Erin and Ramonita reflect on the journey of 55 episodes, what God has been doing through these conversations, and how this season has stretched their understanding of faith—especially through curiosity, questioning, and real-life wrestle.

They also share a personal update as Ramonita prepares to welcome her third baby, and what this means for a pause in podcast episodes.

But this isn’t the end.

This conversation opens up what’s next as Come.Union continues to grow beyond the podcast—into a deeper, more relational movement centered around real conversations, real people, and real tables.

Key Topics

* Celebrating 55 episodes of the podcast and the growth of this season

* What faith looks like in everyday life—especially for Gen Z

* The role of questions and curiosity in deepening faith

* Why community matters beyond just listening to a podcast

* Expanding into platforms like Substack, TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube

* The vision for deeper conversations around tables—both digital and physical

* Introducing CUG (Come.Union Gatherings) and local community spaces

* An invitation to collaborate, co-create, and build this together

Resources & Links

• Substack — Join our community for deeper conversations + resources
• TikTok (@come.union) — Bite-sized content + updates
• YouTube — Full episodes + video content
• Instagram — Stay connected + join the conversation

• Connect with Us

Erin — Instagram | TikTok

Ramonita — Twitter | LinkedIn

What’s Next

While the podcast is pausing, Come.Union is not.

We’re continuing to build spaces for honest conversations, deeper faith, and real community—both online and around physical tables.

If you’ve been part of this journey, you’re invited into what’s next.

🪑 There’s still a seat for you.

But what if following Jesus isn’t just crossing a line… it’s stepping into a whole new way of living?

In this episode, we’re unpacking some of the most foundational (and often confusing) parts of Christianity—salvation, Lordship, and baptism. Not as checkboxes. Not as religious language we’ve heard a hundred times. But as an invitation into something real.

What does it actually mean to say “Jesus is Lord”?

Is salvation a one-time decision… or the beginning of a lifelong transformation?

And why does baptism matter—like, really?

We’re not here to give you perfectly packaged answers.

We’re here to create space to wrestle, understand, and respond.

Key Takeaways:

* Salvation is a gift of grace—but it invites a real, personal response that transforms how we live

* Calling Jesus “Lord” isn’t just words—it’s surrender, trust, and reorienting your life around Him

* Baptism is more than a tradition—it’s a public declaration of an inward transformation

* Faith is not just belief in your head—it’s trust that moves into action over time

* Following Jesus is not a one-time moment, but an ongoing journey of surrender, growth, and becoming

If this conversation stirs questions (or even resistance), you’re not alone—and you’re exactly who this space is for.

Join us on Substack to go deeper, grab the discussion guide, and be part of the conversation.

What does the resurrection actually mean?

And why did Jesus leave us communion?

In this episode, Erin and Ramonita explore the core of the Christian story—the cross, the resurrection, and the invitation Jesus left us at the table. Together they wrestle with what these moments reveal about God’s love, justice, and desire for relationship with humanity.

This conversation moves beyond surface-level answers and invites listeners to sit with the weight of Good Friday, the silence of Holy Saturday, and the hope of Easter morning. Whether you grew up in the church or are simply curious about faith, this episode encourages deeper reflection on what the cross and resurrection mean for our lives today.

Key Takeaways

* The resurrection is the foundation of Christianity and the event that changed everything.

* The brutality of the cross reveals both the depth of human brokenness and the depth of God’s love.

* Jesus’ resurrection represents the ultimate reversal of death, injustice, and sin.

* Communion is more than remembrance—it’s an invitation to participate in the story of Jesus’ sacrifice and redemption.

* Faith grows when we allow ourselves to wrestle with questions and approach God with curiosity.

And…if this episode stirred questions or curiosity, we invite you to go deeper with us. Join the Come.Union Substack community, where we unpack these conversations further, share reflections, and provide discussion guides to help you explore faith more deeply.

In this episode, Erin and Ramonita explore what revival really means beyond the events, headlines, and hype. They reflect on childhood memories of tent meetings and Billy Graham crusades, unpack historic revivals that reshaped communities, and wrestle honestly with the question many believers are quietly asking:

Are we witnessing true revival today — or moments of spiritual excitement without lasting transformation?

Together, they examine the characteristics that marked historic awakenings — repentance, humility, reconciliation, and deep dependence on the Holy Spirit — and compare them with modern revival movements. The conversation gently challenges listeners to consider whether revival is something we attend, or something that begins within us and quietly reshapes how we live, love, and engage our communities.

Ultimately, this episode invites listeners to see revival not as spectacle, but as a deeply personal and communal movement of transformation that spreads outward through everyday faithfulness.

Key Takeaways

* Revival begins with personal surrender before it becomes collective movement

* Repentance and humility are consistent markers of historic awakenings

* Emotional moments alone cannot sustain lasting spiritual renewal

* Community, reconciliation, and discipleship give revival staying power

* The most profound revivals often unfold quietly through everyday obedience

If you’re longing for a space to process, question, and grow alongside others pursuing Jesus in honest ways, our Substack is where that community continues to unfold. We’d love to meet you there!

5 Key Takeaways:

1. Discipleship is about following Jesus, not just believing in Him.
2. True spiritual growth requires relational investment — you become like who you spend time with.
3. Modern Christianity often emphasizes converts over disciples, but depth matters more than width.
4. Discipleship happens best in small, intentional communities where people can be fully known.
5. Building tables (relationships) matters more than building brands (numbers or programs).

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We talk honestly about the tension between structure and Spirit, the pressures of modern church culture, and why intimacy with God is always central. Our relationship with Him isn’t defined by church attendance—church can help cultivate our faith, but it isn’t the measure of it. Going to church is not the same as living in faith.

This conversation invites listeners to rethink church beyond attendance, embrace curiosity and questions in their faith, and reflect on their own role in the body of Christ.

Key Takeaways:

1. The church was never meant to be something we attend, but something we participate in.
2. Intimacy with Jesus should come before church involvement or activity.
3. Different expressions of church—traditional, house churches, and small gatherings—can all be faithful and meaningful.
4. The early church prioritized shared life, community, and presence over performance and structure.
5. Asking questions and staying curious are essential for a healthy, growing faith and church community.

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In this episode, Erin and Ramonita talk honestly about the shift from thinking of the Holy Spirit as a vague idea or spiritual add-on to recognizing the Spirit as a who—someone personal, present, and deeply involved in our everyday lives. They reflect on how the Holy Spirit comforts, guides, and empowers us, often in quiet ways we don’t always notice at first.

They also explore how understanding the Holy Spirit changes the way we relate to God altogether. Rather than focusing only on spiritual gifts or dramatic moments, this conversation centers on relationship—how the Holy Spirit walks with us, shapes our faith over time, and has often been present long before we had language for it.

This episode is for anyone who has felt curious, confused, or hesitant about the Holy Spirit—and for anyone longing for a faith that feels more connected, grounded, and alive.

Key Takeaways:

* The Holy Spirit is a who, not a what, and desires relationship with us.

* The Holy Spirit offers comfort and guidance in everyday life.

* Understanding the Holy Spirit can shift faith from information to connection.

* The Holy Spirit empowers believers to live in alignment with God’s will.

* The Holy Spirit has been present and active, even before we recognize it.

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In this episode, Erin and Ramonita sit down together to explore repentance in relation to sin, shame, and the deep kindness of God. Through honest conversation, personal stories, and Scripture, they unpack how repentance is often misunderstood—and how God uses it not to punish us, but to restore us.

They discuss how shame keeps us hiding, why awareness of sin is the first step toward freedom, and how confession can become a doorway to healing. Anchored in the story of the Prodigal Son, this episode reframes repentance as an invitation back into relationship with a God whose love is unconditional.

This conversation is for anyone who has ever felt stuck, distant from God, or unsure how to move forward spiritually—and is longing for freedom.

Key Takeaways:

* Repentance is not about punishment, but about turning back to God and being restored to relationship with Him.

* Shame keeps us hiding, but God’s kindness is what invites us back into the light.

* Awareness of sin is the first step toward freedom, not condemnation.

* Confession opens the door to healing by breaking our agreements with sin and shame.

* True repentance includes receiving God’s forgiveness and learning to forgive ourselves.

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At the center of the conversation is Emmanuel: God with us. Not distant. Not abstract. But present—right in the middle of our joy, our grief, our chaos, and our hope. This episode is an invitation to notice where God is already near and to let the light of Christ meet us, even in dark or weary places.

Takeaways:

* Christmas invites both joy and honest reflection.

* The meaning of Christmas goes far beyond traditions and routines.

* Presence with God and others matters more than presents.

* Emmanuel reminds us that God is with us in every season.

* The light of Christ brings real hope, even in darkness.

Whether this season feels full and beautiful or heavy and complicated, this conversation is a gentle reminder: you don’t have to manufacture meaning—God has already come near.

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They dig into the deeper roots of sin, how it often distorts who we really are, why free will matters in understanding God’s heart, and how repentance becomes a daily posture rather than a single moment. Ultimately, this conversation points us toward hope, healing, and the restoring work of Jesus.

 Key Takeaways

* Sin is deeper than behavior—it’s often rooted in desire, doubt, and heart-level issues.

* Identity matters: sin distorts our sense of who we are and who we belong to.

* Free will plays a crucial role in why sin exists and how we respond to it.

* Repentance is a daily choice, inviting us back to alignment with God and our true identity.

* God’s heart is always restoration, offering hope, healing, and wholeness through Jesus.

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 Key Takeaways:

1. The Bible speaks truths that are universal, and truths that we discover personally through reflection and context.
2. Understanding scripture grows through exploration, context, and curiosity.
3. Recognizing literary styles and historical context deepens comprehension.
4. Faith is a journey—discovering God’s truth unfolds over time.
5. Asking questions and discussing scripture with others enhances understanding.

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We also unpack why context matters when interpreting scripture and how to hold both grace and truth in tension. Ultimately, this episode reminds us that following Jesus isn’t about religion—it’s about relationship. It’s an invitation to stay curious, keep asking questions, and live anchored in His love.

Takeaways:

1. Jesus’ words are an invitation into relationship, not exclusion.
2. Truth is personal—it’s embodied in who Jesus is.
3. Following the Way means walking with humility, not certainty.
4. The life Jesus offers starts now, in the everyday moments.
5. Holding truth and love together is the heart of reconciliation.

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This conversation isn’t about having all the answers but about creating space to ask the honest questions. Together, they unpack how culture, tradition, and personal experiences shape our view of faith, and why understanding the heart of Jesus matters more than checking all the boxes.

If you’ve ever felt like you don’t fit the “Christian mold,” this episode is for you. It’s a reminder that faith is a journey, not a formula.

Key Takeaways:

1. Faith is meant to be explored, not perfected.
2. Safe spaces for honest dialogue are where real growth happens.
3. Personal experience plays a huge role in how we understand God.
4. Love and accountability belong together in the Christian life.
5. The goal isn’t getting it “right” — it’s getting closer to Jesus.

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In a world where division feels louder than ever, what does it really mean to sit at the table with those we see as our “enemies”? In this conversation, Erin and Ramonita explore what it looks like to lay down our weapons, approach conflict with humility, and follow Jesus’ example of love and reconciliation.

Together, they unpack the “rules of engagement” for communion—how active listening, curiosity, and confession can disarm even the most difficult conversations. From understanding the roots of offense to practicing benevolent detachment, this episode invites you to lean into the tension, pursue healing, and keep Christ at the center of it all.

You’ll walk away challenged to see reconciliation not as a one-time event, but as a daily rhythm that transforms how we love, forgive, and lead.

Key Takeaways

* Reconciliation requires humility, forgiveness, and a willingness to listen.

* Setting the table for dialogue opens the door to understanding perceived enemies.

* Jesus models the posture of love and surrender that leads to healing.

* Confession, curiosity, and context disarm conflict and build connection.

* Keeping Christ at the center transforms division into deeper unity.

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In this conversation, Ramonita and Erin dive into the pressing need for reconciliation in the body of Christ amidst a week filled with heavy news and heightened division. They explore the complexities of human experiences, the impact of social media, and the importance of unity over uniformity.

Together, they wrestle with hard but necessary questions: How do we love our enemies? How do we forgive when it feels impossible? And how do we move from building walls that divide to tables that invite conversation, understanding, and healing?

This episode will challenge you to see disagreement differently, encourage you to listen deeply, and invite you to step into the reconciling work Jesus calls us to.

Key Takeaways:

* Unity does not mean conformity—it’s about understanding different perspectives.

* Social media can amplify division, but intentional dialogue can foster reconciliation.

* Disagreement is not the same as disunity; we can disagree and remain united in Christ.

* Forgiveness is difficult but essential for healing and reconciliation.

* Our identity in Christ empowers us to extend love and grace even in conflict.

* Building tables for dialogue is more powerful than building walls of division.

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Together, they explore:

* How nature, nurture, and choice shape who we become

* Why grace and accountability both matter in how we see ourselves and others

* The power of love to transform lives and communities

* What the Bible says about being created in God’s image while living in a fallen world

This conversation is all about wrestling with the tension between who we are, who God created us to be, and how His grace makes reconciliation possible.

Whether you’ve always believed people are “mostly good,” wrestled with the reality of brokenness, or are just curious about how faith fits into it all, you’ll find encouragement and honesty here.

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Here is some of what we discuss in this episode:

* Why unanswered prayers can shake our faith

* The difference between treating prayer like a formula vs. a relationship

* The role of trust, patience, and perseverance when God says wait

* Personal stories of provision, heartbreak, and hope that shaped our prayer lives

* How shifting our prayers from self-focus to kingdom-focus changes everything

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In this conversation, we dive into the branding crisis within Christianity, exploring why the issues often lie not with Jesus, but with the behavior of His followers. We tackle the credibility gap between belief and behavior, the importance of embodying Jesus’s character, and the need for unity among believers despite theological differences.

Key takeaways include:

* The credibility gap is a significant issue, causing many to leave institutional Christianity

* Jesus exemplifies love, humility, and service, which Christians are called to emulate

* Living authentically and reflecting on our actions rebuilds trust and represents Christ well

* Love—not perfection—is the truest indicator of faith

* Grace and truth must coexist, and accountability is essential in our faith journey

* We may be the only representation of Jesus others ever see

This episode challenges listeners to reflect on their beliefs and actions, encouraging a deeper understanding of Jesus’s teachings and the impact of their lives on others.

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In this episode of Come.Union, we’re diving into a phrase that’s often misunderstood in Christian spaces: the “Fear of God.”

Is it about punishment? Control? Living in terror of messing up?

Or… is there something deeper and more beautiful?

We explore how the biblical concept of fear is less about being afraid and more about reverence, awe, and respect. Through honest conversation, personal stories, and scriptural insights, we challenge the fear-based theology many of us inherited and offer a fresh perspective of God—not as a distant authoritarian, but as a loving protector.

In this episode, we talk about:

* Why “fearing God” doesn’t mean living in shame

* What the Bible actually says about fear and reverence

* How we’ve been unlearning fear-based religion

* What it looks like to build a relationship with God rooted in love and trust

If you’ve ever felt afraid of God—or unsure how to relate to Him beyond rules and fear—this conversation is for you.

In this episode, we (Ramonita and Erin) get real about the complexities of faith—especially when it comes to trusting God’s goodness in the middle of pain, doubt, and hard seasons. We talk about where our questions about God’s character come from, how the prosperity gospel has shaped some of our thinking, and what it looks like to move from a fear-based relationship with God to one that’s actually rooted in love and trust.

You’ll hear personal stories, some honest wrestling, and reflections on how worship, community, and reframing our narratives can help us see God’s goodness—even when life doesn’t make sense. We also dig into the story of Joseph as a powerful reminder that purpose can come from our pain, and that asking God the hard questions is part of what grows our faith.

We also have some exciting news: we're moving to Substack! We want to create more space for deeper conversation with you, our community. From here on out, you'll only hear short teasers of each episode on this platform. To hear the full episodes and join the conversation, head over to our Substack after this episode. We’d love to see you there: https://comeunion.substack.com/

We’re so glad you’re here. Let’s jump in.

In a world filled with division and brokenness, hosts Ramonita and Erin dive deep into the heart of reconciliation with God, self, and others. In this episode they discuss the topic of expectations: the ones we have for ourself, the ones we have for others and the expectations others have for us.  Reflecting on the power of intentionally loving others, unmet expectations and the spiritual warfare shaping our society, they confront the harsh realities of our current world. Join them as they navigate through the challenges of a divided society, emphasizing the importance of unity, love, and understanding. Featuring a powerful discussion sparked by real-life events, including the tragic story of Sonia Massey.

Key Takeaways:

* Discover the impact of expectations on self-perception and relationships.

* Embrace the journey towards self-love and acceptance, prioritizing God's view of us over societal standards.

* Explore the significance of reconciliation with God, ourselves, and others in a divided world.

* Reflect on the power of intentional love and the need for empathy in a polarized society.

* Acknowledge the role of spiritual warfare in societal division and the importance of seeking unity and understanding.

Stay tuned for Season 3 coming THIS FALL 2025!

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Join us as Jeremy shares candid reflections on family dynamics and basketball experiences, weaving a powerful narrative of resilience and acceptance. Our conversation dives deep into faith and prayer, underscoring the importance of aligning personal desires with God's plan for a fulfilling life. This episode is filled with inspiration and insight you won't want to miss!

Key Takeaways:

* Navigating High Expectations: Jeremy shares the impact of growing up with siblings who excelled academically, setting a high standard that he struggled to meet.

* Resilience in Setbacks: Mono abruptly ended Jeremy's promising basketball career, teaching him the importance of adapting to new realities and accepting God's will.

* Authenticity Over Conformity: Embracing his unique mindset and processing of information, Jeremy learned the value of being true to oneself rather than trying to meet others' expectations.

* Faith and Prayer: The passing of his grandmother led Jeremy to comprehend the significance of aligning personal desires with God's plan, shaping his perspective on prayer and acceptance.

* Embracing Who You Are: Jeremy's journey to self-acceptance and authenticity underscores the power of staying true to oneself despite challenges and external pressures.

Jeremy Smith, originally from Chino Hills, California, is a seasoned professional who has ascended to a senior leadership role at Nike’s World Headquarters. Despite early challenges, including the end of his promising basketball career due to illness, Jeremy demonstrated resilience and adaptability, continuing to play at Division II schools and junior college. Moving to New York City after college, he worked tirelessly from a retail position at Nike to a respected leadership role. Known for valuing authenticity and perseverance, Jeremy's career is marked by overcoming initial rejections and letting his work speak for itself.

On a personal note, Jeremy is married to Ramonita and is a dedicated father to two daughters, Storm and Sol. Raised in a Christian household, his faith was tested during his grandmother’s illness, leading him to a deeper understanding of God’s will. Jeremy's journey is characterized by resilience, authenticity, and a steadfast commitment to his family and professional growth.

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Key Takeaways:

* Heart Check: What do you worry about the most? Are you living out of fear or love? Often, our fears disguise themselves as love, but perfect love casts out all fear.

* Prioritize God: Even good things can become idols if they take God's place. Like I shared in my journey, even working to fulfill God's calling can become an idol if it overshadows our relationship with Him.

* Trust in God's Timing: We can grow impatient and create idols out of our desires. Remember the story of Baal? Taking control because God seemed too slow. Let’s trust in God’s timing and promises, even when we don’t see immediate results.

* Time, Energy, and Attention (TEA): Reflect on where you invest your TEA. Are you pouring it into things that truly matter? This world offers so much, yet often leaves us feeling empty and chasing after things that don’t satisfy.

* Seek God Wholeheartedly: We’ll never find true fulfillment when idols occupy our hearts. Scriptures remind us that God is near when we seek Him with all our heart (James 4:8, Jeremiah 29:13, Revelation 3:20). God isn’t elusive; the more we seek Him, the more we find Him.

* Living in Love: When God is on the throne, the fruits of our lives are evident. Living from a place of love, not fear, brings discernment, wisdom, and joy. The things we once obsessed over lose their grip, and our priorities become clear.

* Steps to Remove Idols: Awareness is the first step. Recognize when an idol surfaces, confess it, and seek accountability. Invite others on this journey—whether it’s a mental health professional, trusted friend, pastor, or resource group. We’re not meant to do this alone.

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Key Takeaways and Moments From This Episode:

* Raul's upbringing in a multicultural environment shaped his perspectives on identity and community.

* The pivotal moment in 2012, guided by the Holy Spirit, led to a transformative journey of faith for Raul and his wife.

* Balancing family and ministry became a priority for Raul, highlighting the importance of prioritizing relationships.

* Raul emphasizes the need for understanding and acceptance in relationships to foster growth and unity.

* The journey of unraveling past influences and embracing a balanced, healthy faith approach is central to Raul's story.

Raul Ochoa, born to Mexican immigrant parents in California, later moved to Waukegan, Illinois, where he grew up in a predominantly black community. He faced financial struggles, cultural identity conflicts, and challenges in his upbringing. After a transformative experience in 2012, prompted by the Holy Spirit, he and his wife committed their lives to Jesus. Raul has held leadership roles in his church, prioritizing family over ministry. He advocates for a balanced, healthy approach to faith and ministry and focuses on uniting churches and supporting church leaders through the Mosaic Initiative. To learn more, visit : https://www.mosaicministries.org

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Throughout the discussion, Ramonita and Erin draw from biblical stories and personal experiences, emphasizing the importance of embracing vulnerability, seeking growth in adversity, and trusting in God's ability to redeem difficult circumstances. The conversation highlights the transformative power of pain and resilience in shaping our paths, inspiring listeners to tackle life's challenges with courage and faith. Remember: God ALWAYS replenishes.

Key Takeaways:

* Embracing hardships as opportunities for growth and transformation

* Recognizing the cyclical nature of life's seasons and finding hope in challenging times

* Leveraging personal losses and setbacks to drive purpose and resilience

* Discovering the beauty of redemption and restoration through faith and community support

* Navigating grief and pain to uncover deeper meaning and authenticity in life

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Key Takeaways:

* Zanele's early upbringing in Zimbabwe instilled in her a deep appreciation for the power of community and strong relationships.

* The loss of her mother at a young age profoundly influenced Zanele's faith journey, leading her to embrace resilience and the unwavering belief in God's provision.

* The Book of Job played a pivotal role in Zanele's spiritual foundation, reflecting on themes of loss, replenishment, and unwavering faith.

* Zanele's story is a testament to the enduring power of faith, resilience, and the profound impact of strong familial bonds.

Zanele is married to the love of her life, Drae and currently lives in Portland, OR. Her career spans roles at Sesame Street, CNN, and a leadership position at Adidas, where she championed diversity and inclusion. Zanele spends her time developing innovative concepts for her consulting projects, traveling the world to learn about new cultures, providing opportunities for underrepresented talent, and building community. She is the founder of “Here To Stay” - a women’s speaker series celebrating the stories of change-making women in the world. Here To Stay is committed to championing women that are not only thought leaders in their fields of profession, but local pioneers with global impact. to empower women of color in driven by her commitment to DEI work and the enduring lessons from her mother.

To connect with Zanele and find out more about her incredible work, go to: https://www.brandzanele.com

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Key Takeaways:

* Spiritual warfare is a real and challenging aspect of life that requires authentic vulnerability and reliance on God's strength.

* Addiction often stems from a desire to avoid pain, and healing begins by facing and feeling the pain rather than numbing it.

* Community, service, and connection play crucial roles in overcoming addiction and finding hope and healing.

* The opposite of addiction is not sobriety but connection, emphasizing the importance of relationships and support in recovery.

* Taking shortcuts to avoid pain only prolongs the healing process, highlighting the necessity of facing pain and seeking help and community for recovery.

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Key Takeaways:

* Addiction can stem from a variety of factors, including trauma, insecurity, and a lack of positive outlets.

* The justice system often fails to address the root causes of addiction and instead focuses on punishment rather than rehabilitation.

* Recovery is a lifelong journey, and it requires self-accountability, community support, and a commitment to healing.

* Healing from addiction involves facing and processing emotions rather than numbing them with drugs or alcohol.

* Sharing our stories and supporting others in their recovery can be a powerful tool for transformation and healing.

Jordan Rogers is a dedicated father, husband, and mentor who has dedicated his life to helping others through his own story of addiction and recovery. He has been sober for 21 years and has used his experiences to inspire and support others in their own journeys. Jordan is passionate about advocating for criminal justice reform and addressing the challenges within the justice system. He believes in the power of community and the transformative nature of sharing our stories.

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Key Takeaways:

* Exploring anxiety as a spiritual attack and its impact on faith and reliance on God.

* Recognizing anxiety's impact on behavior, self-preservation, and the constant pursuit of safety AND discovering the connection between control, perfectionism, and anxiety triggers.

* The benefits of therapy and practical tools for managing anxious thoughts and emotions.

* The significance of speaking out anxious thoughts and rewriting the internal narrative for mental well-being.

* Addressing anxiety within the church and the impact of faith and spiritual warfare.

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Key Takeaways:

* Growing up in a home with addiction and mental health issues can distort our view of God and create fear and anxiety.

* Serving others can be a healing experience and help shift our focus and perspective of God.

* God reveals Himself as a perfect Heavenly Father through His love, pursuit, and faithfulness.

* Fear is NOT our identity!

* Overcoming fear and anxiety involves surrendering control and trusting in God's perfect love.

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Key Takeaways:

* Waiting for a miracle is a journey that requires patience and faith. It is important to trust in God's timing and believe that He is working all things together for our good.

* Miracles may not always happen instantly or in the way we expect. It is crucial to release our own understanding and surrender to God's plan, even if it looks different from what we envisioned.

* The process of waiting for a miracle can lead to personal growth and transformation. It provides an opportunity to deepen our relationship with God and develop qualities such as perseverance, trust, and hope.

* Remembering past miracles and God's faithfulness can provide encouragement and strengthen our faith while waiting for new miracles to unfold.

* Holding onto hope is a choice. It is important to choose hope and not allow disappointment or fear to hinder our faith. Hope allows us to remain expectant and open to the miracles that God has in store for us.

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Key Takeaways:

* Ben’s encounter with Jesus on a hiking trip transformed his life and led him to pursue full-time ministry.

* The importance of self-reflection and examining our own brokenness in order to grow and change.

* The power of sacrificial love in marriage and parenting, and how it can truly transform relationships.

* The journey of navigating a child's decision to walk away from faith and the importance of remaining hopeful and steadfast in prayer.

* The role of Scripture in guiding and transforming our lives, and the importance of daily seeking God through prayer and meditation.

Ben Herr has dedicated his life to serving young people. A graduate of the University of Oregon with a BS in Finance, Ben found his calling in youth ministry during his time as a Young Life volunteer. He joined Young Life staff in 1984, serving in various leadership roles until 2008, including managing the development of Young Life’s Washington Family Ranch.

Married to Judy since 1984 and father to three daughters, Ben continued his commitment to community service as the Executive Director of the Master’s Plan Foundation from 2008 to 2020 and as a volunteer with Young Life. Currently, he helps lead a college ministry at George Fox University and serves on the board of Safe Families for Children in Portland. Ben and Judy now live in Dundee, close to their family and grandchildren.

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Erin and Ramonita also highlight the pivotal reason behind their commitment to ministry—Jesus. They provide practical advice for anyone navigating the complexities of church service, emphasizing that true ministry extends beyond official titles and into daily acts of kindness and connection with everyone we incounter. Join Erin and Ramonita as they offer insights and encouragement for anyone involved in or contemplating church ministry, highlighting that the journey is as much about personal growth as it is about communal contribution.

Key Takeaways:

* Intimacy Over Performance:** Ministry should spring from a deep, personal relationship with Christ, not from a desire to perform or impress others.

* Recognize Your Season:** Understanding and accepting the fluctuating capacities we have in different life stages can help manage expectations and prevent burnout.

* Ministry Everywhere:** Serving God isn't confined to structured church roles; it encompasses all forms of interactions and relationships in our daily lives.

* Stay Rooted in Your 'Why':** It’s vital to continually recall the core of our faith—Jesus—to avoid being disillusioned by the imperfections of human-led institutions.

* Be Solution-Focused:** Actively seeking ways to contribute to the betterment of the church can transform challenges into opportunities for growth and service.

Key Takeaways:

* Berm's early encounters with church and music in Kansas City laid the foundation for his deep connection to his faith and his love for worship.

* Worship became a refuge for Berm during challenging times in his life, and he found peace and healing through music and the presence of God.

* Berm's passion for worship led him to pursue ministry and attend a ministry school, where he learned valuable skills in leading worship and serving others.

* He experienced both growth and challenges in his role in the church, which taught him the importance of setting boundaries and seeking God's will above all else.

* Berm's journey in worship has been transformative, and he has witnessed the power of worship to bring healing, reconciliation, and a deeper understanding of forgiveness and faith.

Berm Dorante, based in Nashville, TN, is a worship leader and songwriter. He attends church at the Belonging Co. where he volunteers as a youth leader and dedicates his time to encouraging and investn in the next generation. Berm's passion for nurturing faith through music and ministry can be followed through on his social media on Instagram and TikTok at @berm.msc

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In this episode, Erin Olinger, co-host of the Come.Union Podcast shares her personal journey of finding validation and worth in the midst of never feeling enough or at times, a little too much. She discusses her struggles with an eating disorder in middle school and how she found healing and hope. Erin also talks about her career in the music industry and the moment she felt called to walk away and pursue a different path into ministry. It was during this time of her life that she finally finds out what it means to take off the mask she has been wearing because she believed she was not enough and starts to see who God says she is. She learns about vulnerability and how sharing her life can also lead to feeling like she was too much for others. In the midst of it all, she shares the importance of recognizing God's voice that says she is enough and learning to believe that God has created her for such an incredible purpose, even if she is not every person’s cup of tea. 

Key Takeaways:

* The importance of having mentors in our life to have support and guidance during the young years of adolescence. 

* Eating disorders are not always about body image but can stem from a desire for control and a fear of not being enough.

* Hearing God's voice and following His leading can bring peace and clarity, even in difficult decisions.

* It's important to recognize and challenge the lies we believe about ourselves and replace them with the truth of God's love and acceptance.

* Hurt people hurt people, but healed people can bring healing to others.

* God's peace doesn't need our circumstances to be in alignment. God's peace can say, 'This feels like it makes no sense, but I'm going to give you peace because it's what I want you to do."

* God's peace is how we can recognize God's voice. It's not always audible, but it brings a deep sense of peace and assurance.

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Instagram:@Erincolinger

Email: erincolinger@gmail.com

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In this episode, Ramonita and Erin discuss the importance of being authentic and vulnerable in a world that often makes us feel invisible. They reflect on their own experiences of searching for belonging and share how they have learned to embrace their true selves, who God created on purpose, for a purpose. They also explore the concept of fitting in versus belonging and the impact it has on our mental and emotional well-being. Through their personal stories and insights, they inspire listeners to embrace their uniqueness and find their place in the world.

Key Takeaways:

* Belonging is a basic human need, and we are created to find places of belonging.

* Fitting in is about wanting to be a part of something else, while belonging is about being wanted and accepted for who you truly are.

* It is important to know and accept who we are at our core, regardless of societal expectations or pressures.

* Surrounding ourselves with safe and supportive people who accept us for who we are is crucial for our well-being.

* Vulnerability and authenticity are key to building deep and meaningful connections with others.

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In this episode, Jana shares her journey of navigating the complexities of her identity as an Asian-American. She discusses growing up between two different worlds, feeling invisible, and the impact of cultural assimilation. Jana also talks about her experience of reclaiming her cultural heritage and finding her voice in a world that often overlooked her. She shares personal stories of family struggles, mental health challenges, and the miraculous recovery of her son after a traumatic incident. Through it all, Jana's story is a testament to resilience, love, and the unending journey towards self-discovery.

Key Takeaways:

* Navigating the complexities of identity as an Asian-American can be challenging, especially when caught between two different worlds.

* Reclaiming cultural heritage and finding our voice is a powerful journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

* Forgiveness and reconciliation are ongoing processes that require time, understanding, and boundaries.

* Mental health and therapy can play a crucial role in healing, self-acceptance, and personal growth.

* Advocating for marginalized communities and creating spaces of belonging is a powerful way to make a positive impact.

To connect with Jana, follow her on instagram @jkelsay or check out her website www.janakelsay.com

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Key Takeaways:

* Healing from trauma takes time and should not be rushed. Just like physical wounds, emotional wounds need time to scab, heal, and eventually form scars.

* Scars serve as reminders of past wounds, but they no longer cause pain. They are indications of healing and growth.

* Trauma responses can manifest in various ways, such as anxiety, overthinking, or projecting past hurts onto current relationships. Recognizing these responses is crucial for healing and growth.

* Healing can come from various sources, including therapy, safe communities, and the support of loved ones. It is important to find healthy ways to process and heal from past wounds.

* Forgiveness is a personal choice and can be given even when an apology is not received. It allows us to release the burden of holding onto anger and resentment.

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Season 2, Episode 7 is with Faith Corley, a former board-certified music therapist and mental health counselor who shares her own story of healing from trauma and heartache she has experienced. Faith opens up about her challenging childhood, the impact of her father's harmful beliefs, and how her view of God was shaped by her family dynamics. Faith also discusses meeting her ex-husband and the abusive relationship that followed in her marriage to him that ultimately lead to divorce. Despite the difficulties she faced, Faith found strength in relationship with Jesus and the support of her community. She gives us a great perspective of what it looks like to heal in the midst of our grief and not lose hope in the process. Faith also shares the journey towards and role of forgiveness and boundaries in her healing process that ultimately lead her to her husband, Alex, with whom she gets to raise their incredible children.

Key Takeaways:

* Discussions about a childhood marked by strained family dynamics and harmful beliefs that shape our view of God.

* Walking into and through an abusive relationship and the feeling being trapped and manipulated.

* Finding the strength to leave an abusive relationship and seek healing through therapy and the support of community.

* Learning the importance of forgiveness and setting boundaries in order to fully heal.

Don’t miss this story of healing through heartache from our sweet friend, Faith! Get ready to be inspired by her wisdom and encouraged by her heart!

Faith is married to her husband, Alex, and is mom to three young boys, ages 3, 6, and 8. She currently teaches music part time at her sons’ school, serves on the board of a local non-profit, and helps lead a group for moms at her church. Faith enjoys yoga, tennis, the beach, making music, reading, speaking Spanish, and traveling. 

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"Sometimes we have to feel out of control in order to realize that God is in control." - Erin

In episode 6 of Season 2, we discuss the topic of control and how it affects our lives—and the struggles that come with seeking it. We explore the idea that our need for control stems from a desire for safety and security. We also reflect on our own experiences of wrestling with God's plans and the importance of faith in letting go of control. We touch on the concept of controlling the narrative and the impact of social media on our need for control. Throughout the conversation, we emphasize the importance of trusting in God's control and finding peace in surrendering to His plans—even when we do not understand them.

Key Takeaways:

* Our need for control is often rooted in a desire for safety and security.

* Wrestling with God's plans is a natural part of our faith journey, but ultimately, choosing obedience and surrender leads to growth and blessings.

* Trying to control the narrative or what others think of us is a futile effort that only leads to anxiety and insecurity.

* Trusting in God's control and letting go of our own need for control brings peace and freedom.

* Social media can exacerbate our need for control, but recognizing that we can't control others' perceptions or opinions is liberating.

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Key Takeaways:

* Trusting God's plan and provision can lead to unexpected blessings and transformation.

* God's voice often speaks in whispers, and His guidance can be discerned through peace and provision.

* Obedience to God's calling may conflict with rational decisions and the opinions of others.

* Wrestling with doubts and uncertainties is a natural part of the faith journey.

* Faith requires surrendering control and trusting that God's plan is greater than our own.

Don’t miss this incredible story of our dear friend, Deb Williams! You will walk away challenged and encouraged, no doubt!

Deb Williams is a brand marketing strategist, storyteller, and creative visionary. She is a double graduate of Georgetown University in Washington, D.C. Originally from Little Rock, Arkansas, Deb's journey has been marked by her commitment to using the power of storytelling to bring about meaningful connections and positive change in the world. She sees stories as a powerful tool to not only connect people but also contribute to the transformation of the world.

To connect with Deb: Follow on instagram @debfayewms

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 In episode 3 of season 2, Ramonita and Erin discuss the power of replacing the lies we believe about ourselves with the truth. Inspired by their guest from episode 3, Mark Godbolt, Ramonita and Erin explore how lies can impact our relationships—and how speaking the truth can lead to forgiveness and healing. They focus on the importance of inviting others into our stories in order to help identify and challenge the lies we believe. They also highlight the significance of reading and understanding God's Word for ourselves—rather than relying solely on others' interpretations—in order to replace lies with truth, ultimately leading to freedom and reconciliation.

Key Highlights from this episode:

* The impact of lies: The lies we believe about ourselves can have a significant impact on our relationships and overall well-being.

* Speaking the truth: Speaking the truth and confessing the lies we believe is a crucial step towards forgiveness and healing.

* Inviting others into our stories: Inviting trusted individuals into our stories can help identify and challenge the lies we believe and provide accountability.

* The power of God's Word: Reading and understanding God's Word is essential for replacing lies with truth and experiencing freedom.

* Choosing forgiveness: Forgiveness is a choice that allows us to extend grace and mercy to others, just as God has extended it to us.

* Confession of lies: Ramonita and Erin discuss the lies they are currently confronting in their own lives.

Don’t miss this incredible episode and the honesty that is shared!

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In Episode 3 of the Come.Union Podcast we invite our guest, Mark Godbolt, to share his powerful story of healing and reconciliation. From a difficult childhood marked by abuse and absent fathers to finding his purpose and starting a community of men that is focused on healing through transparency, accountability, and humility—Mark's journey is one of humility, faith, obedience and forgiveness. He discusses the importance of forgiveness—of self and others—the impact of toxic relationships, and the transformation that comes from seeking God's love. Mark's story serves as a reminder that no matter our past, we can find healing and break free from the lies we believe to start walking in truth!

Key Highlights:

* Forgiveness is a powerful tool for healing and reconciliation.

Mark discusses his journey of forgiving the ones who have hurt him the most, including himslf and the breakthrough that happened as a result.

* Toxic relationships can have a lasting impact, but we have the power to break free from their hold.

Mark explains the impact that abuse had on his life and the addictions it lead to—AND how he broke free from their hold on his life.

* Seeking God's love and guidance leads to transformation and a renewed sense of purpose.

Mark tells us about the transformation journey of his life when he stopped beliving lies and started to believe truth.

* Building a community of support and accountability is essential for personal growth and healing.

Mark's journey of healing and reconciliation has inspired many, and he is dedicated to helping others find their purpose and live a fulfilling life through “The Memo.”

Where you can find Mark:

On instagram @markzgodbolt

 In 2021 Mark founded “The Memo,” a community of men focused on transparency, accountability, and humility. They host weekly virtual Bible studies, in-person gatherings and retreats all centered around their mission: From him, Through us, For all.

For more info on “The Memo” email Mark at markzgodbolt@gmail.com 

Mark is also the co-host of The Godbolt Life podcast, where he and his wife, Jade Godbolt, share their experiences and insights on marriage and faith. To listen, check them out on instagram @thegodboltlife.

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Key Takeaways

* Grief is a deeply personal and individual experience, and everyone processes it differently. It is important to recognize and respect the unique ways in which people grieve.

* Supporting someone through grief requires empathy, understanding, and the willingness to hold space for their emotions. It is crucial to avoid judgment and allow them to grieve in their own way.

* Loss and grief can occur in various forms, including the death of a loved one, the end of a relationship, or the transition from one phase of life to another. Each type of loss requires its own unique approach to support and navigate the grieving process.

What you will hear:

Timestamp Summary

00:01:17 A listener's question about supporting someone through grief

00:02:19 The importance of understanding different ways of grieving

00:07:26 Supporting others during grief

00:11:06 The fear of unsaid things and the importance of forgiveness

00:15:29 Grief in the loss of friendships

00:15:01 Grief beyond death: loss of relationships and transitions

00:32:34 The example of Jesus and his relationships

00:38:06 Grieving previous versions of ourselves

00:43:19 Seeking answers and resources for grief

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Hosts: Ramonita Smith @_ramonitasmith and Erin Olinger @erinolinger

Producer: Dan Nelson

In Season 2, you will still find all that you loved about season 1, but this season is all about sharing personal stories—featuring some of their closest friends—and how they found reconciliation with God, self, and others in the midst of their stories.

The first special guest is John Olinger, who happens to also be Erin’s husband. :)

John shares his journey of losing his mother at a young age, the transformation and impact of relationships in his life, lessons he learned about identity in difficult moments, his journey of working at NIKE, and learning the importance of “winning where it’s worthy.” He also shares what he learned through losing his father three years ago and how that loss has shaped his life and mission since. 

Key Highlights:

* Difficult losses lead to worthy wins

John’s story revolves around the theme of "difficult losses and worthy wins." This title encapsulates the journey of reconciliation that he has experienced in his life. Through John’s life, he has learned that through facing and overcoming challenges, we can achieve meaningful victories.

* Turning to God in grief

One of the key themes in John's story is his ability to turn to God in times of grief. Despite experiencing difficult losses, such as the passing of his mother and father, John chose to lean on his faith rather than turn away from it. This choice is particularly remarkable considering that many people often become angry with God or question their faith when faced with such tragic circumstances.

* Identity is not defined by achievements

Regardless of success in his career at Nike, John shares his learnings through many moments of his life that showed him how much our identity is not defined by what we achieve but by who we are and were made to be.

John is a strategic consultant, executive coach, and keynote speaker. He uses his expertise in strategy, marketing, and storytelling to empower organizations and individuals to get worthy wins. John plans to publish his first book in 2024.

To find out more about WORTHY WINS and the work John is doing, go to worthywins.co and follow him @johnolinger.

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A snapshot of the episode: 

* The Christmas Crazies: our obnoxious love for Christmas

* The real reason we love Christmas

* Jesus as a symbol of God’s reconciliation

* Reconciliation is running towards not away

* An invitation and challenge for this Christmas season

Ti-Ti and Erin open up about their recent experiences and the masks they have worn in their lives. They emphasize the importance of authenticity and vulnerability in friendships, and how true connection can only be achieved when we remove our masks. They discuss the need for grace and understanding in relationships, and the power of being fully seen and known by others. Ti-Ti and Erin also explore the concept of self-love and the role it plays in our ability to receive and give love to others. They highlight the significance of community and the impact it has on our personal growth and well-being.

Key Takeaways:

* Authentic friendships require vulnerability and the willingness to remove our masks.

* Receiving love is essential before we can truly give love to others.

* The importance of surrounding ourselves with people who see and accept us for who we are.

* Self-love is crucial in our ability to receive and believe in the love of others.

* Community and relationships play a vital role in our personal growth and well-being.

Chapters:

| 00:03:00 | The importance of friendship and grace. 

| 00:07:00 | Examples of masks we wear. 

| 00:08:00 | Masks and insecurities. 

| 00:12:00 | Seeking belonging and not wanting pity. 

| 00:22:00 | Analogy of caterpillar and butterfly to reveal our true identity 

| 00:26:00 | The power of self-talk and its impact on our self-perception 

| 00:29:00 | Importance of being mindful of who we surround ourselves with 

| 00:34:00 | The need to learn to receive love before giving love 

| 00:41:00 | Dwelling in the room of grace and knowing who we are 

| 00:45:00 | Reconciliation and the work of recognizing it 

| 00:46:00 | Invitation to engage with the book and continue the discussion 

E and T discuss the book "The Cure" and its impact on their lives. They explore the concept of vulnerability and the importance of taking off the mask to be truly known and loved. They also discuss the two paths of pleasing God and trusting God, and the rooms of good intentions and grace.E and T share each of their journeys of healing and the role of therapy in their lives. They emphasize the need for authentic community and the power of love to heal and transform.

Key Takeaways:

1. Vulnerability requires taking off the mask and allowing ourselves to be fully known and loved.
2. The path of pleasing God leads to striving and exhaustion, while the path of trusting God leads to grace and freedom.
3. The room of good intentions is marked by performance and the fear of not being enough, while the room of grace offers acceptance and love.
4. Healing requires feeling and embracing our brokenness, and seeking support from others.
5. Love has the power to heal and transform, and it is through love that we can break generational curses and create spaces of safety.

What you’ll hear: 

0:02:00 - Healing, Parenting, and Vulnerability

0:13:00 - The Two Roads 

0:17:00 - Discovering the Importance of Trusting God 

0:26:00 - Trusting God and Embracing Grace 

0:29:00 - Authenticity and Unconditional Love's Power 

0:32:00 - Inclusive Communities in Christian Spaces 

0:36:00 - Love and Authenticity in Relationships 

0:46:00 - Middle School Bullying and Power of Love 

0:52:00 - The Power of Love and Faith 

E and T discuss the challenges and rewards of navigating transitions in life. They share their personal experiences of leaving familiar careers and stepping into the unknown. They emphasize the importance of obedience to God's calling and the role of community in supporting and encouraging one another through the in-between seasons of life.

Key Takeaways:

* Transition is a process that requires obedience and trust in God's plan.

* The in-between seasons of life are where God does profound work and healing.

* Community and the faith of friends are essential for staying committed and accountable during transitions.

* Nothing is wasted in God's plan, and every experience and skill can be used for a greater purpose.

What you will hear:

04:00 Difficulty in starting a podcast and managing transitions

06:00 Story of how the idea of a podcast started

09:00 Three years of transition and wrestling with God's calling

13:00 Purpose and using past experiences for the present

18:00 Transitioning from a familiar to an unknown path

25:00 The faith of a friend in carrying through the transition

30:00 The importance of having faith in pursuing one's calling

36:00 The twist of redemption in our stories

46:00 Importance of staying consistent and not giving up

51:00 Encouragement to keep going and trust the process

Ti-Ti and Erin reflect on the REAL launch of their podcast and the overwhelming support they received. They discuss the importance of focusing on what is already present in their lives and finding gratitude in the midst of challenges. They also emphasize the power of words and the need to speak life and encouragement into others. The episode ends with a cliffhanger, teasing a future discussion on the difficulties of transitions.

Key Takeaways:

* The answers and blessings we seek are often already present in our lives, but we need to shift our focus to recognize them.

* The power of words cannot be underestimated, and we should strive to speak life and encouragement into others.

* Safety and creating a safe space for others is crucial in building authentic relationships and community.

02:00 Challenges faced during launch and gratitude for support

06:00 Importance of focusing on God and finding rest in Him

10:00 The power of words and speaking life into others

17:00 The impact of our words on ourselves and our communities

20:00 The need for safety and creating a safe space

25:00 The importance of gratitude and avoiding entitlement and judgment

28:00 The power of words and the need for heart posture

32:00 Transitioning and the challenges it brings

45:00 Encouragement to lean into purpose and community support

In this episode, Ti-Ti and Erin discuss the state of the church and the challenges it faces in today's culture. They reference a video clip by Lecrae, where he talks about the influence of social media and the business-like structure of many churches. They share their own experiences and frustrations with the church, as well as their hopes for a more authentic and community-focused approach to faith.

Key Takeaways:

* Many churches have become more focused on presentation and growth, resembling American business institutions rather than communities of believers.

* The pursuit of fame and popularity can lead pastors and leaders to lose sight of their original intentions and the true purpose of the church.

* The aftermath of church scandals and controversies can be devastating for congregants who trusted and looked up to their leaders.

* It is important to support and pray for pastors and leaders, even when they make mistakes, as they are human and in need of grace and compassion, just like we do.

00:00 Introduction and discussion about the church

02:00 Churches turning into businesses instead of communities

04:00 Challenges of church growth and the focus on capital growth

06:00 Personal experiences and hurts within the church

08:00 The aftermath of the Hillsong documentary and the pain caused

10:00 The struggle of balancing growth and resources in the church

12:00 The importance of fixing our gaze on God

14:00 The need for authenticity and transparency in leadership

16:00 The importance of supporting pastors and leaders in their struggles

18:00 The church as a hospital, not a shopping mall

23:00 Loss of trust and skepticism towards Christianity

32:00 Anger and sadness towards misrepresentation of Jesus

39:00 Differentiating between pastoral leadership and entrepreneurship

44:00 Humility and low-profile pastors who get it right

49:00 Seeking thoughts and experiences on church and community

About The Guest(s):

Ti-Ti and Erin are the hosts of the podcast "Come.Union," where they explore topics related to faith, relationships, and personal growth. They bring their own experiences and perspectives to the conversations, creating a safe space for listeners to engage with these important topics.

Summary:

Ti-Ti and Erin discuss the importance of trust and love in relationships, both with God and with others. They reflect on their own experiences in marriage and how trust and teamwork have contributed to the success of their relationships. They emphasize the need to view relationships as a partnership and to always work towards the greater good of the team. They also discuss the challenges of trust and the impact of past experiences on our ability to trust others. They highlight the importance of understanding the character of God and how it influences our ability to trust and love Him. They also touch on the impact of societal expectations and religious teachings on our perception of God's love and acceptance.

Key Takeaways:

1. Trust and love are essential in relationships, both with God and with others.
2. Viewing relationships as a partnership and working towards the greater good of the team is crucial for success.
3. Understanding the character of God is essential for building trust and love in our relationship with Him.
4. Past experiences can impact our ability to trust others, but it is important to give people the opportunity.

What you'll hear in this episode:

08:00 The importance of having safe places in relationships

12:00 The struggle of trusting God and others

16:00 The concept of loving someone without fully trusting them

18:00 The role of character in trust and love

22:00 The impact of personal encounters with Jesus

26:00 The importance of focusing on God's love and relationship

32:00 The transformational power of encountering Jesus

36:00 The need to trust in God's character and love

38:00 The danger of a religious view of God

40:00 The freedom to explore and get to know God

46:00 The fear of getting it wrong and the need for trust

48:00 The call to love and not condemn

50:00 Conclusion and invitation

Summary: In this episode, Erin (E) and T (Ti-Ti) discuss the importance of community. T shares her experience of hosting gatherings and creating a sense of family and fellowship for those who may not have family nearby. She talks about the challenges of the pandemic and her journey to reignite her light and find her true self. E opens up about feeling lonely and the struggle to find community in a new place. They both reflect on the significance of Holy Week and the hope that comes from the resurrection of Jesus. They discuss the importance of self-love, releasing fear and perfectionism, and embracing the new seasons that God has in store.

Key Takeaways:

*Building community takes time and it's important to be patient and open to new relationships.

*It's essential to love and accept oneself before seeking validation from others.

*Seasons of loneliness and isolation can be opportunities for personal growth and reflection.

*God can bring new life and hope to seemingly dead situations.

*It's important to have faith and trust in God's promises, even when things don't go as planned.

What you'll hear in this episode:

02:00 The importance of building community and hosting gatherings

14:00 The need to love and accept oneself

17:00 The importance of not seeking validation from others

20:00 Reflecting on the resurrection and the hope it brings

23:00 The significance of seasons and the need for patience

26:00 Releasing fear and perfectionism

39:00 Faith, Seasons, and Receiving Love

49:00 Receiving Perspective and Embracing Identity

Summary: Erin and Ti-Ti discuss the challenges of living authentically and pursuing a relationship with Jesus outside of traditional Christianity. They share their personal experiences of feeling lonely and misunderstood, and how they navigate relationships with people who may not agree with their viewpoints. They also talk about the importance of seeking to understand others and the power of vulnerability in building deep connections. The intentionality of their podcast name, Come.Union, is to invite people to come as they are and experience union with God, themselves, and others through sharing their stories. They draw parallels between their own struggles and those faced by the disciples in Jesus' time, emphasizing the need for space to process and understand what it truly means to be a child of God. They acknowledge the challenges and attacks that come with boldly professing their beliefs, but remain committed to seeking answers and inviting others on their journey.

Key Takeaways:

* Living authentically can be challenging and lonely, especially when your beliefs and viewpoints differ from those around you.

* Seeking to understand others and being open to different perspectives is important, even if they don't align with your own.

* Building deep connections requires vulnerability and a willingness to go beyond surface-level conversations.

* The name Come.Union reflects the invitation to come as you are and experience union with God, yourself, and others through sharing your stories.

* Just as the disciples faced challenges and questioned their beliefs, it's natural to grapple with the difficulties of being a Christian in today's world.

* Boldly professing beliefs can invite attacks and questioning, but it's important to remain committed to seeking answers and inviting others on the journey.

What you'll hear in this episode:

00:01:00 Erin's struggle with loneliness and changing relationships

00:06:00 Ti-Ti's journey of self-discovery and the importance of declaring who we are

00:08:00 The challenges of being authentic and the fear of being judged

00:10:00 The importance of seeking to understand

00:13:00 The need for curiosity and seeing the human behind the ideology

00:17:00 The struggle of being unoffendable and extending grace to others

00:23:00 Living authentically and seeking understanding

00:28:00 Division and the importance of unity

00:32:00 Letting go of the need to explain oneself

00:39:00 The struggle of boldly professing Christianity in today's world

00:49:00 Unity and community in the face of division

00:53:00 The need for reconciliation

01:01:00 The intentionality of Come.Union and the invitation to come as you are

01:03:00 The meaning of Come.Union and finding unity through sharing stories

01:06:00 The choice to love, trust, and remain in relationship

Ramonita and Erin started their podcast journey three years ago, feeling inspired by God to create a community of belonging and reconciliation. Their first episode focuses on their journey to today and finally releasing something deeply authentic that they believe others will connect with. These friends want to bring reconciliation to a divided world but believe it starts with doing the work in ourselves, first. It is only by doing our own work that we can then listen and seek to understand each other. That is when the REAL reconciliation can begin because we have created the space in our hearts to seek it.

The conversation between these two friends touches on the idea that fear can hold us back, and how the events of the past three years have been difficult for many people to manage. We can all say the last three years have felt heavy with the amount of negativity surrounding the pandemic, social justice movements, and the division and discord in the world. When you add in the isolation one can feel while raising kids in the midst, releasing Come.Union felt nearly impossible. Yet, what the world needs is authentic expressions of real life. Ramonita and Erin have decided to not wait around for life to get to a perfect state, but rather press record now and watch what happens! They can’t wait for you to join them on their journey!

What you'll hear in this episode:

00:03:00 Our Journey to Communion

00:12:00 Exploring the Freedom of Reconciliation

00:17:00 Reconciliation Through Communion

00:19:00 The Power of "Just Go" in Our Lives - Immediate Obedience and Releasing a Podcast

00:26:00   Faith Through Curiosity: Gaining Freedom in faith with God

00:29:00  The Power of Relationships: Self-Love, God, and Others

00:39:00 Wrap up: Let’s go!

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At the heart of our Christian faith is the belief in reconciliation, and we strive to cultivate a safe and inclusive space where listeners can engage in self-reflection and explore different perspectives. Our podcast seeks to inspire our community to work towards healing and reconciliation in their personal lives and communities.

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