This Functional Family Podcast

Episode 51: Disruptive Love

Fri, 28 Jul 2023 11:00:00 +0000

What do you do when you have big dreams that threaten to disrupt your life and your relationship? Dashawn and Amanda talk through how to navigate disruptive seasons without compromising the well-being of your relationship.

Episode 50: Love Behind Closed Doors

Fri, 14 Jul 2023 16:15:00 +0000

In this episode, Dashawn and Amanda talk through the dangers couples face in living for public approval and the importance of working on your relationship behind closed doors.

Episode 49: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly: Managing Transitions

Fri, 30 Jun 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Any couple in a long-term relationship is going to experience different phases of life together. Dashawn and Amanda share some of their recent losses, both good and bad, and share advice on how to manage transitions together.

Episode 48: PATER

Fri, 16 Jun 2023 10:00:00 +0000

In this special Father's Day episode, Dashawn challenges the stigmas and stereotypes surrounding fathers while encouraging men to tap into their full potential.

Episode 47: Don't Leave it Up to Chance

Fri, 02 Jun 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Fruitful and healthy functioning relationships do not happen by osmosis, but they require ongoing, intentional work and effort. In this episode, Dashawn and Amanda talk through the importance of nurturing your relationship to promote longevity.

Episode 46: Scoffin' About Trust

Fri, 19 May 2023 10:00:00 +0000

What are some of the ways that trust is built and destroyed in relationships? Tune in as Dashawn and Amanda explore the notion that trust is one of the most important elements in any healthy, long-term relationship.

Episode 45: Scoffin' About Forgiveness

Fri, 05 May 2023 10:00:00 +0000

What are some of the ways that unforgiveness can impact your relationship? Tune in as Dashawn and Amanda talk through what true forgiveness means, the importance of forgiving your partner, and the value in forgiving yourself, too.

Episode 44: Scoffin' About Jealousy

Fri, 21 Apr 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Is jealousy in a relationship always a bad thing? In this episode, Dashawn and Amanda talk through identifying when we feel jealous and how to manage that emotion.

Episode 43: What I Wish I Knew as a Newlywed Part 2

Fri, 07 Apr 2023 10:00:00 +0000

In part two of the What I Wish I Knew as a Newlywed series, Dashawn and Amanda continue to reflect on the start of their marriage, and share more advice they think will help newlyweds.

Episode 42: What I Wish I Knew as a Newlywed Part 1

Fri, 24 Mar 2023 10:00:00 +0000

In part one of this two-part series, Dashawn and Amanda reflect and share a few things they wish they knew at the start of their marriage.

Episode 41: Marriage is Boring Part 2

Fri, 10 Mar 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Purpose or partner: Do you have to sacrifice one in order to fully immerse yourself in the other? In this episode, Dashawn and Amanda talk through the idea that when you are with the right person, you don't have to give up your dreams, and how a marriage can be boring if you are with someone who doesn't have the right soil to help cultivate your passions.

Episode 40: Marriage is Boring Part 1

Fri, 24 Feb 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Does culture play a role in our belief that marriage is boring? Dashawn and Amanda confront this theory and offer practical ways to revive and maintain a vibrant and fruitful marriage.

Episode 39: Common Conflicts Part 3: What About Me?

Fri, 10 Feb 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Sometimes, we get so caught up in trying to be the best partner and parent that we neglect showing up for ourselves. In this episode, Dashawn and Amanda talk through the importance of individual development and not losing yourself to your relationship.

Episode 38: Common Conflicts Part 2: Children

Fri, 27 Jan 2023 11:00:00 +0000

In part two of this conversational series, Dashawn and Amanda dive into the importance of understanding the history that informs your partner's parenting style, and being cautious about not neglecting your marriage.

Episode 37: Common Conflicts Part 1: Sex & Money

Fri, 13 Jan 2023 11:30:00 +0000

Every relationship has disagreements, but some disagreements are more common than others. In this episode, Dashawn and Amanda unpack the two most frequent causes for conflict in marriages, and talk through solutions for tackling these problems.

Episode 36: Parents Don't Listen

Fri, 25 Nov 2022 15:50:00 +0000

As parents, it is our job to protect our children from making bad decisions, but are there times when we should listen to our children when they try to protect us? In this episode, Dashawn and Amanda talk through recognizing moments when we should heed our children's advice and elevate their voices.

Episode 35: Happy Birthday, Amanda!

Fri, 11 Nov 2022 11:00:00 +0000

As Dashawn celebrates Amanda's birthday, she talks through hopes for her next year of life. Dashawn also gives fool-proof gift-giving tips for any occasion for your loved one.

Episode 34: You Get On My Nerves

Fri, 28 Oct 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Anything that we don't maintain eventually breaks down. In this episode, Dashawn and Amanda talk through overcoming hardships in relationships by acknowledging our baggage and putting in the work to pour into our partner.

Episode 33: Grab the Back of Yo' Neck

Fri, 14 Oct 2022 10:30:00 +0000

If we are not careful, some of the content that we consume can plant seeds of unhealthy relationship habits. In this episode, Dashawn and Amanda review some of our favorite songs and talk through whether or not they have contributed to a lack of longevity and success in relationships.

Episode 32: Imma Tell Your Father

Fri, 30 Sep 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Is corporal punishment an effective tool for parenting in this generation, or should parents utilize the gentle parenting method? In this episode, Dashawn and Amanda discuss the delicate line between fathers being seen as both disciplinarian and esteemed protector.

Episode 31: Scoffin' About Gender Roles

Fri, 16 Sep 2022 12:00:00 +0000

How important are gender roles in a marriage? Does it matter who cleans, as long as the house is tidy? Does it matter who cooks, as long as the food is good? Does it matter who makes the money, as long as the bills are paid? In this episode, Amanda and Dashawn explore the significance (or lack thereof), of gender roles in a healthy marriage.

Episode 30: Parent or Partner?

Fri, 16 Sep 2022 02:00:00 +0000

Is dating or marrying a partner who reminds you of your mother or father a subconscious journey that we all pursue? In this episode, Dashawn and Amanda unpack the idea that we seek partners who mirror the relationships we had/have with our parents.

Episode 29: Lemonade Stand

Fri, 19 Aug 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Standing behind your children's ideas and encouraging them to be risk takers lays the foundation for them to grow into fearless adults. Dashawn and Amanda talk about how fulfilling their daughters' request to sell lemonade will have long-lasting positive effects.

Episode 28: Scoffin' About Diet

Fri, 05 Aug 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Amazing cuisine is part of the richness of black and brown culture. The dark side to this, however, is the high rate of mortality in communities of color due to diet-related diseases. Amanda and Dashawn address the challenges and benefits of leading healthier lifestyles, and how to implement generational change for their children's diets as well.

Episode 27: Bathrooms and Bankrolls

Fri, 22 Jul 2022 11:55:00 +0000

Choosing the right one to spend your life with is one of the biggest decisions that we will make. Dashawn and Amanda talk through the possibility that our willingness to share a bathroom and money with someone is a huge indicator that we have found our true love.

Episode 26: Ayesha Curry Can Cook

Fri, 08 Jul 2022 11:00:00 +0000

During the NBA finals, Golden State Warrior's superstar Stephen Curry attempted to defend his wife, Ayesha, against claims that she can't cook. During this episode, Dashawn and Amanda explore the need for couples to defend each others' reputation, and ways to do so.

Episode 25: Falling Out of Love

Fri, 24 Jun 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Is it possible to intentionally fall out of love? Dashawn and Amanda talk through the radical idea of whether or not we can choose to untether our hearts and lives from someone.

Episode 24: Scoffin' About Father's Day

Sun, 19 Jun 2022 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Dashawn and Amanda explore the history behind Father's Day, challenge the societal norms of what makes a "good" father, and discuss the importance of fathers to families and communities.

Episode 23: Scoffin' About Marriage and Mental Health

Fri, 27 May 2022 10:30:00 +0000

In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, Dashawn and Amanda talk through how to normalize recharging individually and collectively to maintain healthy emotional and mental health. They address topics such as managing life in different stages with your partner and finding ways to implement therapy and self-care.

Episode 22: Make it Last 4ever

Fri, 13 May 2022 16:00:00 +0000

Marriage, like everything else, requires intentionality and hard work in order to be successful. After recently celebrating 8 years of marriage, Dashawn and Amanda talk through a few things that have worked for them so far and what they plan to continue to do to maintain a healthy relationship.

Episode 21: Scoffin' About Jungle Fever

Tue, 26 Apr 2022 17:05:00 +0000

Black women in America are rapidly becoming one of the most successful demographics. As they make more money and earn advanced degrees at a much higher clip than black men, Dashawn and Amanda entertain the question: are there enough successful black men for black women to marry?

Episode 20: Scoffin' About Submission

Tue, 05 Apr 2022 23:00:00 +0000

Unpacking an antiquated and controversial topic, Dashawn and Amanda dive into what marital submission really means and aim to bring the beauty out of the word and concept.

Episode 19: Scoffin' About Pre-Marital Conversations

Tue, 22 Mar 2022 13:00:32 +0000

Whether you're unsure of marriage or on the path to it, listening to this episode is a must. Dashawn and Amanda dive into some topics and conversations that are necessary for couple to have before tying the knot. They even discuss things they wish they talked about before getting married.

Episode 18: Scoffin' About Heartbreak

Mon, 07 Mar 2022 13:00:00 +0000

The thing about heartbreak is...we all will have to deal with it. Even couples with the most successful relationships have let each other down at some point. In this episode Dashawn and Amanda open up about how they've recovered from being hurt by one another, and how to have grace in relationships...because after all, we're all human.

Episode 17: Scoffin' About Parental Guilt

Wed, 23 Feb 2022 01:05:00 +0000

Parental guilt is something that many parents can relate to feeling. Why do we feel guilty for taking a break? Why do we feel guilty when we tell our kids no? These are just a few of the questions that Amanda and Dashawn ask and unpack in this episode. Tune in as the Robinsons candidly discuss how they're learning to manage these feelings and support each other.

Episode 16: Scoffin' About Valentine's Day

Tue, 08 Feb 2022 12:45:00 +0000

Reflecting on how their relationship has evolved over the course of nearly two decades, Dashawn and Amanda share why they no longer celebrate Valentine's Day. They also share the importance of prioritizing spontaneous love over commercialized days.

Episode 15: Scoffin' About Raising Digital Babies

Tue, 25 Jan 2022 12:00:00 +0000

After a brief hiatus to enjoy holiday time with family, and a series of episodes released exclusively to patreon users, Dashawn and Amanda are back with a necessary discussion on technology! Technological advancements are an inevitable part of our future. In this episode, Dashawn and Amanda share concerns about raising digital children and how we can prepare the next generation to healthily balance humanity and technology.

Episode 12: Scoffin' About Cultural Collision

Tue, 02 Nov 2021 12:00:00 +0000

Learning to accept and live with a partner who was raised in a different culture than yours can take time and patience. Dashawn and Amanda share how they adjusted to each others' culture with humor and love.

Episode 11: Scoffin' About Boredom in Relationships

Tue, 19 Oct 2021 09:30:00 +0000

In an age where choice and transiency are in abundance, staying in long-term committed relationships is a rarity. In this episode, Dashawn and Amanda discuss the benefits of continually choosing your partner and union, and ways to keep your relationship enjoyable.

Episode 10: We All Have Bad Days

Tue, 05 Oct 2021 12:15:00 +0000

Every day won't be sunshine and butterflies. Showing up for your partner during their off days and admitting when you're not in high spirits can be tough. Join this conversation as the Robinsons talk through how they manage their own and each other's bad days.

Episode 9: Scoffin' About Emotional Safety Part 2

Wed, 22 Sep 2021 14:51:48 +0000

Fostering an environment where your partner feels safe to share their ups and downs is crucial to any healthy relationship. Join this conversation as Dashawn and Amanda talk about practical things you can do to ensure that you are showing up for your partner and respecting their emotional needs.

Episode 9: Scoffin' About Emotional Safety Part 1

Wed, 22 Sep 2021 14:40:00 +0000

Episode 8: Scoffin' About Parental Boundaries

Tue, 07 Sep 2021 09:00:00 +0000

Balancing all of the demands of life can be difficult, especially for those who are parents. Dashawn and Amanda have a candid discussion about how they parent effectively through constant self-reflection and ensuring their container is full before they pour into their children.

Episode 7: Is Social Media Destroying Relationships?

Tue, 24 Aug 2021 09:00:00 +0000

Living in today's unavoidable digital era, we are forced to consider the role that social media plays in the health and longevity of relationships. Tune in to Dashawn and Amanda's conversation about how to responsibly and respectfully use social media while in any relationship.

Episode 6: Scoffin' About Identity

Tue, 10 Aug 2021 09:00:00 +0000

Being intentional about how their children experience, explore, and celebrate their blackness is important to the Robinsons. Tune in as they discuss things that they do to make sure their identity is always celebrated, even if the world doesn't always rejoice with them.

Episode 5: Scoffin' About Compromise

Wed, 28 Jul 2021 00:15:00 +0000

Compromise is one of the key components to any healthy marriage or relationship. Tune in as the Robinsons share tips on how finding a healthy and sustainable middle ground while resolving differences has helped them both inside and outside their home.

Episode 4: Scoffin' About Generational Wealth

Tue, 13 Jul 2021 09:30:00 +0000

One of the leading causes for divorce in America is financial problems. In this episode, Dashawn and Amanda delve into some of the strategies that they have implemented in their household in order to establish and maintain healthy money habits for themselves and generations to come.

Episode 3: Lessons from Quarantine

Tue, 29 Jun 2021 09:00:00 +0000

As the world heads back to normalcy post-pandemic, Dashawn and Amanda reflect on some of the lessons they learned during quarantine, and how these lessons impacted their marriage and parenting.

Episode 2: Scoffin' About Communication

Tue, 15 Jun 2021 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode, the Robinsons discuss the importance of healthy communication for every family. They unpack wholesome ways to communicate with each other and their children, and how their personal upbringings have affected both.

Episode 1: Welcome to the Family Function

Tue, 01 Jun 2021 09:30:00 +0000

In this episode, Dashawn and Amanda set the tone for an exciting encounter with them as they share stories of who they are and how they met. They also give listeners insight on what to expect in future episodes.