RedCircle VERIFY_TOKEN_1b5691d5-906a-47e9-85af-bffd912c0b9c -- Rendered At Wed, 23 Sep 2026 15:46:46 +0000 How To Attract A Woman https://redcircle.com/shows/how-to-attract-a-woman en-US All rights reserved. Janny Do you need some tips for attracting a women? Perhaps you have already numerous techniques and failed, blowing your chances with a girl for good? Fortunately attracting women is not as hard as you think, and with a few changes you can be building attraction from the very beginning. Pay attention to the following important tips from Alex Wise ( Loveawake ( https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/United-States/state-of-Delaware.html ) dating site CEO) and you will have more dates than you can handle in no time. ---------------------------------------------- *Tip 1: Women want to be swept off their feet* ---------------------------------------------- What many men fail to realize is that women want sex just as much as men do – all that differs is their attitude towards how they to get it. Men are direct creatures and when they want sex it tends to show – like a neon light flashing above their heads. Women prefer a much more indirect approach to sex – you have to make them feel special. You have to be subtle in your approach and keep them guessing as to what you want. Women love mystery and romance, so don’t put all you cards on the table at once. When it becomes obvious what it is you are after the mystery is lost, and she will be instantly turned off. Keep her guessing as to whether it’s her who is going to get laid tonight. ---------------------------------- *Tip 2: Make her feel comfortable* ---------------------------------- Many men make the mistake ( https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/09/21/the-big-mistake-men-make-when-giving/ ) of thinking that you have to do something special to make a women want to have sex. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Women want sex as much as men do, but they will only have sex with men they feel comfortable and safe with. They key to getting her to feel comfortable with you is body language and physical contact. When you are out on a date you need to appear relaxed, even if inside you are really nervous, it will instantly put her at ease. When the time is right don’t be afraid to touch her. A good place to start is a casual touch on the arm or hand ( https://blog.loveawake.com/2019/08/02/creepy-guys-who-inappropriately-touch-women/ ) – its non-threatening but still a sign of affection. If she returns the touch they you know you can take things further – how fast depends on the girl and the situation. ------------------------ *Tip3: Hook up at yours* ------------------------ Many men make the mistake of thinking that most girls prefer to stay their place for dinner. Most girls feel much more relaxed meeting at a guy’s house because they have to worry about tidying up the house. Arrange to meet up somewhere public and then go back to yours for dinner or a drink. Then you don’t have to worry about asking her back to yours later on with the obvious assumption that all you want sex. ------------------------- *Tip4: Let her chase you* ------------------------- A big mistake that many men make is that they assume that they need to chase the woman. You have to play hard to get just like her. Tease her and let her do the hard work; let her know that she’s going to have put some effort to get you. Women love a challenge as much as men do, so play the game a little and soon enough it will be her who is trying to get you into bed! To start attracting women you first need to start approaching women. 1b5691d5-906a-47e9-85af-bffd912c0b9c Do you need some tips for attracting a women? Perhaps you have already numerous techniques and failed, blowing your chances with a girl for good?


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Fortunately attracting women is not as hard as you think, and with a few changes you can be building attraction from the very beginning. Pay attention to the following important tips from Alex Wise ( Loveawake dating site CEO) and you will have more dates than you can handle in no time.

Tip 1: Women want to be swept off their feet

What many men fail to realize is that women want sex just as much as men do – all that differs is their attitude towards how they to get it. Men are direct creatures and when they want sex it tends to show – like a neon light flashing above their heads. Women prefer a much more indirect approach to sex – you have to make them feel special. You have to be subtle in your approach and keep them guessing as to what you want. Women love mystery and romance, so don’t put all you cards on the table at once. When it becomes obvious what it is you are after the mystery is lost, and she will be instantly turned off. Keep her guessing as to whether it’s her who is going to get laid tonight.

Tip 2: Make her feel comfortable

Many men make the mistake of thinking that you have to do something special to make a women want to have sex. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Women want sex as much as men do, but they will only have sex with men they feel comfortable and safe with.


They key to getting her to feel comfortable with you is body language and physical contact. When you are out on a date you need to appear relaxed, even if inside you are really nervous, it will instantly put her at ease. When the time is right don’t be afraid to touch her. A good place to start is a casual touch on the arm or hand – its non-threatening but still a sign of affection. If she returns the touch they you know you can take things further – how fast depends on the girl and the situation.

Tip3: Hook up at yours

Many men make the mistake of thinking that most girls prefer to stay their place for dinner. Most girls feel much more relaxed meeting at a guy’s house because they have to worry about tidying up the house.

Arrange to meet up somewhere public and then go back to yours for dinner or a drink. Then you don’t have to worry about asking her back to yours later on with the obvious assumption that all you want sex.

Tip4: Let her chase you

A big mistake that many men make is that they assume that they need to chase the woman. You have to play hard to get just like her. Tease her and let her do the hard work; let her know that she’s going to have put some effort to get you. Women love a challenge as much as men do, so play the game a little and soon enough it will be her who is trying to get you into bed!


To start attracting women you first need to start approaching women.

 

]]> episodic no Janny slayalicantov@yahoo.com false full Washed Up in an Emotional Storm Washed Up in an Emotional Storm Janny Dear Bitter Single Guy:  I am emotionally fucked. Recently my bf and I broke up, so I guess he’s my ex now… lol. We were/are PERFECT for each other, except one thing: our attitudes towards emotions/relationships. He is emotionally dead, okay maybe not dead, but he has been hurt before and therefore seized up when our relationship became real and therefore he stopped showing me how he felt about me consistently. I have a history of being ignored, treated like a trophy, forgotten, and plain old just treated poorly, and this makes me aggressive and insecure in my relationships. I am a ball of emotion, you will get it all, and it will change seemingly on a whim. Yikes. We both know we need to change, but I don’t know how to change, because I just react. Help! ~Emotional Nightmare~


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Dear EN: The Bitter Single Guy is concerned about the combination of someone who is emotionally dead (more on that momentarily) and someone who is aggressive and insecure in relationships. How, the BSG wonders, can you or your Listless Lad even consider staying together with neither of you able to provide what the other needs? The BSG suspects that, as is often the case, there’s more going on here.

First, the BSG has to gentle poke at the idea of your boyfriend (ex-boyfriend) as emotionally dead. Really EN? The BSG thinks it’s more likely that in your heightened sense of emotionality, he appears emotionally lacking, when in fact he’s more or less normal-ish. It’s not uncommon for men (and sometimes women) to “seize up” when a relationship gets serious. Serious relationships require commitment and compromise and suddenly you can’t go out with the guys if you want and if your eyes wander to the busty babe at the next table in the restaurant you’re in trouble and then suddenly you’re figuring out how to get all your belongings into one medicine cabinet…*shudder*. The BSG uses this chilling (to other guys) example to illustrate that seizing up isn’t necessarily a sign of emotional health (or its lack), but can be a sign of emotional immaturity. But all that said, the BSG doesn’t usually get very far trying to diagnose people who don’t write to him, so let’s get back to you EN.


The answer for you is shorter. You know that you react emotionally, that you’re aggressive and insecure, and that your needs change on a whim. Knowing these things is the first step to solving them, but asking that Listless Lad be the one to fix all these issues (or to simply live with them) is a bit much, don’t you think? The BSG recommends you getting some outside help on this. Specifically the BSG recommends a counselor or a group where you can learn and practice some new behaviors that will hopefully calm the storm that your emotions seem to be.


Otherwise you should seek a chap who is so rock-solid in his own emotional confidence that there is plenty of room for you to rage around emotionally without causing any damage to your relationship.

]]> <p><strong><em>Dear Bitter Single Guy:</em></strong><em>  I am emotionally fucked. Recently my bf and I broke up, so I guess he’s my ex now… lol. We were/are PERFECT for each other, except one thing: our attitudes towards emotions/relationships. He is emotionally dead, okay maybe not dead, but he has been hurt before and therefore seized up when our relationship became real and therefore he stopped showing me how he felt about me consistently. I have a history of being ignored, treated like a trophy, forgotten, and plain old just treated poorly, and this makes me aggressive and insecure in my relationships. I am a ball of emotion, you will get it all, and it will change seemingly on a whim. Yikes. We both know we need to change, but I don’t know how to change, because I just react. Help! ~Emotional Nightmare~</em></p><p><br></p><p><img src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1550924421-e79cce2186f0?auto=format&fit=crop&ixid=MXwxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHw%3D&ixlib=rb-1.2.1&q=80&w=1000" alt="body of water"></p><p><br></p><p><em>Text and Image Copyright Notice. Published under copyright by </em><a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/United-States/state-of-New-York.html?gender=female&page=135" rel="nofollow"><em>Loveawake.</em></a><em> © Copyright 2010-2021. All rights reserved.</em></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Dear EN</strong>: The Bitter Single Guy is concerned about the combination of someone who is emotionally dead (more on that momentarily) and someone who is aggressive and insecure in relationships. How, the BSG wonders, can you or your Listless Lad even consider staying together with neither of you able to provide what the other needs? The BSG suspects that, as is often the case, there’s more going on here.</p><p>First, the BSG has to gentle poke at the idea of your boyfriend (ex-boyfriend) as emotionally dead. Really EN? The BSG thinks it’s more likely that in your heightened sense of emotionality, he appears emotionally lacking, when in fact he’s more or less normal-ish. It’s not uncommon for men (and sometimes women) to “seize up” when a relationship gets serious. Serious relationships require commitment and compromise and suddenly you can’t go out with the guys if you want and if your eyes wander to the busty babe at the next table in the restaurant you’re in trouble and then suddenly you’re figuring out how to get all your belongings into one medicine cabinet…*shudder*. The BSG uses this chilling (to other guys) example to illustrate that seizing up isn’t necessarily a sign of emotional health (or its lack), but <em>can</em> be a sign of emotional immaturity. But all that said, the BSG doesn’t usually get very far trying to diagnose people who don’t write to him, so let’s get back to you EN.</p><p><br></p><p>The answer for you is shorter. You know that you react emotionally, that you’re aggressive and insecure, and that your needs change on a whim. Knowing these things is the first step to solving them, but asking that Listless Lad be the one to fix all these issues (or to simply live with them) is a bit much, don’t you think? The BSG recommends you getting some outside help on this. Specifically the BSG recommends a counselor or a group where you can learn and practice some new behaviors that will hopefully calm the storm that your emotions seem to be.</p><p><br></p><p>Otherwise you should seek a chap who is so rock-solid in his own emotional confidence that there is plenty of room for you to rage around emotionally without causing any damage to your relationship.</p> 983e9020-a560-4653-9c3a-892267d38d08 https://redcircle.com/shows/1b5691d5-906a-47e9-85af-bffd912c0b9c/episodes/5a2628c1-1860-4e61-96cd-431b40faf476 Fri, 26 Mar 2021 11:39:42 +0000 184 false