Ask Pastor Vic S01

Is Masturbation Ok for a Christian || S01 E15

Mon, 05 Apr 2021 09:30:00 +0000

Is masturbation ok for a Christian, given that my husband is not as sexually active. Does thinking of him, during the comfort make it ok?

Want To Keep My Surname || S01 E14

Mon, 29 Mar 2021 12:30:00 +0000

I am not married yet, but when I do, I would like to keep my maiden name. As a Christian, is this wrong?

He Insists on Pursuing Business || S01 E13

Tue, 23 Mar 2021 18:30:00 +0000

My husband hasn't been working for a while now. He insists on pursuing business and claims this is what God wants him to do, even though the business is not generating enough.

My Husband Wants A Joint Account || S01 E12

Tue, 23 Mar 2021 18:20:00 +0000

I’m currently the bread winner, and my husband has been suggesting that we have a join-account. But I don’t agree.

My Fiancé Is A Divorcee || S01 E11

Tue, 23 Mar 2021 18:10:00 +0000

For APV's 'Singles Edition', our viewer asks: I’m a single woman, and I am about to get married, but my fiancé is a divorcee. Recently, I learnt that the bible discourages marrying a divorcee. I’m confused.

Asking my husband for help with housework || S01 E10

Tue, 23 Mar 2021 18:00:00 +0000

My husband works full-time and I am a house-wife. How do we share responsibilities when it comes to housework and the kids? Is it unfair to ask my husband to help?

Lost Confidence After Giving Birth || S01 E09

Tue, 23 Mar 2021 17:45:00 +0000

I have lost confidence since giving birth, I no longer feel like I am desirable to my husband. Though he says nothing has changed, I feel ugly. Please help me. PostPartum care.

Does God Approve Of Oral Sex? || S01 E08

Tue, 23 Mar 2021 17:30:00 +0000

This episode is STRICTLY for MARRIED couples only || "My husband loves giving me oral sex and I enjoy it. Lately, I have been questioning if God approves of it. Is it a sin to engage in oral sex?"

He Treats My Children Differently || S01 E07

Tue, 23 Mar 2021 17:00:00 +0000

I had children coming into marriage and I don’t like the way my husband raises and instructs my children. He treats my children differently to the children we had together. I don’t know if I am being overprotective.

Thought I Would Change Him || S01 E06

Tue, 16 Mar 2021 12:00:00 +0000

I’m a born-again Christian married to an unbeliever. I thought I would convert him after marriage, but he doesn’t seem to be interested in Christianity.

The Church Won't Let Me Divorce || S01 E05

Tue, 16 Mar 2021 11:00:00 +0000

The Church Won't Let Me Divorce || How is infidelity dealt with in a marriage? The bible says divorce is allowed, but the church these days seems to go against that.

He Wants Provocative Lingerie || S01 E04

Tue, 16 Mar 2021 10:00:00 +0000

My husband wants me to wear provocative lingerie, but I feel like a prostitute when I do. How I overcome this?

He Swears in front of My Children || S01 E03

Sat, 13 Mar 2021 12:20:00 +0000

My husband goes to church but seems not to be interested In the things of God, for example not praying with the family and using swearing words in front of my kids but hates correction. What should I do?

Is my African Culture Important in Christ? || S01 E02

Fri, 12 Mar 2021 17:00:00 +0000

I am a woman in an interracial marriage. I am of African descent and my husband is white. I think it’s important that our children learn my African Culture, but my husband says in Christ we no longer have culture.

My Husband is a Verbal Bully || S01 E01

Fri, 12 Mar 2021 15:34:56 +0000

My husband is a verbal bully. I feel most of the time, he wants to control everything. I have tried to talk to him, but there is no change. I am tired! Apart from praying for him, what should I do?