This week, the guys tackle a voicemail from a Booty Gangster living with IBS who still wants to bottom, because the spirit may be willing even when the digestive system is filing formal complaints. Dr. Carlton offers practical advice, while Dangilo reacts exactly the way someone should when words like “flare-up” enter the chat.

Then another listener asks the age-old modern question: Should I wait to poop after taking my PrEP? Finally—a podcast brave enough to discuss timing, fiber, and pharmaceutical scheduling in the same conversation.

In GIMME HEADLINES, the boys unpack disturbing new stories warning people to watch more than just their drinks after reports involving spiked lube. Because apparently trust issues are now a public health initiative. They also revisit the latest developments surrounding the Dallas Cumunion raid, proving once again that every week brings another sentence we never expected to say out loud professionally.

Meanwhile, drama erupts out of Palm Springs, where communication could have been handled better by literally everyone involved. Vague statements, missing context, passive aggression—it’s basically queer corporate theater.

And as always, after all the bowel talk, scandal, and side-eye, the guys wrap the episode with their Love Language of the Week—because connection is important, even when the headlines are terrifying.

Press play. It’s informative, mildly concerning, and somehow still hilarious. 🍑🎙️

This week, the guys hit the court and talk all things gay volleyball, spotlighting queer volleyball star Jordan Lucas—because athleticism, community, and short shorts deserve their moment.

Then it’s back to the inbox, where your Butt Dials and Booty Calls keep things educational and slightly uncomfortable—in a good way. We’re talking anal fissures (yes, we said it), with Dr. Carlton breaking things down medically while Dangilo reacts like the rest of us… cautiously.

Next up, it’s time for Hit It or Quit It, where nothing is off the table:

– Girth vs. length (the debate continues)

– Penis placement (strategy matters)

– And anal bleaching (because aesthetics are subjective, but curiosity is universal)

And just when you think you’ve heard it all… we dive into Ready Set Confess, featuring stories about hooking up at work and a particularly bold moment in a locker room shower. HR is shaking somewhere.

As always, the guys bring their signature mix of humor, honesty, and just enough side-eye to keep things grounded. And because balance is everything, they wrap it all up with their Love Language of the Week—a little tenderness after all the chaos.

Press play. It’s sporty, spicy, and just the right amount of inappropriate. 🍑🎙️

This week, we’re serving you GIMME HEADLINES—a mix of the informative, the concerning, and the “why is this happening?” variety. The guys break down updates on STIs in San Francisco, along with a popular event in Dallas that got raided.

Then… we enter the ever-expanding universe of Trampage. This week’s update is large, layered, and frankly deserving of its own docuseries. It’s a journey—and yes, we’re breaking it into parts because even we need time to process.

And just when you think it can’t get any more chaotic, we dive into some of the most jaw-dropping Ready, Set, Confesssubmissions we’ve ever read. You’ll laugh, you’ll gasp, you’ll maybe question your own life choices—and then feel better about them.

Outside the inbox, Dr. Carlton takes us to New York City, where he enjoys some theatre… a topless romp in the park. Meanwhile, the guys weigh in on rage baiting

They wrap it all up with the Love Language of the Week, because after headlines, raids, and confessions, we all deserve a little emotional aftercare.

Press play. It’s news, nonsense, and just enough nuance to keep you coming back. 🍑🎙️

This week in GIMME HEADLINES, the guys unpack the very noticeable rise of bulges across social media. Is it confidence? Is it algorithmic thirst? Is it just really good tailoring? The investigation is ongoing. Alongside that, they bring attention to a resurgent infection that deserves to be back on your radar, because nothing ruins a good time like forgetting the basics.

We’ve also got a follow-up from last week’s listener regarding precancerous screenings, and let’s just say—progress has been made, appointments have been kept, and two former pigs on the prowl appear to be taking their health very seriously. Growth looks good on everyone.

Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton reports back from his weekend in Dallas for Spring Bloom—a trip that was equal parts community, connection, and… advanced extracurricular activities. We’ll keep it tasteful, but let’s just say the weekend was hands-on in more ways than one.

The guys also weigh in on the Sabrina Carpenter incident, offering their signature blend of pop culture analysis, gentle judgment, and “did that really just happen?” energy.

As always, they wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, because after all the headlines, health reminders, and high-energy weekends, we still believe in softness… occasionally.

Press play. It’s informative, it’s entertaining, and it’s Butt Honestly doing what it does best—keeping you laughing, thinking, and maybe scheduling that appointment you’ve been avoiding. 🍑🎙️

This week, the guys dive into a fresh batch of listener emails that range from heartfelt to highly specific. We kick things off with a note from Australia, where one listener writes in to say thank you for a recent conversation—proving that sometimes this podcast is not just chaotic, but actually… helpful. Growth!

Then things take a turn (as they do) with a listener navigating a partner’s body modification that’s causing a bit of unexpected wear and tear. Dr. Carlton brings the medical insight, Dangilo brings the commentary, and together they unpack the delicate balance between curiosity, comfort, and knowing your limits.

And finally… we have a Booty Gangster who confidently reports that he “flooded his partner’s face.” Interpret that as you will—the guys certainly do. It’s a moment of storytelling, reflection, and a reminder that phrasing is everything.

Outside the inbox, the boys weigh in on the Bryan Noem “bimbofication” incident, offering their signature mix of cultural commentary and side-eye. Dr. Carlton also gives his review of Pillion—spoiler alert: thoughts were had, opinions were formed, and no one is walking away neutral.

As always, the episode wraps with the guys’ Love Language of the Week, because after all the chaos, commentary, and questionable wording, we still believe in connection… even if it’s complicated.

Press play. It’s thoughtful, it’s messy, and it’s Butt Honestly at its most delightfully unfiltered. 🍑🎙️

This week, Dr. Carlton returns from Spain with stories that are equal parts cultural immersion and… extracurricular exploration. From darkrooms to sex clubs to a suspiciously high concentration of very friendly bears, let’s just say the trip was educational. The flight over? Memorable. The kind of memorable where you question your seating choices and your life decisions simultaneously

Back in the studio, the guys dive into a wild New Scientist article featuring an extremely detailed study of the male anatomy—because nothing says intellectual curiosity like peer-reviewed curiosity. It’s science, it’s fascinating, and it’s just clinical enough to make you feel smarter while listening.

In the inbox, a Booty Gang member opens up about being in a long-term relationship while feeling pulled toward unexplored fetishes—raising the age-old question: how do you honor your desires without detonating your stability? The guys approach it with honesty, nuance, and just enough realism to keep things grounded.

Another listener writes in asking about the new A-Ball alternative to douching, and yes—this turns into exactly the kind of conversation you think it will. Informative, slightly skeptical, and deeply Butt Honestly.

As always, the episode wraps with the guys’ Love Language of the Week, because after travel chaos, scientific deep dives, and emotional honesty, we all deserve a little connection.

Press play. It’s worldly, weirdly educational, and just the right amount of inappropriate. 🍑🎙️

This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are joined by the sensational Lauren Banall, alongside her brilliantly unhinged alter ego Erika Qwerk, the comedic force behind Turning Point U.S. GAY—a sharp, satirical take that proves parody might the the voice of the resistance. The energy? Chaotic good. The humor? Smart, biting, and just the right amount of awareness and brilliance. 

But as always, the show balances the sparkle with education and empathy.

The guys tackle some serious and important listener questions this week, starting with one about anal Pap smears—what they are, why they matter, and why taking care of your health is always in style, no matter how unglamorous the appointment may sound.

Then, in a more vulnerable and deeply human moment, they respond to a listener navigating bottoming after experiencing trauma. It’s a thoughtful, compassionate conversation about rebuilding trust with your body, moving at your own pace, and understanding that healing isn’t linear—and that’s okay. Dr. Carlton brings clinical insight, while Dangilo brings empathy, honesty, and the reminder that you’re not alone in figuring it out.

Throughout it all, Lauren adds their signature wit and insight, proving that humor and healing can absolutely share the same stage.

And because this is still Butt Honestly, the episode closes with the guys’ Love Language of the Week—a little levity, a little sweetness, and a reminder that connection, in all its forms, is worth the work.

Press play. It’s smart, it’s funny, it’s heartfelt—and it might just be one of those episodes that stays with you a little longer than expected. 🍑🎙️

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This week, we kick things off with a listener asking about “lazy gut”—what it means, what’s myth versus medicine, and how it intersects with some very advanced extracurricular activities.

Then we slide into a practical (and surprisingly common) question: can STIs stick to silicone lube? It’s part chemistry lesson, part public health PSA, and fully in line with the show’s mission of keeping things sexy and smart.

And yes… we hear from a listener named Splat—who writes in with a response to last week’s conversation about straight men. The name alone deserves airtime, and the message does not disappoint.

Outside the inbox, the guys take a moment to highlight some important news out of Florida, where lawmakers have restored funding for HIV/AIDS medication programs—a reminder that access to care is not just policy, it’s personal.

Of course, no episode would be complete without tackling a timeless debate: hairy, trimmed, or shaved? The answers are passionate, the opinions are strong, and no one leaves unchanged.

As always, they wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, because after all the science, sass, and Splat… we still believe in connection.

Press play. It’s educational, it’s entertaining, and it’s Butt Honestly at its finest. 🍑🎙️

This week the mail sack delivers a listener who believes straight men might quite literally be full of crap. 

Then we tackle what may be the longest listener email in Butt Honestly history. We’re not saying it required an intermission… but we did briefly consider snacks. The guys break down the situation piece by piece with their signature blend of compassion, curiosity, and occasional side-eye.

We also get an update in the continuing saga of TMVII, proving once again that the Booty Gang never fails to keep the storylines alive.

Along the way, the boys dive into an essential modern topic: the correct way to take a dick pic. Lighting, angles, confidence, and perhaps a little restraint—consider this your unofficial masterclass in photographic decision-making.

And because no episode is complete without a little lived experience, one of the guys shares a dating story that reminds us all that romance in the modern age is equal parts hope, confusion, and occasionally a very fast exit.

As always, they wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, sending you off with a little sweetness after all the sass.

It’s thoughtful, ridiculous, educational, and exactly what you expect from BUTT HONESTLY—the podcast that proves sometimes the most honest conversations start with the words, “Okay… hear me out.” 🍑🎙️

Joining us is Chad O’Connell, founder and CEO of Asset*, the brand behind some of the internet’s most talked-about intimate wellness products. Many of you have seen the products online, but here’s the real endorsement: we’ve actually used them. Yes, we believe in research. Dr. Carlton in particular has become something of a fan of their Hole Serum—for purely educational purposes, of course.

This week the boys tackle headlines that feels like it came from the Department of “Well… That’s New.” There’s a sexually transmitted fungal infection making the rounds in Minnesota, and Dr. Carlton breaks down what it is, what it isn’t, and why panic is rarely the most effective treatment plan.

From there, a Booty Gang member writes in with a question about doxy use within an open relationship—because modern love requires communication, boundaries, and sometimes a very well-timed prescription. The guys unpack how couples navigate prevention, responsibility, and the fine art of staying both adventurous and medically boring.

Then we bring back the beloved segment “Ready Set Confess,” where listeners send in their stories, secrets, and occasional moral dilemmas that leave Dr. Carlton blinking slowly and Dangilo asking follow-up questions no one was prepared for.

But the real treat this week is our guest. Because every once in a while we invite someone who isn’t just talking about culture—they’re building it.

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@Thatasset on IG https://www.instagram.com/thatasset 

This week, the boys roll out the rhinestone-studded red carpet for a guest who does not simply enter a room—she arrives. We are thrilled to welcome the incomparable Honey Davenport. You know her from RuPaul’s Drag Race, but that’s just the glitter on top. Honey is a recording artist, actor, DJ, dancer, pageant queen (20 crowns and counting, because moderation is overrated), activist—and, casually, the reigning Mr. Palm Springs Leather 2026. Yes, darling. Multifaceted doesn’t even begin to cover it.

In this episode, Honey talks about artistry without apology, activism with impact, and what it means to command both the stage and the leather community with equal authority. From pageant polish to political purpose, she shares how performance and power can live in the same perfectly contoured face.

Dr. Carlton and Dangilo, of course, do what they do best—ask the smart questions, toss in the dry humor, and occasionally clutch their pearls in admiration. It’s a conversation about legacy, community, resilience, and yes, a little bit of fabulous mischief. 

Press play. Because when Honey Davenport is in the building, you don’t just listen—you witness. 🍯✨🍑

This week, the guys ski straight into the headlines with chatter about Olympic ski jumpers allegedly getting a little… plumped before takeoff. Is it aerodynamics? Is it vanity? Is it just very enthusiastic tailoring? We investigate!

In the mail sack, we’ve got a Booty Gangster with a less-talked-about diagnosis—H. pylori—because sometimes the real party is in your stomach. Another listener wants to know how to properly Doxy PEP for vacation (nothing says “bon voyage” like a pill schedule), and someone else writes in about a LOUD MOAN in the dark that may or may not have caused a mild panic. Subtlety? Never heard of her.

The guys also unpack the cancellation of Boots—but why though? Industry tea is spilled respectfully-ish. And with Valentine’s Day upon us (aka Singles Awareness Day, aka Buy Yourself the Flowers Day), Dr. Carlton and Dangilo reflect on love, lust, and the art of pretending you “didn’t want to go out anyway.”

As always, they wrap it all up with Love Language of the Week—because whether you’re plumped, PEP’d, pylori-positive, or passionately loud, you still deserve connection.

Press play. It’s competitive out here. 🎿🍑

This week, we’re opening letters that range from medically curious to emotionally tender to “wait… what happened on that cruise?” A Booty Gangster writes in with a post–anal wart surgery question—because nothing says self-care like proper aftercare. Dr. Carlton delivers the calm, clinical reassurance you need, while Dangilo reacts the way you probably did in your car.

We also hear from a listener trying to figure out where they fit within the community—socially, sexually, spiritually, existentially… you know, light stuff. The guys get real (but not too real) about belonging, labels, and the myth of having it all figured out.

Then there’s the story of “the twink who got away.” Was it fate? Bad timing? A missed DM? Or simply upper body strength limitations? We unpack the romance, the regret, and the delusion with the tenderness it deserves.

And because no gay week is complete without at least one headline, the boys discuss this year’s Atlantis Cruise arrest—proving once again that what happens at sea… sometimes requires legal counsel.

Outside the inbox, the guys weigh in on The Traitors and other TV obsessions, dissecting strategy, betrayal, and why reality television is somehow more stable than most dating situations. It’s thoughtful commentary, but with more side-eye.

As always, we close with Love Language of the Week—because after surgery talk, cruise chaos, and lost twinks, we still believe in connection. Even if it’s complicated. Even if it sailed away.

Press play. Your curiosity already has. 🍑🎙️

We’re drowning in messages from the Booty Gang, starting with a listener in Minneapolis who’s discovered a surprisingly creative way to resist ICE (no spoilers, but it’s giving civic duty with flair). Then we head south to Austin, where a friend has some very real, very personal questions about their recent JPOUCH surgery—medical, intimate, and exactly why this show exists. And because balance is important, we also hear from a listener with firsthand experience in a group that gets a little… HANDY. Educational? Sure. Eye-opening? Absolutely.

On the road again, Dr. Carlton recaps his trip to Mr. Chicago Leather, bringing boots-on-the-ground reporting and just enough detail to make you grateful this is an audio medium. The guys weigh in on the Grammys and Dangilo fills us in on the latest O’so Sucia event, including what happens when the vibe is hot but the chemistry is… well like a missing persons ad.

It’s one of those episodes that swings effortlessly between politics, medicine, pop culture, and horny confusion—with professionalism optional and opinions fully formed.

As always, the episode wraps with Love Language of the Week, because after all that leather, feedback, and secondhand awkwardness, we still believe in feelings.

Press play. Your earbuds can handle it. 🎧🍑

This week’s episode has everything: travel tales, worked holes (allegedly), international steam, and listener feedback that proves you are paying attention—and taking notes. Dr. Carlton kicks things off with a Palm Springs recap that can only be described as restorative, adventurous, and very hydrating. Let’s just say the desert wasn’t the only thing getting worked, and leave it there before the HOA gets involved.

Meanwhile, Producer Tony returns freshly marinated from Italy and wastes zero time taking us inside a Florence bathhouse experience that answers the age-old question: Is the Renaissance alive and well? (Spoiler: yes, and she’s naked.)

In listener land, the Booty Gang is fired up. We’ve got two thoughtful, spicy reactions to our reaction to the Las Culturistas vs. Jasmine Crockett moment—because nothing says community like layered discourse with a side of shade. Add in a Booty Gangster who is struggling with dryness (we’re talking Sahara, not personality), and another listener sliding into Dr. Carlton’s inbox with questions about Spring Blooms that are less “fresh florals” and more “is this normal?”

It’s a classic Butt Honestly episode: equal parts sex-ed, group chat chaos, cultural commentary, and lovingly inappropriate oversharing. Educational? Yes. Unhinged? Occasionally. Entertaining? Always.

So settle in, hydrate accordingly, and enjoy an episode that proves once again—when the whole crew shows up, things get slippery fast. 🍑🎙️

We kick things off with a listener whose partner only seems interested in unleashing their wild side after a few cocktails. Is it liquid courage, a personality setting, or just a very specific two-drink minimum? Dr. Carlton and Dangilo unpack the science, the psychology, and the “are we okay with this?” of it all—no judgment, just raised eyebrows.

Then we head straight into the medicine cabinet as another listener asks the question no one wants to Google at 2 a.m.: What medication actually helps your balls while on testosterone therapy? (Spoiler: WebMD panic scrolling is not a treatment plan.) 

Then things get emotionally mature—yes, really—as one listener asks the guys to talk about compersion. What is it? Can you learn it? And why does it sound like a Pilates class but hit like an emotional pop quiz? The boys break down joy-for-your-partner joy without making your brain hurt… too much.

The guys zoom out to talk dating apps—what’s working, what’s broken, and why everyone somehow has the same five photos. Dangilo takes a nostalgic (and slightly unhinged) detour involving The Alamo and Pee-wee Herman’s bike, proving once again that history class would’ve been way more interesting if he’d been teaching it.

Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton gets serious for a moment to remind everyone that colonoscopies are not a vibe—but they are a necessity. Consider this your loving, slightly stern reminder to take care of your insides… all of them.

As always, the episode wraps with the guys’ “69 and a Half Foot Pole” of the week—things they’re politely, firmly, and sometimes medically distancing themselves from—and finishes strong with their Love Language of the Week, sending you off informed, entertained, and maybe questioning a few life choices.

It’s thoughtful. It’s funny. It’s Butt Honestly doing what it does best: answering the questions you’re afraid to ask out loud… except here, we say them into microphones. 🍑🎙️

While Dr. Carlton reflects on what it means to level up another year, Dangilo balances the vibe by revisiting his own historically cursed birthdays. He shares a drunk San Antonio story. The joys of drunk girls.

The guys also weigh in on the Las Culturistas drama, applying their signature blend of pop-culture literacy, emotional intelligence, and “we said what we said” energy. Is it serious? Is it learning opportunity? Is it both? Absolutely.

Then it’s back to the heart of the show: your questions, your chaos, your butts. One Booty Gang member writes in about rods—hemorrhoids, to be clear—and yes, Dr. Carlton puts the doctor back in doctor. Another listener asks about throat pain, and let’s just say: anatomy is discussed, assumptions are challenged, and no one leaves without learning something.

We also get a Pig on the Prowl story involving a FedEx delivery guy whose package delivery may or may not have gone exactly as intended. Logistics were involved. Timing mattered. Boundaries were… flexible.

Plus, the guys toss a few more things onto the ever-growing list of “69 and a Half Foot Pole”—topics and behaviors they would not touch, approach, or acknowledge, even with legal counsel present.

They close it all out with the Love Language of the Week, because despite the mess, the mayhem, and the midlife milestones, this podcast is still about connection… and maybe a little self-awareness.

Aging happens. Birthdays disappoint. Packages get delivered.

And somehow, BUTT HONESTLY keeps getting better. 🎂🍑🎙️

This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo ease you into the New Year the only way they know how: with questionable emails and a new segment. We kick things off with a Booty Caller who has an STI testing question that spirals quickly into “am I doing this right or just confidently wrong?” territory. Then, a Booty Gangster writes in wondering whether his attraction is authentic… or accidentally offensive. (Spoiler: intention matters, but so does listening.)

Things really heat up at the “Horse Market–sized.” Two hot dads, one inbox, and more context than anyone asked for—but we read it anyway, because of course we did.

The guys also recap the holidays and ring in the New Year . Then—because the internet is a cursed place—Dr. Carlton and Dangilo unpack the U.S. government’s list of the 25 worst things stuck up people’s bums in 2025. Educational? No. Memorable? Unfortunately, yes.

Plus, the debut of a brand-new segment: “69 and a Half Foot Pole,”

We wrap it all up with the Love Language of the Week, because after all that… everyone deserves a little tenderness.

New year. Same podcast. Same warning: listen responsibly. 🍑🎙️

This week’s inbox is stacked. We’ve got a Booty Gangster with questions about butt plugs and lube, a listener trying to escape a truly tragic situationship (thoughts and prayers), and an end-of-year update from Trampage—proving once again that some storylines deserve a season finale. Plus, your READY SET CONFESS submissions are serving equal parts chaos, courage, and “you probably shouldn’t have texted that.”

The guys also recap their holidays, reflect on what they’re manifesting for 2026 (growth, boundaries, and maybe better choices), and help Dangilo San Antonio —help wanted, dignity optional. There’s also a spirited dive into the Heat Rivalry, because nothing says year-end reflection like sports opinions you didn’t ask for.

As always, they wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, sending you off into the new year slightly wiser, significantly gayer, and emotionally moisturized.

Thanks for riding with us through 2025. Same cheeks, new year. 🍑✨

We’ve got a Booty Gangster dealing with an unexpected and unwelcome reaction to DoxyPEP (because sometimes prevention comes with plot twists), a text from someone who drained their nut and somehow still got burned, and a listener who tried to call Dr. Carlton directly after last week’s episode. Sir… this is a podcast, not urgent care.

The guys also recap Dangilo’s annual holiday party—where the drinks were flowing, the outfits were dazzling , and the memories are… fuzzy at best. Dr. Carlton gives us an update on his YEZTUGO shot, because nothing says festive like injectable science and side effects.

It’s holiday cheer. It’s informative. It’s lightly confrontational. And it’s exactly why you listen.

As always, the episode wraps with the Love Language of the Week, because after all that everyone deserves a little tenderness.

Hit play—your butt will thank you. 🍑

Who’s on top? (And yes… we mean statistically.)

Which Grindr trends made the naughty list?

And perhaps the most humbling question of all… how many album shares did you rack up this year? Be brave. Be honest. Be slightly ashamed.

It’s data-driven debauchery, holiday edition — equal parts festive, pop-culture candy, naughty fun, and deeply revealing. There will be gasps. There will be group chats exposed. There will be cities that absolutely need to answer for their sins. And yes… there will be team pride.

So pour a drink, lock your phone, and join the boys for a year-end wrap-up that proves once and for all: numbers don’t lie.

We also saddle up for a fresh D-PIG on the Prowl story, because absolutely no public space is safe from chaos. In GIMME HEAD-Lines, we talk about World AIDS Day — and why not everyone is exactly being respectful about it — plus RFK Jr. somehow enters the chat and wants you to take his load. We wish we were kidding. We are not.

Dangilo gives us the theatrical tea on “Wicked for Good” and Working Girl: The Musical, while Dr. Carlton survives — and recaps — his very own Emergency Thanksgiving, and dental kinks.

And as always, they wrap it up with their Love Language of the Week, because after all that talk of tea tree, politics, and plumbing… we needed grounding.

Strap in, flush wisely, and press play — it’s another classic Butt Honestly ride.

Plus, we’ve got a Pig on the Prowl story involving workplace chaos, bagels, and a whole lot of sitting. Let’s just say HR would not approve.

Dr. Carlton and Dangilo chat about their upcoming Thanksgiving plans. Dr. C gives us the 411 on YEZTUGO,

Stick around till the end for their Love Language of the Week, served warm, tender, and with the emotional maturity of two men who definitely didn’t just spend 45 minutes talking about buttholes.

Tune in, loosen up, and let’s get into it — Butt Honestly style.

This week we’re serving up a classic Butt Honestly episode, just the way you like it: no guests, no safety net, just your two favorite butt boys and a mountain of Butt Dials and Booty Calls.

We’ve got two PEP situations—one from a female listener and another from a gay guy—proving that sexual health knows no gender, but the drama? Oh, honey, it ALWAYS delivers.

Then we hear from a listener in India who absolutely destroyed his throat for the cause, and we cap it off with a voicemail from some of Dangilo’s straight female friends… which means chaos, confusion, and at least one question nobody saw coming.

Dangilo recaps his San Antonio adventures (yes, the Alamo AND the men), while Dr. Carlton beams with pride over his daughter’s stunning New York debut—finally, a wholesome moment to balance out all the filth.

And of course, they wrap it all up with their Love Language of the Week, because after everything we just covered… yeah, you’re gonna need a little aftercare.

This week, it’s a CRAM JAM SESSION of epic proportions — we’ve got some Gimme HEADlines, a few Ready Set Confess moments that’ll make you blush through your earbuds, and maybe even a question or two that’ll leave you… clenched.

BUTT FIRST — everyone, put your junk in the trunk because this week’s guest is queer royalty. We’re talking about the Brooklyn-born, globe-trotting, glitter-slinging, sass-serving icon himself — Jonny McGovern! From his days as The Gay Pimp to making us scream “HEY QUEEN!” and hosting the cult-favorite Gayest of All Time (now on Patreon), Jonny has been the patron saint of poppers, punchlines, and perfectly-timed pelvic thrusts.

He’s here to spill the T, spin some tracks from his brand-new album Man Areas, and talk all things queer culture, comedy, and creative chaos with Dr. Carlton and Dangilo.

So grab your headphones, adjust your rhinestones, and get ready for a ride that’s equal parts fabulous, filthy, and full of feeling. And as always, they finish off the episode with their Love Language of the Week—because after all that kiki, we could all use a little aftercare.

This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo dive deep into the three Fs—Felching, Fluids, and Fear (of your annual anal pap smear). One Booty Gang member overshares in the best way, another earns honorary “cum dump” status, and our inbox is bursting with a few Ready Set Confess .

The guys also swap spooky stories from their Halloween escapades, talk about Charlie Sheen’s new podcast .

As always, they wrap things up tight and tender with their Love Language of the Week, proving that even when things get messy, love—and a little laughter—can clean it all up.

So open your ears, loosen your butts, and prepare for a truly unholy mix of health, humor, and hedonism.

This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are going head-to-head (and maybe head-to-other-places) as they tackle some sticky listener questions. One Booty Gang member’s got a bad case of jock itch that’s really cramping his style, another is seeing red after douching (and not in the fun, candlelit way), and a few others are trying to navigate the deep, wet waters of open relationships.

The guys also tackle the age-old question: Do you like to 69?

With plenty of laughs, lube, and life lessons along the way, they wrap it all up (safely, of course) with their Love Language of the Week.

Because sometimes, the best way to connect… is face-to-face — literally. 😏

This week, the boys are coming in hot and heavy with a GIMME HEADlines MPox update. We’ve got a Booty Gang member caught in a kissing nightmare that’ll make you pucker with fear, another seeking salvation in a tube of hemorrhoid cream, and—wait for it—a fisting puppet making its grand debut.

Plus, the Reverse Ejaculation Guy is back with an update that’ll have you crossing your legs and saying “oh my God” out loud in public. And just when you think it can’t get any more chaotic, our READY SET CONFESS submissions will have you clutching your pearls… and maybe your partner.

Dr. Carlton gets a little handy at the Rose Bowl (no, not that one 🌹), Dangilo gets some mom time in, and Tony spills all the sexy, sequined tea from San Diego’s Red Dress Party.

As always, the boys wrap it all up nice and tight with their Love Language of the Week—because after all the filth, you deserve a little affection.

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⚠️ Spoiler alert! ⚠️ They won’t give everything away, but let’s just say… things get deep—emotionally and otherwise. The conversation touches on representation, creativity, and what it means to bring queer and Latin voices to the forefront, all with that signature Butt Honestlyblend of humor, heart, and just the right amount of filth.

So grab your popcorn and lube up. Get ready to go behind the scenes (and maybe behind the Boots) with the brilliant Dominic Colón.

Because when it comes to art, sex, and storytelling—these boys know how to keep it raw, real, and ridiculously entertaining.

This week, things get a little wild (and maybe a little messy). One listener thinks they may have literally screwed their partner’s brains out, while another writes in with questions about reverse ejaculation—because, apparently, sometimes what goes in doesn’t always come out.

The guys also celebrate National Coming Out Day with their own heartfelt (and hilarious) stories of self-discovery, awkward moments, and the glorious art of being unapologetically yourself.

Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton finds himself in a very sticky situation with a case of Shigella—talk about explosive plot twists—and the mystery gym pooper saga gets another unexpected update. Dangilo heads to Bear Night, while Carlton’s got some salacious stories that’ll have your earbuds blushing.

Of course, they wrap it all up the Butt Honestly way—with their Love Languages of the Week—because after all that chaos, who couldn’t use a little love (and lube)?

So grab your wipes, your headphones, and your emotional support douche—this episode is equal parts filthy, funny, and full of feels.

This week, the guys serve up some GIMME HEADlines, dive into a spicy round of Hit It & Quit It, and unpack a scandalous little tale from the UK involving a cheeky four-way in a bathroom. (Because nothing says "proper British etiquette" like group sex in a loo.)

BUTT FIRST… get ready for a guest who needs no introduction but is going to get one anyway: she’s unapologetically loud, proudly Latina, and the queen who turned Season 15 of RuPaul’s Drag Raceinto her own personal telenovela. From theater stints in Priscilla, Queen of the Desert and La Cage aux Folles, to music videos like BOOTZ and PAPI that gagged the internet—she’s the ESfierce, ESfilthy, and ESfabulous force of nature: Salina EsTitties!

Expect drama. Expect laughter. Expect titties (lots of them). And of course, expect the guys to finish the episode the only way they know how—with their Love Languages of the Week, because even messy bottoms deserve a little love.

So loosen your belts, tighten your tuck, and press play—because this one is as over-the-top as Salina herself.

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BREAKING: Austin Wolf sentenced in child sex abuse materials case

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New York City police arrest nearly 200 men in undercover gay cruising crackdown at Penn Station Amtrak confirmed to Attitude that nearly 200 arrests have been made since June 1, a move they say has "[curbed] disruptive activity across the station"

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But the real investigation of the week: The Case of the Mystery Gym Pooper. The guys put on their detective hats (and nose plugs) to get to the bottom of it. Spoiler: Dangilo may or may not get hit with some pretty instant poop karma of his own.

The tackle a relationship question: when is an open relationship just a little too open? Then it’s time for a steamy round of Hit It & Quit It featuring everything from gym hookups to kissing cousins and flushing your PrEP? Of course, they wrap it all up with their signature Love Languages of the Week—because nothing cleanses the palate like a little tenderness after all the toilet talk.

September is Suicide Prevention Month, and the Booty Gang knows we don’t shy away from the tough stuff. This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo bring in a licensed mental health professional—Dr. Ty David Lerman, founder of TDL Counseling—to tackle some of the biggest mental health challenges facing our community. From suicide and depression to stress, anxiety, kink, and even hypnosis (yes, hypnosis—it’s not just for Vegas acts anymore), no topic is off-limits.

The guys ask Dr. Ty:

• Is there a singular or more specific reasons someone resorts to unaliving themselves??
• Are LGBTQ+ folks more prone to suicidal ideation?
• Can “casual meth use” actually exist, or is that like saying “casual tax audit”?
• What’s the difference between a panic attack and an anxiety attack?
• And the big one—does hypnosis really work, or will we end up clucking like chickens?

It’s an episode packed with honesty, heart, and (because it’s us) just enough irreverence to keep you laughing while you learn. And of course, they wrap it all up with their signature Love Language of the Week—because even heavy conversations deserve a soft landing.

So grab your headphones, settle your cheeks, and get ready for an episode that proves you can laugh, learn, and cry—all in one sitting.

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Court has helped individuals and couples explore their sexuality, overcome sexual shame, and actually communicate (wild, right?). From building body confidence to navigating kinks, Court’s work is about creating healthier, more fulfilling relationships—whether that means deep emotional intimacy or simply making your next “Netflix and chill” session a little less… awkward.

The guys dive in with the big questions:

What exactly is the “male loneliness epidemic,” and why should you care?

How do couples with very different kinks and sex drives actually make it work without one person faking a migraine every night? And what does true sexual connection look like when you take the shame and fear out of the equation?

Of course, they wrap things up with their signature Love Language of the Week—because even when it gets deep, this show always ends with a little sweetness to balance out the spice.

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So this week, we’re taking it deeper (don’t we always?). Instead of our usual butt dials and booty calls, we sat down with someone who has lived that reality. Meet “Dayton”—not his real name, because Grindr isn’t the only place anonymity is sexy. Dayton has spent time in county jail, later served time in prison after violating probation, and now, post-release, he’s rebuilding his life and sharing his story.

While his experiences may not be typical, they are raw, real, and unapologetically his. The Booty Gang sent in some candid questions (you never disappoint), and Dayton opens up with honesty, humor, and a perspective most of us only know from Netflix docuseries.

This episode might not come with the usual Butt Dials and Ready Set Confuse—but trust us, it’s still one hell of a ride. Sometimes the most important conversations happen when you least expect them.

👉 So loosen your cuffs (the fun kind or the jail kind, we don’t judge) and join us for this eye-opening conversation with Dayton.

First up, the Booty Gang delivers a grab bag of butt dials: one member wants answers about HPV (because Google isn’t always the best doctor), another self-identified BUTT MUNCH is worried about the risks of snacking where the sun don’t shine, and yet another listener is just looking to chill out after their nightly “release.” And if that weren’t enough, we’ve got a 60-something hero who’s ready to swing the back door open for some long-overdue visitors. Bless.

Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton dishes about his night out at Back Hair Night, where the farts were plentiful and the men were hairy. The guys also recap FilmOut SD—from The Orchestra and Plainclothes—because culture is just as important as kink.

And of course, it wouldn’t be Butt Honestly without a steamy, hilarious, and slightly unhinged wrap-up with their Love Language of the Week.

👉 Tune in, loosen up, and remember: whether you’re munching, releasing, or revisiting, your butt is always welcome here.

First up, a Booty Gang member writes in with questions about sex after prostate cancer, while another swears his prostate might be broken (spoiler: it’s not Amazon Prime, it doesn’t come with a warranty). And if that weren’t enough, a certain pig on the prowl checks in to let us know his prostate just got absolutely wrecked—but in the best possible way.

Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton slides into the weird and wonderful world of his prison DMs (apparently, orange really is the new black), while Dangilo shares a bloody IV situation that’ll make you clutch your pearls… or at least your veins.

Oh, and mark your calendars: Slutter Camp is happening August 30. If you’re not ready, now’s the time to stretch, hydrate, and maybe invest in a jockstrap or two.

As always, the guys wrap it all up with their “Love Language of the Week” — because after all the prostate poking, prison proposals, and IV drama, you’ll need a soft landing.

Our Butt Dials segment is bursting with goodies: an email from a nurse gives the 411 on a new PrEP medication, a listener having a hard time at a nude beach (emphasis on hard), and — because the universe loves us — a full-on booty call from an actual pig on the prowl. 

Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton returns from his trip over the pound — that’s right, from West End musicals to steamy bathhouses, he’s been hitting all the cultural landmarks. 

The guys dish on the Hollywood Bowl, give their review of Jesus Christ Superstar (spoiler: the Lord works in mysterious, jazz-handed ways), and wrap things up with their “Love Language of the Week” — because after all that, we all need a gentle cuddle.

Warning: Listening may result in spontaneous laughter, inappropriate beach thoughts, and the uncontrollable urge to slather yourself in Gun Oil while singing show tunes.

The boys dive into the deep end with a conversation about pronouns and why language matters, before answering a question about fissures — from someone who doesn’t even listen to the show (rude, but okay). They take a bit go a serious turn as they unpack the emotional toll lose and overdose.

Then, just when you think your cheeks have dried — we’re back to steamy territory. This week’s Hit It or Quit It gets wild with tales of bathroom BJs (public plumbing, anyone?), sketchy Aussie sexcapades, chastity cages (yes, we’re locked in), sensual massage parties, and a little something special from Black’s Beach. Sun, sand, and... submission?

They wrap things up, as always, with their “Love Language of the Week” — a soft landing after a very hard ride.

So plug in, lube up, and loosen your grip on reality — Episode 57 is serving sex, substance, and just the right amount of sass. 🎙️🍑

Dr. Carlton trades in his jockstrap for some theater critique and dishes on Noises Off at the Old Globe (yes, she’s cultured and kinked)

This week’s listener Q&A about switching between Truvada and Descovy. Is it safe? Does it provide the same level of protection? We have your answer.

PLUS: The latest update in the ever-evolving Trampaige saga!

And as always, we wrap it up with our Love Language of the Week

Whether you're listening from a sling, your car, or while pretending to do work at your desk—this one’s a ride you don’t want to miss.

This week, the boys are lubed up and locked in with a butt dial from a listener who signs off as Confused in Connecticut—he’s in his first monogamous relationship and wondering if he's doing it right... or if he is the red flag. Dr. Carlton and Dangilo give their unfiltered thoughts, therapy-adjacent advice, and probably make it worse (in the best way).

The guys welcome a very special guest: Leo Herrera—filmmaker, activist, queer historian, and author of POST and (analong) Cruising. Get ready for a raw, sexy, and deeply intellectual kiki about preserving queer culture, pleasure activism, and why the ghosts of our queer ancestors are probably rolling their eyes at your text game.

Of course, it wouldn’t be Butt Honestly without a new crop of Hit It and Quit It questions that'll leave you clutching your pearls and your prep. Topics this week include everything from topping fatigue to anal ambition and one listener who just wants to know if his dick has too much charisma.

The boys wrap it all up with their Love Language of the Week—because nothing says romance like overanalyzing your emotional availability between butt stuff convos. 💞

So sit back and press play—because this episode is giving you education, entertainment, and a little bit of existential thirst. 🧠🍆💦

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This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are back with another episode full of the kind of honesty only a queer medical professional and a guy who has done stuff...lots of stuff can provide. The Butt Dials are ringing off the hook:

📬 A letter from an ER nurse looking for real talk about compassionate care in queer spaces (Dr. Carlton takes it verypersonally—in the best way).

💋 A listener dealing with post-hookup cold sore chaos is looking for answers—and mouthwash.

💉 And a Specialist Level Booty Gang member gets down and dirty asking about Dr. Carlton’s TriMix Kit—because why not turn your dick into a syringe-based science experiment?

PLUS, it’s time to bend over and confess, because there’s a new batch of juicy READY SET CONFESSstories!

The guys also dish on their San Diego Pride plans—glitter, harnesses, questionable decisions—and break down the do’s and don’ts of straight people entering queer spaces(spoiler: don’t act like you’re at a bachelorette party in a petting zoo).

Come for the science, stay for the sass.

Press play and remember: if you can’t laugh at yourself... call in and let us do it for you.

This week’s mailbag is bursting with goodies:

📱 A listener in India wants to up his BJ game

💋 A straight woman is looking to curate a little gay magic

🍆 A Wilton Manors hottie has questions about C-rings and how not to lose one mid-thrust

And you know what’s back? That’s right: HIT IT AND QUIT IT returns with more fire than a bottom after Taco Tuesday. Topics include:

1️⃣ Topping performance anxiety in open relationships

2️⃣ How big is big enough before your first bottoming adventure?

3️⃣ Favorite cock sizes—don’t act like you’re not curious

4️⃣ Numbing creams: pleasure enhancer or vibe killer?

5️⃣ Is mixing PrEP + Viagra risky with high blood pressure?

🧻 And the age-old question: can you un-loosen a loose hole?

PLUS, a heartstring-tugging letter from a listener in love with their best friend. Should they shoot their shot or just keep scrolling?

We wrap it all up with a spicy READY SET CONFESS, and of course, your favorite weekly cuddle: Love Language of the Week.

Whether you're rock-hard or soft-hearted, this episode is serving knowledge, nonsense, and just the right amount of nipple play. Hit play, and let’s get honest—butt honestly. 🍑🎧

This week, things get… sensitive. We start off by addressing a message from a very well-endowed listener (humble brag much?) who’s finding it emotionally hard to connect with bottoms—yes, size can be a blessing and a curse. The guys unpack that dilemma with compassion, sass, and the perfect amount of lube.

Then, we take a quick pit stop at Fiber Town—because one listener wants to know just how much is too much ?

From there, we crank up the kink with a question about "wired nips"—and we’re not talking Bluetooth-enabled areolas, folks. Whether you’re curious, confused, or just a fan of a good chest zap, Dr. Carlton has thoughts... and a safe word.

And just when you thought modern dating couldn’t get any worse, the guys break down a brand-new toxic trend: “Floodlighting.” Is it love bombing’s messier cousin? Is it gaslighting in booty shorts? Either way, beware the man who overshares on date one.

As always, we round things out with your favorite weekly check-in: the Love Language of the Week—because even in the chaos, there’s room for connection, care, and maybe a well-timed cuddle after a fiber-fueled night.

Plug in and prep up, fam—this one’s a wild ride with a high-fiber finish! 🍑💡💥

This week, we’re broadcasting coast-to-coast chaos. Dr. Carlton is fresh from a naked pool party (because SPF is best applied by strangers), and Dangilo is recording from the only hotspot he could find—his sweltering car in the middle of nowhere. Will the heatstroke kick in before the punchlines? Only time will tell.

We kick things off with a brand-new round of Hit It or Quit It, featuring your burning questions like:

• Is Ozempic Dick a real side effect or just a myth made up by someone with commitment issues?

• What happens when you're full of hot air... and we’re not talking about your personality?

• And can too much breeze during a bang kill the mood—or just inflate your ego?

We also read a couple of juicy Ready, Set, Confess messages (your kinks are getting spicier, FYI), and bring you the latest update from our favorite serial dater, Trampaige, who once again proves that love is a battlefield—and sometimes it’s booby-trapped.

From naked cannonballs to awkward air bubbles, we’ve got everything your earbuds never knew they needed. And of course, we wrap it all up with our signature Love Language of the Week—because no matter how weird things get, we still believe in love... or at least a good cuddle after the chaos.

Hit play and hold your cheeks—this one’s a bumpy ride! 🍑💦🔥

This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo reunite to catch up on all things hole and heart, and let’s just say—it gets real... and real itchy. We’re diving into:

🍆 A juicy Booty Call from a listener who wants to know if he fumbled the STI disclosure convo or if the guy just wasn’t ready to ride the honesty train.

🌽 A fiber-fueled text message about the etiquette of tossing salad (because nothing says romance like “Did you eat today?” and “Was it quinoa?”).

🩸 Double Butt Dials about the inflamed, the irritated, and the downright cranky: hemorrhoid horror stories that may make you sit gently for the rest of the day.

✈️ Dangilo’s travel sexcapades — because sometimes the best souvenirs are small-town dick and a punch card from the local adult arcade.

📣 The guys also discuss the No Kings protest in San Diego

And of course, they wrap things up with the beloved Love Language of the Week—serving a side of sweetness after all that spice (and fiber).

So, whether you're nursing a hemorrhoid, questioning your post-fiber protocol, or just here for the D’Angilo giggles and Dr. Carlton wisdom, hit play. Episode 50 proves that when it comes to butts, honesty really is the best policy.

Dr. Carlton and Dangilo dive deep with Willam on:

• Pride Season survival tactics and how they stay fabulous from gig to gig
• Trans rights and why advocacy isn’t optional.
• A definitive answer to the age-old question: What city has the best D?
• And of course—how to keep your hole ready while living that tour bus life. (Because a true professional stays ready.)

Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton breaks down a groundbreaking new study using nanoparticles to target dormant HIV—science fiction? Nope. Just science.

Then, it’s time for the return of HIT IT AND QUIT IT, featuring:

• A long-distance lover looking for hope.
• A scarred chicken pox survivor wondering if his dots are still hot.
• And one brave soul experimenting with figging (yes, the thing with ginger root—Google wisely).

As if that wasn’t enough, the guys read a steamy listener story that’ll fog your glasses and possibly ruin your couch.

Finally, they wrap it all up with their Love Lounge of the Week, reminding us that beneath the glitter, gags, and ginger root, this show’s still about love… and butts.

So go on—press play, open your heart, and maybe your legs. Willam insists. 💋

We’re kicking things off with some  Butt Dials, including:

• A listener whose body bends… but not the way you’d think. 
• Another listener who’s too protected? Is that a thing? The guys break down risk, safety, and the fine line between cautious and cocooned.
• And a rare treat: a feel-good booty call that'll leave your cheeks—both sets—smiling.

Dr. Carlton also dishes on some steamy and heart warming moments from IML (International Mr. Leather)

Then, it’s time to get nerdy: what’s the latest tea on the world’s first gonorrhea vaccine? Could this be the prick we’ve all been waiting for? The guys talk science, slut health, and what this could mean for your next Grindr meet-up.

Of course, they bring it all home with their signature Love Language of the Week—because after all the kinks, dildos, and dials, we’re still softies at heart.

So buckle up, bend carefully, and get ready for another episode that’s equal parts hilarious, heartfelt, and medically fascinating. Press play, spread love, not infections. 💙

• 40-Something Year Old Virgin who is ready to get into the game but needs some clarity on how to ask for sex-positive treatment from their health care provider and which PreP medication should they focus on asking for and how is it different from DoxyPrep/Pep. 
• A Straight Cis-male in his 60's that is exploring his own hole and would like to introduce butt play into his relationship but has some questions about Skin Tags.  Should he see a proctologist, pcp or dermatologist?

Doctor Carlton and Dangilo finish up the episode with another READY. SET. CONFESS. inbox menagerie of Booty Gang trampage tales and Love Languages. 

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The guys dive deep with Boomer to talk about the power of representation—especially for brown boys in the gay adult industry—and how visibility is more than just skin (or foreskin) deep. From reclaiming power in a space that often sidelines men of color to what it’s like walking into every room as the biggest presence there (physically and spiritually), this is one conversation you don’t want to miss.

Then it's time for some Hit It or Quit It where things get… irregular:

• Question about hemorrhoid ?
• What’s the deal with fiber and those glorious, elusive “sun dumps”?
• And how exactly do you use that benzocaine delay spray without turning your meat into a numb, confused bratwurst?

Because you know we don’t gatekeep butt health or butt fun.

As always, the guys wrap things up with the Love Lounge of the Week—where the lights get low, the wisdom gets high, and maybe someone cries (emotionally… or due to fiber overload).

So whether you're tuning in for the sex, the science, or just Boomer’s voice (which is, let’s be honest, basically audible lube), this episode has it all. Pop those earbuds in, give your hole a wink, and press play.

The guys open the episode with some cheeky banter about Dr. Carlton’s recent speaking engagement to a room full of GI doctors (spoiler: there were butts… so many butts), and Dangilo spills the tea on Regency Girls, the new musical lighting up San Diego’s Old Globe Theater—think corsets, chaos, and high-note drama.

Then it’s off to Sessions By the Bay, where the guys rave about their elevated experience at this new cannabis hotspot. Let's just say the flower wasn’t the only thing blooming.

But buckle up, Booty Gang, because the READY SET CONFESS inbox is bursting this week—and y’all are some kinky little monsters. From public play to surprise fetishes, these submissions are NOT for the faint of taint.

The guys also dive into two listener letters that bring the heart and the heat:

• One comes from a long-distance lover navigating a new hepatitis C diagnosis and trying to keep things sexy while staying safe.
• The other? A straight woman in a long-term relationship who wants some Butt Honestly-certified tips to turn out her husband in the best possible way. (Ma’am, we salute you.)

And of course, it all wraps up with their Love Language of the Week—because after the butt stuff, kink confessions, and musical theater recaps, we like to leave you with a little heart… and maybe some lube.

So press play, light one up (if that's your thing), and get ready for an episode that’s equal parts educational, scandalous, and completely unhinged—but, you know, in a refined way.

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Meanwhile, Dangilo and Dr. Carlton tackle a serious and heartfelt letter from a listener who’s feeling scared, uncertain, and in need of support. The guys slow things down to share wisdom, offer comfort, and remind the Booty Gang that you're never alone on your journey of life.

Of course, it wouldn’t be Butt Honestly without things spiraling delightfully sideways:

🩺 A listener confesses to a doctor-patient fantasy that deserves its own malpractice waiver

🍆 We hear what it’s like to be a Big Dick Bottom™ (it’s a niche, and we love it)

💉 Someone gets loaded—and not the way you think—in a confessional that requires holy water and a towel

🧠 The guys debate the eternal dilemma: Can a bad personality ruin hotness? And on the flip side—can charm turn a 6 into a solid 9?

The episode wraps with their warm, fuzzy (and slightly sticky) Love Language of the Week, reminding you to stay kind, stay curious, and maybe double-check who you’re sending that confessional to.

Hit play, lube up your ears, and prepare to laugh, cry, and question everything—Butt Honestly, it's the ride you didn't know you needed.

Dr. Carlton and Dangilo dive right in with these Big Apple icons, covering everything from what it means to step into your Daddy era with pride (spoiler: it involves confidence, consent, and moisturizer), to exploring a listener’s surprisingly spicy dilemma that may—or may not—involve a family member and a hot tub. 👀

Expect: 💥 Unapologetic talk about evolving queer identities

👑 Peru and Nick’s takes on being pioneers, trailblazers, and unapologetically themselves

📬 A listener letter that’ll make you question whether you’re the Daddy… or still calling one

😳 A READY SET CONFESS that toes the line between taboo and therapy

And of course, the fellas wrap it all up with their signature Love Language of the Week—because even when the tea is scalding, we like to leave you with a warm fuzzy (and maybe slightly sticky) feeling.

Come for the laughs, stay for the emotional whiplash. Press play and enjoy the ride—Daddy's got this.

The guys get into it—really into it—chatting with Paulo about what it means to serve authentically in today’s military and the very real threat of a renewed trans military ban. But this isn’t just politics and policy—it’s personal, passionate, and powerful AF.

They also talk about:

• Pablo’s work with Sparta Pride and how the org supports trans folks in the armed forces
• How he keeps his mental health strong when the world feels a little too on fire (spoiler: it doesn’t involve doomscrolling)
• His leather journey—from titleholder to mentor to full-blown icon status

And because this is Butt Honestly, you know we couldn’t wrap things up without: ✨ A couple rounds of Hit It or Quit It 

💗 And, of course, their Love Languages of the Week, because we’re here to uplift your heart while gently stretching your limits.

Whether you're into leather, activism, or just love a damn good conversation with a side of sass, this episode delivers. Suit up, strap in, and press play. 🎙️🍑

But first, we dig into some listener letters. One from a Spring Bloomer who’s finally blossoming into his full, filthy self, and another from an incredible mom who’s tuning in and showing up—because this podcast is for everyone with a butt, and the people who love them.

Quick hits in our butt dial segment tackle life’s big questions, like:

• “Should I keep it in… or push it out?” (Spoiler: It depends on the setting.)
• “What’s the real prep time for PREP?” (Hint: It’s not a crockpot.)
• “Does love mean you always have to cum?” (The existential crisis we never saw coming.)

The guys also dish about :

🐻 Oso Sucia Dirty Bear After Dark Leather Ball Eleganza Extravaganza – and yes, that is the full name, and no, there will not be a quiz.

🎢 Dangilo’s Disneyland detour – because even after a leather ball, a Dole Whip hits different.

In the spirit of joy and justice, they shout out the bear event that boldly stood up for trans rights.

As always, the episode ends with their Love Language of the Week, where the feels are real and the innuendos are plentiful.

Hit play, confess your sins, and maybe… keep a towel nearby. 🍑

First up, we hear from a listener in the thick of healing after anal fissure surgery—a journey that’s as tender as it sounds (but with way less lube). Then, two very active Booty Gang members write in with burning questions about testing protocols and Doxy-PEP.

Things take a turn when we get a butt dial from someone navigating life with HIV and HPV, and the guys handle it the Butt Honestly way: with empathy, science, and heart.

Dr. Carlton also dishes on his escapades at Spring Blood—and let’s just say it involves more than just blooming flowers and seasonal allergies. You’ll want to hear all the juicy details (but maybe not while eating brunch).

And because the world isn’t just rim jobs and poppers, the guys take a moment to reflect on the powerful protests happening across the country. It’s a rare moment of seriousness—well, as serious as two men talking about butt stuff can get.

As always, they wrap it all up with their Love Language of the Week, because even amidst fissures and fist-raising, love is what keeps our cheeks clapping.

So sit back, lube up, and press play—this one’s got range. 

First up, a Booty Gang member is devastated—they can’t use poppers anymore due to health reasons! What’s a party bottom to do? Then, we’ve got a butt dial about piss play (hydration matters, folks), a listener wondering how to navigate labels and sexual identity in the LGBTQ+ world, and—brace yourselves—someone struggling with the funkiest tasting spunk. (Spoiler: It’s not a new Gatorade flavor.)

Dr. Carlton and Dangilo also spill all the dirty details from their time at O’soSucia, the event where inhibitions are left at the door and things get very, very messy. What happened? Who did what to whom? And does tequila make you a better slut? Find out!

To wrap it all up, they bring you their Love Lounge of the Week, giving you just a touch of wholesome after all the filth.

Hit play and prepare to clutch your pearls (or jockstrap). 🍑

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First up, we’ve got a Butt Dial from a High Mileage Hole in Dallas who’s seeking wisdom on an unexpected “Tag” situation. Then, a listener from Down Under (literally) is dealing with a pain in the butt that’s not just metaphorical. Can Dr. Carlton’s medical expertise save their backdoor bliss?

And get ready for our BRAND NEW SEGMENT: BOOTY GANG CONFESSES! Let’s just say… this one isn’t for the faint of taint. Secrets will be spilled, sins will be aired, and we might all need a long shower afterward.

Oh, and did we mention? We officially launched our Patreon! If you want it raw, uncut, and unfiltered (just like your favorite moments in life), now’s your chance to support the show and get even more of that sweet, sweet Butt Honestly goodness.

We wrap things up with our Love Languages of the Week, because after all that filth, we need a little sugar to balance the spice.

Hit play, grab a snack (or a towel), and let’s get into it! 🍑

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Since March is Colorectal Cancer Awareness Month (and yes, we’re rocking that blue!), the guys are dropping some knowledge to help you keep your backdoor in check.

And because you can’t get enough, our Hit It and Quit It segment is BACK with five scorching questions:

1. What are the signs of colon cancer? A listener’s feeling backed up and wondering if it’s more than just a bad burrito.
2. I’m a top, but I can’t finish while topping—what gives? One frustrated listener is desperate to bust a nut without the help of his hands.
3. Anal Botox for fissures—is it brilliant or a one-way ticket to Shartsville? Someone’s worried about accidentally turning their ass into a Slip ‘N Slide, and Dr. Carlton’s here to ease the fear.
4. Truvada and kidney function—is every other day dosing a good idea? A listener’s doc recommended it, but does that even make sense?
5. I want TRT, but my T levels are just above the low range—how do I convince my doc? We’re talking low energy, no sex drive, and gaining weight. The guys give out tips on making your case.

Plus, we’ve got a listener question that takes a hard look at the realities of hookups that might involve BB—how do you assess risk when you’re not entirely sure how compliant someone is with their meds? Dr. Carlton and Dangilo tackle the tricky topic with their signature blend of honesty and humor.

And just when you think it can’t get steamier, we’ve got an Atlantis Cruise story that’s as hot as it is scandalous. To top it all off, the guys wrap things up with their Love Lounge of the Week—a little sweetness to balance out the spice.

Hit play and hold on tight—this episode’s gonna leave you breathless!

But that’s not all—we’re thrilled to welcome a very special guest straight from the City of Angels. She’s the queen of the Fat Slut Party, a star of Hulu’s Drag Me to Dinner, and one-half of the iconic Sloppy Seconds podcast alongside Big Dipper. Put your hands together for the Motivational Speaker and Pink Pony Club Diva, MEATBALL!

Dr.C and Dangilo ask Meatball where did the FAT SLUT party idea come from? Do you have petrophilia? Clown Fuckers? If you were in Drag and the other one is painted like a clown…is that Kai Kai?

Whether you’re a Fat Slut regular or just Meatball-curious, this episode is serving big laughs, bigger personalities, and enough attitude to fill Mo’s twice over. Stick around for our signature Love Language of the Week and soak up every unfiltered, uncensored, and unforgettable moment of this live extravaganza!

This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo dive headfirst into some juicy listener reviews (keep ‘em coming, we read everything... sometimes twice). They follow up on last week’s Bullied Bear insights. They answer some lister question, A cis woman who loves to bottom (representation matters, people!), a Brazilian listener with burning Doxy PEP questions, and a letter about MGen infection that’ll make you rethink skipping those regular checkups.

And just when you think it can’t get any spicier, we get a Booty Call from a listener who got CAUGHT mid-action at the gym—because nothing says leg day like a little extracurricular stretching in the locker room.

The guys wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, serving up their usual blend of wisdom, wit, and just the right amount of naughty

Tune in, laugh out loud, and if you’re in San Diego, we better see your booty at the live show!

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The guys dive into some juicy listener questions, including a follow-up from someone with thoughts on their recent "side play" discussion—because, apparently, there’s always more to say when it comes to getting off without going in. Another listener is looking for advice on re-entering the social scene after years out of the scene due to bullying— The guys open up about their own experiences with bullying and share some real talk about finding your confidence again.

And for the grand finale, a listener writes in with the age-old dilemma: what’s it like becoming a 50-year-old virgin?The guys give their best advice on embracing a fresh start—because whether you’re a seasoned pro or just getting into the game, there’s always room for pleasure and self-discovery.

They wrap up the episode with their "Love Language of the Week," leaving you feeling seen, heard, and maybe even a little turned on.

The guys dive into some listener reviews—because who doesn’t love a little feedback, especially when it’s juicy? Speaking of juicy, we’ve got Butt Dials and Booty Calls coming in hot, with one listener questioning why wipes might not be the holy grail of cleanliness. Another listener follows up with the where behind his game-changing portable bidet discovery (because sometimes, you need a good rinse on the go). And to top it off, someone needs some real talk on cleaning out for a colonoscopy—because preparation is key, no matter where the doctor is looking.

As always, the guys round out the episode with their Love Languages of the Week—because after all that dirty talk, we need something to cleanse the palate. Tune in, laugh out loud, and maybe rethink your wet wipe addiction!

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🍆 What’s their go-to sex toy, and what does it do for them?

🥥 Is coconut oil a slick choice for anal lube—or a slippery mistake?

📏 Can you actually make your girth dreams come true?

📱 What’s the creepiest message they’ve ever received on a hookup app?

🔥 And how do you navigate a relationship when one partner is permanently in heat while the other is more of a once-a-month kinda guy?

We also get a voice mail from a lister who has a follow up last weeks question about anal fissures.

PLUS, a listener writes in about a not-so-fun reaction to DoxyPrep—have the guys heard of this before? And, of course, they wrap up with their Love Language of the Week.

This episode is packed with muscles, mischief, and very important medical advice—so open your ears, loosen your belts, and press play!

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The guys also have a big announcement about an upcoming event (you won’t want to miss this one), and they dish out their unfiltered thoughts on this year’s Grammy Awards—because even Butt Honestly has opinions on Beyoncé.

Then, it’s time to dive into the inbox! The guys tackle some juicy listener questions, including:

An older bisexual man exploring his sexuality—how does he ease into butt stuff with confidence?

What’s the deal with sex after a 12-point trans-rectal prostate biopsy? Is it as terrifying as it sounds?

A deep dive into side play—plus, the surprising stats on how many guys stay soft while bottoming.

They also read a listener review (we love hearing from you… unless you’re a hater, in which case, we still love you, just less). And as always, they wrap up the episode with their Love Language of the Week—because even the filthiest conversations deserve a little tenderness.

Grab your headphones and let’s get into it!

The guys chat with Grant about his experience as a naked trainer, his time as a go-go boy, and the wild shenanigans he’s encountered while living overseas in Germany. They also dive into the world of shamanic training and answer the burning question: What exactly is jelqing?

Dr. Carlton and Dangilo, with Grant’s help, tackle some “Hit It or Quit It” questions, including:

1. How do you make sure you’re actively clean?
2. Can I take my one-day PrEP on demand since I’m not very active?
3. Can I cut PrEP in half to avoid bonus issues?
4. Does using big toys prevent the anus from returning to its original size?
5. Does fisting or playing with big toys weaken the sphincter muscles?

The guys also answer some listener questions. One listener asks about the norovirus and gay sex, while another wants to know about acoustic wave therapy.

Tune in for a mix of education, entertainment, and butt stuff.

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The guys dive into some listener reviews and tackle some feedback. Dr C and Dangilo do a round of "Hit It or Quit It." Is anal numbing cream a friend or foe? Disco dosing before, during or after a sex trip? And when it comes to fisting, what are the actual dangers? Oh, and hemorrhoids

The questions don’t stop there. One listener asks for advice on life after a colon resection, while another has a burning query about the proper use of a penis pump. The guys dish out thoughtful, practical advice with their some humor because who says educational can’t be entertaining?

And there’s a Trampage update, because what would an episode be without checking in on our favorite long-distance love drama? The gays wrap it all up with this week’s “What’s Your Love Language?” segment,

Grab your headphones and prepare to laugh, learn, and maybe squirm a little—it’s another unforgettable episode of Butt Honestly!

Dr. Carlton gives us a steamy rundown of his trip to Maui’s Little Beach, where—spoiler alert—things are far from "little." Meanwhile, Dangilo wrestles with the details of his Orlando event, and let’s just say this wrestling fetish conversation puts a whole new spin on body slams.

In the midst of the heat, Dr. Carlton drops a surprise announcement that’ll leave you curious, and the guys wade into the drama of the International Mr. Leather situation.

Listener questions this week bring it all: post-bottoming aftercare tips, navigating life after a prostate cancer diagnosis, and a heartfelt inquiry from someone in a seven-year marriage grappling with their partner’s HIV status. The guys tackle each one with a mix of empathy, insight, and just the right amount of cheek.

They wrap it all up with their “What’s Your Love Language?” segment, leaving you with warm fuzzies (and maybe a raised eyebrow or two). Tune in for laughs, wisdom, and the perfect balance of naughty and nice.

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But it’s not all TV and tech—things heat up as they tackle your burning questions. One listener is allergic to doxy—so now what? Another is curious (and maybe a little concerned) about a mysterious clear jelly post-anal session. And if you’ve ever wondered whether some guys are just “not built” to bottom, the guys don’t hold back.

As always, the episode wraps with the warm fuzzies as Dr. Carlton and Dangilo share their Love Languages of the Week. Start your year off right with laughs, wisdom, and a little cheeky inspiration!

But wait, there’s more! The guys unwrap Grindr’s 2024 Wrapped, spilling all the dirt on the country with the most bottoms (yep, we’re naming names), the kink capitals of the world, and who snatched the title of Pop Star of the Year. It’s like Spotify Wrapped but way gayer and infinitely more entertaining.

As the confetti settles, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo wrap up the year with a heartfelt (and slightly chaotic) holiday edition of their Love Language of the Week. Because nothing says “new year, new me” like love, laughter, and a little butt talk, right?

Whether you’re recovering from the New Year’s Eve hangover or plotting your resolutions, this episode will have you laughing, blushing, and maybe even rethinking your Grindr bio. Cheers to a fabulous year ahead! 🥂🍑

The holiday confessions don’t stop there—listeners have sent in their own tales, and let’s just say, some of you are definitely on the naughty list this year. 🎄🔥

Amidst the holiday hijinks, the guys tackle a listener’s question about Provincetown Bear Weekend—whether it’s worth the hype and what to expect if you’re thinking of going. (Spoiler: Bears, booze, and a whole lot of fun.)

To wrap things up, Dr. C and Dangilo  share their Holiday Love Language of the Week, leaving you with plenty of warm fuzzies and a little inspiration to end your year on a high note.

So, whether you’re decorating the tree, baking cookies, or just dodging awkward family conversations, this episode is the perfect mix of holiday hilarity, heartfelt moments, and unfiltered fun. Pour yourself a drink (or three) and let’s get festive! 🎁✨

The “Hit It or Quit It” segment sleighs this week with some spicy and cheeky questions: Can your emotions mess with your bottoming game? (Spoiler: Yes, but we’ve got thoughts.) How do you actually use a butt plug? And just what is the right “douche” for the job? The guys serve up laughs and practical advice in equal measure.

Listener questions bring even more holiday magic to the mix. One straight cis woman who’s an anal aficionado writes in with a worry that something might be amiss “back there.” Dr. Carlton tackles her concerns with his signature mix of empathy and expertise. Another listener needs advice on how to have that conversation about not-so-great hygiene with a romantic partner—because love stinks, but it shouldn’t stink-stink.

Finally, the guys wrap it all up with a holiday edition of “What’s Your Love Language?” Expect warm fuzzies, festive feels, and maybe a laugh or two that’ll make your eggnog come out of your nose.

So, grab your favorite holiday drink, cozy up by the fire, and tune in for an episode that’s equal parts naughty, nice, and oh-so-entertaining. 🎅🍑

Courtney sdishes the dish on her life as a drag performer and shares her inspiring journey as a trans woman. The trio dives into some big topics, including the biggest misconceptions about trans people, trans inclusion in sports, starting hormone therapy, discrimination in healthcare, and how drag became a life-changing outlet for her self-expression. Courtney keeps it real, heartfelt, and hilarious throughout.

The sass doesn’t stop there. Courtney sticks around to help the guys tackle some “Hit It or Quit It” questions. From the logistics of shower douching to Doxy Prep wisdom, tips for delivering mind-blowing head, and surviving those “ouchy” bottoming positions, the crew delivers advice and commentary with a side of wit.

And, of course, no episode is complete without an update on the one and only Trampaige. Has their long-distance saga reached a climax, or is the distance too much to bear? Tune in to hear the gang’s hot takes.

They wrap up this festive affair with a holiday edition of “What’s Your Love Language?”—guaranteed to leave you with all the warm, fuzzy (and maybe slightly naughty) feelings of the season.

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Dr. Carlton doesn’t miss a beat as he dives into some sizzling “Hit It or Quit It” topics, including the etiquette of rimming, whether size really matters (when it comes to your load, of course), how to ease into fisting, and the curious art of gooning. Let’s just say this episode takes some deep dives in all the best ways.

The listener mailbag brings even more juicy questions, with topics ranging from circumcision to managing hemorrhoids while keeping your bedroom (or dungeon) adventures on point. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just curious, the guys provide candid, practical advice—with plenty of laughs along the way.

To wrap it all up, the holiday spirit makes its way into this week’s “What’s Your Love Language?” Get ready for a festive, feel-good ending that’ll warm your heart—or at least your butt.

Unroll your yoga mat, pour a holiday cocktail, and get cozy for an episode that’s as enlightening as it is delightfully cheeky

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In honor of World AIDS Day, the guys take a moment to share valuable information and reflect on community resilience and support—a much-needed reminder of what really matters.

Of course, the listener questions are as spicy as ever. One Icelandic listener slides in with a foreskin query that has the guys shedding light on a topic often kept in the dark. Another listener asks for advice on jumping back into the dating pool at 60—because it's never too late to shake things up! And if you’ve ever wondered about the fine art of gym sauna cruising etiquette, the guys break it down with a mix of sass and sage advice.

To wrap things up, Dr. C. and Dangilo share what they’re most thankful for this Thanksgiving—proving that even in a podcast packed with hilarity and heat, there’s always room for heart. So grab a plate (and maybe a towel), and join the fun for an episode that's as satisfying as your favorite holiday leftovers. 🦃✨

And, of course, it wouldn’t be Butt Honestly without a few juicy listener questions! This episode features an international shout-out, as a UK listener asks about anal aftercare—what’s essential, what’s overkill, and the golden rules for keeping it clean down there. From dos and don’ts to aftercare rituals, the guys cover it all in their no-nonsense way.

They also tackle a question that’s all too relatable: how to find playmates when you’re stuck in a small town. Tips for tapping into local connections (and making the most of every opportunity!) are shared with a side of humor. Then, it’s time for another update from Trampaige—is his long-distance romance going strong or heading for the nearest cliff?

Wrapping it all up is their “Love Language” segment, where the guys dish on what’s making their hearts (and yours!) swoon this week. And remember—send in your Love Language to be part of the fun! So grab your headphones, sit back, and enjoy an episode full of laughs, love, and a little lube on the side!

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Tune in as the guys get an inside scoop on what drew her into this unique world and what it truly means to be a lifestyle BD/SM fetishist. Plus, she reveals the artistry, precision, and empowerment behind her craft—think it’s all leather and whips? Think again!

And of course, with the Goddess in the house, they tackle some juicy listener questions. One listener panics over an HPV and STI scare, and another seeks advice on coming out as a gay man later in life—Sydney’s got insights that are as thoughtful as they are spicy. They even get into the highs and lows of long-distance relationships, with the Goddess offering her take on keeping the fire alive.

To wrap things up, Dr. C and Dangilo reveal this week’s “Love Language,” followed by the much-anticipated Part Two of Pig on the Prowl—a steamy tale that’s guaranteed to leave listeners hot under the collar. Buckle up for a wild ride filled with wisdom, wit, and just the right amount of wickedness. Don’t miss it!

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Brace yourself as they dive into “Hit It or Quit It” questions that get right to the…bottom of things! They tackle every thing from the perils of rectal discomfort to the risk of massive butt plug. Plus, what’s their take on the internet’s obsession with No Nut November? And, could a curious straight guy be convinced to explore prostate stimulation?

Dr. Carlton also takes on a medical deep-dive, answering a listener question about fistulotomy surgery. If you’re wondering about accurate STD testing, they’ve got you covered with expert advice on what to know, when to test, and how to keep it safe and sexy.

Of course, the episode wouldn’t be complete without “What’s Your Love Language?”—their signature send-off, full of warm fuzzies and cheeky feels. And, for the grand finale, the guys serve up a steamy, risky story straight from the archives of “Pig on the Prowl.” Let’s just say you might need a cold shower after this one.

So grab a drink, settle in, and get ready for an episode packed with laughs, love, and a few too many “pull-out” jokes. It’s an unfiltered Halloween episode you won’t want to miss!

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The guys dive into the art of spooky season, exploring Locktober and, of course, the classic Hit It or Quit It! Hector takes on listener questions with his unique mix of humor and honesty. Got questions about Locktober? Hector and the guys break down the appeal of the locked-up kink just in time for the season.

One listener wants to know: how much water is too much water when douching? And what’s the best position for a new bottom? Never fear, Dr. C and Dangilo have the, um, bottom line on all things entry-level. Plus, a listener chimes in asking about the most common side effects of PrEP—and our crew has all the insider tips.

As always, they wrap things up with a perfectly spooky take on "What's Your Love Language?" because what’s Halloween without a little love…and maybe a lock or two?

Grab your Halloween treat (or trick) and tune in for this irresistibly scandalous episode of Butt Honestly! You won’t want to miss it! 🎃

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Dangilo dives into an article on cruising etiquette, and let’s just say, there’s more to it than meets the eye (or the locker room). The guys break down the dos and don’ts of cruising.

Then it’s time for HIT IT or QUIT IT! Ever wondered if regular dildo use makes bottoming a breeze? Dr. C gives us the scoop, and you might just want to grab a notepad. The conversation heats up with the big question: Is Doxy prep the real deal or just another overhyped trend? The guys tackle it all with their signature sass.

Listener questions get personal (and a little wild) this week. Someone’s asking if Abilene makes a good lube? And what about herpes medication—how often should you really be taking it? Dr. C gives the straight facts so you’re always prepared, both in the bedroom and out.

But the pièce de résistance is a steamy listener story that’s so hot, Dr. C can barely get through it without blushing. Trust us, this one’s got all the heat. As always, they close things out with their feel-good moment, "What’s Your Love Language?"—because after all this talk about dildos and cruising, a little love never hurts.

Get ready to laugh, learn, and maybe feel a little scandalized with this week’s episode of Butt Honestly! You won’t want to miss it!

In the mix, the guys dive into a hilarious THEM article, “Straight Men Are Posting About Locktober. Who’s Gonna Tell Them It’s a Chastity Kink?"—and it’s everything you’d expect and more. You’ll laugh, you’ll learn, and you’ll probably be shaking your head at what straight dudes are up to this time.

Next, it’s time for another round of "HIT IT & QUIT IT" where they tackle listener questions like, "Do men really enjoy bearded cunnilingus?" and "What should I be mindful of if I’m using Truvada long-term?"

Then, during Butt Dials, the questions get personal. A colorectal cancer survivor is ready to bottom again—is he in the clear? One listener asks, “Can I still have sex after hemorrhoids?” Another’s struggling with stubborn anal fissures—what’s the future of their elasticity down there? And a coupled-up 60-year-old writes in, seeking advice on getting over the mental and physical hurdles of breeding.

Packed with humor, heart, and some risqué revelations, this episode is a wild ride from start to finish. So grab a drink, sit back, and enjoy—Butt Honestly has never been this raw!

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Dr. Carlton brings us the latest updates on Mpox, giving you all the important info while keeping it fun. The guys also introduce a brand-new segment, "Hit It or Quit It," where they serve up their hilarious and unfiltered takes on whatever comes their way.

Of course, no episode is complete without listener questions. One listener asks the burning question: how safe is it to take Doxy PrEP while consuming alcohol and soaking up the sun? Another is curious about the elusive prostate orgasm, and Dr. Carlton breaks it all down. Things get even more steamy when Dr. C reads a very salacious sailor’s story that might just leave you fanning yourself.

And as always, they wrap up with their signature "What's Your Love Language?" segment, leaving you warm and fuzzy inside. This episode is packed with fun, facts, and just the right amount of naughty! You won’t want to miss it!

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As always, listener questions are in the spotlight. First up: what’s the deal with prostate screening? Dr. Carlton breaks down what a normal PSA range is and whether there’s any correlation between HPV and elevated PSA test results. And, with flu season upon us, they tackle the question: is it safe to get the flu shot, Covid booster, and Mpox vaccine all at once? Plus, is Clade 1b of Mpox in the U.S.? Dr. Carlton has the latest scoop.

But hold onto your hats—the guys also take on a lengthy (and steamy) voicemail detailing the dos and don’ts of prepping for a cum dump. It’s followed by a scandalous story that’ll leave you hot, bothered, and possibly reaching for a cigarette. Definitely not one for the prudish!

To wrap it all up, Dr. C and D end the episode with their fan-favorite “What’s Your Love Language?” segment. This episode is wild, informative, and packed with laughs—don’t miss out!

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Dr. Carlton, Dangilo, and Alex dive into listener questions that are sure to heat things up. First on the list: a burning question about threesomes—should the bottom or top bring along the extra top? They also tackle a spicy statement about man scent (trust us, you’ll want to hear this). Next, a curious traveler heading to Mexico asks if it’s safe to clean out with hotel water or if bottled water is the way to go.

And if that wasn’t sizzling enough, the guys read a steamy listener-submitted sex story that’ll leave you blushing. As always, they wrap things up with their feel-good segment, "What’s Your Love Language?", leaving you with all the warm fuzzies.

Tune in for a wildly entertaining episode packed with laughs, tips, and a little bit of spice!

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Dr. Carlton breaks down everything you need to know about HPV vaccinations—should you really get one after the age of 45? The duo also delves into the rising popularity of being a "side" within the gay community and why it's capturing so much attention. Another listener calls in seeking the ultimate guide to cleaning out—from fiber recommendations to prepping like a pro.

The conversation takes a deeper turn when the guys address a question about using condoms and the lingering fear experienced by those who grew up during the AIDS epidemic.

As always, they wrap up the episode with their feel-good segment, Love Languages of the Week, guaranteed to leave you with all the warm and fuzzy feels. So, sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride!

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As if that wasn’t enough, the guys tackle a listener's heartfelt question about the challenges of maintaining passion in a long-term relationship. And, of course, we wrap up the episode with the feel-good favorite, "What's Your Love Language?", guaranteed to leave you smiling.

Chris dives deep into the dos and don’ts of injections, unraveling the science behind these procedures, and offering expert advice. But that's not all—Dangilo also gives his take on Saha Valores' new show, which premiered at San Diego’s La Jolla Playhouse.

The episode gets even juicier with a voicemail review about their guest. With the help of Injector Chris, the guys tackle some burning listener questions: How do you brighten your brown eye? What treatments can make Mr. Happy thicker? And how can you plump up your package after testosterone treatment?

As always, they wrap things up with the feel-good "What’s Your Love Language?" segment. This episode is jam-packed with information, laughs, and a whole lot of honesty. Sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride with Butt Honestly!

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In this episode, they dive deep into all types of relationships—discussing everything from monogamy to open relationships and everything in between. Dan Savage weighs in on this week’s listener questions, bringing his signature wit and wisdom.

One listener asks about bottoming after gastric bypass surgery. Another is all about the scent of a man—how ripe is too ripe? And finally, they tackle a tough one: how do you move on from a toxic relationship? The guys offer their thoughtful insights on these relationship challenges.

They finish off the episode with a warm and fuzzy "Love Language of the Week." What’s your love language? Let us know!

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The trio dives into Big Dipper’s eclectic career, touching on his experiences in the podcasting world, his adventures with sex parties, and his music. An MPOX update as a new case was discovered in Sweden recently. No topic is off-limits as they mix humor, sex and honesty.

Of course, it wouldn’t be "Butt Honestly" without listener questions. What the hole? Will my hole ever be normal again? And can my doctor tell my hole history with just one look?Dr. Carlton, Dangilo and Big Dipper handle these queries with their signature blend of expertise, wit and insight making sure you’re both informed and entertained.

As always, the episode wraps up with their "Love Language of the Week." Expect nothing less than a warm, fuzzy feeling as they close out this hilarious and insightful episode.

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Dangilo takes a moment to chat about Palm Springs gay bar staple, the Barracks, sharing his personal memories and the significance of this beloved venue. He also gives us the lowdown on his recent golf tournament?

The excitement ramps up as the guys listen to their first-ever voicemail question! Dr. Carlton dives into an in-depth response about prolapse, offering his expert advice with the perfect mix of knowledge and wit. They also tackle a pressing question on how to prevent pelvic floor dysfunction, providing listeners with practical tips and a few laughs along the way.

And because no episode of "Butt Honestly" is complete without a bit of cheeky fun, they address the age-old question: why doesn’t every supermarket have a glory hole? Their discussion is as hilarious as it is unexpected, ensuring you’ll be laughing out loud.

As always, the episode wraps up with their "Love Language of the Week," leaving listeners with a warm and fuzzy feeling to carry through the day. With its blend of humor, heart, and a touch of the outrageous, this episode is sure to be one you won’t want to miss.

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Diving into current events, the guys touch on a bit of politics and discuss why the future looks hopeful. Their witty and sophisticated take on the latest news is sure to entertain and inform.

Ever wondered what the number one porn search term is in your state? Dr. Carlton and Dangilo reveal the surprising and sometimes hilarious results, sparking a lively conversation that you won’t want to miss.

Next, they delve into a series of intriguing listener emails. A listener query brings up doxy prep—what’s the scoop? You’ll get the 411 right here.

UTIs and topping are on the agenda as well, with Dr. Carlton offering valuable insights into this common concern. And in a candid moment, the guys discuss the ever-important question: when do you "do-do"?

Armpit scents—love them or hate them? The hosts share their thoughts on this unique topic, adding their trademark humor to the mix. Finally, they address the burning question: how deep is too deep? Their answers are as informative as they are entertaining.

As always, the episode concludes with their "Love Language of the Week,"

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But that's not all—Dr. Carlton and Dangilo dive into a treasure trove of listener emails, bringing their trademark blend of knowledge and humor to some truly intriguing topics. First up, they tackle a daring question about dabbling in watersports. If you’ve ever been curious about what you need to know before taking the plunge, this segment is for you!

Next, they answer a query about the differences between Viagra and Cialis. Whether you’re considering these medications for the first time or just looking to expand your knowledge, our hosts break it down in a way that’s both informative and entertaining.

They also address a poignant email about bottoming and eating disorders, offering thoughtful, compassionate advice that’s sure to resonate with many listeners. Dr. Carlton’s medical expertise and Dangilo’s candid insights provide a balanced, empathetic approach to this sensitive topic.

Adding to the episode’s depth, they share an empowering story from a listener about advocating for oneself with healthcare professionals. This narrative highlights the importance of self-advocacy in medical settings and offers practical tips for listeners facing similar challenges.

As always, the episode concludes with their ever-popular "Love Language of the Week," leaving nothing to the imagination. This cheeky and memorable segment ensures you finish the episode with a smile.

Tune in for an episode filled with witty, sophisticated, and smart discussions that keep you informed and entertained. Whether you’re here for the laughs, the insights, or the unfiltered honesty, Episode 4 of "Butt Honestly" promises to deliver all that and more!

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But the laughs don’t stop there. They tackle a variety of listener questions with their trademark humor and expertise. Struggling with hemorrhoids or wondering how to bottom after hemorrhoid surgery? Dr. Carlton has the answers. Need advice on caring for skin conditions related to an uncut penis? We've got you covered.

Dr. Carlton also shares everything you need to know about HPV and the importance of HPV vaccinations. Plus, they address a listener's concern about a chronic itchy butt with practical tips and a bit of humor, but in the end they reviled that itch. And if you think you're too old to start exploring, tune in for advice to a 50-year-old virgin seeking guidance.

To cap off the episode, they reveal their "Love Language of the Week," leaving you with a warm and fuzzy feeling. Tune in for an episode packed with laughs, insights, and the unfiltered honesty you love!

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But it’s not all fun and games—this episode is packed with answers to your burning questions. Ever wondered how much washing out is too much? Or how to have a candid conversation with your primary care doctor about getting tested where you play? The guys tackle these topics and much more.

A listener from India who recently discovered they are HIV positive writes in, and Dr. Carlton offers compassionate and practical guidance. Our hosts also weigh in on the intriguing question: “Am I normal if I have the mindset of a slut but the sex life of a nun?”

As always, they wrap up with their “Love Laughs” of the week, ensuring you leave with a smile. Tune in to Butt Honestly—where we keep it real, honest, and always fun!

Get ready as our hosts answer pressing questions from listeners such as discovering the basics about PRP injections, the best ways to prep for anal sex and some basic do's and don’t. What's Doctor Carlton's BUTT CLOCK method? What's the holetox craze? We also explore some of the benefits of CBD for IBS and provide guidance on navigating a sexless relationship. They finish up the episode with their “Whats Your Love Language?" segment.

Join us for our 1st engaging, educational, and entertaining episode that's sure to leave you coming back for more. Tune in to Butt Honestly—where we keep it real, honest, and always fun!

CORRECTION: PRP is Platelet-rich Plasma.

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