The Experience Podcast

Hoe Bags and Swinger Clubs

Fri, 01 May 2026 11:42:11 +0000

We dove into the raw side of the lifestyle. Silver Foxxxy spilled the details on swinger parties, but her real pro tip? Bring a hoe bag. We didn’t shy away from what’s inside: condoms, toiletries, clean gear, and that little edge to stay ready for anything. It was blunt, it was unapologetic, and it was exactly what people need to hear if they’re stepping into that world.

How men SEE attraction vs a woman

Thu, 23 Apr 2026 12:25:26 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how mens attraction is more through our eyes and how women also see physical attraction their level of engagement and what they feel as attraction goes deeper than just the physical plane.

The Night She Stepped Into Kink..And Never Looked Back

Tue, 14 Apr 2026 20:36:21 +0000

This episode starts innocent… and then Silver Foxxxy casually drops that she went from a vanilla marriage straight into gangbangs 😳🔥 Sir InQ pulls it all out of her—dating apps, unsolicited dick pics, and how one night with a Dom completely flipped the switch on everything she thought she knew 💦 She walks through the exact moment she stepped into the lifestyle… and how quickly things escalated from curiosity to full-blown exploration 😏 We’re talking kink, consent, power exchange, and what actually happens behind the scenes in the swinging world. And just when you think you’ve heard it all… yeah, you haven’t

What she's feeling vs what he's thinking

Mon, 30 Mar 2026 04:00:44 +0000

In this episode Sir Inq discusses 10 points of view from how a male views sex and performance to how women feels and connects to men through the entire experience.

Pay problems away!

Mon, 16 Mar 2026 04:00:04 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses the advantages of paying for sex specially if you're in a sexless relationship, in a relationship and want sex outside your dynamic or you're man consumed with work and do not have the time to commit to a relationship and is tired of failing with connection.

Message to younger men

Thu, 12 Mar 2026 04:00:36 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses the importance of men specially younger men to have a singular focus and minimize the multitude of distractions and how that focus helps to build a sustainable life, win in their personal lives and build a legacy.

Cracked cell phone screens reveal character

Mon, 09 Mar 2026 14:15:39 +0000

In this episode Sir Inq elaborates on a story he was told about a man engaging a woman at a bar and tried to exchange information with a potential date with a cracked cell phone screen and how that reveals a persons character and he might have killed the vibes before he had a second chance. Remember you never get a second chance at a 1st impression!

The first moment men receive bad sex advice

Thu, 05 Feb 2026 05:00:25 +0000

In this episode Sir Inq discusses those first encounters with sex and the errors in who introduces us and the affects it carries on longterm

When doubling down goes foul!

Thu, 15 Jan 2026 05:00:55 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq responds to a listeners response to one podcast as the follower grapples with ED issues within a second time marriage to a very sexually open woman.

Too early for a breast request!

Thu, 08 Jan 2026 05:00:02 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq dives into a conversation he had with Layla about her dating experience and how even 60yr old men who are thought to be mature and savvy but are running the risk of becoming just like their younger counterparts with wanting to see nudity before meeting in person.

Inq's 2026 Sexual resolutions

Thu, 01 Jan 2026 13:09:40 +0000

In this episode Sir Inq discusses his sexual resolutions for 2026 and how those resolutions are a continuation of the things he's been working on since 2024 and 2025.

Inq's Red Pill review

Thu, 25 Dec 2025 05:00:50 +0000

In this episode Sir Inq gives his review on the red pill content, whats missing, and how the conversation needs to graduate to less arguing amongst the sexes to more connection between men and women for better experiences, relationships and outcomes.

The Seducer MINDSET

Thu, 18 Dec 2025 05:00:24 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq delves into how to seduce the woman of your desire, discusses how to set the mood and walk her into your world seamlessly.

Does she deserve to see the sky or stand outside in line to get into the lobby?

Thu, 11 Dec 2025 11:12:06 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his version of Curious Girls “pair and a spare” which he likens to dating tiers and uses rooms as an example to explain his remix of her theory. #dominance #submission

Learning her while watching her touch herself

Thu, 04 Dec 2025 05:00:13 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how to look at the videos she sends not only for your viewing pleasure but its a good view into what pleases her and how to make her climax when you're ready to take her there!

Why can't he last?

Mon, 01 Dec 2025 05:00:10 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses why men suffer from erectile dysfuntion, the things we use to combat them ie ED pills and drinks, but also discusses the mental side as well as the physical health side that most men ignore that's the actual canary in the coal mine!

Topping from the bottom

Thu, 20 Nov 2025 05:00:37 +0000

In this episode I discuss how men with good intentions that are overly negotiable end up suverting their leadership role to their wife or girlfriend and are not in control of their relationships, family and finances.

A space where you can be yourself

Thu, 13 Nov 2025 05:00:35 +0000

In this podcast I discuss how seasoned men do not pursue women for sex but for true connection in a way that is healthy and is willing to provide an environment and or experience that allows his poteintail date to be themselves so they. can get to know each other with less to no pressure. A thoughtful man understands in todays time with social media and the lies that are told for the conquest of sex it's important if you value connection their are healthier ways to approach it and being like everyone else just won't do it!

Bj's and soul snatchers

Thu, 06 Nov 2025 05:00:10 +0000

In this episode I discuss the wonderful world of bj's, soul snatchers, the wrong way to do it and what makes it so awesome that most men can't deny wanting them when done correctly.

The dating tool shed

Thu, 30 Oct 2025 04:00:26 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his latest observation on the dating game and so how many single people aren't fully equipped to date properly and why it's important to step ones game up and in what areas need one needs to focus on themselves. #dominance #submission

Quotes that have impacted my life

Thu, 23 Oct 2025 04:00:38 +0000

Sir Inq reminisces over quotes he’s heard since a young man until present time and how they have such deeper meaning today then when he first heard them! #dominance #submission #sirinq

Some come for the kink not the discipline!

Thu, 16 Oct 2025 04:00:11 +0000

Sir Inq discusses the difference between those you like the bdsm lifestyle for just the kink not the discipline and relationship aspect of it. #dominance #submission #sirinq

Ways men crave to be desired beyond sex.

Thu, 09 Oct 2025 11:34:27 +0000

Sir Inq responds to a follower’s question on “what are some non sexual things that make men feel desirable?”.

#siriq #dominance #submission

How mentally bringing work home can ruin the sanctity of it.

Thu, 09 Oct 2025 11:27:25 +0000

Sir Inq discusses why it’s important to find a way to decompress and compartmentalize your work stress for the sanctity of your home life.

#sirinq #dominance #submission

Men’s sexual evolution and the negative side of not evolving.

Thu, 25 Sep 2025 04:00:55 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq delves into how men grow in their sexual prowess and skills from being a young man into his more seasoned years of 40+, also how some men never evolve and for them it’s about having an orgasm not actually pleasing their partner.

#sirinq #dominance #submission

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How did smart women became stupid?

Thu, 18 Sep 2025 10:00:38 +0000

In this episode Sir Inq questions the smart ladies on why they accept so much bs when they absolutely know better! Y'all read all the blogs, listen to podcast after podcast, engage in the groups on Facebook and more yet some of y'all go for the bs and lie to yourselves openly and quietly which is dangerous in todays dating market!

Dating out of desperation

Thu, 11 Sep 2025 04:01:40 +0000

Sir Inq discusses that thin line between wanting a partner for love an companionship and needing a a partner for survival and future stability and growth that one has not successfully created for themselves due to self inflicted negligence and not taking their future serious enough in their 20's,30's and wake up in their 40tys only to realize their in a shrunken dating market and feel the pressure to stop playing around and settle in.

Can a Dom only be a mentor?

Tue, 21 Jan 2025 12:45:55 +0000

In this talk Inq discusses if a Dom can be only a mentor to a sub without a loving relationship or claiming said submissive. Also discusses the importance of having a Dominant in your life as a mentor regardless of any other aspects of the lifestyle.

Laziness in relationships

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 20:51:45 +0000

In this podcast Inq discusses laziness in relationships and the problems it leads to, and what you can do as a Dom to get out of that rut!

Is there love in BDSM?

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 20:49:55 +0000

In this podcast Inq responds to a followers question of “is there love in BDSM?” and of course his answer is “yes” but hear why.

Is there a difference between bdsm and kink?

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 20:48:11 +0000

In this podcast Inq discusses the difference between bdsm and kink and what are some of the ways you can tell the difference between the two and how one has less than the other.

Can you become a Dom?

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 20:46:18 +0000

In this podcast Inq discusses if a regular man can become a Dominant man within the lifestyle.

The hidden Dominant

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 20:44:24 +0000

In this podcast Inq discusses how many Dominant men do not represent the lifestyle openly and many may not participate in many aspects of kink, role play etc but at the core dominants and go about their lives without wanting attention or recognition. #domination #submission #sirinq

Selfishness and the daydream phantom

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 05:00:00 +0000

In this podcast Inq discusses how our own selfish wants and dream of love and relationships not only blinds us to certain realities but also binds us to disfunction and bad outcomes. #domination #submission

Tis the season for endings?

Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:37:27 +0000

In this podcast Inq discusses why before the new year he takes inventory of his friends, relationships, business affairs etc and how he weeds the one out that no longer serve his overall purpose and goals, and how it’s not easy and not all endings are bad and actually allow room for growth. #domination #submission

Practice!

Thu, 12 Dec 2024 05:25:00 +0000

In this podcast Inq discusses the importance of practicing your side f the dynamic even when you're without a D or s.

Rejection

Wed, 11 Dec 2024 13:22:40 +0000

In this podcast Inq discusses the reasons and causations behind being rejected, how to view rejection and why it isn't always a you issue.

The various versions of Dominants

Tue, 10 Dec 2024 05:00:00 +0000

In the podcast Inq discusses the various differences in how some Dom's punish and think differently in their dynamics.

Dom down hard or no?

Mon, 09 Dec 2024 14:23:45 +0000

In this podcast Inq discusses the difference in Dom's that are more flexible and those that "Dom down hard" and are less tolerant with their submissive's access to certain things.

Are you the tortoise or the hare?

Fri, 06 Dec 2024 12:00:00 +0000

In this podcast Inq compares the classic story of the tortoise and the hare to relationships and having life goals that keeps an individual focused and not sloppy and all over the place.

My guys tuck your shirt in!

Thu, 05 Dec 2024 12:00:00 +0000

In this podcast Inc discusses the difference between men that have their ish together and the ones walking around with their shirts (swag) untucked and how it makes a mess of not only their lives but the lives of others!

Calling out the ladies

Wed, 04 Dec 2024 13:44:05 +0000

In this podcast Inq calls the ladies to the carpet on trying to fix a man that is set in his way but it's also a diversion for them to not focus on themselves.

Who are you?!?

Tue, 03 Dec 2024 23:48:46 +0000

In this cast Sir Inq delves into the foundation of each Dom and sub as some mask who they are in the title and surface acts but who one truly is can not be hidden for long and it's best to be who you are unapologetically for the best outcomes!

Investing into the lifestyle

Thu, 11 Apr 2024 12:29:20 +0000

Let's discuss the importance of investing in the lifestyle as a way to expand your experience and avoid hitting a wall within your dynamic. There is a reconning that comes when you get yourself into such an expansive lifestyle and try to lowball what comes with it! #submission #domination

Master timing and context

Mon, 08 Apr 2024 15:55:37 +0000

In this podcast I briefly discuss why timing and context is important to avoid uncomfortable moments, arguments and public embarrassment. Many intimate conversations do not need to be had in public spaces or in front of others that add no value to the situation at hand.

#submission #domination

Controlling the environment

Sat, 06 Apr 2024 11:00:00 +0000

Let’s discuss why it’s important to control your environment to maximize on the experiences you desire and stay away from moments and people less desirable.

#domination #submission

The importance of male mentorship

Fri, 05 Apr 2024 11:00:00 +0000

Young boys need proper mentorship to become successful decent men without the hard knocks life can bring without prior knowledge of where the pitfalls are as we mature. A wise man learns from others mistakes but it takes all generations of males to embrace one another for the betterment of our species.

#donimation

Wed, 18 Oct 2023 13:28:59 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his first time playing with fire in a session and the reaction from his sub who experienced a scary fun good time. He also discusses safety measures and things that need to be considered equipment wise.

His actions exposes the masochist within him!

Tue, 10 Oct 2023 20:38:50 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how a friend of his says one thing about women but chooses the opposite and his choices betray his words and exposes him as a masochist and maybe a service submissive.

#dominant

#submission

#sirinq

Block the opinions of the masses!

Thu, 05 Oct 2023 15:54:20 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses the importance of filtering the opinion of the masses and most time why blocking them out all together is the most important thing one can do for their mental health and focus in on the outcomes you desire for your life.

Should you force submission??

Mon, 02 Oct 2023 23:31:46 +0000

Why do so many men use their dominance to force submission on a woman? Is this how it should go or no?

Out The Box?

Mon, 11 Sep 2023 15:28:31 +0000

Sir Inq discusses his thoughts on thinking and living outside societal norms in an authentic or clandestine way seeking the same results.

What happened to the kings men?

Thu, 07 Sep 2023 23:00:00 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses "where are the kings men" in a poetical way but touches on the reality of how many men have been feminized in todays times.

#dominant

#submission

Softly and aggressively, simultaneously!

Tue, 05 Sep 2023 23:52:09 +0000

She like's her pu$$y fckd aggressively and her clit touched softly!

The lost art of finessing

Wed, 30 Aug 2023 18:45:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq and his guest The Curious Girl discuss how many women have lost the art of finessing and how feminism has duped them into thinking being a boss b!tch will not only equal success at work but also in their homes, which has failed them as a strategy!

#dominant

#submission

Where are we going?

Mon, 28 Aug 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Where are we going with life and this lifestyle of kink, domination and submission? In todays times you can be whoever you want, have what you want and switch up as you please but is that a good thing or driving us to be indecisive and inconsistent leading to the lack of good unions?

Dom's should have their own style!

Sat, 26 Aug 2023 10:49:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses how each Dom should have their own style and not chase the view of what a Dom is supposed to be thru imagery online.

When should you blow the lid off??

Thu, 24 Aug 2023 04:00:00 +0000

Should you blow the lid off the secrecy of your interest and role in the lifestyle of Bdsm or should you still keep it to yourself?

Why must I chase the cat?

Tue, 22 Aug 2023 12:48:46 +0000

In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses the issues men face wanting multiple lovers but not satisfying one, and do some men really care if even one is satisfied compared to their own score card.

#dominant

Mon, 17 Jul 2023 11:49:40 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how your innergy (energy) attracts situations and a further conversation of how relationships are a reflection of oneself and how we need to change ourselves to attract different outcomes.

Master yourself first

Thu, 29 Jun 2023 10:26:17 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the importance of mastering ones life before trying to becomes someones Dom!

One was curios and the other wanted to watch

Tue, 13 Jun 2023 01:37:55 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq tells a short story of a girl who was curious about impact play and how her girlfriend wanted to watch.

The perfect play partner

Tue, 23 May 2023 11:48:57 +0000

In this podcast, sir Inq discusses the error in seeking out the perfect play partner and discusses what he thinks finding an other is about.

Do not disturb the sub zone groove!

Tue, 16 May 2023 11:59:21 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how to react when your sub is in their zone, should i do something or nothing at all?!

Online to in line

Thu, 11 May 2023 10:15:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses pt 2 of taking things from online to meeting live and creating a D/s situation but also some safety guides before the rope, cuffs and ball gags come out.

When the student is ready..

Mon, 08 May 2023 22:08:52 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the concept "when the student is ready the master shall appear" and relates it to our lifestyle of Bdsm.

#dominant #submission

TRUST ISSUES!

Thu, 04 May 2023 15:28:03 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses trust issues and where they come from and how to manage them.

Im her Daddy but not her daddy

Tue, 02 May 2023 11:00:00 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how some view the daddy dom little girl dynamic the wrong way and clarifies what it is and what its not.

#dominant #submission

Supporting your submissive

Sun, 30 Apr 2023 19:42:38 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how the dynamics of relationships have changed and how to approach a self sustained/ assertive modern woman and how old relationship paradigms may not work in todays era.

Being distracted or being neglectful?

Tue, 25 Apr 2023 13:56:36 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq briefly discusses the difference between being distracted and neglect and the ramifications that neglect spawn.

Is there one size for all?

Thu, 20 Apr 2023 11:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq briefly discusses a moment of clarity he had during a session when using a paddle and how he found different ways to use the paddle on different body types and how it takes time, practice and knowing your subjects body for maximum effect.

Reasons why some women fake pleasure

Tue, 18 Apr 2023 13:30:51 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses are women conditioned to settle for less, fake orgasms and forgo their own sexual satisfaction for the sake of mens ego?

#dominant #submission

Save to play

Thu, 13 Apr 2023 12:19:19 +0000

In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses how the most elaborate fantasy get away, session or apparatus is not out of your reach with proper planning and discipline.

#dominant #submission

Rio and the Experience

Mon, 10 Apr 2023 23:55:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses his travel to Brazil and how to have the experiences you desire in those places you dream about through strategy and discipline.

Give the punishment she deserves

Tue, 14 Mar 2023 12:46:34 +0000

When to punish and when to give a pass can be tricky but let's discuss it!

Slow roll pt2

Tue, 14 Mar 2023 01:43:02 +0000

Pt 2 of rolling your buffet of protocols, requirements, rules etc in a methodical way.

#dominant #submission

Are you 10 toes down or one foot out?

Tue, 28 Feb 2023 12:17:55 +0000

In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses how being committed to the lifestyle will yield you the results you desire, but if you're one foot in and one foot out you'll suffer the consequences!

#dominant

#submission

How to roll the D out!

Mon, 20 Feb 2023 21:17:57 +0000

In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses how a dominant rolls out their dominance to a potential submissive first to earn the trust to delve deeper into a productive d/s dynamic if the chemistry is there.

#dominant

#submission

A session that ran a foul

Thu, 16 Feb 2023 12:54:39 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses his trip to NY to see an erotic poetry show by the Punanny Poets and how they told a story of a how public spanking went wrong and how SI had to clarify what they saw and how that display went left.

Making agreements and staying the course!

Thu, 09 Feb 2023 12:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the importance with making agreements in relationships and how those agreements can be revised with open communication and agreeing to the proposed change(s).

Wanted but do you qualify?

Tue, 07 Feb 2023 18:40:53 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq briefly discusses if you know what your D/s talents are and if you're a good fit in a certain situation in a specific role?!

Exhausted Domination

Tue, 24 Jan 2023 15:48:56 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses why there's no need to chase the idea of being a dom in every and all situations, and how there will be moments that you will just be and not hard-lined into the dom role.

Value vs what one brings to the table

Sun, 22 Jan 2023 15:33:52 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq briefly discusses the difference between your self worth to what you bring to a relationship.

The baby Dom

Sun, 15 Jan 2023 17:26:41 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how alpha males from other relationship dynamics (vanilla, swingers etc) come into the world of Bdsm and some without taking advice or doing their own due diligence will sometimes go off what they think domination is and will falter and most times self destruct a dynamic.

#dominant

#submission

Adding to the dynamic

Fri, 13 Jan 2023 12:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how we can get into a place where things become routine or redundant and we seek ways to spice things up and the pros and cons of certain things like adding another partner.

#dominant

#submission

We all eat lies when hungry

Wed, 11 Jan 2023 13:49:53 +0000

Sir Inq discusses the concept of "eating lies when we're hungry" and how to stave off bad decisions by not controlling our carnal urges.

#dominant

#submission

Stuck in the dial up dating mindset

Mon, 09 Jan 2023 12:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how many of us are still stuck in old dating views, habits, mindset, and most of all costly unfulfilling outcomes.

Swinging into the power exchange dynamic?

Sat, 31 Dec 2022 12:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir inq discuss some challenges the swinger community may face coming over into the world of bdsm beyond the kink aspects.

#dominant

#submission

Inq's anonymous NGL questions

Wed, 28 Dec 2022 00:30:39 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq answers anonymous questions and confessions posed to him the past week thru the NGL app and briefly touches on swinging into bdsm.

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#dominant

#submission

The sheep in wolf clothing

Tue, 13 Dec 2022 16:57:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how so many men allow sexual gratification and the pursuit of women make them disregard their responsibilities as the alpha wolf or expose themselves as sheep.

The attentive man makes her cum

Sun, 04 Dec 2022 12:45:54 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how men cum each time but not so much for women and how we as men need to be more attentive to our partners body and sexual release.

#dominant

#submission

When and how to say provocative things

Thu, 01 Dec 2022 12:00:00 +0000

Sir Inq goes in on the subject of when and how to say provocative things and not ruin the mood with off kilter convo.

Can you afford two or more?

Tue, 29 Nov 2022 13:58:19 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses what the cost of polyandry is and how it's more than financial, though money is a factor not many discuss how you must be balanced and judicial with ones time, thoughtfulness and physicality.

Understanding her

Thu, 24 Nov 2022 19:20:35 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how Dominate men need to understand how the modern woman thinks and functions, and how many though assertive are willing to let go but that happens over time and with help from the Dom to get them to a point of disarmament and show them that you are trustworthy to not drop the ball.

She wanted a 3 some, he wanted phony matrimony

Mon, 21 Nov 2022 00:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses a funny situation his client had with a women he thought was a potential wife, when really what she wanted was a 3 some!

Rules & Regulations

Tue, 15 Nov 2022 20:13:00 +0000

In podcast, Sir Inq talks about how men need to respect their accomplishments and how not everyone should benefit off the value they've created and to do so there must be rules and regulations in place.

#dominant

#submission

Get out the middle!

Sun, 13 Nov 2022 05:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq explains his theory on three different types of men, however the man in the middle really suffers the most. Also why we as men need to raise more emotionally competent men.

RED FLAGS

Thu, 10 Nov 2022 12:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses why we ignore red flags and how they may not appear right away but how one must stave off the emotional connection to make heathy decisions.

A Light Keepers Journal

Wed, 09 Nov 2022 12:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq reads a writing from The Light Keepers Journal from his page on Tumblr about the journey from the vanilla world into the lifestyle of bdsm and kink.

#dominant

#submission

Date with intention

Thu, 03 Nov 2022 11:00:00 +0000

In todays fast moving dating world, managing the field of daters and discovering the best matches takes one to know themselves, what you want, and how to convey that to a potential mate. Also if you're further ahead in the lifestyle than someone you are dating how should you approach the situation without coming across as being manipulative.

Inexperienced or fake?

Wed, 02 Nov 2022 00:00:00 +0000

Are those we consider to be fake in some instances just inexperienced with how to leading and others knowing how to follow? The most pressing question is how to know the difference between fake and those who have room to grow?!

Silence her mind

Sat, 29 Oct 2022 01:00:00 +0000

In this Podcast, Sir Inq discusses why its important to quiet a submissive's overactive mind and how if unchecked can lead to stagnation, complacency and frustration.

BDSM Dummy's Guide pt1

Thu, 27 Oct 2022 00:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses simple rules when it comes to sessions, where to strike on the body, and what to use when doing so.

Impact play into release

Mon, 24 Oct 2022 19:05:38 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how sessions and impact play brings about release for subs that may have nothing to do with what the Dom is administering but a release from something else and how to know the difference?!

The InnThrall experience

Thu, 20 Oct 2022 01:08:58 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq gives a show and tell of his experience in a weekend get away at an kinkbnb called InnThrall in Pennsylvania.

Expand your pallet of experiences

Wed, 19 Oct 2022 12:24:30 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq reviews his trip to Brazil and also delves into how expanding your pallet travel wise enhances your knowledge base and makes your a more well rounded individual.

How to attract the right submissive?

Sun, 18 Sep 2022 19:27:53 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the keys to attracting a submissive and whats needed to build a strong foundation in which to build a D/s relationship upon.

#dominant #submission

Too tired to play my part!

Wed, 07 Sep 2022 20:31:23 +0000

In this podcast, sir Inq discusses how real life circumstances can deplete you of energy mentally and physically to the point that you want to forego your duties to your D/s relationship.

I have a sub but what's next?

Mon, 05 Sep 2022 17:46:49 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses starting points with new submissive's and how there's no one size fits all when training a sub, what may work for one submissive may not fit for another.

Good girls pay close attention!

Fri, 02 Sep 2022 01:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses some important factors that either keep submissive's value high or how lack of focus can cause them to lose out on a harmonious D/s relationship.

#submission #dominant

Traits of built men

Wed, 31 Aug 2022 17:43:53 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq, reflects on his 50yrs on this planet and how built men attract the life they want and the sacrifices made to make their lives so, and how that benefits all within these Dominant men's circles.

Ghosting is the worse breakup tactic!

Wed, 17 Aug 2022 01:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses why men are bad at break ups and are the architect's of whats called "ghosting", and the aftermath that they don't get to see. Or are they leaving the door open to return without being held accountable?

#submission

#dominant

Vegas baby Vegas!

Fri, 22 Jul 2022 01:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq talks about his recent trip to Las Vegas and answers more questions from followers about his experience and where he sees himself growing towards in the future.

Q & A of Sir Inq

Wed, 20 Jul 2022 01:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq responds to questions from followers about his experience and thoughts on the lifestyle and more.

Thirstday in the SpeakEasy

Fri, 08 Jul 2022 02:45:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses an uptick in work, travel, and the challenges of being in a dynamic and holding up your end of the bargain. Also explains the $25 challenge he proposes to his followers. #bdsm #submission

One feminist mindset on submission

Wed, 06 Jul 2022 00:30:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq shares and comments on one young ladies feminist mindset towards submission and how the vallina view of submission differs from those of us that practice the D/s dynamic. #bdsm #submission

Controlling women's choices

Thu, 30 Jun 2022 04:30:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the current climate with men wanting to control women, the Roe vs Wade decision, polygamy, age gap and more. #submission #dominant #bdsm

BDSM lifestyle support

Thu, 23 Jun 2022 02:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq has a new guest named Pixie join him to chat about her experiences and what led her to creating one of the best groups on Facebook for the lifestyle of BDSM and kink. Link for Lifestyle Adventure group https://www.facebook.com/groups/184221432299075 Sir Inq #bdsm #dominant #submission

Brats need love too!

Fri, 17 Jun 2022 01:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq read and reacts to a writing by JD about brats and why a Dom shouldn't take their behavior personally, he also goes into his main topic on "investing in oneself" when it comes to going all in on the lifestyle as well as his ups and downs with investing his resources, time, and energy. Sir Inq #bdsm #domination #submission For more visit: https://linktr.ee/sirinq

Reflections while in DR

Mon, 13 Jun 2022 15:20:00 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses the importance of developing the future Doms and subs, also how the old guard is reaching back by having seminars and not so much engagement online. Sir Inq #sirinq #_Au #kinkspace #dirtywriting #blackdominant #ownHership #writerofkink #podcaster #wolf #educator #voyeur #kinkguide #1differentmfkr For more visit: https://linktr.ee/sirinq

BDSM 101 Littles, Slaves, and Pets

Mon, 13 Jun 2022 14:59:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq reads and comments on a writing by JD via Tumblr titled "Why BDSM dynamics contain littles, slaves, and pets". Sir Inq #sirinq #_Au #kinkspace #dirtywriting #blackdominant #ownHership #writerofkink #podcaster #wolf #educator #voyeur #kinkguide #1differentmfkr For more visit: https://linktr.ee/sirinq

Lessons for D's

Thu, 26 May 2022 02:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq reads a writing he came across and discusses rules for D's and how to teach their subs how to resolve conflicts, set modes of behavior, health, and much more. Sir Inq #sirinq #_Au #kinkspace #dirtywriting #blackdominant #ownHership #writerofkink #podcaster #wolf #educator #voyeur #kinkguide #1differentmfkr For more visit: https://linktr.ee/sirinq

TEN FEMALE ORGASMS

Thu, 19 May 2022 02:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq goes over a writing by Dr. Tanginika Cuascuo on "Ten Female Orgasms" and why it's important that men get to know their partners bodies specially in the bdsm realm!

Madame of House Kinky Misfits

Mon, 16 May 2022 13:45:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq interviews Slave Valkyrie and her Madame to discuss what their home life is like with several submissive's, a switch, their bdsm house, their contributions and objectives for 2022 to the community.

We don't want to choose!

Mon, 16 May 2022 04:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq read and reacts to a writing thats about both side of the slash for Dominants and how we can be both caring and sadistic and how to obtain a healthy balance of the two energies. Sir inQ #sirinq #_Au #kinkspace #dirtywriting #blackdominant #ownHership #writerofkink #podcaster #wolf #educator #voyeur #kinkguide #1differentmfkr For more visit: https://linktr.ee/sirinq

There is no shame in wanting to be led!

Fri, 13 May 2022 04:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq reads and reacts to a writing by "dwpreturns" via Tumblr that discusses their awakening to seeking submissive women and how their therapist negatively reacted to that sentiment. Sir inQ

D/s explained in vanilla terms

Sun, 08 May 2022 21:20:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq reads and comments on a writing he found on Tumblr where the writer "lovemysub" compares a workout trainer and trainee to the Dom/sub dynamic. Sir inQ #sirinq #_Au #kinkspace #dirtywriting #blackdominant #ownHership #writerofkink #podcaster #wolf #educator #voyeur #kinkguide #1differentmfkr For more visit: https://linktr.ee/sirinq

She kneels

Fri, 06 May 2022 23:55:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq comments on a writing on submission and elaborates on the connection between Dominant and submissive and how the power exchange dynamic is easier to navigate than most conventional relationships. Sir inQ #sirinq #_Au #kinkspace #dirtywriting #blackdominant #ownHership #writerofkink #podcaster #wolf #educator #voyeur #kinkguide #1differentmfkr For more visit: https://linktr.ee/sirinq

10 FACTS ABOUT ALPHA MALES (Obsidian)

Wed, 04 May 2022 02:30:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq reacts to a post called "Ten startling facts about alpha males" written by a gentleman named Obsidian who has a channel called Obsidianradio via Instagram and Youtube. Obsidian has a great channel and in-depth insight into the YouTube's manosphere and modern mens perspective

Spoiled men are a problem!

Thu, 28 Apr 2022 11:30:00 +0000

In this podcast, sir Inq discusses his latest experience with his friends and their lack of having it all together when traveling as well how its a bigger symptom of modern men being spoiled and how that erodes their ability to lead and be accountable in many areas.

Speak when given permission!

Tue, 26 Apr 2022 18:45:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq reacts to a meme posted on FB that says "Never speak when a man is talking, Bow your head down and wait until he says "speak" ". Sir inQ #sirinq #_Au #kinkspace #dirtywriting #blackdominant #ownHership #writerofkink #podcaster #wolf #educator #voyeur #kinkguide #1differentmfkr For more visit: https://linktr.ee/sirinq

Male narcissism look like...

Mon, 25 Apr 2022 20:15:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses a post he found online about "The narcissist male" and the sentiments of the writer coupled with his thoughts on the topic with some added context.

The abusive submissive

Thu, 21 Apr 2022 15:58:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq reacts to a post he found on "what abusive submission" is and the tactics they use.

The nature of women

Sun, 17 Apr 2022 18:40:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq comments on a post a follower sent him on "the nature of women" and his views on what was said. Also touches on modern relationships and how we need to teach the youth truthfully about our triumph's and failures with relationships so they can have a better frame of reference going forward than we had.

Sensual domination bs!

Thu, 07 Apr 2022 15:45:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how to distinguish the old guard from the new and how the term "sensual Dom" is new BS made up by those who play with kink but are not into the lifestyle 100%. Also talks about why men need to think about what they want for themselves and how a woman can play a part within it. Lastly he explains what a "kitchen b!tch" is and how many men that were raised by women have undermined how they go about being the man in the relationships.

SubMadMadame and Dutch Wolf

Tue, 05 Apr 2022 23:15:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq and his guest Dutch Wolf and Submadmadame discuss their journey into bdsm, the scene in Amsterdam, fantasies, and how they've discovered the lifestyle and it's changed their perspectives on relationships.

What can we learn from Will and Jada?

Tue, 29 Mar 2022 00:30:00 +0000

I rarely discuss mainstream trendy topics and celebrities however the Jada and Will saga is the gift that keeps on giving, however, I get into why "everyone's relationship is their own" and how the Smith's have an open relationship and now have to own it after Jada's love affair came to light. In this podcast, I discuss this situation from the poly relationship side and not the mainstream drama side.

Dating in 2022?

Sat, 26 Mar 2022 23:20:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq and his guest the Curious Girl discuss dating as self-employed business owners, and how that can dictate who you connect with in today's modern times.

Emotions, misunderstandings and solutions

Sat, 26 Mar 2022 01:45:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses a situation where he was misunderstood, as well the difference between his version and terms of endearment in a BDSM relationship vs a vanilla one. He also delves into the importance of how a woman views things verses how men see things.

The Curious Girl in the Speak Easy

Thu, 17 Mar 2022 14:45:00 +0000

In this podcast the Curious Girl Layla London joins me to talk about dating in modern times, masturbation month, talking dirty, and what's the formula to get a woman in line with a man.

Mental Heath within BDSM

Thu, 10 Mar 2022 01:00:00 +0000

Sir Inq discusses mental health and how it's deeply intertwined into BDSM, monogamous, and poly relationships.

TOXIC MASCULINITY

Sun, 06 Mar 2022 21:30:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses toxic masculinity and what men need to do to nurture the youth in how to control their emotions and have healthier interactions going forward. Sir inQ #sirinq #_Au #kinkspace #dirtywriting #blackdominant #ownHership #writerofkink #podcaster #wolf #educator #voyeur #kinkguide #1differentmfkr For more visit: https://linktr.ee/sirinq

Thru a Dom you can see yourself

Tue, 01 Mar 2022 03:15:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses a concept of how a sub may find her reflection thru a Dominant's direction. he talks about connection in the way of having commonality and why its imperative the Dom have a plan, agenda, and life goals that help him determine best fit when it comes to choosing a mate.

Be the gatekeeper to her debauchery!

Sun, 27 Feb 2022 04:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq talks about being the gatekeeper to a sub/woman's kinky side and how he uses "permission to speak" to him as a request line of a sub that knows him well enough, must ask permission to open communication. Each Dom has their own way a sub accesses them as a way of getting into mode or just soaking up some of that Dominant energy.

How to get her in line?!

Tue, 22 Feb 2022 01:15:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq elaborates on a question asked of him by a follower of "how to get a submissive on his page?!". Of course, for SI the Dom has to make his direction in life clear then match the right sub with that vision.

Online support

Sun, 13 Feb 2022 22:30:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq has one of his favorite guest Slave Valkyrie (aka Slave Draconica) back to discuss online support groups, the up, the downs, the good, the bad, and how the more productive groups function and what you should look for as signs to know if you're in the right one.

Making your wish her command with protocols

Sun, 13 Feb 2022 20:30:00 +0000

In this podcast Sir Inq responds to a follower's suggestion to talk about what Dom's expect from their submissive's when they meet up which for him translates into a Dom's protocols. In this video, he maps out several ways he guides his sub(s).

Narratophilia, the art of using voice and words to seduce

Tue, 08 Feb 2022 01:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the importance in mastering your tone of voice coupled with the right words to wet the minds, hearts, and panties of the lady of one's desire. Also talks about erotic stories and how men love hearing women talk that ish too!

Boundaries!

Sat, 05 Feb 2022 00:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq's Wed night discussion on "boundaries" and why it's important to have them, especially within the BDSM lifestyle for both men and women. He also tells stories from his page as well as personal ones about boundaries or lack there of them.

Keep it SPICY!!!

Thu, 27 Jan 2022 01:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq live Wednesday night show on FB discusses the importance of keeping your edge and why BDSM is a great lifestyle to help keep your edge. Also talks about erectile dysfunction meds, self-improvement, and why flirting is so important in long-term relationships.

Establishing your dominant ways

Thu, 20 Jan 2022 01:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the importance of how dominants must establish themselves, their principles and stand ten toes down in them. Also why discipline can be ridged but prosperous and eliminate common mistakes out of greed, pleasure, drugs, alcohol and any other deterrent to their success.

The crossroads of BDSM and vanilla

Wed, 12 Jan 2022 00:55:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the various crossroads he's encountered in the journey from vanilla to BDSM and the ones he's encountered within the lifestyle. Though his journey is not unique to many sharing the conflicts, realizations and triumphs are important to let others they're not alone on this path.

How did he become bi?

Mon, 03 Jan 2022 12:00:00 +0000

In this podcast cast, Sir Inq discusses a conversation with a female friend that opened up a discussion about how a guy she knows became bi and how he wasn't always that way, and also what lead him there. This conversation is about sexual growth, appetite, acceptance, and having this conversation that's uncomfortable for so many heterosexuals.

The issue with men and multiple lovers

Mon, 27 Dec 2021 15:15:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq and his guest The Curious Girl discuss the issue of men's issue with fidelity, being able to live their authentic lives and obtain better outcomes with relationships.

Can a "man's man" be submissive?

Fri, 24 Dec 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this vlog cast, Sir Inq discusses can a "man's man" be submissive and why, also discusses these men shouldn't be shamed for who and what they are as well they need to own it. Behavior betrays words to a person who believes their lying eyes lol.

Fake flowers, candy and fake romance

Wed, 22 Dec 2021 04:00:00 +0000

On this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how the man that comes with good morning text, flowers, candy, and superficial romance tactics are there to prey on those that are starving for new relationship energy and how those that are starving need to have an open dialogue with their mates.

Intimacy or sex?

Mon, 20 Dec 2021 15:30:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses "intimacy or sex" and which is more important? It seems more women lean towards intimacy and most men lean more towards sex, but why is that and are men immature for our choice or is it built in our DNA to see sex as intimacy?

One relationship with many ex's

Thu, 16 Dec 2021 19:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how many people use ex's and past acquaintances to stich together a relationship however does that prevent that person from finding connection and love with one main lover whether monogamous or a poly relationship.

Half your age plus 7yrs

Wed, 08 Dec 2021 12:30:00 +0000

On this podcast, Sir Inq discusses old world view relationships with older men dating younger women, the westernized view opposed to other places, why it's practical, and how tv and media have portrayed it in a superficial way here in the United States lowering its value to the overall society.

Terms of endearment

Mon, 06 Dec 2021 18:00:00 +0000

In this brief podcast, Sir Inq talks about terms of endearment from the sub to a Dom, when they should start using them and how a Dom likes to be addressed is specific to the individual tho there are common one used frequently and loosly.

BDSM, poly and the journey

Tue, 30 Nov 2021 19:15:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq and Slave Draconia discuss her journey into a BDSM relationship coupled with poly, and how she manages others as the madam of the house. They also discuss the importance of vetting and staying the course through good and bad relationships and situations.

Pop pop and bbl's

Wed, 24 Nov 2021 02:15:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq tells stories about a friend who's 49 and struggling with dating women half his age and how the cost of dating them has gone from paying a light bill, and sneakers to plastic surgeries and erotic vacations!

Are men of Gen X becoming emotionally devoid?

Tue, 23 Nov 2021 01:15:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir Inq reads and discusses a short writing he came across online of a mental therapist 48yr female that speaks on her dating experience with emotionally devoid men in the Gen X generation and how she suspects is bigger than just the guys she's gotten to know.

WELLNESS CHECK!

Mon, 22 Nov 2021 18:45:00 +0000

In this podcast, (I) Sir inq discusses mental health and the upcoming holiday season. This it's not a bdsm lifestyle-themed podcast but it's one that we all need to address at some point in our lives. Mental and emotional stress can lead to bad decisions that lead to tragic actions sometimes so before you or I get there let's discuss ways to deal with them.

Negotiating your position pt 1

Mon, 15 Nov 2021 22:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir inq briefly discusses a meme he posted about negotiating your position in a relationship also a response from a known Dominant named Seykou that brought more clarity and insight into the negotiating process for D/s and M/s relationships. For more visit: https://linktr.ee/sirinq

Poly and jealousy

Sun, 07 Nov 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir inq and his guest lilheaven discuss polyamory, the history of it, jealousy, and why so many men want to have multiple women but have no clue how truly challenging it can be and why they fail.

Erectile dysfunction or something else?

Wed, 03 Nov 2021 18:30:00 +0000

In this episode, Sir inQ discusses ED and the various causes as well the history of how the pharmaceutical companies stumbled across the remedy for ED trying to solve heart issues. It's his position that ED also stims from bad eating habits, over indulgence in drugs, alcohol, lack of sexual discipline and connection.

"Use me as you see fit"

Sun, 24 Oct 2021 14:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir inq and his guest lilheaven discuss her journey into the lifestyle and how far she's gone into her submission with acts of ultimate surrender and servitude. They also discuss education, leather community, scat play, and touch on polyamory.

Pimps and Dominants

Sun, 17 Oct 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir inq discusses a Pimp saying that correlates with Dominants and how some sub will allow you to Dominate and others make you Dominate, and why that is. Some subs need a more involved hands-on approach to fall in line but are you the Dom a hands-on type and if not you shouldn't involve yourself with those types of subs.

What makes for mid life crisis?

Sun, 10 Oct 2021 14:45:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir inq discusses what life crises for men look like through stories of those he's come across and common-sense views so we all can understand wayward behavior and where it may stem from.

Conversation with a slave

Tue, 05 Oct 2021 18:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir inq and his guest Slave Draconia discuss her history in the lifestyle, her view of the lifestyle and what's next for her in it. They also discuss brats, slaves, and poly relationships as well what are "leather houses" and their role in the lifestyle.

Angie from across the pond

Sun, 26 Sep 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir inQ has a discussion with his guest Angie from the EU about life, dating, comedy, sex, and her podcast that's filled with interviews from people of all walks of life.

IMAGINARY SOUL TIES

Tue, 14 Sep 2021 05:30:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir inQ challenges the concept of soul ties, is a soul tie a lie we tell ourselves when maybe it's just the fear of losing someone or fear of moving on? Does the concept of a soul tie give someone an excuse for settling for less, being treated as less and sometimes flat out disrespected but still choose to hang on??!

SIMPS

Tue, 07 Sep 2021 04:15:00 +0000

In this episode, Sir inQ discusses his list of 7 things that good guy SIMPS do or don't do that leave them in losing situations! He also discusses what red pill and blue pill culture is and ends it with his 7th thing the "relationship suicide vest" and why it's important for a man to have one if he is to lead properly.

NOT MY KINK!

Sun, 22 Aug 2021 04:45:00 +0000

Sir Inq discusses a post he saw on a kink community site that caused a firestorm of comments based on race and sexuality. It amazes him how we in the kink community despise those in the vanilla world shaming us for our kinks and fetishes, yet some of us can turn around and do the same to our fellow kinksters!

Session script for beginners!

Mon, 16 Aug 2021 04:15:00 +0000

On this podcast Sir inQ discusses what goes into a session in his opinion, also talks about the importance of writing out the session and all that will be used whether its candles, impact implements and much more. He caps this podcast off with the importance of aftercare whether the session ends in sex or just conversation of what the subject liked and didn't like during play.

PRIMAL

Mon, 09 Aug 2021 22:00:00 +0000

On this episode Sir inQ discusses different aspects of primal and what get's men going, also how that primal side can get dark if not reigned in but also how most times that raw vibe and be insulating, protective and lead to passionate sex.

Message to new Dom's

Sun, 01 Aug 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Sir inQ discusses what a dominant is and what it takes to be a Dominant in the Power exchange dynamic.

Good Girls Get Gifts!

Sun, 25 Jul 2021 14:30:00 +0000

Sir inQ discusses good girls getting gifts and the different levels of gifts that should be given (in his opinion) for tasks, deeds, and just cause. He also talks about punishments and the different levels of correction that should be rendered.

Life post Covid

Mon, 19 Jul 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses life post-pandemic shutdown, economic fallout, relationship changes, work-life balance, and the latest trends in his surrounding urbanized world.

Living the lifestyle 24/7

Mon, 12 Jul 2021 04:00:00 +0000

On this podcast, Sir inQ and his guest Mr. Dsaw discuss the challenges of living the lifestyle 24/7. They discuss how to navigate around children but also how having your sub on the same page transfers to the rest of the household and keeps everyone in line. Also touch on the importance of being so intuned with your woman that you can anticipate her needs as well get into the difference between subbmission and surrender, alpha females and beta females.

Does the box suit you?

Mon, 05 Jul 2021 05:00:00 +0000

On this podcast, Sir inQ discusses societal norms and the effects of trying to fit a round peg in a square hole. Meaning does the box fit the authentic narrative deep within oneself and why it's important for long-term happiness to figure that out!

The Divine feminine and masculine

Wed, 30 Jun 2021 03:45:00 +0000

In this episode, Sir inQ and his guest Naro discuss the principles of divine femininity and masculinity and also the negative side of them and remedies on how to recognize the trouble areas and how to heal oneself. Naro's Instagram- naroazotar

What she didn't say!

Sat, 26 Jun 2021 04:30:00 +0000

Sir inQ discusses the things people do not talk about on 1st dates or in general as well as the importance of clear and concise communication, Also touches on how using the words us, we and together is the language spoken by leaders and how men should lead their women with better wording.

PROTECTION

Sun, 30 May 2021 04:15:00 +0000

On this podcast, Sir inQ discusses the unseen and unspoken forms of protection a man must provide to his family beyond the physical aspect of it as shown in pictures. He also lightly touches on how our independence leads us away from having cohesive relationships and how many of us will die alone if we do not change how we see ourselves and how that relates to others in long-term relationships.

Why do you care?

Tue, 25 May 2021 04:30:00 +0000

Sir inQ discusses the importance of focusing on yourself and those who find you valuable and those of like minds. Talks about his interactions with detractors and ignoramuses online and how he dismisses them each and every time, as well how important it is not to argue with those of differing opinions saving you time and unnecessary stress.

Podcast Gumbo

Sun, 16 May 2021 05:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Sir inQ discusses his trip to New Orleans and a new concept he calls "relationship gumbo". The gumbo is a story of a real-life marriage scenario of a client as well as his thoughts on how Dominant men would address the situation head-on. Also, ask "is it time to make a deal/ negotiate?" a relationship that's not "based" on love but common interest and respect

Knots and kink

Sun, 25 Apr 2021 04:00:00 +0000

This episode Sir inq and his guest Noir Kink discuss being a nerd, bondage, vetting, sub drop and Dominant's responsibilities to his submissive(s).

Wolf & inQ Part 2

Mon, 19 Apr 2021 04:30:00 +0000

Legendary Wolf and Sir Inq go deeper in the discussion of beta's and alpha's whether they're male or female. Also, discuss can you teach a man to be a Dom or alpha male?!

Mr. Wolf

Sat, 10 Apr 2021 23:26:00 +0000

My guest Legendary Wolf and I discuss his introduction to the lifestyle and how men should carry themselves with women and our responsibility to more than ourselves. We also touch on setting up our own gatherings for the purposes of education for novices and the more advanced practitioner.

Vetting

Mon, 22 Mar 2021 01:31:00 +0000

Sir inQ discusses with a friend/ mentee (Shae) the process of vetting, creating a vetting script, and the positive results she's seen since implementing them. They also discuss the importance of being the best version of yourself mentally, physically and her journey with changing her diet, becoming healthier, losing weight and gaining confidence during the process.

Men the game has changed!

Wed, 17 Mar 2021 22:34:00 +0000

Let's get right to it ..the days of dating or having sex with co workers is more dangerous and men need to learn the new rules, adapt their behavior and move forward leaving old past ways in the past.

MAGNETISM

Sun, 14 Mar 2021 02:57:00 +0000

If a man wants to live a long and virtuous life there are certain things he needs to do to protect his internal fire so he may become stellar man. SiR iNQ discusses how spirituality, mentality and physicality are all affected and out of line with each other and how the issue starts with diet.

HOT SEAT

Tue, 09 Mar 2021 04:00:00 +0000

SiR iNQ and his guest host Layla put SI on the hot seat for random questions about sex, kink and much more. Hear his thoughts and listen to his sexual exploits from years past.

Actions and reactions reflect character

Mon, 01 Mar 2021 04:00:00 +0000

SiR iNQ delves into his experience working for men as a barber, shop owner and entrepreneur for over 30ty years and discusses how the lack of good male training on how to control their actions and responses to situations whether the man is a beta or an alpha. Also shares a few examples of beta and alpha men he personally knows and the difference between the two though on the surface they're both winning.

Causes of abuse

Thu, 18 Feb 2021 15:20:00 +0000

SiR iNQ discusses the line between abuse and correction and how to avoid these pitfalls. He also discusses long distance relationships and how that can lead to frustration, mental abuse, online fuckery and embarrassment.

DEAR CONTROLLER

Wed, 17 Feb 2021 00:58:00 +0000

SiR iNQ goes in on the "topping from the bottom" the happens between women to men and goes further into the "pair and a spare" practice and why one should avoid toxic relationships to guard their own good fortune.

What brought you here?

Fri, 15 Jan 2021 23:03:00 +0000

On this episode Sir Inq discusses how his guest Dee found the lifestyle and her experience within it. They also discuss the importance of knowing yourself and engaging others authentically.

Sex Therapy

Sun, 03 Jan 2021 19:44:00 +0000

SiR iNQ and his guest Fi who gave a corporate career up to pursue becoming a sex therapist and why its her calling. They also delve into what sex therapy is and isn't and how it's become so useful in todays times.

SiR iNQ's 2020 Thank you's

Sat, 26 Dec 2020 16:00:00 +0000

SiR iNQ goes over his 2020 year, gives out thank you's to the good and bad and talks about the advance things he has intended to help enhance your "Experience" in the bdsm/ kink lifestyle in 2021.

OwnHERship!

Wed, 11 Nov 2020 04:00:00 +0000

Sir inQ discusses the importance of ownHERship and the responsibilities of being a leader and a guide to your submissive. Also discusses why a lot of the men and women from the 1960's and 1970's generations are caught up in a tug of war in the home.

That thin line between Dominance and domineering

Thu, 22 Oct 2020 03:49:00 +0000

Sir inQ discusses the importance of discipline to men and specially in reference proper Domination. Also why roles like D/s have become more pronounced in todays world with the expansion of sexual categories and redefined gender roles.

Cigars with the Queen

Mon, 12 Oct 2020 04:00:00 +0000

Sir inQ and his guest Cigar_Ash_Queen discuss the lifestyle of smoking cigars, cigar service, artistry of the lifestyle and traveling.

Rules and Protocols

Sun, 11 Oct 2020 20:00:00 +0000

Sir inQ discusses the importance of having written rules and protocols and why it's important to make your own and not live by another persons rules as a Dominant.

Sex-novelties and sanitation

Tue, 22 Sep 2020 04:23:00 +0000

Sir inQ discusses why sanitizing your sex toys is a must as well how to spot fakes and why you shouldn't chase lies and the liars who tell them!

Keeping your edge!

Fri, 14 Aug 2020 08:02:00 +0000

Sir inQ is back with his favorite guest The Curious Girl discussing why keeping your edge is important and how it boost one's self esteem.

Podcast Pussy!

Fri, 14 Aug 2020 06:23:00 +0000

My favorite friend Curious Girl and I discuss various topics from what "podcast pussy" means and those who trap thirst for it. As well censorship, relationships, dating and pure laughs.

Censorship

Mon, 03 Aug 2020 05:01:00 +0000

Sir inQ discusses the regression of censorship in a way that seems like we're living in the past times and how he's bringing back kinkspace.net community website. A social site where kinksters and other like minded people can express themselves.

Hunting new prospects

Tue, 14 Jul 2020 15:08:00 +0000

This episode Sir inQ and The Curious Girl discuss what being single and hunting for prospects look like for them and some of the encounters they've had.

Don't be a d!ck

Fri, 03 Jul 2020 07:28:00 +0000

Sir inQ delves into thoughts on the wrong ways men and women have engaged one another online. Goes into why some guys are cowards and can't take rejection.

CHEATING!

Thu, 18 Jun 2020 02:00:00 +0000

Sir inQ and his frequent guest the Curious Girl discuss some of the causes behind infidelity and role play a few scenarios and discuss conflict and resolution tactics.

Intimacy

Mon, 01 Jun 2020 17:09:00 +0000

Sir inQ and The Curios Girl discuss the struggle some men are having in long term relationships with intimacy, connectivity and sex.

The influence of porn

Sun, 24 May 2020 07:13:00 +0000

In this episode Sir inQ discusses his views on porn, sex workers, social media and bdsm. "Are we imitating art or being the artist?"

Protocols, sessions & Fem Dommes

Thu, 30 Apr 2020 22:38:00 +0000

Sir inQ discusses his thoughts on the importance of creating protocols and how they also relate to sessions. Also talks about how newer Does can learn from reading and watching fem Domme's.

Becoming a Dom

Tue, 28 Apr 2020 06:44:00 +0000

Sir inQ discusses his views on the make up of a Dominant and a few key areas they must develop in order to become a Master which the journey starts from within.

Quarantined pt 2

Tue, 31 Mar 2020 00:54:00 +0000

Part 2 of Sir Inq's conversation with Michelle Fegatofi about bdsm and COVID and what we can do to nurture our D/s side during this time.

Dom Drop pt2

Fri, 20 Mar 2020 20:00:00 +0000

The Curious girl wants to delve further into the meaning of Dom drop with Sir inQ.

D/s while Quarantined

Tue, 17 Mar 2020 02:04:00 +0000

Michelle Fegatofi and Sir inQ discuss the recent pandemic and the affects it can have on the fetish community as well things we can still do to continue to grow within your D/s role.

Who should pay

Mon, 09 Mar 2020 04:20:00 +0000

Sir Inq and his guest Layla discuss going dutch on the 1st date, what it means and how new social norms do not always fit into the relationship eco system.

Dom drop

Mon, 02 Mar 2020 05:51:00 +0000

Sir Inq discusses Dom drop, the cause and affects and why emotional connection and emotional intelligence is crucial when dealing with a failed relationship.

The Provider

Thu, 12 Dec 2019 10:29:00 +0000

Sir Inq talks about the mindset of "The Provider" and why having emotional intelligence is an important component to a relationship and how it's not taught to males at a young age.

Views on love

Tue, 10 Dec 2019 10:09:00 +0000

The Curious Girl and Sir Inq discuss their personal dating experience and how that's shaping their perspectives on how they see love.

Sir Inq's 8 keys of Domination

Sun, 01 Dec 2019 20:23:00 +0000

Sir Inq discussing his eight keys that a Dominant must have in order to have a success in the lifestyle.

Are alpha women and hard working women the same?

Mon, 11 Nov 2019 07:36:00 +0000

Are alpha females and hardworking women one in the same? Sir inQ discusses this concept..

Being in tune

Sun, 29 Sep 2019 21:07:00 +0000

Sir Inq discusses the importance of knowing your partner and how that knowledge plays into putting together the right session(s) for your submissive.

Thoughts of Au

Sun, 28 Jul 2019 23:02:00 +0000

This is Au's view on several topics concerning body shaming and what proper Domination is in his opinion.

The Silent Conversation

Mon, 10 Jun 2019 20:10:00 +0000

This conversation takes place between Dominant named "Silent" and Sir Au. They discuss Silents experience and how the bids scene is being lived in the Philippines. They also discuss the importance of safety during impact play as well how Dominants serve and learn from their submissive thru relationships.

Fake Doms and fake subs

Mon, 29 Apr 2019 16:53:00 +0000

Michelle Fegatofi and Sir InQ discuss newbies and how to spot fakes on both sides of the lifestyle.

The lifestyle of a switch

Wed, 03 Apr 2019 06:51:00 +0000

Sir InQ and his guest Lady J discuss her journey into the lifestyle as a switch and which side caters to her the most.

Girls mature earlier than boys..

Wed, 13 Mar 2019 04:20:00 +0000

A lighthearted conversation on do girls mature faster than boys and what societal stigmas dictate the maturity rate of the sexes.

Interview with Michelle Fegatofi pt 2

Thu, 14 Feb 2019 04:26:00 +0000

Part 2 of our lifestyle discussion, brats, her site and being an author of several books.

Interview with Michelle Fegatofi

Wed, 06 Feb 2019 08:58:00 +0000

SiR iNQ and his guest Michelle Fegatofi discuss the bdsm lifestyle, her being a sub 24/7, her health and weight loss journey and much much more!

Interview with Layla London

Wed, 06 Feb 2019 08:55:00 +0000

SiR iNQ interviews one of his friends the Curious Girl and discusses her sexcapades and how she found bdsm.

Sir InQ & Nikki

Fri, 25 Jan 2019 18:48:00 +0000

SiR iNQ discusses his introduction to the lifestyle by his 1st submissive Nikki and his first experience with consent non consent play sessions.

Sir InQ Intro

Thu, 24 Jan 2019 21:00:00 +0000

Introduction and a brief description of why I'm here and what what I stand for.