Bernie and I talk about how this shows up in real life with clients: expectations that were never truly aligned, the “easy button” energy that sneaks into the room, and the moment you realize you’re trying to want someone’s success more than they do.

This one is for the service provider who wants to help people win, but wants to do it without becoming the hero of someone else’s story.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

In this episode, Bernie and I talk about that line founders cross without realizing it, the moment vision stops being leadership and starts turning into obsession, overreach, or the danger zone. We also get honest about how much your environment and inner circle can either steady you… or quietly push you into decisions you’ll have to clean up later.

This one’s for the established entrepreneur who’s building something bigger than what their current season can comfortably hold, and wants to stay ambitious without losing integrity, relationships, or sanity.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

We get into why the first week feels clunky, why your brain starts negotiating around day 10, and why the reps matter more than the mood. Because by the time you hit week four, you’re not just “doing the thing,” you’re better at it, calmer doing it, and you’ve built real momentum you can actually ride.

And Bernie and I both declare our own personal 30 Day Challenges to each other (and you are welcome to be a part of it!)

If you want a founder-level reset that isn’t a total reinvention, this is it. One decision. One daily rep. Thirty days. And a very real chance you’ll surprise yourself with what happens when you stay in it.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

In this episode, Bernie and I talk about what that loneliness actually looks like in “real life business” and the difference between needing someone for the tough days versus the wins you’re scared to say out loud, the way we each spiral (or shut down) when it’s an “empty parade” season, and why oversharing with the wrong people can cost you more than staying quiet.

We also get practical about the kind of support that actually helps from your “Core 4” and how a relationship-first networking culture can quietly become the bench you lean on when you need perspective, encouragement, or someone to talk you off the ledge.

If you’ve ever felt like your “parade crowd” looked more like an empty street, this one’s for you!

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

Bernie and I talk about the kind of market research that actually matters…the kind that tells you what people want in their own words, not what you hope they want. Because it’s a whole lot easier to sell someone something they already want than to convince them they should want what you built.

If you’ve been posting and praying and calling it strategy, consider this your nudge to stop guessing and start asking. This is founder-level, real-life clarity for anyone who’s ready to get out of the “create and hope” cycle without reinventing their entire business.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

Bernie and I talk about the difference between what we say we value (boundaries, family, staying steady) and what we accidentally model when the pressure hits (when the launch flops, when the cash feels tight, when you’re winning but still living like you’re behind). Because your kids don’t take your advice. They copy your actions.

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re passing down grit… or anxiety… or a workaholic badge of honor… you’ll hear yourself in this one. It’s a coffee chat about succeeding, failing, and recovering out loud, so the people watching you learn the right lessons.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

In this episode, Bernie and I get honest about what actually has to happen for advice to move from "that's so good" to actually changing how you operate and we are honest about the gap between consuming content and implementing it, why good intentions aren't the problem, and what it really means to surrender to an approach versus just going through the motions.

If you've ever taken a course, had a great coaching call, or bookmarked a podcast and done absolutely nothing with it (my hand is raised!!)…this one's for you.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

In this episode, Bernie and I get honest about where that line actually is between professional persistence and straight-up chasing. We unpack the subtle signals people give (and the ones they don’t), what it looks like to close the loop without burning the bridge, and why “fortune is in the follow-up” doesn’t mean you need to keep knocking on a door that’s clearly not opening.

You’ll walk away with a clearer gut-check for your next follow-up, a better way to stay in your CEO energy when someone’s dragging their feet, and a little permission to stop making excuses for prospects who won’t decide.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

What does it actually looks like when your business is “under construction” for real? Not just a cute rebrand season, but the kind where the platform shifts under your feet and the systems you built on suddenly stop cooperating.

In this episode, Bernie and I get into the very specific pain of rebuilding while you’re still delivering, still selling, still trying to act like you’re totally fine… while your brain is quietly running a demolition crew in the background.

We also pull apart that tricky question: is this broken, or is this just growth? And what do you hang onto as non-negotiable so you don’t rebuild the wrong thing.

And yes, we’ve both had a moments where we discovered “if the detour is better, you have to make that the main route” which is annoyingly true, but also kind of relieving if you’re in a season where the best next step isn’t the one you planned.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

I laughed when I pulled this issue from the archive because it’s one of those “oh cool, we’re doing this again” themes and apparently my business heard me and said, “Bet.”

Bernie and I swap stories on the funniest “opportunities turned problems” experiences (someone offered to book me private jets…I don’t think my LinkedIn profile makes me look that successful!), and we talk about what to do when people interrupt your day with a cold pitch. I tend to Uno-reverse them, but Bernie has a mischievous approach, of course.

Then we get into the less-funny part of growth: when the role that helped you build the business isn’t the role you need now and we wrap by normalizing the cycle: bigger problems usually mean you’re playing a bigger game, but repeating the same problems might mean you’re the problem you keep having!

Give it a listen and if you’re in the trenches, fighting business battles right now too, just know you’re not alone… we’re in it with you!

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

I’m not anti–Word of the Year… I’m just very familiar with the moment you look up and realize you ghosted yours by February without even noticing. Mine was “Focus,” and the funny part is, I didn’t rebel against it. I just got busy and called it momentum.

Bernie and I talk about shiny-object season and why it’s almost impossible to label something as a “distraction” in real time (especially when the opportunity is genuinely good). We also get honest about how quickly “fun” collaborations can start quietly hijacking the commitments you swore were non-negotiable.

By the end, the question isn’t “Should I try harder?” It’s “Is this a recommit moment or a release moment?” And if you’re not regularly asking what’s working and what isn’t, you’re basically outsourcing your year to whatever shows up loudest.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 http://www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

In this episode, Bernie and I talk about that maddening moment when your business is ‘doing well’ on paper… but your bank account still hasn’t gotten the memo.

We get real about the stuff that quietly drains you, like subscriptions you forgot you had, upgrades that felt “responsible,” and reinvesting so hard you never actually feel the win. We also share a couple of our own stories (credit cards, bad timing, and yes, me being annoyed that Bernie’s audio is better than mine).

Then I walk through my CEO Expense Checklist, because at some point you have to ask the question nobody wants to ask: is this decision building a business that takes care of you, or just a business that keeps taking.

If you’ve ever hit a revenue milestone and still wondered where the money went… then this one is for you.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

Okay, real question: would you drink the cat poop coffee… and what would it take for you to say yes?

That’s where we start today’s conversation, but what it turns into is the kind of honesty you usually only get from entrepreneurs deep in the trenches of building their brands.

If you’ve ever felt like your work is solid but you’re still blending into the noise, we talk about why “good” isn’t memorable, and why playing it safe is usually the problem. We walk the line between what is authentic vs. gimmicky, and what it feels like when you intentionally stop trying to be universally liked.

Plus, the touching origin of Mustache Moments and the story about the eyelash that abandoned ship mid-zoom call give you a peek behind the curtain of how we developed our own signature brands… because sometimes you don’t choose your brand, it chooses you! Tune in, you’ll probably have an opinion on this one.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

Bernie bought a business. Or at least he thought he did. Turns out, what he really bought was a name and a handful of relationships that weren’t fully his yet.

In this episode, we talk about what it felt like to have a million-dollar year… and then watch major clients disappear. About holding onto an old model longer than you probably should. And about that moment where you realize the thing that used to work isn’t what’s going to carry you forward.

This isn’t a “here’s how to pivot” episode. It’s just an honest conversation about what it looks like to loosen your grip, stop splitting your focus, and finally commit to the direction that’s actually gaining traction.

If you’ve ever known something needed to change, but weren’t quite ready to let it go, this one will probably feel familiar.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

Three years ago, Alison thought $2,000 a month was the finish line. Then it was $5,000. Then $10,000.

The problem wasn't greed. It was ambition that drove her to keep changing the goal before she even reached it. In this episode, she talks about what that pattern cost her, how it turned her into the kind of business owner she didn't want to be, and the mindset shift that helped her stop chasing and start building.

If you've ever hit a goal and immediately felt behind, this one's for you.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

A typo on a website. A networking group I didn't think I belonged in. And a guy who believes in culture over conversions.

This is the story of how Bernie and I went from "nice to meet you" to "let's build a podcast together" and how one weekly Zoom call turned into the biggest business opportunity I've ever had.

In this episode, we're pulling back the curtain on how a “puppy entrepreneur” with 97 LinkedIn connections and a former corporate education trainer ended up here, co-hosting a show about what it takes to keep a business going long after the excitement of launch phase is over.

If you've ever wondered whether networking actually pays off, grab your coffee and settle in. This is where it all started.

About your hosts:

Alison Leigh Simmons (The Caffeinated Entrepreneur) is the founder of Lead Smarter Co. She helps established service-based founders clean up their backend, build smart systems, and use AI in a way that actually reduces the day-to-day chaos.

🌐 www.leadsmarterco.com

✉️ alison@leadsmarterco.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-leigh-simmons/

Bernie DeSantis (The Man Behind the Mustache) is a virtual event producer and owner of Insignia Training Partners. He helps businesses plan and run high-quality virtual events that feel smooth, professional, and human, without making it a whole stressful production.

🌐 https://insigniatraining.com/

✉️ bernie@insigniatraining.com

🤝 https://www.linkedin.com/in/badiii/

The Caffeinated Entrepreneur Podcast is where I take the weekly newsletter conversation and bring it into real life. Not as a lesson. Not as a step-by-step training. But as the honest behind-the-scenes version: the decisions, the doubts, the momentum, the messy middle, and the “I cannot believe this is my job” moments.

You’ll hear me (Alison), your super high-energy host, and Bernie, my mustached partner-in-crime who keeps the vibe grounded, talk through what building a business actually looks like when you’re trying to grow without burning out.

We’ll cover the stuff founders don’t always say out loud:

• What’s happening under the strategy
• What leadership really feels like in different seasons
• Why certain decisions drain you, even when they’re “right”
• And how to keep moving without turning your business into a chaos machine

If you you’d rather listen to a real conversation you can relate to than another lecture, press play.