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        <title>Not One of Your Little Friends</title>
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        <itunes:author>Chayil Carter &amp; Constance Carter</itunes:author>
        <itunes:summary>&#34;Not One of Your Little Friends” is a dynamic mother-daughter podcast where Constance and her daughter Chayil dive into real, unfiltered conversations about life, generational dynamics, personal growth, and humor. They bring together Constance’s wisdom and Chayil’s Gen Z perspective, blending heartfelt talk with laughs and authenticity.  

Why listen:

Offers an inter-generational dialogue that appeals to both young adults and seasoned listeners.
Transparent and relatable: topics include career shifts, family roles, personal healing, and the everyday stuff no one always talks about.  
Easy to engage: new episodes announced on social platforms, and the vibe is casual but impactful.  
Good for:
Anyone looking for honest mother-daughter conversations.
Young adults (like yourself!) who resonate with themes of growth, ambition, and navigating life’s transitions.
Listeners who appreciate a blend of fun, authenticity, and generational insight.</itunes:summary>
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            <itunes:name>Chayil Carter &amp; Constance Carter</itunes:name>
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                <itunes:title>Ep. 5: What My Mom Wishes She Knew at 26: Real Talk &amp; Regrets.</itunes:title>
                <title>Ep. 5: What My Mom Wishes She Knew at 26: Real Talk &amp; Regrets.</title>

                
                
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                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;In this episode of Not One of Your Little Friends, Constance Carter sits down with her daughter Chayil for a raw, honest conversation about life at 26. From lessons she learned the hard way to regrets, mistakes, and the advice she wishes someone had told her sooner, this episode is part vent session, part life guide.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is a real mother-daughter moment unpacking growth, timing, relationships, money, confidence, and becoming the woman you’re meant to be. If you’re in your 20s, feeling behind, confused, or pressured to “have it all together,” this conversation is for you.&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>Ep 4: The Devil is a Liar!</itunes:title>
                <title>Ep 4: The Devil is a Liar!</title>

                
                
                <itunes:author>Chayil Carter &amp; Constance Carter</itunes:author>
                
                <description><![CDATA[<p>We&#39;re finally back with another episode! So sorry to keep yall hanging! This episode is a special one. It&#39;s for those who experienced challenges (which we all have). Constance gives such amazing advice to Chayil on how to navigate through a stuck season while also releasing what&#39;s been on her chest as well.</p><p><br></p><p>Follow us on Instagram</p><p>@notoneofyourlittefriends podcast.</p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;We&amp;#39;re finally back with another episode! So sorry to keep yall hanging! This episode is a special one. It&amp;#39;s for those who experienced challenges (which we all have). Constance gives such amazing advice to Chayil on how to navigate through a stuck season while also releasing what&amp;#39;s been on her chest as well.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Follow us on Instagram&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;@notoneofyourlittefriends podcast.&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>Ep 3- Modern Dating Gen X vs Gen Z</itunes:title>
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                <itunes:summary>What happens when old-school dating values collide with swipe culture? 😅 In this episode of Not One of Your Little Friends (Ep. 3), we’re diving into the wild world of modern dating—comparing how Gen X and Gen Z approach love, relationships, ghosting, commitment, social media, and everything in between.

Chayil &amp; Constance unpack the generational dating divide with hilarious personal stories, a little tough love, and surprisingly real insights.</itunes:summary>
                <description><![CDATA[<p>What happens when old-school dating values collide with swipe culture? 😅 In this episode of Not One of Your Little Friends (Ep. 3), we’re diving into the wild world of modern dating—comparing how Gen X and Gen Z approach love, relationships, ghosting, commitment, social media, and everything in between.</p><p><br></p><p>Chayil &amp; Constance unpack the generational dating divide with hilarious personal stories, a little tough love, and surprisingly real insights.</p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;What happens when old-school dating values collide with swipe culture? 😅 In this episode of Not One of Your Little Friends (Ep. 3), we’re diving into the wild world of modern dating—comparing how Gen X and Gen Z approach love, relationships, ghosting, commitment, social media, and everything in between.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Chayil &amp;amp; Constance unpack the generational dating divide with hilarious personal stories, a little tough love, and surprisingly real insights.&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>Ep 2- The Power of the Tongue</itunes:title>
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                <itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode>
                
                <itunes:author>Chayil Carter &amp; Constance Carter</itunes:author>
                <itunes:summary>In this hilarious episode Constance and Chayil outline the importance watching what you say. but also hilariously sharing personal experiences they have encountered. 
Follow us on social media:
Instagram- @notoneofyourlittlefriendspodcast 
TikTok- @ nooylfpodcast</itunes:summary>
                <description><![CDATA[<p>In this hilarious episode Constance and Chayil outline the importance watching what you say. but also hilariously sharing personal experiences they have encountered. </p><p><br></p><p>Follow us on social media:</p><p>Instagram- @notoneofyourlittlefriendspodcast </p><p>TikTok- @ nooylfpodcast</p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;In this hilarious episode Constance and Chayil outline the importance watching what you say. but also hilariously sharing personal experiences they have encountered. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Follow us on social media:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Instagram- @notoneofyourlittlefriendspodcast &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;TikTok- @ nooylfpodcast&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <itunes:title>Ep.1: But Your Are One Of My Little Friends</itunes:title>
                <title>Ep.1: But Your Are One Of My Little Friends</title>

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                <itunes:author>Chayil Carter &amp; Constance Carter</itunes:author>
                <itunes:summary>In the very first episode of Not One of Your Little Friends, mother-daughter duo Constance and Chayil get real about the moments that shaped their unbreakable bond. From Chayil’s past experiences with bullying to watching her mom navigate the emotional aftermath of a divorce, nothing is off-limits.

Together, they unpack what it really means to grow up with a strong Black mother, the unspoken pressure of being the breadwinner, and the beautiful, sometimes messy, evolution of their relationship. What started as the classic “I’m not one of your little friends” dynamic has blossomed into deep friendship, healing, and mutual understanding.

This isn’t just a conversation between mother and daughter. It&#39;s a love letter to every Black woman learning how to mother and be mothered, how to heal childhood wounds, and how to see your parents as fully human.

Tap in. Laugh, cry, heal. And maybe even call your mama.

IG @notoneofyourlittlefriendspod
TikTok: @nooylfpodcast</itunes:summary>
                <description><![CDATA[<p>In the very first episode of Not One of Your Little Friends, mother-daughter duo Constance and Chayil get real about the moments that shaped their unbreakable bond. From Chayil’s past experiences with bullying to watching her mom navigate the emotional aftermath of a divorce, nothing is off-limits.</p><p><br></p><p>Together, they unpack what it really means to grow up with a strong Black mother, the unspoken pressure of being the breadwinner, and the beautiful, sometimes messy, evolution of their relationship. What started as the classic “I’m not one of your little friends” dynamic has blossomed into deep friendship, healing, and mutual understanding.</p><p><br></p><p>This isn’t just a conversation between mother and daughter. It&#39;s a love letter to every Black woman learning how to mother and be mothered, how to heal childhood wounds, and how to see your parents as fully human.</p><p><br></p><p>Tap in. Laugh, cry, heal. And maybe even call your mama.</p><p><br></p><p>IG @notoneofyourlittlefriendspod</p><p>TikTok: @nooylfpodcast</p>]]></description>
                <content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;In the very first episode of Not One of Your Little Friends, mother-daughter duo Constance and Chayil get real about the moments that shaped their unbreakable bond. From Chayil’s past experiences with bullying to watching her mom navigate the emotional aftermath of a divorce, nothing is off-limits.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Together, they unpack what it really means to grow up with a strong Black mother, the unspoken pressure of being the breadwinner, and the beautiful, sometimes messy, evolution of their relationship. What started as the classic “I’m not one of your little friends” dynamic has blossomed into deep friendship, healing, and mutual understanding.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This isn’t just a conversation between mother and daughter. It&amp;#39;s a love letter to every Black woman learning how to mother and be mothered, how to heal childhood wounds, and how to see your parents as fully human.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Tap in. Laugh, cry, heal. And maybe even call your mama.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;IG @notoneofyourlittlefriendspod&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;TikTok: @nooylfpodcast&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>
                
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                <pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2025 03:23:13 &#43;0000</pubDate>
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