If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, burnt out, or stuck in a cycle of doing too much, this episode is your invitation to something deeper: the lifestyle of Jesus.

We explore what it truly means to follow Jesus—not just in belief, but in daily practice—and how embracing an apprenticeship mindset can transform your pace, your peace, and your purpose.

Key Takeaways:

1. The Answer Isn’t More Time—It’s a New Way to Live

We often think the solution to overwhelm is more hours in the day. But more time doesn’t fix a misaligned life—it just gives us more space to stay busy. True freedom comes from reordering our lives around God, not productivity.

2. You’re Not Just a Believer—You’re an Apprentice

To follow Jesus is to apprentice under Him:

• Be with Jesus
• Become like Jesus
• Do what He would do

This perspective shifts your posture from control to humility, from striving to learning.

3. Your Life Reflects Your Lifestyle

If you’re experiencing:

• Anxiety
• Burnout
• Constant stress
• Disconnection from God

…it’s not random. Your current systems and rhythms are producing those results.

“Every system is perfectly designed to get the results that it gets.”

4. You Can’t Want Jesus’ Life Without Adopting His Lifestyle

Many of us want:

• His peace
• His clarity
• His joy

…but we’re not willing to live how He lived.

Following Jesus is not compartmentalized—it’s a full-life transformation, not just Sunday behavior or spiritual moments.

5. Burnout Is a Sign You’re Living Outside of God’s Design

Burnout isn’t just exhaustion—it’s a signal.

It often means you’ve made your dwelling place somewhere God never intended.

The invitation? Come back home.

6. Stop Praying Your Will—Start Seeking His

A powerful personal story highlights how easy it is to pray what we want instead of surrendering to God’s will.

When you approach God as an apprentice—not the one in charge—you:

• Release control
• Stay open to correction
• Avoid unnecessary frustration and confusion

7. Self-Awareness Is a Spiritual Discipline

Slowing down enough to:

• Notice your reactions
• Evaluate your routines
• Check your alignment

…is key to transformation.

Self-awareness allows you to course correct in real time and grow in spiritual maturity.

8. Jesus Doesn’t Offer Escape—He Offers Equipment

Life is hard. That’s not changing.

But instead of removing the weight, Jesus teaches us how to carry it differently:

• With Him
• At His pace
• With His peace

An easy life isn’t promised—but an easy yoke is.

Practical Application:

This week, begin living like an apprentice:

• Pause throughout your day and ask: “What would Jesus do?”
• Set reminders to check in with your thoughts, reactions, and stress levels
• Pay attention to moments where you feel rushed, anxious, or out of alignment
• Surrender areas where you’ve been forcing your will

Scripture Highlight:

Matthew 11:28–30

“Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest…”

Final Thought:

If you want the life of Jesus, you have to adopt the lifestyle of Jesus.

This isn’t about doing more—it’s about living differently.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer 

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or like there aren’t enough hours in the day, this conversation will challenge the way you think about productivity, ambition, and success.

Tatum shares a candid life update—navigating motherhood, law school, entrepreneurship, and a recent season of burnout—and how God is shifting her perspective on pace, priorities, and what success really means in this season.

This episode centers on a powerful truth: the solution to an overbusy life is not more time, but a slower, more intentional life rooted in what actually matters.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• Why more time will not fix your overwhelm
• How to simplify your business model without sacrificing success
• The difference between active income and asset-based wealth
• Why you do not have to follow grind culture to build a successful business
• How embracing your limitations can bring peace and clarity
• What it means to define success as pleasing God, not producing outcomes
• How surrendering control leads to true freedom

Key Takeaways

• You do not have to be rushed to be rich or successful
• Every yes requires a thousand no’s—choose wisely
• Your capacity is limited, and that is by design
• God is not asking you to do everything, only what He assigned to you
• True success is obedience to God, not money, influence, or recognition

Faith + Business Insight

This episode explores the tension between potential and limitation. While we are made in the image of God and filled with purpose, we are still human and finite.

Learning to accept both your potential and your limitations is essential to building a life and business that is sustainable, peaceful, and aligned with God’s will.

Notable Quote

“You don’t have to be rushed to be rich. You don’t have to be rushed to be successful.”

Book Club Pick

We’re reading: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer - https://amzn.to/3Obiks5

Mentioned in This Episode

• Anchored Media Studios: www.anchoredmediastudios.com

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or stuck in survival mode, this episode invites you to take a different approach. Instead of striving, multitasking, and trying to do everything, Tatum breaks down a faith-based framework that brings clarity, peace, and alignment.

This episode is not about doing more. It is about doing what matters most and trusting God to handle the rest.

What You’ll Learn

• Why survival mode requires deeper reflection, not quick fixes
• The difference between worldly peace and God’s peace
• How hustle culture and internalized stress are affecting women
• Why slowing down can feel uncomfortable and what God may be refining in that process
• The truth about multitasking versus multiplication

The God Math Formula

Consecration + Concentration = Multiplication

Consecration (Your Responsibility)

Setting your life apart for God through your daily decisions, habits, and priorities.

Key Scriptures:

Romans 12:1–2

1 Peter 1:15–16

Concentration (Your Responsibility)

Maintaining focused, intentional attention on God’s will by eliminating distractions and staying aligned.

Key Scripture:

Matthew 4:1–11

Multiplication (God’s Responsibility)

God expands what you offer Him beyond your natural capacity.

Key Insight:

Multitasking is not multiplication. Trying to do everything is stepping into a role that belongs to God.

Biblical Examples of God Math in Action

• Mary, mother of Jesus: Her obedience positioned her to carry out God’s plan for salvation
• The Shunammite woman: Her generosity led to supernatural provision
• The disciples: Their obedience with limited resources led to abundance
• The widow of Zarephath: Her faith in scarcity resulted in overflow

Practical Application

Tatum outlines a realistic, faith-centered daily rhythm that includes:

• Starting the day with prayer, Scripture, and stillness
• Being intentional with family and relationships
• Working with focus and minimizing distractions
• Practicing gratitude throughout the day
• Prioritizing rest and restoration in the evening

Key takeaway:

Harmony is not about having more time. It is about being intentional with the time you already have.

Key Takeaways

• Alignment is more important than activity
• Peace is not the absence of chaos but the presence of God
• Discipline is the key to sustainable transformation
• God multiplies what you surrender and steward well

Whether you are a busy mom, entrepreneur, or professional, this episode is packed with practical guidance, spiritual encouragement, and real-life strategies to live a God-centered, purpose-driven life.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

1. Miraculous Healing Testimony

Tatum shares the story of her grandmother. Through faith, prayer, and God’s guidance, she is now in remission. This testimony highlights:

• The power of trusting God in difficult seasons
• How prayer and faith can bring peace and restoration
• Why God’s timing is perfect and how He works behind the scenes

2. Aligning Ambition with God’s Will

Tatum answers a listener’s question about determining if their ambition is God-aligned. Key takeaways include:

• Pause and recalibrate: Avoid operating in hurry and burnout
• Examine the root of ambition: Is it fueled by brokenness or a spirit of excellence?
• Apply the God Math Formula:
• Consecration: Abide in God daily
• Concentration: Focus on what God assigns
• Multiplication: Experience supernatural results beyond your own efforts

3. Work-Life Harmony for Moms and Entrepreneurs

Tatum addresses the challenges of balancing career, business, ministry, and family life. She advises:

• Take a hard stop to evaluate priorities and health
• Use your job as an investor: Save for your business or ministry
• Schedule time for spiritual growth: waking early, praying throughout the day
• Transition from surviving to savoring every moment with family and God

4. Building a Faith-Based Community for Women Trying to Conceive

For women seeking support while navigating fertility journeys, Tatum provides tips on:

• Researching existing communities to understand needs and pain points
• Emphasizing peace, trust, and patience over anxiety
• Combining faith with practical steps like health, vitamins, or IVF guidance
• Using social media strategically to connect with your audience and grow community

Actionable Steps from This Episode:

1. Take a recalibration pause to evaluate the alignment of your ambition and priorities.
2. Apply the God Math Formula in daily life to multiply your efforts spiritually and practically.
3. Carve out dedicated time for prayer, ministry, or your business while keeping your career stable.
4. Build or join a faith-based community that provides spiritual encouragement and practical resources.
5. Savor your life: prioritize health, family, and God over constant productivity and achievement.

Resources Mentioned:

• Previous episode: God Math Formula: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/1f420cff/god-math-the-spiritual-formula-every-busy-woman-needs

Tatum covers:

• Holding space for longings like marriage and motherhood without letting them consume your focus, even when God is calling you to pursue other seasons of life.
• Healthy ways to process disappointment and desire without shutting down emotionally or disassociating.
• The importance of enjoying your current season while preparing for future roles in life and leadership.
• Discerning action versus waiting in business: how to know when to move forward and when to sit and seek guidance from the Lord.
• The dwelling and abiding lifestyle—making God your constant dwelling place to cultivate peace, clarity, and confidence in your decisions.
• Real talk on the mental and spiritual challenges of Christian entrepreneurship and how to navigate the pressure, self-doubt, and decision paralysis with faith and wisdom.

Whether you’re navigating personal desires, business growth, or both, this episode provides practical guidance and encouragement to live fully surrendered to God while pursuing your destiny.

💌 Have a question for Tatum? Email her at Tatum@TatumTemia.com and you might hear it answered on a future episode!

From alarm clocks and the invention of the light bulb to smartphones and social media platforms, we unpack how the modern world has conditioned us to move faster, do more, and measure productivity by output rather than spiritual depth.

But what is the real cost of this constant hurry?

This episode challenges Christian entrepreneurs and busy believers to reconsider their definition of productivity, confront the hidden addiction to digital devices, and examine whether busyness is crowding out intimacy with God.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, constantly rushed, or spiritually disconnected despite being productive, this conversation will help you recognize the deeper root of the problem—and prepare you for the solutions coming in the next episode.

In This Episode We Discuss

• Why hurry is considered the greatest enemy of the spiritual life
• The historical shift from natural rhythms to artificial schedules
• How the invention of the light bulb and industrial work culture changed sleep and productivity
• The cultural shift from leisure as wealth to busyness as status
• The decline of Sabbath practices in modern society
• How the digital age and smartphones fuel distraction and addiction
• The psychology behind the attention economy
• The concept of “hurry sickness” and its symptoms
• How constant busyness can damage our spiritual health
• Why redefining productivity is essential for believers

Key Takeaways

1. Modern life is built around speed—not soul care.

Historically, people lived according to natural rhythms—waking with the sun and resting after sunset. Today, alarm clocks, work schedules, and digital connectivity push us into an artificial pace that our bodies and spirits were never designed for.

2. Busyness has become a status symbol.

Where wealth once meant leisure and rest, modern culture celebrates packed calendars, long work hours, and constant productivity.

3. Technology competes for your attention.

Smartphones and social media platforms are intentionally designed to capture and keep your attention through dopamine-driven feedback loops.

4. Hurry isn’t just stressful—it’s spiritual.

When our lives move too quickly, we lose the space required for reflection, prayer, and genuine connection with God.

5. Many of us are experiencing “hurry sickness.”

This condition describes the constant feeling of being rushed, anxious about time, and trying to accomplish more in less time.

Reflection Questions

Take a moment to sit with these questions:

• Do you feel most productive only when you’re accomplishing tasks?
• Do you struggle to rest without feeling lazy or unproductive?
• Has busyness replaced intentional time with God?
• Could your pace of life be preventing you from hearing God clearly?

Community Challenge: Digital Sabbath

The episode proposes a powerful challenge inspired by the book:

Turn off your phone for 24 hours.

A digital Sabbath allows you to:

• Reset your mind
• Break compulsive phone habits
• Create space for rest and spiritual reflection

Consider trying this with the Blessed + Bossed Up community and observe what shifts in your awareness and connection with God.

What’s Coming Next

This episode focuses on diagnosing the problem of hurry. In the next episode, we’ll begin exploring the practical solutions John Mark Comer presents for slowing down and restoring spiritual health in a fast-paced world.

Resources Mentioned

• The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer: https://amzn.to/4aSvzql

This national bestseller, with over one million copies sold, presents a compelling spiritual and emotional case against hurry and challenges the culture of busyness that defines modern life.

For ambitious women balancing business, motherhood, marriage, leadership, and personal growth, this conversation is both timely and necessary.

Although originally planning to wait until after midterms, Tatum began rereading this book sooner because she recognized subtle signs of internal hurry resurfacing in her own life. This episode is not just a book discussion—it is a personal reset and an invitation for listeners to do the same.

In this episode, she explores:

• Why high-achieving women are especially vulnerable to chronic overload
• What current research reveals about women, stress, burnout, and time poverty
• How busyness impacts cortisol levels, sleep, hormonal balance, and long-term health
• The invisible mental load many women carry daily
• The tension between ambition and contentment
• Why hurry is incompatible with love, joy, and peace
• The foundational question raised in the book: Who am I becoming?

Drawing from both the book and her own experience in therapy, Tatum also shares practical tools that help interrupt internal hurry, including:

• Creating intentional transition time between responsibilities
• Practicing single-tasking instead of multitasking
• Scheduling real lunch breaks without scrolling
• Grounding exercises to regulate the nervous system
• Pausing in moments of rush to return to presence

One of the central themes discussed in this episode is the idea that hurry is not merely a productivity issue—it is a spiritual formation issue.

As the book argues, love, joy, and peace are core characteristics of apprenticeship to Jesus. Yet all three are incompatible with a life lived in constant speed. Presence is required for love. Stillness is required for joy. Margin is required for peace.

Tatum challenges listeners to reflect deeply:

• Who are they becoming if nothing changes?
• Has hurry negatively impacted their marriage, parenting, friendships, or worship?
• Are they rushing toward a version of success they may not even like?
• Where has busyness quietly replaced intimacy with God?

This episode also addresses a sobering reality: many Christians are not in danger of renouncing their faith—but of settling for a distracted, shallow version of it.

The invitation is clear: eliminate hurry before it eliminates depth.

Listeners are encouraged to grab a copy of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry and follow along as the book club continues in the next episode.

Because building a successful life should never come at the cost of the soul.

If this episode resonates, share it with another ambitious woman who needs permission—and accountability—to slow down.

Tune in next week as the discussion continues.

What AI Is (and why you’re already using it)

AI is software trained on data to predict, recommend, recognize, or generate without being told every step. It’s embedded in:

• Google search suggestions
• Autocorrect and text prediction
• YouTube/Netflix/Spotify recommendations
• Banking fraud alerts
• Email spam filters and inbox sorting
• Face ID, photo tagging, voice-to-text

AI isn’t just ChatGPT—and it’s here to stay.

The tension people feel

Many people want AI’s benefits but feel cautious about trust, jobs, privacy, and misinformation. Others either avoid it completely or rely on it too heavily.

The core boundary for believers

Use AI for labor, not revelation.

Don’t use AI to interpret scripture, replace prayer, or seek direction for what God told you to build. Use it for support work—drafting, organizing, brainstorming, or saving time—without replacing dependence on the Holy Spirit. AI can easily become an idol because it’s designed to learn you and feed you what you want.

Why this is good news for entrepreneurs

As AI content becomes overly polished, the market is shifting toward authentic, human-led content. People want real stories, real connection, and less perfection—meaning you don’t need “TV-level” production to show up and stand out.

Practical ways to use AI wisely

• Draft captions, emails, descriptions, SEO
• Repurpose audio/video into clips
• Create basic graphics aligned to a brand guide
• Automate simple customer support/FAQs
• Streamline admin and back-office tasks

Keep the human connection: respond, engage, and make sure your voice stays present.

Closing encouragement

Now is a great time to launch what God called you to—without perfection—while using AI as a tool with wisdom, restraint, and spiritual discernment.

We conclude our book club conversation by examining two final spiritual markers of the Spirit-filled life:

• The Word of God
• Wisdom

We also prepare for our next book club selection: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer. We will begin in about two weeks after midterms, so go ahead and grab your copy now.

Marker #3: The Word of God

Charles Stanley outlines three key reading principles that help believers live a Spirit-filled life.

1. Look for Principles, Not Just Promises

Many believers are promise-centered, always searching for what God will do for them. But principles are more powerful for decision-making.

A principle works like an equation:

• If you do A, expect B.
• If you ignore A, expect C.

When you consistently study the Word, those principles become ingrained. You won’t need to pause life to search for answers. The Holy Spirit will bring truth to your mind in real time.

For Christian entrepreneurs especially, this is critical. You must be able to:

• Make decisions quickly
• Maintain spiritual accuracy
• Move without paralysis

That kind of discernment only comes when the Word is already in you.

2. Read with Context — Remain Neutral

One of the most important themes of this episode is neutrality.

Do not approach Scripture trying to get something out of it. Approach it to know Him.

In an age of algorithms constantly feeding us what we already want to see, neutrality is difficult. But it is essential. Otherwise, we risk:

• Confusing digital marketing for confirmation
• Confusing algorithms for the Holy Spirit
• Reading our desires into the text instead of receiving what it actually says

When you read neutrally, you allow the Word to confront you instead of you manipulating it to support what you already want.

Neutrality produces peace, clarity, sensitivity, and maturity.

If you approach Scripture asking, “How can I get God to work for me?” you will miss it.

When you approach asking, “How can I be closer to Him?” everything changes.

3. Look for General Promises

There are promises given to all believers for all time, including:

• Jesus’ promise not to leave us as orphans (John 14:18)
• Grace and mercy when we approach God (Hebrews 4:16)
• Strength for the weary (Isaiah 40:31)

While God still speaks, He has already spoken extensively through Scripture. Personal revelation should always be filtered through biblical truth.

Approaching the Word strictly from a mystical or subjective lens is dangerous. Spiritual maturity requires emotional maturity, restraint, and accountability.

Marker #4: Wisdom

The final spiritual marker of a Spirit-filled life is wisdom.

The defining question:

What is the wise thing for me to do?

Wisdom exposes hidden motives. It shines light on greed, selfishness, pride, and lust.

Wisdom goes beyond right and wrong.

Something may not be sinful — but it may still not be wise.

The Holy Spirit does not merely pull us away from sin. He keeps us far from the edge.

Walking in Wisdom

Examples discussed in this episode include:

• Disengaging instead of escalating when triggered
• Avoiding environments that may not be sinful but are not wise
• Listening to internal promptings before temptation escalates
• Leaving a social setting when wisdom says it is time to go

The Spirit-filled life is not about seeing how close you can get to the line without crossing it. It is about walking wisely and staying far from the brink.

The Three-Dimensional Wisdom Question

When making decisions, ask:

1. What is the wise thing to do in light of my past experience?
2. What is the wise thing to do in light of my present situation?
3. What is the wise thing to do in light of my future hopes and calling?

The Holy Spirit takes into account your history, your vulnerabilities, and your destiny. When He prompts you, it is for protection.

Ignoring wisdom can have lasting consequences.

Final Charge

If you are not reading your Bible daily, start now.

Buy a translation you understand. Read a little every day.

Through daily reading, you give the Holy Spirit access to your mind and heart — access necessary for transformation.

Next Book Club Pick

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry – John Mark Comer

We will begin in approximately two weeks. Grab your copy and begin reading so you are ready when we start.

Additional Bible Study Resources Recommended by Charles Stanley

1. 30 Days to Understanding the Bible – Max Anders
2. How to Read the Bible for All Its Worth – Gordon D. Fee & Douglas Stewart
3. How to Study the Bible – James Braga
4. How to Understand Your Bible – T. Norton Sterrick
5. Talk Through the Bible – Bruce Wilkinson & Kenneth Boa
6. Living by the Book: The Art and Science of Reading the Bible – Howard Hendricks & William Hendricks

If you want to know what the Holy Spirit is saying, you must know what He has already said. The Bible is not just a collection of stories—it is the Holy Spirit’s thoughts on paper. It is objective, timeless truth that anchors us when our emotions, desires, and circumstances try to pull us in different directions.

In this episode, I share why Scripture is the most reliable way to discern God’s will, the difference between subjective and objective study, and how to approach the Word in a way that produces spiritual maturity. I also share personal reflections on discipleship, parenting, and how God uses everyday moments to redirect us back to His truth.

We also announce our next Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club pick: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer—a powerful follow-up that will help us establish a pace of life that keeps us aligned with the Spirit.

Key Takeaways

• The Bible is the Holy Spirit’s most objective tool for revealing God’s will
• Scripture is not just stories—it is a living, relevant, and authoritative guide for our lives
• Many believers rely too heavily on subjective feelings instead of objective truth
• Spiritual maturity requires balancing personal application with disciplined, objective study
• Principles in Scripture provide timeless guidance for decision-making
• Eliminating hurry is essential to maintaining sensitivity to the Holy Spirit
• Discipleship begins at home and in everyday conversations

Scripture References

• 2 Peter 1:20–21 — Scripture inspired by the Holy Spirit
• Galatians 6:7 — You reap what you sow
• Proverbs 13:20 — The influence of your associations
• Proverbs 12:1 — Correction produces wisdom
• Proverbs 12:19 — Truth endures
• 2 Corinthians 9:6 — Generosity produces increase
• Philippians 4:19 — God provides for His people

Book Club Announcement: Our Next Read

Our next Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club selection is:

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer

This book addresses one of the greatest threats to our spiritual sensitivity: hurry. It will help us establish rhythms that allow us to remain emotionally healthy, spiritually alive, and aligned with God’s pace.

Get your copy and read along with us. https://a.co/d/0cBAB6G0

Resources Mentioned

• The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley: https://a.co/d/0cBAB6G0
• The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer https://a.co/d/0cBAB6G0

Just as physical muscle memory develops through consistent repetition, spiritual muscle memory develops through daily prayer, studying the Word, obedience, and intentional separation from environments that weaken your spiritual strength.

This episode serves as both an encouragement and a call to action for those who know they are being stretched, tested, and prepared for greater responsibility. Tatum explains why spiritual consistency—not emotional intensity—is what sustains you through seasons of elevation and opposition.

If you have been feeling pressure in multiple areas of your life, this episode will help you understand what is happening, how to respond, and how to strengthen your spiritual posture so you can stand firm in what God has called you to do.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• What spiritual muscle memory is and why it matters
• Why spiritual disciplines must become automatic, not occasional
• How consistent prayer strengthens your spiritual resilience
• The difference between repetition and quality repetition in spiritual growth
• Why studying and understanding scripture deeply increases its effectiveness in your life
• How environments and habits can either strengthen or weaken your spiritual position
• The importance of accountability in maintaining spiritual discipline
• How to proactively prepare for seasons of elevation and opposition

Key Concepts Discussed

Spiritual Muscle Memory

Training your spirit to respond to God automatically through consistent prayer, scripture study, and obedience.

Quality Repetition

Not just hearing the Word, but studying it, writing it down, understanding it, and applying it so it becomes embedded within you.

Proactive Spiritual Discipline

Building strength before crisis occurs so your response is rooted in truth, not emotion.

Separation and Protection

Removing yourself from environments and habits that weaken your spiritual clarity and authority.

Accountability and Spiritual Covering

Strengthening your spiritual consistency through prayer partnerships and community.

Scripture Referenced

• Ephesians 6:13–17 — The Armor of God
• James 5:16 — “The prayer of the righteous is powerful and effective.”
• Ephesians 6:12 — Spiritual warfare is not against flesh and blood

Practical Ways to Build Spiritual Muscle Memory

• Pray daily and consistently
• Study and write down scripture to deepen understanding
• Put on the armor of God intentionally
• Remove yourself from environments that weaken your discipline
• Establish accountability through prayer partnerships or community
• Meditate on the Word so it becomes your automatic response

Reflection Questions

• What spiritual disciplines have become inconsistent in your life?
• Where is God calling you to strengthen your spiritual foundation?
• What environments, habits, or distractions may be weakening your spiritual clarity?
• What daily practices can you implement to build spiritual muscle memory?

Resources Mentioned

• BibleHub.com
• BibleStudyTools.com
• GotQuestions.org
• A study Bible for deeper context and understanding

This teaching explores why commitment is a distinguishing mark of believers and how inconsistent restraint can quietly lead us from dependence on the Holy Spirit into self-sufficiency.

Episode Highlights

• A biblical definition of commitment as restraint
• Why commitment is a marker of spiritual maturity
• How good intentions can still lead to compromise
• The difference between good ideas and God ideas
• Why God cares about how we start, continue, and finish

Biblical Foundation: Asa and Jehoshaphat (2 Chronicles)

Tatum examines the lives of King Asa and King Jehoshaphat to show how waning commitment and partial obedience produced long-term consequences.

Both kings were generally faithful but inconsistent in restraint:

• Asa obeyed God early in his reign but later relied on alliances rather than the Lord.
• Jehoshaphat followed God in major decisions but compromised in daily and strategic ones.

Their stories reveal that partial obedience and strategic compromise can open doors we never intended to open.

The Five Core Competencies of Commitment

Commitment to the Lord should be distinguishable. These five competencies serve as markers of true spiritual commitment:

1. A Clear and Clean Heart
2. Commitment begins with the inner condition of the heart. Unaddressed pride, bitterness, anger, and self-reliance hinder obedience.
3. Scriptures: Matthew 5:8; 1 Samuel 16:7
4. Courage
5. Courage is the spiritual strength to obey God despite fear, risk, or opposition. Obedience often requires moving forward without certainty.
6. Scripture: Joshua 1:9
7. Diligence
8. Diligence is steady, faithful obedience over time. Longevity in calling, business, and ministry is built on faithfulness, not motivation.
9. Scripture: Proverbs 21:5
10. Precision
11. Precision means doing exactly what God said—no more and no less. Dependence on God is required to walk out assignments with accuracy.
12. Contentment
13. Contentment is an inner sufficiency rooted in trust in God’s sovereignty, independent of external circumstances.
14. Scriptures: Philippians 4:11–13; 1 Timothy 6:6–8

Faith and Human Behavior

Research shows that commitment bridges the gap between intention and action. Many people struggle not because they lack desire, but because they lack commitment.

This biblical framework for commitment not only produces consistency in action, but also spiritual fruit, deeper intimacy with God, and alignment with His will.

Closing Thought

Commitment is not about productivity alone. It is about pleasing the Father, finishing the assignment, and stewarding the life God entrusted to us.

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Tatum unpacks why peace is often the first and clearest indicator that the Holy Spirit is either affirming or resisting a decision. Through a powerful story from Charles Stanley’s own ministry—where waiting on God led to a debt-free miracle—this episode challenges the tendency to panic, self-rely, or rationalize disobedience when God seems silent.

The episode also includes several personal testimonies illustrating how the absence or presence of peace has guided major life decisions, from entrepreneurship and ministry to relationships and family choices. These stories highlight that spiritual maturity is not a prerequisite for the Holy Spirit to lead—He speaks from the very beginning of our walk with God.

In the second half of the episode, the discussion turns to Stanley’s second marker: the conscience. While acknowledging the biblical framework presented in the book, Tatum offers honest reflection and thoughtful critique, questioning whether the conscience should be treated as a distinct marker separate from the Holy Spirit’s work of renewing the mind. This portion of the conversation invites listeners into deeper discernment, encouraging them to study Scripture, pray intentionally, and test what resonates with the Spirit.

The episode closes with practical reflection questions from the book to help listeners evaluate decisions they may be facing—especially when peace seems unclear or external advice conflicts with inner conviction.

This episode is an invitation to slow down, listen closely, and trust that the Holy Spirit is actively leading—even when His direction doesn’t make logical sense

Together, they unpack legacy and longevity in entrepreneurship, how to steward influence and resources, and why “doing business God’s way” often includes wilderness seasons that teach dependence, humility, and true alignment.

Want to watch the interview? This episode is also available on YouTube (link in the show notes).

In This Episode, We Talk About

• Why Raevyn is an OG guest and always a listener favorite
• What legacy looks like when you’re building with eternity in mind
• The difference between being self-made vs. submitted to God
• How success without God can become a “cocktail for danger”
• Learning to trust God in manna seasons—daily provision and dependency
• When obedience doesn’t look like immediate overflow
• The moment God told Raevyn to shut down a lucrative coaching business
• How God uses closed doors as protection (including a major 2020 “dodged bullet”)
• How spiritual gifts (especially prophecy + discernment) protect and guide in business
• Why business models must evolve—and how God leads transitions ahead of time
• Guarding your gates: distraction, comparison, AI “busy work,” and spiritual compromise
• The power of abiding—stillness, hearing God, and resisting hustle culture

Resource Mentioned + Listener Discount

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The episode opens with an invitation to the Clarity Reset, a free two-week challenge inside The Society, designed to help participants realign their capacity, priorities, and spiritual focus by slowing down rather than adding more.

Episode Highlights:

• Why many people struggle due to lack of clarity—not discipline or work ethic
• How busyness and goal-driven living can dull spiritual sensitivity
• The Holy Spirit as a guide, not a controller
• Four key truths about the Holy Spirit:
• He guides
• He is trustworthy
• He is God’s mouthpiece to believers
• The Holy Spirit speaks
• Real-life examples of Spirit-led guidance in parenting, career decisions, and resisting distractions
• Why God cares about both major and seemingly small decisions
• The importance of recognizing and trusting how the Holy Spirit communicates personally

Chapter 14 Focus: The Principle of Neutrality

• Why God often remains silent when believers approach Him with fixed agendas
• The danger of asking God to bless plans already made
• How emotional attachment can distort discernment
• Why worship helps cultivate neutrality and clarity
• How misplaced faith in promises God never made leads to disappointment
• The connection between neutrality, obedience, and peace

Key Takeaway:

Clarity comes from sensitivity, and sensitivity grows when believers approach God with a neutral heart—willing to release their own agendas and fully submit to His will.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley: https://amzn.to/45Jzcf6
• The Clarity Reset (free two-week challenge inside The Society): thesocietychallenge.com

We dig into Kristen’s transition from Dangers of the Mind to Black SEL, why culturally-rooted social and emotional learning is essential for Black communities, and what it looks like to build a mission-driven organization with radical obedience to God. Kristen shares moments where obedience didn’t make sense—like moving forward with a major conference during a hurricane—and how God confirmed the vision through provision, research, and undeniable fruit.

We also talk about the very real emotions that come up when you’re following God’s timing: shame, guilt, feeling unseen, and learning how to embrace seasons of being hidden. And Kristen’s testimony around marriage and motherhood is such a needed reminder: it’s not too late, and God is always intentional.

Before we get into it: Kristen and her husband received the Presidential Lifetime Achievement Award—and she forgot to mention it in the conversation because that’s what happens when you’re focused on obedience and doing the Lord’s work.

In this episode, we cover:

• What Black SEL is and why it’s necessary
• Kristen’s transition from Dangers of the Mind to launching a nonprofit
• The 5 core competencies of social-emotional learning (and how Black SEL frames them)
• Why SEL must be culturally affirming to truly serve Black students and communities
• Building “God’s way” vs. building in your own might
• The difference between a “me” assignment and a “we” assignment
• Navigating shame, guilt, and the pressure to be seen
• Seasons where God hides you—and why that protection matters
• Kristen’s hurricane conference testimony and how God made the way
• The research that revealed how little SEL scholarship centers Black communities
• Waiting on God for marriage and motherhood—and what it means to pray for alignment with your assignment
• A word for the woman juggling purpose, business, love, and obedience
• “The position of your mind determines the posture of your life”

Connect with Kristen + Support Black SEL

• Visit: BlackSEL.org
• Donate + learn more about the mission and programming
• Get involved / volunteer (especially if you’re in North Carolina)

If you are new to the book club, all previous episodes are linked in the show notes, along with the link to purchase the book. This remains one of my top Christian books of all time and one I believe should be reread regularly, especially at the beginning of the year.

Today’s Focus: Chapter 11 — Doing God’s Work God’s Way

While this episode technically covers Chapters 11 and 12, the primary focus is Chapter 11. Chapter 12 largely reiterates themes already covered earlier in the book regarding the Holy Spirit, so today’s discussion centers on what it truly looks like to build, work, and live by God’s Spirit rather than our own strength.

The chapter opens with Zechariah 4:6–7:

“Not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit, says the Lord of hosts.”

Using the story of Zerubbabel rebuilding the temple, Charles Stanley reminds us that:

• God knows we will face opposition
• God does not always remove obstacles
• God prepares us instead
• Self-sufficiency is often the greatest opposition

This scripture is a critical anchor for anyone building a business, pursuing goals, or stepping into God-ordained work.

No Separation Between Spiritual and Secular Work

Colossians 3:23–24 reminds us that “whatever you do” is service to the Lord. God does not divide life into sacred and secular categories. Your job, business, career, and daily responsibilities are all part of your calling.

Even in environments where faith cannot be openly expressed, excellence, humility, integrity, and Spirit-dependence still glorify God. Your work ethic and posture can be a bridge to someone who may never step into a church.

Two Ways to Approach God’s Work

Doing God’s work in the flesh looks like:

• relying on skill, experience, influence, and strategy
• planning first and asking God to bless it later
• measuring success by numbers, money, or visibility
• operating in stress, pressure, and control

Doing God’s work by the Spirit looks like:

• beginning with dependency
• hearing from God before planning
• remaining flexible and surrendered
• allowing God to receive the glory

God’s work done God’s way carries an unmistakable mark. It produces transformation, not just emotional stimulation or surface-level success.

Five Indicators You’re Doing God’s Work God’s Way

According to Charles Stanley, Spirit-led work is marked by:

1. Knowing the work will fail if God does not intervene
2. Seeing God as your only true source
3. Looking for evidence of the Spirit’s intervention
4. Living without chronic stress
5. Spending more time thanking God than asking Him

If these are not currently descriptive of you, that is not condemnation—it is an invitation to course-correct.

Final Encouragement

This episode is especially timely for the beginning of the year, when many of us are setting goals and making plans. If you started the year operating in the flesh, now is the time to bring those plans back to God, repent of self-sufficiency, and realign your posture.

Write these five indicators down. Keep Zechariah 4:6 somewhere visible. Check yourself often and intentionally choose to do God’s work God’s way.

We have two more bonus episodes to finish the book before moving on to our next book club pick.

Thank you for listening to another episode of the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast.

Previous episodes:

https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/39405540/the-joy-youve-been-missing-starts-with-the-holy-spirit

https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/3255ebb2/the-holy-spirit-is-not-an-it-or-a-ghost

https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/20f3c1c7/faith-over-formula

https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/4df616ba/abiding-over-achieving

https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/2213e340/the-faith-factor

https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/28425033/keeping-in-step-with-the-spirit

This episode is part celebration, part reset, and part practical mentorship: nine lessons to help you build what God called you to build—with skill, strategy, and spiritual sensitivity.

In This Episode, You’ll Hear

• A New Year prayer + encouragement for anyone coming out of a hard 2025
• A thank-you message to listeners who’ve supported the show over the years
• Why year 10 is a big deal—and what may be coming next (YouTube + format experiments)
• An invitation to join The Society (with a free trial) and what’s being added in 2026
• The core teaching: 9 lessons from 9 years of entrepreneurship and podcasting

Church Announcements + Updates

1) Subscribe on YouTube

Tatum shares that she’s not committing to a full video podcast, but you can expect more video elements in 2026:

• YouTube-exclusive episodes that may also be added to the podcast feed
• Some podcast episodes recorded live
• More experimentation with format as the landscape continues shifting

Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TatumTemia

2) Join The Society (Free Trial + New 2026 Modules)

Tatum invites you to activate a free 2-week trial in The Society, the membership community created for Christian entrepreneurs who want a space where they don’t have to “leave Jesus out” or “leave entrepreneurship out.”

New for 2026: She’s bringing her former coaching program, She Is Uncompromising Executive Leadership Training, into The Society—broken into monthly modules (about 12 total).

• Topics include operations, marketing, business planning, strategic planning, and accounting (modules taught by her CPA)
• The legal module will NOT be included (permission was for the original program only)
• Membership is $19.99/month, and the first module drops end of January

Link to join: blessedandbossedupsociety.com

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In this continuation of the Bible on Business series, Tatum walks through Acts 16:6–10 to illustrate how critical it is for Christian entrepreneurs to embrace mobility and flexibility when building a business God’s way. Using Paul’s second missionary journey as a framework, this episode explores what it looks like to make strategic plans while remaining fully open to divine redirection.

If you’re someone who knows you’re called but keeps facing closed doors, delays, or redirections that don’t make sense, this message is for you. Tatum speaks to the emotional and spiritual tension of following God with excellence while trusting Him to guide every step—even when plans change.

She also shares a personal story about obeying the Holy Spirit with no confirmation and how that decision ultimately protected her and her family. This episode will shift your mindset around delays, reframe how you view closed doors, and help you move forward with peace and confidence.

Key Takeaways

• A closed door is not failure—it can be divine redirection.
• The Holy Spirit often leads us as we move, not before.
• Flexibility and mobility are vital for kingdom entrepreneurs.
• Being spiritual is not the same as being Spirit-led.
• Obedience does not always come with external confirmation.
• The people God is calling you to serve are already prepared to receive you.

Scripture Focus

• Acts 16:6–10 (ESV and The Message)
• Proverbs 16:9
• Romans 8:14
• Galatians 5:25

This Episode is For You If:

• You are clear about your calling but uncertain about next steps.
• You’ve experienced unexpected closed doors and felt discouraged.
• You struggle to distinguish between faith and fear in business decisions.
• You are tired of waiting for external confirmation before obeying God.
• You want to operate in peace rather than anxiety as you build your business.

Topics Covered

• Strategic planning vs. spiritual discernment
• What to do when you face delays, pivots, or redirections
• The importance of maintaining spiritual rhythm in business
• How over-attachment to your vision can block divine movement
• The role of fear and anxiety in clouding discernment
• How obedience leads to favor and alignment with your ideal clients

In this continuation of our Bible on Business series, we dive deeper into the process of making Holy Spirit-led business decisions. Picking up from Part 1 (based on Acts 8), today’s discussion focuses on Acts 13:1-4 and how divine strategy and clarity are birthed from a lifestyle of worship, fasting, and consistent submission to God. Tatum also shares critical biblical principles for discerning the spirit behind those who claim to be sent by God, offering practical steps to avoid deception and remain anchored in the truth.

Key Points:

• Context of Acts 13: Shift from Jerusalem to Antioch, highlighting the transition from Peter’s leadership to Paul’s.
• Divine Strategy is Birthed from Worship and Fasting:
• Barnabas and Saul’s commissioning came in the middle of an existing posture of worship, not a strategic session seeking next steps.
• Application: Do not seek God only for strategy—pursue a lifestyle of submission, intimacy, and service.
• Beware of Misaligned Spiritual Leadership:
• Many modern Christian entrepreneurs and believers are spiritually "thirsty," making them vulnerable to deception.
• Importance of properly discerning who lays hands on you or influences your spiritual walk and business decisions.
• Principles for Discerning Spiritual Leadership:

1. Test their confession of Jesus (1 John 4:1-3).
2. Test the fruit of their life (Matthew 7:15-20).
3. Test alignment with Scripture (Galatians 1:8-9; Isaiah 8:20).
4. Test through the witness of the Holy Spirit (John 16:13).

• Practical Application:
• Ask key questions:
• Does this person exalt the true Jesus or themselves?
• Does their life consistently produce holy fruit?
• Are their teachings aligned fully with Scripture?
• Does the Holy Spirit bear witness within you regarding their message and conduct?
• Take your time before accepting any prophetic word or impartation. It is wise to "wait and see" rather than rushing based on emotions.
• Personal Story:
• Tatum shares her own journey of being patient during a wilderness season and how God’s deposits led to the launch of Anchored Media and her continued success, underscoring the power of patience and submission.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley – [Grab your copy here] https://a.co/d/cBARYuE
• Bible references: Acts 13:1-4, 1 John 4:1-3, Matthew 7:15-20, Galatians 1:8-9, Isaiah 8:20, John 16:13

Call to Action:

• Reflect: Are you seeking God’s hand or His heart first?
• Evaluate: Apply the principles of spiritual discernment shared today to your current business community and spiritual influences.
• Prepare: Join the Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club as we start The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley. The journey to spirit-led entrepreneurship continues.

In today’s episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our Bible on Business series with a deep dive into what it looks like to make strategic business decisions led by the Holy Spirit. Drawing from Acts 8:26–40, Tatum unpacks the story of Philip and the Ethiopian eunuch to reveal how obedience to God—even when it seems illogical—can produce generational and global impact.

Tatum also shares a powerful testimony about Anchored Media Studios being awarded the 2025 Peerspace Open Doors Award and reflects on the importance of celebrating wins, even when they don’t directly reflect financial gain. With personal insight and biblical application, this episode gives you practical tools to discern God's voice, remain obedient in seasons of uncertainty, and be led by the Spirit in every decision you make.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why Spirit-led strategy always outperforms worldly business tactics
• The biblical context and business application of Acts 8
• How to know if what you're hearing is truly from God
• What to do when your platform, profits, or progress feel like they’re shrinking
• The power of journaling and intentional reflection in building spiritual sensitivity
• Why one act of obedience can change nations
• How Tatum is applying these lessons in her own businesses and platform

Resources Mentioned:

• Book Club Pick: The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley: https://amzn.to/4ji32MG
• Episode referenced: Testimony of building Anchored Media Studios https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/24590588/faith-endurance-and-eight-years-of-gods-grace
• Visit: www.blessedandbossedup.com to search episode topics and listen to past shows

 In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our Bible on Business series by diving into the significance of strategic timing. Tatum unpacks the powerful lessons from Acts 2, examining how the Lord orchestrated the perfect moment for Pentecost and how this applies to our business and leadership journeys. She discusses why waiting on God’s timing is crucial, how to avoid premature leadership, and how divine strategy ensures maximum impact.

Through the transformation of Peter, the example of Chick-fil-A’s success, and personal reflections on her own journey, Tatum emphasizes the importance of trusting God's plan. If you’re in a season of waiting or feeling impatient about your business or calling, this episode will encourage and challenge you to surrender to God's divine orchestration.

Key Takeaways:

• God’s Timing Ensures Maximum Impact: Pentecost happened at the exact right moment to maximize the spread of the gospel. Likewise, waiting on God's timing in your business will lead to greater impact.
• The Right People Will Be in Place When It's Time: God gathers the right audience, customers, and community when the timing aligns with His plan.
• Strategic Preparation Precedes Breakthrough: Just as Peter had to go through a transformation process, we must embrace personal and professional development while waiting for God’s move.
• Sudden Breakthroughs Are Often Years in the Making: From Jesus preparing 30 years for a 3-year ministry to Chick-fil-A’s 20-year foundation before expansion, major success takes time and patience.
• Avoid Premature Leadership & Decision-Making: Acting ahead of God’s plan can lead to consequences. Learning to wait well is key to success in both business and faith.

Scriptures Mentioned:

• Acts 2:1-5 – The divine timing of Pentecost
• Leviticus 23:15-16 – The significance of the Feast of Weeks
• Deuteronomy 16:16 – The biblical foundation for gathering at Pentecost
• Matthew 16:16-23 – Peter’s faith and spiritual immaturity
• John 18:10-11 – Peter’s rash decision-making

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Key lessons from the book of Isaiah and its relevance to our daily lives.
• How patterns of behavior like fear, self-reliance, and worldly influences keep us from fully depending on God.
• The concept of the habit loop and how it shapes our actions.
• Practical strategies to disrupt unhealthy habits and replace them with faith-driven behaviors.

Scripture Focus:

• Isaiah 30:21 (NLT): “Your own ears will hear him. Right behind you a voice will say, ‘This is the way you should go,’ whether to the right or to the left.”

🌍 Register for the End of Year Prayerthon

Join believers from around the world on December 31 for 18+ hours of prayer, teaching, and intercession across six core pillars of life.

👉🏾 Register here: bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

💛 Partnership Spotlight: Heifer International

Heifer International is a global nonprofit that empowers women farmers like Akanbi Ashiata, who grew up in Lagos and struggled to access fair funding to grow her tomato business. Through Heifer’s Micro-Loan Impact Fund, she received her first affordable loan and was able to expand her business and support her family.

👉🏾 Be the blessing for a woman like Akanbi: heifer.org/blessed

Tatum also announces that the podcast will be on pause for December as she focuses on finals, rest, and seeking God for the next phase of the Bible on Business series—coming back in the new year with more teaching and visual, behind-the-scenes content.

Then we dive back into Part 2 of her powerful conversation with Pastor Tiffany Sowah. Tiffany shares the real cost of obedience: relocating in 30 days off fragmented instructions from God, losing a major federal contract, walking through a “manna season” where she and her husband had just enough for each day, and even surrendering her dream car and apartment. She talks honestly about anger, depression, and feeling like she’d “lost everything”—and how God reframed it as giving everything up to follow Him.

This episode is for the entrepreneur, leader, or believer who is:

• Wrestling with hesitation around a big instruction from God
• Questioning if they “heard Him right” because obedience led to hardship
• In a season where it feels like everything is being stripped, not added
• Wanting to understand what it really means to count the cost and still say “yes”

We also share the heart behind the New Year’s Eve Prayer-a-thon, how it was birthed in the middle of Tiffany’s lowest financial season, and why you absolutely want to be in the virtual room this year.

The Prayer-a-thon: Heart + Invitation

• How the first Prayer-a-thon (Dec 2023) was birthed while Tiffany was working a seasonal job at Ross, living with her parents, and rebuilding from scratch
• The purpose of the Prayer-a-thon: to end the year and enter the next one in the only place that sustains us—God’s presence
• Growing from an 8–12 hour broadcast to an 18–20 hour global prayer experience with people joining from all over the world
• Testimonies of people who planned to “hop on for a bit” and ended up staying all day
• Why you should come ready to log in “for an hour”… but be prepared to want to stay much longer

Register for the Prayer-a-thon: bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

💛 Partnership Spotlight: Heifer International

Heifer International is a global nonprofit that empowers women farmers like Akanbi Ashiata, who grew up in Lagos and struggled to access fair funding to grow her tomato business. Through Heifer’s Micro-Loan Impact Fund, she received her first affordable loan and was able to expand her business and support her family.

👉🏾 Be the blessing for a woman like Akanbi: heifer.org/blessed

The last time Tiffany was on the show was in 2020. Since then, everything has changed: she’s become Pastor Tiffany, married, relocated twice (from Philly to North Carolina and now living full-time in Ghana), shifted from multi–six-figure consulting to full-time ministry, and has walked through some of the hardest financial and emotional seasons of her life.

In Part 1 of this conversation, Tatum and Tiffany talk about the Bible on Business journey, the difference between worldly “Christian-branded” strategies and truly building from the Word, and the uncomfortable reality of learning to really depend on God when everything in you wants to lean on hustle, self-reliance, or what looks “practical” on paper.

Tiffany shares how God:

• Took her from a busy life in Philly as a property owner and multi–six-figure business owner
• Led her to North Carolina for a softer, more peaceful lifestyle and deeper feminine identity
• Began quietly preparing her heart to slow down in business and ramp up in ministry
• Used isolation, relocation, and hidden seasons to cultivate boldness, honesty, and a lifestyle of obedience

They also talk about:

• Growing up in church vs. actually forming a personal relationship with God
• How Catalyst Church in Philly became Tiffany’s training ground for intercession, obedience, and spiritual maturity
• Why accountability, therapy, and spiritual covering matter so much when you’re hungry for God
• The danger of consuming only digital, “sound bite” faith and how to slow down and discern voices online
• Why wanting “more” (peace, better quality of life, financial freedom, the ability to be a kingdom financier) isn’t wrong—but must be submitted to God

This conversation is a masterclass in counting the cost, moving when God says move, and allowing Him to reshape your identity beyond hustle, proximity-based friendships, and public success.

Stay tuned for Part 2, where they dig into what happened when Tiffany’s business unraveled, the reality of manna seasons, grief in transitions, and how God used it all to expand her global ministry and birth the Prayerthon.

🌍 Register for the End of Year Prayerthon

Join believers from around the world on December 31 for 18+ hours of prayer, teaching, and intercession across six core pillars of life.

👉🏾 Register here: bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

💛 Partnership Spotlight: Heifer International

Heifer International is a global nonprofit that empowers women farmers like Akanbi Ashiata, who grew up in Lagos and struggled to access fair funding to grow her tomato business. Through Heifer’s Micro-Loan Impact Fund, she received her first affordable loan and was able to expand her business and support her family.

👉🏾 Be the blessing for a woman like Akanbi: heifer.org/blessed

Sponsored by Heifer International

So many women around the world are called by God to build, but lack access to basic financial resources. In Nigeria, 98% of women can’t access formal credit—no capital, no accounts, no way to grow what God has put in their hands. When you give to Heifer’s Microloan Impact Fund, 100% of your gift goes directly to women entrepreneurs so they can access the capital they need to build sustainable farms and businesses.

Turn blessing into opportunity: fund a loan today at Heifer.org/blessed

In This Episode, We Cover:

• Why “being super saved” isn’t enough to build a sustainable business
• – How many Christian entrepreneurs skip the unglamorous fundamentals and then blame God for what’s really mismanagement.
• Exegesis of Luke 14:28–30
• – What Jesus meant when He said to count the cost before building.
• – How this applies directly to launching and running a business in 2025 and beyond.
• Faith + Fundamentals = Fruit that Lasts
• – Why spiritual disciplines (prayer, fasting, obedience) must be paired with practical disciplines (planning, numbers, systems).
• – How to avoid building businesses that look spiritual on the surface but are structurally weak underneath.
• The Core Fundamentals Every Business Needs
• Tatum breaks down “Business 101” in simple, God-first language:

1. Executive Summary – Your God-given assignment in business and what you’re really here to do.
2. Market Research – How to stop guessing and actually understand your industry + the people you’re called to serve.
3. Products & Services – Clarifying what you’re selling and how it solves a real problem.
4. Marketing & Sales Plan – Why “posting on social” isn’t a strategy and how to think in terms of your customer’s journey.
5. Operations Plan – Systems, structure, and stewardship so your business can function without chaos.
6. Financial Plan – Startup costs, pricing, margins, and budgeting so you’re not “successful” online but broke in real life.
7. Risk & Legal Structure – Why you need professional counsel (attorney + accountant) and can’t skip this step.

• How Fundamentals Protect Your Witness
• – Why half-finished projects, abandoned brands, and messy business practices misrepresent the God you claim to serve.
• – How counting the cost upfront protects your name and His.

Free Resources Mentioned:

• The Clarity Cleanse (30-Day Guided Detox) A free 30-day guide to help you quiet the noise, detox from distraction, and sharpen your ability to hear God concerning your business decisions. Download: https://blessed-bossed-up.kit.com/claritycleanse?_gl=1%2Ajrpgn0%2A_gcl_au%2ANTA2NDAzNC4xNzYxOTU5MDU2LjE4MDQzOTc3LjE3NjIyMDAzMzcuMTc2MjIwMDMzNg..
• Business Plan Templates: https://blessed-bossed-up.kit.com/faithandfundamentals

Join Us for the 2025 Prayer-thon

We are partnering again with the Mornings with God community for a 12+ hour Prayer-thon on December 31, 2025—a global time of teaching, intercession, and focused prayer as we prepare to step into 2026.

We’ll be praying into:

• Spiritual Wellness & Development
• Health & Physical Wellbeing
• Mental & Emotional Health
• Finances & Vocation
• Community & The Nations
• Relationships

Register free: http://bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

Scripture Reference:

• Luke 14:25–33

Thanks for listening to Blessed + Bossed Up. Don’t forget to download your Clarity Cleanse and Business Plan Templates at the links above, and share this episode with a friend who’s ready to build with both faith and fundamentals.

Today we kick off a new how-to series answering a listener’s question: “I study what you teach, but I still feel stuck.” Tatum lays the foundation—sobriety of mind and spirit—so you can actually apply the Bible to your business. She shares her pruning season (fasting, laying down a growing business, guarding inputs), why entrepreneurship can be intoxicating, and how to detox the influences that dull your sensitivity to the Holy Spirit. You’ll get a free 30-day Clarity Cleanse to practice sober-minded focus before we ever talk funnels, launches, or plans.

Join The Society (community + Bible studies + prayer): https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/community

Scriptures referenced

• 1 Peter 5:8 – Be sober-minded and watchful.
• 1 Thessalonians 5:6–8 – Stay awake and sober; breastplate of faith and love.
• Mark 14:38 – Watch and pray; spirit willing, flesh weak.
• (Also mentioned across the episode: Romans 12:2; Philippians 4:8; 2 Corinthians 10:5; Psalm 119:37; Matthew 6:22; Psalm 139:23–24; Matthew 6:33; Proverbs 16:3)

Key takeaways

• Clarity precedes strategy. If you’re not sober-minded, you’ll chase metrics and momentum instead of God’s voice.
• “With” not “for.” You’re building with God as CEO—His timing, His blueprint, His outcomes.
• Guard your inputs. Influence creep is subtle: self-help replaces Scripture, “quick wins” replace consecration.
• Two paths. Mixed mentorship + hurry = wasted time and money; obedience in His timing = preserved energy, precise results, lasting fruit.
• Kingdom metrics ≠ vanity metrics. Success = pleasing God. Revenue follows revelation in due season.

5 intoxicating influences to detox

1. Success culture & performance pressure
2. Digital noise & comparison
3. Mixed mentorship (many voices before The Voice)
4. Materialism & metrics-based validation
5. Over-independence (DIY vs. dependence on God)

The Clarity Cleanse (30 days)

A free, simple month of daily Scripture, reflection, declarations, and prayer to detox the mind, mouth, media, and motives so you can hear clearly and obey promptly.

Download: blessed-bossed-up.kit.com/claritycleanse

Before the series starts next episode, we’re reposting this foundational teaching to set perspective: revelation isn’t just for revenue—it’s for building eternally sound work that will withstand God’s testing. Listen with fresh ears, take notes, and get ready for a practical “how” series starting next.

Episode Summary

Tatum frames business-building through 1 Corinthians 3:13–15: everything we build will be tried by fire, revealing whether it was constructed on Christ or on straw. She walks through the tension between earthly success and eternal reward, invites honest heart work (contentment, motives, obedience), and gives a practical inspection checklist to evaluate what you’re building—so it lasts.

Anchor Scripture

• 1 Corinthians 3:13–15 — God’s fire reveals the quality of our work; only what’s built on Christ endures.
• Also referenced: 1 Cor. 3:11, 2 Cor. 5:10, Matthew 6:19–20, Galatians 6:9, James 1:12, Mark 10:45, Hebrews 11:6, 2 Timothy 4:8, 1 Peter 5:4, 1 Thessalonians 2:19, Romans 6:23, John 3:16, Revelation 21:4, 1 Corinthians 15:42, 52.

Key Themes

• Perspective reset: We’re not only building for launches and KPIs—we’re building for Judgment Day.
• Foundation matters: Only Christ is a durable foundation (1 Cor. 3:11).
• Eternal rewards: Salvation is by grace; rewards relate to faithfulness and obedience.
• Heart inspection: Contentment, motives, service, perseverance, and faith over sight.
• From revelation to practice: The upcoming series will translate Scripture → systems, decisions, and daily leadership.

Checklist (from the episode)

Ask and answer honestly—by your actions, not lip service:

1. Foundation: Is this truly built on Jesus—or on trends, ambition, and metrics?
2. Faithfulness & Obedience: Are your policies, leadership, and operations aligned with Scripture (not just intuition)?
3. Service vs. Sales: Are you serving the people you’re called to, or merely selling? (Mark 10:45)
4. Fruit: Do your processes reflect God’s character (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control)?
5. Perseverance: Do you endure God-assignments when it’s hard, or quit? (Gal. 6:9; James 1:12)
6. Faith in Practice: Do you operate by faith, not sight—especially when results lag? (Heb. 11:6; 2 Cor. 5:7)

Reflection Prompts

• If God’s plan looked nothing like your vision board, would you still follow Him?
• Where is contentment still being formed in you?
• Which part of your business would burn under testing—and why?
• What one policy or practice can you realign to Scripture this week?

Topics & Timestamps (from listener questions)

• [0:27] What do you do when you feel like you are not hearing from God?
• [15:18] How do you know when something is (or should be) a Spirit-led pivot?
• [21:11] What made you pursue law school?
• [31:52] Advice for a mom, wife, and entrepreneur pursuing higher education

Key Takeaways

• When God feels “quiet,” first lower the noise: reduce information overload, step back from social feeds, and create space to hear His still, small voice. Watch for personal “warning lights” (anxiety, irritability, impatience) that signal it’s time to unplug and recentre.
• Sometimes silence is intentional—a season to apply what He already taught you. Keep communing with God, act in obedience, and recognize His hand even when He isn’t verbose.
• Discerning a Spirit-led pivot:
• Scripture check—God will not contradict His Word.
• History with God—does this align with recent themes in prayer, journaling, and conviction?
• Wise counsel + practical confirmations—agreement from trusted voices and doors God opens.
• Order matters—obedience first, clarity often follows.
• Pursuing school as a mompreneur: count the cost, build the team, design systems.
• Scale business responsibly, design childcare that gives peace of mind, and budget with realistic/committed revenue.
• Protect mind, body, and spirit: fuel with protein-forward meals, rest when your body says pause, and use tools that lower cognitive load.
• Tools Tatum loves for study & life design:
• Google Notebook to turn class notes into podcasts, videos, quizzes, flashcards, and mind maps.
• A custom “LifeOS” in ChatGPT trained on syllabi, calendars, and family logistics to auto-draft weekly plans.

Scriptures & Biblical Themes Mentioned

• God speaking in a still small voice (1 Kings 19:11–13)
• Fruit of the Spirit as behavioural gauge (Galatians 5:22–23)
• Abraham’s move as a model for faith steps (Genesis 12)
• Counting the cost before building (Luke 14:28)
• Spirit-led redirection in Acts (e.g., Acts 16)

Resources Mentioned

• Study Bible (with cross-references, concordance, index, maps) - https://amzn.to/4hgpEww
• Google Notebook: https://notebooklm.google/
• Have a question for the show? Email: tatum@tatumtamia.com
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“Part of taking what God entrusts to us seriously is knowing when we don’t have it to give — and honoring that.”

[1:56] Listener Q&A Introduction

After receiving dozens of thoughtful questions from her audience, Tatum shares that she’ll be answering them over two upcoming episodes. She also hints at bringing back past guests whose lives and testimonies have evolved since their first appearance.

[3:02] Question 1: Why Does It Feel Like Everyone Else Is Getting Blessed But Me?

A listener in her 30s shares feelings of discouragement watching others get married, have children, and advance in their careers while she continues to wait on God.

Scripture Focus: Philippians 4:10–13 (NLT)

“I have learned how to be content with whatever I have… for I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.”

Highlights:

• [4:26] Paul’s contentment wasn’t rooted in circumstances, but in Christ.
• [6:02] The enemy often exploits waiting seasons to sow doubt and comparison.
• [7:29] Protect your vulnerabilities — unfollow triggers, set digital boundaries.
• [9:18] Learn to desire the Giver more than the gift.
• [10:11] Tatum shares how she met her husband in God’s timing, not her own.
• [13:18] Create “safeguards of contentment” through prayer, scripture, and boundaries.

Key Takeaway:

True peace in waiting comes when your fulfillment is anchored in God’s presence, not His performance.

[15:23] Question 2: How Do I Set Boundaries as a Mom Starting a Business?

A listener asks for guidance on balancing motherhood and entrepreneurship without losing focus on God’s purpose.

Highlights:

• [16:30] The first boundary to establish is with yourself.
• [17:05] Balance is a myth — pursue harmony through alignment with God.
• [18:30] Tatum’s 3 personal boundaries:

1. Stay connected to the Vine (John 15).
2. Keep priorities in divine order.
3. Do every assignment with excellence.

• [21:07] Boundaries are about stewardship, not restriction.

Spiritual Insight:

“Your ambition should never come at the expense of your assignment at home.”

[22:22] Bonus Segment: God-Led Business Strategy

Tatum shifts into strategist mode, walking listeners through how to build a business from the ground up with divine order and practicality.

Highlights:

• [23:28] Start with a clear business plan — use SBA.gov templates.
• [24:31] Validate your idea before marketing it.
• [25:47] Businesses fail when they don’t solve real problems.
• [26:30] Marketing is a byproduct of strategy, not the starting point.

Takeaway:

Build from the blueprint God gives you — not the algorithm’s trends.

[27:00] Question 3: How Did You Stay Focused When People Doubted You?

A listener who recently quit her 9–5 asks how to stay steadfast when others question her calling.

Highlights:

• [28:01] Tatum recalls the doubtful reactions when she left her job to start Anchored Media.
• [28:48] How she turned fear into fuel by focusing on work, not validation.
• [29:58] The importance of a supportive community of faith-driven entrepreneurs.
• [31:09] Stay quiet about your progress — let the fruit speak.

Key Takeaway:

“When God gives you the vision, He’ll also give you the proof — but you have to build first.”

[32:32] Question 4: Preparing for Motherhood as a Married Entrepreneur

A listener asks how to spiritually and practically prepare for motherhood while running a business.

Highlights:

• [33:48] Create a relationship bucket list — enjoy your marriage before kids.
• [36:02] Build rhythms of connection (weekly date nights, intentional check-ins).
• [36:41] Individual and joint therapy before kids is an act of preparation, not repair.
• [38:07] Men need emotional support too — they carry provision pressure.
• [39:29] Protect your marriage from being consumed by parenthood.
• [40:46] Create a “Happy List” for postpartum joy and mental health support.
• [42:59] Audit your business:
• Increase passive income streams
• Automate workflows
• Cut unnecessary costs
• [45:37] Make your business lean for freedom — not pressure.

Key Takeaway:

“Motherhood should multiply your grace, not your chaos. Prepare now so peace leads the transition.”

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What You’ll Learn

• The difference between routine (checkbox faith) and rhythm (daily dependence)
• Why “keeping in step with the Spirit” (Galatians 5:16–26) is a lifestyle, not a morning checklist
• The 4-part framework: Abide → Align → Act → Assess
• How digital distraction, time scarcity, and information overload sabotage intimacy with God—and what to do about it
• Practical ways to reduce noise (limits, notifications, sacred windows) and protect your secret place
• How to evaluate fruit and course-correct with grace (not performance)

Key Scriptures

• Galatians 5:16–26 – Walk by the Spirit; fruit of the Spirit; keep in step
• John 15:5 – Abiding in the Vine to bear fruit
• Luke 10:38–42 – Martha vs. Mary (routine vs. rhythm)
• Exodus 16 – Daily manna: dependence over hoarding
• Mark 1:35; John 5:19 – Jesus’ pace and posture: presence over pressure

The Rhythm Framework (Quick Reference)

• Abide: Guard intimacy with God; create sacred windows; reduce digital noise.
• Align: Test ideas, opportunities, and pivots against Scripture, God’s character, and the peace of the Spirit.
• Act: Move with faith and flexibility—be interruptible and obedient.
• Assess: Measure fruit (Gal. 5:22–23), review outcomes with the Spirit, and course-correct as needed.

Practical Tips Mentioned

• Put time limits on social apps; silence non-essential notifications.
• Try an information fast (step back from extra voices/content).
• Schedule sacred windows (daily/weekly) for prayer, stillness, and listening.
• Run decisions through discernment filters: Scripture consistency, peace, timing, assignment fit.

Series Recap (Parts 1–3)

• Part 1: Acts 8:26–40 — Strategic decisions led by the Holy Spirit
• Part 2: Acts 13:1–4 — Worship, fasting, submission → divine clarity
• Part 3: Acts 16:6–10 — Mobility and flexibility in Spirit-led pivots

Q&A

I’m lining up Q&A episodes to pour out what God’s been teaching me during this season.

• Send your questions: tatum@tatumtemia.com

This episode digs deep into what it truly means to be bold, not in a self-glorifying or performative way, but with a courage that is empowered by the Holy Spirit. We define boldness biblically, exploring its Greek root (parrēsia) and how it shows up in the lives of Peter and John as they stand before the Sanhedrin with confidence and conviction.

Tatum also brings in Numbers 30 to confront how many of us mask passiveness as patience or humility when it is actually disobedience. You’ll walk away from this episode with the clarity to recognize whether your hesitation is humility or hidden fear, and the spiritual tools to begin choosing obedience over comfort.

Other key takeaways:

• The biblical definition of boldness and how to cultivate it
• The difference between boldness, pride, and ego
• What happens when we confuse self-glorification with Spirit-led courage
• Why passiveness is not humility—and how to confront it in yourself
• Examples of modern-day Kingdom businesses that disrupt worldly systems
• The connection between time with Jesus and confidence in your calling
• How boldness helps you become a witness, not just an entrepreneur

This is a must-listen episode for anyone who is tired of playing it safe and ready to boldly obey what God has already told them to do.

Key Takeaways

• Indwelt & Led: All believers receive the Holy Spirit at salvation; the ongoing call is to be led by Him (Gal. 5:16, 18, 25).
• Rhythm > Routine: Don’t confine God to a devotional “director’s chair.” Cultivate a moment-by-moment rhythm with Him.
• Holiness is the Goal: The Spirit’s primary work is Christ-likeness, not quick answers about jobs, money, or moves.
• Battle Before the Battle: Win the mental war first—guard thoughts, take them captive, and preoccupy your mind with truth.
• Scripture = Sword: Use specific verses to confront specific lies; memorize and speak them out loud.
• Focus Forms Direction: “What we focus on, we drift toward.” Set your mind on the Spirit to avoid fulfilling the flesh.

Scripture References

• Galatians 5:16, 18, 25 — Walk/keep in step with the Spirit
• Ephesians 5:18 — Filled with the Spirit
• 1 Corinthians 12:13 — One Spirit, one body
• 1 John 4:13 — Assurance by His Spirit
• Romans 6:11–14 — Dead to sin, alive to God
• Romans 12:2 — Renew your mind
• Colossians 3:2 — Set your mind on things above
• Philippians 4:8 — Think on what is true
• 2 Corinthians 10:5 — Take thoughts captive
• 1 Peter 1:13; 3:9; 4:19 — Sober-minded, repay evil with blessing, entrust to a faithful Creator
• Ephesians 6:17 — The word as the sword of the Spirit

Practical Homework

1. List Your Speculations & Struggles: Recurring daydreams, fantasies, mental loops.
2. Find Targeted Verses: Use a study Bible/concordance to match each area with Scripture.
3. Memorize & Speak Aloud: Put verses on cards, phone lock screen, mirror, or desk. Say them out loud daily.
4. Accountability: Share your list with a trusted friend and review weekly.
5. Pray for Sensitivity: Ask the Holy Spirit to flag thoughts not in harmony with truth.

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In this episode, I share a recent testimony about what happened when I surrendered control, unpack why the Bible calls us to release it, and walk through case studies of the Rich Young Ruler and Paul to show the difference between clinging to control and living surrendered.

You’ll learn:

• Why control is a stronghold and how it quenches the Spirit (1 Thessalonians 5:19)
• How control shows up as a cognitive distortion
• The root issue of trust and how to rebuild it
• A practical Weekly Surrender Challenge to live this out

This episode will equip you to exchange control for surrender and experience the internal harmony God desires for you.

Tatum explains how suppression—pushing down emotions like sadness, joy, fear, or anger—creates distance between us and the Holy Spirit, damages our bodies, and leads to emotional isolation. Drawing from biblical truth, she highlights how Jesus and David modeled emotional embodiment, reminding listeners that emotional honesty is not weakness—it’s worship.

This episode is a call to stop striving and start surrendering. You’ll walk away with biblical study tools, a mantra (“We don’t suppress, we submit”), and simple, life-changing practices that foster rhythm, not routine.

Inside this episode:

• The difference between disembodiment and suppression
• How suppression affects your business and leadership
• Real-life strategies for walking in internal harmony
• Biblical case studies from Psalms + the life of Jesus
• Encouragement for Black women & high-achieving Christian entrepreneurs

Scripture focus includes John 11:35, Luke 22:44, Psalm 6, Psalm 51, and more.

Dr. Sharla breaks down the difference between holy ambition — God-given zeal rooted in peace, identity, and purpose — versus anxious ambition fueled by pressure, fear, and the need to prove yourself. Using biblical examples like Saul, Martha, and Nehemiah, she unpacks how to discern your drive, pace yourself with God, and protect your assignment from distraction.

Whether you’re in business, ministry, or simply navigating life, this episode will give you practical tools to align your ambition with God’s will — so you’re moving in purpose, not just in motion.

Tune in now and make sure you subscribe to The Prescription for Purpose Podcast so you never miss an episode that will keep you rooted in faith, focused on purpose, and equipped to thrive in every area of life.

You’ll learn:

Key Takeaways

• Why harmony is more sustainable than balance in life and business
• The difference between external harmony (systems, productivity) and internal harmony (peace, alignment, presence)
• How disembodiment looks in daily life: ignoring hunger, pushing through pain, numbing emotions, and being physically present but mentally absent
• How it shows up in business: over-functioning, leading from performance instead of presence, disconnected identity, and neglecting Spirit-led decision making
• Root causes backed by research — including trauma, perfectionism, performance-based childhoods, church culture, and over-reliance on logic
• Generational breakdown of how Gen X, Millennials, and Gen Z experience disembodiment differently
• What the Bible shows us about embodiment through the life of Jesus: feeling emotions (John 11:35), resting even in storms (Mark 4:38), and being present enough to sense spiritual exchange (Luke 8:45–46)

Practical Steps to Reconnect:

• Address the root cause — through therapy, prayer, fasting, and surrender to God
• Body scans — regularly pause to check in with how you feel physically and emotionally
• Schedule pauses & stillness — add intentional breaks to slow down and be present
• Involve your support system — ask heart questions, not just head questions, and invite accountability
• Replace old habits — build patterns that align with your identity in Christ instead of survival mode

If you’ve ever felt productive on the outside but disconnected on the inside, this episode will help you:

-Recognize the signs of disembodiment

- Identify your personal root causes

-Begin practical and spiritual steps toward true embodiment that honors God, fosters peace, and strengthens your leadership in life and business

This episode explores the difference between reacting and responding, how to stop intellectualizing your faith, and why focus is the bridge between anxiety and peace. Tatum breaks down three biblical truths that can become daily affirmations rooted in scripture:

1. The Holy Spirit indwells you,
2. He is the life of Christ in you,
3. He is willing and able to produce Christ's character through you.

She encourages listeners to shift their focus from self-help affirmations to Holy Spirit-led declarations and offers strategies like building God's track record, preemptive morning declarations, and journaling answered prayers. Using the story of David and Goliath, she outlines how to activate faith before willpower, reminding us that walking in the Spirit is about surrender, focus, and confidence in God's promises.

Whether you're facing daily stressors, emotional overwhelm, or spiritual stagnation, this episode gives you the tools to live a Spirit-filled life—not just on Sundays, but every single day.

Prayer to Start Your Day in Victory:

Lord, I claim the victory right now over the giant of [insert your giant here]. I recognize that this giant is coming up against the Christ in me. Just as you defeated this giant when you walked on this earth, you can defeat it through me now—for you are my life. I trust you to produce peace and self-control through me. I cannot handle what is to come, but you can. Respond through me. When the pressure comes, remind me that the battle is yours. Amen.

Tatum introduces the concept of internal vs. external harmony, showing that while routines and logistics matter, true peace comes from spiritual alignment, emotional presence, and abiding in Christ. She offers biblically-rooted, science-backed tools to help you slow down, re-engage your senses, and practice stillness so you can reconnect with God and yourself.

Whether you're a woman juggling multiple roles or simply longing for more peace and clarity, this episode offers a holistic path forward. Expect to walk away with practical steps—like mindful breathing, meditating on scripture, nature walks, grounding exercises, sleep routines, journaling prompts, and fasting from information overload—to combat mental fatigue and restore harmony from the inside out.

Plus, Tatum opens up about meditating on Galatians 2:20 and why high-performing women often turn to productivity over presence. Don’t miss this deep, transparent, and transformational conversation on the path to peace through God’s presence.

Tatum draws a striking parallel between Charles Stanley’s breakthrough and her own need to resist self-sufficiency and embrace the Holy Spirit’s power. Through practical takeaways—like meditating on Galatians 2:20, creating margin for God’s presence, and allowing grace to reset your internal pace—this episode offers a refreshing invitation to stop doing and start depending. Whether you’re in ministry, motherhood, business, or all three, this episode will help you reposition your heart, reclaim your peace, and surrender control so the Spirit can bear fruit through you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Book: The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley – https://a.co/d/9kGb5fB
• Key Scripture: Galatians 2:20, John 15:1-5, Romans 8:9-10, Colossians 3:4

Key Takeaways:

• The Christian life is not about producing fruit—it's about abiding so the Spirit can bear fruit through you.
• The dangers of spiritual compartmentalization—when the Spirit is active in ministry but absent in private life.
• Strategies for reconnecting with the Holy Spirit when life gets overwhelming.
• Why busyness and blessings can still be distractions from intimacy with God.
• How Charles Stanley’s surrender moment unlocked continuous victory and how you can apply the same posture of prayer.

Using Paul’s sermon to the intellectual elite in Athens as the foundation, this episode breaks down how Paul studied the culture, respected his audience, and delivered the Gospel in a way that resonated deeply—all without compromising the truth.

Tatum explains how these same strategies apply to business today, from adjusting your brand messaging based on audience psychographics to adapting your offers and content for different platforms or markets. She also shares practical examples (from YouVersion to McDonald’s global menus) and offers 3 concrete ways to start applying these principles in your own brand—whether you’re already in business or preparing to launch.

If you’re a faith-led entrepreneur looking to improve your marketing, messaging, or audience engagement while staying true to the Word, this episode is your blueprint.

📖 Scripture:

Acts 17:22–31 (NLT)

Paul contextualizes the gospel for the Athenians at the Areopagus, modeling how to reach new audiences with truth and strategy.

Key Takeaways:

• Cultural Intelligence (CQ) is the ability to understand the values, behaviors, and worldview of the people you're called to serve.
• Contextualization is delivering your message in a way that’s relevant, understandable, and compelling—without changing the truth.
• Paul didn’t compromise; he customized the way he shared truth to meet people where they were.
• Business owners must do the same with their brand messaging, sales strategies, and offers.

3 Ways to Apply This in Your Business:

1. Use Your Audience’s Language – Mirror the words your audience uses to describe their problems and desires.
2. Tailor Messaging for Each Platform – Adapt your content for Instagram vs. TikTok vs. LinkedIn vs. YouTube.
3. Adapt Your Offers for Specific Audiences – Adjust your product packaging, pricing, or delivery to match the needs of different segments within your niche.

This episode isn’t tied up in a bow. It’s a real-time reflection on what it means to be holy and human—to love God deeply, but also feel hurt, to trust Him fully, and still ask “Why?”

If you've ever:

• Felt sure you heard from God but the result didn’t match,
• Struggled with disappointment while trying to remain faithful,
• Wrestled with postpartum emotions, trauma, or spiritual confusion,
• Needed language for navigating your feelings while staying close to God...

This episode is for you.

Tatum reminds us that even in our confusion, God is still near, and we can give Him our broken hearts to heal—even before the revelation comes.

Key Takeaways:

• How to process disappointment with God without pulling away from Him
• Why your feelings are valid and don’t disqualify your faith
• The enemy’s strategy to use spiritual vulnerability for warfare
• How to stay committed even when you don’t have clarity
• The beauty of surrendering your heart before the “aha moment” comes

Scriptures Mentioned:

• Job 13:15 – “Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him.”
• Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted…”
• Isaiah 55:8–9 – “My thoughts are not your thoughts…”
• Proverbs 3:5 – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart…”
• John 11 (Martha & Lazarus – the tension of faith and grief)

Share This Episode With:

• A woman navigating postpartum emotions or birth trauma
• Anyone who feels disappointed by God or let down by an outcome
• A friend who needs a reminder that God can handle her questions and still be trusted

Tatum kicks off this episode by sharing a major life update—she is officially a mom of three, having welcomed her baby girl on June 10th. While she’s not taking a full maternity leave, she’ll be easing back into content with a mix of fresh and replayed episodes through the start of July. She invites listeners to lean into these timely throwbacks, trusting that the Holy Spirit is still speaking through them.

Bible on Business Series Begins

This episode officially launches the Bible on Business series—a comprehensive, in-depth look at how biblical principles apply to leadership and entrepreneurship. Tatum unpacks the first message in the series, focusing on what it means to be a shepherd in business and how entrepreneurs can adopt the characteristics of Christ in how they serve their audiences.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

• Why God is calling Christian entrepreneurs to shepherd His people, not just serve customers
• The surprising similarities between sheep and consumer behavior (brand loyalty, dependency, vulnerability, and more)
• How to lead with love, patience, and spiritual integrity—even when things go wrong
• Biblical examples of shepherding leadership: Matthew 18, John 21, Acts 20, and 1 Peter 2
• How to recover from mistakes in business with humility and restoration
• Why consecration and devotion are essential for long-term leadership impact

Practical Applications:

• How to re-engage inactive clients or community members like the parable of the lost sheep
• Tips for sacrificial leadership in tough business seasons
• Creating systems and rhythms to stay spiritually aligned while leading in the marketplace

Featured Scriptures:

• Matthew 18:12–14
• John 21:15–17
• Acts 20:28
• 1 Peter 2:25
• 1 John 2:27

Episode Summary:

In this powerful episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum shares an unfiltered testimony of entrepreneurship, spiritual warfare, and God's faithfulness through seasons of pressure. Beginning with a prophetic insight about not being swayed by metrics in this current season, she unpacks the biblical story of Noah as a template for endurance in business.

Tatum walks us through her real-life journey of purchasing Anchored Media Studios, facing unexpected financial pressure, laying off team members, and enduring what felt like a wilderness season—all while staying obedient to God's instructions. This episode is more than encouragement; it's a blueprint for those navigating long seasons of testing and waiting.

Whether you're in a slow season, feeling discouraged, or questioning if your business will survive, this episode reminds you that endurance is part of the calling—and God rewards those who remain faithful under pressure.

Key Takeaways:

• Endurance ≠ failure. It’s the strategy that qualifies you for promotion.
• Do not misread your season. Lack of results does not mean lack of favor.
• Remain under the weight. Some suffering is your portion, not your punishment.
• Obedience breeds provision. God gave Tatum specific instructions that led to breakthrough.
• Testimonies inspire transformation. Your perseverance encourages others to keep going.

Scriptural References:

• Genesis 6–9 (Noah’s obedience during corrupt times)
• James 5:11 (Job and endurance)
• Romans 4:20–21 (Abraham’s faith)
• Hebrews 11:1 (Faith in the unseen)

Practical Applications:

1. Have faith in the unseen. Follow God’s instruction even if you see no results.
2. Persevere through the challenges. Know that pressure is producing something.
3. Endure delayed gratification. God’s timing is not your timing—but it’s perfect.
4. Trust God’s timeline. Waiting is a sign of maturity, not a waste of time.
5. Know your testimony matters. Someone else’s breakthrough depends on your endurance.

📌 Announcements:

• New episodes will resume early July. Until then, enjoy these Spirit-led throwbacks.
• Please continue supporting our sponsors—they make this show possible!

⚠️ Heads up: Any products mentioned in this episode (such as signed books or tour leftovers) are no longer available—unless noted otherwise on Amazon.

In This Episode:

Whether you’re already planning for the new year or trying to catch your breath from the current one, this episode is a wake-up call. Tatum shares why now is the perfect time to take a digital detox—especially if you're constantly consuming content, hopping on trends, or feeling pressure to do more just because everyone else is.

She breaks down the two types of entrepreneurs who often spiral in Q4 (“super consumers” and “super strategists”) and offers practical advice on how to unplug and hear from God clearly. You’ll walk away with clarity, strategy, and peace of mind.

Tatum shares the full message she gave during the Christian Content Creator Town Hall—one that God originally gave her in private prayer. In it, she challenges believers to stop striving to be content creators and step fully into their call as thought leaders. She explains the difference between the two, gives a biblical foundation (including how Jesus, Paul, and other leaders demonstrated thought leadership), and offers actionable steps to make the shift.

Whether you're a podcaster, coach, author, or creative—this episode will reframe your mindset, align your purpose with heaven’s agenda, and help you build something with eternal impact.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• The distinction between content creators and thought leaders
• Why building solely on social platforms is a risky strategy
• How Jesus and Paul modeled thought leadership in scripture
• The long-term benefits of creating original frameworks and IP
• Practical ways to build a thought leadership brand that glorifies God
• Why thought leadership is a form of consecrated creativity

Scripture References:

• Romans 12:2
• Matthew 7:28–29
• Matthew 13
• Matthew 5:21–22
• 1 Corinthians, Galatians, and other Pauline epistles

Your Homework:

Study these biblical figures as thought leaders:

• Moses
• Nehemiah
• Daniel
• Esther
• Solomon
• John the Baptist
• Paul

Though she won’t be taking an official maternity leave, she shares what listeners can expect in the coming weeks, including a few re-aired episodes handpicked by the Holy Spirit to speak to listeners in this season. This episode, recorded before baby girl's arrival, is part of the ongoing Bible on Business series and explores a message that’s been brewing in Tatum's heart: redefining success from a kingdom perspective.

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Episode Summary:

In this powerfully honest episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum shares the joyous news of becoming a mother of three and opens up about how this life transition has deeply influenced her perspective on success. As part of the ongoing Bible on Business series, Tatum dives into the book of Ecclesiastes, unpacking its sobering wisdom and how it challenges our modern pursuit of wealth, achievement, and recognition.

This isn’t just another motivational message—this is a spiritual detox. Tatum dismantles the false doctrine of prosperity theology, exposes the hidden costs of hustle culture, and reveals how many Christian entrepreneurs are unknowingly caught in a counterfeit version of success. Through scripture, statistics, and heartfelt reflection, she encourages us to reevaluate what we’re building and why.

If you’ve ever felt anxious about not being "far enough along," tired from trying to keep up with others, or confused about what God really wants for your life and business—this episode will set you free. It’s time to reset your vision with a biblically grounded point of view.

In This Episode, You'll Learn:

• Why Tatum kept her third pregnancy private and how her faith journey shaped the experience
• How Ecclesiastes brings clarity about purpose, mortality, and God’s sovereignty
• Why the world’s definition of success leads to burnout, anxiety, and discontent
• How prosperity theology twists scripture and keeps believers bound
• The truth about biblical success, contentment, and God’s provision
• How to reset your mindset before planning your next business move or setting 2025 goals

Scripture References:

• Ecclesiastes (entire book)
• Philippians 4:19
• Malachi 3:10
• Matthew 6:24, 6:31–33
• Joshua 1:8
• 1 Timothy 6:17–19
• James 1:2–4
• Philippians 4:11–13

Tatum shares her own personal reflections and struggles as she, like many of us, wrestles with the temptation to take control instead of surrendering to God. Drawing from Charles Stanley’s vulnerable moment of spiritual breakthrough and her own season of faith, she explores the liberating truth that the Spirit-filled life is not a formula—it’s a relationship.

You’ll learn:

• Why striving, begging, or waiting for the Holy Spirit misses the point
• The theological and biblical basis for understanding Spirit-infilling as immediate at salvation—not a second-hand experience
• The critical distinction between being filled with the Spirit vs. being filled by the Spirit (Ephesians 5:18)
• How to recognize if you’re living in survival mode instead of surrender mode—and how to switch postures
• Why dependence and surrender are the prerequisites for Spirit-led leadership, peace, and purpose
• How to study the Holy Spirit biblically: comparing Acts vs. the Epistles

This is more than a book club episode—this is a call to shift your spiritual posture from doing for God to being with God. Let this episode lead you into deeper intimacy, greater peace, and more powerful impact.

📌 Reflection Questions from Chapter 4:

Take time to prayerfully reflect and journal your answers:

1. Have you ever found yourself begging, bargaining, or pleading with God for some spiritual change in your life?
2. Have you worked hard trying to earn something from God that’s freely given?
3. Have you assumed it's your responsibility to wait on the Holy Spirit to fill you?
4. Have you been frustrated with how to be filled with the Holy Spirit?
5. Have you come to a place of total dependence and total surrender to God?

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What biblical perseverance really means (hint: it’s not just “pushing through”)
• How to apply Acts 14 & 16 to your business strategy
• The difference between godly grit and emotional striving
• How to view business failure through a Kingdom lens
• Why legacy takes long-term faith, not short-term emotion
• How Howard Schultz used perseverance to build Starbucks after hundreds of rejections

Referenced Episode:

➡️ Pushing Through vs Persevering: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/236ef1be/perseverance-vs-pushing-through

We’re spotlighting an incredible episode from the Marriage, Motherhood & PTSD podcast, hosted by Coach Leah Huggins. Originally created for military wives navigating the effects of PTSD in marriage, this show now speaks to every woman carrying the weight of life, relationships, motherhood, and purpose—especially those doing it all while feeling like they’re running on empty.

In this featured episode, Beating Burnout: Reclaiming Peace When Running On Fumes, Coach Leah unpacks what burnout really looks like and how to begin healing from it—mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. If you’ve been stretched too thin, silently struggling, or just trying to keep it all together, this episode offers biblical truth, personal wisdom, and practical tools to help you reset.

You’ll learn:

• The hidden signs of burnout (and why it’s not always obvious)
• How PTSD, trauma, and chronic stress affect your energy and peace
• Biblical examples of emotional fatigue—like Elijah—and how God responds
• Tools for nervous system regulation, rest, and soul-care
• How to start setting boundaries that honor both God and yourself
• An introduction to the Stress Less Workbook, a life budgeting tool for your peace

🎧 Tune in now and discover why Marriage, Motherhood & PTSD is becoming a go-to podcast for Christian women navigating hard seasons without losing themselves in the process.

🔗 New episodes of Marriage, Motherhood & PTSD are available everywhere you get your podcasts! https://redcircle.com/shows/f1832fdb-4023-4aa4-bf26-b178c2113bb3

Key Points Covered:

A verse-by-verse breakdown of Acts 15:1–21 highlighting how conflict was handled in the early church.

The importance of mastering soft skills like conflict resolution for business success and Christian witness.

Data-backed insights on how most people avoid conflict and how that avoidance leads to stress, anxiety, and fractured relationships.

The impact of digital communication on our ability to address issues directly and with empathy.

Tatum’s personal experiences with conflict in business and the lessons she’s learned over the years.

The biblical model of addressing disagreements with humility, truth, community, and clear communication.

Introduction of the PEACE method, a five-step framework based on Acts 15.

The PEACE Method for Conflict Resolution:

P – Pause and Pray: Take a moment before responding. Seek the Holy Spirit’s guidance.

E – Examine the Root Issue: Go beyond surface-level problems to uncover the true cause of the conflict.

A – Approach with Empathy and Accountability: Listen more than you speak. Own your role and respond with grace and truth.

C – Collaborate on a Christ-Centered Solution: Aim for reconciliation, not just resolution. Propose outcomes that honor God and preserve unity.

E – Establish Next Steps: Clarify decisions and expectations. Put agreements in writing to avoid future confusion.

Save the PEACE acronym as a reminder the next time conflict arises in your business or ministry. Use it to remain rooted in biblical truth while navigating difficult conversations.

This chapter highlights the difference between simply believing in the Holy Spirit and actively living a Spirit-filled life. Tatum discusses how many believers, though saved and sincere, may not be experiencing the fullness of the Holy Spirit because He is not fully activated in their daily lives. Stanley’s transparency about his own struggle brings clarity and hope for those who want to experience more of God but aren’t sure how.

Through practical application and biblical insight, this episode challenges listeners to consider their own level of intimacy with the Holy Spirit. It’s not just about having Him present, but about allowing Him to fully take residence and lead. The chapter also touches on being sealed by the Spirit and the confidence we can have in knowing that God has taken up permanent residence within us.

Reflection Prompt:

Take a moment to meditate on these two truths:

1. The Holy Spirit is God.
2. The Holy Spirit lives in me.

What do these truths mean for your daily life? How should they affect your thoughts, decisions, character, relationships, and sense of purpose?

Scriptures Mentioned (in order of appearance):

1 Corinthians 6:19

1 Corinthians 13:12

Genesis 1:1–3

Colossians 1:13–16

Genesis 1:26

Genesis 1:27

Acts 5:1–4

Hebrews 9:14

John 20:22

Acts 1:8

1 John 3:24

1 Thessalonians 4:8

1 Peter 1:11

Galatians 4:6

1 Corinthians 3:16–17

Romans 8:9

Romans 8:11

2 Timothy 1:14

Jeremiah 31:31–34

Mark 15:38

Ephesians 1:13–14

Matthew 27:66

Revelation 20:3

Revelation 7:4–8

Revelation 14:1–5

Ephesians 4:30

Book Featured

The Spirit-Filled Life: Discover the Joy of Surrendering to the Holy Spirit by Charles Stanley https://a.co/d/ceKoWk3

Share this episode with a friend who is seeking more of God and trying to step into the calling on their life with confidence and clarity.

Tatum dives into Galatians 5:25 and unpacks what it truly means to "keep in step with the Spirit." She contrasts rhythm vs. routine, exploring why many believers struggle to remain connected to God in their daily grind, and how reclaiming spiritual rhythm—rooted in abiding, alignment, obedient action, and reflection—can transform not just your business, but your entire life.

This episode is for the believer who's tired of burnout, hungry for clarity, and ready to build what God saw before He formed them. If you're ready to stop sprinkling Jesus onto your plans and start submitting to His, this conversation is your blueprint.

What You’ll Learn:

• The difference between routine and rhythm—and why rhythm is more biblical and fruitful.
• The true meaning of Galatians 5:25 and its call to live Spirit-led daily.
• Psychological and spiritual reasons we struggle to abide with God consistently.
• How to build your business from a place of intimacy, not ambition.
• A practical four-part system: Abide, Align, Act, Assess—for keeping in sync with God in every business season.

Key Scriptures:

• Galatians 5:25 – “Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.”
• John 15:5 – “Apart from Me, you can do nothing.”
• Luke 10:38–42 – Martha vs. Mary on routine vs. rhythm.
• Exodus 16 – God’s provision of manna and the daily rhythm of trust.
• Mark 1:35, John 5:19 – Jesus’ example of ministry led by presence, not pressure.

Business + Faith Takeaways:

• Routines may be efficient, but rhythms anchor you to presence.
• Strategy should be Spirit-led—not stress-driven.
• Aligning with God’s timing produces peace, flexibility, and more fruit.
• Obedience matters more than optics or output.

Resources & Related Episodes:

• How to Make Spirit-Led Business Decisions – Part 1: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/3c5c4d42/how-to-make-spirit-led-business-decisions-pt-1
• Worship, Fasting, and Divine Strategy – Part 2: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/1edd3a2b/how-to-make-spirit-led-business-decisions-pt-2
• Mobility + Flexibility in Business – Part 3: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/21747377/how-to-make-spirit-led-business-decisions-pt-3
• How to Have a Business Meeting with God: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/515b3ca9/196-how-to-have-a-business-meeting-with-god
• Digital Detox Episode: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/50e68525/251-take-a-digital-break-sis

From church traditions and misinformation to real encounters with the Spirit of God, this episode breaks down misconceptions and invites you into a deeper awareness and relationship with the Holy Spirit—not as an “it,” but as the living, active, thinking, and feeling person He is.

If you've ever felt confused, intimidated, or even unsure about who the Holy Spirit is and how He operates in your life, this episode will meet you with truth, grace, and clarity. You’ll walk away equipped to recognize the fingerprints of the Spirit in your day-to-day life and encouraged to surrender to the divine guidance available to you.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:

• The biblical identity of the Holy Spirit as a person—not a force or an “it”
• Why speaking in tongues is not the only evidence of being Spirit-filled
• The key tasks of the Holy Spirit (with Scripture references)
• How to discern between conviction and condemnation
• Personal stories of early confusion and real encounters with the Holy Spirit
• Practical steps to develop greater awareness and relationship with the Holy Spirit

SCRIPTURES MENTIONED:

• John 16:8–11 – Conviction
• John 16:12–15 – Illumination and Teaching
• Romans 8:14 – Guidance
• Romans 8:16 – Assurance
• Romans 8:26 – Intercession
• Acts 20:22–23 – Direction and Warnings
• 1 Corinthians 2:11–12, 1 Corinthians 12:11 – Knowledge and Will of the Spirit
• Ephesians 4:30, Romans 15:30 – Emotion of the Spirit

CHALLENGE FOR THE WEEK:

• Reflect on the tasks of the Holy Spirit mentioned in the episode and look for them in your daily life.
• Ask yourself: Have I been guilty of ignoring the Holy Spirit?
• Begin to intentionally acknowledge Him as a person and seek to develop a daily awareness of His work in your life.

GET THE BOOK:

Grab your physical copy of The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley and follow along with our Book Club! https://amzn.to/43i0044

If you’re someone who knows you’re called but keeps facing closed doors, delays, or redirections that don’t make sense, this message is for you. Tatum speaks to the emotional and spiritual tension of following God with excellence while trusting Him to guide every step—even when plans change.

She also shares a personal story about obeying the Holy Spirit with no confirmation and how that decision ultimately protected her and her family. This episode will shift your mindset around delays, reframe how you view closed doors, and help you move forward with peace and confidence.

Key Takeaways

• A closed door is not failure—it can be divine redirection.
• The Holy Spirit often leads us as we move, not before.
• Flexibility and mobility are vital for kingdom entrepreneurs.
• Being spiritual is not the same as being Spirit-led.
• Obedience does not always come with external confirmation.
• The people God is calling you to serve are already prepared to receive you.

Scripture Focus

• Acts 16:6–10 (ESV and The Message)
• Proverbs 16:9
• Romans 8:14
• Galatians 5:25

This Episode is For You If:

• You are clear about your calling but uncertain about next steps.
• You’ve experienced unexpected closed doors and felt discouraged.
• You struggle to distinguish between faith and fear in business decisions.
• You are tired of waiting for external confirmation before obeying God.
• You want to operate in peace rather than anxiety as you build your business.

Topics Covered

• Strategic planning vs. spiritual discernment
• What to do when you face delays, pivots, or redirections
• The importance of maintaining spiritual rhythm in business
• How over-attachment to your vision can block divine movement
• The role of fear and anxiety in clouding discernment
• How obedience leads to favor and alignment with your ideal clients

Tatum opens up about how her passion for business, once ignited by God, slowly became routine... heavy... even burdensome. Sound familiar? Whether it’s your faith, your work, or your purpose — if you've ever wondered why the fire doesn’t feel the same anymore, this episode will meet you where you are.

This week kicks off our new Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club series on The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley, a deeply personal and theologically grounded guide to rediscovering the joy, peace, and power that comes from truly living led by the Holy Spirit.

Through honest reflection and raw storytelling, Tatum explores what it means to surrender again — not just your business goals, but your heart, your weariness, your routine, your emotions — all of it. She shares how the Holy Spirit met her right where she was, not in perfection, but in her honesty.

This episode is a permission slip to stop striving and start abiding.

You’ll Hear About:

• Why May is a personal turning point for Tatum in faith, family, and entrepreneurship
• How The Spirit-Filled Life meets you in dry, discouraged seasons
• The truth about burnout in faith and business—and how the Holy Spirit revives
• What makes the Christian walk different from striving in your own strength
• Practical ways to assess if you’re truly living Spirit-led
• How to prepare your heart to journey with us through this book

Discussion Questions (from the book’s “Think About It” section):

• Is there a vast difference between what you experienced as a new believer and what you're experiencing now?
• Do you know Christians who just seem to have something or know something that you don't?
• What makes you different from friends who aren't believers?
• Peace, joy, and love—are they evident in your life?
• What can you currently attribute to the power of the Holy Spirit in your life?
• How would you explain what it means to be filled with the Holy Spirit?

Call to Action:

Grab a physical copy of The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley. This one isn’t just for reading—it’s for highlighting, journaling, and letting God speak to you in the margins: https://amzn.to/43ahrnj

ournal through the questions in this episode. Write honestly. Cry if you need to. The goal is not performance—it’s surrender.

🎧 Listen and subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you tune in. Share this episode with a friend who feels like they’re running on empty.

Using 2 Kings 4:1–7 as the anchor text, Tatum unpacks the story of a desperate widow, divine instruction, and miraculous provision. Through this narrative, she walks listeners through how wise counsel played a key role in this woman’s breakthrough—and how we can discern and apply the same principles in our own lives and businesses.

This conversation isn’t just about avoiding deception—it’s about equipping you to hear from God clearly in a noisy world and ensuring that those you go to for advice are truly led by the Spirit.

Main Points Covered:

• Why this episode is being reposted: Tatum shares the intention behind revisiting this message—to reinforce the importance of spiritual discernment, especially as believers are often influenced by online voices and virtual leaders.
• Biblical Foundation: 2 Kings 4:1–7 is explored in-depth as a model for how God uses wise counsel to deliver strategy and provision.
• Discerning Influence: The difference between godly counsel and well-meaning but misaligned advice.
• Spiritual Maturity: Why humility, biblical grounding, and discernment are non-negotiables for those we allow to guide us.

Five Characteristics of Wise Counsel:

1. God-Centered: They fear the Lord and submit their advice to what God is saying—not just what works.
2. Biblically Sound: Their guidance aligns with scripture in full context and is rooted in truth.
3. Discerning: They are able to perceive beyond surface issues and speak to the root.
4. Humble and Teachable: They don’t lead with ego or accolades, but with a heart postured toward serving and hearing from God.
5. Experienced and Spiritually Mature: Their track record is submitted to God, and their insight is seasoned by both time and obedience.

Examples of Wise and Unwise Counsel in Scripture:

• Moses and Jethro – Exodus 18:13–24
• Paul and Timothy – 2 Timothy 1:6–7
• Rehoboam and His Advisors – 1 Kings 12:6–15 (a case study in ignoring wise counsel)

Tatum’s Encouragement:

You don’t always have time to vet people when crisis hits. That’s why building relationships with biblically sound, Spirit-led leaders before you’re in need is essential. Don’t wait until you're overwhelmed to figure out who you can trust. Use this episode as a guide to start evaluating your circle now.

Key Points:

• Context of Acts 13: Shift from Jerusalem to Antioch, highlighting the transition from Peter’s leadership to Paul’s.
• Divine Strategy is Birthed from Worship and Fasting:
• Barnabas and Saul’s commissioning came in the middle of an existing posture of worship, not a strategic session seeking next steps.
• Application: Do not seek God only for strategy—pursue a lifestyle of submission, intimacy, and service.
• Beware of Misaligned Spiritual Leadership:
• Many modern Christian entrepreneurs and believers are spiritually "thirsty," making them vulnerable to deception.
• Importance of properly discerning who lays hands on you or influences your spiritual walk and business decisions.
• Principles for Discerning Spiritual Leadership:

1. Test their confession of Jesus (1 John 4:1-3).
2. Test the fruit of their life (Matthew 7:15-20).
3. Test alignment with Scripture (Galatians 1:8-9; Isaiah 8:20).
4. Test through the witness of the Holy Spirit (John 16:13).

• Practical Application:
• Ask key questions:
• Does this person exalt the true Jesus or themselves?
• Does their life consistently produce holy fruit?
• Are their teachings aligned fully with Scripture?
• Does the Holy Spirit bear witness within you regarding their message and conduct?
• Take your time before accepting any prophetic word or impartation. It is wise to "wait and see" rather than rushing based on emotions.
• Personal Story:
• Tatum shares her own journey of being patient during a wilderness season and how God’s deposits led to the launch of Anchored Media and her continued success, underscoring the power of patience and submission.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley – [Grab your copy here] https://a.co/d/cBARYuE
• Bible references: Acts 13:1-4, 1 John 4:1-3, Matthew 7:15-20, Galatians 1:8-9, Isaiah 8:20, John 16:13

Call to Action:

• Reflect: Are you seeking God’s hand or His heart first?
• Evaluate: Apply the principles of spiritual discernment shared today to your current business community and spiritual influences.
• Prepare: Join the Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club as we start The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley. The journey to spirit-led entrepreneurship continues.

Listen to Part 1 of this series here: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/3c5c4d42/how-to-make-spirit-led-business-decisions-pt-1

About The Get Back Chat

The Get Back Chat is not your typical teaching-style podcast. It’s a testimony-driven audio journal where real stories meet raw faith. Each episode offers a safe, honest space for listeners to reflect, relate, and ultimately return to God. Inspired by Revelation 12:11, Hope shares her journey of falling away and finding her way back—one moment of obedience, surrender, and sanctification at a time.

If you've ever felt unseen, stuck, or unsure about your next step, this podcast will meet you there.

If you’ve ever whispered “God knows my heart” while running from His call, if you've ever wondered how to get your life back, or if you’re walking through a season of rediscovery—this podcast is for you.

Hope’s honesty, humor, and humility make her stories feel like conversations with a trusted friend. It’s not about perfection, but pursuit.

🔗 Subscribe, rate, and review The Get Back Chat wherever you listen to podcasts.

New episodes drop every Thursday. Don’t miss what God is doing through this powerful new voice: https://redcircle.com/shows/the-get-back-chat

Key Takeaways:

• Faithfulness, not just gifting, is what sustains legacy-driven leadership
• Obedience and focus are non-negotiables for fulfilling God’s assignments
• Small daily decisions compound into long-term spiritual impact
• Distractions often appear as good opportunities but can derail divine purpose
• Faithfulness in unseen moments often produces the greatest rewards
• Leadership requires submission to God’s process, even when it’s inconvenient
• God uses faithful people to shift culture and history, just as He did with Wilberforce

Next Book Club Pick:

The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley

Start reading Chapter 1 for next week’s discussion.

Tatum also shares a powerful testimony about Anchored Media Studios being awarded the 2025 Peerspace Open Doors Award and reflects on the importance of celebrating wins, even when they don’t directly reflect financial gain. With personal insight and biblical application, this episode gives you practical tools to discern God's voice, remain obedient in seasons of uncertainty, and be led by the Spirit in every decision you make.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why Spirit-led strategy always outperforms worldly business tactics
• The biblical context and business application of Acts 8
• How to know if what you're hearing is truly from God
• What to do when your platform, profits, or progress feel like they’re shrinking
• The power of journaling and intentional reflection in building spiritual sensitivity
• Why one act of obedience can change nations
• How Tatum is applying these lessons in her own businesses and platform

Resources Mentioned:

• Book Club Pick: The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley: https://amzn.to/4ji32MG
• Episode referenced: Testimony of building Anchored Media Studios https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/24590588/faith-endurance-and-eight-years-of-gods-grace
• Visit: www.blessedandbossedup.com to search episode topics and listen to past shows

To learn more about Anchored Media Studios, visit: https://www.anchoredmediastudios.com/

This episode doesn’t stop at theory. Tatum explores how parentification in women—a form of early responsibility in childhood—can lead to self-reliance and performance-based Christianity in adulthood. With honesty and vulnerability, she shares how endurance has shown up in her own walk as a business owner, wife, and mother. Using both scripture and psychological insights, she offers clarity, healing, and practical encouragement for women who feel like they’ve been “the strong one” for too long.

Listeners will walk away with:

• A biblical understanding of endurance as a non-negotiable in leadership.
• The difference between courage rooted in ego and courage rooted in obedience.
• A call to meditate on and obey God’s Word as the foundation for success (Joshua 1:8).
• Encouragement for those walking through lonely or overwhelming seasons.

Plus, you’ll hear how disobedience—even when emotionally justified—can have lasting consequences, using Moses’ story in Numbers 20 as a sobering leadership lesson.

If you’ve struggled with staying the course or questioned your calling due to hardship, this episode will refresh your spirit and rekindle your commitment to walk out your assignment God’s way.

📚 If you know a powerful apologetics book to recommend for the next book club pick, email tatum@tatumtemia.com.

➡️ Share this episode with a friend, leave a 5-star review, and don’t forget to tune in next week as we wrap up this transformative book series.

Tatum unpacks the stark contrast between the world’s model of business growth—which prioritizes speed, profit, and control—and the Kingdom model, which is rooted in generosity, stewardship, obedience, and delegation. Using examples from Acts 2, Acts 4, and Acts 6, you’ll learn how early believers created a blueprint for scaling in alignment with God’s will.

This episode also explores what it looks like to legally own things like intellectual property and equity, without allowing an ownership mindset to lead you into pride or disobedience. Plus, hear real-world examples of companies like Hobby Lobby and Convoy of Hope that have scaled successfully while staying rooted in Kingdom values.

If you're ready to grow your business without compromising your faith, this episode is a must-listen.

Key Points:

• The difference between worldly scaling and Kingdom scaling
• How the early church modeled radical generosity and stewardship (Acts 2:44–45, Acts 4:32–37)
• Why structure and delegation are necessary for sustainable business growth (Acts 6:1–7)
• How to hold legal ownership with a heart posture of surrender
• Six characteristics of scaling a business God's way
• Case studies of Christian businesses that grew without compromise

Scriptures Referenced:

• Acts 2:44–45
• Acts 4:32–37
• Acts 6:1–7

This powerful conversation challenges us to reflect on whether we're truly following God’s instructions or simply doing what feels comfortable. From examining Saul’s partial obedience in 1 Samuel 15 to sharing her own experiences of choosing obedience over personal discomfort, Tatum offers real-life wisdom for believers called to lead.

You’ll learn:

• Why obedience is better than sacrifice—and how disobedience can block your destiny
• How to discern God’s mission for your business and operate creatively within His boundaries
• The difference between contentment and complacency
• Why unresolved authority issues may be hindering your trust and obedience to God
• The importance of repentance, sensitivity to the Holy Spirit, and quick obedience

If you're ready to move from good ideas to God-led assignments, this episode is for you.

Referenced Scripture:

• Acts 20:24
• 1 Samuel 15:19–23
• Acts 13:22
• 2 Timothy 2:20–21

Book Mentioned:

📘 Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts

Takeaways:

• Partial obedience is still disobedience.
• Obedience must override personal comfort, ambition, and logic.
• God's mission sets the parameters—your creativity thrives within those boundaries.
• Trusting God fully requires healing from past authority trauma.
• Radical obedience leads to lasting influence and spiritual legacy.

This episode digs deep into what it truly means to be bold, not in a self-glorifying or performative way, but with a courage that is empowered by the Holy Spirit. We define boldness biblically, exploring its Greek root (parrēsia) and how it shows up in the lives of Peter and John as they stand before the Sanhedrin with confidence and conviction.

Tatum also brings in Numbers 30 to confront how many of us mask passiveness as patience or humility when it is actually disobedience. You’ll walk away from this episode with the clarity to recognize whether your hesitation is humility or hidden fear, and the spiritual tools to begin choosing obedience over comfort.

Other key takeaways:

• The biblical definition of boldness and how to cultivate it
• The difference between boldness, pride, and ego
• What happens when we confuse self-glorification with Spirit-led courage
• Why passiveness is not humility—and how to confront it in yourself
• Examples of modern-day Kingdom businesses that disrupt worldly systems
• The connection between time with Jesus and confidence in your calling
• How boldness helps you become a witness, not just an entrepreneur

This is a must-listen episode for anyone who is tired of playing it safe and ready to boldly obey what God has already told them to do.

In light of everything happening in the world right now—from global conflict to economic uncertainty and political tension—I wanted to revisit a powerful conversation we had during our Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club last year.

Our first book club pick was Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyer, and one of the chapters that really resonated with so many of us was on the Anxious and Worried Mind. Given the current climate, I know a lot of people are feeling overwhelmed, unsettled, and unsure of what’s next.

As someone who lives in the D.C. area, I’ve seen firsthand how layoffs, restructuring, and instability have affected so many people I love. Whether you're here in the States or tuning in globally, I believe this episode will meet you right where you are.

So as we step into a new month and new season, I want to encourage you to fight the battle in your mind intentionally. This is a replay of a previous episode, but I believe the reminder and refresh will help you walk into this season with a renewed mindset and spiritual strength.

Let’s dive in. 💪🏾🧠🕊️

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Key points include:

• What sacrificial leadership really looks like in modern-day life and business
• The importance of honest self-reflection and spiritual maturity
• How to love and serve those you lead—professionally, personally, and spiritually
• Why boundaries, discernment, and communion with God are key to applying biblical principles in leadership
• The role of family and the tension between ministry, business, and home life

Whether you're a business owner, ministry leader, or managing your home, this episode is full of practical wisdom and honest reflection about what it means to lead like Christ—sacrificially, intentionally, and with love.

Key Scriptures:

• 2 Timothy 4:6-7
• John 12:24-25
• John 3:30

Reflective Questions:

• Are you willing to sacrifice yourself to serve those who serve you?
• How can you show those you lead that you genuinely care for them?
• Are there areas of your life where you're resisting surrender?
• Have you made family an idol, or are you trying to lead without sacrificing what matters most?

Mentioned Book:

📖 Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts – https://a.co/d/9yFuHr3

What You'll Learn in This Episode

• How to overcome fear and self-doubt when making business decisions
• The importance of seeking God's presence and acting in faith despite fear
• Why pruning seasons are necessary and how to endure them
• Biblical figures who experienced pruning and what we can learn from them
• How to determine whether your faith-based business should be an LLC, nonprofit, or social enterprise
• Steps to confidently set pricing for your services without undervaluing your work

Key Takeaways

• "Give God the opportunity to show you what is on the other side of obedience."
• "Fear will keep you from fully walking in God's plan—do not let it paralyze you."
• "Pruning is painful, but it is necessary for your next level. Endure it."

Submit Your Questions

If you have questions for a future Q&A episode, email them to tatum@tatumtemia.com.

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Through biblical examples—such as Jesus washing the disciples’ feet—this episode challenges us to reframe our perception of servanthood, ensuring that we don’t prioritize tasks over people but instead reflect Christ’s example of leadership.

Key Points:

• Servanthood is often misunderstood but is a core trait of godly leadership.
• Many leaders unintentionally place higher value on their position than on their responsibility to serve.
• Jesus’ example in John 13 teaches us that true leadership is about humility, love, and valuing others.
• The importance of maintaining dignity in leadership and how it impacts those we lead.
• Practical ways to implement a servant-leader mindset in business, ministry, and everyday life.

Reflection Questions:

1. Do you take pride in serving others, or do you see it as a means to an end?
2. How can you shift your perspective to view servanthood as dignified rather than burdensome?
3. What specific ways can you serve better in your leadership roles?

We cover:

• Red flags to watch out for when considering a business partnership
• How to identify misaligned values and ensure your business remains God-centered
• What to do when you can’t find scripture that directly applies to a business decision
• Practical steps to overcome overwhelm and hear God’s voice clearly
• How Christian entrepreneurs can build an online presence without compromising their values
• The importance of offline ministry and why in-person connections matter

This episode is packed with biblical wisdom, practical advice, and personal experiences to help you navigate business with God at the center.

Resources Mentioned:

• Life Application Study Bible – https://a.co/d/2m4J0Uz
• www.biblestudytools.com
• www.biblehub.com
• Bible Project on YouTube

Have a Bible on Business question you’d like answered in a future episode? Email me at tatum@tatumtemia.com.

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Learn more about Anchored Media: anchormediastudios.com

Join Tatum as she explores the concept of authentic humility, breaking down key takeaways from Chapter 11 and sharing how servant leadership is not just a strategy but an identity. She also reflects on how Christian entrepreneurs must navigate this principle differently in a business landscape that often operates by secular standards.

Key Takeaways:

• Why humility is not weakness but a leadership strength.
• The difference between servant leadership as a strategy vs. as an identity.
• The challenges of balancing servanthood and leadership as an entrepreneur.
• How Jesus modeled humility and how we can adopt that mindset.
• Practical ways to assess and address pride in your leadership.

If you’re looking to lead with humility while still growing a successful business, this episode is for you. Listen in for self-reflection questions and a powerful prayer to help you align your leadership with God’s vision.

Grab your copy: https://a.co/d/dKcdeU1

Key Themes & Insights:

• The Structure of Leadership:
• The book is divided into four parts: Brokenness, Uncommon Communion, Servanthood, and Radical & Immediate Obedience.
• This episode focuses on “His Direction” within the Uncommon Communion section, highlighting how leadership starts with God’s presence.
• Core Message of Christian Leadership:
• Leadership is not about having all the answers but about doing what God wants done.
• Trusting God’s process means accepting that He provides enough direction to take the next step—even if the full picture isn’t revealed right away.
• Biblical Foundations & Practical Lessons:
• Emphasis on the power of consistent communion with God, drawing from Psalm 32:8 and the example of Moses in Exodus.
• Moses’ habit of meeting with God in the tent of meeting illustrates the necessity of removing distractions and staying grounded in divine guidance.
• Four key lessons from Moses’ experience include:
• Making meeting with God a consistent habit.
• Seeking His presence away from the clamor of everyday life.
• Inspiring confidence in others by modeling a life deeply connected to God.
• Embracing an intimate, friendship-like relationship with the Lord.
• Personal Reflections & Testimonies:
• The host shares personal stories of seeking God’s direction during times of uncertainty and growth.
• A powerful vision of a ribbon cutting ceremony foreshadowed the eventual establishment of Anchored Media Studios, reinforcing that God’s assignments often unfold gradually as we obey His call.
• An honest account of the struggle between the rush to act and the need to remain in constant communion with God, reminding us to stay humble and obedient.
• Practical Guidance for Leaders:
• Prioritize time with God over chasing activity or external validation.
• Avoid relying solely on self-help or external advice; instead, cultivate a deep, personal relationship with the Lord.
• Recognize that growth in leadership comes from continuous obedience, learning, and transformation through God’s instructions.

Through the transformation of Peter, the example of Chick-fil-A’s success, and personal reflections on her own journey, Tatum emphasizes the importance of trusting God's plan. If you’re in a season of waiting or feeling impatient about your business or calling, this episode will encourage and challenge you to surrender to God's divine orchestration.

Key Takeaways:

• God’s Timing Ensures Maximum Impact: Pentecost happened at the exact right moment to maximize the spread of the gospel. Likewise, waiting on God's timing in your business will lead to greater impact.
• The Right People Will Be in Place When It's Time: God gathers the right audience, customers, and community when the timing aligns with His plan.
• Strategic Preparation Precedes Breakthrough: Just as Peter had to go through a transformation process, we must embrace personal and professional development while waiting for God’s move.
• Sudden Breakthroughs Are Often Years in the Making: From Jesus preparing 30 years for a 3-year ministry to Chick-fil-A’s 20-year foundation before expansion, major success takes time and patience.
• Avoid Premature Leadership & Decision-Making: Acting ahead of God’s plan can lead to consequences. Learning to wait well is key to success in both business and faith.

Announcements:

• Applications for the Purposed to Podcast program are still open! If you’re looking for mentorship from a proven podcast coach who integrates faith and business, apply now. This is the only cohort for 2025! Click the link in the show notes to learn more - https://www.videoask.com/fsq9j855v

Scriptures Mentioned:

• Acts 2:1-5 – The divine timing of Pentecost
• Leviticus 23:15-16 – The significance of the Feast of Weeks
• Deuteronomy 16:16 – The biblical foundation for gathering at Pentecost
• Matthew 16:16-23 – Peter’s faith and spiritual immaturity
• John 18:10-11 – Peter’s rash decision-making

Key Points Covered:

• Book Club Update – We’re halfway through Leadership as an Identity. Tatum is considering a faith-based book next. Email recommendations to tatum@tatumtemia.com.
• The Power of God’s Presence – Leadership is not just about strategy but about being deeply connected to God.
• Moses’ Encounter in Exodus 33 – Why Moses refused to move without God’s presence and how that applies to us today.
• Personal Testimony – How seeking God’s presence gave Tatum a divine financial strategy for hiring a nanny while preparing for law school.
• The Rest That Comes from God – Leading from His presence brings peace, confidence, and sustainability in life and business.
• Are You Leading from His Presence? – The importance of fully integrating faith and leadership rather than compartmentalizing them.

Links & Resources:

Leadership as an Identity by Crawford W. Loritts – https://www.amazon.com/dp/0802429874?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_00AMZZF65KBFAM8B643F&skipTwisterOG=1&bestFormat=true&newOGT=1

• Purposed to Podcast Mentorship – Want to work with Tatum to grow your podcast? https://www.videoask.com/fsq9j855v

Join the Conversation:

• Have book suggestions for the next book club pick? Email Tatum at tatum@tatumtemia.com.

Key Takeaways:

• The love-hate relationship many entrepreneurs have with social media
• Why building solely on platforms you don’t own is risky
• The dangers of social media for mental health and business sustainability
• The Lord’s call for Christians to be thought leaders, not just content creators
• The difference between thought leadership and content creation:
• Thought leaders shift culture; content creators follow trends
• Thought leaders provide original insights; content creators focus on visibility
• Thought leaders build authority and intellectual property; content creators depend on algorithms
• Thought leaders monetize through high-ticket offers, consulting, and speaking engagements
• Biblical examples of thought leadership, including Jesus, Paul, and Nehemiah
• Actionable steps to transition from content creator to thought leader

Practical Steps to Shift to Thought Leadership:

1. Create transformational content – Focus on depth, insight, and teaching rather than just trends.
2. Develop original frameworks & methodologies – Build a unique approach to solving problems in your niche.
3. Establish a signature thought leadership platform – Choose a long-form format like a podcast, book, or newsletter to house your expertise.
4. Build a community – Thought leaders cultivate deeper engagement beyond just followers.

Resources Mentioned:

• Join the Purposed to Podcast Program: The only cohort of 2025 is now open for enrollment! Work with Tatum to develop your podcast and thought leadership. https://www.videoask.com/fsq9j855v
• Study Guide: Homework! Dive deeper into biblical thought leaders: Moses, Nehemiah, Daniel, Esther, Solomon, John the Baptist, and Paul.

Final Encouragement:

If you've been frustrated with social media, struggling with content consistency, or feeling like you're just chasing the algorithm, this episode is for you. God has called you to be more than a content creator—He wants you to be a thought leader. Seek Him, embrace originality, and build something that lasts beyond platforms and trends.

We discuss:

✨ The four identity characteristics of Christian leaders

✨ Why our success isn’t solely based on skills, education, or experience

✨ The difference between doing work for God vs. with God

✨ The dangers of self-reliance and how to remain dependent on the Lord

✨ How to cultivate uncommon communion and tap into God’s wisdom for leadership

Challenge for the Week:

Create a personal “Hall of Faith” by identifying key moments in your faith journey where God transitioned you to a new level. Display photos, mementos, or symbols that remind you of these defining moments.

🔗 Resources Mentioned:

📖 Leadership as an Identity – https://www.amazon.com/dp/0802429874?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_00AMZZF65KBFAM8B643F&skipTwisterOG=1&bestFormat=true&newOGT=1

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue the Bible on Business series, focusing on leadership through the lens of the Book of Acts. Many Christian entrepreneurs seek wisdom from business books and experts but often overlook the rich, strategic insight found in scripture. Today, we’re discussing premature leadership—the dangers of stepping into a role before being spiritually, emotionally, and practically prepared.

Tatum unpacks the risks of moving ahead of God’s timing and shares biblical and real-world case studies of leaders who failed due to impatience, lack of preparation, or secondhand faith. She also provides actionable steps to avoid premature leadership and ensure that you lead in alignment with God’s plan.

Key Topics Covered:

• Why waiting on God’s timing is crucial for leadership and success
• Biblical insights on premature leadership from Acts 1 and Acts 19 (Sons of Sceva)
• Real-world business case studies: WeWork’s downfall and the Theranos scandal
• The consequences of launching a business or ministry too soon
• The importance of character development and preparation
• How to avoid premature leadership and ensure you’re moving in step with God

Scriptures Mentioned:

1. Acts 1:4-5 – Jesus instructs the apostles to wait before stepping into their calling
2. Ecclesiastes 3:1 – “To everything there is a season…”
3. Proverbs 19:2 – “Desire without knowledge is not good; how much more will hasty feet miss the way?”
4. Habakkuk 2:3 – “If it seems slow in coming, wait patiently, for it will surely take place.”
5. Acts 19:13-19 – The Sons of Sceva and the consequences of secondhand faith
6. 1 Timothy 3:6 – The dangers of placing a new believer in leadership

Biblical Figures to Study:

King Saul, Moses, Sons of Sceva, Abraham & Sarah, Rehoboam, Uzzah

Action Steps to Avoid Premature Leadership:

1. Learn from others' mistakes – Study both biblical and business case studies
2. Develop your character and skillset – Don't step into a role you’re not prepared for
3. Embrace the preparation season – Trust that God is shaping you for your future assignment
4. Wait for the Holy Spirit’s confirmation – Don’t launch before being empowered by the Spirit

Resources & Links:

• Register for the Replay of the Christian Content Creator Town Hall → https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4
• Apply for the Purposed to Podcast Program → https://www.videoask.com/fsq9j855v

Key Takeaways:

• Understanding Brokenness: Brokenness is a necessary trait of Christian leadership, alongside uncommon communion, servanthood, and radical obedience.
• The Reality of Discouragement: Every leader faces discouragement, but how we respond determines if it will break us or refine us.
• Choosing Truth: Avoid denial and embrace both the reality of challenges and the truth of God’s Word.
• Choosing Joy: Joy is a choice, not an involuntary response. Focus on the presence of God rather than circumstances.
• Choosing Faith: Faith requires trusting God even when the future feels uncertain.
• Choosing Community: Isolation can distort reality. Surrounding yourself with wise counsel and support is vital.
• Choosing Service: Serving others even in difficult times brings healing and purpose.

Announcements:

• Christian Content Creator Town Hall: Join me for this live event where I’ll be sharing insights for Christian podcasters and content creators. I’ll also be opening my mentorship program for the only cohort of the year. https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4
• Get the Book: If you haven't already, grab your copy of Leadership as an Identity using the link in the show notes https://www.amazon.com/dp/0802429874?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_00AMZZF65KBFAM8B643F&skipTwisterOG=1&bestFormat=true&newOGT=1

Scripture References:

• Galatians 6:9 – "Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary."
• Psalm 119:50 – "This is my comfort in my affliction, that your promise gives me life."
• Philippians 4:4 – "Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice."
• Romans 8:37-39 – "In all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us."

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Key lessons from the book of Isaiah and its relevance to our daily lives.
• How patterns of behavior like fear, self-reliance, and worldly influences keep us from fully depending on God.
• The concept of the habit loop and how it shapes our actions.
• Practical strategies to disrupt unhealthy habits and replace them with faith-driven behaviors.

Special Resource:

Tatum shares an incredible resource, The Behavior Loop Analysis & Replacement Method. This step-by-step guide helps you identify and transform patterns of behavior that lead to self-reliance, replacing them with habits rooted in faith and dependence on God. Download today: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/GlW8

Upcoming Events:

• Christian Content Creator Town Hall: Join Tatum for a free event designed for Christian creators navigating the online space, featuring a powerful word. Register here: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4

Scripture Focus:

• Isaiah 30:21 (NLT): “Your own ears will hear him. Right behind you a voice will say, ‘This is the way you should go,’ whether to the right or to the left.”

Links Mentioned:

• Download The Behavior Loop Analysis & Replacement Method: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/GlW8
• Join The Society: https://blessedandbossedupsociety.com/invitation?code=DACED3
• Register for the Christian Content Creator Town Hall: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4

Tatum also reflects on the constant pull toward pride that leaders face and offers strategies to combat it through intentional time with God, self-awareness, and a posture of humility. She encourages listeners to see brokenness as an opportunity to grow closer to God and to develop a mindset rooted in total dependence on Him.

This episode is packed with wisdom, personal testimonies, and scriptural insights, including:

• Lessons from Philippians 3:1-21 about prioritizing Christ above all.
• Jacob’s encounter with God and the "limp" that marked his transformation (Genesis 32).
• A challenge to reframe seasons of brokenness as signs of God’s love and preparation for greater assignments.

If you're a leader in any capacity, this conversation will encourage and equip you to embrace God's refining process in your life.

Resources Mentioned:

• Book: Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts
• Scripture References: Philippians 3, Psalm 42, Proverbs 16:18, Hebrews 10:31, James 4:6, Genesis 32

Special Announcements:

• Christian Content Creator Town Hall: Join Tatum and other inspiring speakers for a free virtual event designed for those called to create in the online space. Learn how to navigate challenges and step confidently into your calling. Click to register: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4

Key Points:

• The Society Update: Tatum announces that The Society has transitioned from a for-profit model to a nonprofit under the newly formed Anchored Media Foundation. This change allows for more impactful service, including financial support to Christian women entrepreneurs.
• First Fruits Fast: Join the free 7-day First Fruits Fast starting January 19th. This fast focuses on themes like repentance, provision, creativity, and rest, featuring daily prayers, devotionals, and lessons.
• Bible on Business Series - Leadership Edition: Tatum continues the Bible on Business series, focusing on leadership lessons from the book of Acts. Acts 1:1-5 highlights the importance of waiting on God's promise and how the disciples waited obediently for the Holy Spirit.
• The Weight of Waiting: Tatum emphasizes that waiting seasons are essential for growth and transformation. Rather than viewing waiting as a burden, she encourages listeners to see it as an opportunity to deepen their relationship with God and strengthen their character.
• Heart Posture in the Wait: The disciples' transformation during their waiting period serves as a model for how we should wait with gratitude, obedience, and faith, trusting that God is preparing us for greater purpose.

Scripture Reference:

• Acts 1:1-5 (ESV)
• Matthew 26:40-41
• Mark 14:37-38
• John 20:19

Call to Action:

• Join the First Fruits Fast: Activate your free trial to participate in the fast and connect with the community. https://blessedandbossedupsociety.com/invitation?code=DACED3&kuid=350422e4-3c19-42f1-9a75-33cd3a19ea46-1737083424&lid=6398&kref=86HkJvnmxEYf
• Donate to the Society: Support the Anchored Media Foundation's mission to empower Christian women entrepreneurs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?campaign_id=T7PZ3UP255EHC

Tatum shares personal reflections on how pride can sneak into leadership and how surrendering our weaknesses allows God to move powerfully through us. She also encourages listeners to reframe their perspective on inadequacies and lean fully into God's grace.

Key Topics Covered:

• The four traits of lasting Christian leadership: Brokenness, Uncommon Communion, Servanthood, and Radical Obedience.
• How pride can manifest subtly in leadership and how to guard against it.
• The importance of embracing weaknesses as opportunities for God to display His strength.
• Lessons from Moses on surrendering excuses and trusting God's sufficiency (Exodus 3).
• Discerning when to take action and when to wait on God.

Key Scriptures Mentioned:

• 2 Corinthians 11:30 – “If I must boast, I will boast in the things that show my weakness.”
• 2 Corinthians 12:9 – “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
• Proverbs 3:5-6 – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.”

Resources Mentioned:

• Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts – Grab your copy: https://a.co/d/aL2lLD4 
• Previous Book Club Episodes (Chapters 1–4) – Listen here!
• https://redcircle.com/shows/a6ac3d3a-cf55-4644-a77c-6e891ff71fc0/episodes/d079b8ca-4478-4e54-b531-cfbf79769cea
• https://redcircle.com/shows/a6ac3d3a-cf55-4644-a77c-6e891ff71fc0/episodes/b00c1011-2803-4ece-861f-0221b19d7295
• https://redcircle.com/shows/a6ac3d3a-cf55-4644-a77c-6e891ff71fc0/episodes/3af6a98e-8609-47e7-96e5-94a45bed7685
• https://redcircle.com/shows/a6ac3d3a-cf55-4644-a77c-6e891ff71fc0/episodes/e7d34cf3-fd16-415a-9766-a3721fe4a2d5

Connect with Tatum:

• Email: Tatum@TatumTemia.com (for direct communication while she’s off social media)
• Anchored Media Studios: www.anchoredmediastudios.com

Support the Show:

Enjoying the podcast? Leave a 5-star review and share how the show has blessed you!

In this episode, she:

• Celebrates Blessed + Bossed Up’s 8th anniversary.
• Shares behind-the-scenes struggles of starting and sustaining a brick-and-mortar business
• Testifies about enduring a season of pressure and witnessing God’s miraculous provision.
• Reveals her next exciting journey—law school—and how God opened doors even when she felt unprepared.
• Encourages listeners to trust God wholeheartedly and persevere through difficulties, knowing He is always working on their behalf.

Key Scriptures Mentioned:

• Proverbs 3:5-7 – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding.”
• Matthew 10:29 – “What is the price of two sparrows? ... Not a single sparrow can fall to the ground without your Father knowing it.”
• Psalm 34:8 – “Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in Him.”

Resources Mentioned:

• Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts (Book Club Selection) https://a.co/d/9zdkA6N
• Anchored Media Studios – A workspace and content studio located in Laurel, MD www.anchoredmediastudios.com

Thank You for 8 Amazing Years!

To all our listeners, whether you’ve been here since day one or just discovered the show, thank you for your support and encouragement. Tatum is excited about what year eight and beyond will bring as we continue this journey of integrating faith and entrepreneurship.

Our first book club pick was Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyer, a timeless classic with nearly 20,000 five-star reviews on Amazon. This episode kicks off with an introduction to the book, a discussion of Chapter 1, and an exploration of how to take your thoughts captive and align them with the truth of God's Word.

Episode Highlights:

• Synopsis of the Book: Overcoming worry, doubt, confusion, and other attacks on the mind with the truth of God’s Word.
• Key Scripture: 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 — Learn to cast down thoughts that exalt themselves above the knowledge of God.
• Highlights from Chapter 1:
• Recognizing the enemy's strategy in planting negative thoughts.
• The importance of being self-aware in spiritual warfare.
• The role of past trauma in leaving us vulnerable to spiritual attacks.
• Actionable Takeaways:
• Root yourself in the Word for victory.
• Use spiritual weapons: the Word, praise, and prayer.
• Engage in intentional study and meditation to renew your mind.

Scriptures Covered in This Episode:

• 2 Corinthians 10:4-5
• John 8:31-32
• Ephesians 6:12
• Mark 4:24

In this episode, Tatum gets real about navigating the delicate balance of building a thriving business and nurturing a loving home. She shares revelations about how God has been ministering to her in this season of marriage and motherhood, helping her redefine success and prioritize legacy over income.

Whether you’re a married woman with young children, a high achiever striving to fulfill your God-given purpose, or simply someone seeking encouragement in surrendering to God’s plan, this episode is for you. Tatum also dives into:

• The importance of aligning your value system with God’s priorities.
• How Proverbs 14:1 inspired a powerful perspective shift.
• Using your ambition and gifts to create legacy in your home.
• Encouragement for women building what they’ve never seen modeled before.

Key Takeaways:

• God calls us to seasons of focus and surrender for His purpose and glory.
• Your business won't fail because you’re focused on your family—obedience to God will multiply your efforts.
• High-achieving women can find harmony in serving both their home and their purpose.

Announcements:

✨ Join the Prayer-a-thon

End your year in God’s presence! The Blessed + Bossed Up Society is partnering with Mornings with God ministry for a free Prayer-a-thon on December 31st. Together, we’ll cover six key areas: Spiritual Wellness, Health, Mental and Emotional Health, Finances, Community, and Relationships. Registration is FREE! bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

Special Announcement: Prayer-a-thon on December 31st

As the year closes, we’re thrilled to invite you to the Prayer-a-thon hosted by the Blessed + Bossed Up Society in partnership with Mornings with God ministry. This is your chance to come together in faith and expectation as we pray over six powerful areas:

• Spiritual wellness & development
• Health & physical well-being
• Mental & emotional health
• Finances & work
• Community & the nations
• Relationships

The best part? Registration is completely free! Whether you’re seeking clarity, breakthrough, or simply alignment with God’s plans for 2025, this event is for you. Don’t miss out— bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

This Episode: Peace and Perspective

As we move into the final stretch of the year, many of us are planning, strategizing, and seeking God’s will for our businesses and lives. But how do you know if you're truly in alignment with God? In this episode, we dive deep into the nuances of peace—both of the flesh and of the spirit—and how to discern the peace that comes from God.

Key Takeaways:

1. Defining Peace: The difference between the peace of the flesh (comfort and control) and the peace of the spirit (wholeness, harmony, and alignment with God’s word).
2. Peace as Confirmation: Why our emotions are not reliable indicators of being in God’s will and how to recognize the settledness of the Holy Spirit.
3. Practical Tips: Characteristics of God’s peace to help you confidently move forward in His purpose for your life and business.

Scripture References:

• Galatians 5:17
• Biblical definition of peace: Wholeness and harmony when all essential parts are joined together
• Joshua 1:8: "Meditate on the Word day and night so that you may be successful."
• Romans 8:28: "All things work together for the good of those who love the Lord."

In this episode of the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast, we kick off the Bible on Business series, diving deep into how scripture provides practical and spiritual guidance for faith-based entrepreneurs. Tatum explores how the Bible equips us to operate as shepherds in our businesses, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing souls over sales and embodying Christ-like leadership.

Key Highlights:

• Special Announcement: Join the free Prayer-a-thon on December 31st, hosted by Blessed and Bossed Up Society in partnership with Mornings with God Ministry. Let’s close out 2024 in God’s presence, praying over key areas for 2025. Register Here: bit.ly/mwgprayerthon
• Series Introduction: Tatum explains how God’s Word serves as the ultimate business guide, offering insights into leadership, integrity, and the responsibility of shepherding His people.
• Markers of Growth in Faith-Based Entrepreneurship:
• Moving from “God is my CEO” to becoming Christ-like shepherds in business.
• Shifting from hustle culture to leading as executives rooted in God’s wisdom.
• Shepherding Lessons for Entrepreneurs:
• Characteristics of sheep and how they parallel consumer behavior.
• The importance of prioritizing souls, not just sales.
• Biblical strategies to seek out disengaged clients and foster reconciliation.
• Scriptural Deep Dive:
• Matthew 18:12-14: Actively seeking and serving the "lost" in your business.
• John 21:15-17: Comprehensive care for all levels of your audience.
• Acts 20:28: Guarding personal integrity while shepherding God’s people.
• 1 Peter 2:25: Staying close to the Good Shepherd to avoid wandering.
• Encouragement for Entrepreneurs:
• Don’t let fear of failure paralyze you; God forgives, restores, and uses you for His glory.
• A reminder to remain steadfast and rooted in God’s path, even when business seasons are tough.

Take Action:

• Reflection Challenge: What areas of your business can you realign to reflect the heart of a shepherd?
• Share the Message: If this episode blessed you, leave a 5-star review and share it with a friend!

Key Points Discussed:

• The Duality of Technology: While the digital age provides incredible opportunities for believers to grow and share their faith, it also presents challenges such as false teachings, distractions, and spiritual elitism.
• The Enemy’s Attack on Attention: Why the devil targets our attention to steer us away from truth and how this can lead to lukewarm faith.
• Definition of Attention: How what we focus on can prepare our body to act, sometimes in ways contrary to God’s will.
• Guarding Your Heart: Practical steps to protect yourself from distractions and align your attention with God's truth.
• Pure Alternatives: How finding godly alternatives to music, media, and other influences can help you live a focused and faith-filled life.

Practical Solutions:

1. Use Technology Wisely: Leverage tools like algorithm filters to block distracting or harmful content.
2. Know Your Triggers: Avoid content or environments that tempt you away from God’s principles.
3. Be Intentional with Media: Replace secular influences with Christian alternatives, such as uplifting music and faith-based content.
4. Seek God’s Guidance: Pray for wisdom and discernment in managing your attention.

Join Us for the Year-End Prayer-A-Thon:

Close out the year in God’s presence! Join us on December 31st for a Prayer-A-Thon hosted by the Blessed and Bossed Up Society and Mornings with God ministry. We'll be praying over six key areas to prepare for 2025:

1. Spiritual Wellness & Development
2. Health & Physical Well-being
3. Mental & Emotional Health
4. Finances & Vocation
5. Community & The Nations
6. Relationships

Registration is completely free! bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

Key Points Discussed:

• Defining Posture: The approach and attitude necessary for doing business God’s way.
• Relationship First: Why your salvation and righteousness must be prioritized over your business and purpose.
• Actions Over Words: How your godliness should be evident in your actions and not just in your declarations.
• Protecting God’s Mission: Practical steps to safeguard the integrity of the work God has called you to do.
• Focus is Mandatory: The importance of staying tuned to God’s voice and avoiding the distractions of worldly pressures.
• Uncompromising Attitude: Remaining firm, bold, and unwavering in what God has called you to do, regardless of opposition.
• Faith Over Anxiety: Shifting your perspective to walk in confidence, knowing God’s plans for you are good.

Links to Relevant Episodes:

• https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/5041e895/239-dont-put-the-cart-before-the-horse
• https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/503ec376/how-to-have-a-business-meeting-with-god

Join Us for the Year-End Prayer-A-Thon:

Mark your calendars for December 31st! The Blessed + Bossed Up Society is partnering with the Mornings with God ministry to host a Prayer-A-Thon. We'll be praying over six key areas to prepare for 2025:

1. Spiritual Wellness & Development
2. Health & Physical Well-being
3. Mental & Emotional Health
4. Finances & Vocation
5. Community & The Nations
6. Relationships

This is a free event and the perfect way to close out the year in God’s presence. https://bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

About the Podcast

The Driven Introvert Podcast is a faith-inspired space designed specifically for purposeful introverts. It’s the place for dreamers, doers, and entrepreneurs who are ready to birth the dreams, callings, and ideas God has placed in their hearts.

When I first started working with Remi and heard the name of her show, I fell in love immediately. As a driven introvert myself, it resonated deeply. I know firsthand that being an introvert doesn’t mean you’re not passionate, determined, or called to do great things. And that’s exactly what Remi’s podcast speaks to.

On this bi-weekly show, Remi offers unique perspectives on what it means to follow your dreams, passionately pursue your purpose, and live a life that matters—all while embracing the strengths of your personality.

Episode Recommendation: “For Those Who Feel Left Behind in Life”

This episode from Season 2 is a must-listen for anyone who has ever felt stuck or like life is passing them by. Drawing from her personal experiences, Remy shares powerful insights on:

• Reframing your perspective to see God’s hand in your circumstances.
• Taking bold steps of faith, experimenting, and trusting God with the outcomes.
• How to navigate seasons of disappointment and learn from life’s challenges.

Why You Should Listen

What makes The Driven Introvert Podcast so special is Remy’s authenticity and ability to connect with her audience on a personal and spiritual level. Her content is packed with inspiring conversations, valuable resources, and reflective insights that will empower you to believe in the life and work God has called you to.

Where to Listen

The Driven Introvert Podcast is available on all major podcast platforms. Click the link in the show notes to tune in, and don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! https://thedrivenintrovert.buzzsprout.com/

Prayer-a-Thon Announcement:

Join the Blessed and Buffed Up Society in partnership with Mornings with God for a free virtual Prayer-a-Thon on December 31st. Covering six key topics—spiritual wellness, health, mental health, finances, community, and relationships—this is the perfect way to close out 2024 and align your heart with God’s plans for 2025. Register here: bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

We're on a podcast break for the month of December, but I couldn’t wait to share this episode with you. As we wrap up the year and focus on cultivating a deeper connection with God, this conversation will challenge and inspire you to create an atmosphere of Him in your daily life.

Episode Highlights:

• God’s Word for Anxiety: Tatum reflects on a recent revelation from God: the antidote to anxiety is to create an atmosphere of Him. What does this mean in practice, and how can we cultivate that atmosphere in our lives?
• Omnipresence vs. Manifestation of His Presence: Dive into the difference between God always being with us (omnipresence) and experiencing His undeniable, manifested presence.
• Joy as Awareness of Grace: Learn how joy is rooted in being aware of God’s unmerited favor and how this perspective can shift your focus.
• Practical Steps to Cultivate God’s Atmosphere: Tatum breaks it down into three areas we can control:

1. What We Consume: How our physical, mental, and spiritual consumption affects our environment.
2. What We Focus On: Tips to focus on God, even when life feels overwhelming.
3. Who We Communicate With: The importance of communicating with God, even when His presence feels distant.

Mentioned in This Episode:

• Scripture References: Philippians 4:6, James 1:2, and the definition of joy and faith from the Bible.
• Personal Testimonies: Tatum shares her journey of trusting God during a difficult season of miscarriages and how it strengthened her faith.
• Practical Tips: From cleaning up your diet to listening to prophetic instrumentals, discover ways to make God the focal point in your life.

The episode concludes with encouragement to stay connected during the upcoming break with reruns of fan-favorite episodes and a preview of exciting content for 2025.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

1. Reflections on the journey of Blessed + Bossed Up and what’s to come in 2025.
2. Key insights from Chapter 4 of Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritz, including:

• The nature of brokenness as a leadership trait.
• The dangers of pride and the pull toward sin.
• Practical examples of maintaining humility and dependence on God.

1. The importance of spiritual discipline and vigilance for modern leaders, particularly in the online space.
2. How to draw inspiration from athletes' discipline and apply it to spiritual growth.

Scriptures Referenced in This Episode:

• 1 Timothy 3:6-7
• 2 Timothy 2:20-22
• 1 Corinthians 9:24-27
• Galatians 2:20
• 1 Corinthians 10:12
• 1 John 1:8

Homework Assignment:

Watch a sports documentary that highlights the dedication and discipline of top athletes. Use it as inspiration to assess your own spiritual discipline and commitment to eternal priorities.

Reruns During the Break:

Stay tuned for replays of some of the best episodes over the years, handpicked to inspire and equip you during December. Twice a week, these episodes will keep the wisdom and encouragement flowing as we prepare for a fresh start in 2025.

Resources Mentioned:

• Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts https://a.co/d/07Gthfy
• Netflix documentaries referenced: Simone Biles: Courage to Soar, Sprints, and Starting 5

Thank you for an incredible year of growth and support. As we enter 2025, let’s continue to live out our calling, making God the CEO of every area of our lives. See you in the new year!

Episode Highlights:

Question 1: Navigating Guilt and Spiritual Growth

• A listener asks about overcoming guilt associated with seeking deeper spiritual understanding and reconciling it with their upbringing in Southern Christianity.
• Key takeaways:
• Recognize the difference between guilt and conviction from the Holy Spirit.
• Be cautious of spiritual practices that may appear safe but are not biblically sound.
• True spiritual depth comes from abiding in Christ, studying His word, and enduring trials with obedience and faith.

Question 2: Dealing with Prideful Thoughts

• A listener asks about managing pride in the face of accomplishments.
• Key takeaways:
• Understand that pride can manifest as self-sufficiency, not just self-exaltation.
• Maintain a posture of humility by reflecting on God’s role in your journey.
• Obedience to God and the process He’s taking you through are the true measures of success.

Question 3: Overcoming Overwhelm During Transitions

• A listener juggling a new business, certifications, and a job search asks how to manage the overwhelm.
• Key takeaways:
• Submission to God and structure in daily life are key.
• Practical tools like AI (e.g., ChatGPT) can help create schedules and plans tailored to your specific needs.
• Surrendering to God’s timing and seeking His guidance brings peace amid transitions.

Question 4: Restarting a Podcast with Impact

• A listener shares their struggle with podcast inconsistency and asks how to relaunch effectively.
• Key takeaways:
• Focus on show development: research your audience, clarify your message, and create a plan.
• Use tools like surveys and analytics to tailor your content to your audience's needs.
• Consistency and preparation are key to overcoming creative blocks.

Question 5: Discerning a Career Transition

• A listener asks how to know if God is prompting a career change after a difficult semester teaching.
• Key takeaways:
• Seek God’s guidance and be patient for His answer.
• Process emotions from the challenging season and allow God to provide peace and clarity.
• Trust that God will reveal the right time and way to transition.

The Purified and Proven Podcast is designed to help believers stay committed to their walk with God, offering practical advice and encouragement to navigate the mental and emotional struggles of the Christian journey. Tatum highlights a sample episode titled Nothing is Too Hard for God: Overcoming Doubt and Trusting His Promises, which explores how limiting beliefs and self-doubt can hinder us from fully trusting God’s plan.

Tune in to hear Clarissa’s powerful insights, reflection questions, and actionable steps to grow in faith and embrace your God-given identity. https://redcircle.com/shows/purifiedandproven/ep/702b54bb-fc45-48e8-a67c-e3ab44da48c3

Key Points Covered:

• Podcast Update:
• Tatum announces a December break to recharge and seek God’s direction for year 8 of the podcast.
• Principles for Partnership:
• This week’s episode dives into Genesis 13:7-11, exploring the partnership between Abram and Lot.

Four Key Principles for Successful Partnerships:

1. Understand Partnership Types:
2. Explore different partnership structures such as general, limited, and joint ventures to determine the best fit for your business.
3. Prioritize Peace and Relationships:
4. Like Abram, prioritize peace over profit and trust God to guide your decisions.
5. Think Long-Term:
6. Avoid short-sighted decisions. Keep the big picture in mind for sustainable growth.
7. Embrace Separation for Growth:
8. Sometimes, stepping away from a partnership creates space for individual success and divine elevation.

Real-Life Examples:

Tatum shares stories of her entrepreneurial journey, including partnerships in her first business, the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast, and Anchored Media Studios. She also highlights successful partnerships like Amazon, PayPal, and Apple to illustrate how collaboration can drive growth—and how conflict can sometimes necessitate change.

Scripture of the Week:

Genesis 13:7-11

Reflection Questions:

• Are you open to partnerships, and have you sought God’s guidance in your collaborations?
• How can you apply the principles from Abram and Lot’s story to your business?

Final Thoughts:

Tatum reminds us that God often uses partnerships to elevate our work, but we must remain humble and obedient to His guidance. As she prepares for a new season, she encourages listeners to trust God in all business decisions, including collaborations.

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club journey through Leadership as an Identity by Crawford W. Loritz, focusing on Chapter 3: "Surrendering to God." Tatum dives deep into the foundational Christian principle of surrender and explores how living a life fully submitted to God transforms your leadership and aligns you with His will. Drawing from Romans 12:1-2 and the life of King Uzziah, Tatum highlights the dangers of pride, the importance of humility, and how consistent surrender ensures God’s hand remains on your life and leadership.

Key Points:

• Book Club Update:
• We’re reading Leadership as an Identity. Catch up on past episodes for insights on Chapters 1 and 2.
• Grab your copy via the link in the show notes and join us as we read through Chapter 6 or 7 before our winter break.
• Episode Highlights:
• The transformative power of surrender as emphasized in Romans 12:1-2.
• How brokenness leads to true surrender.
• The formula: Surrender + Transformation = Discernment of God’s Will.
• The importance of living a consecrated life to experience God’s guidance and blessings.
• Lessons from King Uzziah’s Life (2 Chronicles 26):
• The dangers of pride and self-reliance.
• How consistent success without surrender leads to downfall.
• Three key lessons on leadership, humility, and the consequences of stepping outside of God’s boundaries.
• Challenge:
• Tatum proposes a “Winter Surrender Challenge” inspired by the “Winter Arc” trend. Use the remaining weeks of the year to:
• Focus on surrendering your life fully to God.
• Practice daily holiness through conscious choices in media, food, rest, and service.
• Limit worldly influences and prioritize time in the Word.

Homework:

• Read and reflect on 2 Chronicles 26 to study King Uzziah’s story.
• Identify areas in your life where you can deepen your surrender to God.

Resources Mentioned:

• Leadership as an Identity by Crawford W. Loritz – https://a.co/d/hcoWf8X
• Bible apps for daily study: Dwell, Abide, and YouVersion.

Key Takeaways:

1. The Danger of Self-Sufficiency

• Jason’s story highlights how pride can lead to isolation, even when outward success is evident. His struggles serve as a reminder that self-sufficiency is a subtle but dangerous trap.

1. What is Brokenness?

• Brokenness is a conscious, ongoing awareness of your need for God in all things. It’s not a one-time event but a lifestyle that keeps you humble and dependent on Him.

1. Inadequacy as a Strength

• Feeling inadequate is an opportunity to rely on God’s power. Leaders often face assignments bigger than their natural abilities, and that gap is where God shows up.

1. The Role of Humility in Leadership

• Whether young or experienced, leaders must guard against pride. The author emphasizes that godly leadership requires character over competence and dependency over self-reliance.

1. Isaiah 57:15

• This scripture beautifully captures God’s dual nature: His sovereignty and His closeness to the humble and brokenhearted. He revives those who acknowledge their need for Him.

Encouragement for Leaders:

If you’re facing an overwhelming task, remember: There is always a gap between what you have and what God wants done. Let this gap drive you to deeper dependence on Him. Your inadequacy is not a barrier but an invitation for God to work through you.

Next Steps:

We’ll cover Chapter 3 in the next episode, so stay tuned! If you haven’t already, grab your copy of Leadership as an Identity . This book will challenge and equip you to lead with humility and dependence on God. https://a.co/d/hcoWf8X

About the Podcast

The Girl, Relax, and Trust God Podcast is for the strong woman: the one who is always the listening ear, the advice giver, and the pillar for her loved ones. If you find yourself battling overthinking, busyness, perfectionism, or the stress of carrying a heavy mental load from countless responsibilities, then this podcast is for you. Janique Price has crafted each episode to speak directly to women who often show up for everyone but sometimes struggle to find rest for their own soul. Each week, Janique shares real-life stories, discusses meaningful topics, and dives into scripture, offering strategies and encouragement to help you strengthen your faith and let go of stress.

Episode: “Girl, Eliminate the Noise”

In this powerful episode, Janique discusses the importance of surrendering to God and disconnecting from the distractions of this world to truly find peace. Drawing inspiration from Mark 4:35-36, where Jesus retreats from the crowd, Janique emphasizes the necessity of leaving the noise behind to deepen your relationship with God. She highlights how fear and the need for control can prevent true surrender, leaving us feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. Janique also shares a practical framework called STOP, a simple method to help you refocus and reconnect with God amidst life’s chaos.

Key Takeaways from the Episode:

• Scriptural Foundation: Mark 4:35-36 serves as a reminder to leave the noise and distractions behind, just as Jesus did.
• The STOP Framework:
• S: Stop. Pause the physical movement to give your body and mind a chance to be still.
• T: Take a breath. Practice intentional breathing to regulate your nervous system.
• O: Observe. Take note of your thoughts and feelings, and be honest with yourself about what’s weighing on you.
• P: Pray. Speak God’s Word over your situation, and proceed with confidence knowing He is with you.
• Practical Advice: Janique provides actionable steps on how to limit distractions, such as putting your phone on "Do Not Disturb," setting boundaries, and intentionally seeking quiet time with God.

How to Listen and Subscribe

You can listen to The Girl, Relax, and Trust God Podcast on all major platforms. Make sure to subscribe, rate, and share the show with your friends and loved ones who need encouragement and a reminder to rest in God’s plan.

Episode Links

• Subscribe to the Podcast: https://redcircle.com/shows/girl-relax-and-trust-god

I’m so excited for you to experience this podcast.

Episode Highlights:

• The Disruptive Impact of Kingdom Businesses
• Paul’s ministry in Ephesus created an economic and spiritual ripple effect, revealing the clash between kingdom values and societal idols like greed, idolatry, and exploitation. As kingdom entrepreneurs, we must be prepared to face similar resistance when operating with integrity and purpose.
• The Inevitable “Riot”
• Just as Paul’s ministry sparked a riot, modern kingdom businesses often challenge norms that are deeply embedded in the business world. From hustle culture to manipulative marketing, today’s entrepreneurs are called to disrupt these standards, knowing that resistance is part of the journey.
• Building Businesses with Integrity and Impact
• Tatum shares practical tips for maintaining purity in business, including transparent pricing, prioritizing purpose over profit, and incorporating charity. By staying rooted in prayer, relying on community support, and being intentional about leaving a legacy that glorifies God rather than self, entrepreneurs can build resilient, kingdom-focused businesses.

Key Takeaways for Disruptive Kingdom Entrepreneurship:

1. Transparent Pricing and Practices – Build trust by being open about materials, sources, and policies that prioritize integrity.
2. Prioritize Purpose Over Profit – Support charitable causes or community initiatives, demonstrating that the kingdom purpose is greater than the bottom line.
3. Root Yourself in Prayer and Community – Prayer and community are essential for navigating the challenges of disrupting worldly systems.
4. Ensure a Legacy of Faith, Not Fame – Aim to leave a Christ-centered legacy by putting Christ at the center of all business activities.

Scripture Reference:

• Acts 19:23-32 – Paul’s ministry in Ephesus and the disruptive impact it had on a society steeped in idolatry.

Tatum encourages listeners to embrace the reality that as kingdom entrepreneurs, they’re called to disrupt the status quo. With wisdom from Paul’s journey and practical tips, this episode empowers listeners to courageously confront opposition, build ethically, and leave a lasting impact that glorifies God.

Don't Forget: If this podcast has blessed you, leave us a 5-star review and share with friends, family, or colleagues who might be encouraged by these insights. Your support helps us spread the message and empower more entrepreneurs to make God the CEO of their businesses.

In This Episode:

• After finishing Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyer, we’re starting a new book focused on the four traits of godly leadership: brokenness, uncommon communion, servanthood, and radical obedience.
• Dr. Loritts discusses how leadership is a calling from God, requiring traits that go beyond skills and abilities. The person God trusts with leadership is the person who can fulfill His divine assignments.
• We talk about how this book is especially timely as we approach the new year. Now is the perfect time to evaluate our leadership roles and focus on becoming leaders who honor God’s standards, not just the world’s.

What We Discuss:

1. Introduction to the Book:

• Dr. Crawford L. Loritts was initially hesitant about writing this book, believing enough leadership books existed. However, after teaching a leadership class, he realized the need for this unique perspective on Christian leadership.

1. The Four Leadership Traits:

• Brokenness
• Uncommon Communion
• Servanthood
• Radical and Immediate Obedience

1. Phases of Leadership:

• Learning (Ages 20-40): Focus on flexibility, growth, and remaining open to God's direction.
• Leveraging (Ages 40-60): Balancing success with humility, staying diligent, and not becoming complacent.
• Leaving (Ages 60+): Preparing the next generation by sharing wisdom and experiences while continuing to serve.

1. Key Perspectives on Leadership:

• The importance of avoiding the secularization of Christian leadership and keeping a God-centered approach in all leadership tasks.
• Understanding that godly leadership is not about position or fame but about fulfilling God's assignments.

Why This Book Matters: As Christian entrepreneurs, leaders, and business owners, it's critical to align our leadership with biblical principles, ensuring that everything we do is for God's glory and not for worldly success. This episode challenges you to reflect on your leadership style and commit to leading with purpose, guided by God’s direction.

Next Steps:

• We will be covering Chapters 1-7 through December 2, 2024, before taking a podcast break. Get your copy of Leadership as an Identity to follow along and dive deeper into these powerful insights on godly leadership.

Resources:

• Grab your copy of Leadership as an Identity https://a.co/d/2OyOUQv

Key Points:

• Bible on Business Series: Tatum reminds us that as entrepreneurs, everything we need for our businesses—whether it’s marketing, sales, leadership, or mindset—is found in the Word of God. There’s no need to seek supplemental resources when God has provided wisdom and guidance through scripture.
• Ecclesiastes Overview: The book of Ecclesiastes is a deep reflection on the fleeting nature of life, offering a reality check for those of us striving for wealth and success. The preacher in Ecclesiastes reminds us that everything in life is like smoke—seemingly tangible but impossible to grasp.
• Striving for Success: Tatum speaks directly to those feeling overwhelmed by the pressures of success, career advancement, and comparison. The constant pursuit of material wealth and validation can leave us feeling empty, and Ecclesiastes offers wisdom that redirects our focus to what truly matters: obedience to God.
• False Teachings in Christian Entrepreneurship: Tatum highlights the dangers of prosperity gospel teachings that have rebranded themselves as Christian entrepreneurship. These teachings falsely equate material wealth and success with God’s favor, distorting the true biblical message. She emphasizes that success is pleasing God and living in obedience to His word, not accumulating material wealth.
• A Biblical Perspective of Success: True success is defined by faithfulness to God, not the world’s standards. Ecclesiastes reminds us that life’s pursuits are temporary, and only reverence to God and obedience to His commands will provide lasting peace, joy, and eternal rewards.

Scriptures Referenced:

• Ecclesiastes 1:2 – Everything is meaningless, a reflection on the futility of life’s pursuits.
• Philippians 4:11-13 – Learning contentment in all circumstances.
• Matthew 6:31-33 – Trusting God for provision as we seek His kingdom first.
• 1 Timothy 6:17-19 – Using wealth to do good and glorify God.
• James 1:2-4 – Embracing trials and suffering as opportunities for spiritual growth.

Takeaways:

• Redefining Success: Success is not about wealth, status, or recognition but about obeying God and being faithful to His commands.
• The Dangers of Prosperity Gospel: Tatum dissects the false teachings of prosperity theology and urges believers to reject this harmful mindset. True biblical teaching calls for sacrifice, contentment, and obedience, not materialism.
• Perspective Shift for Q4: As we approach Q4 and begin reflecting on the year and planning for 2025, Tatum encourages listeners to adopt the correct point of view of success. This will bring clarity, peace, and alignment with God’s will in both life and business.

Action Steps:

• Reflect: Take time this week to read or listen to Ecclesiastes. Consider how your own definition of success lines up with biblical teachings.
• Plan with Purpose: Use the lessons from today’s episode to adjust your mindset as you plan for the future, focusing on God’s will and not the pressures of worldly success.
• Share: If this episode blessed you, share it with a friend or colleague, especially if you're entering planning sessions for the new year.

Key Points:

• Obedience Over Sacrifice: Drawing from 1 Samuel 15:22-23, Tatum emphasizes that obedience to God is more important than any sacrifice we can make. God is looking for us to follow His will, not just do things that look good or feel right in our own eyes.
• End of the Wilderness Mentality: This final mentality is all about surrendering our will to God’s. Tatum shares personal reflections on how this mentality has shown up in her own life, especially when things seem to be going well. It’s easy to drift away from obedience when we aren’t in desperate situations.
• Self-Reflection: Tatum challenges listeners to ask themselves, “Has my prayer life and obedience to God remained consistent, or have I become lax because my circumstances have improved?”
• Personal Story: Tatum opens up about how she’s had to confront her own strong-willed personality in her walk with God and how being obedient to His commands, even in small matters, has transformed her faith journey.
• Legacy of Obedience: Tatum encourages parents and leaders to consider the long-term impact of their obedience or disobedience on those they influence. Using examples from her own life and Joyce Meyer’s, she illustrates how our actions can influence future generations.

Scriptures Referenced:

• Psalm 78:7-8 – Highlighting the stubbornness of the Israelites and the consequences of disobedience.
• 1 Samuel 15:22-23 – Saul’s disobedience and the importance of obedience over sacrifice.
• Ecclesiastes 12:13 – The conclusion of King Solomon’s wisdom, emphasizing obedience as the ultimate duty of man.

Takeaways:

• Obedience is a Daily Choice: It’s not just about the big decisions, but the small, everyday instructions that God gives us. How are you following through on the daily habits He’s asked you to implement?
• A Life Rooted in Obedience: True reverence for God comes from a life that is rooted in obedience. This is our ultimate duty as believers.
• Influence of Obedience: Your obedience impacts more than just your life—it affects your children, your family, and others in your sphere of influence.

What’s Next:

We are starting a new book in our book club series! Our next read will be Leadership as an Identity: The Four Traits of Those Who Wield Lasting Influence by Crawford Loritz. The link to purchase your copy is available in the show notes, so be sure to grab it and follow along as we dive into this new study on godly leadership traits. https://www.amazon.com/dp/0802429874?ref=yb_qv_ov_prnt_dp_rw

Key Points:

• Endurance is Essential: God is doing a restructuring in the body of Christ and in the media space. Now is not the time to rely on numbers, analytics, or visible success measures. What matters most is staying faithful to the assignments He has given you.
• Biblical Foundation: Drawing from the story of Noah in Genesis 6, Tatum illustrates how Noah’s unwavering faith and obedience, even when it seemed ridiculous to others, brought about God's promises. Just like Noah, we must be willing to endure despite the ridicule or delayed gratification.
• Endurance Builds Character: Tatum shares her personal story of how she and her aunt opened Anchored Media Studios. While the process seemed smooth at first, it led to a season of intense suffering, stress, and challenges. But through it all, God’s plan unfolded, and endurance produced financial freedom, fulfillment, and a deepened faith.
• Practical Tips for Endurance:

1. Have faith in the unseen – Just like Noah, trust in God's instructions even when there are no visible signs of change.
2. Persevere through challenges – Learn from Job, who was blessed for his unwavering faith in times of suffering.
3. Endure through delayed gratification – Abraham's long wait for God's promise to be fulfilled is a reminder to stay patient.
4. Trust God's timing – Like Joseph, who endured years of hardship before rising to power, trust that God’s timing is perfect.
5. Your endurance encourages others – Jesus' endurance on the cross led to salvation for the world. Your perseverance will inspire and uplift others.

Scriptures Referenced:

• Genesis 6:5, Genesis 6:11, Genesis 6:9-22
• Romans 4:20-21
• James 5:11
• Philippians 4:8

Practical Takeaways:

• Reflect on areas in your business where you're feeling discouraged or weary. How can you invite God into that space and trust Him with the outcome?
• When tempted to give up, focus on the bigger picture of God’s purpose for your business.
• Surrender your struggles, stress, and doubts to the Lord, trusting that He will provide the strength to endure.

Final Thoughts:

Stay encouraged, stay focused, and stay under the load. God sees your faithfulness and will reward your endurance. Keep pressing forward, and trust that He is working behind the scenes, even when you can’t see it.

Practical Takeaways:

• Embrace honesty in your relationship with God. He can handle your real feelings, and surrendering these emotions allows Him to transform your perspective.
• Trust that God has an individual plan for you. Comparing your journey to others will only hinder your growth and peace.
• Use the SEE framework whenever jealousy or comparison creeps in. It's a practical tool to realign your heart and maintain contentment.

Church Announcements:

Anchored Media Studios: If you’re in the DMV area and need a creative workspace, Anchored Media Studios is open from 8 AM to 5 PM for all of Q4! We have everything you need for productivity and content creation—free parking, high-speed WiFi, coffee, and even private meeting spaces. Day passes start at just $25. https://www.anchoredmediastudios.com/q4planningpasses

Our next book club pick: https://a.co/d/0MrmT01

Tatum shares her candid thoughts on how shame often keeps believers from experiencing the fullness of God's blessings and freedom. Drawing from personal reflections and biblical examples, she takes a deep dive into the emotional and spiritual weight of shame, offering a powerful perspective on how to break free from its grip.

Key Topics Discussed:

• Wilderness Mentality #8: "I don't deserve God's blessings because I am not worthy." Tatum explains how this mentality keeps us from receiving God's promises and reflects on Joshua 5:9 and the rolling away of shame from the people of Israel.
• The Influence of Shame on Behavior: Learn about how shame manifests in different behaviors—avoidance, people-pleasing, defensiveness, negative self-talk, fear of intimacy, and even addiction—and how these patterns can hinder our spiritual growth.
• Biblical Stories of Overcoming Shame: Tatum highlights powerful stories of people in the Bible who overcame shame after encountering Jesus:
• The Samaritan Woman at the Well (John 4)
• The Woman Caught in Adultery (John 8)
• Peter's Denial and Restoration (Luke 22, John 21)
• Mary Magdalene's Transformation (Luke 8)
• Zacchaeus’ Repentance (Luke 19)
• Freedom Through Jesus: Tatum encourages listeners to reject the lies of the enemy that keep them bound in shame. Jesus offers love, acceptance, and freedom—just as He did for those in the Bible, He wants to do the same for us today.

Special Announcement:

📢 If you're in the DMV (DC, Maryland, Virginia) area, come experience Anchored Media Studios! For Q4, we're open Monday through Friday, 8 AM - 5 PM, as a Holy Spirit-led workspace. Whether you're teleworking, building your business, or planning for 2025, Anchored Media Studios offers a peaceful, productive environment filled with everything you need for a successful workday. Day passes start at just $25. https://www.anchoredmediastudios.com/q4planningpasses

Scripture References:

• Joshua 5:9
• John 4:4-42 (The Samaritan Woman)
• John 8:1-11 (The Woman Caught in Adultery)
• Luke 22:54-62, John 21:15-19 (Peter’s Denial and Restoration)
• Luke 8:1-2 (Mary Magdalene)
• Luke 19:1-10 (Zacchaeus)

In this first episode, Odaisha is sharing her personal story of faith, resilience, and the journey that led her to create this podcast. She’s talking about how a major life change became a divine calling and how, through trusting God, she found her purpose and a profitable path that aligns with her values. If you're an aspiring entrepreneur who’s felt that nudge from God to step out but don’t know how to get started, this is the story you need to hear.

Key Takeaway: Odaisha’s journey is such a powerful reminder of why trusting God’s plan matters, especially during the moments when we feel uncertain. She’s proof that when we lean into His guidance and leverage our strengths, God can multiply our efforts into something impactful and sustainable.

Why You Should Listen: Whether you’re in a season of transition, struggling to find your purpose, or just needing some real encouragement to keep going—Odaisha’s story is going to resonate deeply. She’s sharing her heart, the lessons learned, and how she embraced a business model that not only honors her calling but also supports her values. I promise you, her journey is going to inspire you to step boldly into your own calling.

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• Follow her on Instagram:
• @CallHerProfitable
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Key Topics:

• Eternal Perspective: Tatum explains how our work has eternal implications and uses 1 Corinthians 3:13-15 to illustrate the importance of building businesses with eternal value that will withstand God’s judgment.
• Foundation Check: Entrepreneurs are encouraged to inspect the foundation of their business, ensuring it is built on Jesus Christ, not on personal goals or worldly standards.
• Faithfulness and Obedience: Tatum emphasizes the importance of being faithful and obedient in building businesses, ensuring that all practices are aligned with biblical principles.
• Service in Business: A call to serve first, rather than focusing solely on sales. Tatum reminds listeners that businesses should solve real problems and serve people as Christ served us.
• Eternal Rewards: Tatum dives into the concept of eternal rewards and crowns that believers will receive based on their faithfulness and obedience, encouraging listeners to build with eternity in mind.

Scriptures Referenced:

• 1 Corinthians 3:13-15: Foundation of building for eternity.
• Romans 6:23: The gift of eternal life through Jesus.
• James 1:12: The crown of life for those who persevere.
• 2 Corinthians 5:10: Judgment and rewards for our actions.
• Matthew 6:19-20: Storing up treasures in heaven.

Announcements & Resources:

• Bible on Business Dashboard: Study the Word for yourself with the Bible on Business study guide. https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/iSP6
• Share the Series: If this series is blessing you, share it with a fellow entrepreneur or on social media.

Scriptures Referenced:

• Romans 12:1-2: The call to live as a living and holy sacrifice.
• 1 Peter 1:15-16: The call to be holy in everything you do.
• Matthew 4:1-11: Jesus' ultimate focus and concentration during temptation.
• Multiplication examples: The feeding of the 5,000 (Matthew 14:17-18), the widow of (1 Kings 17:12-16), and more.

Announcements & Resources:

• God Math Webinar Replay: If you missed the live session, you can still access the visual elements and replay by registering via the link in the show notes: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/yWKeERkfLUlF
• She Is Uncompromising Mastermind Weekend: Join Tatum in November for a VIP weekend at Anchored Media Studios. This exclusive event is designed for ambitious women who want to earn more while doing less by implementing systems, strategies, and spiritual principles. Seats are limited—secure your spot via the link in the show notes: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/pBd5
• Anchored Media Studios Open House: If you’re in the DMV area, stop by on Saturday, September 28th from 1-4 p.m. for a tour of the content creation and coworking space. RSVP using the link in the show notes: https://www.anchoredmediastudios.com/event-details/anchored-media-studios-open-house

Scriptures Mentioned:

• Numbers 14:1-2: Israelites complaining in the wilderness.
• 1 Thessalonians 5:11: Encouraging one another in faith and community.
• Romans 5:5: The love of God poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit.
• Philippians 2:4: Putting others’ interests before your own.

Upcoming Events & Resources:

• Watch the God Math Webinar Replay: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/yWKeERkfLUlF
• Join the She is Uncompromising Mastermind Weekend: Learn more about this intimate, VIP event tailored for ambitious women. https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/pBd5

Next Book: https://a.co/d/0MrmT01

Key Points Covered:

• Wilderness Mentality #6: The core topic of this episode is the mindset of blaming others for personal behavior. Tatum and Joyce Meyer’s teachings point to examples from Genesis, like Adam and Eve, and how blaming others can keep you stuck in a wilderness season.
• Marriage and Personal Responsibility: Tatum shares a personal story about how seeking the Lord’s help in marriage often leads to self-reflection and accountability, rather than always focusing on your partner’s faults.
• Avoiding Excuses: Drawing from Joyce Meyer's experience, Tatum emphasizes that while past hurts may explain bad behavior, they cannot justify staying in it. True freedom comes from confronting personal shortcomings and taking responsibility for one’s actions.
• Facing the Truth: The importance of facing hard truths about ourselves and confronting areas of avoidance is discussed. Tatum encourages listeners to stop making excuses, face uncomfortable realities, and lean into God's guidance for personal transformation.

Scriptures Mentioned:

• Genesis 3:12-13 – Adam and Eve’s blame game in the Garden of Eden.
• Genesis 16:1-6 – Abram, Sarai, and Hagar: Impatience and blame-shifting.
• Numbers 21:5 – The Israelites complaining against God and Moses.
• Numbers 13:1-3, 25-28 – The report of the 12 spies and the power of "but."
• Psalm 51:1-6 – King David’s repentance after his sin with Bathsheba.
• John 16:12-13 – The Holy Spirit as the Spirit of Truth.

Action Steps for Listeners:

• Pray for Personal Revelation: Tatum challenges her audience to ask God to show them the truth about themselves, even when it’s uncomfortable.
• Be Accountable: Take ownership of personal behavior without excuses, and practice repentance when necessary.
• Marriage Advice: If you're married, take your concerns about your spouse to God first before addressing them with your partner.
• Focus on Truth Over Avoidance: Don’t let excuses or past trauma prevent you from growing spiritually and emotionally.

Additional Resources:

• God Math Webinar: If you're struggling to balance multiple responsibilities and feel overwhelmed, register for Tatum’s free upcoming God Math webinar, where she’ll break down a spiritual formula for peace and productivity: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/pum7
• Next Book Club Pick: Grab your copy of Leadership as an Identity: The Four Traits of Those Who Will Lasting Influence by Crawford Loritz, which will be the next book discussed on the podcast after Battlefield of the Mind. https://a.co/d/5dvQ3Sd

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John the Baptist’s ministry in the wilderness was marked by boldness and a deep sense of purpose. His message of repentance drew large crowds, and he baptized Jesus, witnessing the Holy Spirit descending upon Him. Yet, even John faced moments of doubt, reminding us that we all need reassurance as we walk in our calling. Tatum highlights how John's life underscores the importance of staying mission-focused and aligning our work with God’s plan, much like entrepreneurs who serve as subject matter experts in their industries.

Key Points:

• John’s Role in Prophecy and Ministry: John the Baptist fulfilled Old Testament prophecies as the voice crying out in the wilderness, preparing the way for Jesus. His life of boldness and righteousness is a powerful example for believers today.
• Baptism of Jesus: John’s baptism of Jesus marked a significant moment in biblical history, as the Holy Spirit descended upon Jesus and His public ministry began.
• Doubts and Reassurance: John, despite his vital role, faced doubts about Jesus’ identity while in prison. Jesus affirmed John’s mission, emphasizing that even those with a great calling need moments of reassurance.
• Entrepreneurs as Subject Matter Experts: Tatum draws parallels between John’s focused ministry and the work of entrepreneurs who are called to be subject matter experts. Just as John’s ministry was distinct and focused on preparing the way, faith-based entrepreneurs are called to stay mission-driven, offering expertise that serves a higher purpose. Tatum encourages entrepreneurs to focus on their God-given skills, using them to serve others while allowing God to multiply their efforts.

Subject Matter Expert Entrepreneurs:

• Mission-Driven Focus: Entrepreneurs should view themselves as modern-day “preparers” for their audience, providing valuable expertise while staying aligned with their faith.
• Multiplication through God: Like John’s faithfulness to his mission, entrepreneurs can trust that as they focus on their unique expertise and service, God will bring the increase and multiply their efforts.
• Facing Doubts in Entrepreneurship: Even those who are experts in their field can experience doubt and uncertainty. Tatum discusses how to handle these moments by seeking reassurance from God and staying rooted in your purpose.

Scriptures Referenced:

• Isaiah 40:3 – "A voice of one calling in the wilderness, 'Prepare the way for the Lord; make straight in the desert a highway for our God.'"
• Matthew 3:11 – John’s statement about baptizing with water and the coming of someone more powerful (Jesus) who will baptize with the Holy Spirit.
• John 1:29-34 – John’s testimony of Jesus as the Lamb of God.
• Luke 7:20-23 – John’s disciples ask Jesus if He is the Messiah, and Jesus reassures them through His works.

Links Mentioned:

• God Math Webinar: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/pum7
• Bible on Business Dashboard: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/iSP6

Tatum also introduces the next book for the podcast's book discussion, Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritz, a Christian leadership guide with a biblical perspective. Make sure to grab your copy and prepare to dive into this next study with the podcast community.

Key Points:

New Book Announcement: The next book in the podcast’s reading series is Leadership as an Identity: The Four Traits of Those Who Will Lasting Influence by Crawford Loritz. Tatum will be reading it for the first time along with the audience, so be sure to grab your copy now to prepare for the upcoming discussion.

Patience in Business and Life: Tatum explores the concept of patience and how it relates to pride and humility. She draws from Joyce Meyer's insights and personal stories to explain why waiting well is essential for growth as an entrepreneur and a servant of the Lord. The theme is summarized through the scripture James 5:7, highlighting the importance of patiently waiting on God's timing, much like a farmer waits for the harvest.

Impatience as a Form of Pride: Tatum and Joyce Meyer discuss how impatience reflects a sense of pride and entitlement, thinking too highly of oneself. Humility, on the other hand, calls us to submit to God's timing and trust His process. Tatum encourages listeners to shift their mindset and eagerly anticipate what God has planned, rather than rushing through the journey.

Realistic vs. Idealistic Thinking: Tatum touches on how idealistic thinking can set us up for frustration when things don’t go as perfectly as imagined. She advises grounding your dreams in reality, remaining humble, and submitting to God's perfect timing.

Practical Application: Throughout the episode, Tatum offers practical steps to combat impatience, including asking follow-up questions to God when receiving instruction, learning to wait well, and quoting affirmations that align with God’s timing.

Scriptures Referenced:

James 5:7 – “Be patient, therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord.”

Romans 12:3 – "Do not think you are better than you really are."

John 16:33 – “In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

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Links Mentioned:

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Key Points:

• Upcoming Book Study: Tatum announces the next book for the podcast's book discussion: Leadership as an Identity: The Four Traits of Those Who Last by Crawford Loritz. This book explores the character qualities that define a godly leader and will complement the ongoing Bible on Business series.
• Free Live Training: Tatum introduces an upcoming free live training on September 12th at 7 p.m. EST titled "God Math: The Spiritual Formula Every Busy Woman Needs." She shares the divine equation revealed to her—Consecration + Concentration = Multiplication—and how it can help women achieve harmony in their busy lives.
• Wilderness Mentality #4: The focus of this episode is on the mentality of complaining, grumbling, and fault-finding. Tatum discusses how these behaviors mirror the Israelites' attitude in the wilderness and warns of the negative power they can unleash in our lives.
• Biblical Examples: The episode highlights the contrasting examples of Joseph, who endured suffering with a godly attitude and was ultimately rewarded, and the Israelites, whose constant complaining led to their downfall.
• Practical Applications: Tatum shares personal strategies for dealing with seasons of suffering, including the "I feel, but I know" method, finding and meditating on relevant scriptures, and maintaining a heart of gratitude and patience.

Scriptures Referenced:

• 1 Peter 2:19-23 - Encouragement to follow Christ’s example of suffering without complaint.
• Ephesians 4:1-2 - The call to live a life worthy of your calling with humility, meekness, and patience.
• Genesis 39-50 - The story of Joseph as an example of enduring suffering with a godly attitude.
• 1 Corinthians 10:1-13 - Lessons from Israel’s idolatry and the consequences of complaining.
• Philippians 4:6 - A reminder to present our requests to God with thanksgiving and without anxiety.

Call to Action:

• Get the Next Book: Click the link in the show notes to purchase Leadership as an Identity and join the next book discussion. https://amzn.to/3AFWaY2
• Register for the Free Live Training: Don’t miss the "God Math" training on September 12th. Click the link in the show notes to register: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/pum7
• Bible on Business Dashboard: Download the free Bible on Business Dashboard to enhance your study and application of the scriptures discussed in this series. https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/iSP6

Key Points Discussed:

• Contentment and Ambition: Understanding that ambition is not inherently wrong, but it must be tempered to avoid falling into selfish ambition.
• Biblical Insights: A detailed look at Philippians 4:11-13 and 1 Timothy 6:6-11, focusing on how Paul exemplified contentment even in the most challenging circumstances.
• Boundaries for Contentment: Tatum outlines four essential boundaries to help maintain contentment and avoid the pitfalls of greed and covetousness.
• Prioritize Godliness: Keep your focus on living a life that reflects your devotion to God.
• Guard Against Greed: Practice generosity and stay grounded in the Word to avoid covetousness.
• Balance in Life: Ensure your business doesn't consume your entire life, leaving room for family, friends, and personal growth.
• Regular Heart Checks: Continually assess your motivations and reactions to ensure they align with God's will.

Resources Mentioned:

• Bible on Business Dashboard: Tatum introduces a new, free resource for listeners. This dashboard provides Bible study guides tailored to each podcast episode, helping you dive deeper into the scriptures and apply them to your business. Download it: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/iSP6
• Join the Conversation: Subscribe to Tatum's YouTube channel where she goes live to discuss the Bible on Business series, offering a behind-the-scenes look at her study process: https://www.youtube.com/@TatumTemia

Scriptures to Study:

• Philippians 4:11-13: Learning to be content in every circumstance.
• 1 Timothy 6:6-11: The dangers of desiring wealth and the importance of pursuing righteousness.

Key Discussion Points:

• Recap of Previous Chapters: Tatum recaps the previous wilderness mentalities covered in earlier chapters:
• Chapter 16: "My Future is Determined by My Past and My Present."
• Chapter 17: "Someone Do It for Me: I Don't Want to Take Responsibility."
• Wilderness Mentality #3:
• Tatum discusses how this mindset of wanting an easy path can hinder our spiritual growth.
• She emphasizes the importance of understanding that God's commandments, though challenging, are not beyond our reach.
• Tatum reflects on her personal experiences, highlighting how adopting the mantra "I can do hard things" has helped her overcome difficult situations.
• Scriptural Insights:
• Deuteronomy 30:11 is highlighted to show that God's commandments are not too hard for us to follow.
• John 14:16 is discussed to emphasize the role of the Holy Spirit as our helper, who empowers us to do what might seem impossible in our own strength.
• Exodus 13:17-18 is referenced to illustrate how God sometimes leads us on the hard path for our own good and character development.
• Galatians 6:9 and Philippians 4:12-13 are cited to encourage listeners to persist in doing good and to rely on Christ's strength in all circumstances.
• Practical Application:
• Tatum provides actionable strategies for shifting from a mentality of defeat to one of victory:
• Leaning more into God's presence when things get tough.
• Engaging more deeply in prayer, fasting, and scripture to strengthen spiritual resilience.
• Recognizing that difficult situations are often God's way of preparing us for greater things.

Important Items:

• Book Recommendation: If you haven't already, pick up a copy of Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyer. Start from Chapter 1 and follow along with Tatum’s discussions.
• YouTube Channel: Subscribe to Tatum’s YouTube channel for spontaneous live sessions and replays where she dives deeper into topics like these.

Connect with Tatum:

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tatumtemia/
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TatumTemia
• Podcast Reviews: If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a 5-star review and share it with someone who may need encouragement in their journey of faith and entrepreneurship.

Scriptures Mentioned:

• Deuteronomy 30:11
• John 14:16
• Exodus 13:17-18
• Galatians 6:9
• Philippians 4:12-13

Tatum leaves listeners with a powerful reminder: Hard is not the narrative we need to rehearse—victory is. No matter the challenges, remember that the fight is fixed in our favor, and the suffering we face is temporary. Stay strong in faith, and don’t grow weary in doing good.

Tatum shares insights on how God is mothering her through this journey, highlighting the importance of obedience, legacy, and total life harmony. This episode is a powerful reminder for ambitious women who are navigating the complexities of marriage, motherhood, and entrepreneurship. Tatum encourages listeners to embrace the season they are in, surrender to God's leadership, and trust that their business and family will thrive as a result of their obedience.

Key Takeaways:

• The importance of embracing and surrendering to the season of life you are in.
• How God is refining Tatum’s understanding of success, particularly in the context of family and home.
• The concept of total life harmony over balance and how to achieve it in your current season.
• A call for high-achieving women to focus their ambition on their homes and trust that their businesses will not suffer as a result.
• The significance of leaving a legacy through your family that surpasses financial or business success.

Scripture References:

• Proverbs 14:1 - "The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down."
• Proverbs 31 - The Proverbs 31 woman as an inspiration for thriving in both home and business.

Links Mentioned:

• Subscribe to Tatum’s YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TatumTemia
• Join the Purpose to Podcast Program: https://www.videoask.com/fyt8cv1k0
• Follow Tatum on Instagram: @TatumTemia

Tatum also reflects on the need for proper spiritual mentorship and development before stepping into leadership or ministry roles, using her own experiences of being discipled and mentored by more seasoned Christians as examples. She warns against the dangers of prematurely starting Christian platforms without proper spiritual grounding, urging listeners to take their callings seriously by seeking discipleship and spiritual development.

Finally, she concludes by encouraging listeners to be not just hearers of God’s call, but also responsible and prepared to take action, ensuring they are among the "chosen" who are ready to fulfill God's purpose.

Announcements:

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Scriptures Mentioned:

• 1 John 4:1-2
• Acts 17:10-12
• Luke 5:16
• John 6:60
• Matthew 26:36-56 (Garden of Gethsemane)
• Matthew 17 (Mount of Transfiguration)
• Proverbs 3:5-6
• Galatians 5:17
• Psalm 91

Resources:

• Bible Gateway:https://www.biblegateway.com/
• Bible Hub: https://biblehub.com/
• OpenBible.info: https://www.openbible.info/topics/
• The Prescription for Purpose Podcast: Hosted by Dr. Sharla Walker, available on all major podcast platforms https://www.rxforpurpose.com/podcast

Full Live Replay: https://youtube.com/live/anvede9H-oI

Key Points:

• Introduction:
• Tatum provides an overview of the progress in Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyer.
• Recap of Part 1 (Importance of the Mind) and Part 2 (Conditions of the Mind).
• Introduction to Part 3: Wilderness Mentalities, and the importance of addressing these mentalities to move forward.
• Deuteronomy 1 and 2:
• Reflects on the Israelites' 40-year journey in the wilderness for what should have been an 11-day trip.
• Joyce Meyer’s revelation: The Israelites' prolonged journey was due to a "wilderness mentality."
• Wilderness Mentalities:
• First Mentality: "My Future is Determined by My Past and My Present."
• Reference to Proverbs 29:18, emphasizing the importance of vision.
• Joyce Meyer highlights how the Israelites focused on their past and present circumstances, hindering their progress.
• Self-Reflection and Application:
• Tatum encourages listeners to reflect on their own lives and identify if they are operating with a wilderness mentality.
• Importance of shifting focus from past and present limitations to God's promises and vision.
• The necessity of contentment and gratitude in the journey, avoiding the trap of constantly seeking what's next.
• Personal Insights:
• Tatum shares her personal experiences and struggles with maintaining a growth mindset while also being content and grateful.
• The importance of recognizing and celebrating God's past blessings and current provisions.
• Therapy and Introspection:
• Discusses the balance between therapy and introspection, and relying on God's guidance for a complete understanding of one's identity and future.
• Childlike Curiosity:
• Tatum emphasizes the need to maintain a childlike curiosity and dependence on God, using her personal story and references to The Chosen series.
• Call to Action:
• Tatum encourages listeners to take their wilderness mentality to the Lord and seek His vision for their future.
• Reminds listeners that divine guidance sustains and provides clarity and direction.

Scriptures Mentioned:

• Deuteronomy 1 and 2
• Proverbs 29:18 (King James Version and Message Version)
• Luke 4:18-19
• Isaiah 11:1-3
• Colossians 3:2
• Deuteronomy 1 and 2
• Numbers 14:2,3
• Numbers 20:2-4
• Numbers 21:4-5
• Genesis 13:7-11
• Genesis 13: 14-15

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Key Points:

• Introduction:
• Tatum discusses her recent study and session on the Proverbs 31 woman.
• Announces the She Is Uncompromising Mastermind Weekend in November at Anchored Media Studios, Laurel, Maryland.
• The event aims to help women achieve total life harmony, featuring masterminding, praying, worshiping, and workshops led by systems expert Latrice Claiborne.
• Prayer and Worship:
• Tatum begins with a heartfelt prayer, inviting listeners to align their hearts and minds with God's presence.
• Emphasizes repentance and seeking God's guidance in all aspects of life.
• Proverbs 31 Woman:
• Revelation:
• The Proverbs 31 woman is an illustration, not a real person.
• Importance of focusing on the fear of the Lord rather than just productivity.
• Common Mistake:
• Many focus on the tasks and attributes of the Proverbs 31 woman without addressing the underlying spiritual foundation.
• The key is reverence for God, not just emulating her actions.
• Perspective and Strategy:
• Perspective Shift:
• Focus on the power source (God) rather than just productivity.
• True harmony comes from a relationship with God, not from completing tasks.
• Four Ps Strategy for Total Life Harmony:
• Posture: Abiding in the Lord through consistent fellowship and dependence on Him.
• People: Importance of community, discipleship, and having spiritual support.
• Process: Establishing effective systems and processes in both home and business.
• Profit: Building businesses that are financially sustainable and provide a return on investment.
• Personal Testimony:
• Tatum shares her experiences of balancing business, family, and faith.
• Highlights the importance of obedience to God’s instructions and how it leads to unexpected blessings and success.
• Upcoming Event:
• She Is Uncompromising Mastermind Weekend:
• Date: November 8-9, 2024
• Location: Anchored Media Studios, Laurel, Maryland.
• Focus on helping women achieve harmony in their lives through practical strategies and spiritual growth.
• Limited seats available; link to learn more: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/pBd5

Scriptures Mentioned:

• Proverbs 31
• Psalm 127:2 (Message Version)
• John 15:4-7
• Galatians 5:25

Key Points:

• Message from Quiet Time:
• Log Off and Lock In:
• The Lord wants us to increase time in prayer, fasting, and the word, while decreasing time on social media and online chatter.
• Stay aware of current events but prioritize focusing on God’s guidance and maintaining a posture sensitive to the Holy Spirit.
• Practical steps: Disconnect from distractions, focus on praying and fasting, and engage deeply with the word.
• Bible on Business Series:
• Scripture: 2 Kings 4:1-7 (NIV)
• Context: Elisha’s miraculous intervention for a widow in financial distress.
• Encouragement: The story shows God’s provision and provides step-by-step instructions for financial relief.
• Four Steps for Financial Relief:
• Step 1: Seek Wise Counsel
• Recap from the last episode on the importance of seeking wise counsel in times of financial distress.
• Five characteristics of wise counsel: God-centered, biblically sound, discerning, humble and teachable, experienced and mature.
• Step 2: Don’t Underestimate the Power of What You Already Have
• Elisha asked the widow what she had in her house, highlighting the importance of recognizing and valuing what we already possess.
• Personal testimony of how God multiplied Tatum’s podcast and book into a thriving business.
• Challenge: Identify and present to God the small things you might be overlooking.
• Step 3: Reach Out to Your Community for Help
• Elisha instructed the widow to ask her neighbors for empty jars, emphasizing the power of community support.
• Addressing pride and the importance of humility in asking for help.
• Encouragement: Recognize the seeds you’ve sown in others and allow them to pour back into you.
• Step 4: Work in Private and Let Success Make the Noise
• Elisha instructed the widow to shut the door and work in private, focusing on the task without external distractions.
• Importance of faith and dependency on God’s instructions.
• Emphasis on rejoicing in God’s key performance indicators during the process.

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Key Points:

• Bible on Business Series:
• Scripture: 2 Kings 4:1-7 (NIV)
• Context: Elisha's encounter with a widow in financial distress and the miracle of the multiplying oil.
• Four Steps for Financial Relief:
• Step 1: Seek Wise Counsel
• Importance of seeking wise counsel when in financial strain.
• Wise counsel helps navigate the noise and emotional stress of financial difficulties.
• Qualifying Wise Counsel:
• Five Characteristics of Wise Counsel:

1. God-Centered: Counsel should be rooted in the fear of the Lord and love for God and others.
2. Biblically Sound: Counsel must align with scripture and be contextually accurate.
3. Discerning: Counsel should take into account the full picture and provide holistic guidance.
4. Humble and Teachable: Counselors should exhibit humility and a willingness to learn.
5. Experience and Maturity: Counsel should come from those with relevant experience and spiritual maturity.

• Biblical Examples of Wise Counsel:
• Moses and Jethro: (Exodus 18:13-24)
• Rehoboam's Advisors: (1 Kings 12:6-15) - Example of what not to do.
• Paul and Timothy: (2 Timothy 1:6-7) - Emphasizes the mentor-mentee relationship.
• Practical Application:
• Encourage listeners to study the provided scriptures and apply the lessons to their own situations.
• Highlight the importance of maintaining a relationship with wise counselors to navigate financial and business challenges.

Scriptures Mentioned:

• 2 Kings 4:1-7
• Exodus 18:13-24
• 1 Kings 12:6-15
• 2 Timothy 1:6-7

Announcements:

• Open House for Purpose to Podcast Program:
• Date: July 17th at 8 p.m. EST
• Free registration to learn about the program and hear from current participants
• https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/PPPOpenHouse