RedCircle VERIFY_TOKEN_73a772d4-d661-44a5-af8a-e074b010d88c -- Rendered At Mon, 20 Jul 2026 23:59:47 +0000 B.U.K.K.Y SHOW https://redcircle.com/shows/b-u-k-k-y-show en-GB Oluwabukola Oluwabukola Let’s talk about our individual experience, our stories, mistakes and definitely our wins, let us yarn together 73a772d4-d661-44a5-af8a-e074b010d88c episodic no Oluwabukola elegbede.oluwabukolamii@gmail.com https://feeds.redcircle.com/73a772d4-d661-44a5-af8a-e074b010d88c false full Would you rather Would you rather 22 1 Oluwabukola In this episode, i soke about. the challenges of getting a new place and asked to unserious question "would you rather". have fun listen to the episode. In this episode, i soke about. the challenges of getting a new place and asked to unserious question "would you rather". have fun listen to the episode.

]]> <p>In this episode, i soke about. the challenges of getting a new place and asked to unserious question &#34;would you rather&#34;. have fun listen to the episode.</p> 3724a423-154c-49c7-bedd-2f490aa1dc4e https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 15 Jul 2026 16:00:41 +0000 1761 false full What a random fact about you? What a random fact about you? 22 1 Oluwabukola In this episode, i just chilled and spoke about the most random of things you could think of? In this episode, i just chilled and spoke about the most random of things you could think of?

]]> <p>In this episode, i just chilled and spoke about the most random of things you could think of?</p> c98adfb5-479c-471d-807f-87e1a6497a74 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 08 Jul 2026 16:20:28 +0000 1916 false full Who do you think you are Who do you think you are 21 1 Oluwabukola Who are you really? Not your job title. Not where you live. Not the version of you that shows up in certain rooms. This week we sat down with Jide and asked the question that sounds simple until you actually try to answer it. Is your identity rooted in where you come from? The culture you were raised in, the faith you carry, the family that shaped you? Who are you really?

Not your job title. Not where you live. Not the version of you that shows up in certain rooms.

This week we sat down with Jide and asked the question that sounds simple until you actually try to answer it. Is your identity rooted in where you come from? The culture you were raised in, the faith you carry, the family that shaped you?

]]> <p><em>Who are you really?</em></p><p>Not your job title. Not where you live. Not the version of you that shows up in certain rooms.</p><p>This week we sat down with Jide and asked the question that sounds simple until you actually try to answer it. Is your identity rooted in where you come from? The culture you were raised in, the faith you carry, the family that shaped you?</p> 921dc827-c061-4cf7-8965-b27292a8581e https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 01 Jul 2026 16:23:14 +0000 3622 false full Not Today, Doubt Not Today, Doubt 20 1 Oluwabukola Self-doubt is exhausting. It shows up uninvited, sits with you through the hard seasons, and has a lot to say about why you should just... stop. But here's the thing. I'm still here. In this episode I'm getting into what self-doubt has actually looked and felt like in my life not the sanitised version, the real one. And how, even on the days it felt heaviest, giving in just wasn't something I could do. This one's for anyone who's been in that fight and wondered if they're the only one. Self-doubt is exhausting. It shows up uninvited, sits with you through the hard seasons, and has a lot to say about why you should just... stop. But here's the thing. I'm still here. In this episode I'm getting into what self-doubt has actually looked and felt like in my life not the sanitised version, the real one. And how, even on the days it felt heaviest, giving in just wasn't something I could do. This one's for anyone who's been in that fight and wondered if they're the only one.

]]> <p>Self-doubt is exhausting. It shows up uninvited, sits with you through the hard seasons, and has a lot to say about why you should just... stop. But here&#39;s the thing. I&#39;m still here. In this episode I&#39;m getting into what self-doubt has actually looked and felt like in my life not the sanitised version, the real one. And how, even on the days it felt heaviest, giving in just wasn&#39;t something I could do. This one&#39;s for anyone who&#39;s been in that fight and wondered if they&#39;re the only one.</p> cfa3b029-aab1-4bdc-be36-8e3638a8d4e2 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 24 Jun 2026 15:30:36 +0000 1941 false full Are we living or existing Are we living or existing 19 1 Oluwabukola Nobody warned us that adulthood would strip away the structure that made life feel full — and hand us the responsibility of building it ourselves. In this episode, I'm getting honest about the loneliness nobody names, why time keeps passing but nothing feels like it's happening, and what it really means to intentionally create a life worth remembering. Because the question is simple are you actually living, or are you just existing? Nobody warned us that adulthood would strip away the structure that made life feel full — and hand us the responsibility of building it ourselves.

In this episode, I'm getting honest about the loneliness nobody names, why time keeps passing but nothing feels like it's happening, and what it really means to intentionally create a life worth remembering.

Because the question is simple are you actually living, or are you just existing?

]]> <p><em>Nobody warned us that adulthood would strip away the structure that made life feel full — and hand us the responsibility of building it ourselves.</em></p><p><em>In this episode, I&#39;m getting honest about the loneliness nobody names, why time keeps passing but nothing feels like it&#39;s happening, and what it really means to intentionally create a life worth remembering.</em></p><p><em>Because the question is simple are you actually living, or are you just existing?</em></p> 4c109629-3662-4397-ace5-8329acb96553 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 17 Jun 2026 16:28:39 +0000 1750 false full Memories from the past Memories from the past 18 1 Oluwabukola In this episode, I reflected on the importance of gratitude and maintaining faith while waiting for your prayers to be answered. I also took a trip down memory lane, reminiscing about my childhood. In this episode, I reflected on the importance of gratitude and maintaining faith while waiting for your prayers to be answered. I also took a trip down memory lane, reminiscing about my childhood.

]]> <p>In this episode, I reflected on the importance of gratitude and maintaining faith while waiting for your prayers to be answered. I also took a trip down memory lane, reminiscing about my childhood.</p> 32113e76-f81b-434b-845d-eb206d5523c2 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 10 Jun 2026 16:01:40 +0000 1637 false full Why are you not a feminist Why are you not a feminist 17 1 Oluwabukola In this episode, we ask a simple but controversial question: How can you not be a feminist? We discuss the meaning of feminism, common arguments for and against it, and examine real issues affecting women in Nigeria, including child marriage in parts of Northern Nigeria and female genital mutilation (FGM). Join us for a thoughtful conversation on gender equality, culture, and human rights. In this episode, we ask a simple but controversial question: How can you not be a feminist? We discuss the meaning of feminism, common arguments for and against it, and examine real issues affecting women in Nigeria, including child marriage in parts of Northern Nigeria and female genital mutilation (FGM). Join us for a thoughtful conversation on gender equality, culture, and human rights.

]]> <p>In this episode, we ask a simple but controversial question: <em>How can you not be a feminist?</em> We discuss the meaning of feminism, common arguments for and against it, and examine real issues affecting women in Nigeria, including child marriage in parts of Northern Nigeria and female genital mutilation (FGM). Join us for a thoughtful conversation on gender equality, culture, and human rights.</p> c90d3e38-4652-4bec-b7c0-c0f450a13def https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 03 Jun 2026 16:00:59 +0000 1656 false full Love is... Love is... 16 1 Oluwabukola “For today’s episode, it was just me sharing everything I learned from the previous episode lessons about love and ultimately just hoping and praying for genuine, healthy love.” “For today’s episode, it was just me sharing everything I learned from the previous episode lessons about love and ultimately just hoping and praying for genuine, healthy love.”

]]> <p>“For today’s episode, it was just me sharing everything I learned from the previous episode lessons about love and ultimately just hoping and praying for genuine, healthy love.”</p> aab8a4c5-1218-44e5-af77-ba1433d51e16 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 27 May 2026 16:00:01 +0000 1786 false full POV of a long-distance relationship POV of a long-distance relationship 15 1 Oluwabukola In this episode, I sit down with a special guest to talk about the realities of being in a long-distance relationship. We discuss how she and her partner met, the challenges that come with loving someone from afar, and how she copes with the emotional highs and lows of distance. From communication and trust to loneliness, patience, and commitment, this conversation gives an honest look into what it truly takes to maintain love across miles. If you’ve ever been in a long-distance relationship, are currently navigating one, or simply want to hear a real and relatable love story, this episode is for you. In this episode, I sit down with a guest to talk about the realities of being in a long-distance relationship. We discuss how she and her partner met, the challenges that come with loving someone from afar, and how she copes with the emotional highs and lows of distance.

From communication and trust to loneliness, patience, and commitment, this conversation gives an honest look into what it truly takes to maintain love across miles. If you’ve ever been in a long-distance relationship, are currently navigating one, or simply want to hear a real and relatable love story, this episode is for you.

]]> <p>In this episode, I sit down with a guest to talk about the realities of being in a long-distance relationship. We discuss how she and her partner met, the challenges that come with loving someone from afar, and how she copes with the emotional highs and lows of distance.</p><p>From communication and trust to loneliness, patience, and commitment, this conversation gives an honest look into what it truly takes to maintain love across miles. If you’ve ever been in a long-distance relationship, are currently navigating one, or simply want to hear a real and relatable love story, this episode is for you.</p> 414928c2-fb55-45e8-9f33-9102f22b80d9 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 20 May 2026 17:57:32 +0000 3004 false full POV of a one year married man POV of a one year married man 14 1 Oluwabukola One year into marriage, what changes? What stays the same? And what does love actually mean when real life begins? In this conversation, we unpack love, commitment, communication, conflict, and growth from the perspective of a newly married man learning that love is more than just a feeling. One year into marriage, what changes? What stays the same? And what does love actually mean when real life begins? In this conversation, we unpack love, commitment, communication, conflict, and growth from the perspective of a newly married man learning that love is more than just a feeling.

]]> <p>One year into marriage, what changes? What stays the same? And what does love actually mean when real life begins? In this conversation, we unpack love, commitment, communication, conflict, and growth from the perspective of a newly married man learning that love is more than just a feeling.</p> bcd2ed9c-c32f-459d-9633-47c49355e740 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 13 May 2026 22:46:30 +0000 2946 false full Rice and Love Rice and Love 13 1 Oluwabukola “Rice fatigue is real and so are my thoughts on love. In this episode, I vent, laugh, and open up about what love looks like for me as a single woman navigating life, cravings, and everything in between.” “Rice fatigue is real and so are my thoughts on love. In this episode, I vent, laugh, and open up about what love looks like for me as a single woman navigating life, cravings, and everything in between.”

]]> <p>“Rice fatigue is real and so are my thoughts on love. In this episode, I vent, laugh, and open up about what love looks like for me as a single woman navigating life, cravings, and everything in between.”</p> 61c56358-4729-46a7-bb08-ed02f44e93dd https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 06 May 2026 16:00:08 +0000 2121 false full Half bread & whole gratitude Half bread & whole gratitude 12 1 Oluwabukola This week we're getting into privilege the kind you might not even clock. We talk about how as kids, some of us went on a school trip by train while others were jetting off to France. Same word, excursion, completely different world. it's an honest look at where we all sit on the scale and why half bread isn't something to be ashamed of it's something worth noticing. This week we're getting into privilege the kind you might not even clock. We talk about how as kids, some of us went on a school trip by train while others were jetting off to France. Same word, excursion, completely different world. it's an honest look at where we all sit on the scale and why half bread isn't something to be ashamed of it's something worth noticing.

]]> <p>This week we&#39;re getting into privilege the kind you might not even clock. We talk about how as kids, some of us went on a school trip by train while others were jetting off to France. Same word, excursion, completely different world. it&#39;s an honest look at where we all sit on the scale and why half bread isn&#39;t something to be ashamed of it&#39;s something worth noticing.</p> 9db8439d-4a7d-48b4-87e9-a2d5b551e005 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Sat, 25 Apr 2026 14:01:50 +0000 2363 false full Word of mouth still runs the world Word of mouth still runs the world 11 1 Oluwabukola In this episode, we’re just vibing and talking about how people discover new brands starting with the OG method: word of mouth. You know, when someone says “you have to try this” and suddenly you’re sold. We also get into whether people are actually loyal to brands or if we’re just going with whatever feels right in the moment. It’s a chill conversation with a few real thoughts in between. In this episode, we’re just vibing and talking about how people discover new brands starting with the OG method: word of mouth. You know, when someone says “you have to try this” and suddenly you’re sold.

We also get into whether people are actually loyal to brands or if we’re just going with whatever feels right in the moment. It’s a chill conversation with a few real thoughts in between.

]]> <p>In this episode, we’re just vibing and talking about how people discover new brands starting with the OG method: word of mouth. You know, when someone says “you have to try this” and suddenly you’re sold.</p><p>We also get into whether people are actually loyal to brands or if we’re just going with whatever feels right in the moment. It’s a chill conversation with a few real thoughts in between.</p> b351c509-7bd7-4657-bf07-c2cc471a4720 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 15 Apr 2026 16:00:57 +0000 1844 false full Money rant from a tired adult Money rant from a tired adult 10 1 Oluwabukola This episode is a real, unfiltered rant about money and adulting working, getting paid, and somehow still ending up with nothing left after bills. From rent to everyday essentials, everything adds up, and for a lot of us, our salaries just aren’t stretching the way we expected. It’s frustrating, exhausting, and honestly… a bit overwhelming. If you’ve ever looked at your bank account and wondered where it all went, this one’s for you. This episode is a real, unfiltered rant about money and adulting working, getting paid, and somehow still ending up with nothing left after bills.

From rent to everyday essentials, everything adds up, and for a lot of us, our salaries just aren’t stretching the way we expected. It’s frustrating, exhausting, and honestly… a bit overwhelming.

If you’ve ever looked at your bank account and wondered where it all went, this one’s for you.

]]> <p>This episode is a real, unfiltered rant about money and adulting working, getting paid, and somehow still ending up with nothing left after bills.</p><p>From rent to everyday essentials, everything adds up, and for a lot of us, our salaries just aren’t stretching the way we expected. It’s frustrating, exhausting, and honestly… a bit overwhelming.</p><p>If you’ve ever looked at your bank account and wondered where it all went, this one’s for you.</p> feacc940-8204-47fc-b3c5-0945053419d2 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 08 Apr 2026 16:00:12 +0000 1766 false full My brain won’t shut up My brain won’t shut up 9 1 Oluwabukola In this episode, me and Harley get into something a lot of people don’t talk about the constant voice in our minds. Is it normal? Is it helpful? Or does it just never shut up? We share our own experiences with overthinking, internal conversations, and mental noise. Harley also breaks down a few ways he tries to quiet his mind when it gets overwhelming. In this episode, me and Harley get into something a lot of people don’t talk about the constant voice in our minds. Is it normal? Is it helpful? Or does it just never shut up?

We share our own experiences with overthinking, internal conversations, and mental noise. Harley also breaks down a few ways he tries to quiet his mind when it gets overwhelming.

]]> <p>In this episode, me and Harley get into something a lot of people don’t talk about the constant voice in our minds. Is it normal? Is it helpful? Or does it just never shut up?</p><p>We share our own experiences with overthinking, internal conversations, and mental noise. Harley also breaks down a few ways he tries to quiet his mind when it gets overwhelming.</p> c9d204e5-93d2-4e6a-9e41-c33debe19fc7 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 01 Apr 2026 16:20:53 +0000 5488 false full it’s us vs the problem it’s us vs the problem 8 1 Oluwabukola In this episode, we’re talking about choosing better because vibes are cute, but alignment is better. Love is easy, but real partnership? That takes teamwork. At the end of the day, it’s not “me vs you” it’s us vs the problem. In this episode, we’re talking about choosing better because vibes are cute, but alignment is better.

Love is easy, but real partnership? That takes teamwork. At the end of the day, it’s not “me vs you” it’s us vs the problem.

]]> <p>In this episode, we’re talking about choosing better because vibes are cute, but alignment is better.</p><p>Love is easy, but real partnership? That takes teamwork. At the end of the day, it’s not “me vs you” it’s <em>us vs the problem</em>.</p> 59e9fe1e-a9df-4dc9-b9fe-3120bb27c31d https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 25 Mar 2026 17:00:09 +0000 1721 false full “Is Therapy Worth It “Is Therapy Worth It 7 1 Oluwabukola In this episode I spoke about the importance of going for therapy and guess who is graduating.... In this episode I spoke about the importance of going for therapy and guess who is graduating....

]]> <p>In this episode I spoke about the importance of going for therapy and guess who is graduating....</p> f3f70941-367f-46ca-84a4-bceb8b39394b https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 18 Mar 2026 17:00:46 +0000 1705 false full Navigating new friends Navigating new friends 6 1 Oluwabukola Making new friends can be exciting but it can also be a little confusing. In this episode, Tutu and I talk about the challenges of navigating new friendships and share some simple do’s and don’ts that can help you build healthy, meaningful connections. Making new friends can be exciting but it can also be a little confusing. In this episode, Tutu and I talk about the challenges of navigating new friendships and share some simple do’s and don’ts that can help you build healthy, meaningful connections.

]]> <p>Making new friends can be exciting but it can also be a little confusing. In this episode, Tutu and I talk about the challenges of navigating new friendships and share some simple do’s and don’ts that can help you build healthy, meaningful connections.</p> a46e612c-7ff6-46f7-82fb-10f575daa86c https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 11 Mar 2026 18:51:48 +0000 2636 false full What your default? What your default? 5 1 Oluwabukola In this episode, I spoke about what your default for example I smile randomly by default. In this episode, I spoke about what your default for example I smile randomly by default.

]]> <p>In this episode, I spoke about what your default for example I smile randomly by default.</p> f8e2e816-91f7-467c-9244-d3fe1d90653c https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 04 Mar 2026 18:06:58 +0000 1837 false full Certified Shocked Certified Shocked 4 1 Oluwabukola In this episode, I unpack the culture shocks I faced coming to the U.K and the even more unexpected ones that hit me in the face as a fully grown adult who supposedly “has it all figured out.” In this episode, I unpack the culture shocks I faced coming to the U.K and the even more unexpected ones that hit me in the face as a fully grown adult who supposedly “has it all figured out.”

]]> <p>In this episode, I unpack the culture shocks I faced coming to the U.K and the even more unexpected ones that hit me in the face as a fully grown adult who supposedly “has it all figured out.”</p> 6841838a-796b-4e2e-9685-99e3a0d38228 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 25 Feb 2026 16:36:50 +0000 2353 false full How delulu are you? How delulu are you? 3 1 Oluwabukola In this episode, I spoke about the difficulties of putting yourself out there, and also how delulu we can all me In this episode, I spoke about the difficulties of putting yourself out there, and also how delulu we can all me

]]> <p>In this episode, I spoke about the difficulties of putting yourself out there, and also how delulu we can all me</p> bf6da98f-ea59-4183-8ed6-3db94ac6ab53 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede Wed, 18 Feb 2026 16:52:42 +0000 1665 false full Grateful Grateful Oluwabukola <p>This episode I spoke about the difficult in starting in a new country, spoke about what Saturdays looked like for me as a child and different other gist.</p> This episode I spoke about the difficult in starting in a new country, spoke about what Saturdays looked like for me as a child and different other gist.

]]> <p>This episode I spoke about the difficult in starting in a new country, spoke about what Saturdays looked like for me as a child and different other gist.</p> 706dee9d-4e96-4cc4-b256-09c725228826 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede/episodes/Grateful-e3evdgb Wed, 11 Feb 2026 21:04:57 +0000 1697 false full First of all- Intro First of all- Intro 1 1 Oluwabukola <p>Introduction- Nothing major</p> Introduction- Nothing major

]]> <p>Introduction- Nothing major</p> 5b8e7d6d-c8d3-4c5c-9476-bfd045004b34 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/oluwabukola-elegbede/episodes/First-of-all--Intro-e3ev94b Wed, 11 Feb 2026 19:38:59 +0000 79 false