RedCircle VERIFY_TOKEN_0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392 -- Rendered At Thu, 28 May 2026 17:58:48 +0000 Joint Discussions https://redcircle.com/shows/joint-discussions en-US All rights reserved. James Mummert & Lauren Wilde Joint Discussions Pod is a discussion/ lifestyle podcast hosted by two coaches/ex-pastors that woke up and deconstructed their faith and sought out pathways to reclaim themselves , which inevitably led to the collapse of our previous marriages and lives. But eventually found each other, fell in love, and decided to share our insights and experiences to help other people like us. We dive into heavy/funny juicy conversational topics ranging from dating during divorce, the dating pool, life post high control religion, blending families, and more. If you are a person that has woken up, and realized the life you built was somebody else’s plan - not yours and you’re in a crumbling relationship with kids and shit ton of responsibility - then this pod is for you. Also, fun part of JOINT Discussions is that we decided to go sober from alcohol and lean all the way into the green. So light one up and join us for some juicy discussions! 0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392 Joint Discussions Pod is a discussion/ lifestyle podcast hosted by two coaches/ex-pastors that woke up and deconstructed their faith and sought out pathways to reclaim themselves , which inevitably led to the collapse of our previous marriages and lives. But eventually found each other, fell in love, and decided to share our insights and experiences to help other people like us. 

We dive into heavy/funny juicy conversational topics ranging from dating during divorce, the dating pool, life post high control religion, blending families, and more. 

If you are a person that has woken up, and realized the life you built was somebody else’s plan - not yours and you’re in a crumbling relationship with kids and shit ton of responsibility - then this pod is for you. 


Also, fun part of JOINT Discussions is that we decided to go sober from alcohol and lean all the way into the green. So light one up and join us for some juicy discussions!

]]> episodic no James Mummert & Lauren Wilde jointdiscussionspod@gmail.com yes full Episode 16: What do I want from this?? Episode 16: What do I want from this?? 16 James Mummert & Lauren Wilde Episode 16: What do I want from this?? The frigid cold has brought in a reminder that more holidays are right around the corner. We get into relationship work, primarily focusing on estranged family members. What to do when you have a new version of yourself? At the core is understanding what you want. Grab some THC, lets have another joint discussion. Find us on socials- @jointdiscussionspod The frigid cold has brought in a reminder that more holidays are right around the corner. We get into relationship work, primarily focusing on estranged family members. What to do when you have a new version of yourself? At the core is understanding what you want. Grab some THC, lets have another joint discussion.


Find us on socials- @jointdiscussionspod

]]> <p>The frigid cold has brought in a reminder that more holidays are right around the corner. We get into relationship work, primarily focusing on estranged family members. What to do when you have a new version of yourself? At the core is understanding what you want. Grab some THC, lets have another joint discussion.</p><p><br></p><p>Find us on socials- @jointdiscussionspod</p> 1da186eb-0cea-4f07-b588-a8b1581c5f11 https://redcircle.com/shows/0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392/episodes/4919a0d7-3b8e-430b-abc2-55144b9061e2 Tue, 16 Dec 2025 05:01:47 +0000 2285 yes full Episode 15: We have a crisis... Episode 15: We have a crisis... James Mummert & Lauren Wilde Episode 15: We have a crisis... The Thanksgiving holiday has come and gone but we have been in crisis mode. What happens when a crisis happens for your non-biological kids? We talk challenges and strategies. We talk about gamesgiving, and how to reclaim your kids childhood. Grab a joint and join us for another Joint Discussion. Find us on all socials- @JointDiscussionsPod The Thanksgiving holiday has come and gone but we have been in crisis mode. What happens when a crisis happens for your non-biological kids? We talk challenges and strategies. We talk about gamesgiving, and how to reclaim your kids childhood. Grab a joint and join us for another Joint Discussion.


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We would love to hear from you!

]]> <p>The Thanksgiving holiday has come and gone but we have been in crisis mode. What happens when a crisis happens for your non-biological kids? We talk challenges and strategies. We talk about gamesgiving, and how to reclaim your kids childhood. Grab a joint and join us for another Joint Discussion.</p><p><br></p><p>Find us on all socials- @JointDiscussionsPod</p><p><br></p><p>We would love to hear from you! </p> a4a78178-42d9-451a-88a0-9f9486cc3996 https://redcircle.com/shows/0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392/episodes/e9801a08-a64f-4313-b261-efbd10bd9ed0 Tue, 09 Dec 2025 05:01:46 +0000 2702 yes full Episode 14: I get cake on a dead dude's birthday??? Episode 14: I get cake on a dead dude's birthday??? 14 James Mummert & Lauren Wilde The holidays are approaching, and it can be very tough for kids and adults alike as part of a blended family. We talk some holiday tradition, plus what it looks like to forge your own path and create your own memories. Grab some THC and join us for another joint discussion. Find us on patreon- https://www.patreon.com/c/JointDiscussionsPod Find us on socials- @JointDiscussionsPod The holidays are approaching, and it can be very tough for kids and adults alike as part of a blended family. We talk some holiday tradition, plus what it looks like to forge your own path and create your own memories. Grab some THC and join us for another joint discussion.


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]]> <p>The holidays are approaching, and it can be very tough for kids and adults alike as part of a blended family. We talk some holiday tradition, plus what it looks like to forge your own path and create your own memories. Grab some THC and join us for another joint discussion.</p><p><br></p><p>Find us on patreon- https://www.patreon.com/c/JointDiscussionsPod</p><p>Find us on socials- @JointDiscussionsPod</p> 1d750af8-268f-4e81-b6cd-001f32855fc8 https://www.patreon.com/c/JointDiscussionsPod Tue, 25 Nov 2025 05:01:37 +0000 2729 yes full Episode 13: That's Your P*ssy Episode 13: That's Your P*ssy 13 James Mummert & Lauren Wilde Episode 13: That's Your P*ssy Welcome back to another joint discussions. Today we sit down with Ash, and she tell's her story of growing up in a highly religious environment. We get into her deconstruction and reclamation as she started a new chapter in life. Check out the full interview on our patreon community: www.patreon.com/jointdiscussionspod Find us on all socials @jointdiscussionspod Welcome back to another joint discussions. Today we sit down with Ash, and she tell's her story of growing up in a highly religious environment. We get into her deconstruction and reclamation as she started a new chapter in life.

Check out the full interview on our patreon community:

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]]> <p>Welcome back to another joint discussions. Today we sit down with Ash, and she tell&#39;s her story of growing up in a highly religious environment. We get into her deconstruction and reclamation as she started a new chapter in life. </p><p>Check out the full interview on our patreon community:</p><p>www.patreon.com/jointdiscussionspod</p><p>Find us on all socials @jointdiscussionspod</p> 8a013979-8303-4666-a092-538118027eff https://redcircle.com/shows/0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392/episodes/06d25d0f-80eb-4db7-85ce-d7045068d45d Tue, 18 Nov 2025 05:01:38 +0000 2470 yes full Episode 12: What's the Glue?? Episode 12: What's the Glue?? 12 James Mummert & Lauren Wilde Episode 12: What's the Glue?? What do you do when an event for your kid isn't real? In this episode, we talk about defining the glue that holds your relationships together. We dive deeper into consciousness, and light up some good flower. Join our Patreon Community here!!- https://www.patreon.com/c/JointDiscussionsPod Come join our community as we build it out. We'd love to get to know you and show you some behind the episodes stuff! What do you do when an event for your kid isn't real? In this episode, we talk about defining the glue that holds your relationships together. We dive deeper into consciousness, and light up some good flower.


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Come join our community as we build it out. We'd love to get to know you and show you some behind the episodes stuff!

]]> <p>What do you do when an event for your kid isn&#39;t real? In this episode, we talk about defining the glue that holds your relationships together. We dive deeper into consciousness, and light up some good flower.</p><p><br></p><p>Join our Patreon Community here!!- https://www.patreon.com/c/JointDiscussionsPod</p><p><br></p><p>Come join our community as we build it out. We&#39;d love to get to know you and show you some behind the episodes stuff!</p> 11fe215e-952a-4368-b9f4-b76a4aa5a230 https://redcircle.com/shows/0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392/episodes/e2cc9a40-96e7-4a4b-a0db-82a4a51c6f48 Tue, 11 Nov 2025 05:01:40 +0000 2759 yes full Episode 11: Here's what I know... Episode 11: Here's what I know... 11 James Mummert & Lauren Wilde In this episode we talk about our tattoos. We get further into how can I show up for my partner while through our own shit. How does shadow work affect this? Plus more venting about parenting all over some THC.

]]> <p>In this episode we talk about our tattoos. We get further into how can I show up for my partner while through our own shit. How does shadow work affect this? Plus more venting about parenting all over some THC. </p> 8d0ca3d4-1307-4f9c-84c3-f5092db714e5 https://redcircle.com/shows/0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392/episodes/08669940-0acd-49e2-83d1-87b946416b77 Tue, 04 Nov 2025 05:01:14 +0000 2206 yes full Episode 10: What's lurking in the shadows? Episode 10: What's lurking in the shadows? 10 James Mummert & Lauren Wilde After lighting up the ganja, Lauren and James talk about favorite pokemon, evolution, and James goes through shadow work facilitated by Lauren. Learn how you can do shadow work of your own, or with your partner.


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]]> <p>After lighting up the ganja, Lauren and James talk about favorite pokemon, evolution, and James goes through shadow work facilitated by Lauren. Learn how you can do shadow work of your own, or with your partner. </p><p><br></p><p>www.patreon.com/jointdiscussionspod</p> b9431a21-8a3a-4f51-aea5-5a3b2eca8667 https://redcircle.com/shows/0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392/episodes/52099f1f-fc10-45b4-8706-ad6fc6be09be Tue, 28 Oct 2025 04:01:44 +0000 2596 yes full Episode 9: Fighting for what we have Episode 9: Fighting for what we have James Mummert & Lauren Wilde It's scary movie season and our kids wanna watch horror films. We talk about the fight that's required to keep what we have been given. Plus our kids have some existential thoughts. Grab some THC lets have a joint discussion!

]]> <p>It&#39;s scary movie season and our kids wanna watch horror films. We talk about the fight that&#39;s required to keep what we have been given. Plus our kids have some existential thoughts. Grab some THC lets have a joint discussion!</p> 89190bc7-665c-4dc7-b754-0959f1c92760 https://redcircle.com/shows/0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392/episodes/ecd452b7-fc17-4eff-a841-fa759c36b622 Tue, 21 Oct 2025 04:01:26 +0000 2077 no full Episode 8: Trust: Deconstructing gender roles in relationships (pt. 2) Episode 8: Trust: Deconstructing gender roles in relationships (pt. 2) 8 James Mummert & Lauren Wilde This episode we continue talking about our traditional gender role swap in the house. What happens when you become the sole breadwinner? What happens when suddenly you are the domestic manager of the house? We also talk about the week of birthdays in our house and the insanity of a 6 kid week. Grab some THC, and lets have a joint discussion.

]]> <p>This episode we continue talking about our traditional gender role swap in the house. What happens when you become the sole breadwinner? What happens when suddenly you are the domestic manager of the house? We also talk about the week of birthdays in our house and the insanity of a 6 kid week. Grab some THC, and lets have a joint discussion. </p> 07a6861d-6612-4c81-974c-bb84aac1b004 https://redcircle.com/shows/0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392/episodes/9b1a92f1-5fd6-41d7-a467-a31c95e4269f Tue, 14 Oct 2025 04:01:26 +0000 2584 yes full Episode 7: Trust: Deconstructing gender roles in relationships (pt. 1) Episode 7: Trust: Deconstructing gender roles in relationships (pt. 1) 7 James Mummert & Lauren Wilde A seismic shift has happened at our house. James is now a domestic household manager while Lauren leans into the breadwinner role. We get into how that's looked for us in its infancy, how its affecting the kids, and our relationship as a whole. Plus we talk about pet peeves and damn these THC drinks are strong! A seismic shift has happened at our house. James is now a domestic household manager while Lauren leans into the breadwinner role. We get into how that's looked for us in its infancy, how its affecting the kids, and our relationship as a whole. Plus we talk about pet peeves and damn these THC drinks are strong!

]]> <p>A seismic shift has happened at our house. James is now a domestic household manager while Lauren leans into the breadwinner role. We get into how that&#39;s looked for us in its infancy, how its affecting the kids, and our relationship as a whole. Plus we talk about pet peeves and damn these THC drinks are strong!</p> 437d9f4c-f0fb-4e31-8354-c601278790f6 https://redcircle.com/shows/0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392/episodes/34756e4e-67bb-4e1a-85cc-506bdb16d4d9 Tue, 07 Oct 2025 04:01:57 +0000 2767 yes full Episode 6: Free. F*cking. Candy. Episode 6: Free. F*cking. Candy. 6 James Mummert & Lauren Wilde More of our children have started going to the same church one of us worked on staff as. Plus we talk how deconstruction has looked from day one to year 5 and beyond. Grab some thc and lets have a Joint Discussion

]]> <p>More of our children have started going to the same church one of us worked on staff as. Plus we talk how deconstruction has looked from day one to year 5 and beyond. Grab some thc and lets have a Joint Discussion</p> e3440363-6c73-4405-81bb-8bfdee30e339 https://redcircle.com/shows/0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392/episodes/3082e201-634a-413e-bc79-99a2eb6a2349 Tue, 30 Sep 2025 04:01:30 +0000 2649 yes full Episode 5: Our kid wants to go where??!! Episode 5: Our kid wants to go where??!! James Mummert & Lauren Wilde What happens when your child wants to go somewhere you experienced so much pain and trauma at? Grab a joint, lets have a discussion!

]]> <p>What happens when your child wants to go somewhere you experienced so much pain and trauma at? Grab a joint, lets have a discussion!</p> 466e7566-3ac1-4a5a-a180-6dc53fea99ed https://redcircle.com/shows/0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392/episodes/74ab7c4e-e260-4ff8-b427-55785394885d Tue, 23 Sep 2025 04:01:24 +0000 2299 yes full Episode 4: The Addiction is real Episode 4: The Addiction is real James Mummert & Lauren Wilde What do you do when your kids are full blown addicts to technology?

]]> <p>What do you do when your kids are full blown addicts to technology? </p> 2aa8bd67-d75b-4988-b9c9-388ee74ef1c8 https://redcircle.com/shows/0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392/episodes/3dd78b76-9a67-4fc4-982b-d3bdd7a2a1c6 Tue, 16 Sep 2025 04:01:51 +0000 2696 yes full Episode 3: Building the world together Episode 3: Building the world together James Mummert & Lauren Wilde Today we wrap up our story and get into the wild(e) summer that was 2025.

]]> <p>Today we wrap up our story and get into the wild(e) summer that was 2025. </p> 23390c19-3238-40bd-996c-5d6e216b9769 https://redcircle.com/shows/0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392/episodes/c3868090-e374-4e84-87e1-622bdb7cece5 Tue, 09 Sep 2025 04:01:38 +0000 2595 yes full Episode 2: A witch and an atheist walk into a bar... Episode 2: A witch and an atheist walk into a bar... James Mummert & Lauren Wilde Literally. That's where met the very first time. We light one up and face some difficult conversations surrounding parenting and relationships. It's time for a joint discussion.

]]> <p>Literally. That&#39;s where met the very first time. We light one up and face some difficult conversations surrounding parenting and relationships. It&#39;s time for a joint discussion.</p> 980d9566-a67a-4591-8a58-d59d02b72b4d https://redcircle.com/shows/0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392/episodes/7409afe3-50b9-4032-97ef-73455a8df8af Tue, 02 Sep 2025 05:00:00 +0000 2698 no full Episode 1: In the beginning Episode 1: In the beginning 1 James Mummert & Lauren Wilde James and Lauren get into the why of joint discussions. They are 2 ex-pastor, now current mindset coaches that have taken unique journeys to arrive in 2025. All while blending two single parent families of 4. That's right, there is 8 of us. Let's have a joint discussion!

]]> <p>James and Lauren get into the why of joint discussions. They are 2 ex-pastor, now current mindset coaches that have taken unique journeys to arrive in 2025. All while blending two single parent families of 4. That&#39;s right, there is 8 of us. Let&#39;s have a joint discussion!</p> d60a5768-f2e2-4ad0-82e9-38ace5b7e715 https://redcircle.com/shows/0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392/episodes/fb0fecf7-83d3-4ee6-8651-f40b4bab02f4 Tue, 26 Aug 2025 05:00:24 +0000 2498 yes full Joint Discussions Trailer Joint Discussions Trailer James Mummert & Lauren Wilde A sneak peek into Episode 1

]]> <p>A sneak peek into Episode 1</p> f567c0e0-ec31-4b5b-be3e-2b884b2dc95b https://redcircle.com/shows/0e7c9071-5475-4e2a-a197-bce31db60392/episodes/2bf6156b-1121-4396-9c40-483c4b0f2ea4 Fri, 22 Aug 2025 12:00:13 +0000 81 yes