina Warren is a graduate of Christopher Newport University, where she majored in French, and recently received her Master of Library and Information Science degree from the Catholic University of America. She lives in Washington, D.C. and currently works at the Library of Congress. Homeschooled until she was fifteen, she later attended the British School of Washington and the Field School, where she first cultivated her profound love of the literary, visual, and performing arts, and pursued her vision to become a writer, artist, and actor. "Tales of Virtuous Stepmothers" is the first installment of what will eventually be a three-volume collection.

About the Book - Tales of Virtuous Stepmothers: "You already know how the 'wicked stepmother' has become enshrined in legend and folklore. But in this modern era, most of us who are stepmothers or have one ourselves have seen a different truth. Many stepmothers are loving, courageous, and innovative. In this collection of original tales, you will find many kinds of stepmothers—queens, scholars, warriors, travelers, and entrepreneurs. Turn the pages and see how these heroic parents and their children achieve greatness and overcome adversity together!"

https://www.goodreads.com/author_blog_posts/23653265-tales-of-virtuous-stepmothers-debut

]]> <p>In this special episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; Toni is out, but we&#39;re excited to have Georgina Warren join Lauren as a guest. Georgina has an intriguing story, having grown up with a stepmother and now writing a book that challenges the traditional narrative of stepmotherhood.</p><p>Georgina shares her journey, offering a glimpse into her book, &#34;Tales of Virtuous Stepmothers,&#34; and the inspiration behind it. She discusses the importance of representing stepmothers in a positive light and how her own experiences have shaped her perspective on family and storytelling.</p><p>Tune in to hear Georgina&#39;s unique insights, her tribute to her stepmother, and what listeners can expect from her game-changing book. This episode is a must-listen for anyone involved in a blended family or interested in the evolving roles within them.</p><p><strong>About Our Guest: </strong>Georgina Warren is a graduate of Christopher Newport University, where she majored in French, and recently received her Master of Library and Information Science degree from the Catholic University of America. She lives in Washington, D.C. and currently works at the Library of Congress. Homeschooled until she was fifteen, she later attended the British School of Washington and the Field School, where she first cultivated her profound love of the literary, visual, and performing arts, and pursued her vision to become a writer, artist, and actor. &#34;Tales of Virtuous Stepmothers&#34; is the first installment of what will eventually be a three-volume collection.</p><p><strong>About the Book - Tales of Virtuous Stepmothers: </strong>&#34;You already know how the &#39;wicked stepmother&#39; has become enshrined in legend and folklore. But in this modern era, most of us who are stepmothers or have one ourselves have seen a different truth. Many stepmothers are loving, courageous, and innovative. In this collection of original tales, you will find many kinds of stepmothers—queens, scholars, warriors, travelers, and entrepreneurs. Turn the pages and see how these heroic parents and their children achieve greatness and overcome adversity together!&#34;</p><p><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/author_blog_posts/23653265-tales-of-virtuous-stepmothers-debut" rel="nofollow">https://www.goodreads.com/author_blog_posts/23653265-tales-of-virtuous-stepmothers-debut</a></p> 2607f6d6-1597-4333-9010-decfa818131a https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/15cbafd7-650e-4514-8b7f-49fd1b524a4c Mon, 20 May 2024 09:30:00 +0000 1811 yes full When You Can't Have Mother's Day When You Can't Have Mother's Day 75 Toni Graham Join Toni and Lauren in this special episode as they shine a light on Stepmother’s Day, celebrated the Sunday after Mother's Day. This episode serves as a heartfelt tribute to all the incredible stepmothers who play pivotal roles in their families. Dive into discussions about the importance of recognizing the contributions and love that stepmothers bring to their blended families. Explore common challenges, such as feeling like an outsider, especially around Mother's Day, and discover ways families can make Stepmother's Day special for everyone involved. The episode features a listener's anonymous story about the heartache of not being able to celebrate Mother's Day with the child they raise year-round. Tune in to affirm that your role is essential and appreciated in an episode dedicated to acknowledging and embracing stepmoms everywhere.

]]> <p><span>Join Toni and Lauren in this special episode as they shine a light on Stepmother’s Day, celebrated the Sunday after Mother&#39;s Day. This episode serves as a heartfelt tribute to all the incredible stepmothers who play pivotal roles in their families. Dive into discussions about the importance of recognizing the contributions and love that stepmothers bring to their blended families. Explore common challenges, such as feeling like an outsider, especially around Mother&#39;s Day, and discover ways families can make Stepmother&#39;s Day special for everyone involved. The episode features a listener&#39;s anonymous story about the heartache of not being able to celebrate Mother&#39;s Day with the child they raise year-round. Tune in to affirm that your role is essential and appreciated in an episode dedicated to acknowledging and embracing stepmoms everywhere.</span></p> e29428b6-50d8-4524-b576-724f5d72f788 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/7d10bf97-b984-44dd-bc8d-43b02847ccef Mon, 13 May 2024 09:30:00 +0000 524 yes full Mother's Day Through a Stepmother's Eyes Mother's Day Through a Stepmother's Eyes 74 Toni Graham In this episode, hosts Toni and Lauren delve into the complexities of celebrating Mother's Day as a stepmother, exploring how to navigate this emotionally charged day in blended families. As Lauren experiences her first Mother's Day as a biological mother, the duo discusses the importance of acknowledging both Mother's Day and Stepmother's Day, especially when traditional celebrations may not include stepchildren. They address listener questions that reveal the deep-seated challenges stepmoms face, from lack of recognition to the tricky dynamics with biological mothers and other family members. This episode offers guidance on communicating your needs, setting boundaries, and finding support to ensure that every mum feels valued and acknowledged. Tune in for heartfelt advice, community stories, and practical tips on making the most of Mother's Day, whatever your family situation. Join us to affirm that however you celebrate, your role and feelings are valid, and you're not alone on this roller coaster.

]]> <p><span>In this episode, hosts Toni and Lauren delve into the complexities of celebrating Mother&#39;s Day as a stepmother, exploring how to navigate this emotionally charged day in blended families. As Lauren experiences her first Mother&#39;s Day as a biological mother, the duo discusses the importance of acknowledging both Mother&#39;s Day and Stepmother&#39;s Day, especially when traditional celebrations may not include stepchildren. They address listener questions that reveal the deep-seated challenges stepmoms face, from lack of recognition to the tricky dynamics with biological mothers and other family members. This episode offers guidance on communicating your needs, setting boundaries, and finding support to ensure that every mum feels valued and acknowledged. Tune in for heartfelt advice, community stories, and practical tips on making the most of Mother&#39;s Day, whatever your family situation. Join us to affirm that however you celebrate, your role and feelings are valid, and you&#39;re not alone on this roller coaster.</span></p> c3cd6398-54bc-438d-9a30-0e45ed23b6b6 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/f52ca8ec-5d42-4637-b280-561c56a4481a Mon, 06 May 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2116 yes full Look Who's Talking Now Look Who's Talking Now 73 Toni Graham In this episode, Toni and Lauren continue to explore the foundational role of communication in blended family dynamics, this time focusing on communication with your spouse and stepkids. Whether you're bridging gaps with your spouse or fostering a nurturing relationship with your stepchildren, discover practical tips for maintaining open and honest dialogues. The hosts share insights from their own experiences and listener stories about dealing with defensiveness, expressing needs, and creating a safe space for all family members. Tune in to learn how to enhance your family's communication and ensure everyone feels heard and valued. Join us for heartfelt advice that’s sure to resonate with both new and seasoned step-parents alike. Don't miss our special segment on navigating communication challenges, including when children feel strong loyalty ties to their other biological parent.

]]> <p><span>In this episode, Toni and Lauren continue to explore the foundational role of communication in blended family dynamics, this time focusing on communication with your spouse and stepkids. Whether you&#39;re bridging gaps with your spouse or fostering a nurturing relationship with your stepchildren, discover practical tips for maintaining open and honest dialogues. The hosts share insights from their own experiences and listener stories about dealing with defensiveness, expressing needs, and creating a safe space for all family members. Tune in to learn how to enhance your family&#39;s communication and ensure everyone feels heard and valued. Join us for heartfelt advice that’s sure to resonate with both new and seasoned step-parents alike. Don&#39;t miss our special segment on navigating communication challenges, including when children feel strong loyalty ties to their other biological parent.</span></p> 9a9ee92d-aa6a-4e3d-b581-a6b4c82b5d76 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/119f3df6-2242-4100-819a-9041ba104ef8 Mon, 29 Apr 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2024 yes full Navigating Communication with a Karen Navigating Communication with a Karen 72 Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, join Lauren and Toni as they delve into the complex world of communication between stepmothers and biological mothers. Drawing from real listener experiences, we explore the challenges and triumphs of interacting with a "Karen." Whether you're facing silence, conflict, or awkward exchanges, this episode offers insights into maintaining boundaries and promoting the well-being of the children involved. Plus, we share essential tips on how to keep communications respectful and focused, whether you're directly involved or supporting your partner. Don’t miss this blend of personal stories and advice aimed at helping you navigate these tricky waters with grace and resilience.

]]> <p><span>In this episode of Raising His Kids, join Lauren and Toni as they delve into the complex world of communication between stepmothers and biological mothers. Drawing from real listener experiences, we explore the challenges and triumphs of interacting with a &#34;Karen.&#34; Whether you&#39;re facing silence, conflict, or awkward exchanges, this episode offers insights into maintaining boundaries and promoting the well-being of the children involved. Plus, we share essential tips on how to keep communications respectful and focused, whether you&#39;re directly involved or supporting your partner. Don’t miss this blend of personal stories and advice aimed at helping you navigate these tricky waters with grace and resilience.</span></p> db2832fc-7e1a-47b4-9b8f-cc64389b8be6 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/88e583cc-471f-4d8c-8846-bc620a80ed82 Mon, 22 Apr 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2386 no full Raising His Kids - The Unheard Moments Raising His Kids - The Unheard Moments 71 Toni Graham In this special behind-the-scenes episode of "Raising His Kids," join host Toni as she takes you on a journey through some of the hilarious, touching, and downright unforgettable moments that didn't quite make it into our regular episodes. With a blend of laughter, mishaps, and candid conversations, get ready to experience the raw and unfiltered side of our podcast.

From episode 26, hear the voices of Lauren, Madison, and Toni as they share their insights and experiences of having guests not quite show up on time to the behind the scene conversations they have had with disgruntled listeners all because we do not support the trend of online bio mum bashing. Then, tune in to episode 38 to catch Toni and Joslynn's dynamic pre-recording exchange as they catch up on life prior to recording the episode on parenting neurodivergent children.

But the fun doesn't stop there! Episode 40 & 41 brings you into the chaos as Toni and Lauren, accompanied by adorable interruptions from Miss A & Miss K, or listen closely for the moment where Toni just stumbles over her words. Plus, don't miss Toni's candid opinion on the Barbie movie & how her opinions got her into hot water in an online facebook mums group.

So whether you're a longtime listener or discovering "Raising His Kids" for the first time, this behind-the-scenes episode promises to entertain, enlighten, and remind you that the rollercoaster of blended family life is filled with both challenges and laughter. Grab your favorite coffee or your wine, settle in, and enjoy this special compilation episode!

]]> <p>In this special behind-the-scenes episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; join host Toni as she takes you on a journey through some of the hilarious, touching, and downright unforgettable moments that didn&#39;t quite make it into our regular episodes. With a blend of laughter, mishaps, and candid conversations, get ready to experience the raw and unfiltered side of our podcast.</p><p>From episode 26, hear the voices of Lauren, Madison, and Toni as they share their insights and experiences of having guests not quite show up on time to the behind the scene conversations they have had with disgruntled listeners all because we do not support the trend of online bio mum bashing. Then, tune in to episode 38 to catch Toni and Joslynn&#39;s dynamic pre-recording exchange as they catch up on life prior to recording the episode on parenting neurodivergent children.</p><p>But the fun doesn&#39;t stop there! Episode 40 &amp; 41 brings you into the chaos as Toni and Lauren, accompanied by adorable interruptions from Miss A &amp; Miss K, or listen closely for the moment where Toni just stumbles over her words. Plus, don&#39;t miss Toni&#39;s candid opinion on the Barbie movie &amp; how her opinions got her into hot water in an online facebook mums group.</p><p>So whether you&#39;re a longtime listener or discovering &#34;Raising His Kids&#34; for the first time, this behind-the-scenes episode promises to entertain, enlighten, and remind you that the rollercoaster of blended family life is filled with both challenges and laughter. Grab your favorite coffee or your wine, settle in, and enjoy this special compilation episode!</p> 99b1388f-25d9-4f16-81e4-a4f8a5752fca https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/fd27407f-cf71-4978-815f-3ce74bd521a7 Mon, 15 Apr 2024 09:58:06 +0000 2018 yes full The Easter Aftermath & Shocking Stepmom's Anonymous The Easter Aftermath & Shocking Stepmom's Anonymous 70 Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, hosts Toni and Lauren dive into the post-Easter chaos, sharing their own holiday experiences and engaging with listeners' anecdotes. From missed transitions and family tensions to heartwarming moments and unexpected surprises, the Easter stories shared by their audience highlight the diverse realities of navigating blended family dynamics.

Additionally, the episode features a jaw-dropping submission to Stepmom's Anonymous, where a listener unveils shocking revelations about her partner's ex’s new boyfriend (aka the stepdad's) troubled past. Grab your coffee or your wine, and join Toni and Lauren as they react, discuss, and provide insights into the complexities of stepfamily life, all while offering support and solidarity to their listeners. Tune in for an episode filled with honesty, laughter, and eye-opening moments.

]]> <p><span>In this episode of Raising His Kids, hosts Toni and Lauren dive into the post-Easter chaos, sharing their own holiday experiences and engaging with listeners&#39; anecdotes. From missed transitions and family tensions to heartwarming moments and unexpected surprises, the Easter stories shared by their audience highlight the diverse realities of navigating blended family dynamics. </span></p><p><span>Additionally, the episode features a jaw-dropping submission to Stepmom&#39;s Anonymous, where a listener unveils shocking revelations about her partner&#39;s ex’s new boyfriend (aka the stepdad&#39;s) troubled past. Grab your coffee or your wine, and join Toni and Lauren as they react, discuss, and provide insights into the complexities of stepfamily life, all while offering support and solidarity to their listeners. Tune in for an episode filled with honesty, laughter, and eye-opening moments.</span></p> f1633685-dd97-4e90-9966-043d6e928aa3 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/2bbc4a51-dccf-4d04-84d6-d9f209c6dc39 Mon, 08 Apr 2024 10:30:00 +0000 1826 yes full Easter Disasters vs. Easter Wins Easter Disasters vs. Easter Wins 69 Toni Graham Happy Easter, everyone! We hope you had a great weekend celebrating with friends and family.

In this episode of Raising His Kids, hosts Toni and Lauren dive into the highs and lows of blended family Easter celebrations. From hilarious mishaps to heartwarming victories, they share personal and listener stories that reflect the joys and challenges of navigating holidays in blended families. Tune in to hear tales of Easter disasters, including accusations during egg dyeing sessions and tense exchanges over shoes, along with uplifting wins like setting boundaries with ex-partners and creating new traditions with extended family.

Join Toni and Lauren as they reflect on the love and laughter that make blended family life truly special, and discover how their own Easter weekends unfolded. Happy Easter, everyone!


]]> <p><span>Happy Easter, everyone! We hope you had a great weekend celebrating with friends and family. </span></p><p><span>In this episode of Raising His Kids, hosts Toni and Lauren dive into the highs and lows of blended family Easter celebrations. From hilarious mishaps to heartwarming victories, they share personal and listener stories that reflect the joys and challenges of navigating holidays in blended families. Tune in to hear tales of Easter disasters, including accusations during egg dyeing sessions and tense exchanges over shoes, along with uplifting wins like setting boundaries with ex-partners and creating new traditions with extended family. </span></p><p><span><span></span>Join Toni and Lauren as they reflect on the love and laughter that make blended family life truly special, and discover how their own Easter weekends unfolded. Happy Easter, everyone!</span></p><p><br></p> 9b040f19-cf21-48d5-a2d9-3b2f8c74c873 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/ec728805-be1f-4e14-8665-27bca47f209b Mon, 01 Apr 2024 10:30:00 +0000 988 yes full Bonus Easter Episode with Your Favourite Bonus Mums Bonus Easter Episode with Your Favourite Bonus Mums 68 Toni Graham In this special Easter bonus episode of "Raising His Kids," Toni and Lauren reunite after a much-needed mental health break following Toni's surgery. Join us as we catch up on the past three weeks and share our plans for Easter!

We're diving into our blended family Easter plans and traditions, as well as those from all of our listeners. From Easter egg hunts to special dinners, we're sharing how we make the holiday meaningful for our families. Thank you to everyone who contributed!

Whether you're celebrating with a big family gathering or enjoying a quiet weekend at home, we hope this episode brings you joy and inspiration for your Easter celebrations.

Grab your coffee or wine and join us for this special pre-Easter bonus episode of "Raising His Kids"!

Happy Easter from Toni and Lauren!

]]> <p><span>In this special Easter bonus episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; Toni and Lauren reunite after a much-needed mental health break following Toni&#39;s surgery. Join us as we catch up on the past three weeks and share our plans for Easter!</span></p><p><span>We&#39;re diving into our blended family Easter plans and traditions, as well as those from all of our listeners. From Easter egg hunts to special dinners, we&#39;re sharing how we make the holiday meaningful for our families. Thank you to everyone who contributed!</span></p><p><span>Whether you&#39;re celebrating with a big family gathering or enjoying a quiet weekend at home, we hope this episode brings you joy and inspiration for your Easter celebrations.</span></p><p><span>Grab your coffee or wine and join us for this special pre-Easter bonus episode of &#34;Raising His Kids&#34;!</span></p><p><span>Happy Easter from Toni and Lauren!</span></p> ef83d069-25de-4efc-af22-14096ba886b6 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/4bd21c13-4eff-4b8b-9e71-aae31c41912f Wed, 27 Mar 2024 20:30:00 +0000 1239 yes full Finding Humor in Childfree (Step)parenting with Jyl Barlow Finding Humor in Childfree (Step)parenting with Jyl Barlow 67 Toni Graham While Toni is absent recovering from surgery, join host Lauren for a captivating episode of Raising His Kids as she dives into the nuanced world of childfree/childless stepparenting. Drawing from her own experiences as a childless stepmom for six years prior to having an 'ours' baby last year, she delves into the challenges and triumphs of navigating this unique path. Accompanying her is our friend and the esteemed author of 'What to Expect When You Weren't Expecting', returning guest Jyl Barlow, who adds valuable insights to the conversation.

In this episode, Lauren and Jyl revisit the topic of childfree stepparenting, providing a supportive space for listeners who resonate with this journey. They address listener questions, offering empathetic advice on managing past relationships, setting boundaries with stepchildren, and blending families during significant events like weddings. Amidst the serious discussions, join Lauren and Jyl for lots of laughs as they infuse humor into the conversation.

Furthermore, the episode features an anonymous story shared by a stepmom grappling with the discomfort of her stepchildren's bio mom's use of location tracking technology. Together, Lauren and Jyl analyze the situation and provide guidance on navigating boundaries and communication in blended family dynamics.

Tune in as Lauren and Jyl provide a wealth of wisdom and support for those traversing the intricate landscape of childfree stepparenting, offering practical strategies and heartfelt encouragement along the way.

]]> <p><span>While Toni is absent recovering from surgery, join host Lauren for a captivating episode of Raising His Kids as she dives into the nuanced world of childfree/childless stepparenting. Drawing from her own experiences as a childless stepmom for six years prior to having an &#39;ours&#39; baby last year, she delves into the challenges and triumphs of navigating this unique path. Accompanying her is our friend and the esteemed author of &#39;What to Expect When You Weren&#39;t Expecting&#39;, returning guest Jyl Barlow, who adds valuable insights to the conversation.</span></p><p><span>In this episode, Lauren and Jyl revisit the topic of childfree stepparenting, providing a supportive space for listeners who resonate with this journey. They address listener questions, offering empathetic advice on managing past relationships, setting boundaries with stepchildren, and blending families during significant events like weddings. Amidst the serious discussions, join Lauren and Jyl for lots of laughs as they infuse humor into the conversation.</span></p><p><span>Furthermore, the episode features an anonymous story shared by a stepmom grappling with the discomfort of her stepchildren&#39;s bio mom&#39;s use of location tracking technology. Together, Lauren and Jyl analyze the situation and provide guidance on navigating boundaries and communication in blended family dynamics.</span></p><p><span>Tune in as Lauren and Jyl provide a wealth of wisdom and support for those traversing the intricate landscape of childfree stepparenting, offering practical strategies and heartfelt encouragement along the way.</span></p> bef6d314-2ac4-47b2-9549-382eaad2dfb0 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/db2f7b5f-7fdc-424b-b843-74974fbc1f78 Mon, 25 Mar 2024 09:30:00 +0000 3052 yes full Whinge & Bitch Whinge & Bitch 66 Toni Graham Welcome to a special unscripted and unfiltered Whinge & Bitch episode of "Raising His Kids," where Toni and Lauren dive headfirst into the whirlwind of listener vents, whinges, and bitches. With no script or show notes, they take a spontaneous approach, reading out the unfiltered frustrations and challenges shared by their audience.


From typical struggles of a stepmother to co-parenting catastrophes, no topic is off-limits as Toni and Lauren provide a safe space for listeners to air their grievances and share their experiences. With humor, empathy, and a healthy dose of sarcasm, they navigate through the chaos of blended family life while offering support and understanding to their community.


So sit back, relax, and join Toni and Lauren for an unfiltered journey through the highs and lows of raising his kids. Whether you're nodding along in solidarity or shaking your head in disbelief, this episode is sure to leave you feeling understood and validated in the rollercoaster ride of blended family dynamics.

]]> <p>Welcome to a special unscripted and unfiltered Whinge &amp; Bitch episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; where Toni and Lauren dive headfirst into the whirlwind of listener vents, whinges, and bitches. With no script or show notes, they take a spontaneous approach, reading out the unfiltered frustrations and challenges shared by their audience.</p><p><br></p><p>From typical struggles of a stepmother to co-parenting catastrophes, no topic is off-limits as Toni and Lauren provide a safe space for listeners to air their grievances and share their experiences. With humor, empathy, and a healthy dose of sarcasm, they navigate through the chaos of blended family life while offering support and understanding to their community.</p><p><br></p><p>So sit back, relax, and join Toni and Lauren for an unfiltered journey through the highs and lows of raising his kids. Whether you&#39;re nodding along in solidarity or shaking your head in disbelief, this episode is sure to leave you feeling understood and validated in the rollercoaster ride of blended family dynamics.</p> e387205e-e7d9-465e-8137-c6edc8008155 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/1279222e-aebb-4026-8564-ded7bacd1460 Mon, 18 Mar 2024 09:30:00 +0000 2794 yes full We're Just Recovering Control Freaks We're Just Recovering Control Freaks 65 Toni Graham In this episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Lauren and Toni delve into the intricate world of control within the realm of stepmotherhood. Join them as they navigate the complexities of finding balance and influence in blended family dynamics.

From the desire for authority to the struggle of relinquishing control, Lauren and Toni candidly share their experiences and insights, offering practical tips and strategies for navigating the challenges that arise when control feels elusive.

Listeners will gain valuable advice on communication, self-care, setting realistic expectations, and practicing patience and flexibility. The hosts also address common listener questions, providing empathetic guidance on dealing with high-conflict situations, managing emotions, transitioning between hands-on and nacho parenting styles, and coping with feelings of jealousy.

Tune in to discover how to make peace with the moments when control slips away and embrace a more mindful and empowered approach to stepmotherhood.


]]> <p><span>In this episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; hosts Lauren and Toni delve into the intricate world of control within the realm of stepmotherhood. Join them as they navigate the complexities of finding balance and influence in blended family dynamics.</span></p><p><span>From the desire for authority to the struggle of relinquishing control, Lauren and Toni candidly share their experiences and insights, offering practical tips and strategies for navigating the challenges that arise when control feels elusive.</span></p><p><span>Listeners will gain valuable advice on communication, self-care, setting realistic expectations, and practicing patience and flexibility. The hosts also address common listener questions, providing empathetic guidance on dealing with high-conflict situations, managing emotions, transitioning between hands-on and nacho parenting styles, and coping with feelings of jealousy.</span></p><p><span>Tune in to discover how to make peace with the moments when control slips away and embrace a more mindful and empowered approach to stepmotherhood.</span></p><p><br></p> 831f89a3-1797-47a5-80b6-907e57bdcdf1 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/5b4eaaa4-01ec-42ad-b7e7-b66d6ba4fb5c Mon, 04 Mar 2024 10:30:00 +0000 2036 yes full Blended House Rules, Body Piercings and Social Media Blended House Rules, Body Piercings and Social Media 64 Toni Graham In this episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Toni and Lauren delve into the complexities of blended family dynamics, with a focus on the intricate topic of house rules. They explore the implications of setting boundaries around body piercings and social media within blended family environments, acknowledging the unique challenges that arise in these situations.

Drawing from insights shared by renowned parenting experts like Australia's Justin Coulson, the hosts discuss the traditional perspectives on these issues, emphasising safety, self-esteem, and mental well-being as primary concerns. However, they go on to highlight the discrepancy between the advice tailored to nuclear families and the realities faced by blended families. Unlike the more straightforward dynamics of nuclear households, blended families often grapple with additional layers of complexity, such as navigating co-parenting dynamics, managing conflicting parenting styles, and mitigating the impact of parental disagreements on children.

Toni and Lauren share personal anecdotes and reflections, including their own experiences with disagreements over devices & social media usage, illustrating the challenges of maintaining consistency across households. They emphasise the importance of open communication, flexibility, and compromise in navigating these sensitive issues, offering practical co-parenting strategies to foster harmony and understanding.

Additionally, the hosts share responses from their listeners and blended family community, providing a glimpse into the diverse array of difficulties faced by families in similar situations. By offering advice and empathy, Toni and Lauren aim to create a supportive space for listeners to feel understood and empowered in their own blended family journey.

Tune in to gain valuable perspectives and practical tips for navigating house rules in blended families, and discover how prioritising the well-being of children can strengthen family bonds amidst challenging circumstances.


]]> <p><span>In this episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; hosts Toni and Lauren delve into the complexities of blended family dynamics, with a focus on the intricate topic of house rules. They explore the implications of setting boundaries around body piercings and social media within blended family environments, acknowledging the unique challenges that arise in these situations.</span></p><p><span>Drawing from insights shared by renowned parenting experts like Australia&#39;s Justin Coulson, the hosts discuss the traditional perspectives on these issues, emphasising safety, self-esteem, and mental well-being as primary concerns. However, they go on to highlight the discrepancy between the advice tailored to nuclear families and the realities faced by blended families. Unlike the more straightforward dynamics of nuclear households, blended families often grapple with additional layers of complexity, such as navigating co-parenting dynamics, managing conflicting parenting styles, and mitigating the impact of parental disagreements on children.</span></p><p><span>Toni and Lauren share personal anecdotes and reflections, including their own experiences with disagreements over devices &amp; social media usage, illustrating the challenges of maintaining consistency across households. They emphasise the importance of open communication, flexibility, and compromise in navigating these sensitive issues, offering practical co-parenting strategies to foster harmony and understanding.</span></p><p><span>Additionally, the hosts share responses from their listeners and blended family community, providing a glimpse into the diverse array of difficulties faced by families in similar situations. By offering advice and empathy, Toni and Lauren aim to create a supportive space for listeners to feel understood and empowered in their own blended family journey.</span></p><p><span>Tune in to gain valuable perspectives and practical tips for navigating house rules in blended families, and discover how prioritising the well-being of children can strengthen family bonds amidst challenging circumstances.</span></p><p><br></p> 4d992f6f-deb6-4f53-bc08-8ec661fc05a3 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/f9d6720d-85a2-4123-8aba-f2161406a372 Mon, 26 Feb 2024 10:30:00 +0000 2090 yes full Ain’t no guilt like Stepmother guilt Ain’t no guilt like Stepmother guilt 63 Toni Graham In this episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Lauren and Toni tackle the often-overlooked topic of stepmom guilt. They delve into the complexities of this emotion, discussing common triggers such as feeling like an outsider in family events and societal stereotypes. The hosts explore the impact of stepmom guilt on relationships within the blended family and provide practical coping strategies, emphasizing self-compassion and setting realistic expectations. Drawing from listener responses & personal experience, they shed light on real-life experiences, including struggles with balancing personal and family obligations, feelings of resentment and burnout, and the challenges of building bonds with stepchildren. Ultimately, the episode serves as a reminder to stepmoms everywhere that they are not alone in their feelings of guilt and that seeking support and practicing self-care are essential in navigating this aspect of blended family life.

]]> <p><span>In this episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; hosts Lauren and Toni tackle the often-overlooked topic of stepmom guilt. They delve into the complexities of this emotion, discussing common triggers such as feeling like an outsider in family events and societal stereotypes. The hosts explore the impact of stepmom guilt on relationships within the blended family and provide practical coping strategies, emphasizing self-compassion and setting realistic expectations. Drawing from listener responses &amp; personal experience, they shed light on real-life experiences, including struggles with balancing personal and family obligations, feelings of resentment and burnout, and the challenges of building bonds with stepchildren. Ultimately, the episode serves as a reminder to stepmoms everywhere that they are not alone in their feelings of guilt and that seeking support and practicing self-care are essential in navigating this aspect of blended family life.</span></p> 1c53ca38-3a0c-489a-a444-ba18fd4f08f8 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/3aa44b2e-43ba-49dc-90a9-2f14b6b0e0fe Mon, 19 Feb 2024 10:35:00 +0000 2089 yes full A Stepmothers Guide to Hallmark Holidays and Poker Faces A Stepmothers Guide to Hallmark Holidays and Poker Faces 62 Toni Graham Love is in the air on this special Valentine's Day episode of Raising His Kids! Join Toni & Lauren as they celebrate love and relationships in blended families.

From the rollercoaster of complexities and joys to heartwarming anecdotes and practical tips for celebrating Valentine's Day as a stepmother or in a blended family setting, this episode is brimming with love, laughter, and plenty of heartwarming moments & traditions.

Plus, don't miss our Step-Mothers Anonymous segment, where a stepmother seeks advice on maintaining her poker face when her stepson mentions his mother.

So grab your coffee and wine, and tune in to this delightful Valentine's Day special of Raising His Kids. Let's celebrate the beauty of blended love and the magic of hallmark holidays together!

]]> <p>Love is in the air on this special Valentine&#39;s Day episode of Raising His Kids! Join Toni &amp; Lauren as they celebrate love and relationships in blended families.</p><p>From the rollercoaster of complexities and joys to heartwarming anecdotes and practical tips for celebrating Valentine&#39;s Day as a stepmother or in a blended family setting, this episode is brimming with love, laughter, and plenty of heartwarming moments &amp; traditions.</p><p>Plus, don&#39;t miss our Step-Mothers Anonymous segment, where a stepmother seeks advice on maintaining her poker face when her stepson mentions his mother.</p><p>So grab your coffee and wine, and tune in to this delightful Valentine&#39;s Day special of Raising His Kids. Let&#39;s celebrate the beauty of blended love and the magic of hallmark holidays together!</p> 4d6a6797-7246-46b8-ad9b-e96e71c52ec5 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/1847addf-167f-4b39-ae6f-203c05fa23b4 Mon, 12 Feb 2024 10:30:00 +0000 1560 yes full Raising His Kids: The Editor's Cut Raising His Kids: The Editor's Cut 61 Toni Graham In this special episode of "Raising His Kids," join Toni for a rollercoaster behind the scenes as she compiles previously unpublished audio from Episodes 27, 28, 29, 30, and 36. Delve into unfiltered conversations, candid moments, and unexpected gems that didn't make it into the final cuts.

From heartfelt laughter to thought-provoking reflections, this compilation offers a raw and authentic look at all that goes into "Raising His Kids." Hear the unscripted banter, the shared experiences, and the genuine connections that define the essence of this podcast.

Don't miss this exclusive peek behind the curtain, where every unspoken word and every unrecorded laugh finds its place in the narrative of blended family life. You'll hear the voices of Toni herself, as well as Lauren, Kassandra, Bekks, and the unforgettable Madison.

So grab your coffee or your wine and tune in for a rollercoaster of emotions, a celebration of resilience, as we leave you with the reminder that even the moments left on the cutting room floor hold their own magic.

]]> <p><span>In this special episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; join Toni for a rollercoaster behind the scenes as she compiles previously unpublished audio from Episodes 27, 28, 29, 30, and 36. Delve into unfiltered conversations, candid moments, and unexpected gems that didn&#39;t make it into the final cuts.</span></p><p><span>From heartfelt laughter to thought-provoking reflections, this compilation offers a raw and authentic look at all that goes into &#34;Raising His Kids.&#34; Hear the unscripted banter, the shared experiences, and the genuine connections that define the essence of this podcast.</span></p><p><span>Don&#39;t miss this exclusive peek behind the curtain, where every unspoken word and every unrecorded laugh finds its place in the narrative of blended family life. You&#39;ll hear the voices of Toni herself, as well as Lauren, Kassandra, Bekks, and the unforgettable Madison.</span></p><p><span>So grab your coffee or your wine and tune in for a rollercoaster of emotions, a celebration of resilience, as we leave you with the reminder that even the moments left on the cutting room floor hold their own magic.</span></p> 9376a4a5-bf61-44d5-9053-d7fddfe33c24 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/6c60272b-0854-4154-8710-6a3001dd3c83 Mon, 05 Feb 2024 10:30:00 +0000 1473 yes full Bio Mum to Bio Mom Bio Mum to Bio Mom 60 Toni Graham In this unscripted episode of "Raising His Kids," your host Toni takes the lead solo as Lauren recovers. Join Toni for a heartfelt conversation with Kassandra Martinez from We Are Familyish as they explore the intricate journey from being a stepmother to becoming the biological mother on the other side of a blended family.

The discussion delves into the challenges of navigating an ours baby pregnancy, overcoming the complexities of miscarriages, and the profound realisation of being in an abusive relationship – and ultimately finding the strength to break free.

This candid episode covers a spectrum of topics, including Kassandra's impactful book for stepfamilies, "Before You," and offers a sneak peek into her upcoming projects. Tune in for a genuine exploration of blended family dynamics, personal journeys, and the resilient path from one Bio Mum to another Bio Mom.

]]> <p><span>In this unscripted episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; your host Toni takes the lead solo as Lauren recovers. Join Toni for a heartfelt conversation with Kassandra Martinez from We Are Familyish as they explore the intricate journey from being a stepmother to becoming the biological mother on the other side of a blended family.</span></p><p><span>The discussion delves into the challenges of navigating an ours baby pregnancy, overcoming the complexities of miscarriages, and the profound realisation of being in an abusive relationship – and ultimately finding the strength to break free.</span></p><p><span>This candid episode covers a spectrum of topics, including Kassandra&#39;s impactful book for stepfamilies, &#34;Before You,&#34; and offers a sneak peek into her upcoming projects. Tune in for a genuine exploration of blended family dynamics, personal journeys, and the resilient path from one Bio Mum to another Bio Mom.</span></p> 3c4674ba-3d07-4927-9baa-2f37fcdddd9b https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/beb9a792-3e57-4d6e-b3e1-6bdbe8449e69 Mon, 29 Jan 2024 10:30:00 +0000 2795 yes full Australia Day, Birthdays, and Back-to-School Mayhem Australia Day, Birthdays, and Back-to-School Mayhem 59 Toni Graham Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions and celebrations in this episode of "Raising His Kids." Join hosts Lauren and Toni as they dive into the controversy of the upcoming Australian national holiday Australia Day, the excitement surrounding Miss K's fourth birthday, and the mayhem that comes with the back-to-school season.

Toni shares her perspective on Australia Day, reflecting on the evolving nature of this national celebration. Meanwhile, excitement fills the air as the hosts delve into the birthday plans for Miss K, exploring the joy of having a national holiday coincide with a special family milestone.

As the conversation seamlessly transitions to the back-to-school season, Lauren opens up about her thoughts and preparations for sending the kids back to school. The hosts discuss the blend of emotions during this busy time, asking listeners if they're feeling prepared and organized or embracing the chaos with a "let's see how it goes" attitude.

In the midst of the chaos, Lauren and Toni emphasize the importance of traditions and rituals in blended families during significant moments like the back-to-school season. They share their own family rituals and invite listeners to join the conversation by revealing their unique traditions.

But that's not all! The episode also features listener responses received prior to recording, adding a community touch to the podcast. Tune in for a blend of celebrations, preparations, and chaotic yet heartwarming moments in this episode of "Raising His Kids."

Don't forget to follow us on social media @Raisinghiskids, join our Patreon for exclusive content, and become a part of our Facebook group where you can interact with us directly, share your stories, and offer support to others.

]]> <p><span>Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions and celebrations in this episode of &#34;Raising His Kids.&#34; Join hosts Lauren and Toni as they dive into the controversy of the upcoming Australian national holiday Australia Day, the excitement surrounding Miss K&#39;s fourth birthday, and the mayhem that comes with the back-to-school season.</span></p><p><span>Toni shares her perspective on Australia Day, reflecting on the evolving nature of this national celebration. Meanwhile, excitement fills the air as the hosts delve into the birthday plans for Miss K, exploring the joy of having a national holiday coincide with a special family milestone.</span></p><p><span>As the conversation seamlessly transitions to the back-to-school season, Lauren opens up about her thoughts and preparations for sending the kids back to school. The hosts discuss the blend of emotions during this busy time, asking listeners if they&#39;re feeling prepared and organized or embracing the chaos with a &#34;let&#39;s see how it goes&#34; attitude.</span></p><p><span>In the midst of the chaos, Lauren and Toni emphasize the importance of traditions and rituals in blended families during significant moments like the back-to-school season. They share their own family rituals and invite listeners to join the conversation by revealing their unique traditions.</span></p><p><span>But that&#39;s not all! The episode also features listener responses received prior to recording, adding a community touch to the podcast. Tune in for a blend of celebrations, preparations, and chaotic yet heartwarming moments in this episode of &#34;Raising His Kids.&#34;</span></p><p><span>Don&#39;t forget to follow us on social media @Raisinghiskids, join our Patreon for exclusive content, and become a part of our Facebook group where you can interact with us directly, share your stories, and offer support to others.</span></p> 12107dd7-bd40-4436-896f-aa5514ab8be7 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/55dc97ab-322e-4957-aa9b-1df060d5b9dd Mon, 22 Jan 2024 10:30:00 +0000 2638 yes full When The Past Infects The Present When The Past Infects The Present 58 Toni Graham In this compelling episode of Raising His Kids, hosts Toni and Lauren explore the theme of 'The Past Infecting the Present.' As stepmothers, they understand the challenges rooted in past experiences that can influence present relationships. Past relationships can impact us in the present more than we know it or even going as far back as childhood experiences can ooze trauma infecting our present day. The hosts also feature listener stories and questions, creating a space for the community to share and connect. Tune in for practical tips on consciously shaping present relationships without letting the past dictate every move. Join the conversation and discover valuable insights to navigate the complexities of blended family life.

]]> <p><span>In this compelling episode of Raising His Kids, hosts Toni and Lauren explore the theme of &#39;The Past Infecting the Present.&#39; As stepmothers, they understand the challenges rooted in past experiences that can influence present relationships. Past relationships can impact us in the present more than we know it or even going as far back as childhood experiences can ooze trauma infecting our present day. The hosts also feature listener stories and questions, creating a space for the community to share and connect. Tune in for practical tips on consciously shaping present relationships without letting the past dictate every move. Join the conversation and discover valuable insights to navigate the complexities of blended family life.</span></p> 938417c7-ff53-4201-b7b0-96ac02ad26f9 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/ecd4602b-ca94-4273-85a3-a170ff3a46b9 Mon, 15 Jan 2024 10:20:00 +0000 1731 yes full You Good Sis? You Good Sis? 57 Toni Graham Your favourite Stepmother podcast hosts are back with their first official recorded episode of the year. Technically it's the second episode of the year, but it is titled 'You Good Sis?' The hosts are catching up for the first time since before Christmas & they are diving into the aftermath of the holiday season, sharing not only their own experiences but also checking in with their listeners.

Pour yourself a cup of coffee or wine as Lauren and Toni reflect on their post-holiday feelings, recount their Christmas celebrations, spill the beans on their NYE celebrations, and share their experiences from New Year's Day & the week that followed.

In a special segment, they share a captivating story from a stepmom who wrote it after navigating a tricky Christmas situation, courtesy of unclear language in her husband's agreement with the BM. The narrative unfolds with a hint of pettiness, Christmas Eve gifts, and unexpected reactions from the other party.

As always, the hosts bring you the scoop on listener responses, ranging from the hilarious to the dramatic, detailing how their Christmases unfolded. So, the burning question remains: Are you good, sis? Tune in to discover the post-holiday vibes on this episode of Raising His Kids!

]]> <p><span>Your favourite Stepmother podcast hosts are back with their first official recorded episode of the year. Technically it&#39;s the second episode of the year, but it is titled &#39;You Good Sis?&#39; The hosts are catching up for the first time since before Christmas &amp; they are diving into the aftermath of the holiday season, sharing not only their own experiences but also checking in with their listeners.</span></p><p><span>Pour yourself a cup of coffee or wine as Lauren and Toni reflect on their post-holiday feelings, recount their Christmas celebrations, spill the beans on their NYE celebrations, and share their experiences from New Year&#39;s Day &amp; the week that followed.</span></p><p><span>In a special segment, they share a captivating story from a stepmom who wrote it after navigating a tricky Christmas situation, courtesy of unclear language in her husband&#39;s agreement with the BM. The narrative unfolds with a hint of pettiness, Christmas Eve gifts, and unexpected reactions from the other party.</span></p><p><span>As always, the hosts bring you the scoop on listener responses, ranging from the hilarious to the dramatic, detailing how their Christmases unfolded. So, the burning question remains: Are you good, sis? Tune in to discover the post-holiday vibes on this episode of Raising His Kids!</span></p> 0f47ca92-f111-4bce-8597-68cb0faa53b1 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/4b19e014-3e91-4f93-a393-8419342a39d7 Mon, 08 Jan 2024 10:30:00 +0000 1725 yes full Stepping into 2024 - New Year, Fresh Start Stepping into 2024 - New Year, Fresh Start 56 Toni Graham Kick off the New Year with Toni and Lauren in the first episode of 2024 as they embrace the spirit of the new year. The hosts kick off the episode by sharing their personal affirmations and resolutions, setting a positive tone for the discussions ahead. Listeners open up about their experiences, offering heartfelt affirmations and resolutions related to the challenges and joys of blended family life. Get ready for a dose of inspiration, support, and a renewed sense of community in the world of "Raising His Kids."


]]> <p><span>Kick off the New Year with Toni and Lauren in the first episode of 2024 as they embrace the spirit of the new year. The hosts kick off the episode by sharing their personal affirmations and resolutions, setting a positive tone for the discussions ahead. Listeners open up about their experiences, offering heartfelt affirmations and resolutions related to the challenges and joys of blended family life. Get ready for a dose of inspiration, support, and a renewed sense of community in the world of &#34;Raising His Kids.&#34;</span></p><p><br></p> 0d83fad4-a2f2-4185-ab9d-16968dd4eec6 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/e70c1faf-8ff4-463e-b675-863591702fd8 Mon, 01 Jan 2024 05:00:00 +0000 1504 yes full We Wish You a Very Merry Blended Christmas We Wish You a Very Merry Blended Christmas 55 Toni Graham Merry Christmas, Stepmamas! 🎄 Join Lauren & Toni for this Christmas Day special, as we unwrap stories from our incredible stepmother community. From the joy of starting new traditions to the challenges of navigating custody during the festive season, our listeners share their successes and, yes, a few disasters too!

In this episode, we celebrate the resilience of blended families, highlighting the triumphs and lessons learned along the way. Discover how one family is finding balance this Christmas Day during their first Christmas with a newborn ‘ours baby’, or the journey of transforming strained relationships with in-laws into cooperative partnerships. And, of course, we dive into the real talk – standing up for your role as a parent and facing the complexities of high-conflict situations.

As we share these stories, we want you to feel the warmth and support in our stepmother community. From our hearts to yours, may this Christmas Day be filled with love, understanding, and beautiful moments. Keep raising his amazing kids, and we'll be back in the new year with more insights and shared experiences.

Wishing you a Very Merry Blended Christmas and a joyous holiday season from two stepmothers who are Raising his kids.

Subscribe, share, and stay tuned for more in the new year!

]]> <p><span>Merry Christmas, Stepmamas! 🎄 Join Lauren &amp; Toni for this Christmas Day special, as we unwrap stories from our incredible stepmother community. From the joy of starting new traditions to the challenges of navigating custody during the festive season, our listeners share their successes and, yes, a few disasters too!</span></p><p><span>In this episode, we celebrate the resilience of blended families, highlighting the triumphs and lessons learned along the way. Discover how one family is finding balance this Christmas Day during their first Christmas with a newborn ‘ours baby’, or the journey of transforming strained relationships with in-laws into cooperative partnerships. And, of course, we dive into the real talk – standing up for your role as a parent and facing the complexities of high-conflict situations.</span></p><p><span>As we share these stories, we want you to feel the warmth and support in our stepmother community. From our hearts to yours, may this Christmas Day be filled with love, understanding, and beautiful moments. Keep raising his amazing kids, and we&#39;ll be back in the new year with more insights and shared experiences.</span></p><p><span>Wishing you a Very Merry Blended Christmas and a joyous holiday season from two stepmothers who are Raising his kids.</span></p><p><span>Subscribe, share, and stay tuned for more in the new year!</span></p> f118eed7-5993-4337-b63e-bbc884a42d09 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/a1f0d1fe-ba7f-4e7a-8d46-e6ad5b90272b Mon, 25 Dec 2023 05:00:00 +0000 974 yes full Festivus for the Rest of Us Stepmothers Festivus for the Rest of Us Stepmothers 54 Toni Graham Join hosts Lauren and Toni on a festive journey in this special episode of "Raising His Kids." Dive into the world of blended family celebrations during the magical holiday season with a sleigh-full of stories, tips, and festive laughs.

In this episode, Lauren and Toni tackle the challenges many stepfamilies face during the holidays, offering valuable insights on managing traditions, coordinating with co-parents, and ensuring the warmth of the season reaches every member of your blended family. From Elf on the Shelf antics to Christmas Eve and December 1st boxes, discover creative traditions that add magic to your celebrations.

Answering listener questions, addressing topics such as navigating gift-giving challenges, handling difficult in-laws, and managing high-conflict situations with bio-moms. Alongside these questions, Lauren and Toni share additional holiday tips, emphasizing flexibility, keeping the focus on the kids, and setting healthy boundaries.

The latter part of the episode explores coping mechanisms for overwhelmed stepmothers, including stepping away when needed, seeking support in stepmother communities, and avoiding unnecessary comparisons.

Happy holidays, everyone!

]]> <p><span>Join hosts Lauren and Toni on a festive journey in this special episode of &#34;Raising His Kids.&#34; Dive into the world of blended family celebrations during the magical holiday season with a sleigh-full of stories, tips, and festive laughs.</span></p><p><span>In this episode, Lauren and Toni tackle the challenges many stepfamilies face during the holidays, offering valuable insights on managing traditions, coordinating with co-parents, and ensuring the warmth of the season reaches every member of your blended family. From Elf on the Shelf antics to Christmas Eve and December 1st boxes, discover creative traditions that add magic to your celebrations.</span></p><p><span>Answering listener questions, addressing topics such as navigating gift-giving challenges, handling difficult in-laws, and managing high-conflict situations with bio-moms. Alongside these questions, Lauren and Toni share additional holiday tips, emphasizing flexibility, keeping the focus on the kids, and setting healthy boundaries.</span></p><p><span>The latter part of the episode explores coping mechanisms for overwhelmed stepmothers, including stepping away when needed, seeking support in stepmother communities, and avoiding unnecessary comparisons.</span></p><p><span>Happy holidays, everyone!</span></p> c9a46376-789a-420f-a43d-dd16ba09adb5 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/9b595e09-0a52-408a-9151-80c4aae87608 Mon, 18 Dec 2023 10:30:00 +0000 3257 yes full What To Expect When You Weren’t Expecting - with guest Jyl Barlow What To Expect When You Weren’t Expecting - with guest Jyl Barlow 53 Toni Graham In this episode of "Raising His Kids"! Toni is joined by the incredible Jyl Barlow, an American writer and humorist, listen in for a fascinating conversation. Jyl is the author of the #1 New Release, "What to Expect When You Weren't Expecting," a hilarious memoir that debuted in early 2023.

Jyl Barlow's humor, is often lost on Americans but most of all on her mother-in-law, which shines through as she chronicles her journey as a stepparent. Navigating life as a (second) wife and (step)mom, Jyl shares insights with inappropriate laughter and near-perfect hindsight. Her debut book provides a humorous and relatable look into the challenges, unexpected moments, and triumphs of (step)motherhood & blended family life.

In this episode, Toni and Jyl discuss her book, exploring the unique challenges faced by stepmoms and the complexities of blended family dynamics. Jyl reflects on her belief that the transition into stepmotherhood would be simple, given her positive experiences with kids in general. However, she candidly shares that the realisation of the wounds carried by children of divorce, the complexities of being unwelcome in the extended-original family, and the challenges of building trust took years to unfold.

Join us for a laughter-filled and insightful conversation as we dive into Jyl's journey and the humorous lens through which she views the rollercoaster of blended family life. Find Jyl's on Instagram @jylbarlow and her book, "What to Expect When You Weren't Expecting," on Amazon.


]]> <p><span>In this episode of &#34;Raising His Kids&#34;! Toni is joined by the incredible Jyl Barlow, an American writer and humorist, listen in for a fascinating conversation. Jyl is the author of the #1 New Release, &#34;What to Expect When You Weren&#39;t Expecting,&#34; a hilarious memoir that debuted in early 2023.</span></p><p><span>Jyl Barlow&#39;s humor, is often lost on Americans but most of all on her mother-in-law, which shines through as she chronicles her journey as a stepparent. Navigating life as a (second) wife and (step)mom, Jyl shares insights with inappropriate laughter and near-perfect hindsight. Her debut book provides a humorous and relatable look into the challenges, unexpected moments, and triumphs of (step)motherhood &amp; blended family life.</span></p><p><span>In this episode, Toni and Jyl discuss her book, exploring the unique challenges faced by stepmoms and the complexities of blended family dynamics. Jyl reflects on her belief that the transition into stepmotherhood would be simple, given her positive experiences with kids in general. However, she candidly shares that the realisation of the wounds carried by children of divorce, the complexities of being unwelcome in the extended-original family, and the challenges of building trust took years to unfold.</span></p><p><span>Join us for a laughter-filled and insightful conversation as we dive into Jyl&#39;s journey and the humorous lens through which she views the rollercoaster of blended family life. Find Jyl&#39;s on Instagram @jylbarlow and her book, &#34;What to Expect When You Weren&#39;t Expecting,&#34; on Amazon.</span></p><p><br></p> be9a9a70-6957-422f-a7ac-28fcb20a4c27 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/28a7144e-9f84-499e-b820-4814e7ade81f Sun, 10 Dec 2023 10:00:00 +0000 3682 yes full PodcastAversary: Ask Us Anything! PodcastAversary: Ask Us Anything! 52 Toni Graham Join Toni and Lauren in this special anniversary episode of "Raising His Kids" as they reflect on a year of laughter, tears, and shared experiences in the world of blended families. It's a celebration, and they're pulling back the curtain to answer your burning questions in a candid "Ask Us Anything" segment.

From navigating tricky co-parenting situations to personal insights about life outside of stepmotherhood, Toni and Lauren share their stories and wisdom with humor and authenticity. Get to know the hosts on a deeper level as they answer questions straight from you their listeners.

Pour yourself a cup of coffee or a glass of wine, and join the celebration with Toni and Lauren. Whether you're a stepmom, a parent, or someone navigating the complexities of family life, this episode is filled with relatable moments, laughter, and a few surprises.

Thank you for a fantastic year of support! Don't forget to leave a written review wherever you love to listen, and connect with us on your favorite social media platforms. Here's to another year of "Raising His Kids" together!


]]> <p><span>Join Toni and Lauren in this special anniversary episode of &#34;Raising His Kids&#34; as they reflect on a year of laughter, tears, and shared experiences in the world of blended families. It&#39;s a celebration, and they&#39;re pulling back the curtain to answer your burning questions in a candid &#34;Ask Us Anything&#34; segment.</span></p><p><span>From navigating tricky co-parenting situations to personal insights about life outside of stepmotherhood, Toni and Lauren share their stories and wisdom with humor and authenticity. Get to know the hosts on a deeper level as they answer questions straight from you their listeners.</span></p><p><span>Pour yourself a cup of coffee or a glass of wine, and join the celebration with Toni and Lauren. Whether you&#39;re a stepmom, a parent, or someone navigating the complexities of family life, this episode is filled with relatable moments, laughter, and a few surprises.</span></p><p><span>Thank you for a fantastic year of support! Don&#39;t forget to leave a written review wherever you love to listen, and connect with us on your favorite social media platforms. Here&#39;s to another year of &#34;Raising His Kids&#34; together!</span></p><p><br></p> 9d2a0022-33e9-4617-8b4b-a1fee26a19d7 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/0287f4c8-d395-4236-84c6-7fad90ccbe2b Mon, 04 Dec 2023 11:00:00 +0000 2290 yes full The Stepmother Role: You Better Not Lose Yourself The Stepmother Role: You Better Not Lose Yourself 51 Toni Graham Welcome to another insightful episode of "Raising His Kids" with your compassionate hosts, Toni and Lauren! In this episode, we delve into a crucial topic that resonates with many stepmoms – the challenge of keeping your identity and not losing yourself in the intricate role of stepmotherhood.

Toni and Lauren courageously share their personal struggles, emphasizing the importance of preserving a sense of self amidst the complexities of court dates, custody schedules, and the unique hurdles of blended families. Join us as we explore the reasons why stepmoms may feel like they are losing a part of themselves, touching on topics such as shifting priorities and navigating imbalanced sacrifices.

But it's not just about sharing our experiences; we've also gathered thought-provoking listener questions that echo the challenges faced by many stepmoms. From the art of letting go of others' expectations to coping with comments that trigger the "second wife syndrome," we empathetically address your concerns and provide valuable insights.

As an extra treat, we showcase responses from our community, offering a glimpse into what fellow stepmoms do for themselves outside of their roles at home. It's a wake-up call for some and a wellspring of inspiration for others.

Remember, you're not alone in this roller coaster ride. Nurturing your identity is not just important; it's vital for your well-being.

Connect with us on Instagram @raisinghiskids and share your thoughts on maintaining your identity as a stepmom. So, whether you're sipping coffee or unwinding with a glass of wine, take a deep breath and acknowledge this: you're doing an amazing job navigating the complexities of stepfamily life. Stay strong, Stepmoms!

]]> <p>Welcome to another insightful episode of &#34;Raising His Kids&#34; with your compassionate hosts, Toni and Lauren! In this episode, we delve into a crucial topic that resonates with many stepmoms – the challenge of keeping your identity and not losing yourself in the intricate role of stepmotherhood.</p><p>Toni and Lauren courageously share their personal struggles, emphasizing the importance of preserving a sense of self amidst the complexities of court dates, custody schedules, and the unique hurdles of blended families. Join us as we explore the reasons why stepmoms may feel like they are losing a part of themselves, touching on topics such as shifting priorities and navigating imbalanced sacrifices.</p><p>But it&#39;s not just about sharing our experiences; we&#39;ve also gathered thought-provoking listener questions that echo the challenges faced by many stepmoms. From the art of letting go of others&#39; expectations to coping with comments that trigger the &#34;second wife syndrome,&#34; we empathetically address your concerns and provide valuable insights.</p><p>As an extra treat, we showcase responses from our community, offering a glimpse into what fellow stepmoms do for themselves outside of their roles at home. It&#39;s a wake-up call for some and a wellspring of inspiration for others.</p><p>Remember, you&#39;re not alone in this roller coaster ride. Nurturing your identity is not just important; it&#39;s vital for your well-being.</p><p>Connect with us on Instagram @raisinghiskids and share your thoughts on maintaining your identity as a stepmom. So, whether you&#39;re sipping coffee or unwinding with a glass of wine, take a deep breath and acknowledge this: you&#39;re doing an amazing job navigating the complexities of stepfamily life. Stay strong, Stepmoms!</p> 92da7818-e08f-40ca-8b9e-15c3542d86aa https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/aba50feb-7fda-4060-9a04-5685c044963d Mon, 27 Nov 2023 11:00:00 +0000 1744 yes full The One Where Blended Families Feast: AITA Thanksgiving Edition! The One Where Blended Families Feast: AITA Thanksgiving Edition! 50 Toni Graham Join your hosts, Lauren and Toni, on the latest episode of "Raising His Kids," as they dive into the holiday spirit with a special Thanksgiving edition! With the festive season around the corner, the duo explores the challenges and joys of planning holidays in blended families.

While Thanksgiving might not be a tradition in Australia, Lauren and Toni offer valuable insights that resonate with listeners worldwide. Get ready for a delightful mix of advice, entertaining stories, and heartfelt discussions on navigating family dynamics during this special time of the year.

Grab your coffee or wine and settle in as Lauren and Toni tackle listener questions on Thanksgiving dilemmas. From handling family dynamics to surviving a six-hour drive for dinner, the hosts share relatable stories and offer practical advice. Tune in for a dose of humor as they read AITA Stepfamily Reddit stories that add a twist to the holiday madness.

Wishing you all a fantastic holiday filled with joy, turkey, and an extra slice of pie!

]]> <p><span>Join your hosts, Lauren and Toni, on the latest episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; as they dive into the holiday spirit with a special Thanksgiving edition! With the festive season around the corner, the duo explores the challenges and joys of planning holidays in blended families.</span></p><p><span>While Thanksgiving might not be a tradition in Australia, Lauren and Toni offer valuable insights that resonate with listeners worldwide. Get ready for a delightful mix of advice, entertaining stories, and heartfelt discussions on navigating family dynamics during this special time of the year.</span></p><p><span>Grab your coffee or wine and settle in as Lauren and Toni tackle listener questions on Thanksgiving dilemmas. From handling family dynamics to surviving a six-hour drive for dinner, the hosts share relatable stories and offer practical advice. Tune in for a dose of humor as they read AITA Stepfamily Reddit stories that add a twist to the holiday madness.</span></p><p><span>Wishing you all a fantastic holiday filled with joy, turkey, and an extra slice of pie!</span></p> f5272c1c-4301-4632-b5cb-a7f42fa1103b https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/ae705820-5597-4de2-995a-e9e66eb791a3 Mon, 20 Nov 2023 10:30:00 +0000 2796 yes full Stepmother Diaries: The Art of Documenting Stepmother Diaries: The Art of Documenting 49 Toni Graham Stepmothers, get ready for diving into the world of documenting in this episode of "Raising his kids." Hosts Toni and Lauren share their expertise on what to document and when, covering critical aspects like preparing for court, keeping track of payments, and maintaining a record of agreements. As seasoned stepmoms, they understand the challenges and nuances of documenting, making this episode a valuable resource for listeners.

The hosts also announce the exciting launch of their Patreon membership, offering exclusive podcast episodes, voting capabilities, discounted coaching, and a unique stepmom group chat. Plus, there's a free Facebook group for engaging discussions on various stepmom topics.

Listener messages warm their hearts as they share an appreciative note from a fellow stepmom. It's a reminder that their podcast provides a sense of community and support to stepmothers navigating the intricate journey of blended families.

Join Toni and Lauren as they discuss essential aspects of documenting, including what to document and why. They offer their personal experiences and insights, giving listeners practical advice and solutions. In addition, the episode addresses listener questions, providing guidance on how to document when evidence is scarce, where to store records, and how to maintain your sanity while keeping thorough documentation.

Grab your coffee of wine & tune in to this episode of "Raising his kids" for a wealth of information and support, helping stepmoms on their unique journey through blended family life.


]]> <p><span>Stepmothers, get ready for diving into the world of documenting in this episode of &#34;Raising his kids.&#34; Hosts Toni and Lauren share their expertise on what to document and when, covering critical aspects like preparing for court, keeping track of payments, and maintaining a record of agreements. As seasoned stepmoms, they understand the challenges and nuances of documenting, making this episode a valuable resource for listeners.</span></p><p><span>The hosts also announce the exciting launch of their Patreon membership, offering exclusive podcast episodes, voting capabilities, discounted coaching, and a unique stepmom group chat. Plus, there&#39;s a free Facebook group for engaging discussions on various stepmom topics.</span></p><p><span>Listener messages warm their hearts as they share an appreciative note from a fellow stepmom. It&#39;s a reminder that their podcast provides a sense of community and support to stepmothers navigating the intricate journey of blended families.</span></p><p><span>Join Toni and Lauren as they discuss essential aspects of documenting, including what to document and why. They offer their personal experiences and insights, giving listeners practical advice and solutions. In addition, the episode addresses listener questions, providing guidance on how to document when evidence is scarce, where to store records, and how to maintain your sanity while keeping thorough documentation.</span></p><p><span>Grab your coffee of wine &amp; tune in to this episode of &#34;Raising his kids&#34; for a wealth of information and support, helping stepmoms on their unique journey through blended family life.</span></p><p><br></p> 977e0d06-b362-440c-81ac-4a03afbe0ee9 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/87e25ed8-9f43-438c-8792-9d639ca143da Mon, 13 Nov 2023 10:30:00 +0000 1758 yes full Enjoying Your Blended Family - With Guest Scarlett Tandy Enjoying Your Blended Family - With Guest Scarlett Tandy 48 Toni Graham In this heartwarming episode of *Raising His Kids* podcast, co-hosts Lauren and Toni are joined by the fantastic Scarlett from "Enjoying Your Blended Family." Scarlett, a seasoned blended family Mama, shares her incredible journey of blending for 15 years. As a bio mom of 2, stepmom to 1, and a foster mom, Scarlett offers a unique perspective on navigating the complexities of modern family life.

Together, they explore the challenges of being both a biological mom and a stepmom, sharing insights on finding balance in these roles. Scarlett's own experience of facing the strains of having her three kids leave during their teenage years and the subsequent years of no contact with them forms a central part of the conversation. Learn how she and her husband creatively reconnected with their children, building strong and healthy relationships.

In the latter part of the episode, we dive into listener questions, covering topics like managing difficult conversations, addressing guilt, and maintaining open and honest communication with kids and a spouse in a blended family.

Scarlett's journey is truly inspiring, and her insights are invaluable for anyone navigating the unique challenges and rewards of blended family life. Don't miss this episode, and be sure to follow Scarlett on Instagram at @EnjoyingYourBlendedFamily for more wisdom and support.

Grab your coffee or wine & join us for an engaging and enriching conversation on blending families, building stronger relationships, and finding joy in the process.

]]> <p><span>In this heartwarming episode of *Raising His Kids* podcast, co-hosts Lauren and Toni are joined by the fantastic Scarlett from &#34;Enjoying Your Blended Family.&#34; Scarlett, a seasoned blended family Mama, shares her incredible journey of blending for 15 years. As a bio mom of 2, stepmom to 1, and a foster mom, Scarlett offers a unique perspective on navigating the complexities of modern family life.</span></p><p><span>Together, they explore the challenges of being both a biological mom and a stepmom, sharing insights on finding balance in these roles. Scarlett&#39;s own experience of facing the strains of having her three kids leave during their teenage years and the subsequent years of no contact with them forms a central part of the conversation. Learn how she and her husband creatively reconnected with their children, building strong and healthy relationships.</span></p><p><span>In the latter part of the episode, we dive into listener questions, covering topics like managing difficult conversations, addressing guilt, and maintaining open and honest communication with kids and a spouse in a blended family.</span></p><p><span>Scarlett&#39;s journey is truly inspiring, and her insights are invaluable for anyone navigating the unique challenges and rewards of blended family life. Don&#39;t miss this episode, and be sure to follow Scarlett on Instagram at @EnjoyingYourBlendedFamily for more wisdom and support.</span></p><p><span>Grab your coffee or wine &amp; join us for an engaging and enriching conversation on blending families, building stronger relationships, and finding joy in the process.</span></p> 856daf96-d463-4a38-99ca-ac6cf0fdeec8 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/4c651734-8c48-458e-be24-07cae69b6f10 Mon, 06 Nov 2023 10:05:00 +0000 3502 yes full The Wicked Stepmother The Wicked Stepmother 47 Toni Graham In this enchanting Halloween special of "Raising His Kids," hosts Lauren and Toni invite you to join them on a journey through the world of stepmotherhood. But beware, this episode is not for the faint of heart, as they explore the age-old myth of the "wicked stepmother."

Are stepmothers truly wicked, or is it all a myth?

Dive into the captivating stories from our listeners, who've been labeled as "wicked" or "evil," and discover the truth behind these stereotypes.

Lauren and Toni add a touch of magic to the conversation, discussing their own experiences, all wrapped up in the Halloween spirit.

Whether you're a stepmother or simply curious about the dynamics of blended families, this episode will cast a spell on you.

The hosts also touch on how blended families navigate sharing this age-old American holiday and share their own opinions on whether it is a custody-order-worthy holiday.

Grab your coffee or wine, and dive straight in. Happy Halloween, you wicked stepmothers!


]]> <p><span>In this enchanting Halloween special of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; hosts Lauren and Toni invite you to join them on a journey through the world of stepmotherhood. But beware, this episode is not for the faint of heart, as they explore the age-old myth of the &#34;wicked stepmother.&#34;</span></p><p><span>Are stepmothers truly wicked, or is it all a myth?</span></p><p><span>Dive into the captivating stories from our listeners, who&#39;ve been labeled as &#34;wicked&#34; or &#34;evil,&#34; and discover the truth behind these stereotypes.</span></p><p><span>Lauren and Toni add a touch of magic to the conversation, discussing their own experiences, all wrapped up in the Halloween spirit.</span></p><p><span>Whether you&#39;re a stepmother or simply curious about the dynamics of blended families, this episode will cast a spell on you.</span></p><p><span>The hosts also touch on how blended families navigate sharing this age-old American holiday and share their own opinions on whether it is a custody-order-worthy holiday.</span></p><p><span>Grab your coffee or wine, and dive straight in. Happy Halloween, you wicked stepmothers!</span></p><p><br></p> 9cb5bb7b-1a08-4231-864d-913c511d5d1e https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/e1bcd52c-99de-4109-91e4-f7a4f24e6112 Mon, 30 Oct 2023 10:00:00 +0000 2935 yes full Who is stalking who?? Who is stalking who?? 46 Toni Graham In this episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Toni and Lauren dive into the intriguing world of social media stalking in co-parenting. Discover the motivations behind stepmothers and bio mothers checking each other's social media profiles, even when they're blocked. Join the conversation as we explore the impact on co-parenting relationships, children, and mental well-being. 

We share personal experiences, listener stories, and poll results, shedding light on a topic that hits close to home for many in blended families. Plus, we discuss the possible reasons behind this behavior, from curiosity to insecurity.

Join us as we unravel the mysteries of online stalking in blended families and provide valuable insights on how to navigate this delicate situation.

So make sure you grab your coffee or wine before you dive straight into this episode. Don't forget to connect with us on social media, join our Facebook group, and leave us a 5 star review if you enjoy the episode. Tune in and remember, you're not on this rollercoaster alone & you've got this!


]]> <p><span>In this episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; hosts Toni and Lauren dive into the intriguing world of social media stalking in co-parenting. Discover the motivations behind stepmothers and bio mothers checking each other&#39;s social media profiles, even when they&#39;re blocked. Join the conversation as we explore the impact on co-parenting relationships, children, and mental well-being. </span></p><p><span>We share personal experiences, listener stories, and poll results, shedding light on a topic that hits close to home for many in blended families. Plus, we discuss the possible reasons behind this behavior, from curiosity to insecurity.</span></p><p><span>Join us as we unravel the mysteries of online stalking in blended families and provide valuable insights on how to navigate this delicate situation.</span></p><p><span>So make sure you grab your coffee or wine before you dive straight into this episode. Don&#39;t forget to connect with us on social media, join our Facebook group, and leave us a 5 star review if you enjoy the episode. Tune in and remember, you&#39;re not on this rollercoaster alone &amp; you&#39;ve got this!</span></p><p><br></p> 40374301-036a-4d04-a92f-1913faa08d96 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/3ca871ca-63d1-4fae-8d1b-a9febd26a36f Mon, 23 Oct 2023 10:00:00 +0000 2865 yes full But my Mum said... But at my Mom's house... But my Mum said... But at my Mom's house... 45 Toni Graham In this installment, your hosts Lauren and Toni delve into a pivotal topic that's often overlooked but essential for blended families: "House Rules."

Navigating co-parenting can be complex, especially when different households have varying rules and expectations. Join us as we explore the challenges and solutions related to establishing and maintaining house rules in a blended family.

Lauren and Toni share personal experiences and practical advice on:

  • Setting crystal-clear house rules, from chores to screen time and everything in between.
  • Managing the difficulties that arise when different homes have different rules.
  • Maintaining consistency in your own home, even when rules differ in the other household.
  • Addressing questions and concerns about these differences with your children.
  • Handling common issues such as "at my mom's house..." comments and more.


Plus, they answer listener questions and provide valuable advice to help you navigate the unique dynamics of blended family life.

Remember, patience and open communication are key to successfully managing house rules in a blended family. Whether you can collaborate with the other parent on rules or need to establish your own, there are strategies to ensure a harmonious and loving environment for your children.

So grab your coffee or wine and tune in to *Raising His Kids* for insights and inspiration on making your blended family journey smoother and more enjoyable.

]]> <p><span>In this installment, your hosts Lauren and Toni delve into a pivotal topic that&#39;s often overlooked but essential for blended families: &#34;House Rules.&#34;</span></p><p><span>Navigating co-parenting can be complex, especially when different households have varying rules and expectations. Join us as we explore the challenges and solutions related to establishing and maintaining house rules in a blended family.</span></p><p><span>Lauren and Toni share personal experiences and practical advice on:</span></p><ul><li><span>Setting crystal-clear house rules, from chores to screen time and everything in between.</span></li><li><span>Managing the difficulties that arise when different homes have different rules.</span></li><li><span>Maintaining consistency in your own home, even when rules differ in the other household.</span></li><li><span>Addressing questions and concerns about these differences with your children.</span></li><li><span>Handling common issues such as &#34;at my mom&#39;s house...&#34; comments and more.</span></li></ul><p><br></p><p><span>Plus, they answer listener questions and provide valuable advice to help you navigate the unique dynamics of blended family life.</span></p><p><span>Remember, patience and open communication are key to successfully managing house rules in a blended family. Whether you can collaborate with the other parent on rules or need to establish your own, there are strategies to ensure a harmonious and loving environment for your children.</span></p><p><span>So grab your coffee or wine and tune in to *Raising His Kids* for insights and inspiration on making your blended family journey smoother and more enjoyable.</span></p> 2eb341a7-68ea-4dd0-b51e-644f0ead87b8 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/3b7870d8-82c7-4842-bb82-e36beafe32e8 Mon, 16 Oct 2023 10:20:00 +0000 3201 yes full Own your part as a stepmom: With guest Alicia Krasko Own your part as a stepmom: With guest Alicia Krasko Toni Graham In this episode of Raising His Kids, Cohost Lauren sat down with Alicia Krasko for a chat that'll hit home for many of us in blended families. They went deep into the world of self-reflection and owning up to our part in making our blended families work.

Both Alicia and Lauren found themselves in marriages where divorce wasn't even on the table... but they were struggling, so didn't know where to turn.

Instead, they discuss how they took a leap into the world of marriage counseling, hoping it would be the magic fix. But instead found out they were part of the problem.

This triggered a rollercoaster of self-discovery and personal growth that they share details about in the episode.

Alicia and Lauren offer tips and advice on how you can take those initial steps toward positive change in your marriage and blended family. We're all about giving you the tools to build stronger, happier family dynamics.

If you're looking for a relatable episode packed with information on how to take control of yourself and create a more peaceful blend, listen on in and enjoy!

]]> <p>In this episode of Raising His Kids, Cohost Lauren sat down with Alicia Krasko for a chat that&#39;ll hit home for many of us in blended families. They went deep into the world of self-reflection and owning up to our part in making our blended families work.</p><p>Both Alicia and Lauren found themselves in marriages where divorce wasn&#39;t even on the table... but they were struggling, so didn&#39;t know where to turn.</p><p>Instead, they discuss how they took a leap into the world of marriage counseling, hoping it would be the magic fix. But instead found out they were part of the problem.</p><p>This triggered a rollercoaster of self-discovery and personal growth that they share details about in the episode.</p><p>Alicia and Lauren offer tips and advice on how you can take those initial steps toward positive change in your marriage and blended family. We&#39;re all about giving you the tools to build stronger, happier family dynamics.</p><p>If you&#39;re looking for a relatable episode packed with information on how to take control of yourself and create a more peaceful blend, listen on in and enjoy!</p> 4f7131b9-3f32-443c-aefc-92409ca36250 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/dde95a78-44fc-4065-94a3-a15f6cbdd62c Mon, 09 Oct 2023 12:59:39 +0000 2428 no full Stepmums Unloaded: Unpacking the Mental Load Stepmums Unloaded: Unpacking the Mental Load 43 Toni Graham In this episode of "Raising His Kids” hosts Toni and Lauren embark on a delightful journey through the heavy and sometimes humorous side of stepfamily life as they tackle the often underestimated mental load.

Join us as we dive deep into the world of carrying the mental load in stepfamilies. We'll explore the emotional rollercoaster, share relatable anecdotes, and reveal practical strategies for maintaining sanity and a sense of humor along the way.

In this episode, we:

  • Define the mental load in the context of stepfamilies, from emotional rollercoasters to organizational juggling.
  • Explore the unexpected emotional toll it can take, including anxiety and guilt.
  • Discuss its impact on relationships with partners and stepchildren, with real-life stories that'll make you nod in recognition.
  • Share practical strategies for managing the mental load effectively, including communication tips and self-care practices.
  • Emphasize the importance of support networks and seeking help when needed.


Toni and Lauren's witty banter and heartfelt insights will leave you both informed and entertained. Whether you're a seasoned stepmum or just stepping into this exciting world, this episode promises valuable takeaways and a few laughs to brighten your day.

So, grab your headphones, a glass of wine or coffee & get comfy, join our community of stepmums on this joyful and enlightening ride.

]]> <p>In this episode of &#34;Raising His Kids” hosts Toni and Lauren embark on a delightful journey through the heavy and sometimes humorous side of stepfamily life as they tackle the often underestimated mental load.</p><p>Join us as we dive deep into the world of carrying the mental load in stepfamilies. We&#39;ll explore the emotional rollercoaster, share relatable anecdotes, and reveal practical strategies for maintaining sanity and a sense of humor along the way.</p><p>In this episode, we:</p><ul><li>Define the mental load in the context of stepfamilies, from emotional rollercoasters to organizational juggling.</li><li>Explore the unexpected emotional toll it can take, including anxiety and guilt.</li><li>Discuss its impact on relationships with partners and stepchildren, with real-life stories that&#39;ll make you nod in recognition.</li><li>Share practical strategies for managing the mental load effectively, including communication tips and self-care practices.</li><li>Emphasize the importance of support networks and seeking help when needed.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Toni and Lauren&#39;s witty banter and heartfelt insights will leave you both informed and entertained. Whether you&#39;re a seasoned stepmum or just stepping into this exciting world, this episode promises valuable takeaways and a few laughs to brighten your day.</p><p>So, grab your headphones, a glass of wine or coffee &amp; get comfy, join our community of stepmums on this joyful and enlightening ride.</p> c17d2043-b761-4efd-a08d-4d634c8e6da2 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/223fa19f-d409-4d33-a002-3fea097c1223 Mon, 02 Oct 2023 10:40:00 +0000 2790 yes full How to Go from Magic Moments to Marriage Magic How to Go from Magic Moments to Marriage Magic 42 Toni Graham In this episode of "Raising His Kids," Lauren and Toni dive into a crucial topic for stepmothers and blended families: focusing on your relationship and dating your spouse. While the demands of a blended family can be overwhelming, nurturing your marital bond is essential for the well-being of everyone involved, especially the children.

Discover the importance of presenting a unified parenting approach to your children and the potential consequences of disagreements in front of them. Lauren and Toni also delve into the success and failure rates of second marriages to emphasize the significance of dating your spouse. They explore fascinating statistics and factors influencing the outcomes of second marriages, shedding light on the complexities of blended family dynamics.

But it's not just about numbers and statistics. Personal stories from Toni and Lauren offer insights into how they prioritize their relationships. From relying on supportive family members for kid-free weekends to hiring babysitters, their experiences reflect the diverse ways in which blended families can find quality time together.

This episode also features listener comments on how they focus on their relationships, including romantic getaways, prioritizing quality time, and even seeking marriage counselling, even when things are going well.

As the episode wraps up, Lauren and Toni share their top tips for prioritizing your relationship and spending quality time with your spouse in a blended family. These practical strategies include open communication, scheduling regular date nights, setting boundaries, creating a shared vision, and much more.

Building a successful blended family requires effort and commitment from both partners. By following these tips and nurturing your relationship, you can provide a stable, loving environment for your blended family. Tune in to learn how to make your marriage a priority while navigating the beautiful complexities of raising his kids.

]]> <p>In this episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; Lauren and Toni dive into a crucial topic for stepmothers and blended families: focusing on your relationship and dating your spouse. While the demands of a blended family can be overwhelming, nurturing your marital bond is essential for the well-being of everyone involved, especially the children.</p><p>Discover the importance of presenting a unified parenting approach to your children and the potential consequences of disagreements in front of them. Lauren and Toni also delve into the success and failure rates of second marriages to emphasize the significance of dating your spouse. They explore fascinating statistics and factors influencing the outcomes of second marriages, shedding light on the complexities of blended family dynamics.</p><p>But it&#39;s not just about numbers and statistics. Personal stories from Toni and Lauren offer insights into how they prioritize their relationships. From relying on supportive family members for kid-free weekends to hiring babysitters, their experiences reflect the diverse ways in which blended families can find quality time together.</p><p>This episode also features listener comments on how they focus on their relationships, including romantic getaways, prioritizing quality time, and even seeking marriage counselling, even when things are going well.</p><p>As the episode wraps up, Lauren and Toni share their top tips for prioritizing your relationship and spending quality time with your spouse in a blended family. These practical strategies include open communication, scheduling regular date nights, setting boundaries, creating a shared vision, and much more.</p><p>Building a successful blended family requires effort and commitment from both partners. By following these tips and nurturing your relationship, you can provide a stable, loving environment for your blended family. Tune in to learn how to make your marriage a priority while navigating the beautiful complexities of raising his kids.</p> 9ab5ed9a-98eb-4ba2-950a-e027d7665bd8 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/b6512a8f-1f7a-4d03-96ef-2ee9062b8f0a Mon, 25 Sep 2023 11:30:42 +0000 3178 yes full Bio Mom did What?! Bio Mom did What?! 41 Toni Graham In this episode of "Raising His Kids”, Lauren & Toni dive deep into the world of stepmotherhood, where our listeners take center stage. Step into the shoes of stepmothers from around the globe as they share their most pressing questions and heartfelt stories, from navigating family dynamics to dealing with high-conflict biological mothers. We explore the delicate balance of trust, boundaries, and empowerment in blended families. Plus, get ready for a mind-blowing "Stepmoms Anonymous” segment that will leave you dumb founded by the lengths some BM’s will go to destroy their children's relationships. Join us for an episode filled with empathy, advice, and solidarity, because being a stepmother is a journey we're all on together.

]]> <p><span>In this episode of &#34;Raising His Kids”, Lauren &amp; Toni dive deep into the world of stepmotherhood, where our listeners take center stage. Step into the shoes of stepmothers from around the globe as they share their most pressing questions and heartfelt stories, from navigating family dynamics to dealing with high-conflict biological mothers. We explore the delicate balance of trust, boundaries, and empowerment in blended families. Plus, get ready for a mind-blowing &#34;Stepmoms Anonymous” segment that will leave you dumb founded by the lengths some BM’s will go to destroy their children&#39;s relationships. Join us for an episode filled with empathy, advice, and solidarity, because being a stepmother is a journey we&#39;re all on together.</span></p> d30c7933-1770-46bd-becb-85e28070f2f5 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/c0388a72-e5b4-441b-9082-30d3fbae3109 Mon, 18 Sep 2023 10:10:00 +0000 2134 yes full One-Up, None-Up: Navigating the Impact of Competition in Blended Families One-Up, None-Up: Navigating the Impact of Competition in Blended Families 40 Toni Graham In this episode, your hosts Lauren and Toni dive into a significant topic that can affect many blended families: one-upping. As Lauren and Toni catch up and celebrate Madison's nuptials, they shift gears to address a crucial issue within blended families – one-upping. This behavior, driven by a need for validation and worth, can introduce complexities and tensions that disrupt family harmony.

In this enlightening episode, they explore the challenges that arise from one-upping. It erodes trust, triggers resentment, and places children in the middle of parental rivalry. It disrupts parenting unity, strains co-parenting relationships, and necessitates open communication and cooperation for a healthier family environment.

Join us as we unravel the intricate dynamics of one-upping in blended families. We delve into the root causes, common instances, and the impact this rivalry has on all parties involved, including biological parents, stepparents, and children. Discover how insecurity, societal expectations, and the quest for validation fuel this behavior, intensifying the desire to prove oneself.

But it's not all about the challenges. Lauren and Toni also offer effective strategies to address one-upping. Learn how to counter this behavior with open communication, clear boundaries among co-parents, and a focus on children's well-being. Embrace collaboration and self-awareness to tackle underlying insecurities, fostering a supportive environment within blended families.

As always, our listeners have stories to share. They open up about their experiences with one-upping, from constant gift-buying to unintentional competition. These stories highlight the prevalence and challenges of this behavior, providing valuable insights for us all.

In conclusion, this episode dives deep into the complexities of one-upping in blended families. Building a harmonious blended family requires cooperation and a focus on strong relationships rather than competing. So, tune in, reflect on your actions, and consider healthier ways to navigate the challenges of blended family dynamics. Thanks for being part of the RHK community!

]]> <p><span>In this episode, your hosts Lauren and Toni dive into a significant topic that can affect many blended families: one-upping. As Lauren and Toni catch up and celebrate Madison&#39;s nuptials, they shift gears to address a crucial issue within blended families – one-upping. This behavior, driven by a need for validation and worth, can introduce complexities and tensions that disrupt family harmony.</span></p><p><span>In this enlightening episode, they explore the challenges that arise from one-upping. It erodes trust, triggers resentment, and places children in the middle of parental rivalry. It disrupts parenting unity, strains co-parenting relationships, and necessitates open communication and cooperation for a healthier family environment.</span></p><p><span>Join us as we unravel the intricate dynamics of one-upping in blended families. We delve into the root causes, common instances, and the impact this rivalry has on all parties involved, including biological parents, stepparents, and children. Discover how insecurity, societal expectations, and the quest for validation fuel this behavior, intensifying the desire to prove oneself.</span></p><p><span>But it&#39;s not all about the challenges. Lauren and Toni also offer effective strategies to address one-upping. Learn how to counter this behavior with open communication, clear boundaries among co-parents, and a focus on children&#39;s well-being. Embrace collaboration and self-awareness to tackle underlying insecurities, fostering a supportive environment within blended families.</span></p><p><span>As always, our listeners have stories to share. They open up about their experiences with one-upping, from constant gift-buying to unintentional competition. These stories highlight the prevalence and challenges of this behavior, providing valuable insights for us all.</span></p><p><span>In conclusion, this episode dives deep into the complexities of one-upping in blended families. Building a harmonious blended family requires cooperation and a focus on strong relationships rather than competing. So, tune in, reflect on your actions, and consider healthier ways to navigate the challenges of blended family dynamics. Thanks for being part of the RHK community!</span></p> 7a8edcf0-aab1-46a0-87ce-e007b4876974 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/5f45e6fd-6e99-4441-9083-beb069a7eedc Mon, 11 Sep 2023 10:00:00 +0000 2541 yes full Embracing Neurodiversity: Insights and Solutions (Part 2) Embracing Neurodiversity: Insights and Solutions (Part 2) 39 Toni Graham In the highly anticipated Part 2 of our neurodivergent children episode of “Raising His Kids” your host Toni and her guest Joslynn delve even deeper into the world of parenting neurodivergent children. This continuation of their heartfelt conversation picks up right where they left off, exploring the challenges, triumphs, and wisdom that come with raising children with diverse neurological profiles.

Toni and Joslynn begin by sharing the remaining chapters of their personal stories, detailing the journeys they've embarked on with their neurodivergent children. With a warm and candid approach, they offer insight into the nuances of parenting when neurodiversity is a part of the equation.

Drawing from a recent listener poll, they discuss the results that shed light on whether listeners had biological children, bonus children (stepchildren), both, or none at all with a neurodiverse diagnosis.  

Toni and Joslynn also share heartwarming and insightful listener stories that highlight the intricate challenges they've faced. These stories resonate with the experiences of countless parents and step-parents. From navigating divergent routines to managing the intricacies of co-parenting, they provide advice and empathy for those in similar situations.

The hosts then dive into addressing questions posed by their engaged audience. These questions reflect the real-life struggles and uncertainties many parents navigate:

  • How can a stepparent support their neurodivergent stepchildren during difficult times?
  • How should parents respond when a co-parent starts diagnosing a child without proper assessment?
  • What steps can parents take when they have differing opinions on using medication for their child's condition?
  • When is the right time to seek diagnosis for a child exhibiting neurodivergent behaviours?
  • How can parents cope when one co-parent denies or opposes the possibility of their child being neurodivergent?

As this impactful conversation unfolds, Toni and Joslynn emphasize the importance of understanding, communication, and seeking support. This episode is a testament to the power of sharing stories, seeking solutions, and providing a platform for all parents to feel seen, heard, and supported on their unique journeys.

Join Toni and Joslynn as they continue their heartfelt dialogue, offering a beacon of light for parents navigating the beautiful complexities of raising neurodivergent children. And remember, while the insights shared are from a place of experience, it's always advisable to consult with qualified professionals for individualized guidance.

 

 


]]> <p><span>In the highly anticipated Part 2 of our neurodivergent children episode of “Raising His Kids” your host Toni and her guest Joslynn delve even deeper into the world of parenting neurodivergent children. This continuation of their heartfelt conversation picks up right where they left off, exploring the challenges, triumphs, and wisdom that come with raising children with diverse neurological profiles.</span></p><p><span>Toni and Joslynn begin by sharing the remaining chapters of their personal stories, detailing the journeys they&#39;ve embarked on with their neurodivergent children. With a warm and candid approach, they offer insight into the nuances of parenting when neurodiversity is a part of the equation.</span></p><p><span>Drawing from a recent listener poll, they discuss the results that shed light on whether listeners had biological children, bonus children (stepchildren), both, or none at all with a neurodiverse diagnosis.  </span></p><p><span>Toni and Joslynn also share heartwarming and insightful listener stories that highlight the intricate challenges they&#39;ve faced. These stories resonate with the experiences of countless parents and step-parents. From navigating divergent routines to managing the intricacies of co-parenting, they provide advice and empathy for those in similar situations.</span></p><p><span>The hosts then dive into addressing questions posed by their engaged audience. These questions reflect the real-life struggles and uncertainties many parents navigate:</span></p><ul><li>How can a stepparent support their neurodivergent stepchildren during difficult times?</li><li>How should parents respond when a co-parent starts diagnosing a child without proper assessment?</li><li>What steps can parents take when they have differing opinions on using medication for their child&#39;s condition?</li><li>When is the right time to seek diagnosis for a child exhibiting neurodivergent behaviours?</li><li>How can parents cope when one co-parent denies or opposes the possibility of their child being neurodivergent?</li></ul><p><span>As this impactful conversation unfolds, Toni and Joslynn emphasize the importance of understanding, communication, and seeking support. This episode is a testament to the power of sharing stories, seeking solutions, and providing a platform for all parents to feel seen, heard, and supported on their unique journeys.</span></p><p><span>Join Toni and Joslynn as they continue their heartfelt dialogue, offering a beacon of light for parents navigating the beautiful complexities of raising neurodivergent children. And remember, while the insights shared are from a place of experience, it&#39;s always advisable to consult with qualified professionals for individualized guidance.</span></p><p><span> </span></p><p><span> </span></p><p><br></p> ed9b9861-e95d-45c5-b62d-954e57f4af1d https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/cf6ce839-a725-49b9-ba91-e16632f461c8 Mon, 04 Sep 2023 10:45:00 +0000 2621 yes full Stepping into Neurodiversity: Navigating Parenthood with Neurodivergent Children (Part 1) Stepping into Neurodiversity: Navigating Parenthood with Neurodivergent Children (Part 1) 38 Toni Graham In this enlightening episode of "Raising His Kids," your host Toni takes a deep dive into the world of parenting neurodivergent children. Flying solo this time, Toni is joined by a special guest and fellow stepmom, Joslynn. The two women share a unique bond – not just through their blended families but through the shared experience of raising neurodivergent children.

Toni and Joslynn kick off the episode by shedding light on what "neurodivergent" truly means. Neurodivergence encompasses a range of neurological differences, including conditions like Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), dyslexia, and more. They emphasize that these differences are a natural part of human diversity and should be embraced.

Throughout the conversation, Toni and Joslynn provide valuable insights from their own journeys. They discuss their personal experiences with ADHD and ASD, two conditions they are intimately familiar with. ADHD, once thought to predominantly affect boys, has a wide-reaching impact across genders. The hosts underline the importance of recognizing that girls too can exhibit ADHD symptoms, and the varying diagnosis rates may stem from complex factors including gender biases.

The spotlight then shifts to Autism Spectrum Disorder. Toni and Joslynn illuminate the prevalence rates and the challenges of diagnosing ASD, particularly in girls. They highlight the significance of understanding the nuances of each child's experience, advocating for early intervention, and fostering environments that celebrate neurodiversity.

As the episode unfolds, Toni and Joslynn candidly share their own family dynamics. Toni reflects on her children's distinct diagnoses, ranging from ADHD and ASD to intellectual impairments and oppositional defiant disorder. Drawing parallels between her own experiences growing up and her kids' behaviors, Toni opens up about the roller coaster journey of acceptance, diagnosis, and treatment.

Joslynn joins the conversation by sharing her own experiences, including navigating the challenges of identifying ADHD and ASD in her stepson. The hosts discuss the importance of tailoring strategies and interventions to meet each child's unique needs, while also providing support for parents and caregivers.

In this heartwarming and informative episode, Toni and Joslynn offer a glimpse into the daily lives of families with neurodivergent children. They explore the triumphs, struggles, and invaluable lessons learned along the way. Through their stories, listeners are reminded that every child's journey is exceptional, and every step taken toward understanding and acceptance is a step in the right direction.

Please note that neither Toni nor Joslynn are medical professionals. They are mothers and stepmothers who are sharing their personal stories and experiences. If you are seeking guidance regarding medical or psychological matters, it is recommended that you consult with a qualified medical professional.

Stay tuned for part 2 of this conversation coming next week, where Toni and Joslynn will continue their exploration of neurodiversity and share more insights from their parenting journeys as well as answering all of our listeners' questions.

]]> <p><span>In this enlightening episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; your host Toni takes a deep dive into the world of parenting neurodivergent children. Flying solo this time, Toni is joined by a special guest and fellow stepmom, Joslynn. The two women share a unique bond – not just through their blended families but through the shared experience of raising neurodivergent children.</span></p><p><span>Toni and Joslynn kick off the episode by shedding light on what &#34;neurodivergent&#34; truly means. Neurodivergence encompasses a range of neurological differences, including conditions like Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), dyslexia, and more. They emphasize that these differences are a natural part of human diversity and should be embraced.</span></p><p><span>Throughout the conversation, Toni and Joslynn provide valuable insights from their own journeys. They discuss their personal experiences with ADHD and ASD, two conditions they are intimately familiar with. ADHD, once thought to predominantly affect boys, has a wide-reaching impact across genders. The hosts underline the importance of recognizing that girls too can exhibit ADHD symptoms, and the varying diagnosis rates may stem from complex factors including gender biases.</span></p><p><span>The spotlight then shifts to Autism Spectrum Disorder. Toni and Joslynn illuminate the prevalence rates and the challenges of diagnosing ASD, particularly in girls. They highlight the significance of understanding the nuances of each child&#39;s experience, advocating for early intervention, and fostering environments that celebrate neurodiversity.</span></p><p><span>As the episode unfolds, Toni and Joslynn candidly share their own family dynamics. Toni reflects on her children&#39;s distinct diagnoses, ranging from ADHD and ASD to intellectual impairments and oppositional defiant disorder. Drawing parallels between her own experiences growing up and her kids&#39; behaviors, Toni opens up about the roller coaster journey of acceptance, diagnosis, and treatment.</span></p><p><span>Joslynn joins the conversation by sharing her own experiences, including navigating the challenges of identifying ADHD and ASD in her stepson. The hosts discuss the importance of tailoring strategies and interventions to meet each child&#39;s unique needs, while also providing support for parents and caregivers.</span></p><p><span>In this heartwarming and informative episode, Toni and Joslynn offer a glimpse into the daily lives of families with neurodivergent children. They explore the triumphs, struggles, and invaluable lessons learned along the way. Through their stories, listeners are reminded that every child&#39;s journey is exceptional, and every step taken toward understanding and acceptance is a step in the right direction.</span></p><p><span>Please note that neither Toni nor Joslynn are medical professionals. They are mothers and stepmothers who are sharing their personal stories and experiences. If you are seeking guidance regarding medical or psychological matters, it is recommended that you consult with a qualified medical professional.</span></p><p><span>Stay tuned for part 2 of this conversation coming next week, where Toni and Joslynn will continue their exploration of neurodiversity and share more insights from their parenting journeys as well as answering all of our listeners&#39; questions.</span></p> 41f73ce4-61e5-49e5-a3ef-5456e134aac2 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/c7d5a64f-42ae-47d4-bc02-051a9431fe8e Mon, 28 Aug 2023 10:22:33 +0000 2271 yes full The No Drama, Blended Mommas - with special guests Maria & Sam The No Drama, Blended Mommas - with special guests Maria & Sam 37 Toni Graham In this special edition of Raising His Kids, Lauren and Toni sit down with the dynamic duo of motherhood, Sam (Bio Mom) and Maria (Stepmom), also known as "The Blended Mommas." 

Join us as we delve into the inspiring journey of two incredible women who have turned their roles as a Mom and Stepmom into a beautiful friendship. Sam and Maria have made it their mission to break down the barriers of traditional coparenting and prove that harmonious blended family life is not only achievable, but it can be filled with love, understanding, and laughter.

In this candid conversation, we explore the ups and downs of their blended family life, learning how they navigated the challenges that came their way. From the initial adjustments to how they have embraced each other's roles, Sam and Maria share their insights on creating an environment where drama takes a back seat, and open communication and cooperation flourish.

But that's not all! Tune in as we get an exclusive sneak peek into the thoughts of Carlos, the baby daddy, as he answers questions sent in by the dads behind "RHK" What does Carlos have to say about coparenting, being friends with “the ex”, and being an integral part of their unique family dynamic? You won't want to miss his perspective.

So grab your favourite beverage, find a cozy spot, and join us for an enlightening conversation that will warm your heart and shed light on the beauty of blended families. Whether you're a parent, a stepparent, or simply curious about harmonious coparenting, this episode is packed with insights, laughter, and a celebration of the power of friendship in parenting. Listen in and be inspired by the wonderful journey of "The Blended Mommmaz." 

You can find them @theblendedmommaz on Facebook, Instagram, Tiktok & Threads. Also don’t forget to check out their Podcast “The Blended Mommas”.

]]> <p><span>In this special edition of Raising His Kids, Lauren and Toni sit down with the dynamic duo of motherhood, Sam (Bio Mom) and Maria (Stepmom), also known as &#34;The Blended Mommas.&#34; </span></p><p><span>Join us as we delve into the inspiring journey of two incredible women who have turned their roles as a Mom and Stepmom into a beautiful friendship. Sam and Maria have made it their mission to break down the barriers of traditional coparenting and prove that harmonious blended family life is not only achievable, but it can be filled with love, understanding, and laughter.</span></p><p><span>In this candid conversation, we explore the ups and downs of their blended family life, learning how they navigated the challenges that came their way. From the initial adjustments to how they have embraced each other&#39;s roles, Sam and Maria share their insights on creating an environment where drama takes a back seat, and open communication and cooperation flourish.</span></p><p><span>But that&#39;s not all! Tune in as we get an exclusive sneak peek into the thoughts of Carlos, the baby daddy, as he answers questions sent in by the dads behind &#34;RHK&#34; What does Carlos have to say about coparenting, being friends with “the ex”, and being an integral part of their unique family dynamic? You won&#39;t want to miss his perspective.</span></p><p><span>So grab your favourite beverage, find a cozy spot, and join us for an enlightening conversation that will warm your heart and shed light on the beauty of blended families. Whether you&#39;re a parent, a stepparent, or simply curious about harmonious coparenting, this episode is packed with insights, laughter, and a celebration of the power of friendship in parenting. Listen in and be inspired by the wonderful journey of &#34;The Blended Mommmaz.&#34; </span></p><p><span>You can find them @theblendedmommaz on Facebook, Instagram, Tiktok &amp; Threads. Also don’t forget to check out their Podcast “The Blended Mommas”.</span></p> 7699f7e7-7cb6-4c3c-81bb-c30133a25476 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/bbf263c2-64aa-41f9-8d62-b0ade18dc2fd Mon, 21 Aug 2023 10:35:00 +0000 4042 yes full Acceptable Co-Parent Boundaries vs. Asshole Co-Parents Acceptable Co-Parent Boundaries vs. Asshole Co-Parents 36 Toni Graham In this special recap episode of "Raising His Kids” Toni dives deep into thought-provoking listener questions surrounding the topic of setting healthy boundaries from last weeks episode. Get ready for an insightful discussion as Toni & Lauren address challenging situations and shed light on the complex issue of recognizing boundaries, even when they appear unreasonable or abusive. 

The hosts start by exploring the perplexing issue of co-parents setting boundaries that may seem manipulative or abusive. Sharing eye-opening results from a recent listener poll, where 96% of respondents questioned the legitimacy of their co-parent's boundaries, Lauren and Toni provide a safe space to discuss the complexities of such scenarios. Listeners' stories, ranging from medical appointments and dietary choices to communication restrictions, are shared and analyzed to provide a deeper understanding of the subject.

Throughout the episode, the hosts engage in thought-provoking discussions based on listener experiences, aiming to offer valuable insights and support for stepmums facing similar boundary-related challenges. If you've ever questioned whether your co-parent's boundaries are reasonable or if they're simply being difficult, tune in for practical advice, empathetic perspectives, and a reminder that you're not alone on your stepmum rollercoaster. Join Lauren and Toni in Episode 36 - Boundaries Part 2 for an enriching conversation that will empower and resonate with stepmums everywhere.

]]> <p>In this special recap episode of &#34;Raising His Kids” Toni dives deep into thought-provoking listener questions surrounding the topic of setting healthy boundaries from last weeks episode. Get ready for an insightful discussion as Toni &amp; Lauren address challenging situations and shed light on the complex issue of recognizing boundaries, even when they appear unreasonable or abusive. </p><p>The hosts start by exploring the perplexing issue of co-parents setting boundaries that may seem manipulative or abusive. Sharing eye-opening results from a recent listener poll, where 96% of respondents questioned the legitimacy of their co-parent&#39;s boundaries, Lauren and Toni provide a safe space to discuss the complexities of such scenarios. Listeners&#39; stories, ranging from medical appointments and dietary choices to communication restrictions, are shared and analyzed to provide a deeper understanding of the subject.</p><p>Throughout the episode, the hosts engage in thought-provoking discussions based on listener experiences, aiming to offer valuable insights and support for stepmums facing similar boundary-related challenges. If you&#39;ve ever questioned whether your co-parent&#39;s boundaries are reasonable or if they&#39;re simply being difficult, tune in for practical advice, empathetic perspectives, and a reminder that you&#39;re not alone on your stepmum rollercoaster. Join Lauren and Toni in Episode 36 - Boundaries Part 2 for an enriching conversation that will empower and resonate with stepmums everywhere.</p> d0dfc4ea-09fd-4f2e-a4e4-41f74e2d01c2 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/ffb4f002-38e0-48e8-9286-3bf4c79c8a5f Mon, 14 Aug 2023 09:30:00 +0000 1758 yes full Stepping Up Together: Setting Boundaries in Stepparenting with Special Guest Domenique! Stepping Up Together: Setting Boundaries in Stepparenting with Special Guest Domenique! 35 Toni Graham In this episode of "Raising His Kids," Lauren delves into the topic of healthy boundaries with our special guest, Dominique. Dominique shares her unique blended journey, which started with challenges but evolved into a strong bond with her stepsons and her daughter.

As we begin the discussion, we explore the definition of boundaries as the limits we set around our time, emotions, body, and mental health to maintain resilience, solidity, and contentment with ourselves. Discovering the power of boundaries, Dominique explains the key boundaries she put in place that brought the most positive changes to her life and her role as a stepparent. We explore how communication around appointments, insurance decisions, and disagreements over communication methods were essential aspects of setting boundaries within her blended family.

Dominique also delves into the dynamics of a "yours, mine, and ours" blended family with her stepsons and her biological daughter, sharing her insights on navigating discussions about family and the understanding that family connections may not always be determined by blood.

The episode then takes a turn to address listener questions. We discuss how to set healthy boundaries when the bio mom does not acknowledge the stepparent's role, and we offer suggestions for implementing boundaries with an ex who frequently communicates through texts and calls, affecting family time.

Another question that arises is whether it's reasonable to ask the bio mom to stop volunteering at the kids' school during custodial time. Additionally, we provide guidance on how to determine a reasonable amount of alone time for the stepparent when the stepkids are at home.

Lastly, we tackle the challenge of setting healthy boundaries around a teenage stepson's cell phone usage. With BM using the phone to exert control, we explore possible solutions and ways to manage texting limits.

Throughout the episode, Dominique's personal journey, filled with love, patience, and connection, serves as a guiding example for other stepparents facing similar obstacles. If you want to connect with Dominique, you can find her on Instagram with the handle @_geneieve.

Join us for this insightful and engaging discussion as we explore the importance of healthy boundaries in the complex and rewarding world of stepparenting.

]]> <p>In this episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; Lauren delves into the topic of healthy boundaries with our special guest, Dominique. Dominique shares her unique blended journey, which started with challenges but evolved into a strong bond with her stepsons and her daughter.</p><p>As we begin the discussion, we explore the definition of boundaries as the limits we set around our time, emotions, body, and mental health to maintain resilience, solidity, and contentment with ourselves. Discovering the power of boundaries, Dominique explains the key boundaries she put in place that brought the most positive changes to her life and her role as a stepparent. We explore how communication around appointments, insurance decisions, and disagreements over communication methods were essential aspects of setting boundaries within her blended family.</p><p>Dominique also delves into the dynamics of a &#34;yours, mine, and ours&#34; blended family with her stepsons and her biological daughter, sharing her insights on navigating discussions about family and the understanding that family connections may not always be determined by blood.</p><p>The episode then takes a turn to address listener questions. We discuss how to set healthy boundaries when the bio mom does not acknowledge the stepparent&#39;s role, and we offer suggestions for implementing boundaries with an ex who frequently communicates through texts and calls, affecting family time.</p><p>Another question that arises is whether it&#39;s reasonable to ask the bio mom to stop volunteering at the kids&#39; school during custodial time. Additionally, we provide guidance on how to determine a reasonable amount of alone time for the stepparent when the stepkids are at home.</p><p>Lastly, we tackle the challenge of setting healthy boundaries around a teenage stepson&#39;s cell phone usage. With BM using the phone to exert control, we explore possible solutions and ways to manage texting limits.</p><p>Throughout the episode, Dominique&#39;s personal journey, filled with love, patience, and connection, serves as a guiding example for other stepparents facing similar obstacles. If you want to connect with Dominique, you can find her on Instagram with the handle @_geneieve.</p><p>Join us for this insightful and engaging discussion as we explore the importance of healthy boundaries in the complex and rewarding world of stepparenting.</p> 2fec3f86-54ff-40cd-ab88-084264c04d65 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/75c4c03c-d136-4086-87c4-a4bc40111d93 Mon, 07 Aug 2023 09:30:00 +0000 3082 yes full The Green-Eyed Step Monster: When Jealousy Takes Over The Green-Eyed Step Monster: When Jealousy Takes Over 34 Toni Graham In this emotionally charged episode of "Raising His Kids," we delve deep into the complex world of step-parenting and explore the theme of jealousy. Listeners opened up about their personal struggles, sharing candid stories of envy, longing, and frustration. Join us as we provide advice and insights to help navigate these challenging emotions. Stepping into the role of a stepmother can lead to feelings of not belonging and struggling with the history between the biological parents. Despite the jealousy, we explore ways to cope with the situation positively and emphasize the unique bond stepmums share with their bonus children. We delve into the experiences of bio mums who witness their children forming relationships with stepmums and grapple with the emotions surrounding this shift. Despite these feelings, we discuss how bio mums handle these situations with grace and understanding.

**Stepmum Jealousy:**

The first topic we tackle is stepmums' jealousy, particularly when they face fertility issues while witnessing their husband's previous partner effortlessly conceive. Many stepmums feel left out of the "firsts" in parenting, as their partners experienced those moments with someone else. The fear of missing out on precious first-time experiences with their current partner and their future child on the way is also a common struggle. Another source of jealousy arises when comparing those in blended families compare themselves to those in nuclear families with the freedom and the ability to control family schedules without needing to check in with an ex.

We discuss the challenge of not having a support network of mom friends because mom’s who aren’t stepmoms just don’t get it! The dynamics of dealing with a high-conflict biological mother (HCBM) and the attention given to stepchildren are other issues that trigger feelings of jealousy. Moreover, stepmums share the heartache of children reminiscing about old family activities, influenced by their biological mother, while seemingly forgetting the newer experiences with their stepmum.

**Bio Mum Jealousy:**

The jealousy is not exclusive to stepmums; biological mothers also face their fair share of struggles. Some bio mums reveal their envy when stepmums get to witness important milestones or accidents and provide comfort when they are not present. The complexity of co-parenting dynamics can sometimes result in feelings of exclusion, particularly when weekend visitations limit time with family and other loved ones.

Throughout the episode, we offer empathetic advice, strategies for coping with jealousy, and encourage both stepmums and bio mums to communicate openly and work together in the best interests of the children. Remember, jealousy is a natural emotion, but with the right support and perspective, it can be navigated constructively, fostering stronger bonds and healthier blended families.

Join us for this heartfelt discussion on jealousy in step-parenting, where we aim to shed light on the challenges and provide a compassionate space for healing and growth.

]]> <p>In this emotionally charged episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; we delve deep into the complex world of step-parenting and explore the theme of jealousy. Listeners opened up about their personal struggles, sharing candid stories of envy, longing, and frustration. Join us as we provide advice and insights to help navigate these challenging emotions. Stepping into the role of a stepmother can lead to feelings of not belonging and struggling with the history between the biological parents. Despite the jealousy, we explore ways to cope with the situation positively and emphasize the unique bond stepmums share with their bonus children. We delve into the experiences of bio mums who witness their children forming relationships with stepmums and grapple with the emotions surrounding this shift. Despite these feelings, we discuss how bio mums handle these situations with grace and understanding.</p><p>**Stepmum Jealousy:**</p><p>The first topic we tackle is stepmums&#39; jealousy, particularly when they face fertility issues while witnessing their husband&#39;s previous partner effortlessly conceive. Many stepmums feel left out of the &#34;firsts&#34; in parenting, as their partners experienced those moments with someone else. The fear of missing out on precious first-time experiences with their current partner and their future child on the way is also a common struggle. Another source of jealousy arises when comparing those in blended families compare themselves to those in nuclear families with the freedom and the ability to control family schedules without needing to check in with an ex.</p><p>We discuss the challenge of not having a support network of mom friends because mom’s who aren’t stepmoms just don’t get it! The dynamics of dealing with a high-conflict biological mother (HCBM) and the attention given to stepchildren are other issues that trigger feelings of jealousy. Moreover, stepmums share the heartache of children reminiscing about old family activities, influenced by their biological mother, while seemingly forgetting the newer experiences with their stepmum.</p><p>**Bio Mum Jealousy:**</p><p>The jealousy is not exclusive to stepmums; biological mothers also face their fair share of struggles. Some bio mums reveal their envy when stepmums get to witness important milestones or accidents and provide comfort when they are not present. The complexity of co-parenting dynamics can sometimes result in feelings of exclusion, particularly when weekend visitations limit time with family and other loved ones.</p><p>Throughout the episode, we offer empathetic advice, strategies for coping with jealousy, and encourage both stepmums and bio mums to communicate openly and work together in the best interests of the children. Remember, jealousy is a natural emotion, but with the right support and perspective, it can be navigated constructively, fostering stronger bonds and healthier blended families.</p><p>Join us for this heartfelt discussion on jealousy in step-parenting, where we aim to shed light on the challenges and provide a compassionate space for healing and growth.</p> 02117b9f-444b-422f-8ae3-e35f7ba97453 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/16d4cbe1-b852-4b6b-98d4-7b1a96e821b8 Mon, 31 Jul 2023 09:10:41 +0000 3757 yes full Q&A: Answering StepMums' Co-Parenting Questions Q&A: Answering StepMums' Co-Parenting Questions 33 Toni Graham Join hosts Lauren and Toni in this special Q&A episode as they address common co-parenting challenges faced by stepmums around the world. Drawing from their personal experiences and expertise, they provide practical advice and strategies to navigate complex situations.

In this episode, Lauren and Toni offer guidance and support on a range of different listener topics covering issues that most stepmothers have faced at some point or another:

  1. Effectively Communicating with a High-Conflict Biological Mother (HCBM): Learn valuable tips on how stepmums can navigate and communicate with HCBM’s, ensuring a positive co-parenting dynamic.
  2. Building a Stronger Bond with a Stepchild who Struggles with Lying: Discover insightful approaches to address the issue of a stepchild who frequently lies to avoid consequences, and how to strengthen the bond with them.
  3. Providing Support for a Stepchild with a Challenging Mother: Gain valuable insights and approaches to support a stepchild who faces difficulties with their mother.
  4. Handling a Disengaged HCBM and Maintaining Peace in Co-Parenting: Learn effective strategies for dealing with a HCBM who refuses to acknowledge the stepmum's presence, and whether initiating a conversation with her is advisable.
  5. Coping with a Stepchild's Sudden Change in Behaviour: Explore ways to navigate a stepchild's unexpected shift in behaviour, especially when stepmum becomes a target after previously getting along well.
  6. Balancing Personal Space in a Small Living Environment: Find solutions for setting boundaries and effective communication in a tiny living environment, especially when struggling with personal space and privacy as a stepmum who recently moved in.


Tune in to this episode as Lauren and Toni share valuable insights, personal experiences, and practical suggestions for stepmums navigating the complexities of co-parenting. Gain guidance on building healthy relationships, managing conflicts, and fostering a harmonious environment for your blended family, no matter where you are in the world.

]]> <p>Join hosts Lauren and Toni in this special Q&amp;A episode as they address common co-parenting challenges faced by stepmums around the world. Drawing from their personal experiences and expertise, they provide practical advice and strategies to navigate complex situations.</p><p>In this episode, Lauren and Toni offer guidance and support on a range of different listener topics covering issues that most stepmothers have faced at some point or another:</p><ol><li>Effectively Communicating with a High-Conflict Biological Mother (HCBM): Learn valuable tips on how stepmums can navigate and communicate with HCBM’s, ensuring a positive co-parenting dynamic.</li><li>Building a Stronger Bond with a Stepchild who Struggles with Lying: Discover insightful approaches to address the issue of a stepchild who frequently lies to avoid consequences, and how to strengthen the bond with them.</li><li>Providing Support for a Stepchild with a Challenging Mother: Gain valuable insights and approaches to support a stepchild who faces difficulties with their mother.</li><li>Handling a Disengaged HCBM and Maintaining Peace in Co-Parenting: Learn effective strategies for dealing with a HCBM who refuses to acknowledge the stepmum&#39;s presence, and whether initiating a conversation with her is advisable.</li><li>Coping with a Stepchild&#39;s Sudden Change in Behaviour: Explore ways to navigate a stepchild&#39;s unexpected shift in behaviour, especially when stepmum becomes a target after previously getting along well.</li><li>Balancing Personal Space in a Small Living Environment: Find solutions for setting boundaries and effective communication in a tiny living environment, especially when struggling with personal space and privacy as a stepmum who recently moved in.</li></ol><p><br></p><p>Tune in to this episode as Lauren and Toni share valuable insights, personal experiences, and practical suggestions for stepmums navigating the complexities of co-parenting. Gain guidance on building healthy relationships, managing conflicts, and fostering a harmonious environment for your blended family, no matter where you are in the world.</p> cad82f46-3684-47ba-8450-7c324e082340 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/983952e3-5d72-4eea-8972-f0a6a9c8778b Mon, 24 Jul 2023 10:00:00 +0000 3019 no full The Dollars and Sense of Blended Family Finances The Dollars and Sense of Blended Family Finances 32 Toni Graham Join hosts Lauren and Toni in this candid and insightful episode of Raising His Kids as they dive into the often complex world of blended family finances. Drawing from their own experiences and listener questions, Lauren and Toni share their perspectives on splitting finances in a blended family and explore various approaches taken by different families.

Lauren opens up about her journey, discussing how she and her husband managed finances before and after moving in together. From separate bank accounts to a shared account for household bills, Lauren shares her reasons for maintaining financial independence and the shift towards a 50/50 split as their incomes became more equal. However, child support remains separate from their shared expenses, highlighting the importance of clear boundaries and legal obligations.

Toni, on the other hand, recounts her decision to combine finances with her husband from the start. Reflecting on her past experiences with financial abuse, Toni explains her reasons for valuing financial transparency and the benefits it brings to their blended family. She also shares how child support is designated solely for her child's expenses and the strategic approach they take to ensure financial stability.

Throughout the episode, Lauren and Toni address listener questions and statements, delving into topics such as the role of childless step-parents in contributing to household expenses, saving for education in blended families, and finding a balanced financial split that works for each unique situation. They also tackle the challenges of dealing with extreme high-conflict biological parents and the impact on shared resources.

Additionally, the hosts share their listeners' perspectives on combining finances, ranging from fears of child support obligations to the balancing act of allocating funds for various needs within the family. They explore different approaches, including maintaining separate accounts while splitting expenses evenly, creating a dedicated bank account for the child's needs, and open communication about significant purchases.

Don't miss this enlightening episode where Lauren and Toni candidly share their experiences and insights on navigating the complexities of blended family finances. Tune in to gain valuable perspectives and practical tips based off what has worked for them to help you create a solid financial foundation for your own blended family.

]]> <p><span>Join hosts Lauren and Toni in this candid and insightful episode of Raising His Kids as they dive into the often complex world of blended family finances. Drawing from their own experiences and listener questions, Lauren and Toni share their perspectives on splitting finances in a blended family and explore various approaches taken by different families. </span></p><p><span>Lauren opens up about her journey, discussing how she and her husband managed finances before and after moving in together. From separate bank accounts to a shared account for household bills, Lauren shares her reasons for maintaining financial independence and the shift towards a 50/50 split as their incomes became more equal. However, child support remains separate from their shared expenses, highlighting the importance of clear boundaries and legal obligations.</span></p><p><span>Toni, on the other hand, recounts her decision to combine finances with her husband from the start. Reflecting on her past experiences with financial abuse, Toni explains her reasons for valuing financial transparency and the benefits it brings to their blended family. She also shares how child support is designated solely for her child&#39;s expenses and the strategic approach they take to ensure financial stability.</span></p><p><span>Throughout the episode, Lauren and Toni address listener questions and statements, delving into topics such as the role of childless step-parents in contributing to household expenses, saving for education in blended families, and finding a balanced financial split that works for each unique situation. They also tackle the challenges of dealing with extreme high-conflict biological parents and the impact on shared resources.</span></p><p><span>Additionally, the hosts share their listeners&#39; perspectives on combining finances, ranging from fears of child support obligations to the balancing act of allocating funds for various needs within the family. They explore different approaches, including maintaining separate accounts while splitting expenses evenly, creating a dedicated bank account for the child&#39;s needs, and open communication about significant purchases.</span></p><p><span>Don&#39;t miss this enlightening episode where Lauren and Toni candidly share their experiences and insights on navigating the complexities of blended family finances. Tune in to gain valuable perspectives and practical tips based off what has worked for them to help you create a solid financial foundation for your own blended family.</span></p> fe9d215d-c014-49b3-9207-bb3d96260e3d https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/012c52ea-3620-4e4f-a43d-2cec032ae89f Mon, 17 Jul 2023 10:00:00 +0000 2820 yes full Navigating & Balancing Birthdays in Blended Families Navigating & Balancing Birthdays in Blended Families 31 Toni Graham In this episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Toni and Lauren delve into the intricate world of birthdays in blended families. Join them as they share their personal experiences and insights, shedding light on the complexities of splitting time and celebrating milestones within blended households.

With a blend of heartfelt anecdotes, relatable stories, and a touch of humour, Toni and Lauren discuss the challenges faced by parents, step-parents, and children when navigating birthdays in a blended family dynamic. From coordinating schedules to honouring traditions, they explore various strategies and tips for making these special occasions memorable and inclusive for all involved.

But that's not all! As always, the hosts engage with their listeners by incorporating their real-life stories and experiences. Tune in to hear heart-warming tales, unique celebrations, and the creative ways families have found to make birthdays a joyous occasion amidst the unique dynamics of blended families.

Join Toni and Lauren on this insightful journey as they offer practical advice, heartfelt stories, and a reminder that even in the most challenging situations, love and understanding can bring families closer together. So, grab a cup of coffee and join the conversation on "Raising His Kids."

Note: "Raising His Kids" is a podcast dedicated to discussing the joys and challenges of raising children you didn't make within blended families, offering guidance, support, and inspiration to parents navigating this unique parenting journey.

]]> <p>In this episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; hosts Toni and Lauren delve into the intricate world of birthdays in blended families. Join them as they share their personal experiences and insights, shedding light on the complexities of splitting time and celebrating milestones within blended households.</p><p>With a blend of heartfelt anecdotes, relatable stories, and a touch of humour, Toni and Lauren discuss the challenges faced by parents, step-parents, and children when navigating birthdays in a blended family dynamic. From coordinating schedules to honouring traditions, they explore various strategies and tips for making these special occasions memorable and inclusive for all involved.</p><p>But that&#39;s not all! As always, the hosts engage with their listeners by incorporating their real-life stories and experiences. Tune in to hear heart-warming tales, unique celebrations, and the creative ways families have found to make birthdays a joyous occasion amidst the unique dynamics of blended families.</p><p>Join Toni and Lauren on this insightful journey as they offer practical advice, heartfelt stories, and a reminder that even in the most challenging situations, love and understanding can bring families closer together. So, grab a cup of coffee and join the conversation on &#34;Raising His Kids.&#34;</p><p>Note: &#34;Raising His Kids&#34; is a podcast dedicated to discussing the joys and challenges of raising children you didn&#39;t make within blended families, offering guidance, support, and inspiration to parents navigating this unique parenting journey.</p> 62d5f990-81b1-48b1-8abf-0d5de9ebeb58 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/e141319b-1a6d-4d82-aae7-2f6a84b154e4 Mon, 10 Jul 2023 10:10:00 +0000 1915 no full From Stepmother to Motherhood: Birth Stories and Transitions From Stepmother to Motherhood: Birth Stories and Transitions 30 Toni Graham Welcome back to another heartfelt episode of "Raising His Kids"! Join your hosts, Toni and Lauren, as they dive into the rollercoaster of emotions and experiences that come with the transition from Step-Motherhood to motherhood.

In this special episode, Lauren returns from her maternity leave, and together, Toni and Lauren embark on a candid conversation about their unique journeys as stepmothers turned mothers. They fearlessly share their personal birth stories, covering the highs, the lows, and even the deeply challenging moments that shaped their experiences.

But the conversation doesn't stop there. "Raising His Kids" is all about fostering a community of support and understanding, and this episode is no exception. Toni and Lauren shine a spotlight on their listeners' stories of transition, including a powerful narrative written by Australian Stepmum coach, Jasmine Yow.

With compassion, empathy, and a touch of humour, Toni and Lauren explore the complexities of blended family dynamics and the transformative power of motherhood. Whether you're a stepmother navigating the uncharted waters of becoming a biological mother or simply seeking inspiration and solidarity, this episode is a must-listen.

Tune in to the latest episode of "Raising His Kids" to join the conversation, gain insights, and embrace the shared experiences that make the journey of motherhood truly extraordinary.

Remember, you're not alone on this path – together, we're raising his kids and creating a brighter future for all.

]]> <p>Welcome back to another heartfelt episode of &#34;Raising His Kids&#34;! Join your hosts, Toni and Lauren, as they dive into the rollercoaster of emotions and experiences that come with the transition from Step-Motherhood to motherhood.</p><p>In this special episode, Lauren returns from her maternity leave, and together, Toni and Lauren embark on a candid conversation about their unique journeys as stepmothers turned mothers. They fearlessly share their personal birth stories, covering the highs, the lows, and even the deeply challenging moments that shaped their experiences.</p><p>But the conversation doesn&#39;t stop there. &#34;Raising His Kids&#34; is all about fostering a community of support and understanding, and this episode is no exception. Toni and Lauren shine a spotlight on their listeners&#39; stories of transition, including a powerful narrative written by Australian Stepmum coach, Jasmine Yow.</p><p>With compassion, empathy, and a touch of humour, Toni and Lauren explore the complexities of blended family dynamics and the transformative power of motherhood. Whether you&#39;re a stepmother navigating the uncharted waters of becoming a biological mother or simply seeking inspiration and solidarity, this episode is a must-listen.</p><p>Tune in to the latest episode of &#34;Raising His Kids&#34; to join the conversation, gain insights, and embrace the shared experiences that make the journey of motherhood truly extraordinary.</p><p>Remember, you&#39;re not alone on this path – together, we&#39;re raising his kids and creating a brighter future for all.</p> 69fd9a57-41d9-4e93-b5fe-688d65045566 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/5f49fbe8-7303-4306-b4a8-6f37d7ecc02f Mon, 03 Jul 2023 10:58:24 +0000 3516 yes full Gloves Off: StepMums Speak Up - What You Wished You Could Say Gloves Off: StepMums Speak Up - What You Wished You Could Say 29 Toni Graham In this special episode of 'Raising His Kids,' join host Toni, an experienced and empathetic advocate for Stepmums & Bio Mums alike, as she takes the reins alongside Bekks while Lauren and Madison are out on leave. Get ready for an unfiltered and listener-focused discussion as stepmums from all walks of life and across the globe write in to share their unspoken truths, revealing what they've always wanted to say to the biological mothers of their stepchildren. Additionally, we've received some brutal contributions from bio dads, offering what they would like to say to the mother of their children if they got the chance.

In this gloves-off episode, nothing is held back as courageous stepmoms from our dedicated listener community anonymously have their voices heard. These women share their deepest desires, frustrations, and heartfelt experiences, while Toni and Bekks provide their honest and unfiltered reactions and perspectives, offering a rare and honest glimpse into the intricate dynamics of blended families. Through raw and candid conversations, 'Raising His Kids' is dedicated to creating a safe space where stepmums can openly express their thoughts and emotions without judgment.

This episode serves as a powerful reminder that blended families require empathy, understanding, and open dialogue to thrive. Whether you're a stepmom looking for validation, a biological mother seeking insight, or simply someone interested in the complexities of modern family dynamics, this episode of 'Raising His Kids' is a must-listen.

So, tune in and be part of this empowering conversation as we take the gloves off and speak our truths as stepmoms, addressing the biological mothers in our lives and expressing the things we cannot say in person.

]]> <p>In this special episode of &#39;Raising His Kids,&#39; join host Toni, an experienced and empathetic advocate for Stepmums &amp; Bio Mums alike, as she takes the reins alongside Bekks while Lauren and Madison are out on leave. Get ready for an unfiltered and listener-focused discussion as stepmums from all walks of life and across the globe write in to share their unspoken truths, revealing what they&#39;ve always wanted to say to the biological mothers of their stepchildren. Additionally, we&#39;ve received some brutal contributions from bio dads, offering what they would like to say to the mother of their children if they got the chance.</p><p>In this gloves-off episode, nothing is held back as courageous stepmoms from our dedicated listener community anonymously have their voices heard. These women share their deepest desires, frustrations, and heartfelt experiences, while Toni and Bekks provide their honest and unfiltered reactions and perspectives, offering a rare and honest glimpse into the intricate dynamics of blended families. Through raw and candid conversations, &#39;Raising His Kids&#39; is dedicated to creating a safe space where stepmums can openly express their thoughts and emotions without judgment.</p><p>This episode serves as a powerful reminder that blended families require empathy, understanding, and open dialogue to thrive. Whether you&#39;re a stepmom looking for validation, a biological mother seeking insight, or simply someone interested in the complexities of modern family dynamics, this episode of &#39;Raising His Kids&#39; is a must-listen.</p><p>So, tune in and be part of this empowering conversation as we take the gloves off and speak our truths as stepmoms, addressing the biological mothers in our lives and expressing the things we cannot say in person.</p> 2e3d61d1-6364-484d-a40a-c4202b9f624b https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/767037eb-b971-4f6f-8807-e06b2550aa19 Mon, 26 Jun 2023 09:20:00 +0000 2367 yes full Before You: When you are Familish - with Kassandra Martinez Before You: When you are Familish - with Kassandra Martinez 28 Toni Graham In this heart warming episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Lauren, Madison and Toni are joined by a very special guest, Kassandra Martinez, also known as "wearefamilish" on social media. Together, they honour the joys and challenges of both motherhood and step-motherhood while co-parenting. Recorded on Mother's Day weekend and now being published in June, this episode captures the essence of the holiday as Kassandra shares her unique perspective and experiences as a biological mother and stepmother.

Kassandra Martinez, a devoted mother and advocate for blended families, brings a wealth of wisdom and insight to the conversation. With firsthand experience navigating the complexities of step-parenting, she offers a unique and relatable perspective. Kassandra's passion lies in creating a nurturing and harmonious environment for her blended family, and she shares her valuable insights through her writing and speaking engagements. Her candid and relatable approach has resonated with many, providing support and guidance to those facing similar challenges. Through her heartfelt journey as a stepmother, Kassandra has inspired and empowered countless individuals, reminding them that love knows no boundaries when it comes to raising children.

In this episode, Lauren, Madison, Toni, and Kassandra delve deep into the profound connections formed within stepfamilies. They explore the intricacies of balancing responsibilities, building strong bonds, and nurturing relationships with stepchildren. The conversation is enriched by Kassandra's book "Before You," an endearing story about a stepparent's love for their stepchild. Filled with wonderful illustrations and heartfelt storytelling, this one-of-a-kind book expresses the unique and beautiful dynamics of being a stepparent. Kassandra shares the inspiration behind the book and discusses how "we are familish" came to be—a celebration of stepparent and stepchild relationships, reminding us that we are all family-ish.

Join this inspiring conversation as "Raising His Kids" celebrates the love and dedication of all parents, especially those in blended families. With personal anecdotes, practical advice, and heartfelt conversations, this episode is a source of inspiration and upliftment for stepmothers, stepfathers, and anyone navigating the beautiful complexities of a blended family. Tune in to honour the power of a nurturing family, where love knows no boundaries.

]]> <p>In this heart warming episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; hosts Lauren, Madison and Toni are joined by a very special guest, Kassandra Martinez, also known as &#34;wearefamilish&#34; on social media. Together, they honour the joys and challenges of both motherhood and step-motherhood while co-parenting. Recorded on Mother&#39;s Day weekend and now being published in June, this episode captures the essence of the holiday as Kassandra shares her unique perspective and experiences as a biological mother and stepmother.</p><p>Kassandra Martinez, a devoted mother and advocate for blended families, brings a wealth of wisdom and insight to the conversation. With firsthand experience navigating the complexities of step-parenting, she offers a unique and relatable perspective. Kassandra&#39;s passion lies in creating a nurturing and harmonious environment for her blended family, and she shares her valuable insights through her writing and speaking engagements. Her candid and relatable approach has resonated with many, providing support and guidance to those facing similar challenges. Through her heartfelt journey as a stepmother, Kassandra has inspired and empowered countless individuals, reminding them that love knows no boundaries when it comes to raising children.</p><p>In this episode, Lauren, Madison, Toni, and Kassandra delve deep into the profound connections formed within stepfamilies. They explore the intricacies of balancing responsibilities, building strong bonds, and nurturing relationships with stepchildren. The conversation is enriched by Kassandra&#39;s book &#34;Before You,&#34; an endearing story about a stepparent&#39;s love for their stepchild. Filled with wonderful illustrations and heartfelt storytelling, this one-of-a-kind book expresses the unique and beautiful dynamics of being a stepparent. Kassandra shares the inspiration behind the book and discusses how &#34;we are familish&#34; came to be—a celebration of stepparent and stepchild relationships, reminding us that we are all family-ish.</p><p>Join this inspiring conversation as &#34;Raising His Kids&#34; celebrates the love and dedication of all parents, especially those in blended families. With personal anecdotes, practical advice, and heartfelt conversations, this episode is a source of inspiration and upliftment for stepmothers, stepfathers, and anyone navigating the beautiful complexities of a blended family. Tune in to honour the power of a nurturing family, where love knows no boundaries.</p> 5a4d5061-7e35-4743-9bba-f0e7c7694c16 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/345f5004-d274-440b-a786-0174bc1432a4 Mon, 19 Jun 2023 09:10:00 +0000 3345 yes full Step-Mum Chronicles: Conquering the Bio Mum Encounter! Step-Mum Chronicles: Conquering the Bio Mum Encounter! 27 Toni Graham In the latest episode of "Raising His Kids," hosts Madison and Toni delve into the intricacies of being stepmothers and the profound experience of meeting the biological mother, affectionately known as the "bio mum," for the first time.

With a shared understanding of this transformative journey, Madison and Toni create a safe and relatable space for their listeners. By openly sharing their personal stories and perspectives, they offer genuine empathy and compassion to those who may be grappling with similar emotions and uncertainties.

This enlightening conversation goes beyond the hosts' experiences as Madison and Toni graciously incorporate the stories and experiences of their listeners. The relatable anecdotes shared by the audience bring a collective sense of understanding and solidarity, making this episode resonate deeply with stepmums who have encountered or are preparing to meet the bio mum.

Furthermore, the episode offers invaluable advice and practical tips to stepmums who may be feeling apprehensive or uncertain about this significant meeting. Madison and Toni draw from their own personal growth and lessons learned, providing guidance on how to approach such encounters with empathy, understanding, and an open mind.

"Raising His Kids" delivers an authentic and compassionate episode that delves into the multifaceted dynamics of blended families. Whether you're a stepmum, a biological mother, or simply curious about the complexities of family dynamics, this episode is an absolute must-listen.

]]> <p>In the latest episode of &#34;Raising His Kids,&#34; hosts Madison and Toni delve into the intricacies of being stepmothers and the profound experience of meeting the biological mother, affectionately known as the &#34;bio mum,&#34; for the first time.</p><p>With a shared understanding of this transformative journey, Madison and Toni create a safe and relatable space for their listeners. By openly sharing their personal stories and perspectives, they offer genuine empathy and compassion to those who may be grappling with similar emotions and uncertainties.</p><p>This enlightening conversation goes beyond the hosts&#39; experiences as Madison and Toni graciously incorporate the stories and experiences of their listeners. The relatable anecdotes shared by the audience bring a collective sense of understanding and solidarity, making this episode resonate deeply with stepmums who have encountered or are preparing to meet the bio mum.</p><p>Furthermore, the episode offers invaluable advice and practical tips to stepmums who may be feeling apprehensive or uncertain about this significant meeting. Madison and Toni draw from their own personal growth and lessons learned, providing guidance on how to approach such encounters with empathy, understanding, and an open mind.</p><p>&#34;Raising His Kids&#34; delivers an authentic and compassionate episode that delves into the multifaceted dynamics of blended families. Whether you&#39;re a stepmum, a biological mother, or simply curious about the complexities of family dynamics, this episode is an absolute must-listen.</p> a50abd93-8b77-49d8-b006-50727cbce94e https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/1d54a1c8-840d-4b23-9986-ce047308a527 Mon, 12 Jun 2023 11:40:09 +0000 2446 yes full When They're Nacho Kids: Insights from the OG Stepmom of Stepparenting, Lori Sims When They're Nacho Kids: Insights from the OG Stepmom of Stepparenting, Lori Sims 26 Toni Graham Get ready for an incredible episode of Raising His Kids as we are joined by none other than the OG of step parenting, Lori Sims. Lori is an internationally renowned blended family expert and the brilliant mind behind the revolutionary Nacho Kids® method. Alongside her husband David, she has made significant strides in supporting blended families, earning features on Headline News, both television, and radio worldwide.

In this enlightening conversation, we dive deep into the core principles of the Nacho Kids method, Nacho Parenting, and the Nacho Kids Academy. Join us as Lori shares her expertise, equipping stepparents with invaluable tools to save their relationships and preserve their sanity. Discover firsthand how the Nacho Kids method has become a blended family lifesaver, transforming the lives of thousands of stepfamilies worldwide, and learn how it can bring harmony to your own unique blend.

Prepare to be captivated by exclusive insider secrets with tips on how to effectively utilise the Nacho Method by fostering positive relationships and utilising effective communication strategies. We explore practical approaches to common problems within blended families that will empower you to navigate the challenges with grace, ultimately creating a home filled with harmony and happiness.

Tune in to this fun yet empowering episode and embark on a transformative journey towards building stronger, more resilient blended families. Don't miss this opportunity to unlock the secrets of a Nacho blended family with Lori Sims, the ultimate authority on step parenting!

]]> <p>Get ready for an incredible episode of Raising His Kids as we are joined by none other than the OG of step parenting, Lori Sims. Lori is an internationally renowned blended family expert and the brilliant mind behind the revolutionary Nacho Kids® method. Alongside her husband David, she has made significant strides in supporting blended families, earning features on Headline News, both television, and radio worldwide.</p><p>In this enlightening conversation, we dive deep into the core principles of the Nacho Kids method, Nacho Parenting, and the Nacho Kids Academy. Join us as Lori shares her expertise, equipping stepparents with invaluable tools to save their relationships and preserve their sanity. Discover firsthand how the Nacho Kids method has become a blended family lifesaver, transforming the lives of thousands of stepfamilies worldwide, and learn how it can bring harmony to your own unique blend.</p><p>Prepare to be captivated by exclusive insider secrets with tips on how to effectively utilise the Nacho Method by fostering positive relationships and utilising effective communication strategies. We explore practical approaches to common problems within blended families that will empower you to navigate the challenges with grace, ultimately creating a home filled with harmony and happiness.</p><p>Tune in to this fun yet empowering episode and embark on a transformative journey towards building stronger, more resilient blended families. Don&#39;t miss this opportunity to unlock the secrets of a Nacho blended family with Lori Sims, the ultimate authority on step parenting!</p> f2075dd7-0bbd-46e7-b968-da307476a39c https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/0ea9a041-34b4-454f-a735-6a52130c093a Tue, 06 Jun 2023 01:07:28 +0000 4220 yes full Step-Motherhood: Bah-da-bah-bah-bah, We're Lovin' It! Step-Motherhood: Bah-da-bah-bah-bah, We're Lovin' It! 25 Toni Graham In this unscripted episode of 'Raising His Kids,' hosts Madison and Toni come together to catch up after Mother's Day, sharing their experiences as stepmothers. Join them as they delve into the highs and lows of navigating this unique role while celebrating the joys and challenges it brings. They reflect on their own Mother's Day experiences and discuss how being stepmothers adds a distinctive layer to the celebrations. Tune in as they delve into recent discussions that have slid into their DMs, offering insights and perspectives on the complexities of Step-Motherhood. Additionally, Madison and Toni hold space for the positive stepmom community, emphasising the importance of support and growth within this community. Prepare for an honest, heartfelt conversation that explores the beautiful journey of Step-Motherhood and the bonds it creates.honest, heartfelt conversation that explores the beautiful journey of Step-Motherhood and the bonds it creates.

]]> <p>In this unscripted episode of &#39;Raising His Kids,&#39; hosts Madison and Toni come together to catch up after Mother&#39;s Day, sharing their experiences as stepmothers. Join them as they delve into the highs and lows of navigating this unique role while celebrating the joys and challenges it brings. They reflect on their own Mother&#39;s Day experiences and discuss how being stepmothers adds a distinctive layer to the celebrations. Tune in as they delve into recent discussions that have slid into their DMs, offering insights and perspectives on the complexities of Step-Motherhood. Additionally, Madison and Toni hold space for the positive stepmom community, emphasising the importance of support and growth within this community. Prepare for an honest, heartfelt conversation that explores the beautiful journey of Step-Motherhood and the bonds it creates.<span>honest, heartfelt conversation that explores the beautiful journey of Step-Motherhood and the bonds it creates.</span></p> 069af94a-f638-4d05-8174-56c0f17f106d https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/a7d6069c-ae1b-43c5-bb78-9fbb4504cbcb Mon, 29 May 2023 10:00:00 +0000 2452 yes full Stepping Up Our Stepfamily Game: Coffee, Wine, Patience & Community - with special guest Bekks Stepping Up Our Stepfamily Game: Coffee, Wine, Patience & Community - with special guest Bekks 24 Toni Graham In this episode, Madison and Toni are joined by a special guest who is none other than Toni's Aussie stepmum BFF Bekks. Despite being a self-proclaimed "neurodivergent hot mess," Bekks is a mum and stepmum of 3 boys under 5, and she's no stranger to dealing with the highs and lows that come with a high conflict coparenting situation. She even co-hosts a podcast with her husband called "Highs & Lows with Jon & Bekks," inspired by their experiences. The three women have a lively and engaging conversation about their lives and the ways in which the online stepmom community has evolved over time. They share personal anecdotes and observations about the challenges and opportunities of being a stepmum, as well as their hopes and aspirations for the future of the community. From dealing with difficult ex-partners to finding support and camaraderie online, this episode covers a wide range of topics that will resonate with anyone who has experience as a stepmum or is interested in learning more about this unique and rewarding role. So, depending on what time you're listening, grab a cup of coffee or a glass of wine and join Madison, Toni, and Bekks for an insightful and uplifting chat about stepmum life!

If you want

to get to know Bekks better you can find her on Instagram @Rebekkah-Louise

]]> <p>In this episode, Madison and Toni are joined by a special guest who is none other than Toni&#39;s Aussie stepmum BFF Bekks. Despite being a self-proclaimed &#34;neurodivergent hot mess,&#34; Bekks is a mum and stepmum of 3 boys under 5, and she&#39;s no stranger to dealing with the highs and lows that come with a high conflict coparenting situation. She even co-hosts a podcast with her husband called &#34;Highs &amp; Lows with Jon &amp; Bekks,&#34; inspired by their experiences. The three women have a lively and engaging conversation about their lives and the ways in which the online stepmom community has evolved over time. They share personal anecdotes and observations about the challenges and opportunities of being a stepmum, as well as their hopes and aspirations for the future of the community. From dealing with difficult ex-partners to finding support and camaraderie online, this episode covers a wide range of topics that will resonate with anyone who has experience as a stepmum or is interested in learning more about this unique and rewarding role. So, depending on what time you&#39;re listening, grab a cup of coffee or a glass of wine and join Madison, Toni, and Bekks for an insightful and uplifting chat about stepmum life!</p><p>If you want</p><p>to get to know Bekks better you can find her on Instagram @Rebekkah-Louise</p> 43a98813-8dd9-48a7-9031-698c52740694 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/8e3a4ee6-991c-4e92-a0ee-885d98cddba8 Mon, 22 May 2023 10:00:00 +0000 3371 yes full The Daily Stepmom - with guest Joslynn Flowers The Daily Stepmom - with guest Joslynn Flowers 23 Toni Graham On this week's episode of Raising His Kids, Lauren and Toni sit down with special guest Joslynn Flowers, also known as The Daily Stepmom. Joslynn is a full-time mom & Stepmom of four and a certified stepmom coach from California.

Joslynn is passionate about helping stepmoms succeed in life, having experienced firsthand the many struggles that can come with blending a family. She is the co-founder of The Stepmom Collective, a community-based app designed to help stepmoms build community and feel supported on their journey.

Joslynn also hosts a chart-topping podcast called The Daily Stepmom Podcast and has been a featured speaker for The Stepmom Summit and The Ultimate Step Family Summit. She was recently named one of the Top 10 NEW Podcasts in 2022 by SHE Magazine and has been interviewed by Raise Parenting Magazine.

In this episode, Joslynn shares her insights on being a stepmom, the challenges she has faced, and her journey towards becoming a certified stepmom coach. She also dives into how the stepmom collective came to life & how you can also be a part of the community.

Join Lauren, Toni, and Joslynn as they delve into the world of step-motherhood and discuss the importance of building a supportive community for stepmoms everywhere. Don't miss this insightful and entertaining episode of Raising His Kids!

You can find Joslynn on Instagram @dailystepmom

]]> <p>On this week&#39;s episode of Raising His Kids, Lauren and Toni sit down with special guest Joslynn Flowers, also known as The Daily Stepmom. Joslynn is a full-time mom &amp; Stepmom of four and a certified stepmom coach from California.</p><p>Joslynn is passionate about helping stepmoms succeed in life, having experienced firsthand the many struggles that can come with blending a family. She is the co-founder of The Stepmom Collective, a community-based app designed to help stepmoms build community and feel supported on their journey.</p><p>Joslynn also hosts a chart-topping podcast called The Daily Stepmom Podcast and has been a featured speaker for The Stepmom Summit and The Ultimate Step Family Summit. She was recently named one of the Top 10 NEW Podcasts in 2022 by SHE Magazine and has been interviewed by Raise Parenting Magazine.</p><p>In this episode, Joslynn shares her insights on being a stepmom, the challenges she has faced, and her journey towards becoming a certified stepmom coach. She also dives into how the stepmom collective came to life &amp; how you can also be a part of the community.</p><p>Join Lauren, Toni, and Joslynn as they delve into the world of step-motherhood and discuss the importance of building a supportive community for stepmoms everywhere. Don&#39;t miss this insightful and entertaining episode of Raising His Kids!</p><p>You can find Joslynn on Instagram @dailystepmom</p> 3940b1e6-33ac-4ba9-a8fd-727ae950b37f https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/ec4501a6-6b21-4de2-9391-bcc6a64367de Mon, 15 May 2023 10:00:00 +0000 2394 yes full The Real Stepmoms of Mother's Day The Real Stepmoms of Mother's Day 22 Toni Graham Mother's Day can be a complicated holiday for stepmothers. While we play a vital role in our stepchildren's lives, we may not always receive the same recognition and appreciation as the children's biological mothers.

In this episode, join us as we celebrate the important contributions that we as stepmothers make to our families, and offer tips and advice for navigating the complexities of this role on Mother's Day and beyond. We'll explore the joys and challenges of being a stepmom on mothers, and how this unique role is often misunderstood or overlooked.Whether you're a stepmom yourself or simply curious about this unique perspective, this episode is sure to offer insights and inspiration.

]]> <p>Mother&#39;s Day can be a complicated holiday for stepmothers. While we play a vital role in our stepchildren&#39;s lives, we may not always receive the same recognition and appreciation as the children&#39;s biological mothers.</p><p>In this episode, join us as we celebrate the important contributions that we as stepmothers make to our families, and offer tips and advice for navigating the complexities of this role on Mother&#39;s Day and beyond. We&#39;ll explore the joys and challenges of being a stepmom on mothers, and how this unique role is often misunderstood or overlooked.Whether you&#39;re a stepmom yourself or simply curious about this unique perspective, this episode is sure to offer insights and inspiration.</p> a63e6ed5-3948-439b-a487-e44259e7a742 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/63372c6a-08c0-4ac1-a4ea-f36c858bb85b Mon, 08 May 2023 10:00:00 +0000 3973 yes full Stepping into Self-Care: Prioritising Yourself as a Stepmother Stepping into Self-Care: Prioritising Yourself as a Stepmother 21 Toni Graham In this episode, Lauren & Toni dive into the topic of self-care for stepmothers. As a stepmom, it can be easy to prioritize the needs of your partner and stepchildren over your own. However, taking care of yourself is crucial to your overall well-being and your ability to be present for your family.

We'll discuss some common challenges that stepmothers face when it comes to self-care, and offer practical tips and strategies for incorporating self-care into your daily routine. From carving out time for yourself, to setting boundaries and practicing mindfulness, we'll explore a variety of approaches to help you feel more grounded, relaxed, and fulfilled.

Join us as we explore the importance of self-care for stepmothers, and learn how to prioritize your own needs while still being there for your family.

]]> <p>In this episode, Lauren &amp; Toni dive into the topic of self-care for stepmothers. As a stepmom, it can be easy to prioritize the needs of your partner and stepchildren over your own. However, taking care of yourself is crucial to your overall well-being and your ability to be present for your family.</p><p>We&#39;ll discuss some common challenges that stepmothers face when it comes to self-care, and offer practical tips and strategies for incorporating self-care into your daily routine. From carving out time for yourself, to setting boundaries and practicing mindfulness, we&#39;ll explore a variety of approaches to help you feel more grounded, relaxed, and fulfilled.</p><p>Join us as we explore the importance of self-care for stepmothers, and learn how to prioritize your own needs while still being there for your family.</p> 553d0320-399c-4368-a0b7-8fefd5ff203b https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/0913b277-35e1-4728-a772-a7379a465571 Mon, 01 May 2023 10:30:00 +0000 3840 yes full The Waiting Season - with guest Nina Fishman The Waiting Season - with guest Nina Fishman 20 Toni Graham In this episode Lauren is joined by guest Nina Fishman. Join them as they discuss their trials and tribulations that came with unexplained infertility on their TTC journeys & how it impacted them as stepmothers.

Nina lives in St. Petersburg, Florida with her family. She is passionate about sharing her own story with other women so they can be encouraged and reminded that they are not alone in navigating all the challenges of life!

]]> <p>In this episode Lauren is joined by guest Nina Fishman. Join them as they discuss their trials and tribulations that came with unexplained infertility on their TTC journeys &amp; how it impacted them as stepmothers.</p><p>Nina lives in St. Petersburg, Florida with her family. She is passionate about sharing her own story with other women so they can be encouraged and reminded that they are not alone in navigating all the challenges of life!</p> 36d45056-5538-4b20-a2df-28c20bed2542 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/8e3bf8ff-00c0-4060-9835-10e49da4db34 Mon, 24 Apr 2023 10:45:00 +0000 3125 no full One for the Childfree & Childless Stepmothers One for the Childfree & Childless Stepmothers 19 Toni Graham This week Toni took a break to spend some much needed time with her Bio Kids, which gave room for Lauren & Madison to discuss their journeys as child free stepmoms. They share their thoughts and feelings on being child free - how it affects holidays, work, and relationships - as well as whether their child free status may change in the future.

]]> <p>This week Toni took a break to spend some much needed time with her Bio Kids, which gave room for Lauren &amp; Madison to discuss their journeys as child free stepmoms. They share their thoughts and feelings on being child free - how it affects holidays, work, and relationships - as well as whether their child free status may change in the future.</p> eae33385-850f-407a-9546-106667d9e688 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/12116f58-eb41-4cb8-a7a6-9bbd5e008696 Mon, 17 Apr 2023 11:01:17 +0000 3675 no full What's your Parenting Style? What's your Parenting Style? 18 Toni Graham Strap yourself in & buckle up because in this hour long episode Lauren & Toni are diving in deep by discussing parenting styles within a blended family. They discuss what the 4 main parenting styles are as well as sharing what their style of parenting is, they answer listener questions & talk about how they discovered their parenting style & let you know how you can find out your style by taking the quiz on the following website: https://www.happyfamilies.com.au/parenting-styles

]]> <p>Strap yourself in &amp; buckle up because in this hour long episode Lauren &amp; Toni are diving in deep by discussing parenting styles within a blended family. They discuss what the 4 main parenting styles are as well as sharing what their style of parenting is, they answer listener questions &amp; talk about how they discovered their parenting style &amp; let you know how you can find out your style by taking the quiz on the following website: <a href="https://www.happyfamilies.com.au/parenting-styles" rel="nofollow">https://www.happyfamilies.com.au/parenting-styles</a></p> 9233d11c-b130-4210-92d9-f94ab0df0d7a https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/88956c7e-4090-4759-9d51-5b4f57d33f8e Mon, 10 Apr 2023 10:00:00 +0000 4170 yes full Celebrating Easter in a Blended Family Celebrating Easter in a Blended Family 17 Toni Graham In this episode Madison & Toni, discuss the challenges & joys of celebrating Easter in a blended family. They share personal stories of their experiences and offer tips and advice on how to navigate this holiday in a blended family. Topics include how to navigate Easter traditions when you do & don't have your step or bio kids, different religious beliefs & how to create traditions for your family. Overall this episode offers valuable insight to anyone who is struggling to navigate the complexities of celebrating Easter within a blended family

]]> <p>In this episode Madison &amp; Toni, discuss the challenges &amp; joys of celebrating Easter in a blended family. They share personal stories of their experiences and offer tips and advice on how to navigate this holiday in a blended family. Topics include how to navigate Easter traditions when you do &amp; don&#39;t have your step or bio kids, different religious beliefs &amp; how to create traditions for your family. Overall this episode offers valuable insight to anyone who is struggling to navigate the complexities of celebrating Easter within a blended family</p> d56178fb-5099-451e-8c3f-c4332d119de1 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/ab1c2968-61bc-4cc7-afc6-6ca7a2b159d1 Mon, 03 Apr 2023 11:15:00 +0000 2627 yes full The Disneyland Dad The Disneyland Dad 16 Toni Graham This week Lauren & Toni are discussing Disneyland parents and how they impact the co-parenting relationship as well as the relationship between child and parent.

]]> <p>This week Lauren &amp; Toni are discussing Disneyland parents and how they impact the co-parenting relationship as well as the relationship between child and parent.</p> c058e0e8-f0ed-4dda-9a68-95137bb253cf https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/03577f70-8a2c-4fc0-9cbd-ac0e1e9b765e Mon, 27 Mar 2023 11:05:00 +0000 3669 yes full 2 Homes Vs 2 Families 2 Homes Vs 2 Families 15 Toni Graham Lauren & Toni welcome Madison back as a part time co-host. The 3 of them discuss a controversial topic amongst blended families and that is if the children have 2 homes or 2 families. The Ladies shared their own POV, drawing on their own experiences from their past & present; as well as what our listeners had to say on the topic

]]> <p>Lauren &amp; Toni welcome Madison back as a part time co-host. The 3 of them discuss a controversial topic amongst blended families and that is if the children have 2 homes or 2 families. The Ladies shared their own POV, drawing on their own experiences from their past &amp; present; as well as what our listeners had to say on the topic</p> 580c947c-c74a-4413-97c4-9129c7ba1868 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/ef5177cf-c08b-4307-bf1b-62d30455db37 Mon, 20 Mar 2023 11:13:08 +0000 2813 yes full The Disengaged Stepmother! The Disengaged Stepmother! 14 Toni Graham In this weeks episode Lauren & Toni talk about why it can be a good idea to disengage and take a step back when you're a stepmother. While offering all the tips & tricks in their play book to help you decide if you might need to take a step back and how to do it.

]]> <p>In this weeks episode Lauren &amp; Toni talk about why it can be a good idea to disengage and take a step back when you&#39;re a stepmother. While offering all the tips &amp; tricks in their play book to help you decide if you might need to take a step back and how to do it.</p> e7ba8bf0-ef71-495c-a504-3d4e3911f67c https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/45272918-9620-4c36-ab8b-b1913bcac5d5 Mon, 13 Mar 2023 11:30:00 +0000 2765 yes full Happy International Women's Day 2023 Stepmamas! Happy International Women's Day 2023 Stepmamas! 13 Toni Graham It's International Women's Day this week - Celebrating Equality & as stepmoms we wanted to share our thoughts on how this years topic relates to us. Lauren & Toni also touch on how to keep your relationship strong through the highs & lows of step parenting, followed up by giving advice to one of our listeners who needs help with a particular situation.

]]> <p>It&#39;s International Women&#39;s Day this week - Celebrating Equality &amp; as stepmoms we wanted to share our thoughts on how this years topic relates to us. Lauren &amp; Toni also touch on how to keep your relationship strong through the highs &amp; lows of step parenting, followed up by giving advice to one of our listeners who needs help with a particular situation.</p> a4876990-1eab-4900-b92d-dc44566ef5ec https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/c0ec133b-1d36-4b94-a431-59e274b2198c Mon, 06 Mar 2023 11:00:00 +0000 2251 yes full The Overnight Stepmom - with guest Madison The Overnight Stepmom - with guest Madison 12 Toni Graham Join Toni & Lauren as they catch up with their Stepmom Bestie, Madison & talk all things Stepmom, including why Madison had to take a step back as an original cohost for RHK! While respecting Karen's wishes, Madison became an overnight stepmom to her 2 stepsons Max, 10 & Lincoln, 6 who also comes with the added stress of having special needs.

]]> <p>Join Toni &amp; Lauren as they catch up with their Stepmom Bestie, Madison &amp; talk all things Stepmom, including why Madison had to take a step back as an original cohost for RHK! While respecting Karen&#39;s wishes, Madison became an overnight stepmom to her 2 stepsons Max, 10 &amp; Lincoln, 6 who also comes with the added stress of having special needs.</p> 9f4681f3-4e3f-4def-92a9-f807cbd02a4e https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/1c1d3990-a61d-4517-b3fc-4e570252d8bc Mon, 27 Feb 2023 11:14:22 +0000 3018 yes full Small Wins, Big Wins, We all Win! Small Wins, Big Wins, We all Win! 11 Toni Graham After a few weeks of consecutive emotionally heavy episodes, Lauren & Toni decided to lighten things up a little & reached out to fellow stepmom's to share some wins. Some were big, some were small but overall, they were massive wins; through our eyes!

]]> <p>After a few weeks of consecutive emotionally heavy episodes, Lauren &amp; Toni decided to lighten things up a little &amp; reached out to fellow stepmom&#39;s to share some wins. Some were big, some were small but overall, they were massive wins; through our eyes!</p> 8f4c1478-5315-4295-be21-a95fe5c097e3 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/db7b1d82-f4ed-4029-9c50-3cf8b7ffdb95 Mon, 20 Feb 2023 11:00:00 +0000 2815 yes full Parental Alienation, Emotional Parentification & Malicious Parent Syndrome Parental Alienation, Emotional Parentification & Malicious Parent Syndrome 10 Toni Graham In this episode it hits close to home, Lauren & Toni talk on their own personal experiences of dealing with alienation tactics with their stepsons as well as Laurens own experience growing up being subjected to these tactics.

]]> <p>In this episode it hits close to home, Lauren &amp; Toni talk on their own personal experiences of dealing with alienation tactics with their stepsons as well as Laurens own experience growing up being subjected to these tactics.</p> 60a2286e-c970-4864-bc9f-309d64ca753f https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/a2423fad-6916-41c6-b69e-062d7fa8b43f Mon, 13 Feb 2023 11:30:00 +0000 3500 no full The High Conflict Step Parent The High Conflict Step Parent 9 Toni Graham As Stepmum's we often talk about the HCBM but what about the HCSM?

In this episode Lauren & Toni are talking about High Conflict Parents & Step Parents, including: How to make sure you’re not the High Conflict Step Parent & Making sure your partner isn’t the one being High Conflict.

As always we have some interesting listener questions as well as some stories from BM's who have had to deal with HCSM's & even one about a HCBD.

]]> <p>As Stepmum&#39;s we often talk about the HCBM but what about the HCSM?</p><p>In this episode Lauren &amp; Toni are talking about High Conflict Parents &amp; Step Parents, including: How to make sure you’re not the High Conflict Step Parent &amp; Making sure your partner isn’t the one being High Conflict.</p><p>As always we have some interesting listener questions as well as some stories from BM&#39;s who have had to deal with HCSM&#39;s &amp; even one about a HCBD.</p> 38fe4fc6-a8de-48a7-a12b-5c5694dd2c3e https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/de4c5fb1-c603-4224-814b-9eb6efe09b11 Mon, 06 Feb 2023 11:30:00 +0000 2865 yes full Oh baby, baby! - It's an "Ours Baby" Oh baby, baby! - It's an "Ours Baby" 8 Toni Graham No matter your relationship with your step kids or the Ex, when it comes to adding an "ours" baby to your step family, their emotions & reactions can go either way. Lauren & Toni are talking about the positive experiences as well as the negatives that have come with having an ours baby, as well as answering listener questions, including this week's stepmoms anonymous where one stepmom shares her negative experience of announcing her pregnancy to her kids & step kids.

]]> <p>No matter your relationship with your step kids or the Ex, when it comes to adding an &#34;ours&#34; baby to your step family, their emotions &amp; reactions can go either way. Lauren &amp; Toni are talking about the positive experiences as well as the negatives that have come with having an ours baby, as well as answering listener questions, including this week&#39;s stepmoms anonymous where one stepmom shares her negative experience of announcing her pregnancy to her kids &amp; step kids.</p> 8e301fc7-b516-45b3-a20b-90d27e791c2c https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/98594d7f-285f-4e8f-9c8b-3571bd04606b Mon, 30 Jan 2023 11:30:00 +0000 2982 yes full Step-Motherhood is a Rollercoaster! Step-Motherhood is a Rollercoaster! 7 Toni Graham In this episode Lauren & Toni are talking all about the normal feelings and emotions that come with being a Stepmom, the rollercoaster of emotions are real but could it be Second Wife Syndrome?

]]> <p>In this episode Lauren &amp; Toni are talking all about the normal feelings and emotions that come with being a Stepmom, the rollercoaster of emotions are real but could it be Second Wife Syndrome?</p> 926b156c-340d-4814-94d3-baa81e13b24c https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/22ddb7cb-f36a-43ed-b790-9ced72c2555f Mon, 23 Jan 2023 11:30:00 +0000 2661 no full Mediation, Court & Child Support Mediation, Court & Child Support 6 Toni Graham This week the ladies intended on only talking about mediation & court but got sidetracked talking about child support. Lauren & Toni are answering listener questions, sharing their own experiences of attending mediation and court and the differences with Family Law between America & Australia. Lauren also subtly drops a much awaited announcement!

]]> <p>This week the ladies intended on only talking about mediation &amp; court but got sidetracked talking about child support. Lauren &amp; Toni are answering listener questions, sharing their own experiences of attending mediation and court and the differences with Family Law between America &amp; Australia. Lauren also subtly drops a much awaited announcement!</p> 4d14d06c-475d-4dc5-a4fa-f4fd008b5a13 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/53e4fd70-afbe-4bb3-8e1c-ce6c4adc9bd1 Mon, 16 Jan 2023 11:30:00 +0000 2518 no full Now we're talking boundaries Now we're talking boundaries 5 Toni Graham You guessed it! In this weeks episode the ladies are talking about why boundaries are so important as well as what boundaries they each have as Stepmoms to keep the peace not only for themselves but within their blended families.

]]> <p>You guessed it! In this weeks episode the ladies are talking about why boundaries are so important as well as what boundaries they each have as Stepmoms to keep the peace not only for themselves but within their blended families.</p> 908ab0b4-b4ff-47b3-8451-82aaf38625aa https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/cd8294dd-d4ab-4d2a-80d9-94dd7fc7fb3f Mon, 09 Jan 2023 11:30:00 +0000 2978 no full Once Upon a Stepmom - Q & A Part 2 Once Upon a Stepmom - Q & A Part 2 4 Toni Graham Lauren & Toni pick right back up, where they left off in episode 3, answering listener questions & some from each other. While sharing stories from their stepmom life both ladies surprised each other, when they found out that this is not either of their first time being in a Stepmom role.

]]> <p>Lauren &amp; Toni pick right back up, where they left off in episode 3, answering listener questions &amp; some from each other. While sharing stories from their stepmom life both ladies surprised each other, when they found out that this is not either of their first time being in a Stepmom role.</p> 05fec63f-e451-4ce2-9546-a7d60d8b9f32 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/e16f8b34-18a4-4aae-a041-eb176d9f3c63 Mon, 02 Jan 2023 11:30:00 +0000 2248 no full Oh the controversy - Q & A Part 1 Oh the controversy - Q & A Part 1 3 Toni Graham In this episode Lauren & Toni discuss the controversy that surrounded their first episode on their Instagram page as well as answering some listener questions about how they met and what life is like for them as Stepmom's .

]]> <p>In this episode Lauren &amp; Toni discuss the controversy that surrounded their first episode on their Instagram page as well as answering some listener questions about how they met and what life is like for them as Stepmom&#39;s .</p> 12043d8c-9f00-440c-9fd3-d4769de22389 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/b89f4b25-82e0-437e-86ef-9b8eafc3a031 Mon, 26 Dec 2022 11:30:00 +0000 2355 no full Blended Family Holiday Traditions Blended Family Holiday Traditions 2 Toni Graham In this weeks episode Lauren & Toni are talking about blended family holiday traditions, the ones to keep, the ones that need to go & the ones you might like to introduce. They also touch on the elf on the shelf & meeting new spouses friends & family during the holidays.

]]> <p>In this weeks episode Lauren &amp; Toni are talking about blended family holiday traditions, the ones to keep, the ones that need to go &amp; the ones you might like to introduce. They also touch on the elf on the shelf &amp; meeting new spouses friends &amp; family during the holidays.</p> b584ddfc-fdab-4769-80fb-7c3cddb309ef https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/83da401d-78e2-4ce6-a555-3158631c1846 Mon, 19 Dec 2022 11:30:00 +0000 2743 no full Holidays as a Stepmom Holidays as a Stepmom 1 Toni Graham Lauren & Toni are discussing what it is like to be a Stepmom during the holidays, everything from what it means to be a HCSM & how not to be one, how to handle Santa between households & dealing with the drama that Karen brings.

]]> <p>Lauren &amp; Toni are discussing what it is like to be a Stepmom during the holidays, everything from what it means to be a HCSM &amp; how not to be one, how to handle Santa between households &amp; dealing with the drama that Karen brings.</p> 7765e693-32dc-4300-9e4b-0ba15a675945 https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/d84bada7-3322-4fcc-9ca5-49134d43ead0 Mon, 12 Dec 2022 11:30:00 +0000 2454 no trailer Trailer - Introducing RHK Trailer - Introducing RHK 1 Toni Graham Trailer Lauren & Toni welcome you to RHK - a podcast for stepmoms. Where they will be sharing their real life stepmom stories, all while giving you their hot takes, real opinions, hard truths & everything in-between.

]]> <p>Lauren &amp; Toni welcome you to RHK - a podcast for stepmoms. Where they will be sharing their real life stepmom stories, all while giving you their hot takes, real opinions, hard truths &amp; everything in-between.</p> e60d33a3-1824-4c5b-af09-b94eff251aec https://redcircle.com/shows/a80178dd-a269-476a-8381-100c9dd4d021/episodes/8d5a3478-630e-49f8-9db5-a8d1b1eea8da Sun, 04 Dec 2022 20:30:00 +0000 96 no