In this episode, we talk about a common problem that many couples in long-term relationships have: the natural change and sometimes loss of sexual desire. When a partner's interest seems to fade, it's easy for our minds to jump to the worst possible conclusions. But in reality, it's often because of mismatched expectations, not a lack of attraction. Courtney and I talk about the myth of rushing through physical intimacy and why treating sex like a race often makes people feel disconnected. 

Courtney Fae Long, MSW, LC, CHt, is the creator of Sex Life Makeover and TEDx speaker whose work has been featured in NBC, Forbes, MSN, and Psychology Today. She specializes in highly sexual women who feel frustrated and unfulfilled. She holds a Master’s Degree in Social Work (MSW) and certificates in Sexuality Education and Sex Therapy from the University of Michigan and has been teaching for 25+ years. Courtney brings a lighthearted, joyful approach to sex.

In this episode, you will hear:

●      The Myth of Sex in Football Style

●      Physiological Requirements for Extended Warm-ups

●      Going from Hustle Culture to Presence

●      The Idea of Foreplay All Day

●      Changing the Way We Do Date Night

●      How Mothering Changes Kill Sexual Desire

●      The Risks of Pretending to Enjoy and Have Orgasms

●      Talking About Changing Sexual Preferences

●      Growing the Parasympathetic Nervous System

●      The Twenty-Minute Cuddle and Connect Exercise

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In this episode, we talk about how sexual problems are rarely just about sex. In this day and age, people are always looking for a quick fix or a medical solution to their personal problems. Julianne beautifully explains that symptoms like low desire or trouble getting an erection are often our bodies telling us about deeper emotional needs, unresolved trauma, or hidden worries. 

Juliane Maxwald, MA, LP, CST, is a licensed psychoanalyst, couples therapist and AASECT-certified sex therapist based in New York City. She has over fifteen years of experience working with individuals and couples across a wide range of concerns, including sexuality and intimacy, trauma, addiction and compulsive behaviors, mood and anxiety disorders, and relational and family-of-origin dynamics.

Her work is grounded in contemporary psychoanalysis and informed by trauma theory, somatic awareness, and relational, sex-positive frameworks. Juliane specializes in helping people move beyond symptom-focused treatment—whether the symptom shows up as sexual difficulty, burnout, overwork, emotional numbing, or relational conflict—and toward a deeper understanding of the unconscious patterns shaping their lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Reconceptualizing Sexual Dysfunction as Emotional Communication

·      The Risk of Excessive Medicalization of Personal Issues

·      Getting to Know the Unconscious Messages Behind Low Desire

·      Anxiety about performance and the need for approval

·      Using Relaxation Techniques Such as Beach Showers

·      How Repetition Compulsion Relates to Past Trauma

·      Examining the Underlying Factors of Compulsive Sexual Behaviors

·      Unpacking the Hidden Themes in Pornography Usage

·      Sexual Behavior That Is Out of Control as a Way to Control Emotions

·      Getting over sexual shame with curiosity and kindness

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In this episode, we talk about real ways to improve your skills and boost your confidence. The goal is to treat sexual encounters like a playground for exploration. You can do this by using your hands as a tool and trying out different temperatures, like ice and warm water. We also talk about common worries about smell and body image, stressing the importance of being able to read and write about health issues and accepting yourself instead of feeling ashamed. 

Sienna Sinclaire is an award-winning author, creative director, certified sex coach, and lifestyle entrepreneur redefining modern sensuality through storytelling, design, and immersive brand experiences.

As the visionary behind Sienna Sinclaire Studios, Naughty Girl Shop, and Naughty Girl Motel, she has built a world where fashion, travel, artistry, and empowerment collide. Her work celebrates women who want to live boldly, merging glamour, self-love, and sensual confidence into an unapologetic lifestyle. Through her signature blend of luxury branding, cinematic storytelling, and experiential design, Sienna invites audiences into a universe that blurs fantasy and reality, inspiring others to create a life that turns them on.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Unlearning Outdated Sexual Scripts

·      Navigating Performance Anxiety Blocks

·      Importance Of Active Feedback

·      Utilising Hands For Enhanced Pleasure

·      Addressing Body Image Insecurity

·      Facts About Natural Scent

·      Experimenting With Temperature Sensations

·      Limitations Of Pornographic Education

·      Exploring Diverse Genital Anatomy

·      Integrating Pleasure Enhancement Tools

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In this episode, we discuss the emotional complexities that arise when a partner begins to question or redefine their sexual orientation. This journey can often feel destabilizing for both individuals in a relationship, triggering fears of inadequacy or the worry that the relationship might be coming to an end. Genevieve and I discuss how to navigate these transitions by prioritizing emotional safety and curiosity over panic and control. 

Genevieve Lejeune is the founder of Skirt Club, a private members club for bi-curious & bisexual women. With more than 25,000 members globally, women are more interested in each other than ever. She was the first to curate luxurious global events where women can put their own desires first, and gain confidence from the bedroom to the boardroom. A leading figure in the movement for women’s sexual empowerment, Genevieve has been interviewed for high-profile publications such as Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, Cosmo, Bloomberg, Rolling Stone and the Sunday Times.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding Sexual Identity Evolution

·      Managing Relationship Fears And Insecurity

·      The Origin Of Skirt Club

·      Benefits Of Women Only Spaces

·      Avoiding Performative Sexual Pressure

·      Communication Strategies For Couples

·      The Role Of Emotional Safety

·      Exploring Physical Desire And Affection

·      Navigating Monogamy And Fluidity

·      Resources For Bisexual Exploration

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Courtney discusses her childhood in a strict religious setting where her worth and safety were closely linked to her ability to control her sexual urges. We talk about the "myth of the perfect Christian wife" and how many women in these communities feel pressured to keep up the act of sacrifice. 

Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S., is a therapist-turned-relationship coach, writer, and speaker whose work centers on love, desire, and authenticity. She has been featured in The New York Post, Cosmopolitan, The Huffington Post, and BBC Radio Live. Drawing on her background in mental health and sex therapy, she brings a unique blend of professional expertise and lived experience to conversations around relationships and identity. When she isn’t writing or coaching, Courtney can be found chasing joy—traveling, reading, or savoring delicious coffee and deep conversation. She is passionate about helping women break free from shame, reclaim their bodies and voices, and create relationships rooted in honesty and autonomy.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      How Purity Culture Affects How You Feel About Yourself

·      Disputing The Myth Of The Ideal Christian Wife

·      Going From Being Monogamous To Being Polyamorous

·      How To Handle The Dynamics Of A Mono-poly Relationship

·      Setting Limits In Parallel Polyamory

·      The Significance Of Representation In Non-monogamy

·      Reclaiming Joy Through Bodily Embodiment

·      Building Self-trust After Being Controlled By Religion

·      Why Women Should Date Men Who Are Older Than Them

·      Finding Your Own Reason To Open Up

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Jessica and I talk about why a lot of people find it difficult to shift from the hectic nature of daily obligations to erotic connection. We examine how the nervous system is crucial to sexual responsiveness and why arousal and pleasure depend on a transition from a fight-or-flight response to a more relaxed, present-moment state.

Jessica is a licensed and certified relationship and sex therapist, retreat facilitator, and founder of Expansive Connections Retreats. She helps couples and individuals cultivate deeper intimacy, emotional safety, and honest communication through a trauma-informed, somatic, and evidence-based approach. With specialized experience supporting LGBTQIA+ clients, neurodivergent couples, and non-traditional relationships, Jessica is known for reframing relationship myths, normalizing complex dynamics, and offering practical, accessible tools for navigating intimacy, conflict, and long-term connection.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      The Nervous System’s Role In Sexual Arousal

·      Why Stress Blocks Erotic Connection

·      Moving From Fight Or Flight To Rest And Digest

·      Practical Co-Regulation Rituals For Couples

·      The Power Of Non-Demand Touch And Connection

·      Navigating Desire Mismatch In Relationships

·      How To Communicate A Loving “No” To Sex

·      Recognizing Signs Of Nervous System Shutdown

·      Using Rituals To Transition Into Intimacy

·      Small Shifts That Help Couples Feel Safer And More Connected

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Gigi and I discuss what kink actually entails and why it is much more expansive than the preconceived notions that many people have about it. She describes how the term "kink" serves as a catch-all for a variety of relational and sensory experiences, ranging from more symbolic forms of erotic expression to power dynamics and sensation play. 

Gigi Engle is a COSRT-registered, MNCIP, ACS, CSE, CSC, GSRD-accredited, award-winning author, certified sex & relationships psychotherapist, and sex educator. She works clinically as an associate clinician at The Therapy Yard, where she specializes in supporting GSRD (Gender, Sexuality, and Relationship Diverse) clients, including members of the LGBTQIA+ community, kinky folx, and people in polyamorous and open relationships. 

Gigi is the author of two books: Kink Curious and All The F*cking Mistakes. Kink Curious is available for pre-order and comes out January 21st.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      The True Meaning of Kink

·      Distinctions Between Fetish and Kink

·      Reasons Behind Many People's Unrealized Kinkiness

·      The Evolution of Kinks

·      Psychology of Symbolic and Sensory Play

·      Kink Exploration's Emotional Safety

·      The Significance of Safe Words and Consent

·      Comprehending the Concept of an Enthusiastic Maybe

·      Managing Shame Regarding Sexual Desires

·      How Couples Can Respectfully Discuss Kinks

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In this episode, we discuss the growing curiosity around GLP-1 medications and whether they influence erectile dysfunction, libido, and overall sexual performance. Dr. Kohn shares insights from his large claims database study examining young men without diabetes who initiated GLP-1 treatment. We also talk about reassuring findings, including the low overall rate of new erectile dysfunction diagnoses, while also unpacking the difference between correlation and causation.

Dr. Taylor P. Kohn, MD, M.Phil. is an Assistant Professor in the Scott Department of Urology at Baylor College of Medicine, specializing in Male Infertility and Sexual Dysfunction. 

Dr. Kohn began his academic career at Baylor University where he developed a love for biomedical research. In 2013, he was awarded a prestigious Fulbright Scholarship, enabling him to pursue a Master of Philosophy (M.Phil.) in Instrumentation at the University of Manchester in the United Kingdom, studying protein distribution in Alzheimer’s disease using imaging mass spectrometers.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      GLP-1 Medications And Erectile Dysfunction Risk

·      Libido Changes And Reward System Questions

·      Microvascular Health And Cardiovascular Links

·      Weight Loss, Muscle Mass, And Hormone Regulation

·      Testosterone Optimization Through Lifestyle

·      Psychological Contributors To Erectile Challenges

·      Treatment Ladder For Erectile Dysfunction

·      Shockwave Therapy And Regenerative Options

·      Penile Injections And Prosthesis Outcomes

·      Stress Reduction And Sexual Confidence Building

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In this episode, Zach and I discuss how the emotional tone of a relationship deeply influences intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. We look at the concept of Negative Sentiment Override, a term from John Gottman’s research, and discuss how couples can find themselves stuck in patterns where even neutral moments feel charged with criticism or defensiveness. 

Zach has been teaching, coaching, mentoring and counseling couples for nearly 20 years. He is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in Washington and a Certified Gottman Therapist (CGT) and Relational Life Therapist. He is the host of Marriage Therapy Radio and the author of the best selling relationship guide The Relationship Alphabet and the Marriage Therapy Journal. His writings and insights have also been featured in Vanity Fair, Men’s Health, Real Simple, The New York Times and the Washington Post. Zach has been happily married to his wife Rebecca for 25 of 28 years. They live in Seattle with their two adulting daughters.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding Negative Sentiment Override

·      Positive Versus Negative Emotional Filters

·      The Pasta Example And Neutral Events

·      Emotional Safety And Sexual Vulnerability

·      Gender Socialization And Desire Patterns

·      Slowing Down Between Impulse And Response

·      Taking Responsibility In Relationship Conflict

·      Contempt And The Illusion Of Superiority

·      Redefining What Sex Is For

·      Scheduling Erotic Play And Expanding Intimacy

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In this episode, EJ and Tarah speak to me about what it was like to go from a playful, spontaneous sex life to feeling completely overwhelmed after the birth of their twins; navigating sleep deprivation, and the resurfacing of past trauma. They also talk openly about the grief that can accompany shifts in identity, libido, and partnership, and how isolating that transition can feel when couples are not talking about it.

EJ and Tarah Kerwin are the founders of Relationship Renovation and hosts of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, where they share raw honesty, humor, and decades of combined experience as relationship coaches to help couples deepen intimacy, build emotional safety, and navigate the complexities of long-term partnership.

Known for their vulnerability and willingness to share their own relationship challenges, EJ and Tarah offer practical tools, research-backed insights, and real-life stories that resonate with couples around the world.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      The Impact Of Parenting On Sexual Desire

·      Navigating Postpartum And Identity Shifts

·      Grief Around Changing Intimacy

·      Higher And Lower Desire Dynamics

·      Emotional Safety In Long Term Relationships

·      Pressure Windows And Sexual Expectations

·      Rebuilding Intimacy Through Communication

·      Processing Trauma Within Partnership

·      Non Sexual Affection And Erotic Connection

·      Creating Systems To Prioritize Your Relationship

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In this episode, Laurie and I discuss why silence is one of the biggest obstacles to fulfilling sexual and romantic relationships. Laurie shares powerful insights from her work with clients, especially around why sex is a key differentiator between friendship and romantic partnership, and why ongoing conversations matter more than crisis-driven ones.

Laurie Gerber is the creator of Master the Art of Love, an online digital course for women over 50 who are ready to date like they mean it. She’s the host of the podcast “Love at Any Age,” through which she coaches the audience, based on the wholehearted belief that everyone deserves healthy, lasting love, and it’s never too late.

For over 20 years, first as President of the Life Coaching division at Handel Group® and then as founder of Laurie Gerber Coaching Inc. she has been life and love coaching thousands of individuals and couples. Laurie is currently licensing The Handel Method® and uses it in her online and one-on-one coaching to help people achieve their dreams, with a focus on love.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Why Silence Is The Biggest Mistake

·      Sex As A Learnable Skill

·      Making Sex An Ongoing Conversation

·      Choosing The Right Time And Setting

·      Asking Permission To Talk About Sex

·      Practical Hacks To Start Conversations

·      Navigating STI Disclosure With Confidence

·      Setting Sexual Boundaries Early

·      Desire Mismatches And Rejection

·      Rituals, Scheduling, And Prioritizing Sex

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In this episode, Ally and I discuss one of the most common struggles couples bring into therapy: loving their partner while feeling disconnected from sex and intimacy. We talk about why desire naturally shifts over time, how novelty + security can feel like they are pulling in opposite directions, and why sexless periods are often symptoms rather than the core issue. 

Ally Iseman is a non-monogamy educator, erotic lifestyle consultant, and ICF-certified relationship coach who has spent over a decade helping individuals, couples, and moresomes create authentic, fulfilling relationships on their own terms. As the founder of Passport 2 Pleasure, an inclusive relationship education platform, Ally champions open communication and conscious connection within sex-positive and non-traditional relationship dynamics.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding Desire Discrepancy

·      Why Novelty Fuels Erotic Energy

·      Sexless Relationships As A Symptom

·      Reframing Masturbation And Shame

·      Travel As Foreplay For Connection

·      Escape Versus Exploration In Trips

·      Sensuality Beyond Sexual Acts

·      Creating Mystery Through Planning

·      Managing Expectations And Pressure

·      Curiosity As A Relationship Skill

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 A quick note for my single listeners in California, if you're craving intentional, psychologically grounded ways to meet people. We have a beautiful offering coming up through LALOVELAB.com; a company I co-created with my colleague Dr. Richard Espinoza. Our next matchmaking event is Saturday February 7th at 4:00pmhosted at the Craft Contemporary Museum in LA. It's thoughtfully curated experience designed by us to help you connect with intention, not apps.

In this episode, Caitlyn and I discuss how many men are struggling with sexual performance earlier in life and why this is not a personal failure or a flaw. We also talk about how cultural expectations, lack of accurate sex education, and constant exposure to unrealistic sexual imagery can shape anxiety around erections, desire, and confidence. 

Caitlin V is one of today’s leading voices in modern sexuality and the host of the HBO Max series Good Sex. A researcher and coach with a background in public health, she has empowered millions to transform their sex lives through her coaching, courses, and viral online content. Her evidence-based, shame-free approach bridges clinical research with real-world intimacy, showing how better sex can make us better humans. Featured in O Magazine, GQ, Variety, and more, Caitlin champions a vision of sexuality that makes us not only better lovers--but more compassionate humans.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding Erectile Unpredictability

·      Performance Anxiety And Its Root Causes

·      Porn, Arousal, And Unrealistic Expectations

·      Treating Men’s Sexuality Holistically

·      Breaking Shame And Silence Around Sex

·      Talking To A Partner With Confidence

·      Rebuilding Erotic Connection As A Couple

·      Reducing Pressure And Outcome Focus

·      Sex Toys And Supportive Tools For Men

·      Practical Exercises For Emotional Intimacy

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 A quick note for my single listeners in California, if you're craving intentional, psychologically grounded ways to meet people. We have a beautiful offering coming up through LALOVELAB.com; a company I co-created with my colleague Dr. Richard Espinoza. Our next matchmaking event is Saturday February 7th at 4:00pmhosted at the Craft Contemporary Museum in LA. It's thoughtfully curated experience designed by us to help you connect with intention, not apps.

In this episode, we explore how pleasure and erotic energy can be deeply healing when approached with intention, safety, and compassion. Amy and Malia share their personal journeys into healing work, including dolphin-assisted experiences, somatic practices, and psychedelic-informed therapy.

Amy Ruffolo Quinn, is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Eating Disorder Specialist with a private practice in El Segundo, California. She is also the founder of Your Beautiful Beginning, LLC, where she leads Wild Dolphin Wellness Retreats that weave together somatic healing, nature, and the medicine of joy. Malia Carvalho is a somatic guide, trauma-informed tantra educator, and founder of The Dreamweaver Collective. Through a unique blend of Kundalini Fusion, somatic yoga, nervous-system regulation, sound healing, microdosing support, and integrative embodiment work, she helps women reconnect with their pleasure, creativity, and personal power.

In this episode, you will hear:

●      Healing Sexuality Through Embodiment

●      Releasing Shame Around Pleasure

●      Dolphin-Assisted Healing Experiences

●      Psychedelic-Informed Therapy And Integration

●      The Role Of Breath In Pleasure

●      Presence, Surrender, And Letting Go

●      Relational Healing And Community Support

●      Erotic Energy As A Healing Force

●      Creating Safe Containers For Exploration

●      Joy As A Pathway To Wholeness

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A quick note for my single listeners in California, if you're craving intentional, psychologically grounded ways to meet people. We have a beautiful offering coming up through LALOVELAB.com; a company I co-created with my colleague Dr. Richard Espinoza. Our next matchmaking event is Saturday February 7th at 4:00pm hosted at the Craft Contemporary Museum in LA. It's thoughtfully curated experience designed by us to help you connect with intention, not apps.

In this episode, we discuss how psychedelics intersect with sexuality, pleasure, and relationships, beginning with a reframe of what we even mean by “drugs” and altered states. We also talk about how substances such as MDMA, psilocybin, and ketamine can act as non-specific amplifiers, and why intention, set, and setting matter so deeply when people are exploring erotic connection in altered states. 

Dr. Nicole Thompson is a queer sex and relationship psychotherapist providing psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy, researcher, and host of the top-5% global podcast Modern Anarchy. As the founder of The Pleasure Practice, she supports individuals in crafting expansive sex lives and intimate relationships grounded in desire, freedom, and authenticity. Her work weaves together psychology and embodiment, exploring how pleasure, psychedelics, and relational healing open pathways to liberation.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Psychedelics And Erotic States

·      Chemsex And Harm Reduction

·      Set, Setting, And Intention

·      Consent In Altered States

·      Managing Jealousy And Activation

·      Grounding And Co-Regulation Tools

·      Comparing MDMA, Psilocybin, And Ketamine

·      Safety, Dosing, And Preparation

·      Integration After Psychedelic Sex

·      Sober Psychedelic Sex Practices

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As we move into the new year, I want to slow things down a bit and move away from rigid resolutions that are often rooted in pressure, shame, or performance. In this episode, I’m bringing together voices you already know and trust to help reframe sexual health goals as supportive practices rather than benchmarks to pass or fail.

Throughout this episode, we discuss your capacity for pleasure, enhancing communication, and letting go of narrow definitions of what sex is supposed to look like. We also look at nervous system safety, pelvic floor health, pleasure practices, sex technology, and intimacy in midlife. This episode aims to remind you that great sex isn’t about fixing yourself; it's about developing skills, remaining connected to your body, and allowing yourself the freedom to grow at your own pace.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Setting Shame Free Sexual Intentions

·      Using Your Voice In Intimacy

·      Expanding Pleasure Capacity

·      Building Nervous System Safety

·      Body Acceptance And Arousal

·      Pelvic Floor Health And Pleasure

·      Pleasure Over Performance

·      Normalizing Change Across Life Stages

·      Creating Sustainable Pleasure Practices

·      Redefining What Counts As Sex

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In this episode, I sit down with Ita to discuss what an intimacy coordinator actually does and why this role has become so essential in film, television, and theatre. We talk about how intimacy coordination brings structure, clarity, and care to intimate scenes, not only to protect performers, but to serve the story, the characters, and the creative vision. 

Ita O’Brien is an intimacy coordinator and movement director for film, television, and theater. For more than a decade, she has been developing “intimacy on set” guidelines: best practices for working on scenes with sexual content and nudity in film, TV, and theater. O’Brien pioneered the role of intimacy coordinator, which is used in production companies including HBO and Netflix. Her work has been featured in publications such as The Guardian, The New York Times, and NBC. She’s contributed to the intimate content praised in shows such as Normal People, Sex Education, and I May Destroy You.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      What An Intimacy Coordinator Does

·      Creating Safety On Set

·      Consent As A Creative Foundation

·      Embodiment And Somatic Awareness

·      Choreographing Intimate Scenes

·      Anatomy And Authentic Storytelling

·      Power Dynamics And Character Choice

·      Training And Professional Standards

·      Emotional Safety In Long Term Relationships

·      Bringing Intimacy Practices Into Daily Life

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In this episode, we discuss the personal and academic journey that led them to write Touch Me. I’m Sick., which began as a PhD dissertation and evolved into a deeply human book about sickness, trauma, disability, and love. Margeaux shares how their own experience with chronic illness shifted their work away from purely academic analysis and toward something more accessible, relational, and rooted in lived experience. 

Margeaux Feldman is a writer, a public educator, and an artist. They hold an MFA in Creative Writing from CalArts and a PhD in English Literature and Sexual Diversity Studies from the University of Toronto. Margeaux's first book Touch Me, I'm Sick: A Memoir in Essays was just published with Beacon Press. They also created the popular meme account @softcore_trauma on Instagram, where they share memes and writing that testifies to their experiences living with trauma and chronic illness.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      The Origin Story Of Touch Me. I’m Sick.

·      Chronic Illness And Trauma Connections

·      Redefining Intimacy And Care

·      Independence, Codependence, And Interdependence

·      Wellness Culture And Performativity

·      Trauma, Pleasure, And Ambivalence

·      Dissociation As A Survival Strategy

·      “Ugly Sex” And Sexual Healing

·      Somatic Therapy And Embodiment

·      Pleasure As A Political Act

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In this episode, we discuss what inspired Laura and Morgan to write their book “The Cycle Book” and how their personal and professional experiences shaped their approach. We talk about the profound gaps in education around hormones, menstruating bodies, and sexual health, and how this lack of information often leaves people feeling confused, dismissed, or disconnected from their own bodies.

Laura Federico is a psychotherapist and AASECT-certified sex and relationship therapist in private practice, and Morgan Miller is a certified professional midwife, lactation consultant, activist, and birth center founder in private practice.

Developed by Laura & Morgan, The Cycle Book helps you find clarity, the right treatment, and real relief, so you can finally feel like yourself again. We’re in the midst of a hormonal health awakening. For too long, those navigating PCOS, perimenopause, endometriosis, PMDD, and other hormonal symptoms have been dismissed and left without real support. The Cycle Book’s effective and trusted approach helps decode your body’s patterns. Rooted in science and beautifully crafted, this 12-month undated workbook blends expert insight with clean, functional design.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      What Cycle Tracking Really Means

·      Hormones And The Mind Body Connection

·      Personal Journeys Into Cycle Awareness

·      Endometriosis And Medical Dismissal

·      Tracking Desire And Sexual Arousal

·      Understanding Vaginal Dryness And Lubrication

·      Perimenopause And Hormonal Shifts

·      Tracking What Feels Good Not Just Pain

·      Using Data To Advocate In Healthcare

·      Why Analog Tracking Can Be Powerful

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In this conversation, we discuss the wide range of painful symptoms many vulva owners experience, from burning and sharp stinging at the vestibule to deeper pelvic discomfort that can appear during or after sexual activity. Dr. Yee helps clarify how conditions such as vestibulodynia, hormonal disruptions, pelvic venous disorders, and endometriosis often go unrecognized or are dismissed in medical settings, leaving patients feeling isolated and unsure where to turn for help.

Dr. Alyssa Yee is a Sexual Medicine Physician and Reconstructive Urologist who completed her clinical fellowship at San Diego Sexual Medicine in 2021-2022 under the mentorship of Dr. Irwin Goldstein. In her fellowship, she was awarded the SMSNA Foundation Research grant to investigate the pathophysiology of neuroproliferative vestibulodynia–a painful sexual condition of the vulva. Drawing from her research, Dr. Yee innovated the first sub-epithelial complete vestibulectomy surgery, allowing for decreased blood loss and post-operative pain with excellent response.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding Vulvar And Vaginal Pain

·      Why Pain During Sex Is Often Normalized

·      Common Symptoms Of Vestibulodynia

·      How Hormones Influence Genital Pain

·      Inflammation And Nerve Related Causes

·      Endometriosis Symptoms And Misdiagnosis

·      Why Patients Feel Gaslighted In Medical Settings

·      How Partners Can Offer Support And Validation

·      Effective Treatment Options And Hormonal Therapies

·      Resources For Finding Knowledgeable Providers

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In this conversation, we look at why orgasm inequality persists even among couples who consider themselves progressive, communicative, and sexually informed. We discuss how cultural narratives, media scripts, and outdated beliefs continue to shape expectations around women’s pleasure, often leaving vulva owners feeling inadequate or unseen in intimate relationships. 

Suzannah Weiss is a writer, sexologist, and psychotherapist in Los Angeles. She is the author of Eve's Blessing: Uncovering the Lost Pleasure Behind Female Pain and Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject. She runs a psychotherapy practice focused on sex and couples' therapy and neurodiversity. She is also a certified sex educator, sexual assault counselor, and birth doula.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding the Origins of the Orgasm Gap

·      Cultural Versus Biological Explanations

·      How Porn Shapes Early Sexual Scripts

·      Prioritizing Clitoral Stimulation

·      Working With Vibrators and Sexual Aids

·      Techniques for Sharing Pleasure Preferences

·      The Role of Fantasy in Partnered Sex

·      Mindfulness and Embodiment Practices

·      Reducing Performance Pressure for Both Partners

·      Building Relaxation and Trust Before Sex

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In this conversation, Jessica shares her personal journey into non-monogamy and the ways her clinical work pushed her to explore the topic more deeply. We talk about emotional exclusivity, the origins of Polysecure, and how people can distinguish between personal triggers, relational dynamics, and the messages they have absorbed from society. Jessica offers thoughtful insights on insecurity, jealousy, and the importance of intentional repair when conflict arises.

Jessica Fern holds a Master’s degree in Conflict Resolution, is a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, a trained Internal Family Systems (IFS) practitioner, and an integrative therapist drawing on 25 years of experience in somatic, narrative, psychotherapeutic, and spiritual healing modalities. She is the internationally recognized author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Nonmonogamy, The Polysecure Workbook, and Polywise: A Deeper Dive Into Navigating Open Relationships. 

In this episode, you will hear:

• Jessica’s Early Exploration Of Non Monogamy

• Unconscious Beginnings And Identity Formation

• How Clinical Work Sparked Conscious Alignment

• Emotional Exclusivity And Realistic Expectations

• Origins And Meaning Of The Term Polysecure

• Hearts Model For Secure Attachment

• Differentiating Me We Or Society

• Conflict Repair And Nervous System Regulation

• Assessing Readiness For Opening Relationships

• Misconceptions Around Jealousy And Compersion

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In this episode, we explore how attachment theory helps us understand why so many couples struggle with maintaining desire over time. We discuss how patterns rooted in early childhood, such as anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment, influence not only our emotional connection but also our erotic lives. Jessica explains how couples often repeat familiar relational scripts, sometimes mistaking intensity or chaos for passion, and how real intimacy requires safety, awareness, and conscious effort.

Jessica Baum is a licensed psychotherapist whose journey began with a lifelong curiosity about the “Whys” of life, why we feel, connect, and experience the world the way we do. This passion led her to specialize in trauma, attachment theory, and interpersonal neurobiology. Jessica believes that connection to ourselves and others is at the heart of healing, and she uses a range of modalities to help individuals and couples return to wholeness. She is the founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, a private group practice, and she leads a global coaching company offering support to clients worldwide. 

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding Attachment and Sexuality

·      The Link Between Love and Desire

·      How Attachment Forms in Infancy

·      Traits of Anxious and Avoidant Styles

·      Recognizing Pockets of Disorganization

·      How Childhood Shaped Adult Intimacy

·      Repairing Attachment Through Awareness

·      Creating Safety for Passionate Sex

·      Somatic Tools for Healing

·      Moving Toward Secure Attachment

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In this episode, Riana and I explore how emotional safety and communication are at the heart of sexual connection. We discuss why unresolved conflicts and stress responses, like fight, flight, or freeze, can suppress desire, and how couples can learn to reconnect through conscious communication and emotional regulation. 

Riana Milne MA is a Certified, Global Life and Love Trauma Recovery Coach, a Cert. Clinical Trauma & Addictions Professional, a Certified Mindfulness Coach, #1 Bestselling Author, the Host of her Podcast called Lessons in Life & Love'', an Educational Speaker, and Licensed Mental Health Counselor for over 21 years living in Palm Beach County, Florida. Riana specializes in helping those who have had past Childhood or Love Relationship Trauma to Heal, Transform & Thrive; leading them to Create the Life They Desire & to Have the Love They Deserve! She offers Coaching programs for both Straight & LGBTQ Singles & Couples globally for ages 16-76.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Emotional Safety As The Foundation Of Desire

·      Why Communication Comes Before Sexuality

·      How The Brain Reacts To Conflict And Stress

·      Understanding Fight, Flight, And Freeze In Relationships

·      The “Tea Break” Technique For Conflict Resolution

·      Why Couples Must Approach Problems As A Team

·      The Role Of Fun And Dating In Rekindling Intimacy

·      Healing Childhood And Love Trauma Patterns

·      Balancing Household Roles To Create Partnership

·      How To Rebuild Connection After Disconnection

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In this conversation, we discuss how to move from casual conversations to more intimate ones, without it feeling awkward or forced. Dr. DeSeta shares how flirting and sexting are forms of vulnerable communication, not just sexual expression, and why pacing, consent, and emotional awareness are vital. We also touch upon the nuances of reading digital signals, how to avoid common mistakes like jumping ahead too soon, and what healthy, sexy communication looks like in both text and real life. 

Dr. Mindy DeSeta has a Doctorate in Clinical Sexology and is a Board Certified Sex Therapist and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor. She has been in private practice since 2017 when she founded her concierge and bespoke mental health practice, Insight Counseling Center Miami. From 2025, Dr. DeSeta works with Hily Dating App as sexologist and sexuality educator consulting on product development, research and communication with the users.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      The Art Of Transitioning From Flirting To Sexting

·      How To Gauge Interest And Enthusiasm Digitally

·      Why The Lost “Courting Process” Still Matters

·      Recognizing Red Flags During Text Conversations

·      Handling Awkward Gray Zones In Online Dating

·      The Psychology Behind Unsolicited Explicit Photos

·      Understanding Digital Consent And Its Importance

·      Introducing Hily’s “Consent Guard” Feature

·      How Asking For Consent Can Be Sexy And Empowering

·      Tips To Create More Authentic And Respectful Connections

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In this conversation, we explore the concept of ‘The Heart Sexuality Split’, how many people find themselves loving but not desiring their partners. Ali explains her Personal Geometry model, which uses physical mapping to externalize inner dynamics, offering profound insight into where we may feel emotionally blocked or disconnected. She also shares her own story of growing up in a sexualized environment, the early disconnection between heart and body, and her journey toward reintegrating love, desire, and authenticity.

Ali Mezey is a Body Therapist, Family Constellation Work Facilitator, Sexologist and Media Maker with over 40 years of experience. Ali has worked in renowned rehab centers in Los Angeles for sex, drug, and alcohol addiction. She developed her groundbreaking body-based method Personal Geometry® to address the challenges of working with sexual trauma, compulsivity, dysfunctions and discontents. She works internationally with individuals, couples, in groups, speaking publicly and as a teacher of Personal Geometry® and hosts The Brilliant Body Podcast.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding The Heart–Sexuality Split

·      How Early Experiences Shape Our Erotic Blueprint

·      The Role Of Trauma And Cultural Conditioning

·      Religion, Shame, And Disconnection From The Body

·      Using Personal Geometry To Map Relationships

·      How Emotional Incest Impacts Adult Intimacy

·      Bridging Love, Lust, And Long-Term Relationships

·      Integrating Spirituality With Sexuality

·      A Guided Mapping Practice You Can Try At Home

·      Finding Wholeness Through Embodied Awareness

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Alicia and I explore how sex toys can be a tool for enhancing both psychological and physical arousal, whether through role play, sensation play, or simply adding novelty to the bedroom. We also unpack the common fears and misconceptions couples have when introducing toys into their relationship, and how to approach these conversations with openness and curiosity rather than insecurity.

Alicia is a multi-award-winning Sex Tech CEO, founder, and renowned sex coach. She brings over two decades of expertise in designing innovative products, leading transformative training programs, and advocating for sex positivity.

Her mission is to champion sexual wellness as a vital part of a healthy lifestyle, empowering people to explore pleasure without shame. Prior to founding her three brands, Alicia was the VP of worldwide sales and business development at a luxury intimate wellness brand, where she created and developed a sex education boot-camp to help educate retailers, and worked with the Dept. of Justice to help the FBI develop communication channels between the government and the adult industry as part of the Child Protection & Obscenity Enforcement Act.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Importance Of Communication Before Introducing Sex Toys

·      How Sex Toys Can Enhance Intimacy And Pleasure

·      Overcoming Feelings Of Inadequacy Or Jealousy Around Toys

·      Starting With Beginner-Friendly Products Like Bullet Vibrators

·      Why Material Safety Matters In Sex Toy Selection

·      Exploring Role Play And Fantasy Through Props

·      Common Mistakes Couples Make When Introducing Toys

·      Latest Innovations: AI And Suction Technology In Sex Tech

·      The Role Of Sex Toys In Empowering Sexual Equality

·      Alicia’s Journey And Mission To Make Pleasure Accessible

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In this conversation, Lianna and I explore the often-overlooked challenges men face in today’s evolving sexual landscape. We discuss her concept of “lingham activation”, a tantric-inspired approach to connecting with sexual energy through breathwork, embodiment, and intentional control. Lianna explains how many men have become disconnected from their bodies due to technology, stress, and societal conditioning.  

Lianna Walden works in the intimate and sexual realm - guiding individuals and couples through deep, embodied transformation in their relationships, sexuality, and sense of self. With over 20 years of experience in transformation, relationship healing, and embodied leadership, she brings a multidimensional approach to personal growth and empowerment.

Her work is far from conventional. Lianna works outside the box - supporting sexual exploration, theexpression of taboo desires, and radical self-acceptance. She helps clients open to new ways of experiencing and expressing who they truly are - emotionally, erotically, and energetically. 

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding The Concept Of Lingham Activation

·      How Men Can Reconnect With Sexual Energy Through Breathwork

·      Overcoming Disconnection Caused By Technology And Stress

·      The Importance Of Embodiment In Deepening Intimacy

·      Step-By-Step Ejaculation Control Practice For Men

·      Using The “One To Ten” Scale To Build Awareness During Self-Pleasure

·      Exploring The Million Dollar Point And Squeeze Technique

·      The Power Of Practical Worship And Genital Adoration

·      Creating Rituals And Shrines To Honor Sexual Connection

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In this conversation, Matthew opens up about his unexpected journey into adult content creation, sharing both the challenges and rewards of working on platforms like OnlyFans and JustForFans. We talk about how fetish and kink content often push against mainstream limitations, the misconceptions around creator earnings, and the importance of understanding consent and boundaries when producing explicit material.

English Leather Master (often known as ELM), also known to friends and family as Matthew, is an ICF (International Coach Federation) PCC-accredited life and executive coach and a BSCH (British Society of Clinical Hypnosis) registered hypnotherapist. He also trains individuals in both coaching and hypnosis. Matthew works extensively with LGBTQ+ and kinky communities around the world, supporting people in creating more fulfilling lives. His passion lies in helping others unlock the skills they already possess to enhance their chances of success and happiness across all areas of life.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Matthew’s Journey Into Porn Creation

·      The Rise And Limitations Of OnlyFans

·      Why Fetish Content Pushes Against Mainstream Rules

·      Myths About How Much Money Creators Make

·      The Pros And Cons Of Porn Consumption

·      How Kinks Like Balloons And Car Pedals Find Their Audience

·      The Difference Between Studio Porn And Creator Porn

·      Why Communication Is Key To Being A Good Lover

·      Using BDSM Consent Models In The Workplace

·      Creating A Life Without Shame Around Sexuality

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Sarah shares how two decades in family law, and her own journey through divorce and remarriage, have shaped her perspective on why relationships break down. She has seen the same patterns repeat themselves in countless cases, and she is passionate about helping people understand those pitfalls before it’s too late.

Sarah Intelligator is a divorce attorney in Los Angeles, California. She earned a Juris Doctorate from Southwestern Law School. She graduated from UCLA, cum laude, with a Bachelor of Arts in English. Practicing Family Law since 2008, Sarah has also been a yoga instructor since 2000. She organically bridged her two worlds, coining the term: “Holistic Divorce and Family Law.” In helping others through their divorces, Sarah realised that she could help them avoid divorce altogether.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Common Patterns Behind Divorce

·      The Importance Of Sexual Compatibility

·      Resentment As A Hidden Relationship Killer

·      How Children Shift Intimacy In Marriage

·      Emotional Needs And The Roots Of Affairs

·      Changing Old Dating Patterns

·      Core Values Versus Shifting Needs

·      The Trap Of Fairy Tale Expectations

·      How Communication Protects Connection

·      Choosing Partners From A Place Of Worth

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In this conversation, Kevin shares his journey into consensual non-monogamy and the inspiration behind Poly Role Models, a project designed to broaden representation of polyamory beyond narrow stereotypes. 

Kevin Patterson is an active member of the Philadelphia polyamory community. He's been practicing ethical nonmonogamy since August of 2002 after opening up a relationship that eventually became his marriage. In April of 2015, Kevin was inspired to start Poly Role Models, an interview series for people describing their experiences with polyamory. Poly Role Models was part of a drive and a desire to change the way our lives and communities are viewed. To continue that discussion of polyamorous representation, Kevin has extended the blog's work into the writing of the book, Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities. 

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Origins Of Poly Role Models

·      Breaking Stereotypes In Polyamory

·      Representation Beyond White Narratives

·      Cheating Versus Consensual Non-Monogamy

·      The Pitfalls Of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell

·      Race And Identity In Non-Monogamy

·      Navigating Jealousy With Emotional Literacy

·      Building Healthier Conversations In Relationships

·      Creating Safer And More Inclusive Spaces

·      Kevin’s Work In Fiction And Superhero Storytelling

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Across this conversation, our guests share profound insights into how women truly experience desire and intimacy. You’ll hear why slowing down, building safety, and creating emotional connection are essential foundations for passion. 

We discuss the hidden fantasies and longings that many women never voice, the importance of curiosity and play, and how sex is far more than just physical technique, it’s a whole-body, mind, and spirit experience. Our guests also emphasize how communication itself can be deeply erotic, and that balancing sensitivity with power opens the door to deeper intimacy.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Allana Pratt On Safety And Slow Build-Up

·      Annette Benedetti On Hidden Desires

·      Caitlin V On Whole-Body Sex

·      Dr. Margaret Cochran On Why Talk Is Sexy

·      Rob Kancler On Sensitivity And Power

·      Susan Bratton On Seduction And Play

·      Sylvia Solit On Sex As A Continuum

·      Women’s Bodies And Arousal Timing

·      Overcoming Shame And Cultural Scripts

·      Integrating Emotional And Spiritual Connection

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In this episode, Dr. Eli shares her personal journey navigating relationships with both monogamous and polyamorous partners, and how those experiences shaped her professional research. We talk in-depth about "soloamory" which refers to prioritizing one's relationship with themselves, often in the form of self-love. It is a form of autosexuality/autoromance and a conscious choice to live a single life, valuing autonomy and personal growth over traditional relationship milestones like marriage or cohabitation. 

Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. With a PhD in Sociology and certification as a Sexuality Educator from AASECT, Dr. Eli specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children, and her 25+ year Polyamorous Family Study is the only longitudinal study of poly families with children to date. 

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Defining Consensual Non-Monogamy

·      Understanding Polyamory And Soloamory

·      How Early Relationships Shape Our Beliefs

·      Mono-Poly Relationship Dynamics

·      Distinguishing Between Jealousy And Insecurity

·      Why Some People Are Wired For Multiplicity

·      The Role Of Autonomy In Healthy Relationships

·      Healing Through Solo Amory And Self-Love

·      The Importance Of Therapy And The Right Therapist Fit

·      Resources And Tools From Dr. Elizabeth Sheff

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In this episode, Sam shares insights from his book Hookups, Hiccups and Happenstances, which reflects on the changing landscape of sexuality from the 1960s and 70s through to today. We discuss the social shifts that empowered women during this period, the origins of swinging, and how personal boundaries and communication have shaped Sam’s own 62-year marriage.

Married for 61 years and counting, Sam is an excellent spokesperson on love and the many ways it can be explored. A number of the “hookups” he writes about in his book come from his real experiences of being in “the right place at the right time” during the Sexual Revolution. He also says he invented a sex position in this era. The position he's dubbed "the corkscrew” takes three people, unlike his other favorite position: 69.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Evolution Of Sexual Liberation In The 60s And 70s

·      Origins Of Swinging And Key Clubs

·      Women’s Empowerment And Reproductive Rights

·      Sam’s 62-Year Marriage And Communication Pact

·      Seven Rules For Navigating Non-Monogamy

·      Boundaries Between Love And Sex

·      Transparency And Openness In Long-Term Relationships

·      How Date Nights Strengthen Connection

·      Addressing Jealousy In Non-Monogamy

·      Swinging Culture And Common Misconceptions

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In this episode, Serenity and Timothy share how their interest in hotwifing began as fantasy and roleplay, before eventually evolving into real-life exploration. We discuss the turning point in their relationship during the pandemic, how they navigated their first experiences, and the emotional challenges and growth that came with moving from imagination into reality.

Serenity Cox is a Canadian adult performer and content creator who transitioned from a successful career as an ER nurse to becoming one of the industry’s most sought-after stars. Since starting her career, she has gained massive popularity through independent content creation and collaborations with major studios, earning multiple awards, including the 2024 xHamster Creator of the Year and the 2025 XBIZ XMA Fan Award for ‘Favorite MILF Performer’.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Defining Hotwifing

·      Fantasy vs. Reality in Relationships

·      The Pandemic as a Turning Point

·      Emotional Challenges and Surprises

·      Importance of Reconnection Rituals

·      Navigating Jealousy in Non-Monogamy

·      Safety Practices and STI Testing

·      Communicating Fantasies with a Partner

·      Managing Cultural Stigma Around CNM

·      Resources for Exploring Hotwifing

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In this episode, Roy shares his deeply personal journey from decades of serial monogamy to embracing polyamory as an orientation and ultimately finding resonance in the philosophy of relationship anarchy. We explore the difference between open relationships and ethical non-monogamy, the role of emotional maturity, and how boundaries and communication can transform romantic connections. 

Roy Graff is a Psychosynthesis Relationship Counsellor based in London, UK. Drawing on his training and over nine years of experience facilitating workshops and group work, Roy supports clients in exploring the full spectrum of their physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual dimensions. His practice is inclusive and affirming of Gender, Sex, and Relationship Diversity (GSRD), welcoming LGBTQ+ individuals and those in non-monogamous relationships. In addition to his counselling work, Roy is a relationship coach specializing in alternative and non-traditional relationship dynamics, helping individuals and partners build resilience, improve communication, manage conflict, and deepen empathetic, conscious connections.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Roy’s Journey From Serial Monogamy To Polyamory

·      How Relationship Anarchy Challenges Social Norms

·      The Difference Between Ethical And Unethical Non-Monogamy

·      Why Communication Is The Foundation Of Alternative Relationships

·      Navigating Jealousy And Emotional Triggers

·      The Role Of Boundaries In Polyamorous Dynamics

·      Strategies For Sharing Information About Other Partners

·      Understanding The “Relationship Escalator”

·      How Solo Polyamory Works In Practice

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In this conversation, I invite Joli to share the very human, very messy path she took from a long-term monogamous marriage into consensual non-monogamy. We talk about how a simple crush, paired with new language for polyamory, sparked courageous but complicated conversations, the pitfalls of working with clinicians who default to monogamy, and the painful social narratives that cast open-relationship exploration as “cheating” even when no boundaries are crossed. 

Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines & founder of The Year of Opening. She is a depth psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT (pronounced ay-sect) certified sex educator. Joli co-hosts the Playing with Fire podcast. Joli’s been featured in The New York Times, CNN, Vogue, Cosmo, and NPR. She’s spent the past two decades studying and reimagining what love can be if we open our imaginations to possibility. Joli helps people create non-monogamous partnerships that are custom-built for their authentic selves, no more shrinking, pretending, or hiding required.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      From Monogamy To Non-Monogamy: A Real-Life Origin Story

·      Why Honesty Without Skills Still Hurts

·      The Therapist Fit Problem In CNM

·      Naming Feelings vs. Trying To Erase Them

·      Jealousy Happens - Bans Make It Worse

·      Agreements, Not Assumptions

·      Breakup And Aftercare In Polyamory

·      Parenting And Cohabitation Considerations

·      Nervous System Tools For Regulation

·      Defining Your Own CNM Script Over Time

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In this conversation, Carrie unpacks the term “Monogamish,” originally coined to describe a space between strict monogamy and fully open relationships, and shares how transparency, not secrecy, became the cornerstone of her own early experiences with non‑monogamy. We talk through the realities behind the “ish”: clunky starts, learning curves, aftercare, and the deep inner work that jealousy often invites.

International Best-Selling Author and Relationship Diversity Advocate, Carrie Jeroslow, is passionate about bringing intentionality into intimate relationships by releasing the programming of what we’re taught relationships SHOULD be and shifting to what we really WANT them to be. This highly personal process requires getting to know one's ever-evolving self as intimately as possible. She believes that when we learn and accept who we truly are, we can be more authentic in our relationships with others, which brings an unparalleled sense of joyfulness and fulfillment to our lives as a whole.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Defining Monogamish

·      Honesty Over Secrecy

·      Aftercare And Debriefs

·      Becoming Intimate With Jealousy

·      Updating Inherited Beliefs

·      Boundaries You Can Revisit

·      Move At The Slowest Partner’s Pace

·      Culture, Labels, And Flexibility

·      Communication As A Core Skill

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In this conversation, Jackie shares the raw, unglamorized realities of living with anorexia for two decades, much of it while in the public eye. We explore her “inherited food trauma,” the cultural pressure of the 90s, and how secrecy, rules, and constant tracking kept her illness alive. Jackie opens up about the pivotal moment at 45 when health scares and a second rock bottom pushed her to choose recovery, tell her husband, and assemble a true treatment team to address the mental, physical, and emotional layers of healing.

Jackie Goldschneider is an author, activist, speaker and a longtime cast member of The Real Housewives of New Jersey.  Before joining the show, Jackie was an attorney and freelance journalist, and has contributed extensively to publications including Good Housekeeping, HuffPost and Scary Mommy, and wrote a weekly parenting column for New Jersey's The Record newspaper for several years. Her debut memoir, The Weight of Beautiful, was published by ‎Simon and Schuster in September 2023. Since then, Jackie has been a nationally recognized advocate for eating disorder recovery.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Inherited Food Trauma And Early Body Shame

·      Fifteen Years Of Anorexia Hidden In Plain Sight

·      Strategic Eating To Outsmart Cameras And Castmates

·      Recovery As A Lifelong, Nonlinear Commitment

·      Malnutrition’s Toll On Hormones, Estrogen, And Libido

·      Therapy, Dietitian, And MD: A Three-Person Care Team

·      Boundaries Around Body And Food Comments Are Essential

·      Reclaiming Pleasure, Playfulness, And Nakedness In Sex

·      Breaking Secrecy By Confiding In A Loved One

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In this conversation, Kate and I normalize the reality that everyone, including sex therapists, experiences fluctuations in sexual desire. She shares the multifaceted story behind her own temporary drop in libido, touching on burnout, perimenopause, pandemic stress, and relationship “growing pains.” 

Dr. Kate Balestrieri, Psy.D is a Licensed Psychologist (Clinical and Forensic) in CA, FL, NY and IL. She is a Certified Sex Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist – Supervisor, and PACT III trained couples’ therapist. 

The Founder of Modern Intimacy, a nationwide therapy practice, Dr. Balestrieri is a passionate advocate for mental, relational and sexual health. Throughout her work, Dr. Balestrieri focuses on helping people build resilience and recovery from what ails them to move from a position of pain or discomfort to one of thriving, holistically in their lives. Dr. Balestrieri is the author of What Happened to My Sex Life? A Sex Therapist’s Guide to Reclaiming Lost Desire, Connection and Pleasure, and is the host of the Get Naked with Dr. Kate podcast.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Normalizing Fluctuating Desire

·      Multifaceted Roots Of Low Libido

·      Love–Lust Divide In Long‑Term Bonds

·      Stress And Burnout As Desire Dampeners

·      Role Of Novelty And Mystery

·      Dangers Of Obligatory Or “Pity” Sex

·      The 30% Orgasm Gap Explained

·      Embodiment And Pleasure Practices

·      Rekindling Passion With Intentional Effort

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In this heartfelt conversation, Patti traces the winding path from her “little girl named Patti” to the globally known “Dr. Patti.” She opens up about the matriarchs who modeled sexual confidence, the traumas she survived, and the counter-culture influences that called her to sexology. You’ll hear how writing her memoir became a race against time to preserve her stories, and why she now gifts readers “52 Lessons for Life” drawn from those pages.

Dr. Patti Britton is a nationally board-certified, world recognized Clinical Sexologist, known as the “Mother of Sex Coaching”. She’s the author of hundreds of articles, book chapters, forewords, and five major books in sexology. She is a proud member of the LA writers’ community, having studied Method Writing for over 20 years. She is published in several anthologies with a variety of her stories. Her memoir, Chasing Sex, Wanting Love, Finding Myself was released in 2024 from Balboa Press.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Dr. Patti Britton’s Matriarchal Role Models

·      From Trauma to Thriving: Finding an Authentic Sexual Voice

·      Why She Wrote Chasing Sex in Her Seventies

·      Pleasure Framed as a Fundamental Human Right

·      The Five-Level Touch Continuum Explained

·      Transcendent Sex vs. “Good Enough” Sex

·      Aging, Orgasm, and Embracing New Erotic Scripts

·      Tips for Men: Shift From Performance to Sensation

·      Keeping Desire Alive Through Novelty and Play

·      Patti’s Free “52 Lessons for Life” and Ongoing Legacy

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Inka Winter is an erotic filmmaker and founder of ForPlay Films, an independent, all-woman porn production company. Spending her formative years living in an alternative artist commune in Austria gave Inka a critical eye for what constitutes sexy, consensual female pleasure and set the foundation for her creative endeavors in erotic filmmaking. Her background in costume design and styling informs her aesthetic and translates to the editorial feel of her films.

In our conversation, Inka opens up about growing up in an Austrian commune that devolved into an authoritarian sex cult. She describes the rigid hierarchy, the separation of children from parents, and the constant pressure to conform to cult-mandated ideas of “free love.” We discuss the lingering impact of early exposure to sexual activity, the leader’s eventual arrest, and the complex process of unraveling trauma, reclaiming agency, and seeking reparations decades later.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Childhood In Authoritarian Sex Cult

·      Leader’s Arrest & Commune Collapse

·      Processing Trauma Through Therapy

·      Documentary Mirror Of Lived Reality

·      From Fashion Design To Erotic Filmmaking

·      Defining The Female Gaze On Screen

·      Consent-Driven, Performer-Led Scenes

·      Holistic Porn As Sex Education

·      Debunking Porn “Addiction” Myths

·      Empowering Women’s Pleasure & Fantasy

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In this conversation, Darshana and I dive into why so many of us default to the same quick, goal-oriented masturbation routine and how that habit is wired into our neural pathways. We explore the power of slowing down, setting an intention, and treating solo pleasure as a ritual, complete with an opening, body-centered exploration, and a conscious closing.

Best known for her contributions to Netflix's Sex, Love & goop, trauma informed,pleasure centric, culturally relevant erotic education is Darshana's sweet spot. Supporting women & queer community, individually or alongside their partners, is her deepest passion She's a certified Somatic Experiencing Practitioner & Sexological Bodyworker, guiding & serving through her private practice, public speaking & online offerings.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Defining Mindful Masturbation

·      Neural Pathways And Habit Loops

·      Intentional Rituals For Solo Sex

·      Full-Body Touch Before Genitals

·      Navigating Boredom And Plateaus

·      Sensate Focus Vs. Visual Stimulation

·      Fantasy As A Creative Arousal Tool

·      Scheduling Familiar And New Practices

·      Challenging Inner Critic Narratives

·      Pleasure As Personal And Collective Liberation

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In the first half of the episode, I dive into three listener questions and unpack why fantasy is perfectly healthy, offer concrete scripts for sharing kinks without shame, and celebrate self-pleasure as a lifelong birth-right, while sprinkling in resources, exercises, and confidence-building tips you can try tonight.

Then, Lisa joins me to map out the fast-evolving landscape of pleasure products, from wearable vibrating rings that turn penis-owners into “hands-free” vibrators, to blood-flow-boosting arousal gels that help close the orgasm gap, to tech-driven “pleasure-mapping” apps and menopause-friendly solutions. 

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Listener Q&A On Fantasy & Orgasm

·      Talking Cross-Dressing With Your Partner

·      Celebrating A High Midlife Libido

·      Why Fantasy Is Totally Normal

·      Scripts To Share Your Kink Shame-Free

·      Rise Of Wearable Male Vibrators

·      Arousal Gels That Boost Blood Flow

·      Pleasure-Mapping Apps & Sex Tech

·      Menopause-Focused Products On The Horizon

·      Communication As The Ultimate Toy

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In this rich and deeply personal conversation, Epiphany shares her journey from studying sacred sexuality to creating structured touch experiences aimed at fostering connection and healing. We explore the cultural, religious, and psychological factors that shape how we experience touch, especially in societies where physical affection is often conflated with sexuality. 

Epiphany Jordan, MPH, CPH, is on a mission to rebrand human touch. From 2013-2020, she provided platonic touch therapy in a ritualized setting with her business, the Austin-based Karuna Sessions. She is also the author of Somebody Hold Me: The Single Person's Guide to Nurturing Human Touch. Somebody Hold Me addresses the touch deficit singles face, and offers multiple solutions. She has appeared on several podcasts discussing human touch, and spoke about solving loneliness with human touch at Austin’s SXSW Interactive Festival in 2019. In 2023, she completed her Master of Public Health with a concentration in Social Marketing from the University of South Florida, and researched rebranding human touch as part of her program.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Why Touch Is A Mammalian And Biological Need

·      How Nonsexual Touch Can Heal Emotional Wounds

·      Cultural And Religious Impacts On How We View Touch

·      The Problem With Conflating Touch And Sex

·      The “Branding Problem” Of Physical Touch In Society

·      Four Reimagined Touch Archetypes For Modern Relationships

·      How Touch Supports Trauma Healing And Psychedelic Integration

·      Structured Ways To Practice Safe, Intentional Touch

·      The Four S’s Framework: Safe, Slow, Specific, Structured

·      Why Asking For Touch Can Be A Radical Act Of Vulnerability

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In this conversation, Eleanor shares how her personal journey with fantasy evolved from taboo-fueled curiosity to embodied empowerment. We explore the fascinating world of erotic storytelling, from her theater adaptations of fantasy monologues to the value of devising your own erotic scenes through selfies, writing prompts, and roleplay. 

Eleanor O’Brien is the artistic director of Dance Naked Creative, a sex-positive theater and event company. She is a writer, performer and facilitator. She is the creator of solo shows Plan V, How to Really, Really? Really! Love a woman, GGG: Dominatrix for Dummies and Lust & Marriage. 

She directed and starred in the Inviting Desire series, ensemble productions that include A Theatrical Aphrodisiac, Lubricate Your Libido, Pleasure, Permission, Possibility...and The Dawn of Sex. She has produced & directed the community cabarets What Is Erotic?, Revelations, and Sex We Can! and is the founder of the biennial sex and culture theater festival Come Inside. She hosts the monthly erotic open mic Stand Up Smut, and teaches workshops exploring the intersection between sexuality and creativity. She is the captain of the Erotic Creators Club on Patreon.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Erotic Fantasy As A Tool For Self-Discovery

·      How Nancy Friday’s Work Sparked A Creative Revolution

·      The Healing Power Of Erotic Theater

·      Ways To Cultivate An Erotic Inner Life

·      How To Use Fantasy As Connection, Not Escape

·      Role Of Taboo And Power Dynamics In Desire

·      Creating Erotic Rituals With A Partner

·      Why Investment Behaviors Are Arousing

·      Moving Beyond Porn To Create Personal Erotica

·      How Set And Setting Can Enhance Arousal

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In this episode, we explore what truly keeps the spark alive in long-term relationships and why the common advice of compromise may actually undermine deep connection. Dr. Stockwell introduces her approach of Uncompromising Intimacy, which champions full self-expression over self-suppression in partnerships. 

Alexandra Stockwell, MD, aka “The Intimacy Doctor,” is widely known for her ability to catalyze immediate and profound shifts in high achieving couples who want it all–genuine emotional connection, sensual passion, and erotic intimacy. 

A physician coach and Intimate Marriage Expert, Dr. Alexandra is the best-selling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program,  host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, a wife of 28 years and a mother of 4. Couples who work with her discover the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success isn’t compromise–it’s being unwilling to compromise--because when both people feel free to be themselves, the relationship is juicy, erotically alive, and deeply nourishing.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding The Concept Of Uncompromising Intimacy

·      Why Compromise May Hinder Erotic Connection

·      Recognizing Early Signs Of A Sexless Marriage

·      Emotional Safety As A Foundation For Sexual Intimacy

·      How Curiosity Revives Connection Outside—and Inside—the Bedroom

·      Practical Tips For Couples Who Feel Like Roommates Or Siblings

·      The Power Of Slowing Down And Tuning Into Arousal

·      How To Rebuild Sexual Connection After Years Of Disconnection

·      Navigating Past Hurts, Affairs, And Emotional Wounds In Intimacy Work

·      Why Ongoing Communication About Sex Is Essential For Lasting Passion

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In this enlightening conversation, Jeff and I unpack the complex web of stigma, shame, and misinformation that surrounds early ejaculation. We discuss the difference between perceived and clinically defined PE, the real physiological roots beyond just anxiety or lack of willpower, and the often-overlooked arousal gap between partners.

Once retired, Jeff found his encore career in the sexual wellness space, bringing sharp business instincts, integrity, and a bold sense of mission to Promescent.

Originally from a struggling town in Pennsylvania, Jeff built a successful recruiting career in Silicon Valley, placing top engineers at tech giants like AMD, Motorola, and Lam Research. During his career, he was instructed by a major car manufacturer to discriminate against women and people of color in the hiring process, an order he refused to follow. Instead, Jeff took a stand and filed an anti-discrimination lawsuit against the company. Against the odds, he won, driven by a core belief in doing the right thing.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding The Root Causes Of Premature Ejaculation

·      Why Most PE Cases Are Physiological, Not Psychological

·      How Porn Skews Our Expectations Of Sexual Performance

·      Defining PE: Clinical Criteria Vs. Subjective Experience

·      Closing The Arousal Gap For Mutual Satisfaction

·      Why Communication Is Crucial For Sexual Confidence

·      How Promescent’s Patented Formula Avoids Numbing Your Partner

·      Tips For Introducing Delay Sprays Without Hurting Feelings

·      The Psychological Boost Of Feeling In Control During Intimacy

·      Why Quality Sex Toys And Lubes Are Investments In Your Wellbeing

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In this episode, we explore the habits that often go unnoticed but can have a lasting impact on sexual satisfaction and emotional connection. You'll hear a variety of insights, from the importance of non-verbal communication and slowing down intimacy, to the roles of sensuality, presence, and emotional security. Each expert brings their unique lens, offering practical tips and surprising truths drawn from decades of experience.

Whether you're in a long-term relationship or just looking to deepen your sexual self-awareness, this episode offers honest, shame-free advice. From addressing awkward moments with humor to reframing masculinity and creating space for meaningful conversation, this is an invitation to rethink how we approach pleasure, intimacy, and connection.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Importance Of Reading Non-Verbal Cues

·      How Sincere Appreciation Boosts Intimacy

·      The Need To Prioritize Presence Over Performance

·      Why Slowing Down Can Deepen Pleasure

·      Connection Between Excitement And Blocked Orgasms

·      How Playfulness Can Ease Bedroom Awkwardness

·      The Role Of Masculinity In Creating Safety

·      Why Scheduling A Sexy Talk Matters

·      How Porn Has Shaped Misleading Expectations

·      Using Sensuality To Awaken The Body’s Reflexes

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In this heartfelt episode, Glenn and Phyllis share their personal story of early sexual struggles and emotional disconnect in their marriage, which eventually led them on a lifelong quest for answers. Married since 1982, they recount decades of feeling lost and misunderstood, highlighting how a lack of emotional education contributed to sexual dissatisfaction and relational distance.

Dr Glenn & Phyllis Hill spent the first 30 years of their marriage living in disconnect. Their first sexual experience sent them into years of avoidance and pain. Dr Glenn was so determined to find out what went wrong that he went back to school & became a Marriage & Family Therapist and a Clinical Sexologist. But, it wasn't until he dug deep into emotional regulation that he discovered the source of all of their disconnect. From there, Dr Glenn & Phyllis created The Connection Codes- a framework to help couples connect emotionally and physically using their 4-minute exercise. 

In this episode, you will hear:

·      The Hills’ Personal Journey

·      Why Emotional Education is Critical for a Healthy Sex Life

·      The Impact of Emotional Wounding on Physical Intimacy

·      How Emotional Dysregulation Disrupts Sexual Desire and Connection

·      The “Four-Minute Tool” for Tuning Into Core Emotions

·      Co-Regulation and Building Emotional Safety With Your Partner

·      The Power of Naming Emotions Like Sadness, Hurt, and Joy

·      How Sexual Banter Can Foster Intimacy Outside the Bedroom

·      Practical Advice for Communicating Emotional Overwhelm

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In this episode, Brittany and I discuss the kinds of conversations couples should be having but often aren’t, especially when it comes to sex. We talk about the importance of discussing how and when to initiate sex, redefining what “counts” as sex, and how understanding each other’s intentions can greatly enhance intimacy. 

Brittany Steffen is the owner and founder of Steffen Counseling Services. She earned her graduate degree in marriage and family therapy from Seattle Pacific University in 2012 and has worked as a therapist in the Seattle area for over a decade. In 2018, she began the process of becoming an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist to meet the growing demand for specialized sex therapy services.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Top Three Conversations Every Couple Should Have About Sex

·      How To Navigate Desire Discrepancy Without Blame

·      Shifting From Yes/No Sex to a Menu of Possibilities

·      Why Defining “Sex” Broadly Can Improve Intimacy

·      Understanding the Emotional Weight of Sexual Rejection

·      How To Talk About Fantasies Without Pressure or Shame

·      Requests vs. Demands: A Key Distinction in Sexual Communication

·      Common Traps That Lead to Sexual Conflict in Long-Term Relationships

·      How Self-Reflection Can Improve Your Sex Life

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Danielle and Celeste share their personal journey of entering the world of sex parties, offering valuable insight into how these experiences can deepen intimacy, spark erotic creativity, and provide healing opportunities for individuals and couples alike.

Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, M.A., are pioneers in intimacy, sexuality, and relationship coaching. Co-founders of the Somatica® Institute, they’ve transformed how love and connection are taught through their experiential, science-based Somatica Method. Together, they’ve trained over 1,000 coaches and helped countless individuals and couples embrace vulnerability, rediscover desire, and create deeply fulfilling relationships.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding the Modern Role of Sex Parties

·      Exploration of Monogamy, Polyamory Relationships

·      The Importance of Clear Communication and Consent

·      How Sex Parties Can Strengthen Emotional Intimacy

·      Navigating Jealousy, Compersion, and Erotic Curiosity

·      Preparation Tips for First-Time Attendees

·      How to Host a Consent-Centered and Inclusive Event

·      The Emotional Core Behind Erotic Desires

·      Addressing Relationship Misconceptions Around Opening Up

·      Resources for Finding and Learning About Sex-Positive Communities

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In our conversation, we explore the difference between fantasy and desire, and why not every fantasy needs to be acted upon. Tia offers practical advice on how couples can decide whether a threesome is right for them, including how to assess trust, emotional safety, and shared curiosity. We also talk about the importance of open dialogue, emotional preparation, and creating safe, judgment-free zones to explore these conversations.

Tia Lynn is a TEDX speaker, host of the Sexy Biz Babe podcast and a Sex & Intimacy coach. She loves to help high-achieving women tap into their feminine energy, reignite their sexy confidence to have the best sex of their life. Her methods are known to increase self-confidence, income, and better sex!

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding the Fantasy vs. Reality of Threesomes

·      How to Know If You and Your Partner Are Ready

·      Importance of Trust, Communication, and Consent

·      Common Emotional Pitfalls to Avoid

·      Tips for Bringing Up the Topic with Your Partner

·      Where and How to Meet a Potential Third

·      Screening for Safety and Emotional Compatibility

·      Setting Boundaries and Managing Jealousy

·      Initiating Intimacy Without Awkwardness

·      Why Aftercare Is Just as Important as the Act Itself

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In our conversation, Rain breaks down the differences (and similarities) between prostate massage and milking, highlighting how both are often misunderstood. We explore how performance anxiety, shame, and cultural taboos can shape our sexual experiences - and how embracing pleasure as a valid goal can be deeply healing.

Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model, Pro Domme, and competitive wrestler, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style. She believes strongly in making sex education fun and engaging.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding Prostate Massage vs. Milking

·      Why Performance Pressure Reduces Pleasure

·      The Myth of Proven Health Benefits

·      Pleasure as a Valid, Healing Goal

·      How Anxiety Impacts Sexual Function

·      Practical Safety Tips for Anal Play

·      The Link Between Shame and Patriarchal Norms

·      Prostate Play Without Penetration

·      Navigating Prostate Stimulation with Toys

·      The Value of Sex Education and Ongoing Learning

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In this episode, Anna shares her fascinating journey from working in big tech to creating Lioness, a company rooted in data-driven pleasure and sexual wellness. We dive into how her cultural upbringing shaped her early relationship with sexuality and how she turned a personal healing journey into a revolutionary tool that helps people explore their bodies. 

Anna Lee is the co-founder and CEO of Lioness, the startup that built the world’s first and only smart vibrator that helps improves sexual pleasure through biofeedback orgasm data and research. Anna was previously a mechanical engineer at Amazon, launching the Amazon Dash Button and the Kindle Voyage. She was most recently named one of Newsweek’s 10 Innovators Disrupting Healthcare as well as Forbes 30 Under 30. Realizing the underrepresentation of women engineers in sextech and the lack of research, Anna has made it a mission to expand understanding and research in sexual pleasure.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Anna Lee’s Journey From Tech to Pleasure Innovation

·      How Lioness Tracks and Visualizes Orgasm Patterns

·      The Role of Engineering in Designing for Female Pleasure

·      The Cultural Taboo Around Female Masturbation

·      Cannabis and Caffeine as Orgasm Enhancers

·      The Science Behind Pelvic Floor Contractions

·      Data Insights on Age and Orgasm Strength

·      Addressing the Orgasm Gap with Research and Tech

·      The Importance of Curiosity in Sexual Wellness

·      Empowerment Through Pleasure and Knowledge

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In this powerful episode, William shares his story of growing up in rural Alabama and eventually becoming a national LGBTQ+ rights advocate, culminating in a landmark U.S. Supreme Court case that changed anti-discrimination laws forever. He also takes us into the world of male enhancement, where he developed  PhalloFILL - a minimally invasive girth enhancement technique that has transformed the lives of countless men, both physically and emotionally.

William Moore is the founder of the Dallas-based biohacking clinic AdvancedYOU and the visionary Founder of PhalloFILL®, the leading network for non-surgical penile girth enhancement. After launching in 2021, PhalloFILL now spans nearly 30 U.S. markets, Mexico City, and Montreal, solidifying its status as the largest and most accessible treatment for penile girth enhancement. Beyond the clinics, Moore is the President of the Texas Med Spa Association, advocating for LGBTQ+ rights and healthcare equality. 

In this episode, you will hear:

·      William’s Journey From Rural Alabama to Advocacy

·      LGBTQ+ Rights Victory at the Supreme Court

·      The Birth of  PhalloFILL Male Enhancement Procedure

·      Why Girth Matters More Than Length in Pleasure

·      Risks of Unsafe Filler Practices in Enhancement

·      The Role of Confidence in Sexual and Social Life

·      Scientific Innovation Behind the PhalloSleeve Device

·      Real-Life Impact on Relationships and Self-Esteem

·      Training Physicians Nationwide for Safe Procedures

·      Breaking Taboos Around Male Body Conversations

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A lifelong entrepreneur, Susan is CEO of two companies. The 20, founded in 2019, is a supplement company specializing in libido support for sexual vitality. Based on the 80/20 rule, which states that 80% of your results are due to 20% of your efforts - if only you know what 20% to choose. The 20’s blood flow supplement, libido vitamins, and sexual energy bars FLOW and DESIRE make the “what to choose” dilemma a no-brainer by providing the just-right balance of vitamins and botanicals to deliver noticeable results.

Through Personal Life Media, founded in 2006, Susan has authored and published 34 books and programs, including Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed®️ Video Collection, and her Amazon #1 International Bestseller, Sexual Soulmates: The Six Essentials for Connected Sex. Over 1,250,000 copies of her books have been enjoyed by lovers worldwide.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding Sexual Biohacking and Its Benefits

·      How Blood Flow Affects Arousal and Pleasure

·      The Role of Hormones in Sexual Wellness

·      Regenerative Therapies for Sexual Health

·      Tools and Techniques for Female Rejuvenation

·      Male Enhancement Methods and Their Effectiveness

·      The Science Behind the "Use It or Lose It" Concept

·      Psychological Factors That Impact Desire

·      Practical Tips for Boosting Libido and Function

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In our conversation, Lynn shares how their journey into professional piercing led them to discover the erotic and ritualistic aspects of needle play. We explore the ways in which controlled pain can serve as a tool for self-discovery, healing, and even reclaiming one's body. 

Lynn has been professionally piercing since 2011, facilitating body suspensions since 2013, and doing play piercings since 2013. They have a passion for everything hook and piercing related, and since their first piercing they have been immensely drawn to the craft.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding What Needle Play Is and Its Various Forms

·      The Overlap Between Professional Piercing and Kink Exploration

·      How Needle Play Can Be Used for Healing and Self-Empowerment

·      The Role of Trust, Consent, and Safety in Needle Play

·      The Psychological and Emotional Impact of Engaging in This Practice

·      The Historical Ties Between Needle Play and Queer Leather Culture

·      Common Myths and Misconceptions About Needles in BDSM

·      How Individuals Can Explore Needle Play for the First Time

·      The Importance of Education and Safe Practices in Needle Play

·      Resources for Learning More About This Fascinating Kink

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Ariel opens up about her early fascination with power dynamics, how she discovered the BDSM community, and how modeling helped her embrace her sexuality. We also discuss the impact of growing up in a restrictive religious environment, the misconceptions surrounding BDSM, and why trust and mutual respect are at the core of these dynamics. 

Ariel Anderssen is a BDSM model and author with a lifetime's interest in submission and masochism. She released her first book, playing to lose, in 2023, where she charts her journey from a strict religious upbringing to becoming a shame-free, widely recognised BDSM performer. She's currently writing her second book.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      How Early Fantasies Can Shape Adult Sexuality

·      Nature vs. Nurture: Are We Born Kinky?

·      Ariel’s Transition from a Religious Upbringing to the BDSM Scene

·      The Role of Trust and Communication in BDSM Dynamics

·      How Nude Modeling Helped Ariel Heal Her Relationship with Her Body

·      Breaking Free from Shame and Embracing Kink

·      Misconceptions About BDSM in Popular Media

·      Tips for Dominants to Create a More Fulfilling Experience for Their Partners

·      The Importance of Aftercare and Emotional Connection in BDSM

·      Where to Find Resources for Exploring Kink Safely

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In this episode, Dr. Alexandria shares how her journey into Tantra began through yoga and how she seamlessly integrates spiritual and sexual wellness into her work. We discuss the misconceptions surrounding Tantra, emphasizing that it’s more than just sexual positions - it's a philosophy that celebrates the body and pleasure as pathways to deeper awareness.

Dr. Alexandria Saunders is a sexologist, tantra coach, and pleasure activist dedicated to cultivating spaces of safety. With a doctorate in sexology and countless clinical and spiritual trainings and certifications, Alexandria allows her wisdom to guide her toward offering the medicine of her heart, which is to help others heal trauma and reintegrate their sexuality so they can wholly embody pleasure. As a medicine woman, Alexandria walks with people as they discover the depths of bliss hidden behind their scars. Healing trauma, reintegrating sexuality, and embodying pleasure are all guideposts of her work. 

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding Yoni Massage And Its Role In Tantra

·      The Connection Between Sexuality, Spirituality, And Healing

·      How Trauma And Cultural Conditioning Affect Our Relationship With Pleasure

·      Practical Steps To Incorporate Yoni Massage Into Solo And Partnered Practices

·      The Importance Of Presence, Breathwork, And Energy Awareness

·      How To Navigate Vulnerability And Emotional Releases During The Practice

·      Addressing Body Shame And Cultivating Self-Acceptance

·      Why Removing Goal-Oriented Thinking Enhances The Experience

·      Tips For Givers On Maintaining Presence And Intuition In Touch

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In this episode, Catherine shares her personal journey into Tantra, how she integrates it into couples therapy, and why it’s a transformative tool for fostering intimacy. We discuss the importance of embodiment, the challenge of transitioning from daily responsibilities into a sensual mindset, and practical beginner-friendly meditation techniques.

Catherine Auman, LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist) is a spiritual psychotherapist and the Director of The Transpersonal Center in Los Angeles, California. She has advanced training in traditional psychology as well as the wisdom traditions. Catherine lived for a year at the Osho ashram in India – a full-time immersion in tantra and meditation – and she has studied and practiced tantra, love, sex, intimacy, and seduction with numerous teachers.

In this episode, you will hear:

●      Catherine’s Journey into Tantra and Marriage & Family Therapy

●      Understanding Tantra as a Path to Deepened Intimacy

●      The Role of Embodiment in Sensual Awareness

●      How Modern Culture Disconnects Us from Our Bodies

●      Simple Tantric Practices to Bring Consciousness into the Body

●      The Importance of Tuning Into Sensations Rather Than Focusing on Orgasm

●      Yab-Yum: A Powerful Position for Heart-Centered Connection

●      The Concept of Holding Space Without Performance Anxiety

●      How Rituals Can Transform Intimate Experiences

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Pauline Ryeland, Intimacy Whisperer ® has been working as an Intimacy, Sex & Libido Coach & Educator for over 13 years.  She is certified as a Somatic Sexological Body Worker, Tantra Teacher & Facilitator and a Master Trainer & Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and a Havening Techniques™ Trauma Specialist.

Pauline recently wrote a book titled, Empowered Conscious Sexuality - From Prude to Pleasure and works as a Transformational Coach and Leader, having worked with thousands of individuals and couples around challenges they may be experiencing with intimacy, sex, libido, relationships and everything in between. She is passionate about educating people in the bedroom and leading people to living their best lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

●      The Power Of Eye Gazing In Creating Deeper Connection

●      How Breathwork Can Enhance Intimacy And Arousal

●      The Undressing Ceremony As A Sensual Prelude To Connection

●      Overcoming The Initial Awkwardness Of Tantric Practices

●      Using Tantric Breathing To Transition From Stress To Sensuality

●      Rituals For Awakening Sexual Energy And Desire

●      How To Address Low Libido Through Mindset And Practice

●      Breaking Out Of Routine To Reignite Passion In Relationships

●      Healing Emotional Blocks That Impact Sexual Intimacy

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Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu are active daters turned dating insiders, and top influential voices of modern dating, relationships, and connection in the digital world. They’re the authors of How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love and the co-hosts of the hit podcast Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts about modern dating and relationships by the New York Times, The Huffington Post, Oprah Daily, and more. They’re also the hosts and executive producers of the dating experiment show Exit Interview. 

Julie brings her background in human-centered design and qualitative research, while Yue shares her experience as a dating coach.

In this episode, you will hear:

• Why Modern Dating Feels Harder Than Ever
• The Paralysis Of Choice In The Age Of Dating Apps
• How To Break Free From Endless Texting Without Meeting
• Why Ghosting Happens And How To Emotionally Detach From It
• The Importance Of Vulnerability In Building Genuine Connections
• Understanding Your Dating Archetype And How It Impacts Your Love Life
• How To Navigate Online Dating Without Feeling Burnt Out
• When And Why Taking A Break From Dating Can Be Beneficial
• Practical Tips For Making Dating Apps Work For You

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Evan Marc Katz became the world’s first dating coach in 2003, specialising in helping smart, successful women create lasting love. He is the author of four books, his Love U podcast has over 2 million downloads, and he has been featured in hundreds of media outlets, including Today, The New York Times, and The Wall Street Journal.

It’s an unlikely career for a man - especially one who was once called a “serial dater” by CNN - yet that’s exactly what makes Katz so unique. By helping women understand men - what they think, how they act, and what they want - he encourages them to raise the bar on what they expect from relationships and never again settle for anything less than they deserve.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      The Importance Of Choosing The Right Partner Over Just Chemistry

·      How Attraction Can Sometimes Lead To Poor Relationship Choices

·      Why Many Women Feel They "Attract The Wrong Men"

·      The Role Of Childhood Patterns In Dating Decisions

·      How To Identify Red Flags Early In The Dating Process

·      Why Slowing Down Dating Can Lead To Better Long-Term Results

·      The Difference Between Men Looking For Sex Versus Love

·      How To Set Boundaries Without Losing Connection

·      The Importance Of Sexual Compatibility In A Relationship

·      Practical Tips For Navigating Online Dating Successfully

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In this episode, we discuss why ghosting has become so prevalent, how attachment styles shape our approach to vulnerability, and why online dating can often feel like a rollercoaster. We also reflect on the importance of self-awareness when navigating relationships, and share tips on determining your readiness for dating. 

Richard “Dr. E” Espinoza, PsyD, is a leading clinical psychologist based in Los Angeles, specializing in trauma and resilience. His practice emphasizes serving the LGBTQ+ community and its allies, striving to empower individuals from diverse backgrounds through comprehensive psychological assessments, transformative talk therapy, and dedicated activism. As an esteemed professor and captivating speaker, Dr. Espinoza shares practical insights on self-discovery and personal growth. He also creates accessible self-help resources, designed to inspire personal transformation and a deeper sense of fulfillment.

In this episode, you will hear:

• The Prevalence Of Ghosting And Its Psychological Impact
• How Attachment Styles Affect Vulnerability In Dating
• Why Many People Struggle To Build Lasting Connections Online
• Tips For Assessing Your Readiness For A Relationship
• The Importance Of Open Conversations About Sex Early In Dating
• Addressing Misconceptions About Open Relationships
• Why Matchmaking Services Can Be Helpful But Have Mixed Results
• The Value Of In-Person Events For Building Genuine Connections
• How Cultural And Personal Values Shape Relationship Expectations
• Insights Into Our Upcoming Matchmaking Event, The LA Love Lab

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Veronica sheds light on the ripple effects these changes can have - how they may foster feelings of resentment, diminish intimacy, and lead to relational obstacles like stonewalling. This discussion highlights the value of self-awareness, honest dialogue, and healing from past emotional wounds to nurture a deeper, more fulfilling connection with partners.

Listeners also learn about EmpowerX, Veronica’s program designed to help women strike a harmonious balance between career success and personal happiness. Sexology Podcast listeners can use code: THANKYOU100 and save $100

In this episode, you will hear:

·      The Impact Of Shifting Gender Roles On Relationships

·      Navigating Masculine Energy And Intimacy Challenges

·      Resentment And Its Role In Relationship Disconnect

·      How Financial Power Dynamics Affect Libido

·      Addressing Stonewalling And Communication Barriers

·      Reclaiming Desire Through Self-Reflection

·      Balancing Professional Success And Personal Fulfilment

·      EmpowerX: A Blueprint For High-Achieving Women

·      Healing Past Pains To Foster Emotional Connection

·      Rediscovering Pleasure And Intimacy In Relationships

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Bel Di Lorenzo is a women’s sexual health advocate, and the author of the bestselling book, The Gohddess Method. Her science-based approach is designed to help women master “vaginal gymnastics”: pelvic floor muscle exercises that enhance female pleasure and amplify orgasms. 

Their mission is to help women all over the world understand and master their bodies to enhance their well-being, pleasure, and overall lives. They are obsessed with self actualization, and want to push research to better investigates how the female anatomy can thrive. As sex nerds they have been teaching hundreds of thousands of women the art of Vaginal Gymnastics through a practical, science-backed approach.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      The Origins And Cultural Significance Of Pompoir

·      Transforming Sexual Health With Vaginal Gymnastics

·      Breaking Down The Science Behind Pompoir

·      Overcoming Sexual Trauma And Building Confidence

·      Practical Exercises For Pelvic Floor Mastery

·      Enhancing Relationships Through Intimacy And Control

·      From Beginners To Experts: Tailored Training Programs

·      Combining Fitness Principles With Sexual Empowerment

·      Historical Legends Of Sexual Dexterity And Power

·      Unlocking New Levels Of Feminine Sensuality

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Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she understands the complex societal challenges that lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. 

She has pioneered research on the orgasm gap, heterosexual dynamics, and queer and trans experiences. She has extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and Somatica Method. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers coaching to support her clients to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy.

In this episode, you will hear:

●      How Common Fantasies Include Bdsm, Group Play, and Taboo Themes

●      Guilt Around Fantasies is Normal; Understanding Emotions Helps

●      Communicating Fantasies Requires Empathy and No-pressure Framing

●      Saying “No” Strengthens Trust and Intimacy in Relationships

●      Roleplay and Erotica Are Safe Ways to Explore Desires

●      Creativity in Fantasies Can Be Expanded Through Journaling

●      Respecting Boundaries Prevents Resentment and Deepens Connection

●      Why Desire Discrepancy Requires Open, Pressure-free Dialogue

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We’ll explore strategies for achieving a more exciting and passionate sex life, as well as sharing personal advice, emphasizing the importance of seeking help early for sexual concerns and the availability of various resources to improve sexual health.

The episode will feature insights from Dr. Stephanie Buehler, a psychologist and sex therapist whose current focus is on helping therapists and healthcare providers get the education and training they need to help clients with sexual concerns. 

Raven O'Rourke, LCSW, MPH, a certified sex therapist working with high-achieving professionals in Tennessee. Lorean "L" Cassidy, a recent graduated with a Master's degree in Sexology and has been working as a sexual health educator in New York City for three years.

Mallory Hanfling, LCSW, a sex therapist in Philadelphia specializing in work with the late-in-life or firefly community. Dr. Evan Goldstein, Founder & CEO of Bespoke Surgical and the Co-Founder of Future Method and Adam Fields, M.A., LMFT, CST, an AASECT certified sex therapist, specializing in treating desire problems, couples affected by infidelity, compulsive sexual behavior, erectile difficulties and a myriad of other sexual issues.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      How Unrealistic Expectations and Silence Hinder Sexual Satisfaction

·      Why Communication is Key to Resolving Sexual Issues

·      Seeking Help Early to Address Sexual Challenges

·      Avoid Comparing Sex Lives to Media or Others

·      How Planned Intimacy Strengthens Long-term Relationships

·      Why Sex is About Connection, Not Just Orgasm

·      Defining Your Own Sexual Norms and Preferences

·      Understanding That Gradual Preparation is Crucial for Safe Anal Sex

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Keely Rankin, a leading sex and relationship coach based in San Francisco, has been helping men, women, and couples overcome intimacy challenges and achieve fulfilling sexual experiences since 2010. She holds a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology with a focus on marriage and family therapy from John F. Kennedy University. Keely is the co-founder of BetterSexEd.org and the co-creator of Sex as Meditation, an innovative workshop series that integrates mindfulness with sexuality.

Her credentials include being a Certified Somatica Method Practitioner (a relational and experiential body-based therapy), Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Certified Queer Conscious Educator, and training in Hakomi Therapy, a somatic and mindfulness-based method. She is also trained in Recreation of the Self, a system designed to help individuals live authentically and maintain deep, undivided relationships.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Practical Tips For Choosing Positions

·      Common Mistakes Couples Make

·      Building Confidence In The Bedroom

·      Adapting Positions For All Body Types

·      Communicating Effectively With Your Partner

·      Managing Premature Ejaculation

·      Addressing Delayed Orgasm

·      Adding Playfulness To Intimacy

·      Tools Like Swings And Wedge Pillows

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Dr. Debby Herbenick is an internationally recognized sexual and reproductive health professor, researcher, and educator.

She is a Provost Professor at the Indiana University School of Public Health and director of the Center for Sexual Health Promotion.For more than 20 years, she has dedicated her efforts to understanding how people experience their bodies and sexual lives.

Among her 200+ peer-reviewed scientific publications, she has published on population-level sexual health issues (including Zika knowledge and adolescent/young adult sexuality education), college sexual health, and changing sexual behavior trends. Dr. Herbenick has also developed and validated measurement scales to assess genital self-image (which can be thought of as how people feel about their genitals and is relevant to people’s willingness to seek healthcare) as well as sexual pleasure.

In this episode, you will hear:

●      Sexting As Part Of Adolescent Development

●      State Laws And Legal Risks Of Sexting

●      Educating Teens To Reduce Risky Behaviors

●      Open Communication Between Parents And Teens

●      Sexting Risks And Practices For Adults

●      Privacy Protection And Harm Reduction Tips

●      AI-Generated Nudes And Their Impact

●      Trusted Adults To Support Teens’ Education

●      Dr. Herbenick’s New Book On Teen Sexual Health

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Dr. Gerner shared the challenges that femtech continues to face, including biases in funding and the persistent societal taboos surrounding women's health. Our conversation highlighted just how critical this technology is for advancing women’s health, while also emphasizing the need for increased visibility and investment in this space.

Marina Gerner is an award-winning journalist who has written about finance, tech and culture for publications including The Economist, Financial Times, Wired, The Times, Wall Street Journal, and more. Hailed as "a Renaissance woman of the modern age," she brings a unique interdisciplinary perspective. Marina is also an Adjunct Professor at NYU Stern School of Business and holds a PhD from the London School of Economics. Born in Kyiv, she has lived in Frankfurt, New York, and London.

In this episode, you will hear:

●      A Quick Overview of Her Book on Femtech

●      The Systemic Biases Against Female Health Products

●      Innovations Like the Smart Bra for Heart Health

●      The Challenges Facing Female Health Innovators

●      Why Sexual Pleasure is a Vital Part of Health

●      Underfunded Areas Like Pregnancy Loss and Incontinence

●      Breaking Through Taboos in Women’s Health

●      Social Media Censorship Challenges for Female Health Products

●      Exciting Future Trends in Sex Tech

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Our conversation looks into the misconceptions surrounding sex work, the complexities of juggling multiple roles, and how sex work has profoundly shaped Alyssa's perspective. Alyssa also opens up about her documentary, A Sex Worker's Guide to Parenting, which shines a light on the specific struggles sex-working parents face, including navigating co-parenting, legal hurdles, and finding community support. 

Alyssa Brayboy is an independent filmmaker and the Co-Founder and President of Buttons, a Black and Latina female-owned production company that focuses on amplifying underrepresented and diverse voices in front of, and behind the camera. Alyssa has been an independent full service escort for 6 years and is a member of Sex Workers Outreach Project Los Angeles (SWOPLA).

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Alyssa's Background and Journey to Filmmaking

·      Starting a Production Company

·      Diving into Sex Work

·      First Experiences in Sex Work

·      Challenges and Realizations

·      Public Perception and Stigma

·      Outing and Personal Safety

·      The Sex Worker's Guide to Parenting

·      Future of Sex Work Rights and Representation

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In this conversation we touched on her decision to enter the industry, the autonomy and financial independence it brought her, and the profound challenges she faced—such as the trauma of being outed by a pimp. Together, we explored the pervasive stigma surrounding sex work and the misconceptions that often obscure the humanity and depth of individuals in the industry. Amy’s story is one of resilience, personal growth, and a commitment to advocacy, which made this dialogue incredibly meaningful.

Amy Taylor is an MBA, MENSA member, commercially licensed pilot who’s flown cargo, charter and been a flight instructor.  She’s been featured on and inside Elle, L’Officiel, Sports Illustrated, GQ, FHM, Maxim, Muscle & Fitness, Men’s Health, Women’s Fitness, and Playboy.  Now in her 40s, she’s just getting started!  When she’s not in the skies or in front of a camera, you can find her staying fit, having fun with family and friends, and generally just enjoying this gift called life, in Manhattan or wherever life takes her.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Amy's Path to Sex Work

·      Combating Stigma and Advocating for Change

·      Navigating Personal Struggles and Legal Issues

·      Thoughts on Legalization and Society’s Role

·      Exploring the Dehumanization of Women

·      Breaking the Stigma Around Sexuality

·      The Nuances of Client Relationships

·      Personal Insights and Reflections

·      Advocacy and Humanizing Sex Workers

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Angie/ Soleil (she/ they) is a licensed clinical social worker, AASECT certified sex therapist and supervisor, group facilitator, and sex worker. While their sex therapy and sex work clientele never overlap, a similar wealth of psychological, emotional and erotic knowledge integrates into every aspect of their work. 

Soleil strives to combine technology and sexuality efficiently and creatively, including sex tech and VR/ XR intersections, as well as digital teaching, client and play offerings. In addition to sexuality, they are a new mom, and love art, music, dance, nature, cultural exploration and learning Spanish.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Soleil Miroir's Background and Journey

·      Understanding Sex Work and Its Diversity

·      Personal Experiences and Empowerment in Sex Work

·      Navigating Dual Identities

·      Challenges and Misconceptions in Therapy

·      Systemic Oppression and Its Impact

·      Equitable Care Certification

·      Supporting Sex Workers and Advocacy

·      Creating Equitable Care Certification

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Suzannah Weiss is a writer and sexologist based in Los Angeles. She is the author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject, which describes her search for sexual empowerment and her vision for a world where women are subjects, not just objects, of desire. She has written over 8800 articles, which have appeared in publications such as The New York Times and The Washington Post. 

As a sex educator certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, Suzannah has taught courses and given talks on topics including consent, orgasms, childbirth, non-monogamy, and neurodiversity. She is regularly quoted as an expert in publications like Cosmopolitan and Men's Health as resident sexologist for Biird and also works as a sex/love coach, birth doula, and sexual assault counselor. 

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Reflecting on ‘Subjectified’: A Discussion on Body and Identity

·      How Societal Standards Influence Self-Perception and Self-Worth

·      Reconnecting With and Celebrating the Body

·      Examining the Male Gaze and Its Effect on Women’s Body Image

·      Healing Through Self-Acceptance and Embracing Body Positivity

·      Challenging and Redefining Harmful Beauty Norms

·      Navigating Media’s Role in Shaping Self-Perception

·      Embracing Authenticity in Personal Appearance Choices

·      Advice for Nurturing Personal Sexual Empowerment

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In this episode, we explore the complex and often misunderstood fears that heterosexual men experience in relationships, especially when it comes to showing vulnerability. Drawing from his background as a psychotherapist, Dr. Weiss shares how deeply these fears are rooted in early life and shaped by societal messages about masculinity.

We discuss everything from evolutionary influences and the role of early maternal attachment to the cultural pressures men face. Dr. Weiss offers practical strategies, including the value of men’s groups, to help foster emotional openness. We also look at how understanding these fears can create more empathy between partners and lead to stronger, more resilient relationships.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Insights From Dr. Weiss's Book

·      The Roots of Men’s Fears in Relationships

·      A Look at the Still Face Experiment

·      Evolutionary Views on Male Vulnerability

·      Concerns About Control and Abandonment

·      How Masculinity is Culturally Reinforced

·      Therapeutic Approaches and Support Groups

·      Why Taking Risks and Embracing Vulnerability Matters

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Dr. Justin is an Emergency Medicine (EM) specialist and healthcare technology consultant in erectile neuromodulation, cardiovascular disease, and diabetes. He spent 25 years practicing EM and directing ERs. In 2004, he started the second oldest telemedicine company, SwiftMD. 

In 2008, he established Pegasus Emergency Group, an EM company that staffed more than 30 ERs nationwide and won awards for its customer service. Dr. Justin has founded six healthcare companies and exited four of them, as well advising as several service, telemedicine, and tech startups. 

In this episode, you will hear:

·       Innovative Approaches to Men’s Sexual Health

·       The Benefits of Regular Sexual Activity

·       Navigating Challenges in Sexual Health Conversations

·       Addressing Ejaculation Concerns

·       Impact of Medications and Illness on Sexual Health

·       Cock Rings: Uses and Benefits

·       Objective Measurements for Men's Health

·       Counseling’s Role in Sexual Health

·       Managing Performance Anxiety and Relationship Issues

·       Adding Variety to Sexual Experiences

·       Addressing Erectile Dysfunction Over 50

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Gabriela Rosa is a fertility specialist, reproductive health educator, and Harvard University-awarded scholar and an accomplished and experienced business leader and entrepreneur. Gabriela created the world’s first entirely virtual and holistic fertility clinic. As the founder and CEO of The Rosa Institute, which currently serves patients in every continent (other than Antarctica), Gabriela leads a team of holistic specialists.

Her treatment methodology has become an authority in its industry for identifying and addressing biochemical obstacles that guide couples in overcoming infertility and recurrent miscarriage, despite previous reproductive difficulties and failed treatments. Through various programs, Gabriela and her team have educated over 140,000 couples in more than 110 countries. She is also the host of the TalkSex with Gabriela RosaTM podcast.

In this episode, you will hear:

·       Personal Fertility Journey

·       Challenges in Male Fertility

·       Systemic Issues in Fertility Treatments

·       Importance of Comprehensive Testing

·       Personal Experiences and Insights

·       Male Fertility: Key Factors and Recommendations

·       Case Studies and Success Stories

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Justin Birckbichler is the Director of Project Management at Savvy Cooperative, an innovative healthcare platform that connects patients with healthcare companies to provide valuable insights and feedback. In this role, Justin oversees the planning, implementation, and tracking of multiple projects that aim to empower patients to share their experiences and knowledge with the healthcare industry. 

As a survivor of testicular cancer, he started the blog "A Ballsy Sense of Tumor" to share his story and raise awareness about men’s health issues. He has further spread his message by performing a TEDx talk on the importance of early detection of testicular cancer. Outside of the health field, Justin enjoys spending time with his family, traveling, and cooking.

In this episode, you will hear:

·       Discovering Testicular Cancer

·       Diagnosis and Immediate Actions

·       Emotional Impact and Coping Mechanisms

·       Prevalence and Awareness of Testicular Cancer

·       Fertility Concerns and Solutions

·       Using Humor to Cope

·       Encouraging Men to Prioritize Health

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Dr. Justin Houman is a urologist and fellowship-trained Male Reproductive Medicine and Surgery specialist, whose practice is focused on men’s health, include male hormone management, sexual and ejaculatory dysfunction, male fertility, male incontinence, and Peyronie’s disease. As a minimally-invasive microscopic surgeon, he specializes in microsurgical varicocelectomies, vasectomy reversals, sperm retrievals, penile implants, Peyronie’s disease, and male incontinence.  Dr. Houman’s practice is centered on enhancing men’s quality of life through hormone management, improving sexual function, and achieving reproductive goals.

In his academic pursuits, Dr. Houman has published multiple manuscripts on Men’s Health, male fertility, and the health effects of wearable technology. 

Dr. Houman’s studies have been published in peer-reviewed journals such as the Journal of the American Medical Association and the Journal of Sexual Medicine. He has also presented his research at the national and international levels.

In this episode, you will hear:

·       Understanding Delayed Orgasm

·       Causes of Delayed Orgasm

·       Penile Sensitivity and Aging

·       Psychological vs. Physiological Factors

·       Impact of Medications

·       Alternative Therapies and Placebo Effect

·       Emerging Treatments and Techniques

·       Addressing Sexual Health Concerns

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Dr. Justin Dubin is a Urologist who specializes in Men's Health at Memorial Healthcare System in South Florida. Justin grew up in Wayne, NJ and graduated from Johns Hopkins University in 2010 with a BA in Biology and Minor in Entrepreneurship and Management. He then attended Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson Medical School which he graduated from in 2016. 

Dr. Dubin completed his training in Urology at the University of Miami in 2021 and his Andrology fellowship at Northwestern University in 2022.  Dr. Dubin is passionate about men’s health and education with the goal of improving both the lives of men and their partners. 

He has published multiple papers on both male infertility and sexual health, has been quoted in the NY Times, Insider, GQ and Men’s Health and is the current co-host of the men’s health podcast Man Up: A Doctor’s Guide to Men’s Health through which he hopes to destigmatize men's health topics and motivate men to improve their overall lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

·       Dr. Justin Dubin's Background and Research

·       Understanding Erectile Dysfunction

·       Factors Contributing to Erectile Dysfunction

·       Porn Stars and Erectile Dysfunction

·       Addressing Erectile Dysfunction with Medication

·       Penile Size and Cosmetic Enhancements

·       Female Sexual Dysfunction in Adult Entertainment

·       Penile Size and Sexual Satisfaction

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Tracy Gapin, MD is the founder and CEO of the Gapin Institute, the Leader in Precision Medicine. He’s a board-certified urologist and world renowned men’s health & performance expert with over 25 years of experience focused on men’s health optimization, performance and longevity.  Recognizing our traditional healthcare system is broken, he created the proprietary Gapin Precision Method and G1 Program for High Performance Health, designed to help entrepreneurs optimize their mind and body so they can be the best version of themselves.

He’s a member of the American Academy of Anti-Aging, Age Management Medical Group, and the International Peptide Society. He’s a thought leader, a TEDx speaker, and the author of the best-selling books Male 2.0 and Codes of Longevity. He’s been featured on NBC, Entrepreneur Magazine, and Dave Asprey’s Biohacking Conference.

In this episode, you will hear:

·       Foundational Habits for Male Sexual Health

·       Understanding Sexual Health Beyond the Physical

·       The Importance of Vascular Health

·       Hormones and Sexual Performance

·       The Role of Cortisol and Stress

·       Diet and Nutrition for Sexual Health

·       Blood Sugar Regulation: Carbs and Protein

·       Hydration and Blood Sugar's Impact on Sexual Health

·       Fasting: Benefits and Best Practices

·       The Truth About Ozempic and Weight Loss

·       Early Signs of Sexual Health Issues in Men

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Dr. Watter is an AASECT-certified sex therapy supervisor and has been elected to Fellowship Status in the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health (ISSWSH) and the Sexual Medicine Society of North America (SMSNA). In addition to his clinical practice, Dr. Watter has held several faculty appointments. Currently, he is a faculty member at the University of Michigan School of Social Work’s Sexual Certification Program and the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes.

A frequent lecturer at professional meetings throughout North America, Dr. Watter is the author of more than 30 professional articles and book chapters on topics such as sexual function and dysfunction, and ethics in healthcare practice. He is the author of the recently released book, “The Existential Importance of the Penis: A Guide to Understanding Male Sexuality”.

In this episode, you will hear:

●      Understanding Male Sexual Communication

●      War Veterans and the Existential Crisis of Losing the Penis

●      Medical Interventions and Psychological Impacts

●      The Deepening Relationship and Erectile Unpredictability

●      Existential Psychotherapy and Sexual Addiction

●      Sexual Addiction and Existential Psychotherapy

●      Confrontation with Mortality and Sexual Behavior

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As an Intimacy Coordinator for TV and film, Jean Franzblau helps actors perform sexy scenes with respect and care. This year she made a decision to disclose her private backstory. She is the writer and performer of My Mother Doesn't Know I'm Kinky. 

It's an award-winning solo play which is now on tour. Passionate to share what she has learned, she created the Sexual Bucket List online class. You can find Jean featured in Rolling Stone and as a guest expert on Keeping Up with the Kardashians.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding Kink and Its Cultural Context

·      Media Representation of Kink

·      Personal Experiences and Reflections on Kink

·      Sexual Shame and Healing

·      Discovering Kinks and Early Memories

·      Communicating Desires in Relationships

·      Tools for Safe Exploration of Kinks

·      Understanding Slow Healing Kink

·      Resources and Tools for Exploring Kink

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Tina Horn is a writer, educatrix, and media-maker. Her book of fetish cultural criticism based on her long-running indie podcast Why Are People Into That?! will be out in June 2024 from Hachette. 

Tina is the creator/writer of the sci-fi sex-rebel comic book series Safe Sex (Image), and the cult detective thriller Deprog; she was also the host/cowriter of the phone sex podcast Operator (Wondery). Her reporting on sexual subcultures has appeared in Rolling Stone, Playboy, Hazlitt, Glamour, Jezebel and elsewhere; she is the author of two nonfiction books and has contributed to numerous anthologies including We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival, which she also coedited. 

Tina has lectured on adult entertainment politics and queer BDSM identities at universities and community centers all over North America, and works as an on-set consultant for theater, film, and television including the dominatrix scenes of Pose. She is a LAMBDA Literary Fellow, an AVN nominee, the recipient of two Feminist Porn Awards, and holds an MFA in Creative Nonfiction Writing from Sarah Lawrence. 

In this episode, you will hear:

·       Understanding Anal Sex Myths

·       Anatomy and Safe Practices

·       Exploring Anal Play

·       Fisting and Safety

·       Diet and Hygiene for Anal Health

·       Hemorrhoids and Anal Sex

·       Anal Orgasms and Prostate Stimulation

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Welcome to episode 401 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Evan Goldstein. In this conversation, we discuss his new comprehensive book on anal sex ‘Butt Seriously’, safe practices for anal engagement, the impact of diet on anal health, and the exploration of anal orgasms.

Dr. Evan Goldstein is the leading anal health expert in the United States, founder of Future Method, and one of the few surgeons in the world whose practice, Bespoke Surgical, is dedicated to treating and restoring the human butt. He holds a perennial spot on the list of top doctors for the New York metro area, and Crain’s New York Business lists him as one of its notable LGBTQ+ leaders and executives. 

He has been featured in national publications including GQ, Well+Good, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, New York Magazine, Forbes, Fast Company, Out, and Shape; is a popular podcast guest; and in demand as a speaker for both medical and sex-positive industries.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding Anal Sex Myths

·      Anatomy and Safe Practices

·      Exploring Anal Play

·      Fisting and Safety

·      Diet and Hygiene for Anal Health

·      Hemorrhoids and Anal Sex

·      Anal Orgasms and Prostate Stimulation

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Susan Morgan Taylor graduated from UC Santa Barbara in 1998 and soon after became a licensed massage therapist. However, her true calling lay elsewhere. In 2008, she began formal training in alternative energy healing and the intuitive arts, leading her to a new path as a spiritual teacher, somatic sex therapist, and intuitive healer. Susan's journey was filled with challenges, mistakes, and growth. Her friend and mentor, Teresa Tingle, played a crucial role in her development, providing guidance that went beyond classroom learning. By 2008, Susan was working professionally as a medical intuitive and spiritual guide.

In 2011, Susan earned a master’s degree in Professional Counseling and pursued sex therapy, building a successful practice in Austin, TX. After ten years, she transitioned to focus solely on intimacy and somatic sex coaching for couples and individuals, continuing her dedication to healing and personal growth.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding the Loss of Sexual Charge

·      Reviving Sexual Polarity

·      Embodied Intimacy Practices

·      Creating Space for Passion

·      The Dance of Desire and Communication

·      Clarifying Sexual Intentions

·      Navigating Oral Sex Preferences

·      Blowjob Tips for Enjoyment

·      Cultivating Self-Pleasure

·      Reigniting Passion in Relationships

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Veronica Cisneros is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over seven years of experience. She is also the owner of a group private practice, a mother of three, and has been married for 21 years. Veronica specializes in helping housewives transform their marriages, communicate effectively, and build confidence. She understands the challenges of cutting through communication barriers, having experienced them herself. Despite having what seemed like an ideal life, she and her husband felt disconnected, with conversations often revolving around avoidance, kids' hobbies, and schedules.

In her private practice, Veronica has assisted numerous couples facing similar struggles. Her proven strategies and step-by-step skills have helped hundreds of women reignite their marriages. Known for encouraging women to step outside their comfort zones, Veronica does not offer superficial solutions. Instead, she teaches life-changing healing methods.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Veronica's Love Story: Meeting Willie

·      Maintaining the Spark in Marriage

·      Navigating Resentment and Roles in Marriage

·      Personal Growth Amidst Challenges

·      Curiosity and Relationship Agreements

·      Defining Cheating in Relationships

·      Navigating Fidelity Conversations

·      Understanding Family Scripts

·      Setting Boundaries and Communication

·      Self-Discovery and Independence

·      Feeling Sexy and Confident

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Edy Nathan is a licensed clinical social worker in private practice in New York City. Edy’s work focuses on topics surrounding the tough conversations people don’t like to have — grief, sex, and trauma. Her work in grief, trauma, and sexuality offers insight into the way loss affects the soul and the brain. She uses these insights to breathe new meaning into the lives of those stagnated by loss or trauma.

Edy has master’s degrees in psychology, drama, and social work, and post-graduate work in sex therapy and sex education. She is a Certified Sex Therapist, certified Hypnotherapist, EMDR clinician, drama therapist, Psychology Today blogger, motivational speaker, and workshop leader. Edy is the author of “It’s Grief: The Dance of Self-Discovery through Trauma and Loss.”

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Edy's Journey to Discussing Sexual Grief

·      Defining Sexual Grief

·      Identity and Sexual Trauma

·      Developmental Sexual Grief

·      Sexual Grief and Trauma

·      Clinical Responses

·      First Sexual Experiences

·      Hostage Situation in Grief

·      Curiosity and Exploration

·      Conservative Backgrounds and Shame

·      Recovering from Sexual Grief

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Irene Fehr, MA, CCPC, SEP, Sex & Intimacy Coach helps couples make love and sex work in a long-term relationship and bring sex and passion into sexless ones. Weaving together somatic coaching, mindfulness, emotional communication work and experience around the intricate dynamics of women's sexual desire in a long-term relationship, Irene has developed and successfully applied her holistic Connection SexTM approach with couples who come to her as a last resort before divorce to turn their relationships around towards to include sexual intimacy and passion. Irene is no stranger to her clients’ issues. 

Her personal story of losing her libido and ending up in a sexless marriage all by the time she was 29 has been featured worldwide in more than 40 podcast interviews and in articles in major publications such as HuffPost, Cosmopolitan, Refinery29, Bustle, EliteDaily, and ScaryMommy.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding Highly Sensitive Individuals

·      Sensory Sensitivity Explained

·      Energetic and Emotional Sensitivity

·      Impact of Trauma on Sensitivity

·      Recognizing a Highly Sensitive Partner

·      Navigating Sensitivity in Relationships

·      Pre-Sex Needs for Highly Sensitive People

·      Couple Dynamics and Sensitivity

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Let’s celebrate together! Be sure to follow the Sexology Podcast on Instagram and follow the instructions there to enter this incredible giveaway. It will include items from Clone a Willy, Datebox, and Arya box! 

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We'll explore various theories about where these fantasies come from, including Freud's theories on evolutionary psychology and the perspectives offered by social learning theories. These insights will help us understand the complex nature of our fantasies and their origins.

In addition, we’ll be sharing a wide range of sexual fantasies that have been submitted anonymously by our audience. Our goal is to reduce stigma and diminish feelings of shame surrounding these experiences, offering a safe space for open and honest discussion.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Exploring Sexual Fantasies

·      Freud: The Way Fantasies Reveal Childhood Desires

·      Evolutionary Psychology: Fantasies and Reproductive Success

·      Social Learning: How Our Environment Shapes Fantasies

·      Integrative Approach: Combining Psychological Theories

·      Common Fantasies: Group Sex and Taboo Themes

·      How Cultural Backgrounds Shape Fantasies

·      Normalizing Fantasies for Self-Acceptance

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Let’s celebrate together! Be sure to follow the Sexology Podcast on Instagram and follow the instructions there to enter this incredible giveaway. It will include items from Clone a Willy, Datebox, and Arya box! 

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey

Dr. Olson earned her Bachelor of Science degree from Pacific University, and a Doctorate Degree in Physical Therapy from Regis University, graduating as a member of the Jesuit National Honor Society. She holds a Certification of Achievement in pelvic floor physical therapy (CAPP-PF) from the American Physical Therapy Association, and the Pelvic Floor Practitioner Certification (PRPC) through the Herman and Wallace Pelvic Institute. She is also a certified Stott Pilates instructor and RRCA certified running coach. 

She is the president and chief clinical officer of Intimate Rose where she develops pelvic health products and education.  She is passionate about empowering women and men with pelvic health issues including pelvic pain, incontinence, pregnancy, and post-partum issues. Dr. Olson teaches internationally on various pelvic health topics including pelvic floor dysfunction in runners. She has written newspaper and magazine articles on pelvic floor dysfunction, and running and also authored the book Restoring the Pelvic Floor For Women.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Creating Tools for Pelvic Health

·      Understanding Pelvic Floor Function

·      Pelvic Floor Health Across Genders

·      Impact of Aging on Pelvic Health

·      Pelvic Floor Exercises and Techniques

·      When to See a Pelvic Floor Therapist

·      Tips for Maintaining Pelvic Health

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Richard “Dr. E” Espinoza, PsyD, is a leading clinical psychologist based in Los Angeles, specializing in trauma and resilience. His practice emphasizes serving the LGBTQ+ community and its allies, striving to empower individuals from diverse backgrounds through comprehensive psychological assessments, transformative talk therapy, and dedicated activism. 

As an esteemed professor and captivating speaker, Dr. Espinoza shares practical insights on self-discovery and personal growth. He also creates accessible self-help resources, designed to inspire personal transformation and a deeper sense of fulfillment.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      The Evolution of Online Dating

·      Psychological Challenges of Online Dating

·      The Impact of Ghosting

·      Safety Concerns in Online Dating

·      Introspection and Self-Understanding

·      Sexual Compatibility in Online Dating

·      Alternatives to Online Dating

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After pioneering the field of Sexological Bodywork, partners Chris Maxwell Rose and Charlotte Mia Rose co-created PleasureMechanics.com in 2006 and devoted their lives to generating online resources to support folks in cultivating more erotic pleasure, joy and connection. 

Known for their passionate compassion and game-changing re-frames, Chris and Charlotte guide folks to expand their pleasure and erotic experiences through their erotic touch training and effective erotic education at PleasureMechanics.com. You'll also find their podcast Speaking of Sex with the Pleasure Mechanics on all platforms or at PleasureMechanics.com

In this episode, you will hear:

·      The Origin Story of Pleasure Mechanics

·      Understanding Oral Sex and the Arousal Gap

·      The Importance of Erotic Massage

·      Overcoming Shame and Hesitation

·      Creating a Safe Space for Sexual Conversations

·      The Power of Enthusiastic Consent

·      Exploring Personal Preferences in Oral Sex

·      Grounding Techniques for Better Oral Sex

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August McLaughlin is a journalist, author, sex educator and host/producer of  the true story podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which was named “one of the best sex podcasts you should be listening to” by Romper and a top feminist podcast by Bellesa. 

August's articles and expertise have been featured in a range of publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, O: The Oprah Magazine and Shape. And her Girl Boner book, called a "refreshingly inclusive...welcome addition to sexual health literature" by Publisher's Weekly, is currently in its second printing.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      The Importance of Orgasms

·      Overcoming Orgasm Myths

·      The Power of Fantasy and the Mind

·      Exploring Different Types of Orgasms

·      The Debate on Female Ejaculation

·      Accidental Orgasms: Stories and Experiences

·      Sleepgasms and Sexual Curiosity

·      Erotic Audiobooks and Sexy Experiments 

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Magda Kay is an Intimacy Expert, Tantra Teacher & Conscious Relating Coach, author, and founder of the School of Intimacy. More than 10 years ago she quit her corporate job, and embarked on a journey that led her through ashrams, yoga training, Tantric communities, and ceremonies. 

Through hours of daily devotion and practices into her deepest parts, facing the wounds and fears, and it also revealed her highest calling: to share and teach others how to access their deepest desires and ability to create transformative intimacy in their lives. Her work combines the gifts of the East and the West, a blend of Tantric and yogic philosophies with psychology and human behavior.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Magda's Journey to Tantric Teaching

·      Overcoming Sexual Challenges

·      Exploring Tantric Communities

·      Intimacy vs. Sex

·      Understanding Tantra

·      Western Perception of Tantra

·      Energy and Enlightenment

·      Tantric Practices for Couples

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Dr. Kirk Honda, PsyD, LMFT, is the esteemed host of The Psychology in Seattle® podcast and YouTube channel. The mission of this platform is to enhance the world by delivering educational and engaging content focused on psychology, psychotherapy, and culture.

Established in 2008, the podcast and YouTube channel have expanded significantly, now boasting over 4,000 episodes, 350,000 YouTube subscribers, and thousands of paying members on Patreon and YouTube. Currently, we release approximately 12 episodes per week. Dr. Honda holds a Doctorate in Psychology and a Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy. With a career spanning back to 1996 as a psychotherapist and 1998 as a professor, he brings extensive experience and insight to the show.

In this episode, you will hear:

●      Common Myths About Cheating

●      The Impact of Infidelity on Relationships

●      How Patriarchy Historically Blames Women for Men's Infidelity

●      Navigating the Aftermath of Cheating

●      Factors Contributing to Infidelity

●      Understanding that forgiveness is an intentional process

●      The Complexities of Forgiveness

●      Looking at Infidelity as an Opportunity to Strengthen Relationships

●      Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity

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In this solo episode, I'll explore the significant impacts of a sexless relationship, the contributing factors, and potential solutions. I’ll also share perspectives from our viewers' experiences, explore the concept of asexuality, and emphasize the importance of communication and therapy. 

Key highlights include feelings of resentment, lowered self-esteem, emotional and physical disconnection, and an increased risk of affairs and divorce. Additionally, I’ll provide practical advice and resources for seeking therapy and maintaining intimacy. 

Be sure to check out my YouTube video; "The Top 10 Effects of a Sexless Relationship on Men" for more insights into this important issue.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Defining a Sexless Relationship

·      Impact on Self-Esteem and Emotional Health

·      Physical Health Consequences of a Sexless Relationship

·      How to Overcome Emotional and Physical Disconnection

·      What leads to Separation, Divorce, and Affairs

·      Analyzing Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms

·      Parenting and Family Dynamics

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Dr. Amy Pearlman is a board-certified urologist with a dedicated focus on male sexual and hormonal health, as well as genital reconstruction. She is renowned for her expertise in providing both medical and surgical therapies for men experiencing erectile dysfunction, penile curvature, and testosterone deficiency. Additionally, Dr. Pearlman offers transfeminine gender-affirming genital surgery.

Her approach to healthcare extends beyond surgical proficiency. Dr Pearlman is passionate about educating individuals on the fundamentals of their bodies, promoting healthy behaviors, and empowering people to live their most authentic lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding Testosterone Therapy: Benefits and Candidates

·      Exploring Testosterone Therapy Side Effects and Formulations

·      Addressing Fertility Concerns with Testosterone Therapy

·      Lifestyle, Diet, and Supplements: Enhancing Testosterone Naturally

·      Navigating Testosterone Therapy: Administration and Patient Experiences

·      Erectile Dysfunction and Testosterone: Medical and Psychological Aspects

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As founder of Something Positive for Positive People, Courntey combines his expertise as a 500-hour registered yoga teacher with his passion for destigmatizing herpes. Through SPFPP, he offers restorative yoga and meditation in support groups, enhancing holistic well-being for those living with herpes. 

As the host of the SPFPP podcast, Courtney shares inspiring stories of individuals navigating herpes stigma. He extends his advocacy to sexual health education and STD prevention, promoting stigma-free communication among healthcare providers and organizations. Driven to create a world where herpes discussions are empowering and stigma-free, Courtney's work at SPFPP is reshaping sexual health dialogue, offering a blend of wellness practices and empathetic advocacy to build a more understanding community.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      The Genesis of Something Positive for Positive People

·      Navigating Herpes Stigma and Mental Health

·      Expanding Support Through Yoga and Community

·      Understanding Herpes: Symptoms, Transmission, and Treatment

·      Breaking Down Myths and Addressing Stigma

·      The Importance of Disclosure and Navigating Relationships

·      Resources and Support for Living with Herpes

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Across this episode, we will cover the psychological and physical aspects of ED, offering practical tools and strategies for managing this condition. Guest experts, including Dr. Eric FitzMedrud, Dr. Judson Brandeis, Caitlin V, Dr. Susie Gronski, and Darshana Avila, share their top tips for addressing ED, focusing on holistic and embodied approaches to sexual wellness. 

We also look at the importance of addressing sexual shame, relationship dynamics, and emotional well-being as integral components of tackling ED. We encourage you to consider therapy, coaching, and educational courses as pathways to improve your sexual health and confidence.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Tackling Erectile Dysfunction: Breaking the Silence

·      Expert Insights: Psychological Perspectives on ED

·      Holistic Approaches to Sexual Wellness

·      Exploring Physical and Lifestyle Factors

·      Physical Therapy and Emotional Intimacy in Sexual Health

·      Addressing Erectile Dysfunction: Emotional and Psychological Strategies

·      Navigating Solutions: Therapy, Coaching, and Courses

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Nadège is a sex scholar, bestselling author, and speaker dedicated to teaching others how to feel healthier and empowered in their sexuality.

From a young age, Nadège has been unapologetically curious about sex. Whenever a friend faced heartbreak or a sexual dilemma, she became the go-to person for advice. Over time, Nadège was labelled variously as a slut and a trailblazer—titles she embraces with pride.

Over the years, Nadège realized the unique gift they possess in sex education, a gift they are passionate about sharing with the world. On an average day, you’ll find Nadège in her home office, hair in a power ponytail, as she uses her nerd powers for good. When Nadège is not busy researching sex, you can find her at a friend's house geeking out about food, Astrology, or pop culture!

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Fantasies and Arousal: Embracing Your Desires

·      Exploring Arousal for Men: Breaking Down Barriers

·      Communication and Connection: Key to Sexual Satisfaction 

·      Challenging Societal Norms: Redefining Masculinity in Sex

·      Navigating Relationship Dynamics and Sexual Compatibility

·      Seeking Help and Embracing Change: The Path to Sexual Fulfillment

·      Preventative Measures and Mental Reframes for Arousal Issues

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Moreover, Dr. McNary's focus on the crucial role of communication between patients and healthcare providers reinforces the foundation of a strong patient-provider relationship. This open dialogue can lead to better understanding, increased trust, and improved overall health outcomes.

Lastly, the mention of the potential for sexual function to return to baseline after discontinuation of medication offers hope and encouragement to those facing these challenges. It serves as a reminder that while side effects may be temporary, the benefits of proper medication management and healthcare support can lead to a positive outcome.

Dr. McNary is a board-certified general psychiatrist, working with a variety of patients in her outpatient practice. She specializes in medication management and is particularly interested in the use of complementary medicine for mood and anxiety disorders.

Dr. McNary has her BA and MA degrees from Stanford University and her MD from Tulane University. From there, she completed her psychiatry residency at the UCLA Neuropsychiatric Institute, where her training included women’s mental health, mood and anxiety disorders, cognitive behavioral therapy, and couples and family therapy.

In this episode, you will hear:

·      Understanding Sexual Side Effects of Medication

·      Personal Experiences and the Importance of Sexual Health

·      Navigating Medication Side Effects and Sexual Health

·      The Reversibility of Sexual Side Effects and Patient Advocacy

·      Strategies for Managing Medication Side Effects

·      The Importance of Open Communication and Support

·      Exploring Solutions and Resources for Sexual Health

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Dr. Waldman emphasizes positive interactions, constructive conflict resolution, and sexual compatibility as key elements for success in second marriages. Couples can strengthen their bond through appreciation, kindness, and respect, while addressing conflicts through active listening and compromise. Open communication and understanding of each other's needs help sustain a healthy marriage, fostering a strong and fulfilling partnership.

Dr. Waldman trained as a public speaker and has presented for PESI.  His signature presentations are: The Business of Private Practice—The Graduate Course You Never Had and Teaching Parents to Parent.  He has made over 150 paid presentations in his career to attorneys, chiropractors, psychologists, family therapists, counselors, social workers, school psychologists and school counselors.

In this episode you will hear:

·      Exploring the Dynamics of Successful Marriages

·      Key Factors in Marital Failures and Solutions

·      The Role of Sexual Compatibility in Relationships

·      Addressing Sexual Issues and Enhancing Communication

·      Insights into Second Marriages and the Importance of Self-Reflection

·      Secrets to a Lasting Marriage: Selflessness and Evolution

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As we discuss this sensitive topic, we uncover strategies to navigate the profound emotional hurdles that jealousy can present, while also confronting the societal stigmas and misconceptions that often surround this complex emotion. Join us as we unravel the layers of jealousy and explore ways to foster healthier and more secure connections in our intimate relationships.

Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines & founder of The Year of Opening. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT certified sex educator. Joli also co-hosts the Playing with Fire podcast with her anchor partner, Ken. Joli’s been featured in The New York Times, Vogue, Cosmo, and NPR. 

She’s spent the past two decades studying and reimagining what love can be if we open our imaginations to possibility. Joli helps people create non-monogamous partnerships that are custom-built for their authentic selves, no more shrinking, pretending, or hiding required.

In this episode you will hear:

·      Defining and Understanding Sexual Jealousy

·      The Complex Emotions Tied to Jealousy

·      Cultural Perceptions and Personal Experiences of Jealousy

·      Exploring Jealousy in Monogamous vs. Non-Monogamous Relationships

·      The Journey of Navigating Jealousy and Embracing Compersion

·      Intergenerational Trauma and Its Impact on Relationships

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Danielle Bezalel wears many hats as the brains behind the Sex Ed with DB Podcast. This intersectional, feminist podcast is a platform where Bay Area voices share their real stories, aiming to revolutionize the way we discuss sex.  

In 2014, she proudly graduated from UC Berkeley with a degree in Film and Media Studies. Later, she pursued her Masters of Public Health from Columbia University, specializing in sexuality and reproductive health, which she successfully completed in May 2023. 

When she's not busy with her podcast, Danielle enjoys showcasing her singing talents as part of her folk band, Happnstance, based in San Fransisco. Her passions extend to documentaries that drive social change, empowering young women through sex education, exploring the world through travel, and indulging in all kinds of chocolate. 

In this episode you will hear: 

• Daniel's Journey into Sex Education 
• Challenging Norms and Starting a Podcast 
• The Impact of Misinformation and Cultural Beliefs 
• Teaching Sex Ed: From Schools to Podcasts 
• Navigating the Complex Landscape of Sex Education in the US 
• The Importance of Accurate Sex Education for Adults 

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Dr. Streicher emphasizes that while menopause brings various challenges, effective solutions exist for each symptom. She highlights the importance of hormone therapy (HT) for relieving symptoms and improving quality of life, as well as the use of lubricants, vaginal estrogens, and other medical interventions for managing painful intercourse. 

Lauren Streicher, MD, is a clinical professor at Northwestern University and founding Medical Director of the Northwestern Medicine Center for Sexual Medicine and Menopause, she also serves as a menopause practitioner and Senior Research Fellow at the Kinsey Institute. Besides her roles in academia and research, she advises organizations like The Kinsey Institute and Midi Health, focusing on patient education.  

A best-selling author, Dr. Streicher, has written extensively on women's health, including menopause guides and sexual health books. Her latest work, set for a 2024 release, continues her focus on post-menopausal sexual wellness. Streicher also hosts a podcast on menopause and writes for various publications, contributing her expertise to a wide audience. 

In this episode you will hear: 

• Unveiling the Mysteries of Menopause and Sexual Health 
• Offering Solutions for Menopause Symptoms: From Hot Flashes to Intimacy Issues 
• The Impact of Hormone Therapy on Menopause Symptoms 
• Exploring Interventions for Menopausal Symptoms Beyond Hormone Therapy 
• Lifestyle Changes, Lubricants, and Medical Interventions for Menopause Relief 
• Exploring the World of Menopause Retreats and Resources 

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Dr. Sadaf Lodhi, with over two decades as an OBGYN in New York, champions women's holistic health, blending her professional expertise with personal insights as a Muslim woman. She extends her practice beyond conventional medicine, focusing on comprehensive well-being and sexual empowerment, encouraging self-discovery and autonomy in sexual matters. 

Dr. Lodhi's educational path includes an honors degree in Biochemistry from the University of Michigan, Dearborn, and a Doctorate of Osteopathic Medicine from Michigan State University College of Osteopathic Medicine, earned in 2000. After completing her residency at St. Joseph Mercy in Michigan, she moved to New York, engaging in diverse medical roles across private practices, hospitals, and clinics serving underprivileged communities. 

Her career is marked by a commitment to diagnosing and managing gynecological issues, advocating for reproductive wellness, and offering tailored care in sexual health and infertility. Dr. Lodhi stands out for her dedication to nurturing pregnant patients through to childbirth. 

In this episode you will hear: 

• The Gap in Sex Education for Healthcare Professionals 
• Challenges and Misconceptions Around Menopause 
• Addressing Sexual Dysfunction and Solutions in Menopause 
• Exploring FDA Approved Medications and Interventions for Women's Libido 
• The Importance of Vulvar Health and Preventive Measures 
• Addressing Sexual Dysfunction and Advocating for Women's Sexual Health 

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Dr. Shyama Mathews champions the philosophy that "Care Comes First," with a profound commitment to the well-being of women who often endure significant discomfort, pain, and sacrifices in their quality of life to meet the daily needs of their families and careers. 

Dr. Mathews is a staunch advocate for patient EDUCATION and EMPOWERMENT, holding the conviction that patients must be fully informed to make the best decisions for their health. She understands that without a comprehensive knowledge of their bodies and the nature of their symptoms, women cannot actively participate in selecting the most appropriate treatment options. 

By comprehensively discussing the risks and benefits of both medical and surgical interventions, she empowers women to feel confident in their health decisions, Dr. Mathews’ practice is built on the belief that women deserve a physician who not only cares deeply but also equips them with the knowledge and confidence to take charge of their health. 

In this episode you will hear: 

• · Exploring Women's Sexual Health in Menopause 
• · Debunking Myths Around Menopause and Sexuality 
• · Medical Interventions and Lifestyle Changes for Menopausal Symptoms 
• · The Importance of Lubricants and How to Choose the Right One 
• · Exploring Sex Toys and Techniques for Enhanced Intimacy 
• · Supporting Partners Through Menopause: Resources and Advice 
• · Rekindling Passion and Addressing Misunderstandings in Relationships 

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Melissa Vogel is the owner and operator of Melissa Vogel Fitness, LLC. With over 20 years of experience as a certified Personal Trainer and Group Fitness Instructor, she helps busy moms get fit through mindset work, vision, balance, nutrition, and exercise.  

Melissa hosts the Bomb Mom Podcast, featuring various speakers on health topics to inspire listeners to achieve their goals.  

She fearlessly discusses taboo subjects to empower others to prioritize their health. Melissa, a model, actress, and busy mom of six, continues to inspire women on their fitness journey. 

In this episode you will hear: 

• Melissa's Journey to Becoming a Women's Coach 
• The Impact of Body Image on Confidence and Relationships 
• Understanding The Challenges of Aging and Fitness 
• Why It’s Important To Accept Your Body 
• The Role of Therapy and Affirmations in Building Confidence 
• How You Can Track Nutrition and Exercise 
• The Benefits of Fasting and Weight Training 
• Overcoming Body Image Issues and Menopause 

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Dr. Hill explores the double standards that exist for women compared to men in these relationships and the reasons behind the predatory language often used. She emphasizes the importance of mutual attraction, genuine connection, and the benefits both parties find in such relationships, including open-mindedness and emotional maturity. 

Dr. Sarah Hill, a distinguished research psychologist and professor, possesses extensive knowledge in the fields of women's health and sexual psychology. Her expertise lies at the convergence of evolutionary biology, social psychology, and neuroscience.  

Dr. Hill's research endeavors focus on unraveling the intricate connections between hormones, the immune system, and the environment, particularly in relation to behaviors related to relationships and health, with a specific emphasis on women. The Department of Psychology at TCU in Fort Worth, Texas, serves as the home for Dr. Hill's esteemed research laboratories. 

In this episode you will hear: 

• Exploring the Topic of Age Gapping 
• Double Standards in Age Gap Relationships 
• Understanding the Dynamics of Age Gap Relationships 
• The Stigma and Internalized Judgement in Age Gap Relationships 
• Average Age Difference in Age Gap Relationships 
• Stereotypes and Power Imbalance in Age Gap Relationships 
• Benefits and Drawbacks of Age Gap Relationships 
• Healthy Patterns in Age Gap Relationships 

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Marissa Nelson, an experienced therapist, has helped numerous couples overcome life's challenges and strengthen their connection. With her extensive knowledge of couples' issues and her approachable style, she makes couples and sex therapy engaging, warm, and enjoyable. 

Marissa is highly regarded internationally and is the founder of IntimacyMoons Couples Retreats, which have been recognized as one of the top couples retreats worldwide by reputable sources such as The New York Times, Women's Health, Fodor's Travel, and Travel Curator. She has also been featured in more than 100 national and international media publications, including the Washington Post, Wall Street Journal, CBC, CNN Health, Glamour, Latina, and Black Enterprise. 

Marissa holds licenses and certifications from reputable organizations such as the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT) and the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). 

In this episode you will hear: 

• Discussing Sexual Rejection 
• Understanding Sexual Resilience 
• Impact of Sexual Rejection 
• Strategies for Overcoming Sexual Rejection 
• The Importance of Communication in Sexuality 
• Exploring Sexual Misconceptions 
• Overcoming Difficulties and Resuming Conversation 
• Moving Forward from Sexual Rejection 

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Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, a distinguished expert in Sexuality, Relationships, and Intercultural Fluency, is recognized for her global contributions as a speaker, author, and consultant. Dr. Nasserzadeh's media presence is notable, having created and hosted "The Whispers" for BBC World Service, a pioneering program on sexuality in the Middle East, and featured in major outlets like CNN, NPR, and Harper’s Bazaar. 

She is also an accomplished author, with her latest book, "Love By Design," based on extensive research. Her involvement extends to various professional organizations, including AASECT and ISSWSH, contributing significantly to the field. 

Currently based in Los Angeles, California, Dr. Nasserzadeh maintains an active international profile, engaging in speaking engagements and cultural research. She serves on the United Nations Population Fund's task force on Religion and Sexual & Reproductive Health Rights. Her work primarily focuses on coaching and consultancy, emphasizing future-oriented strategies and personal development, distinct from psychotherapy or mental health counseling. 

In this episode you will hear: 

• The Importance of Chemistry in Relationships 
• Exploring the Concept of Sexual Harmony 
• Media Impact on Our Perception of Relationships 
• Importance of Self-Knowledge in Building Relationships 
• The Role of Chemistry in Long-Term Relationships 
• Six Ingredients for a Thriving Relationship 
• Understanding the Role and Meaning of Sex in Relationships 
• The Importance of Touch in Relationships 

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Rena Martine, a native Los Angeleno, now resides in Echo Park, near her partner. Passionate about smelly cheese, dramatic cinema, and 60’s music, she enjoys dancing and spending time with her Siamese cat, Lucha ("Chooch"). Rena often connects with loved ones, radiating happiness and occasionally enjoying a cocktail. 

Holding a Juris Doctor from Loyola Law School and a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology from California State University Los Angeles, Rena excelled as a law review editor and author. She also earned a certificate in Positive Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania. As a Certified Life Coach with Lumia Coaching and a Master Coach recognized by High Impact Coaching, she is committed to her career, continually enhancing her knowledge and skills through ongoing research and client interactions. 

In this episode you will hear: 

• Rena Martine's Journey into Sex Coaching 
• The Gap in Sexual Self-Help Books 
• Unveiling Rena's New Book 
• The Impact of Self-Image on Sexuality 
• How to Have Sensitive Conversations 
• Transitioning from Prosecution to Pleasure Advocacy 
• The CAMP Method for Body Love 
• The Influence of Media on Body Image 

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Dr. Amanda Pasciucco, known as "The Sex Healer," is a renowned catalyst for reigniting passion in romantic and sexual relationships. With over 15 years of experience, she has helped thousands of individuals and couples transform their sexual lives. As a Latina international clinician and speaker, Dr. Pasciucco has been featured in prestigious publications such as Psychology Today, Good Therapy, and PsychCentral, as well as prominent media outlets like CNN, TLC, and Playboy. 

Her expertise extends to working with high-profile clients, including musicians, celebrities, reality TV stars, public figures, and Olympic athletes. Through online therapy, she provides discreet care to all those in need, ensuring confidentiality and privacy in accordance with the ethical code of licensed professionals. 

Dr. Pasciucco's success is evident in the consistent 5-star reviews she and her team receive from clients. Her charismatic and straightforward approach, combined with the integration of tantra techniques, sex therapy, and somatic experience, serves as a powerful motivator for individuals seeking personal growth and fulfillment in their intimate lives. 

In this episode you will hear: 

• Understanding Shibari: The Art of Japanese Rope Bondage 
• The History and Popularity of Shibari 
• Setting Up a Shibari Scene: Precautions and Preparations 
• Understanding the Attraction and Benefits of Bondage 
• Setting Up a Shibari Scene: Precautions and Preparations 
• The Artistry and Complexity of Shibari 
• Why Communication and Trust is key in Shibari 
• The Importance of Aftercare in Shibari 

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Erika Lust, an acclaimed independent erotic filmmaker, is renowned for her sex-positive adult cinema that challenges gender stereotypes and rejects harmful fetishizations. With a focus on relatable characters and realistic intimate scenes, she offers a groundbreaking alternative to mainstream porn. Over the past two decades, the Lust brand has flourished, with Erika directing six feature films and series, as well as over 130 short films and producing approximately 150 more. 

In 2015, Erika delivered a compelling TEDx talk titled 'It's Time for Porn to Change', emphasizing the need for transformation within the industry. Her story was showcased in the Netflix documentary series 'Hot Girls Wanted: Turned On ("Women on Top")', directed by Rashida Jones, and 'Principles of Pleasure', directed by Niharika Desai. Recognized for her influence, Erika was named one of the BBC 100 Women's most influential women of the year in 2019. Her alternative approach to pornography gained further recognition in 2022, as it was featured in The New York Times and the BBC Three & HULU series 'Planet Sex with Cara Delevingne'. Additionally, she delivered a TEDx Talk in Athens, urging adults to engage in 'The Porn Conversation' with younger generations. 

In this episode you will hear: 

• Erika's Journey to Becoming a Porn Director 
• The Problem with Mainstream Porn 
• Creating a New Perspective in Porn 
• The Evolution of Porn Industry 
• Understanding the Importance of Storytelling in Porn 
• Overcoming Stigma Around Working in the Porn Industry 
• The Impact of Commercialization on Porn 
• Analyzing The Future of the Porn Industry 

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Natasha Helfer is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with over 20 years of experience in treating individuals, couples, and families. She creates an approachable and safe space, often using humor, for discussing sensitive topics. Helfer specializes in assisting clients with interpersonal relationships, sexual development, and navigating religious or spiritual journeys. She is adept at supporting individuals whether they choose to remain in or leave their faith communities, respecting all religious choices. 

Helfer is a seasoned speaker, presenting at national and professional conferences, universities, and hosting retreats, training, and workshops. She has a broad experience working with thousands of clients in both private practice and agency settings and is open to speaking engagements. She advocates for sexual health in marginalized populations, including LGBTQ+, religious minorities, and women, and works to de-stigmatize sexual lifestyle choices influenced by cultural, personal, or religious biases. 

She offers both in-office and online therapy, coaching, and consultation services to a diverse clientele, including national and international clients. Helfer is also available for training and consultation with ecclesiastical leaders and mental health professionals on specific cases. 

Additionally, Helfer serves as a supervisor for AASECT, guiding professionals seeking AASECT certification. 

In this episode you will hear: 

• The Role of Fear and Guilt in Sexual Behavior 
• Understanding the Impact of Cultural and Religious Messages on Sexuality 
• Exploring the Spectrum of Religion and Sexuality 
• The Misconceptions and Myths Surrounding Sexuality 
• Creativity in Sexual Pleasure 
• The Role of Fantasy in Sexuality 
• How Fear and Guilt impact Sexual Behavior 
• Understanding the Impact of Sexual Shame on Mental Health 
• The importance of Education in Sexual Safety 

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Dr. Stephanie Bathurst is a dedicated clinician and coach, celebrated for her role as the founder of Bathurst Family Therapy™. She thrives in her role as a support system and guide for healing, aspiring to assist others through the information and advice shared on her site, fostering self-discovery. 

Dr. Bathurst specializes in working with couples and relationships, focusing on identifying and eliminating destructive communication patterns. She develops personalized plans to assist her clients in shaping their ideal-self within their partnerships. Her expertise extends to working with various relationship dynamics, including ethical non-monogamy, multi-amorous, kink, BDSM, swinging, and open relationships, and she embraces clients of all races, gender expressions, and sexual orientations. 

Excitingly, Dr. Bathurst offers Couples Retreats in Oahu, HI, which present a unique integrative and holistic approach to relationship and sexual re-attachment. These retreats combine structured therapeutic techniques with the relaxing ambiance of a vacation, as seen in the sample itinerary and video available through a provided link, specifically tailored for married couples. 

In this episode you will hear: 

• The importance of pelvic floor health and its impact on sexual health 
• How pelvic floor consists of muscles and ligaments supporting reproductive organs 
• Why a weak pelvic floor can lead to sexual challenges like erectile dysfunction 
• How decline in collagen production from mid-twenties impacts pelvic floor function 
• Understanding Peyronie's Disease, a condition causing painful curvature in the penis 
• How obesity, constipation and prolonged pelvic pain can weaken the pelvic floor 
• Why incorrect Kegel exercises can lead to problems 
• How floor exercises can help with prostate health & recovery post-prostate surgery 
• Looking at "Philates" a program combining Pilates with pelvic floor exercises 

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Katherine Bejanyan is deeply passionate about relationships and is dedicated to helping others in this realm. Her professional activities include providing relationship counseling for both couples and singles.  

In her role as a relationship expert and consultant for an exclusive dating agency, Bejanyan offers specialized guidance and insights. Additionally, she contributes her knowledge and perspectives on relationships through her writings for the Huffington Post.  

Her primary objective is to continuously deepen her understanding of relationships and enhance her skills in assisting others with their relationship challenges. 

• Understanding more about relationships in cross-cultural contexts 
• How cultural backgrounds significantly shape our expectations 
• The way early family dynamics and societal norms deeply influence personal beliefs 
• Common relationship challenges; handling family expectations and finances 
• How misunderstandings in intimacy and sexual expectations are common 
• The importance of effective communication, particularly in addressing differences  
• Key strategies for repairing relationship ruptures 

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Dr. Ricky Arenson, raised under the shadow of Table Mountain in Cape Town, was deeply influenced by the societal divisions of Apartheid, fueling his commitment to bridging gaps in today's "identity politics." Diagnosed with ADHD in childhood, he channeled his energy into creative pursuits like drawing and poetry, developing a unique perspective that later enriched his personal and professional life. 

Meeting his wife in medical school, Dr. Arenson's relationship blossomed from her initial academic encouragement into a deep admiration for her roles as a wife and mother. This experience shaped his views on gender roles, inspiring him to advocate for the joys and magic of enduring love and marriage. 

An award-winning teacher and dual specialist in Endocrinology and Geriatric Medicine, Dr. Arenson is passionate about teaching relationship management as a key to happiness. His career, marked by significant roles in medical leadership, has been a journey in learning about humility, humanity, and the pursuit of happiness. 

In his free time, Dr. Arenson enjoys family time, tennis, fitness, stand-up comedy, and finding creative ways to balance work and leisure. 

• Dr. Arenson discusses his book "Women are Superior to Men." 
• Being inspired by observing common relationship conflicts 
• The importance of understanding relationship dynamics  
• Why partners need to give each other attention to maintain intimacy  
• The challenges modern parents face in balancing children's needs  
• How hormones play a lesser role in libido than factors like relationship quality  
• Understanding biological and emotional differences between men and women  

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In this episode you will hear from Dr. Laurie Petito, Dr. Jess O'Reilly, David Khalili, Ken Page, Dr. Lonnie Barback, Dr. Laurie Mintz, Diane Gleim and Gigi Engle who share their insightful thoughts on new year's tips and resolutions for 2024 that include: 

• New Year's resolution tips on sexual health and advocacy 
• Tips to simplify complex sexual health and relationship subjects 
• Key skills for overall life satisfaction and improved relationships 
• Effective communication tips for partners 
• The importance of conversations in a relationship 
• Understanding porn literacy 
• Crucial skills often overlooked in relationships 
• Stress management techniques 

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Amy is an expert in the field of Sex and Relationship Coaching and Sex Education. She is dedicated to spreading the message of embracing pleasure-focused sexuality education without any shame. 

On the other hand, April is not only a motivational speaker but also a prominent figure in the sex-toy industry, having established herself as a sex toy mogul. Together, April and Amy have joined forces to create the Shameless Sex Podcast. 

This podcast aims to inspire individuals to love themselves unconditionally, embrace their sexual empowerment, and foster shame-free intimacy. With a playful twist, they share real-life experiences and divulge all the details. 

In this episode, you will hear: 

• The importance of embracing changes in one's sexual identity. 
• How April worked with Amy worked together in an adult store. 
• The way Shameless Sex aims to reduce shame and help people live a freer sex life. 
• Looking at the issues that long-term relationships often face.  
• The significance of introducing sex toys in long-term relationships.  
• Recommendations for finding reliable sex toys.  
• The importance of communication especially when discussing desires.  
• Why you should give a sex toy at least three tries before deciding on one. 
• Exploring different ways to orgasm and creating new neuropathways in the brain. 
• Owning one's desires and communicating them without shame.