Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas

87. Queer Holiday Survival Guide

Mon, 13 Nov 2023 16:15:00 +0000

The holidays can be a little intimidating, especially for queer people who may or may NOT feel safe in places or with people (family) they are going to visit. We’re gonna chat about how you can make the most out of this holiday season to keep your sanity!

1. "Lesbian relationships and being friends with an ex. I feel this is more common among lesbian relationships and it’s not really talked about."

2. "I’ve been together with my girlfriend for 4/5 months, she’s met my family and friends, has been over to my home etc but I haven’t met any of her family yet nor friends. Seems like she’s waiting for the “right time”, I’m starting to feel like I’m being kept a secret for some strange reason."

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86. Being An Ally

Mon, 06 Nov 2023 16:15:00 +0000

The coming out process isn’t always a positive experience for a lot of LGBTQ+ people. Not only do they struggle with the process of figuring themselves out but they also bear the weight of all the negativity they may face when sharing their truth with family and friends. So as an ally, how do you provide a safe space for those to disclose to you their sexuality/ gender identity without fear of judgment.

Family Meeting Questions

1. “I caught my having sex with her coworker (a man) and he claimed he's her boyfriend”

2. "My wife and I had been married for two years but recently I found out she cheated on me a few months before we moved to another state".

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Sources

Do's & Dont's LINK
Being An Ally LINK
Ways To Be An Ally LINK

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85. Mismatched Sex Drives

Mon, 30 Oct 2023 15:15:00 +0000

We have all experienced that hot and heavy sex in the beginning of a relationship. It’s fun, exciting, and spontaneous and you can’t keep your hands off each other. However, as time goes on, the sexual desires start to fade away or your sexual drive decreases simply because life starts getting in the way.

In EP: 85 we dive into

What causes a shift in your sex drive.
Two types of sexual desire
How to manage mismatched sex drives.

Family Meeting Questions

“I would love to try strap in our sex life, however my partner feels as though girls who use straps aren’t gay”
“I’ve been with my wife for 10 years and now we only have sex on special occasions”

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84. Should We Take A Break?

Mon, 23 Oct 2023 15:15:00 +0000

Relationship breaks are perceived as a negative and selfish act. How can you claim to love your partner but want a break from your relationship? Most times one partner wants to take a break while the other partner doesn’t because it is viewed as one foot out the door to a break up. Taking a break in a relationship has a negative stigma because their purpose is never used in a positive way. In this episode we give reasons to why relationship breaks do not work, we share our personal experiences with breaks, and 5 rules to a healthy relationship break.

Family Meeting:

1. "How can I get past putting other people's sexual pleasure before my own? I just want someone who wants to please me as much as I want to please them."

2. "I'm in a relationship with an amazing man. However, I'm confused and struggling with my sexuality."

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83. Six Relationship Check-In Questions To Ask Your Partner

Mon, 09 Oct 2023 15:15:00 +0000

We say that communication is the key to a successful relationship but what does that look like in practice? Dayra shares some questions that help practice monthly check-ins with your partner. Dayra also mentions the new found research behind lab grown babies and how IVG could transform reproduction.

Questions to ask your partner:

What is something I have done this month that made you feel loved and cared for?
Do you feel there’s anything we need to improve in our relationship?
Is there anything you need that I haven't been giving you?
When was the last time I hurt your feelings and you decided not to speak about it?
Do you feel like you still have enough time for your friends and interests?
What’s one thing you’d want to change/try out for the next month?

Family Meeting Questions:

1. "Is it normal to not have any serious romantic experiences at 21 years old?"

2. "What are your thoughts on being ghosted?"

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82. Emotionally Safety

Mon, 02 Oct 2023 15:15:00 +0000

What is emotional safety? It basically means being able to be vulnerable with your partner. Jojo goes into 7 ways to create emotional safety in a relationship. Jojo & Dayra both discuss what it means to feel “emotionally safe” and they talk about a previous “discussion” they had where Dayra didn’t feel safe at the moment.

Read Article for more on emotional safety: https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-do-you-create-emotional-safety-in-your-relationships

Family Meeting Questions

“I had been dating this girl for about 2 years, but I started liking her friend…”
“My girlfriend does not feel emotionally safe with me”
“My partner and I have been in a relationship for almost two years, we go months without any sort of physical intimacy, including hugs and kisses”

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81. TV Lesbianships

Mon, 25 Sep 2023 15:15:00 +0000

We love to see LOVE on the big screen, especially WLW relationships. In this episode, Jojo shares some of her favorite TV lesbian relationships that she just can’t get enough of, as well as a list of other queer related TV shows for you to check out. To end on a juicy note, Dayra brings out the new couples question card game called pillow talk and let’s get naked from the “open up”.

Card game link: https://theopenup.com/

List of WLW Tv shows: https://sesamebutdifferent.com/blogs/chia-poppys-corner/hottest-lesbianships-of-all-time-on-tv-plus-where-to-watch-them

Family Meeting Questions

“I caught my wife emotionally cheating on me with her new friend”
“My girlfriend is still married to her ex. She told me she’d get divorced as soon as possible in the beginning of our relationship but it’s been 5 years now.”

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80. Lesbian Couples Therapy

Mon, 18 Sep 2023 15:15:00 +0000

In this episode we go over The Top Mistakes Most Couples Make⁠ according to a lesbian relationship expert, Dr. Ruth L. Schwartz. We go over the following..

“What are some of the most common mistakes you see lesbian couples making? Both at the start of a relationship or in a more established one?”
"Do you think all couples would benefit from couples counseling/therapy or ONLY those with relationship struggles/issues?"
"Is the U-Haul joke/rumor true and what do you advise couples who move quickly in a relationship do? Should they follow their hearts or put the brakes on things?"

Family Meeting Questions

"My gf tells me her baby father is disrespectful to her and I’ve seen it as well, I gave her my opinion on child support & because of my opinion she says that she can no longer trust me and that I don’t understand her logic."
"I’m currently married to a man, we’ve been together for 14 years & have 2 beautiful toddlers. I recently discovered that I am a lesbian."

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79. Relationship Non-negotiables

Mon, 11 Sep 2023 15:15:00 +0000

Having non-negotiables allows you to set boundaries for people to respect the things that you value most in life. It’s like a promise you make to yourself to not let anyone bend the rules or change your mind on what you want most. You hold yourself and them accountable when it comes to those boundaries by sticking to your word. So let us share our personal non-negotiables that we set for dating/relationships as well as 10 general examples for all couples.

Family meeting:

1. How do i get my virgo girlfriend back?

2. I saw my girlfriends DM's with a guy she went on a date with but she doesn't know that I know. How do I bring it up to her?

78. Hypothetically Speaking

Mon, 28 Aug 2023 15:15:00 +0000

There’s a current trend going around where people are asking their parents hypothetical questions just to see how they would respond/react in situations that most strict parents would overreact.

In episode 78, we’re now following this trend by asking each other how we would react in certain scenarios where most lesbian couples would probably OVERREACT! Dayra asks Jojo “What if I were to go out with my friends and I tell you that a guy was buying my friends and I drinks ALL night?”... And Jojo asked Dayra “What if I told you that I did not like your outfit and told you that you needed to change your outfit?”.

Family Meeting Questions

“I identify as a lesbian, I used to be so passionate about my identity and would always talk/think about it, now, I feel like I could care less. I have less desire to partake in discourse or consume queer media. Even when pride came around this year I just didn't get all that excited about it. Is it wrong to feel this way?
“My partner and I have a very flexible and *healthy* relationship, but sometimes I feel like I haven't enjoyed my young adult life being single, and that's making me nervous…”

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77. Lesbian Slang

Mon, 21 Aug 2023 15:00:00 +0000

Has someone ever asked you if you listened to “girl in red”? If so, they basically asked you if you’re gay. Everyday we’re coming up with new lesbian terminology! In this episode we go over some of the popular terms and what they mean. We also go over what it means to be "sapphic" and what is the difference between being a lesbian and being sapphic?

Read more about Lesbian Slang: https://www.onewomanproject.org/lgbtqia/lesbian-slang-a-not-so-comprehensive-guide (https://www.onewomanproject.org/lgbtqia/lesbian-slang-a-not-so-comprehensive-guide)

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Family Meeting Questions:

💖 “Is it strange that my current girlfriend is currently living with a friend that she has previously dated?”

❤️ “14 years together, married 3 years. My wife left in Feb, she said she loved me but wasn't in love with me.“

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76. Flirting Styles

Mon, 14 Aug 2023 15:00:00 +0000

We’re often asked to give tips on how to flirt whether you’re out in public or on social media. Flirting is supposed to be fun. It’s not meant to be hard or done with the intention of finding the love of your life. So we share 5 types of flirting styles we learned to help you find your groove. You can stick to the style you’re most confident with or learn a new one to master!

Flirting Styles: http://news.ku.edu/2013/09/11/new-book-outlines-five-types-flirting-styles

Family Meeting

1. "I've been dating a woman for a month and a half. From the first moment we exchanged messages in an app, I felt a connection. When should the title of girlfriend be used?"

2. "I’m 23 years old and still live with my strict sister and her family. I don’t want to lose the girl I’m talking to but my sister also never tries to understand my point of view when I talk about how I shouldn’t have to be asking her for permission to go out" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

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75. Before I Came Out

Mon, 07 Aug 2023 15:00:00 +0000

What was life like before coming out for us? Since Dayra came out later in life she had a lot to say about this, comparing gay dating vs straight dating, how we dressed compared to now, and even finding ourselves in welcoming spaces with people who make us feel comfortable to be ourselves.

FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS

1. "I came out when I was 18 and have only had one brief relationship and an series of hookups and situationships with women. I’m sick and TIRED of dating apps and want to meet someone organically but don’t know how?!"

2. "My straight best friend for 3 years is giving gay vibes, I don't see her as more than a friend but I still feel kinda awkward around her. Do you think it's just girls being girls or something else?"

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74. Does My Girlfriend Hate Me?!

Mon, 31 Jul 2023 15:15:00 +0000

“Does my partner hate me?” Has this thought ever crossed your mind? why does everything you say upset your partner? This could be because your partner is stuck in negative sentiment override. In this episode we dive into feeling disconnected with your partner emotionally and tips/questions on how to reconnect with your partner. We also talk about our experience and recent discussions when feeling disconnected. Links: https://celebrateagain.org/feeling-disconnected-from-your-partner/ https://www.regain.us/advice/general/how-to-recognize-emotional-disconnect-in-your-relationship-and-what-to-do-to-reconnect/ Questions to ask your partner to reconnect 1. Is there anything I used to do that you loved that I don’t do anymore? 2. What’s the number one cause of tension or disconnection in our relationship right now? 3. How can I be a better partner? 4. What dream of yours could I support you with, and what would that support look like? 5. What kind of date night activities could we plan to experience more joy in our relationship?

Family Meeting Questions

💖 “Met my wife on tiktok. Everything moved fast and we got married in less than a year, but things have quickly changed”

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73. The Best Of Breakups

Mon, 17 Jul 2023 15:00:00 +0000

In today’s episode, we talk about the good things that come after breakups. Breaking up can be quite devastating, especially for the person who doesn’t expect it, but believe it or not, it's not as awful once we redirect our energy into the things that make us feel whole again. Family Meeting: 1. "I have a friend and we’ve been flirting and everything, now her family is in the way ….so i’m confused idk what to think what should i do?" 2. "I've been in the closet for 30 years! And I’ve finally started dating..."

3. "I’ve had the same best friend for over 20 years but I don’t like her current partner..."

Sources:

https://markmanson.net/how-to-break-up-with-someone
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-psychology-relationships/202203/breakup-doesn-t-have-leave-you-broken

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72. Lesbian Dating & Relationships

Mon, 10 Jul 2023 15:15:00 +0000

In this week's episode we answer some relationship questions submitted by our fellow listeners..

1. Being loved bombed by partners that aren’t ready to commit.

2. “Partners” that aren’t ready to commit but want you to meet their friends and do things for you.

3. Talking to other people while also figuring out your dating goals with the person you’re talking to.
4. Why do partners feel the need to overspend on you fresh out the gate?

Family meeting:

1. "I've been talking to a girl for 6 months but she isn't ready for a relationship. Should I wait for her?"

2. "How do I continue to grow with the person I'm talking to when I always feel second to their deceased ex?"

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71. Sibling Relationships

Mon, 03 Jul 2023 15:15:00 +0000

As adults we get busy with life and we tend to grow apart from those we love. If you’re a loyal listener you know we focus on lgbtq+ topics, however, in this episode we talk a little bit about family. We dive into the following…

Describing our relationship with our siblings
How we came out to our siblings and how that relationship was like after coming out
Sibling drama/fighting for our parents attention/favoritism, etc!

We also dive into why siblings grow apart over time.

Family Meeting Questions

“I was talking to a married lesbian for 2 months and her wife found out”
“My girlfriend has an ex who has a son and my gf is very attached to him, not sure what to do”.

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70. Is It Cheating? Queer Women Edition

Mon, 26 Jun 2023 15:10:57 +0000

Les Chat about cheating again! There are no “universal rules” around cheating, what is cheating and what is not cheating is up to you and your partner. In this episode we go over this TikTok video where she goes over “cheating” scenarios (video link: https://www.tiktok.com/@kristy.ca/video/7239822376970587398 - for queer couples) and we go over it in this episode. If you would like to listen to our last cheating episode (The Cheater & The Cheated) tune into episode 8. Below are some questions we go over.. IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner still listens to a playlist that their ex made them? IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner STILL hangs out with an ex that still has feelings for them? IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner uses a strap that used to belong to them and their ex Family Meeting Story “My gf cheated on me emotionally..” “I cheated on my BF and I am GAY AF." PRECIOSA NIGHT TICKETS: https://www.preciosanight.com/tix Please rate, review, and subscribe to or follow the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

69. The Ultimatum: Queer Love

Mon, 19 Jun 2023 15:00:11 +0000

We couldn't let pride month go by without out deep diving into the most popular Netflix queer reality series "THE ULTIMATUM: QUEER LOVE"!! Yes, we FINALLY discuss our thoughts on the original 5 couples, the trail couples, and the all the drama in between up until the reunion. DISCLAIMER this episode is a huge spoiler alert so if you have not yet watched or finished watching this series we suggest you do that first and tune back into this episode. Also, if you're looking to close out this pride month with a night to remember then come join us in NYC for the very last pride month celebration!! Click the link below for details on the NYC Pride Event!

Link to NYC Pride Party: CLICK HERE

Family meeting:

1. "I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years but we haven't be sexually intimate".

2. "My girlfriend recently told me that she want to experiment with other people and that she may never want to come out".

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EP. 68 What's happening during PRIDE MONTH?!

Mon, 05 Jun 2023 15:10:53 +0000

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!! This episode was short and sweet where we talk about what’s going on this month, what events we will be attending as well as some events YOU should attend as well!

Below are some events happening in NJ/Philly/NYC and LA!

6/6/23 - 6/11/23 - LA - 7 Exclusive Events For Women Who Love Women @taste.ent @tasteofficial_

6/9/23 - Haddon Township Pride @haddontownshipequityinitiative

6/10/23 - Sip City Queer Prom @sipcitymixer (Tickets can be found here: https://linktr.ee/leschat - use promo code "leschatpodcast"

6/10/23 - Queer Mixer in Jersey City with @jerseycityconnects

6/10/23 - Philly Pride Run @phillypriderun

6/10/23 - Brooklyn Pride @brooklyn_pride

6/10/23 - Montclair, NJ Pride @outmontclair

6/10/23 - Red Bank, NJ Pride In The Park @redbank_nj

6/10/23 - LA HoodRave @hoodravela

6/11/23 - LA Pride Village Parade @hollywoodpartnership

6/11/23 - Drag Brunch Canopy in NJ @jerseycitypride

6/15/23 - Trans Pride in Philly @sipcitymixer

6/17, 6/24 & 6/25 - Pride Party Cruise: Sparkle in the Dark @eventcruises_nyc

6/21/23 - NYC Yankees Pride Night @nycpride

6/22/23 - 6/24/23 NYC Party with @edennycpride

6/23/23 - 6/24/23 - NYC Pride Drag Brunch Cruise @eventcruises_nyc

6/24/23 - Pride 5K

6/25/23 NYC Pride Grand Finale @slateny with @nydreamgyrl

6/25/23 - NY Pride Island @brooklynarmyterminal

6/23/23 - NYC Pride

NJ Drag Queen Entertainment Shows @dragqueenentertainment

Jersey City Drag Shows on Fridays & Saturdays with @six26_lounge

Family Meeting Questions

“I’ve fallen for a straight girl!”
"What would you choose? you find a girl you have an out of this world emotional connection, but zero physical attraction OR you have another girl that connects with you on every sexual level, but you can't show your true self outside the bedroom.”
“I’m 21 and I’m dating a 26 year old, but I wasn’t being honest with myself”

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67. Dating Within Your Friend Group

Mon, 29 May 2023 15:10:12 +0000

It's no secret that in lesbian culture we find ourselves befriending exes or maybe even getting involved with close friends! While it seems cool and convenient at first, it can be quite the MESS. Sharing a friend group with your partner can be ideal for many reasons..

For example, you understand the friendship dynamic, you share most of the same interests, you reciprocate one another's energy, and have the same ideas of what boundaries are. However, dating someone in your friend group or befriending an ex can also be weird and create instability in your shared friend group.

We share some tips on dating someone in your friend group and tips on what to if you breakup with someone who has the same friend group as you.

Family Meeting Q&A:

1. "Can you be friends with an EX?"

2. "My girlfriend won't tell me why she stopped talking to her "bestie"."

3. "My girlfriend went out and broke my trust."

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66. 7 First Date Conversation Starters & Date Ideas

Mon, 15 May 2023 15:00:00 +0000

Instagram is full of insightful post that we can all relate to so this week’s episode we leave the topic of discussion to instagram. We chose 2 popular IG post “7 questions to ask on a first date” and “7 first date ideas” to share along with our own thoughts about them.

Family Meeting Story

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65. Stigma's About The LGBTQ+ Community

Mon, 08 May 2023 15:15:51 +0000

Why are there so many stigmas towards the LGBTQ+ community? I’m sure we’ve all heard the following statements...

“Homosexuality is a choice”
“You can’t be queer and religious”
“All bisexuals are promiscuous”

And many more! Before the 1970s, most stereotypes about the LGBTQ+ community were extremely negative, doctors believed if you were gay, you suffered from a mental disorder. In 1973, the American Psychiatric Association removed homosexuality as a mental disorder, but then replaced it with "sexual orientation disturbance." Then in 1987, the (DSM) Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders removed homosexuality from their list.

We also dive into stigmas regarding HIV. For as long as HIV has existed in the public eye, it has been associated with the LGBTQ+ community. We are excited to share that we are partnering up with The Black Aids Institute.

The Black Aids institute is dedicated to ending the HIV/AIDS epidemic in the Black community. Some of you may be thinking to yourself “HIV doesn’t affect me because I’m a lesbian who dates women only”. However, today there are more than 1.1 million people living with HIV in the U.S and 23% of them are women.

HIV affects women of color, especially black women. This is an important reminder to get tested and to get that HIV vaccine once it comes out, we’re manifesting it will be very soon!

Family Meeting Q&A

“I can’t get over my ex-girlfriend”.
“How long would you be willing to wait for a marriage proposal before calling it quits?”

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64. Our Legacy

Mon, 01 May 2023 15:15:06 +0000

You don't have to be famous or be known by the world to leave behind a legacy that will live beyond our existence. We all play a part in the impact and influence we have on one another's lives. It’s up to you on what you want to be remembered for.

In this episode we talk about the people we looked up to that have shaped us into who we've become leading up to adulthood. We dive into how in creating this platform, we'll leave that legacy behind us and how we want to be remembered as a couple as well as an individual.

Family Meeting

“I’m straight but I think I’m in love with my BFF”

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63. A Queer Baecation

Mon, 24 Apr 2023 15:15:19 +0000

A vacation is good for the soul and for the relationship. In episode #63 we dive into BAECATIONS! Listen, WE NEED A BAECATION so we’re just gonna reminisce but we also want to talk about our travel experience as a queer couple and everything you need to know before booking that baecation. We dive into our traveling personality, when it’s too early to book that baecation, how often couples should go on vacation, as well as. Safe places to travel for LGBTQ couples - Link The worst places to travel for LGBTQ couples (There are 64 countries that have laws that criminalize homosexuality, and nearly half of these are in Africa. - link) Family Meeting Q&A’s Christianity/Religion & being LGBTQ+: My partner feels as if she cannot be bisexual and also a Christian. Are we breaking up? “Lately I’ve been feeling like I want to break up with my girlfriend”. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ .GAY Domain Link The #DotGayDomain is on a mission to support LGBTQ+ communities by donating 20% of each domain name registration to grassroots organizations and banning hateful sites. Head over to www.LesChatPodcast.gay and grab your FREE .gay domain and join us in creating an internet where everyone can be themselves proudly! 🏳️‍🌈✨ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

62. PLANET SEX

Mon, 17 Apr 2023 15:15:20 +0000

Do you know that the cl*t is basically a small penis? LOL

Where did we get this information? On Planet Sex with model Cara Delevingne. On Planet Sex, Cara talks about growing up feeling ashamed of her sexuality and fearful of exploring it. Cara meets people from all over the world who live their lives out loud, and proud, In each episode she explores a different question about sexual orientation and gender identity. In this episode, we focus on certain episodes we loved!

We also dive into other topics, such as

In OXACA, Mexico, they have 3 genders that are actually highly respected in their communities.
0rga$m facts

Family Meeting QA’s

I’m a stud that just got out of a 7-year relationship with my ex GF a few months ago, but now I met a man and the $ex is amazing.
My GF no longer wants to have kids or get married…

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61. Adult Friendships

Mon, 10 Apr 2023 15:00:00 +0000

When we were younger, making new friends was easy and having a larger group of friends was normal. However, as we get older having only two or three close friends becomes the norm because life just seems to get in the way. In this episode we talk about how work, parenting, home chores, relationships and even the pandemic made friendships harder to maintain as an adult. We also dive into how friendships look after coming out and what it's like to be the only gay friend in the group. Family meeting: 1. My GF and I work for the same company she’s a HR manger and i’m a supervisor but we work in different buildings.The issue is that when i am venting to her about work or some gossip it always turns into a argument because her HR comes out but i have to remind her that I am venting to my GF not HR. 2. I’ve been with my girl for a year and half. She has a daughter who has ADHD. This wasn’t told to me upfront and it has caused some difficulties in the relationship. We’re good overall, but the child is an issue due to lack of respect. How do you find a middle ground or do you walk away? IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

PRECIOSA NIGHT/LGBTQ BROOKLYN PARTY ON 05/13 - TICKETS

SipCity Mixer (Philly)
Melamixin Sip City (Philly)
Philly Gay Girls
SipCitySouthJersey
TheHouseOfQueers
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60. Relationship Fighting Styles

Mon, 03 Apr 2023 15:10:12 +0000

What’s your fight style? Similar to “love languages” we also have “fighting styles”. Relationships are often associated with the idea of love and happiness.. How do I keep my partner happy? How do I show them I care and understand? How can we “fight” without it turning into a screaming match? There are SO many different online articles and online quizzes on fight styles but we focused on the top 3 by Jay Shetty, “Venting, Hiding, or Exploding”. We also dive into other popular fighting styles/languages and how you can find neutrality and peace. Family Meeting: ”I’m an 18 year old fem lesbian and she’s a 21 year old bi fem, is the age difference an issue?” "Hello,I’m a closeted bisexual and really want to come out. But I’m afraid that my friends will look differently at me. “ FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ FIGHT STYLES QUIZ https://what-is-your-fight-style.scoreapp.com/?fbclid=PAAaZ4Nd872HcXNhv0xj6WBRQsJmTP4oUdDqlMbYPUP4Tv_G5qv-y7El4dmN4 SOURCES https://www.yourtango.com/love/six-fight-languages https://www.thehealthjournals.com/5-anger-languages/ TOPIC ON NASHVILLE SHOOTING https://www.reuters.com/world/us/after-school-shooting-some-trans-tennesseans-face-backlash-2023-03-31/ https://www.instagram.com/teachingisintellectual/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

59. Pronouns With Teacher Robi

Mon, 27 Mar 2023 15:00:53 +0000

Nairobi, also known as Robi is a middle school art teacher who has gone viral on TikTok for the way they manage their classroom, funny conversations with students, tiktok dances, outfit of the day and more!

Pronouns are not something we’ve touched on in this podcast because we wanted someone to come in and educate us and talk about their experience. Robi identifies as non-binary and goes by they/them. So what are pronouns?! It’s what you use to address other people when you’re not using names. The most common pronouns are she/her/hers, they/them/theirs, and he/him/his.

It’s important to respect pronouns because you wouldn’t call someone a different name other than the one they have. In this episode we dive into

💜Robi’s teaching experience/why they became a teacher

💛What students address them as and how Robi corrects them or doesn’t correct them when they say the wrong pronoun, such as “Ms Robi”

💗And more!

Family Meeting:

We don’t have any family meeting/Q&A in this episode.

Robi’s Social Media Handles

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58. Embracing Our Journey

Mon, 20 Mar 2023 15:09:29 +0000

This episode was a little different, we introduced our "Love without limits" merch and the journey it took to get to this point. While it is still Women's History Month we talked about queer Hispanic history and some badass queer women we should all know about. Also, played one our favorite card games, “We’re not really strangers” where we both answer relationship and couple questions. Special Announcement: Merch goes on SALE to Patreon members on Monday, March 20th and everyone else can shop on Tuesday, March 21st at 12PM EST. Family Meeting: “I have a gf I love her to death but when she's going through something she pushes me away “ “How can I deal with my gf when it’s that time of the month?” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/⁠⁠ TIKTOK: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc⁠⁠ YOUTUBE: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/⁠⁠ PATREON: ⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod⁠⁠ Our website: ⁠⁠https://leschatpod.com/⁠⁠ Link tree: ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/leschat⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.luckyskivvies.com/⁠ - ⁠PROMO CODE: LES10 LES CHAT MERCH: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ QUEEN V: https://amzn.to/3ZQugjx --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

57. Dating Co-Workers

Mon, 13 Mar 2023 15:00:32 +0000

Most of our daily time is spent at work with fellow coworkers, more than we see our loved ones. Our co-workers are the people who relate the most to us because they work side by side for hours throughout the week. It's unrealistic to think that we won’t ever create a bond or develop potential feelings for at least one co-worker. Whether those feelings are on a romantic level or just a pure deep friendship connection you’ll find it hard to keep the vibes as just “business”. So what are the pro’s and con’s of dating someone within your workplace? Jojo and Dayra run through those pros and cons as well as some "DO'S and DON'TS" in the event that you DO decide to cross that line.

Family Meeting:

1. "My wife got super close with a male coworker. They are texting/calling each other constantly. I told her that it’s too much but she told me that I can’t tell her what to do. "

2. "So my girlfriend has been lying to me about her ex..."

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56. Green Flags

Mon, 06 Mar 2023 16:15:58 +0000

Red flags are the signs telling us to proceed with caution and that we're playing at our own risk. Sometimes those red flags are actually telling us that it maybe it’s time to let the relationship go.

Although it's usually easier to notice all the negative things that we experience, sometimes we just have to remind ourselves of all the positive things too. In this episode Dayra and Jojo tap into that positivity by discussing "Green Flags" when it comes to dating/relationships. They give examples of what they seek as green flags when dating someone such as good family connections, self awareness, acceptance of presentation, respectful of pronouns etc.

Family Meeting:

1. “I caught my girlfriend sexting another girl.”

2. “How do I get over the fear of approaching my crush?”

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55. Am I A Lesbian? The Master Doc

Mon, 27 Feb 2023 16:15:56 +0000

The “Lesbian Masterdoc” is a google document that asks you to consider if you are a lesbian. This is the same master doc that Kehlani read that made her realize she may be a lesbian. It’s written like a blog post and it goes through bullet points to help you understand the difference between heterosexuality and compulsory heterosexuality which is the idea that heterosexuality is assumed and forced upon women, which may make women feel forced into being attracted to men, even when they might not be. You may not relate OR you may REALLY connect with this google doc.

We review a few sections from the chapter and discuss our thoughts on “Am I Lesbian?”, such as…

Having such high standards that literally no guy meets them – and feeling no spark of attraction to any guy who doesn’t meet them
You’re far more certain about being attracted to women than you are about being attracted to men
Only/mostly being into guys who are gender nonconforming or feminine in some way.

Family Meeting Questions

1. “I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months and I still haven't seen her n@ked or haven't gotten to really be intimate with her. "

2. “I have heard Dayra say that she has a few health problems related to IBS. I’ve been going through similar issues and feel like there are no answers for what is truly wrong with my health."

Copy of “Am I A Lesbian Google Doc” -

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BONUS: Bad Dates Sneak Preview

Wed, 22 Feb 2023 02:24:13 +0000

In this bonus episode we talk about our BAD dates stories! Join our Patreon Family! On Patreon we want to connect with our audience on a deeper level by providing more bonus content, vlogs, behind the scenes, monthly zoom meetings, discord chats, live advice, merch discounts, and more! patreon.com/leschatpod We currently have 2 membership tiers, the BABY GAYS for $6 which includes EXCLUSIVE COMMUNITY: Take part in Patreons community, polls, posts, Q&A’s, etc. LES CHAT GROUP CHAT: Join our private Discord group chat. 2x BONUS CONTENT: (Two minimum monthly Les Chat extended episodes, behind the scenes, OR vlogs) Q&A FAM MEETING: We’ll answer your family meeting questions in 48 hours via DISCORD. IG CLOSE FRIENDS: More content from us from our Instagram page. VOTES: Give us feedback on future topics, merch & contribute to future episode topics. MEETUPS: NJ/Philly/NYC meetups And our MOST popular one, LES CHAT FAMILY, which includes Everything in the previous tier AND + 4x BONUS CONTENT: (Four minimum monthly Les Chat extended episodes including live zoom audio, behind the scenes, OR vlogs) LIVE ZOOM & CHILL: Monthly zoom meetings where we’ll play games, talk shit & bring on your FAV GUESTS! LIVE FAM MEETING QUESTIONS: We’ll chat about your personal questions! MERCH: Get merch discount! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

54. Muralist Artist goes on Reality TV - FT Melanie Posner

Mon, 20 Feb 2023 16:15:51 +0000

In today’s episode we have Melanie Posner, muralist and artist. Her name rings a bell because she was part of the reality tv show Tampa Baes from Amazon Prime Video. The show was inspired by The Real L Word! In this episode we talk about.

The REALITY of filming a reality show
Melanie’s dating life during the show
How Melanie got into art/becoming an artist/muralist

Tiktok Reference:https://www.tiktok.com/@therealmelpoz/video/7133654642830953770

Unfortunately, we did not answer any family meeting questions in this episode!

Melanie's Instagram
Amazon Prime Tampa Bae's Show
Tampa Bae's Trailer

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53. Queer Dating Struggles & Tips

Mon, 13 Feb 2023 16:15:23 +0000

In EP 53 we dive into lesbian dating and the struggles of dating when it comes to

Dating apps
Cat fishes
Being ghosted
Finding time to date and more!

We also get into

How do I initiate a conversation with a girl? OR What if I’m awkward or have anxiety?
How do I talk to girls on dating apps?
I'm fem presenting and I’m into fems, how do I flirt with a girl?
How do you know if she likes girls?
Is she flirting or being friendly?
What if you are not receiving the same love you’re giving?

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Family Meeting Questions

“How can I pass the feeling of being scared of having seggs with my s/o?”
“My relationships have mostly been with non-Latinas who I never feel a true connection with.. but I’m too insecure to pursue who I want”

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52. That First Healthy Relationship

Mon, 06 Feb 2023 16:15:12 +0000

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Why does nobody talk about your first healthy relationships after having so many toxic ones?

It's ideal to want to build a healthy relationship between you and your significant other. However, no one tells you how HARD maintaining a HEALTHY relationship is! Jojo and Dayra dive into the reality of how they transitioned into building a healthy relationship together. Also, how to continue maintaining a healthy relationship by always being intentional and learning new ways to communicate on the same level. Including 5 examples of healthy characteristics/ signs to leading a healthy relationship as well as 4 foundations to maintaining it.

Family Meeting Questions

“Dating a 34 year-old female who’s living at home with her parents and she is not out to them. I love her but it is becoming a turn off”
“Where can I find fems that are into fems?

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Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat

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51. 10 Things I Wish I Knew Before Coming Out

Mon, 30 Jan 2023 16:15:41 +0000

In EP 51 we talk about 10 things we wish we knew before coming out of the closet! We get into coming out to your family and friends, as well as bisexuality, straight girls, and more!

As always, in each episode, we answer questions from our regular listeners.

FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS

1. "I’ve NEVER been on a date or been with anyone and I don’t know where to start. Any tips?"

2. "I think I'm polyamorous and I have a crush on two girls who happen to be sisters"

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50. Meeting Her Parents: Gay Edition

Mon, 23 Jan 2023 16:10:58 +0000

We all want to be accepted into our partner's family, especially when in a QUEER relationship. In this episode we discuss how important it is to try to have a rapport with your partner's family.

We also talk about the following

How we met each other's parents/family members.
Past experiences when meeting our partner's family.
Uncomfortable situations when meeting family.
Setting boundaries with our family in order to make our partner feel safe and comfortable.
& Steps to getting along with their family (if you’re an awkward person).

Family Meeting Questions

What are your thoughts on girls who refuse to eat out their partners?
“I’m still in love with my ex”
“I came out as a lesbian 3 or 4 years ago and haven’t started dating yet. I'm 19 so I can’t go to bars, any tips on meeting women?”

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49. Why Is It Hard To Talk About Sex?

Mon, 16 Jan 2023 16:15:00 +0000

In this week's episode we talk about sex, sexual confidence and the "talk"! Some of the topics we discuss are

Why is it hard talking about sex?
What are some barriers that make it hard for couples to discuss their sex lives?
How do you open the door to talk about sex?
How can you initiate sex?
Sexual confidence

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FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS

1. "I want to propose to my girlfriend but my friends think it's too soon."

2. "What is a yoni egg? Was it spiders or STD's??"

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48. Tales Of A Lesbian Long Distance Relationship

Mon, 09 Jan 2023 16:15:48 +0000

HAPPY NEW YEAR LES CHAT FAMILY! Can you believe we almost make a year since we started Les Chat? We started our podcast back on January 24th of 2022 and we’re so grateful for all of you!

We are BACK like we never left with Season 2 of Les Chat Podcast and we’re coming in with new segments! This podcast episode is a little different from previous episodes. In this episode, Dayra reads a story submitted by a listener. The story gets JUICY, we talk about

Long-distance relationships
Sharing passwords with your partner
Checking your partners location
Cheating

Let us know what you think about this format, if you like this, we can start sharing more stories in our podcast episodes.

FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS:

No question in this episode because we have a full story!

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47. OUR 2022 RECAP

Mon, 26 Dec 2022 16:00:52 +0000

THE START OF 2022: Our vision/purpose of this podcast: - Create a platform for those who didn’t feel represented - “Be the person you needed” for those in the community who didn't have the necessary support - Share personal experiences to help those in similar situations gain other perspectives Things we discuss: - What have we accomplished? - What have we learned from the struggle? - What have we improved on the most? - What moments were our most/less favorites? - What do we plan to achieve in the upcoming year? - What we want to leave behind - What we would like to take with us into the new year. FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS: 1. “I’m dating a new girl and it’s great, but I’m concerned because we don’t have sex as much as we did in the beginning” 2. “My girlfriend’s best friend is her male ex” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Our website: https://leschatpod.com/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

46. Soft Girl Era

Mon, 19 Dec 2022 16:15:00 +0000

Jojo and Dayra get real RAW in this episode and have some difficult conversations. We show the reality of relationship issues and common disagreements between couples. We dive into the "soft girl era" and the following topics,

What IS the "soft girl era"?
Who started the "soft girl era" trend?
Why are people changing their lifestyles to this "soft girl era"?
Do you think it's hard to be in your "soft girl" era as a Latina?
What is the first step to enter your soft girl era in a relationship where you're both "hard"?

We finish off with how we will personally go into our "soft girl era" and how we will hold ourselves accountable in 2023!

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FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS:

Can you be friends with an ex?
“My teacher kissed me…”

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Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat

Soft Girl Era Link: https://www.glam.com/1090415/heres-why-black-girls-on-tiktok-are-entering-a-soft-girl-era/

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45. Society's Beauty Standards

Mon, 12 Dec 2022 16:15:00 +0000

40 percent of America’s lgbtq+ community say they've been rejected by family members or close friends at some point in their lives due to their sexual orientation or gender identity. In this weeks episode we get into beauty and how we see ourselves. We also dive into… - Plastic surgery - Influence culture and how social media affects our idea of beauty. - Self esteem/confidence

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44. Creative Living Ft Toushai

Mon, 05 Dec 2022 16:00:13 +0000

We invite Shaina Negron aka Toushai, a tattoo artist, painter and singer who displays her artwork to more than 200,000 followers on her social media. We talk about how her creative career started, what body painting is like and what inspired her to write her newest song “Tu no me amas”. We also talk about false narratives the internet has about Toushai and her dating “standards.” Dayra mentions a “gay icon” towards the end and we get the scoop on the reality of dating a celebrity. Toushai’s Tiktok 1900’s Video Reference: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTR45Ykgc/ FOLLOW TOUSHAI ON SOCIAL MEDIA: https://www.instagram.com/toushai/?hl=en @shaishaikoolaid @toushaink @toushaiart linktr.ee/toushai FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS I was in a situationship where I was putting in more effort than them. How should I move forward w/this person? I caught my girlfriend cheating on me with someone who I thought was my friend. SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON! https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast? igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ TROVATRIP LINK: https://trips.trovatrip.com/trips/costa-rica-with-les-chat-mar-2023 https://linktr.ee/leschat --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

43. Life Under Pressure

Mon, 28 Nov 2022 16:00:00 +0000

Dayra and Jojo dive into the pressures they face in life from society, work, & even family. Society has taught us that as women, not only are we held to a specific standard but we also have to work a thousand times harder than the norm just to be “good enough” in the work field.

While trying to fight through society’s barriers, our families remind us daily that coming from a cultured background means nothing in life is meant to be easy for us. No matter how much we think we’ve succeeded we’ll always have to keep working harder and be held at the highest standards.

Family Meeting Questions

“I’ve been with my gf almost 2 years we started off very sexually active but this last year NOTHING, she gets mad at me for bringing it up…”
“So I just recently got broken up with and I’m having trouble moving on. We met online and the girl was living with her husband...”

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42. Latina Mami

Mon, 21 Nov 2022 16:15:37 +0000

The holidays are coming and we need to talk about our hispanic culture! In this episode Jojo & Dayra talk about what it means to be hispanic and gay. We talk about our relationships with our parents and grandparents. We also talk about what it’s like being a child of immigrant parents and being the only hispanic woman in a room full white people.

Family Meeting Questions

“Is it okay to walk past an ex? Baby gay, dated 1st gf for 2 yrs & broke up with her. I don’t hate her, I want to be respectful and I hope she’s been okay but I don’t want to be friends tbh.”
“I love my GF and we have been together for 15 yrs, we are planning to get married in the near future, however I just found out she wants to be a trans.”

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LES CHAT PODCAST HAS A BIG ANNOUNCEMENT

Wed, 16 Nov 2022 16:15:00 +0000

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41. Serial Lover

Mon, 14 Nov 2022 16:00:23 +0000

Dating around is necessary in the early stages when trying to figure out what you want in a partner. Although people don’t find “dating around” fun, there are some who actually love the idea of the dating stages. Jojo & Dayra define what a serial dater is as well as some potential signs to look for in a serial dater.. For those who love the idea of love and romantic relationships we introduced “serial monogamy” & the signs of those who can’t just stay single.

Family Meeting Questions

So I’ve already asked you guys the question about a strap on your last video but to follow that up what if she did like it in the past from other people and she has told you about it but still won’t do that with you ?
I was talking to someone & I really liked her but then she made a r@pe joke so I cut her off. I have only known her for 2 months. It hurt me to stop talking to her but I felt it was a boundary I had to set. Would you have cut someone off for that?

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40. Queen Of The Switch Up FT Ke'Alohilani

Mon, 07 Nov 2022 16:00:00 +0000

Jojo and Dayra welcome Ke'Alohilani AKA the viral queen of switch ups and transitions on Tiktok!! Ke'Alohilani gives us the back story of how she became the queen of switching her look between fem/masc. Although, finding it difficult in her earlier stages to find a happy medium in presenting both masc and fem (due to past relationships experiences) Ke'Alohilani didn't let it discourage her. Choosing to continue her self love journey of owning her style as well as enjoying her time being single by just dating herself. CHECK OUT HER TRANSITIONS HERE: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRxSJk8A/

Ke’Alohilani Social Media

IG: https://instagram.com/kdnaonecarterr?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kdnaonecarter?_t=8X46H4ovNVr&_r=1

Family Meeting Questions

1. I recently got out of a short relationship...Am I wrong for holding expectations for the people I date?

2. I feel like a phase after a 7 year relationship since my ex is now dating men.

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39. Les Trick Or Treat

Mon, 31 Oct 2022 15:30:00 +0000

Happy Halloween friends!! 🎃 Dayra and Jojo welcome two of social media’s favorite lgbtq+ creators! Yes, it’s sexy Lexie & our favorite baby gay from ep.22 Kristin! Dayra sets the tone with a les question card game as an ice breaker to get the juices flowing. Leading the conversations straight into the spicy stuff. Speaking on topics of sex parties, open relationships, dating straight women, spiritual journeys, conquering the fem/masc energy, & how the art of seduction as a dancer can affect potential relationships.

Lexie’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/lexiepeterss/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/peterssperspective/?hl=en

Kristin’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/wheretheroadforks__/?hl=en

Family Meeting Questions

“I’ve been with my girlfriend for a year and she won’t let me use a strap on her but she has with other people”
“Recently decided to go out on the “dating scene”. went out for the 1st time with a girl I met online, she got drunk then ghosted me…”

FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:

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YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ

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38. Do You Remember Your First Time?

Mon, 24 Oct 2022 15:30:00 +0000

Happy Monday! In today’s episode we talk about our first times! Dayra & Jojo talk about the first time they ever kissed someone, first time they had “sexy time” with a woman, and the first time we ever got drunk or high! Dayra talks about her experience when she took an edible and how horrible her trip went. Family Meeting Questions 1. My gf is now working with her ex, how should I feel about this? 2. The person I was dating is not okay with their sexuality. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast? igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ TROVATRIP LINK: https://trips.trovatrip.com/trips/costa-rica-with-les-chat-mar-2023 https://linktr.ee/leschat --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

37. Sexuality Is Fluid

Mon, 17 Oct 2022 15:30:00 +0000

Jojo & Dayra welcome Kenny on this week's episode to discuss how sexuality can actually be fluid! For some, labels allow them to be seen & approached by the public with what they self- identity but for others, labels can feel like a box, not flexible enough for growth. Kenny shares with us her coming out stories at a young age, the history of her romantic relationships with women, how therapy helped her to set the boundaries necessary in a way where nothing could hinder her growth, and lastly what encouraged her to be open minded about allowing a male to potentially pursue her romantically.

Family Meeting Questions

I’m not sure if my co-worker is gay, I want to ask her our but I don’t want to make things weird at work.
How do I get over the fear that my bisexual girlfriend is going to leave me for a guy?

Follow Kenny on IG

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36. Humor Is Oxygen

Mon, 10 Oct 2022 15:30:42 +0000

In this episode we discuss humor.. When asked what you want in a partner the most common answer besides physical attraction is someone that is funny! Most people don't share the same sense of humor or even know their/ partners humor type. Although humor isn’t the sole purpose of laughter, having the same understanding of what brings that sense of joy/ laughter helps to bond couples. We discuss the 9 different types of humor.

We also list some big lesbian comedians and go into why some comedians are depressed and the sad clown paradox.

We dive into..

Is it ever okay to make fun of your partner?
How to get through it when you and your partner have different types of humor.

Family Meeting Questions

My girl and I got a sp3rm donor through a FB group and now he wants rights to the baby.
My girlfriend doesn’t get excited about things I tell them anymore

WHOREible DECISIONS PODCAST w/ LESCHAT

YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/c/WHOREibleDecisions
IG: https://www.instagram.com/whoreible_decisions/?hl=en
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/whoreible-decisions/id1224239045
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71qcFqfm1Y5PAQ6tUonLR3
Our favorite episode: Plan B & Jail: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_WpIgB3J7vU

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YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ

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35. Things I Wish I Knew Before Dating Women

Mon, 26 Sep 2022 15:30:00 +0000

We hear straight women say quite often "I'm about to start dating women" with the idea that women relationships are easier to handle. Little do most people know lesbian/wlw relationships require much more effort than expected. Dayra and Jojo run down a list of things they wish they knew before dating women that could have potentially helped better prepare them for the types of relationship they had experienced. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

34. LGBTQ+ Relationships

Mon, 19 Sep 2022 15:30:00 +0000

DV often occur in same sex relationships just as much if not more as straight relationships. However, it seems to be taken less seriously than straight relationships. People don't often recognize the signs of abuse from a partner until it's too late. Jojo and Dayra discuss what domestic violence is defined as and why it isn't taking as seriously between same sex relationships. They go over the different types of abuse and examples of different signs most people don't recognize. Family Meeting Q&A: 1. My partner is my first serious queer relationship. They are very much a touch me not, I love them. But a part of me feels like I’m missing that experience I never got. Thoughts? 2. Hi there! Big fan of the podcast, especially as a new queer Latina. I’ve been with my husband for over 3 years, but have always had questions about my sexuality. I recently came to terms that I am bi & told him. He’s super supportive about it, but has said he has no intent of getting a divorce. I love him & he’s a great guy, but part of me wants to discover this new part of my sexuality. At the same time, I’m terrified of the idea of getting a divorce & losing my best friend. What do I do? - The National Domestic Violence Hotline https://www.thehotline.org/support-others/help-for-abusive-behaviors/ Safety Plan - https://www.un.org/en/coronavirus/safety-planning If you or someone you know is suffering from domestic violence, call the Women’s Advocates hotline at 651-227-8284. Trained advocates can provide you with resources, connect you to legal guidance, or help you safely flee an abusive relationship. No one deserves a life of violence. - Domestic Violence Documentary: (On Prime but also free on this site) Deadly Women is an American true-life crime documentary-style TV series - S13- EP5 - they go over a few short stories on cold-hearted women who commit horrendous acts of violence on their loved ones. - Starts 15 mins in https://metro.co.uk/2017/10/12/tragic-before-and-after-photos-show-how-girlfriend-abused-and-killed-her-victim-6996178/- - https://www.investigationdiscovery.com/video/deadly-women-investigation-discovery/without-mercy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

33. Lesbian FAQ's

Mon, 12 Sep 2022 15:30:49 +0000

Hii everyone! Happy Virgo Season! We took off Labor Day but we’re BACK! In this episode we go over the MOST frequently asked/ searched questions for the lesbian community.

Here are some of the most common questions.

Are lesbian relationships complicated compared to heterosexual relationships?
Are lesbian breakups harder/worse?
Can lesbians have a baby/get pregnant? How do lesbians have kids??
Why don’t lesbian relationships last?
Why do lesbian relationships move fast?

Family Meeting Questions

I’m in my 1st lesbian relationship but I’m not comfortable with PDA..
As a female who’s attracted to woman and always end up with men, how would you suggest I go about my journey.

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32.Bi Wife Energy

Mon, 29 Aug 2022 15:30:19 +0000

We introduce our favorite fellow podcast friends/couple Travis and Stephanie from the Westilllikeeachother podcast. In Episode 3 of their podcast, Steph talked about identifying as bisexual and they were open to introducing a third in their relationship but said “it never worked” yet they still had some sexual experiences… we get deep with Travis and Steph asking them the most common yet important questions like...

Why did you introduce a third in your relationship? Was this a “third” as in you wanted it to be a poly relationship or it was just a threesome?
Who brought it up first? How did you communicate that you wanted to bring someone into the bedroom?
What boundaries were set when you brought in a third? Were they allowed to stay the night? Were cuddles allowed?
How do you bring up wanting a threesome? For example, a cis woman and guy want to bring in another girl

https://westilllikeeachother.com/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/westilllikeeachother/

Family Meeting Questions:

I’ve been in a 12 year relationship the love we have for each other is there but her mother has been in control of the relationship since it started….
How do y’all go about splitting bills? I understand the 50/50 but that doesn’t work with my girlfriend and I because I make more than she does.

TROVATRIP LINK:

https://my.trovatrip.com/public/l/email/les-chat
How couples can split bills article: https://hermoney.com/connect/love/how-couples-can-split-their-money-to-be-fair/

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31. Interracial Dating FT Brennah

Mon, 22 Aug 2022 15:30:37 +0000

Happy Monday everyone! In this episode we feature Brennah, 25-year-old owner and chef of LesbiVeggies, a Black-owned, LGBTQ+ friendly, all-vegan restaurant in Audubon, NJ! We talk a little bit about her entrepreneur journey but we also get into some interesting topics on dating outside our race, dating stories, zodiac signs, pronouns and lesbian stereotypes!

We also discuss,

- How our home background/environment affected us being comfortable with our sexuality.

- Some differences we learned in dating/being friends with people of other ethnicities/races

- Do lesbian recruit straight women?

- Are most lesbians are vegans?

- Are marcs the better cooks?

Check out this article by Edible Philly on LesbiVeggies! - https://ediblephilly.ediblecommunities.com/eat/brennah-lambert-expanding-vegan-lifestyle-lesbiveggies

https://www.veganrestaurantaudubon.com/

IG: @brennahlambert_

@lesbiveggies

Family Meeting Questions:

"What should I do if I really love my girlfriend but I don’t like eating her out because sometimes I don’t like the way she tastes?"
"I am a baby gay who’s been on many dates with a woman but has never kissed or got sexually involved with a woman. How soon should I share that I’m inexperienced? "

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30. Leschat About Boundaries

Mon, 15 Aug 2022 15:30:01 +0000

Leschat about setting boundaries and what makes setting boundaries so difficult? Jojo & Dayra go over examples of how they've had to set boundaries in the past with partners, family, friends, the workplace, etc..

We’ve all been in situations where we find it difficult to set boundaries with a friend because we’re worried about coming off rude or offensive. Dayra is the queen of boundaries!

Setting boundaries is about taking care of your own needs. Setting boundaries might mean you might lose people, most people don't like boundaries because they like having power, give that power back to yourself instead.. Setting boundaries is a form of self respect and you deserve to be respected.

Family Meeting Questions

1. "I have a girlfriend who was in an open relationship with her boyfriend. They broke up and now it’s just us, she lied & ...."

2. "My fiance's family is super catholic and they don’t know she’s gay..."

3. "Is it always this emotional being with a woman? If so, Idk if I want this anymore"

Don't forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe! DM/Email us for any questions or topics discussion you'd like to hear from us.

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29. Attachment Styles

Mon, 08 Aug 2022 15:00:00 +0000

Jojo & Dayra go over the 4 attachment styles and why it’s important to know them and how it may be affecting your relationship. Ask yourself.. ⁃ Do you get too clingy or jealous? ⁃ Or do you always seem to be more involved in the relationship than your partner? ⁃ Or maybe you want to be with someone, but as soon as things get serious, you back off? If any of these relate, you may have an anxious, avoidant, or fearful-avoidant attachment style. We also go over, ⁃ What ways can women's attachment styles interact with their experience of compulsory heterosexuality aka the idea that heterosexuality is the expected norm? We finish the episode with how your attachment style can change with a lot of work, patience and intention. Family Meeting Questions ⁃ “My partners co-worker gave her $100 in singles for her birthday, should I be worried?” ⁃ “My co worker claims she’s straight but she sends me mixed signals.” - TRAVEL SURVEY: https://my.trovatrip.com/public/l/survey/les-chat --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

28. Public VS. Queer Spaces

Mon, 01 Aug 2022 15:05:00 +0000

Public spaces hold more heternomative expectations making it difficult for lgbtq+ to be open or authentic.. What was your first experience in a nightclub or a gay nightclub? Should straight people be allowed in gay clubs? We invite Jasmine to the podcast AGAIN and we talk about our experiences in nightlife. Why are lesbian bars disappearing? Why are queer spaces important? We go into some fun facts based on The Lesbian Bar Project documentary. Lesbian Bars on the East Coast CUBBYHOLE - NYC HENRIETTA HUDSON - NYC GINGER’S - BROOKLYN MY SISTER’S ROOM - ATLANTA A League of Her Own - Washington, DC BABES OF CARYTOWN - RICHMOND, VA Family Meeting Questions 1. I gained weight and my partner told me they are not sexually attracted to me anymore. 2. I was married for 17 years in a straight relationship and now I am newly single and exploring my sexuality but I’m scared of “coming out” 3. How do you make your partner believe that you aren’t going to leave them for a man if you are bisexual. Dont forget to like, comment, share, and rate! DM/Email us for any questions or topics discussion you'd like to hear from us. JoJo's TikTok: @JoDiddy & Instagram @LovePeaceBlissss Dayra's TikTok: @Dear.Dayra & Instagram: @Dear.Dayra Thank you for all the love and support!! FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast? igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

27. Big Strap Energy

Mon, 25 Jul 2022 15:10:24 +0000

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WLW/Lesbian Sex is a taboo topic but les chat about it! In this episode we go over...

Using a strap/ our thoughts on straps
Having a "crooked vagina" aka a "retroverted uterus"
Being the receiver or the giver?
Is a strap the main source of intimacy with a partner?

We also discuss...

STEPS into getting your first strap!
Getting comfortable using a strap/harness
Different ways to make using a strap more pleasurable.
A sex ed course by Beducated.com on "Exploring different penetration positions including: Cowgirl, Missionary, Doggie, etc"

Family Meeting Questions.

"I've climaxed about 7 times in three years."
"I just found out I am a lesbian but I’m in a serious 4 year relationship with my boyfriend.."
"I recently found out this fem I'm talking to is really into the rough sexy time stuff, like choking, handcuffs"

Don't forget to like, comment, share, and leave a REVIEW!

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26. Coping with Grief

Mon, 18 Jul 2022 15:00:26 +0000

Grief is expressed differently across different cultures. Some people like to be expressive and public with their emotions, while others like to keep grief private. In this episode we talk about our personal experiences with grief and how we coped with it.

We discuss,

- How can grief help/ allow us to grow?

- When should you seek help for your grief?

- How to cope with grief?

Family Meeting Questions

1. When is there a “good time” to ask about grooming habits before we take that step and get intimate- while not offending her or killing the mood.

2.Dating tips and what it's like now to date?

3. Where am I supposed to meet someone special if all the dating apps are just for hooking up?

Dont forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe!

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25. Lesbians W/ Anxiety FT Jaime Filer

Mon, 11 Jul 2022 15:01:08 +0000

LGBTQ+ individuals are more than twice as likely as heterosexual men and women to have a mental health disorder in their lifetime… In this episode we talk about mental and physical health with personal coach/trainer Jaime Filer who has over 118,000 followers on social media! Jaime helps LGBTQ+ women integrate their physical and mental health to decrease anxiety.. We discuss living with anxiety as an LGBTQ+ person and what we can do to support a loved one who suffers from anxiety. We dive into…

Therapy and our experience with it.
How do you even begin a regimen when you struggle with anxiety?
Books/podcasts Jaime recommends that help with mental health.

You can follow Jaime Filer on IG/Tiktok

IG: @jaim91
Tiktok:@jaimefiler
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/teamjaim91
Jaime’s Personal Website: https://linktr.ee/jaim91

RESOURCES: LGBTQ+ Crisis/Suicide Prevention Hotlines

https://www.hrc.org/resources/mental-health-resources-in-the-lgbtq-community

A Family Meeting YOUTUBE video will be posted this week!

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24. Life Without Rights

Mon, 27 Jun 2022 15:00:00 +0000

As pride month is coming to an end we give a quick recap on all the gay festivities we got into as well as the awesome queer guests we were able to have on the podcast as a pride month special. Following our exciting recap we speak up on the political catastrophe of Roe v. Wade recently passing the ban of abortions. Not only as a woman but women of the LGBTQ+ community & apart of the minority community we express how absolutely destructive it is to have passed this law. The pass of this ban has also brought officials to shed light on potentially reversing the legalization of same sex marriage! Family Meeting 1. My daughter is 28 years old and has been with her gf for 7 years who cheated on her.. 2. As a masc fem I love using $traps but my gf is a Virgin 3. “Should I break up w my girlfriend? I made a friend 3 years into our relationship but she doesn’t like her at all..” Dont forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe! Follow us on instagram and tiktok @Les.ChatPodcast for more content! DM/Email us for any questions or topics discussion you'd like to hear from us. JoJo's TikTok:@JoDiddy & Instagram @LovePeaceBlissss Dayra's TikTok: @Dear.Dayra & Instagram: @Dear.Dayra https://anchor.fm/leschatpodcast1322/... Thank you for all the love and support!! —————————————————————— FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

23. IVF Baby Making Journey FT EdenxJay

Mon, 20 Jun 2022 15:30:00 +0000

This week Les Chat are joined with Eden & Jay. A latina queer married couple from Los Angeles! They’ve appeared on the Today Show, the Jubilees Spectrum Show, and Cara Delevigne's Hulu's Documentary "Planet Sex", they’ve also modeled for Play Boy & Fenty, and were Dinah Shore influencers! In this episode we dive into how same sex couples have babies, and what to start thinking about if you’re in your 20’s and wish to have kids in the future. In this episode you can expect to learn more about:

How did Eden & Jay met.

Healthy relationship tips from Eden & Jay.

Social media couples/relationships.

IUI vs IVF (Intrauterine Insemination VS In vitro fertilisation).

What is mini IVF.

Choosing a sperm donor.

Can you pick the gender of a baby?

Family Meeting Questions

1. What was it like coming to terms with your sexuality before and even after coming out? Because even after telling people i still struggle with the entire concept im gay

2. Have either of you ever been stressed or have so much going on that sex kinda took a backseat? And if so did you cut and run or did you work it out?

EDENXJAY SOCIAL MEDIA:

YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/c/EdenxJay

IG: https://instagram.com/edenxjay?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKoPdSx/

LINKTREE: https://linktr.ee/Edenxjay

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22. Coming Out Later In Life Ft Kristin

Mon, 13 Jun 2022 15:30:00 +0000

It's never too late to do the things that make you happy even if you have to take a few losses along the way. We invited Kristin Holden on to the podcast to share her experience in what it’s like coming out in her 30's. Although it hasn’t been an easy process with telling family and friends, she still manages to find her peace and courage to live as her truest self. Kristin also shares some super helpful tips on what it take to live life on the road as a van lifer herself! Family Meeting Questions “I guess you can count me as a “baby gay”. I’m starting to date again but it’s been hard. My level of experience puts people off. Do you have any advice on how to overcome this?” “Should I confront my homophobic mother?” https://www.wheretheroadforks.net/ - https://www.wheretheroadforks.net/van-life IG: https://www.instagram.com/wheretheroadforks__/ Tiktok: @wheretheroadforks_ FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

21. HAPPY PRIDE MONTH

Mon, 06 Jun 2022 16:17:41 +0000

Pride month is here and in full effect!!! Excited to celebrate an entire month full of gay festivities where we get to be our gayest selves, share an abundant amount of love, meet new fellow queer friends and give all the "YASSS BITCHHH" compliments until our voice is gone. We can't forget the people who fought the fight that got us to this point. In this episode we give a little bit of the story behind pride and how it all started as well as share how pride impacts us today. Family meeting Q&A: 1. “Allowing your partner to heal after a traumatic experience” 2. “Have you guys talked about wanting kids? And if so, who would carry the baby?” 3. “My brother wants my gf, what should I do??” ————————————————————— FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

20. Best/Worst Scenes Of The Original L-Word

Mon, 30 May 2022 15:30:26 +0000

In this episode we talk about THE L-WORD! We focus on some scenes from the Original L-Word (2004-2009). You don’t need to watch the L-Word to understand what we’re talking about in this podcast episode. Is there such a thing as “coming out too late” in life? Listen/watch Phyllis ask Bette if it’s too late for her to come out (she’s an older married woman with kids)... Imagine coming out in front of your Latinx family? Remember when Carmen comes out? Or when Bette goes off on the homophobe or when Kit (the biggest Ally) disagrees with Max’s transgender “decisions”? Family Q&A Do y'all think you can have a successful relationship with someone who is "straight"? In a relationship with a girl who loves and respects me, but her friends have no boundaries and I feel uncomfortable. I can’t get an 0rga$m from p0rn but I can when I watch some tiktoks… How We Stay Updated with the NEWS! BadQueersPod - Podcast ShaunKing IG Impact IG Matt Bernstein IG --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

19. Types Of Intimacy

Mon, 23 May 2022 15:30:19 +0000

Sex may be the most desirable type of intimacy to share with a partner but it certainly isn’t the only form!! Dayra and I share our top form of intimacy followed by some research on “12 different types of intimacy to experience with you partner”. We also go over the 5 E’s to help improve intimacy in a short time span from Jay Shetty’s Podcast! We discuss our definition of intimacy and how we experience it in our own relationship. We also go over the 3 following family meeting questions! 1. Thoughts on breaking up & making up.. 2. “Feeling lost when it comes to relationships, I haven’t dated anyone in 4 years” 3. “Where do you find queer friends/ queer people to mingle with?! As a fem, how do I signal that I’m gay in public?” --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

18. Unpacking The U-haul

Mon, 16 May 2022 15:30:11 +0000

Lesbians are known to u-haul in a short time span! However, when is it an appropriate time to move in together?

What are the common problems couples encounter after moving in together? How does living together affect the relationship? In this episode we discuss OUR story of living together. We talk about finances, chores, boundaries, pet peeves, alone time, etc!

We end it with family Q&A’s and would you rather!

“I got married to a woman and my family didn’t congratulate me, they texted me saying I was making the worst mistake of my life by committing this sin.”
“How should someone who had trust issues feel about her girlfriend making ONLY lesbian/bi friends?”
“Have you ever gotten into a situationship with one of your friends and lost the friendship because of it.”
“I am 51 years old & now after 15 years of being with my wife she has decided she’s no longer in love with me and has left.”

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17. Queer Sex

Mon, 09 May 2022 15:30:55 +0000

Yesss!! We're back with another sex talk but this time it's a little more educational. Sex on the big screen can be quite the fantasy but it's just not reality. In this episode we discuss queer sex and how we learn how to lick like a pro with Beducated! They are an online site with courses on relationships, sex, intimacy, etc. We talk about queer porn and our thoughts on it, as well as how sex education was portrayed in high school…

How real is queer porn? How do women squirt?? ALL questions we need answers to! We play a little game of Smash OR Pass with celebrities like Mila Kunis, Angelina Jolie, Alicia Keys, Kehlani, Demi, Ashlyn Harris and more! We end the podcast with..

Family meeting Q&A questions:

1. Is a hoe phase necessary?

2. My ex made me delete my LGBTQ tiktok videos, and did not like when I hash-tagged #lgbtq. Now that we’re over, I see her all over tiktok doing the same sh*t!

3. I’m scared that my future partner will invalidate me because I haven’t had any experience with women, what should I do?

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16. Unpopular Opinions

Mon, 02 May 2022 15:30:00 +0000

We all have our own personal opinions but we don't always choose to voice them. Sometimes the subject can be a little more touchy so people shy away from those discussions in fear of being judged. However, in this episode we are choosing to STIR the pot and go over some of the most commonly controversial unpopular opinions about relationships. Some are.. is marriage only for business purposes? Do fems run the relationship? Is it okay to go through your partners phone? Is it healthy to argue?

FAMILY Q&A:

1. How do you “come out” as a stemme? I have been femme presenting all my life but I’m having trouble finding my masculine style. I’m also afraid of not attracting stemmes myself if I am dressed masculine.

2. My partner had sex with their best friend in high school, but hangs out with them all the time and walks around half naked. Should that make me mad or should I get over it.

3. What can I do when my gf is frustrated?

4. So my partner of almost 2yrs has a bestfriend that doesn’t like me. Her bestfriend has NEVER met me and she claims that she dislikes me bc my gf is always with me and she’s changed her ways bc of me. Would you be mad at your gf for still talking to her best friend?

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15. Gay Gals & Gay Pals

Mon, 25 Apr 2022 15:30:14 +0000

In this episode we chat with Steve and Mateo about the differences and similarities between lesbian couples and gay couples! Steve and Matt are married and share their story on how they met.. We talk a little bit about about what we were afraid of before coming out and what made us wanna come out. What is dating like as a gay man? Do you think you can turn someone straight?…How does gay sex work for gay men, are there tops and bottoms? We educate Steve and Mateo on the lesbian terms like “pillow princess” and “gold stars”.

Steve’s IG - @professorsmm Steve’s Tiktok - @professor_smm

Matt’s IG - @matthhhew Matt’s Tiktok - @matthhhew97

Family Meeting Q&A's "Should couples only talk about their issues with their partners & not ask others for advice about what to do?"

"Should my partner being with guys before bother me as much as it does"?

"She ghosted me & posted her new gf on social media".

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14. The Baby Gays

Mon, 18 Apr 2022 16:00:00 +0000

We all remember our "Baby Gay" phase where we were quiet, timid, and full of questions! The most frequently asked question like.. How do I flirt with girls? How do you show that you're gay for girls to know? Where did you find your queer friends? How do you know if someone is just friends or likes you? etc. All of which are normal questions to ask. Dayra & Jojo answer those questions to help shed some light on this journey for our newly queer friends.

Family meeting Q&A: “I’m a virgin baby gay and I don’t know what to do! How can I get over the fear of being bad in bed?” “How do you balance religion and being queer”? “How do you know when your partner is the one?” “What is your opinion on colorism in the LGBTQIA community?” “Can you share some tips on moving out?”

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13. In A World Full Of Bullies

Mon, 11 Apr 2022 16:00:00 +0000

Being bullied in grade school is something we all experienced at least once... For our lgbtq+ listeners, how has being gay affected how you navigate through life? We talk about our personal experiences during high school from shaving our latina mustache to our glow up experience. We talk about how WNBA Candice Wiggins was "bullied" in the league for being "straight".. Dayra brings up current events and our thoughts on the "Don't Say Gay" bill. FAMILY MEETING Q&A "What do y’all think about exes commenting under someone you talk to pictures ?" "I’m talking to someone and she is giving me mixed signals.. sometimes she tells me she misses me and sometimes she clearly ignores me. Should I cut her off?" "What does it mean when a females tells you that you are not ready for her?" --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

12. Shady Business

Mon, 04 Apr 2022 16:00:00 +0000

In a world full of imperfection we know that NO ONE is perfect! Have you ever played or treated someone bad and then felt bad about it after? Has anyone done any shady things to you? In this episode we talk about our experiences and tell your our dirty little *secrets*. Also, WHAT is considered a hoe phase do you think it’s necessary? Dayra says yes it’s essential! Lastly, If you came with a warning label what would it say? Warning labels would save us a lot of time when it comes to the dating scene! FAMILY MEETING Q’s & A’s When did you know you were lesbian? 49:15 (We also talk about this in EP1) Have you ever been with a girl during seggs she says “get me pregnant”, What is your response?” 53:39 "Whats your opinion when a girl with 2 kids is lesbian?” 55:27 (Watch EP2) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

11. Life After Heartbreak

Mon, 28 Mar 2022 16:00:00 +0000

To be in love is something we all crave to experience.. but not all love stories have a happy ending. Love isn't meant to be perfect but with the right person it won't always feel so hard. Dayra and I open up about our not so "happily ever after" relationships that ended in heartbreak. We speak on the red flags and signs we noticed leading up to the break ups as well as touch base on how it can negatively affect ones mental health. Although it was a rough journey, down the path of healing, both Dayra and I found the light at the end of the tunnel that lead to our inner happiness and peace followed by a lot of self-love.

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10. The Date That Never Ended

Mon, 21 Mar 2022 16:00:00 +0000

“Lesbians fall in love fast” may be the most COMMON stereotype but it isn’t completely wrong. Dayra & I share a lot of personal experiences from coming out, to old relationships, red flags, cheating, stereotypes/preferences & even had the SEX talk… but we haven’t shared the story of how we met! For some, dating during Covid wasn’t at all ideal & for others “quarantine quickies” was all that was needed. However, eager to get back to life as we knew it (before the pandemic) some of us still managed to find our person.

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9. "Lets Talk About Sex Baby"

Mon, 14 Mar 2022 16:00:00 +0000

In Episode 9 we talk about lesbian sex! This episode is a bit spicy! Are you a top, bottom or switch? We talk about our first time, fantasies, throuples, open relationships, rosie (you'll love her) and we share some awkward sex stories! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

8. The Cheater & The Cheated

Mon, 07 Mar 2022 17:00:00 +0000

In Episode 8 we talk about multiple topics! Have you ever cheated on someone? Has someone ever cheated on you? If so, why do you think people cheat? We give talk about the top 8 reasons why people cheat in relationships. Do you believe in second chances? What is considered cheating to you? What is worse, emotional or physical cheating? Dayra talks about her breakup story, Jojo talks about how she caught her ex cheating, Lily also talks about how she caught her ex cheating! And of course, we talk about the L-Word Generation Q (Spoiler Alert towards the end) Why did Sophie ruin her relationship? Don't forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe!

Thank you for all the love and support!!

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7. Meeting Your Partners Family/Friends

Mon, 28 Feb 2022 16:50:00 +0000

When should your partner meet your friends? Do you introduce all your relationships to your family and friends? Do you get invited to go on your partners “girls” trip or “boys trip” If so, do you go? Does your family have a preference on who you marry? These are all the questions we discuss in this episode! We talk about old relationships and how we navigated it. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

6. Love Languages & Astrology: Part 2 from Happy Wife, Happy Life!

Wed, 23 Feb 2022 19:18:16 +0000

In this episode we talk about Love Languages which comes from author Dr. Gary Chapman. We discuss our own love languages and how you can understand your partners love language.

We also discuss Astrology! Lina goes over the “big three” which are your Sun, Moon and Rising as well as what phone apps she uses to learn more about ourselves as well as our loved ones. We discuss the cliche and stereotypes that come with zodiac signs.

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5. Happy Wife, Happy Life!

Mon, 21 Feb 2022 17:00:00 +0000

They say "happy wife equals happy life" so lets talk about SAME SEX MARRIAGE! Yes we said it. We invite Lina and Flor to the Les Chat Podcast! They’ve been married for over 2 years and have been together for 5 years. We talk about being married in the military, the u-haul experience, family reactions and advice for newly married couples!

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4. Red Flags/Toxic Traits

Mon, 14 Feb 2022 17:00:00 +0000

The dating world for lgbtq+ relationships is very similar to heterosexual couples. In this episode we brought on our friend Jasmine. Together we all discuss toxic traits and red flags. The red flags you ignore in the beginning eventually are the reason why some relationships end or turn toxic. Jasmine shares her thoughts and experiences in this topic. You’ll feel like you’re having a girls night, talking to friends and sippin your wine 🍷

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3. Preferences & Stereotypes

Mon, 07 Feb 2022 17:00:00 +0000

From the outside looking in, the LGBTQ+ community is full of stereotypes!! However, what stereotypes are true and which ones are false?! In this episode we cover a few stereotypes people tend to associate with lesbians. Prior to jumping right into the true or false of those stereotypes we discuss how we present ourselves to others. For example, "stud/femme/stem" as well as what our dating preferences are when it comes to how others present themselves to us.

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2. Two Moms Are Better Than One

Mon, 31 Jan 2022 17:15:34 +0000

Join us while we welcome our two good friends Joyce and Oceanna to the Les Chat podcast. Oceanna shares her story of not only coming out to her family after meeting her girlfriend Joyce, but also introducting the idea of two moms to her son. Joyce expresses how although she didn't necessarily plan to date someone with a child she couldn't be more grateful to be apart of Oceanna and her son's life. They explain in detail of how being a parent can be quite the hardship in a relationship but with a little adjustment and priorizing it can be done. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

Les Chat Introduction Trailer

Tue, 25 Jan 2022 01:57:50 +0000

Listen if you want to know what to expected from this new up and coming LGBTQ+ podcast!!

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1. The Coming Out Process

Tue, 25 Jan 2022 01:26:15 +0000

Join us in our very first podcast episode of Les Chat where we focus on LGBTQ+ content! In this episode, host Jojo and co-host Dayra give a brief introduction as well as what pushed us to start this podcast. We dive into the details of our coming out story and how our Latinx family responded.

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