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The Other Side Of Autism: Growing Up With Siblings on the Spectrum

Wed, 18 Mar 2026 14:00:35 +0000

What does it really feel like to grow up as the typical sibling in a special needs family?

In this powerful follow-up to our Glass Children episode, I sit down with my oldest son Jeremiah — who grew up alongside two siblings with profound autism — for an honest, unfiltered conversation about what it cost him, what it shaped in him, and what he wishes more parents knew.

If you're an autism mom or autism dad with typical kids in your home, this episode is for them just as much as it's for you.

We talk about the caretaker role, feeling invisible, people-pleasing, guilt, and ultimately the unexpected gifts that come from a hard life you didn't choose.

This episode is a must-listen for any special needs parenting family.

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When they Wander: Understanding Autism and Elopement

Fri, 07 Nov 2025 14:23:39 +0000

The scariest day of my life was the afternoon my five-year-old daughter on the spectrum went missing. The police were notified, we gathered a search party to scour the area, and an hour later we found her in a neighbor’s home, rummaging through their cupboards and playing with their poodle. I wouldn’t wish the fear that overtook me in that hour on my worst enemy. Yet, nearly half of children on the autism spectrum attempt to elope—making wandering one of the top safety concerns for autism parents

In this episode, we share our own personal stories, discuss reasons why children on the spectrum elope, and offer practical strategies to keep them safe. If you or a loved one is a parent of a child on the spectrum, you won’t want to miss this episode.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Tylenol, Trump, and Parenting Trauma - What Autism Parents Need to Know

Fri, 24 Oct 2025 19:05:46 +0000

In this milestone 100th episode of the Full Spectrum Parent Podcast, hosts Greg and Jessica Hurlbut break down the Trump administration's controversial September 2025 autism announcement and what it means for special needs families navigating an increasingly complex landscape of information, advice, and medical decisions.

Join us for an honest, unfiltered conversation about the recent FDA actions on leucovorin for autism speech deficits, the proposed Tylenol safety label changes for pregnant women, and what these announcements mean for parents of autistic children.

This episode offers more than clinical information—it's a conversation between two parents who understand the unique trauma of raising children with profound autism.

We discuss the emotional toll of conflicting medical advice, the pressure of making "perfect" parenting decisions, and the isolation that comes when people want you to be "okay" but you're not.

Whether you're pregnant and worried about autism risks, parenting an autistic child and considering new treatments, or simply exhausted from navigating the special needs journey, this episode offers the understanding and support you need.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

BONUS: Praying for your kids this school year

Mon, 08 Sep 2025 06:00:10 +0000

Hey friends, today we’ve got something special for you: a bonus episode straight from the Pardon the Mess podcast!

Every Monday, host Courtney DeFeo shares a short prayer to help you lift up your kids. This year’s series follows Christian Parenting’s brand new prayer journal, A Great Cloud of Witnesses.

Each week highlights a biblical hero of the faith, paired with Scripture-based prayers for your kids. Here is a sneak peek into week one:

This first week is all about Noah—a man of incredible faith and obedience. While the world around him turned away from God, Noah walked in righteousness. Building the ark probably looked foolish to everyone else, but Noah trusted God’s word even when it didn’t make sense. That’s the kind of faith we want for our kids: to listen to God’s voice over any others and walk confidently with Him even when it means standing apart.

If you love this episode and don’t have your copy of A Great Cloud of Witnesses yet, it’s not too late to get yours! Go ChristianParenting.org to get your copy and follow along. And don’t forget to tune in to Pardon the Mess every Monday for more prayer episodes.

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Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

You Bet Your Stretch Marks: Finding Your Purpose in Motherhood

Fri, 22 Aug 2025 00:01:37 +0000

Feeling like you've lost your sense of purpose in the daily grind of motherhood? You're not alone. In this transformative episode of the Full Spectrum Parent Podcast, host Jessica Hurlbut sits down with bestselling author Abbie Halberstat to explore how mothers can rediscover meaning and intentionality in their parenting journey.

Featured Guest: Abbie Halberstat

Abbie is the bestselling author of "M Is for Mama," "Hard Is Not the Same Thing as Bad," and her latest release "You Bet Your Stretch Marks." As a homeschooling mother of ten children (including two sets of twins), Abbie brings real-world wisdom to over 219,000 followers on her @Misformama Instagram account.

What You'll Discover:

• How to recognize when you've "lost the plot" in motherhood and practical steps to find your way back

• Navigating cultural pressures around motherhood, parenting regret, and societal expectations

• What it means to mother with a "legacy mindset" and how to apply it to everyday chaos

• Practical strategies for finding purpose in mundane moments - from fussy toddlers to endless to-do lists

• Scripture-based hope for the hardest seasons of parenting

Perfect for:

• Special needs parents seeking encouragement and perspective

• Moms feeling overwhelmed by daily parenting challenges

• Christian mothers looking for faith-based parenting wisdom

• Parents struggling with feelings of lost identity in motherhood

• Anyone needing a dose of hope, humor, and practical help in their parenting journey

Keywords:

Christian parenting, motherhood purpose, special needs parenting, parenting encouragement, mom identity, legacy parenting, faith-based parenting, homeschool mom, parenting wisdom, motherhood struggles, Christian mom podcast

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Advocating For Your Kids When You're a People Pleaser

Sun, 29 Jun 2025 00:33:08 +0000

Are you struggling to advocate for your special needs child because you hate confrontation? You're not alone.

In this episode of Full Spectrum Parent, host Jessica Hurlbut tackles one of the biggest challenges facing special needs parents: how to effectively advocate for your child when you're naturally a people pleaser.

What You'll Learn:

• Why people-pleasing hurts your child's advocacy efforts

• The 4 root causes of people-pleasing behavior

• Biblical strategies for overcoming people-pleasing tendencies

• How to shift from seeking human approval to God's approval when advocating for your special needs child

Perfect For Parents Who:

• Feel anxious about IEP meetings and school conferences

• Struggle to speak up when their child isn't getting proper support

• Want to be better advocates but fear being seen as "difficult parents"

• Need encouragement to prioritize their child's needs over people-pleasing

• Are looking for faith-based guidance on special needs parenting

Full Spectrum Parent is part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more resources and support for special needs families, visit cpgive.org.

Tags: #SpecialNeedsParenting #ChristianParenting #Peoplepleasing #ChildAdvocacy #IEPMeetings #SpecialEducation #ParentingPodcast #ChristianMom #SpecialNeedsAdvocate #ParentingStruggles

Power Struggles in Parenting

Fri, 06 Jun 2025 02:50:13 +0000

As Christian parents, we desire for our kids to listen and obey the rules we set out for their safety and good, but what do we do when they refuse?

Whether you have a child on the spectrum, an obstinate toddler, or just a typical strong-willed kid—we’ve all been there. We find ourselves raising our voices, demanding compliance, and feeling defeated when our kids spiral into a full-fledged meltdown.

Greg and Jess are getting real about the difference between tantrums (where kids are totally in control) and meltdowns (where they're absolutely not). Trust us, understanding this will be a game-changer for your autism parenting journey and your faith-based approach to discipline.

Here's what we're diving into:

• Why your typical parenting tricks aren't working with neurodivergent children (and it's not your fault!)

• The one question that changes how you respond to autism meltdowns and challenging behavior

• 3 simple Christian parenting principles that actually work with kids on the autism spectrum

Our go-to strategies:

1. Relationship Over Compliance - Sometimes you gotta choose your battles

2. Choice Over Demand - Two options, both ones you're cool with

3. Love Over Fear - Because scared kids don't learn, they just survive

Whether you're dealing with a toddler who won't cooperate, a child with autism in a meltdown mode, or a typical teen who wants to push every button you have—this one's for Christian parents seeking God's wisdom in power struggles.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Navigating Single Parenting With a Child on the Spectrum

Thu, 24 Apr 2025 01:35:59 +0000

Raising a child with autism solo? You're not alone!

Join us for Episode 95 of the Full Spectrum Parent Podcast as host Jessica Hurlbut chats with Katie Blackburn - writer, teacher, and single mom to six kids, including her 10-year-old with severe autism.

Katie gets real about the everyday challenges of autism parenting without a partner, sharing practical tips for managing therapies, school struggles, and finding moments of joy along the way. She also discusses her children’s book, "The Very Best Baseball Game" which offers both comfort and inspiration.

Whether you're flying solo or just need some autism parenting encouragement, this episode delivers our signature mix of HELP, HUMOR, and HOPE that will leave you feeling seen and supported on your special needs journey.

Full Spectrum Parent is proud to be part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

For more practical and spiritual guidance on your parenting journey, visit www.christianparenting.org

To grab the CP Gift Guide visit https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/gifts/

To learn more about Katie Blackburn and her newest book, visit www.katiemblackburn.com

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Finding Joy When Life Doesn't Change

Sat, 29 Mar 2025 23:41:23 +0000

Happiness is circumstantial. But joy comes from Jesus—it’s not based upon our circumstances.

Yet one of the hardest hurdles to conquer in our parenting is finding joy when life doesn’t change.

Episode 94 is part 2 of our 3-Part Series, Finding God in our Pain.

Christian Author Will Acuff joins the Full Spectrum Parent to share his journey of parenting a child with autism.

After hitting a wall of emotional, physical, and spiritual exhaustion, Will shares how the Holy Spirit met him in his pain. Now, he offers hope and direction for others on how to stay rooted in Christ when the storms rage around you.

Learn more about Will’s newest book: No Elevator to Everest at www.noelevatortoeverest.com

Full Spectrum Parent is proud to be part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more practical and spiritual guidance on your parenting journey, visit www.christianparenting.org

Finding God in our Pain & Embracing this Special Life

Mon, 17 Mar 2025 02:04:35 +0000

Parenting is a gift from God and a beautiful journey. But if we’re honest, it’s also incredibly hard and sometimes heartbreaking.

In Episode 93 of the Full Spectrum Parent, we chat with Jenn Soehnlin about embracing the special needs life God has given us.

Join us as we sit down with Jenn as she unpacks how to pray Scripture over your children and how this one act has become a game changer for her. You don’t want to miss this episode!

Full Spectrum Parent is proud to be part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more practical and spiritual guidance on your parenting journey, visit www.christianparenting.org

The Unbreakable Boy: A Father’s Fear, a Son’s Courage, and a Story of Unconditional Love

Mon, 17 Feb 2025 14:48:55 +0000

In this powerful episode of Full Spectrum Parent, we explore the extraordinary journey of Austin LeRette, a remarkable young man living with osteogenesis imperfecta (brittle bone disease) and autism.

Join us as we sit down with Scott LeRette, Austin's father and author of "The Unbreakable Boy," to discuss their family's inspiring story of faith, resilience, and unconditional love.

Episode Highlights:

• Scott LeRette shares his family's emotional journey raising a child with multiple diagnoses

• Behind-the-scenes insights into the upcoming Lionsgate film adaptation

• How Austin's joyful perspective on life has transformed their family and community

• Practical wisdom for parents navigating similar challenges

• The role of faith in facing seemingly insurmountable obstacles

Connect With Us

Full Spectrum Parent is proud to be part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more practical and spiritual guidance on your parenting journey, visit www.christianparenting.org

Keywords

Special needs parenting, osteogenesis imperfecta, brittle bone disease, autism, faith and family, Christian parenting, special needs movie, inspirational stories, parenting podcast, disability advocacy, rare disease awareness, family support, religious faith, parent testimonial, medical challenges

Episode Tags

#UnbreakableBoy #SpecialNeedsParenting #ChristianParenting #ParentingPodcast #OsteogenesisImperfecta #AutismAwareness #FaithAndFamily #ParentingJourney #RareDisease #Inspiration

Extended Family and Special Needs: An Aunt’s Unique Perspective

Thu, 30 Jan 2025 22:05:00 +0000

We’ve all heard the saying, “It takes a village to raise a child.” But when it comes to special needs parenting, often friends and family struggle knowing how to help.

In Episode 91, Dr. Kelly Cagle joins us as she shares the unique lessons she has learned as an aunt to her 17-year-old non-verbal nephew Isaac.

Rather than offering parenting advice or sympathy, Kelly shares some of the special ways she has connected to and supported her sister and her family on their special needs journey. You don’t want to miss this heartwarming episode.

To learn more about Dr. Kelly Cagle and her coaching for ADHD families or schedule a free consultation, go to www.drkellycagle.com

Autism and Food

Mon, 13 Jan 2025 03:30:27 +0000

This episode is dedicated to everyone’s favorite topic: food. Whether you have a child who is a picky eater and only consumes chicken nuggets or you have an overeater with no off switch—this episode covers it all.

We also talk about the gut-brain connection and our experience with special diets in regard to autism.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.Christianparenting.org

When the Holidays Hurt

Tue, 24 Dec 2024 04:26:21 +0000

For many, the holidays are filled with anticipation and awe. But for some of us, the holidays hurt.

Whether you just received a diagnosis, you lost a loved one, or you’re walking through a wilderness season—sometimes the Christmas season has a way of magnifying our pain.

In Episode 89, I share 3 unconventional Christmas traditions that have kept me grounded when my world felt like it was falling apart.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.Christianparenting.org

Pimples, Periods, and Preteen Hormones: Navigating Puberty with Our Kids on the Spectrum

Mon, 09 Dec 2024 02:16:44 +0000

Teenage years are a challenging time for any parent, but when you throw autism into the mix, it’s a whole different ball game.

In Episode 88, Jessica reveals her fears and concerns around puberty while raising her daughter who struggles with severe autism. She then offers special needs parents 7 tips to mentally and practically prepare their child on the spectrum for the big “P” word.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.Christianparenting.org

The Pros and Cons of Pursuing Medication

Thu, 14 Nov 2024 03:05:31 +0000

Fifteen years into our autism journey, my husband and I finally took the plunge and started our daughter Mara on medication. Pursuing medication for your child is not a decision parents should take lightly, but sometimes it’s a necessary step.

In Episode 87, we share our personal pros and cons after starting our daughter on Risperidone. If you have a child on the spectrum and you have gone back and forth in your mind on this topic, you don’t want to miss this episode.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.Christianparenting.org

PDA and Grand-parenting a Child on the Spectrum

Fri, 18 Oct 2024 01:37:09 +0000

The term PDA stands for Pathological Demand Avoidance and it’s a proposed disorder on the spectrum that involves an extreme resistance to everyday demands.

I had never heard the term before until my friend Karen Dorsey mentioned some struggles with her grandson. As she shared her story, my eyes were opened and I began to understand my youngest daughter’s behaviors in a way I never considered before.

If you have a child that continually resists demand and you may have chalked it up as defiance, you don’t want to miss this episode.

Autism Goes to the Movies: My 2 Favorite Movies on Autism and Why Everyone Needs to Watch Them

Sun, 29 Sep 2024 23:10:00 +0000

I’m not a huge movie buff—but when I catch a film that moves me—especially when it centers around autism, I can’t help but recommend it. There is something about a story that causes you to drop your defenses and sneaks into the backdoor of your heart.

In Episode 85, we share two autism films that everyone should watch and why, whether you’re parenting a child on the spectrum or not.

Burnout and Parenting a Child on the Spectrum

Fri, 13 Sep 2024 01:20:00 +0000

As parents, it’s so easy to sacrifice our own mental health in order to care for the high needs of our kids on the spectrum.

Our guest, Craig Holbrook, coined this life motto: “Boys live. Men sacrifice” as he cared for his 15-year-old daughter with Level 3 Autism. But that very motto drove him to burnout as he attempted to be everything to everyone.

Listen in as Craig opens up his heart and shares transparently about the seasons of life autism has dragged him through and how he has learned to care for himself while continuing to be the best dad he can be to his two children.

If you find yourself emotionally and physically exhausted as a parent, you don’t want to miss this episode!

Life for Our Kids on the Spectrum After Aging Out of Special Education

Thu, 18 Jul 2024 04:00:00 +0000

As a special needs parent, when I think of the future it scares me.

Parents of kids on the spectrum often wonder what will happen to their children and fear what transition into adulthood will look like.

In Episode 83, we interview Carrie Cariello. Carrie is a mother of five and her son Jack is on the autism spectrum. He recently graduated and is now thriving as an adult.

Being a few steps ahead of many of us on this autism journey, Carrie shares her wisdom on how to navigate this difficult transition. You won’t want to miss this episode!

Carrie is the author of 3 books on parenting. Her latest is, “Half My Sky: Autism, Marriage, and the Messiness That is Building a Family.” Learn more at www.carriecariello.com

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.Christianparenting.org

Understanding the Levels of an Autism Diagnosis and Their Unique Challenges

Sun, 07 Jul 2024 05:08:49 +0000

In 2012, our daughter received a diagnosis of “classic” autism. We had no idea what that meant. But a year later, the DSM 5—which is the “rulebook” used for diagnosing mental conditions—was published, creating what we know as the autism spectrum and different levels of need. If your child is diagnosed with autism, they will now be categorized as a Level 1, 2, or 3 based upon the amount of support they will need.

In Episode 82, I invite my friend and fellow autism mom, Kelly Werwie, to join me as we discuss the different levels on the autism spectrum and the unique parenting challenges each level presents.

Click here to order Jessica’s new book, Unlimited Motherhood: Overcome 12 Limits that Overwhelm and Conflict our Hearts: https://a.co/d/4yxk5AG (https://a.co/d/4yxk5AG)

When Autism Hits the Road: Tips and Trips for Summer Travel

Thu, 20 Jun 2024 04:00:00 +0000

Vacations are supposed to be a time to unplug, a time to laugh, and a time to enjoy just being with family.

But as special needs parents, traveling and vacations can be extremely stressful—to the point you need a vacation AFTER your vacation.

In Episode 81, we talk about our family’s cross-country RV roadtrip, sharing different tips and tricks we’re implementing as we attempt to travel with our kids on the spectrum for 31 days!

Click here to order Jessica’s new book, Unlimited Motherhood: Overcome 12 Limits that Overwhelm and Conflict our Hearts: https://a.co/d/4yxk5AG (https://a.co/d/4yxk5AG)

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.Christianparenting.org

Life with Autism: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

Fri, 07 Jun 2024 15:20:00 +0000

Life with autism can sometimes feel like a roller coaster ride. The ups and down, twists and turns can often make our heads spin and our hearts sick.

In Episode 80, Jessica shares openly about this past week and our struggles with our daughter Mara. Reflecting on a week full of highs and lows, we are reminded how quickly a good day can transition into a bad one. Jessica encourage listeners to remember that life is a paradox: it’s beautiful and terrible all at the same time, but God promises to walk with us through our valleys.

Click here to order Jessica’s new book, Unlimited Motherhood: Overcome 12 Limits that Overwhelm and Conflict our Hearts: https://a.co/d/4yxk5AG (https://a.co/d/4yxk5AG)

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.Christianparenting.org

The Glass Children: The Invisible Siblings in a Special Needs Family

Fri, 10 May 2024 02:15:39 +0000

Glass children are the typical kids in a special needs family who often feel invisible because their parents are consumed with caring for their special needs sibling. If both kids were standing side-by-side, the parents often see right through the typical child, as if they are made of glass.

In Episode 79, we share the struggles we have had attending to the needs of our three typical children when our two kids on the spectrum demand so much of our time and energy. We offer 4 Tips for Parents to Consider When Addressing the Needs of Their Kids.

Click here to order Jessica’s new book, Unlimited Motherhood: Overcome 12 Limits that Overwhelm and Conflict our Hearts: https://a.co/d/4yxk5AG (https://a.co/d/4yxk5AG)

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.Christianparenting.org

Pregnancy, Mom Guilt, and the Fear of Having Future Children feat. Rachelle Keng

Thu, 25 Apr 2024 04:00:00 +0000

Pregnancy is a an exciting time. Future parents throw the baby shower, study “What to Expect When You’re Expecting”, and dream about their tiny soon-to-be-bundle.

But what happens when things don’t go as expected?

Rachelle Keng is an author, a special needs mom, and a board-certified Obstetrician and Gynecologist.

As an OBGYN, she has cared for women through normal pregnancies and she has also cared for mothers when they experience reproductive and parenting grief.

If your pregnancy or parenting journey has taken an unexpected twist, you don’t want to miss this episode!

Grab Rachelle’s book, “Woven in the Womb” here: https://a.co/d/4gZQ6rN

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.Christianparenting.org

How To Move From Self Dependence To God Dependence

Fri, 12 Apr 2024 02:15:00 +0000

As parents, we often develop a savior complex.

We want to protect our kids from harm, provide for their every need, and teach them everything that they need to know.

But no parent—no matter how great—can be everything to everyone.

In Episode 77, Becky Beresford joins us to share how, as an autism mom, God has moved her from a place of self reliance to God dependence.

If you’re tired of trying to be all the things to all the people in your life, this episode is for you! Becky Beresford is a Christian author and speaker. She has a master's certificate in Spiritual Formation and Discipleship from Moody Theological Seminary. Becky encourages women to embrace Christ-centered empowerment through the gospel. She is the author of She Believed HE Could, So She Did.

Grab her book here: https://www.beckyberesford.com/books

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.Christianparenting.org

Giving Up or Giving Grace?

Thu, 28 Mar 2024 04:00:00 +0000

As parents, we want to push our kids to be the best they can be.

But as special needs parents, it’s hard to determine what the best looks like for our kids. Oftentimes. when our kids lag behind in their milestones and it’s easy to give up hope.

In Episode 76, we talk candidly about setting realistic expectations for our kids on the spectrum as we define the difference between GIVING UP and GIVING GRACE.

Click here to order Jessica’s new book, Unlimited Motherhood: Overcome 12 Limits that Overwhelm and Conflict our Hearts: https://a.co/d/4yxk5AG

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.Christianparenting.org

Why I Wrote My Book and What God is Doing With It

Fri, 15 Mar 2024 02:10:00 +0000

Jessica’s book, Unlimited Motherhood hits shelves March 19th, so we decided to give listeners a peek behind the veil of publishing.

In Episode 75, Jessica shares how writing was never on her radar and how God lead her to abandon her plans of teaching and start ministering through the written word. Jess also shares the miraculous ways God is moving in the weeks and months before the book releases and how you can be a part.

If you feel overwhelmed and limited by motherhood but you know God has more for you and your family, then this episode is for you!

Click here to order Unlimited Motherhood: Overcome 12 Limits that Overwhelm and Conflict our Hearts: https://a.co/d/4yxk5AG

Embracing A Season Of Hiddenness

Mon, 04 Mar 2024 02:42:33 +0000

Hiddenness is not something that is often talked about in parenting, but the truth is, parenting young children or special needs kids can often cause you to feel isolated and alone.

In Episode 74, in honor of Jessica’s upcoming book, we share about our hidden season. Rather than fighting it, we offer four tips on how you as parents can learn to embrace this season for all it’s worth.

If you want to order Unlimited Motherhood, you can preorder here: https://a.co/d/4yxk5AG

Being On The Same Team As Parents

Fri, 09 Feb 2024 04:03:00 +0000

Parenting is the hardest job on the planet and if you are blessed to have a partner to tackle this feat with, you want to both be on the same page.

In Episode 73, we offer four tips that we have applied in our own parenting journey to ensure we are working as a unified front to raise our kids well.

Also, in Honor of Valentine’s Day we’re giving away $100 gift card to TJMaxx and a $50 gift card to Starbucks to one lucky parent who preorders Jessica’s book, Unlimited Motherhood by Feb 14th

Pre-Order Here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0764242385/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=&sr=

(To enter our giveaway, email a screenshot of your order to jesshurlbut@gmail.com)

Our Story Continued

Thu, 25 Jan 2024 05:00:00 +0000

Entering a New Season:

We are launching a new season on the Full Spectrum Parent Podcast and we thought we’d talk about just that—seasons.

As parents, seasons come and go, and each season we encounter blessings and challenges.

In Episode 72, we share how God has promised us a season of joy and how often the enemy tries to rob us of that joy.

While sharing an update on our life and kids, we encourage listeners that the joy Jesus offers isn’t based upon our circumstances but is a gift we can experience even when we face hard things.

Finding God In Your Wilderness Season

Thu, 14 Dec 2023 05:00:00 +0000

Parenting tests us, tries us, and reveals our character. Some seasons are full of joy and excitement, while other seasons are dry and barren. But how do we navigate the seasons when we have nothing left to give as a parent?

In Episode 71, Faith Eury Cho shares candidly about her own wilderness season. Rather than allowing bitterness to seep in, Faith pressed into God and found a friendship with the Holy Spirit she had never know before.

If you’re walking through a dry season, you don’t want to miss this conversation.

To learn more about Faith’s ministry and her book, “Experiencing Friendship with God” visit www.faitheurycho.com

Cultivating a Healthy Marriage as Special Needs Parents

Thu, 30 Nov 2023 05:00:00 +0000

Marriages that weather the storms of life are a rarity. When we throw in the demands of caring for a child with special needs, most marriages just don’t make it.

We know as parents we need to invest in our spouse, but how do we do that when so much of our attention is devoted to our children with special needs?

In Episode 70, we interviewed Todd and Kristin Evans on how they cultivate a healthy marriage.

Dr. Todd and Kristin Evans are award-winning authors, speakers, and parents of two children with complex needs.

Their new book, How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities will release in May 2024 by Baker Books.

Connect with Todd and Kristin and learn more about their ministry and free resources at www.DisabilityParenting.com.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Cultivating a Heart of Gratitude in Our Kids

Thu, 16 Nov 2023 05:00:00 +0000

Last week my daughter snagged a copy of the Amazon Christmas catalog and began circling almost every toy on every page. I cringed because as a Christian parent, one of the virtues we all want to instill in our kids is gratitude.

In Episode 69, boy mom, author and podcaster, Laurie Christine shares practical tips on how she cultivates a heart of gratitude in her kids.

Check out Laurie’s free printable activities for families called The Gift of Gratitude.

To learn more about Laurie, listen to her podcast, or purchase her newest devotional for preteen boys, Rise of the Enemy, visit:

https://lauriechristine.com/podcast-interview-resources/

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Navigating Sensory Processing Disorder

Thu, 02 Nov 2023 04:00:00 +0000

Sensory Processing Disorder is a condition where the brain has trouble receiving and responding to information that comes through the senses.

In Episode 68, we discuss our kid’s sensory challenges and the tips and tricks along the way we have picked up.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Pinch of Practicality: Teenagers, Attraction, and Dating

Thu, 19 Oct 2023 16:34:00 +0000

In Episode 67, we answer a listener's parenting question.

This episode's question: How to deal with your teenagers starting to be attracted to people, go on dates, and have crushes?

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Pinch of Practicality: Handling Anxiety In Young Children

Thu, 05 Oct 2023 05:30:00 +0000

In Episode 66, we answer a listener's parenting question.

This episode's question: How do you handle anxiety with younger children?

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.
To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Finding Hope After An Autism Diagnosis

Thu, 28 Sep 2023 04:00:00 +0000

Hope is a tricky word. We desperately want to have hope for our futures, but what do we do when our lives don’t go as planned?

In Episode 65, we share three lessons God has taught us on our autism journey and how God can breathe hope back into yours.

Also, Jessica’s book, Unlimited Motherhood: Overcome 12 Limits that Overwhelm and Conflict our Hearts is now available for preorder on Amazon.

If you preorder a copy, make sure you send us a screenshot, as we are continually hosting giveaways for those who preorder throughout the next few months.

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Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Confessions of an Autism Mom

Thu, 14 Sep 2023 04:00:00 +0000

Tonight, I found myself hiding in my car in the Walmart parking lot eating one too many sea-salted caramels.

We all have moments of overwhelm as moms and sometimes it’s good to bare our souls and be honest about it.

In Episode 64, I share five confessions as a mom with a child on the spectrum and how God loves to show up in the middle of our fear and vulnerability.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Self Care vs. Self Denial: Finding a Healthy Balance as Christian Parents

Thu, 31 Aug 2023 04:00:00 +0000

In the Spring of 2014, I had my first panic attack. I was caring for five kids at the time, three of them were still in diapers. But it wasn’t just the demand of parenting that brought me to the brink of a mental breakdown. It was my backward thinking when it came to topics like self-care and self-denial.

In Episode 63, we share candidly how we have learned to lay down our lives for our kids while also taking care of ourselves.

Also, make sure you enter our $200 Back-to-School Giveaway. We are giving away $200 worth of gift cards to help alleviate the financial strain so many parents are facing during this season.

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Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Back to School Tips for Kids on the Spectrum

Thu, 17 Aug 2023 04:00:00 +0000

The smell of fresh sharpened pencils is in the air…

We all know what that means, BACK TO SCHOOL!

Back-to-school season is stressful for every family, but special needs parenting takes it up a notch.

In Episode 62, we share five back-to-school tips for parents to consider if they have kids on the spectrum.

Also, make sure you enter our $200 Back-to-School Giveaway. We are giving away $200 worth of gift cards to help alleviate the financial strain so many parents are facing during this season from awesome stores like Target, Children’s Place, TJMaxx, and Amazon as a way to say thank you to all our listeners.

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Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Pinch of Practicality: Raising Soft-Hearted Kids in a Cruel World

Thu, 10 Aug 2023 04:00:00 +0000

In Episode 61, we answer a listener's parenting question.

This episode's question: How do I teach my soft-hearted child to be tough when people are mean?

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Depression and Special Needs Parenting

Thu, 03 Aug 2023 04:00:00 +0000

Back when my daughter was first diagnosed with autism, I would have never admitted that I struggled with depression. I would just say I didn’t want to get out of bed in the morning. But as a parent, that was never an option.

In Episode 60, we wrap up our 4-part series titled, “Anxiety, Depression, Grief, and Keeping the Faith” by candidly sharing our struggles with depression and how we have learned to fight back.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Pinch of Practicality: Is Fairness in Parenting Possible?

Thu, 27 Jul 2023 04:00:00 +0000

In Episode 59, we answer a listener’s parenting question.

This episode’s question:
How do you parent multiple kids when they have such a variety of needs when all you hear from them is “that is not fair!”

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Anxiety, Depression, Grief, and Keeping the Faith feat. Lisa Appelo

Thu, 20 Jul 2023 04:00:00 +0000

In Episode 58, we continue our 4-part series titled: Anxiety, Depression, Grief, and Keeping the Faith.

In this episode, we discuss grief with Lisa Appelo, a mom of seven, regarding the unexpected loss of husband.

Lisa Appelo inspires women to deepen faith in life’s storms and is an ECPA best-selling author of Life Can Be Good Again: Putting Your World Back Together After It All Falls Apart.

A former litigating attorney, Lisa is passionate about rich Bible teaching. She writes at LisaAppelo.com, founded a team of writers at hopeingrief.com, and serves on the Executive Team for COMPEL with Proverbs31Ministries.

As a single mom of seven, Lisa’s days are filled with parenting, ministry, and long walks to justify lots of dark chocolate.

Connect with Lisa on Instagram
@lisaappelo

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Pinch of Practicality: Vacationing Without Your Child on the Spectrum?

Thu, 13 Jul 2023 04:00:00 +0000

In Episode 57, we answer a listener’s parenting question.

This episode’s question:

“What is your opinion on the rest of the family doing something—like a vacation—that your child on the spectrum is unable to do? Is it wrong to leave them behind?”

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Anxiety, Depression, Grief & Keeping the Faith feat. Becky Keife

Thu, 06 Jul 2023 04:00:00 +0000

Admitting you struggle with anxiety is hard—especially in Christian circles.

Oftentimes, people give cliche answers like “trust God” and “pray more.”

But the Bible doesn’t tell us to hide our anxiety, rather we are reminded to cast our worries upon Jesus. (1 Peter 5:7)

In Episode 56, we continue our 4-part series titled: Anxiety, Depression, Grief, and Keeping the Faith.

In this episode, we discuss anxiety candidly with Becky Keife.

Becky is an author, speaker, Bible teacher, mom of three loud boys, and the Community and Editorial Manager for (in)courage.

To find out more about Becky and her books and Bible studies visit www.beckykeife.com

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Pinch of Practicality: Can Kids With Autism Know Jesus?

Thu, 29 Jun 2023 04:00:00 +0000

In Episode 55, we answer a listener’s parenting question.

This episode’s question:

“How do you inspire your special needs kids to own their faith?
My husband and I have two boys with autism, and we want nothing more than for them to know that their true hope is in Jesus.”

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Anxiety, Depression, Grief, and Keeping the Faith feat. Michele Cushatt

Thu, 22 Jun 2023 04:00:00 +0000

Whether we like to admit it or not, every parent experiences dark seasons.

One of our mottos as a family is authenticity; what you see is what you get. So, here on the Full Spectrum Parent, we don’t shy away from hard topics.

In Episode 54, we launch a 4-part series titled: Anxiety, Depression, Grief, and Keeping the Faith.

This week we interviewed Michele Cushatt. As a three-time head-and-neck cancer survivor and foster-adoptive parent, Michele is a (reluctant) expert on trauma, faith, and our deep human need for authentic connection. Michele shares her wisdom on how to weather the storms of life and continue to trust God despite the moments when we feel like we’re drowning.

Find out more about Michele and purchase her newest book, A Faith That Will Not Fail at www.MicheleCushatt.com.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Being The Best Dad We Can Be feat. Bryan Ward

Thu, 08 Jun 2023 04:00:00 +0000

With Father’s Day right around the corner, we wanted to honor dads with some words of wisdom.

Parenting is hard and there is so much pressure on the shoulders of fathers to be everything to their kids: provider, supporter, coach, mentor, and friend. But how do dads juggle all these roles in a God honoring way?

In Episode 53, we interview Bryan Ward.

Bryan is a husband and father of two grown boys. He is also the creator and host of the Dad Up Podcast.

Bryan has built a successful brand around being the best dad we can be for our kids and our family.

Each week on Bryan’s show, the Dad Up Podcast, he brings on guests to share their experiences, tips and tools they have used as a parent.

Learn more about Bryan’s podcast and his coaching program for fathers at...

Dad Up LinkTree:
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Pinch of Practicality: How Much Is Too Much?

Thu, 01 Jun 2023 04:00:00 +0000

In Episode 52, we answer a listener’s parenting question.

This episode’s question:
“How much is too much for extracurricular activities? One parent wants the kid involved in everything and the other just wants what the kid wants most.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

3 Tips To Survive Summer As A Special Needs Parent

Thu, 25 May 2023 04:00:00 +0000

Summer is a time to unwind, travel, and make fun-filled memories with our families. But for special needs parents, summers are often filled with meltdowns, high stress, and extreme exhaustion.

I’m Episode 51, we offer three tips to make the most of summer as special needs parents.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Episode 50: Pinch of Practicality: Dealing With Rude Commentary

Thu, 18 May 2023 04:00:00 +0000

In Episode 50, we answer a listener’s parenting question.
This episode’s question:

“What is the best response to people who notice a marked difference in your child’s behavior and feel comfortable blurting out rude commentary?”

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

10 Words Of Wisdom For Special Needs Moms

Thu, 11 May 2023 04:00:00 +0000

In honor of Mother’s Day, we wanted to celebrate the special needs moms who make daily sacrifices, day-in-and-day-out, behind the scenes as you care for your children.

You truly are OUR heroes.

We wish we could shower you all with flowers this Mother’s Day but that doesn’t fit our budget as pastors ;) Instead, we want to offer you 10 Words of Wisdom as you embark on your special needs journey.

HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Pinch of Practicality: When Our Kids Doubt God

Thu, 04 May 2023 04:00:00 +0000

In Episode 48, we answer a listener’s parenting question.

This episode’s question:
What do you say to your child when they start questioning God?

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Safety First

Thu, 27 Apr 2023 04:00:00 +0000

As parents, it’s easy to worry about our kid’s safety.

As special needs parents, safety precautions take on a whole new meaning.

In Episode 47, we share our Top Four Safety Recommendations and how we have navigated keeping our five kids out of harm’s way.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Adaptive Special Needs Car seats: https://saferide4kids.com/blog/special-needs-car-seat/

Baby Car Mirrors: https://www.verywellfamily.com/best-baby-car-mirrors-6362328

Pinch of Practicality: Potty Training

Thu, 20 Apr 2023 04:19:07 +0000

In Episode 46, we answer a listener’s parenting question.

This episode’s question:

Potty training! What was your experience and what worked/didn’t work?

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

The Do’s and Don’ts of Loving a Family with a Child on the Spectrum

Thu, 13 Apr 2023 04:00:00 +0000

April is Autism Awareness month and for this episode we wanted to do things a little different.

Normally, our shows are geared toward special needs families. But this episode is specifically for friends and relatives who aren’t directly affected by autism but know and love a family with a child on the spectrum.

In Episode 45, we offer seven Do’s and Don’ts to consider when interacting and serving a child with autism and their family.

Pinch of Practicality: Healing Autism ?

Thu, 06 Apr 2023 04:00:00 +0000

In Episode 44, we answer a listener’s parenting question.
This episode’s question:

Why don’t you talk about ways to heal autism on your podcast?

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Parenting A Strong-Willed Child

Thu, 30 Mar 2023 04:00:00 +0000

Parenting a strong-willed child is challenging. The more you push them, the harder the push back.

In Episode 43, we share our struggles with our youngest and how we navigate keeping our cool while maintaining our connection with her.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.jessicahurlbut.com

The Comparison Trap

Thu, 16 Mar 2023 04:00:00 +0000

Do you ever compare your life to other people?

Worst yet, have you ever compared your kids to other kids?

Why is it so easy to fall into the comparison trap? After our daughter was diagnosed with severe autism, we found ourselves locked in its clutches for years.

In Episode 42, we talk candidly about our struggles and how we clawed our way out of the comparison trap.

We also share what God’s Word says about comparison and why it’s an attack against ourselves and our family.

Pinch of Practicality: Teaching Responsibility

Thu, 09 Mar 2023 05:00:00 +0000

In Episode 41, we answer a listener’s parenting question.

This episode’s question:

What is a good way of making my 9 year old understand the value of items and that it's not okay to keep breaking them repeatedly?

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

ADHD Woes

Thu, 02 Mar 2023 15:44:34 +0000

All parents (especially during Covid and remote learning) have felt like their kids were climbing the walls. But some of our children struggle with attention on a daily basis.

In Episode 40, we share our ADHD journey with our two adopted children. We talk about common symptoms to watch out for, our hesitation to try medication, and the ups-and-downs along the way. We also address the nation wide Adderall shortage and how it has affected us as a family.

Managing Meltdowns

Thu, 16 Feb 2023 05:00:00 +0000

Every child at one point or another experiences a meltdown. But for children on the spectrum, meltdowns are a common occurrence.

In Episode 39, we discuss 6 ways to help prevent a meltdown while sharing some embarrassing stories of our kids worst temper tantrums.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Pinch of Practicality: Sleeping Independently

Thu, 09 Feb 2023 05:15:12 +0000

In Episode 38, we answer a listener’s parenting question.

This episode’s question: How do I get my daughter to fall asleep more independently?

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

It Takes A Village P.3 ABA Ins & Outs

Thu, 02 Feb 2023 05:00:00 +0000

In Episode 37, we finish our three-part series, “It Takes A Village” by discussing the ins and outs of ABA Therapy.

After our daughter Mara was diagnosed, we had to make some tough decisions regarding her education.

We had the chance to tour different classroom settings and in this episode we candidly share our first impressions.

We also compare and contrast ABA classrooms with special education and explain why we chose ABA therapy for our kids.

Full Spectrum Parent is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Pinch of Practicality: Connecting With Your Child

Thu, 26 Jan 2023 05:00:00 +0000

In Episode 36 we answer a listener’s parenting question.

This episode’s question: I have a teenage boy who likes to play video games.

He says he’s not interested in doing other things.

How do I get him to engage and do things with me?

It Takes A Village P.2 Social Services Support

Thu, 19 Jan 2023 05:00:00 +0000

In Episode 35, we continue our series “It Takes a Village” by talking about the ins and outs of Supplemental Security Income or (SSI). SSI is a monthly payment given by the government for children and adults who are considered disabled. We talk candidly about the pros and cons of this service and how God has used it to humble us and teach us it’s ok to ask for help.

If you’d like more information and want to apply for benefits online visit: https://www.ssa.gov/benefits/disability/

If you have a question for our Pinch of Practicality, click here:
https://www.jessicahurlbut.com/full-spectrum-parenting

Pinch of Practicality: Picky Eaters

Thu, 12 Jan 2023 05:00:00 +0000

Episode 34 is the first of our new mini-episodes where we answer a listeners parenting question.

This episode’s question: How do you handle a picky eater?

It Takes A Village P.1 Self-Directive Services

Thu, 05 Jan 2023 05:00:00 +0000

In Episode 33, we dive into a three-part series called “It Takes A Village” where we discuss the supports we use as a family for our children on the spectrum.

In Part One of this series we discuss Self-Direction Services:

What is it?
Why we utilize it.
And why you need to apply for these services in your state.

Also, we shared with our listeners a big announcement:

We will now be offering weekly episodes. On the off weeks, we will be offering a mini-episode called “A Pinch of Practicality” where we will address a question submitted by a listener.

To ask a question for our “Pinch of Practicality” episode, simply click the link below and scroll down to the bottom of the page.

https://www.jessicahurlbut.com/full-spectrum-parenting

Christmas Questions & Challenges

Thu, 22 Dec 2022 05:00:00 +0000

In Episode 32, Christmas Questions and Challenges, we tackle the most common questions we receive during the holidays:

Does Jesus believe in Santa?

Should Christian families celebrate Santa?

How do we keep Jesus at the center of Christmas?

How do we navigate Christmas as special needs parents and more!

Praying WITH Our Kids feat. Erica Renaud

Thu, 08 Dec 2022 05:00:00 +0000

In Episode 31, we continue our 3-part series on prayer as we pick my good friend Erica Renaud’s brain on ways we can engage in prayer WITH our kids.

Erica Renaud is a powerful speaker, passionate writer and founder of two ongoing prayer initiatives. She speaks at various events and conferences throughout the Northeast. Erica and her husband are active in their congregation leading a regular prayer and worship gathering. Her book "Pray With Me: Help Your Children Engage in Authentic and Powerful Prayer" will be released on April 4, 2023.

You can learn more about praying with our kids and Erica on Instagram @erica.renaud

Praying FOR Our Typical Kids feat. Natalie Runion

Thu, 24 Nov 2022 05:00:00 +0000

In Episode 30, we continue our 3-part series on prayer as we discuss with Natalie Runion from Raised to Stay how to pray for our typical kids—especially those who want nothing to do with the church.

Natalie Runion is a pastor’s kid turned pastor, and her husband Tony and their two daughters live in Colorado Spring where she is on staff as the Pastor of Women at New Life Church.

In 2019 after watching many of her peers walk away from the church and their faith, Natalie began Raised to Stay, a ministry for those who have wandered, wondered and wrestled with the Church and the challenges of full-time ministry.

Natalie is a sought after speaker in the local and global Church and is releasing her first book published with David C Cook in Summer 2023!

You can learn more about Raised to Stay on Instagram at @raisedtostay.

Praying FOR Our Special Needs Kids

Thu, 10 Nov 2022 05:00:00 +0000

We all know prayer is important and if we're honest, we often feel guilty for not praying enough.

In Episode 29, we launch a 3-part series on praying for our kids.

This week, we tackle the challenge of praying for our special needs kiddos. Why we do it, how we do it, and the big question: DOES GOD WANT TO HEAL AUTISM?

Surviving Halloween

Thu, 27 Oct 2022 04:00:00 +0000

Whether you’re a special needs parent worrying about sensory overloads and meltdowns or a typical parent praying your kids don’t eat so much candy they puke, we are all hoping to survive Halloween.

But what if instead of hoping for survival, we actually planned ahead and enjoyed this time with our kids?

In Episode 28, we share our tips and tricks for navigating trick-o-treating and even dive into why we as pastors feel to participate in Halloween.

Screen Time

Thu, 13 Oct 2022 04:00:00 +0000

Screen Time.

The word itself seems to conjure up guilt. Maybe you haven’t been the best at monitoring your kid’s electronics. Or maybe you struggle with regulating how many hours you’re staring at your own phone.

At one time or another, we have all been ashamed at how many hours we’ve wasted staring at a screen.

In Episode 27, we share some staggering statistics in regards to technology, while offering The 4 Non-Negotiable’s we set as a family in regards to electronics.

Proloquo2Go App: https://www.assistiveware.com/products/proloquo2go

iCreate App: http://igetitapps.com/app/i-create-social-skills-stories/

The Lessons Our Kids Teach Us P.3

Thu, 29 Sep 2022 04:00:00 +0000

In Episode 26, we are celebrating our one-year anniversary as the Full Spectrum Parent Podcast by giving away a $50 Amazon gift card to one lucky listener who leaves a review on Apple Podcast.

We also finish our three-part series, "The Lessons Our Kids Teach Us", sharing candidly how God has killed the perfectionist in each of us and used autism to give us a glimpse of his love for every individual.

The Lessons Our Kids Teach Us P.2 feat. Jen Forsthoff

Thu, 15 Sep 2022 04:02:59 +0000

In Episode 25, we continue our 3-part series called “The Lessons Our Kids Teach Us” and this week we had the privilege of interviewing Jennifer Forsthoff.

Jen is an author, speaker and advocate from Fenton, Michigan.

Jen and her husband are pastors and have 3 children. Their oldest, Charlie, was diagnosed with Trisomy 21 at birth.

As Jen experiences the beauty and challenges of raising Charlie, she speaks out to share her story and strengthen others.

Jen’s books, “Chosen for Charlie” and “Champion for Charlie”, bring a message of hope to parents who are raising a child with special needs.

To learn more about Jen’s ministry and to read the first chapter of “Champion for Charlie” visit:
jenforsthoff.com/connectwithjen

The Lessons Our Kids Teach Us P.1 feat. Heather Avis

Thu, 01 Sep 2022 04:00:00 +0000

In Episode 24, we introduce a 3-part series called “The Lessons Our Kids Teach Us” and we had the honor of interviewing Heather Avis.

Heather Avis is a New York Times best-selling author, podcaster and Down syndrome advocate, working to create a more inclusive world where everyone belongs.

Learn more about her latest ministry and her latest child’s book, “Everyone Belongs” at https://www.heatheravis.com/everyonebelongs

Grief, Loss & Our Kids

Thu, 18 Aug 2022 04:00:00 +0000

Grief is a part of life we can’t avoid. The only thing worse than walking through a season of loss, is seeing our kids walk through one.

In Episode 23, we talk candidly about grief, loss, and how to help our kids navigate life during the dark times.

Filters We Parent Through

Thu, 04 Aug 2022 04:00:00 +0000

Just as Instagram has dozens of filters that change an image, our parenting styles run through unique filters that distort and change reality.

I’m Episode 22, we highlight 3 commons filters we unconsciously parent through; how to recognize and overcome these filters with God’s help.

Whether you are a special needs parent or a typical parent, you need to listen to this one!

Early Signs of Autism

Thu, 21 Jul 2022 04:00:00 +0000

When our daughter Mara was first diagnosed with severe autism, we had no clue what autism even was. We quickly received a crash course but would never want others to be blindsided like we were.

In Episode 21, we share 10 early signs of autism to be aware of as your child grows and develops.

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Family Vacations & Autism 🫣

Thu, 07 Jul 2022 12:57:18 +0000

Vacations are supposed to be a time to unplug, a time to laugh, and to time to enjoy just being with family.

But as special needs parents, vacations can be extremely stressful—to the point you need a vacation AFTER your vacation.

In Episode 20, we share hilarious moments from our recent family trip to Ohio and offer three tips to consider when venturing with special needs kiddos on a summer vacation.

Letting Go: Learning To Release Our Kids Into The World (Part 3)

Thu, 23 Jun 2022 04:00:00 +0000

As special need parents, we believe God has entrusted us to care for our children.

But should we release our kids into the world like a typical parent would? Or should we care for our special needs kiddos indefinitely on our own?

There are no cookie-cutter answers to these hard questions, but it helps to talk with a parent who is a few steps ahead.

In Episode 19, we continue our series “Letting Go: Learning To Release Our Kids Into The World” by interviewing Fern Douglas.

Fern is a wife and mom of three. Her son, Alex, was born mentally and physically disabled. She shares openly regarding her struggles as a parent and how her and her husband prayerfully decided to place their son at the age of 20 into a group home.

Letting Go: Learning To Release Our Kids Into The World (Part 2)

Thu, 09 Jun 2022 04:00:00 +0000

Being a parent is hard.

Launching our kids into the world is even harder.

In Episode 18, we continue our series “Letting Go: Learning to Release Your Kids Into The World” by interviewing Elaine Kesner.

Elaine has been married for 32 years and is a mom of 3 young adults. All attended college, one is married, and her oldest is currently a missionary in Uganda.

Listen in as Elaine candidly shares her parenting fears, frustrations, and the lessons she has learned among the way.

Letting Go: Learning To Release Your Kids Into The World (Part 1)

Thu, 26 May 2022 04:00:00 +0000

As graduation season is upon us, many parents are faced with the challenge of releasing our kids into the big, scary world.

Our ability to let go and launch our children depends on the health of our relationship with them.

In Episode 17, we discuss six warning signs that you may be leaning towards codependency as a parent and how choosing to place our trust in God is always the answer.

Foster Care & Adoption: "Lies, Truths, and Horror Stories" 😬

Thu, 12 May 2022 04:00:00 +0000

In honor of May being National Foster Care Month, we dedicated Episode 16 to sharing the good, the bad, and the ugly regarding foster care and adoption.

With a candid look at our foster to adopt journey, we debunk five prevalent lies we hear all the time while challenging parents to prayerfully consider foster care and adoption.

Ask Anything Part 2

Thu, 28 Apr 2022 04:00:00 +0000

We challenged our listeners to ask us anything and the questions came rolling in. In Episode 15, we tackle tough parenting questions ranging from how to deal with guilt as a parent to how to keep your kids in their bedrooms at night. This is an episode you don’t want to miss!

Church Challenges & Kids

Thu, 07 Apr 2022 04:00:00 +0000

As Christian parents, we believe church should be an essential part of our children's lives.

Yet the more kids we had--the more challenging church became.

From the toddler who can't sit still to the teenager on the spectrum, church can be an overwhelming place.

In Episode 14, we speak candidly of our own struggles with our children in the church setting and how we overcame some of these obstacles.

Help! I Can't Stop Yelling At My Kids :(

Thu, 24 Mar 2022 04:00:00 +0000

If we were to set up a confessional for parents, and you could slip behind the curtain and share your “sins”, the one admission we would hear most often is this: “I can’t stop yelling at my kids.”

My husband and I are pastors, yet we lose our cool with our children too.

The chaos of life with little ones feels as if you are a boiling pot of water—the minute you turn up the heat—you find yourself spewing water everywhere and then feeling guilty about it after the fact.

In Episode 13, we share honestly about our own battles with anger and how we have managed our tempers in the midst of raising special needs kids.

IEP's, 504's, and CSE's OH MY!

Thu, 10 Mar 2022 05:00:00 +0000

The day our daughter was diagnosed with autism we entered into a foreign land called Special Education.

In this strange new world, they spoke an entirely different language—spouting jargon and acronyms left and right.

My husband and I felt completely lost.

In Episode 12, we offer 10 tips for tackling your child’s Individualized Education Plan, defining terms, and walking parents through what it’s like to sit in a special education meeting.

And if you would like to learn more about the Parent with Purpose Online Conference and register for the early bird rate of only $29 click here:http://fullspectrum.perfectlyimperfect.org/

Medication and Our Kids

Thu, 24 Feb 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Considering medication for our children is a hot topic. Some families are dead set against the idea, while others swear by them. With so many options, it can be difficult to navigate what is best for our children.

On top of all this, as Christian parents, we are confronted with the stigmas regarding medicine that exists in some circles.

If our children are on medication, does that mean we aren't trusting God?

Are faith and medicine opposed to one another?

In Episode 11, we share the journey our family has made in regards to medication and how we landed on those decisions.

Typical Kids In A Special Needs Family

Thu, 10 Feb 2022 05:00:00 +0000

Raising special needs kids should qualify as an extreme sport.

But raising typical children in the midst of these challenges takes parenting to a whole new level.

In Episode 10, we reveal an exclusive interview with a very special guest: our eldest son
Jeremiah.

Jeremiah describes the challenges he has faced as a typical teen growing up with two siblings who struggle with severe autism.

Ask Anything

Thu, 27 Jan 2022 05:00:00 +0000

We challenged our listeners to ask us anything and the questions came rolling in.

In Episode 9, we tackle tough parenting questions ranging from how we hire babysitters to how we address the topic of sexuality with our children.

This is an episode you don’t want to miss!

School & Education

Thu, 13 Jan 2022 21:00:00 +0000

Every child learns differently.

Every child has different needs.

Throw in a pandemic, masks, and social distancing—and learning gets complicated.

How can we as parents make wise decisions in regards to our kid’s education?

What does God require of us?

In Episode 8, we offer three guiding principles to navigate decisions regarding school, while sharing our blunders along the way.

Sleep

Thu, 30 Dec 2021 05:00:00 +0000

Sleep.

We know we need it but can never seem to get enough.

As parents, sleep can feel elusive.

The moment a tiny human enters our world—everything changes—including our sleep schedule.

In Episode 7, we encourage parents that we aren’t victims to our children’s erratic sleep patterns.

Our kids CAN learn the skill of sound sleeping, no matter what challenges our families face.

Unmet Expectations

Thu, 16 Dec 2021 05:00:00 +0000

Expectations are a tricky thing.

God calls us to believe for great things but how do we navigate life when it doesn’t seem to measure up to our expectations?

Most of us grow up dreaming of a spouse, a modern home designed by Joanna Gaines, a white picket fence, and 2.5 kids.

Yet sometimes life serves up a different course than we envisioned—special needs, divorce, illness, miscarriage, loneliness.

In Episode 6, we discuss how to tackle the internal and external expectations we face in life, especially around the holidays.

Mental Health & Parenting

Thu, 02 Dec 2021 05:00:00 +0000

There has never been a time in history where our mental health has been more taxed.

Sickness.
Isolation.
A world-wide pandemic.
And throw in the responsibility of raising good humans to boot.

I never thought much about my mental health until I experienced my first panic attack.

In this episode, we share our story and the steps we took toward pursuing peace and prioritizing our own mental health in the midst of parenting.

Marriage First

Thu, 18 Nov 2021 05:00:00 +0000

Marriage First.

Marriage is the foundation of a family. Everyday stressors such as work, bills, and kids puts a strain on our relationships—let alone a pandemic or an autism diagnosis.

In episode 4, we share three practical tips we have implemented as a couple to invest in our marriage. Laugh along with us at the extremes we have had to take to carve out time alone, as we challenge you to do the same.

Discipline

Thu, 04 Nov 2021 04:00:00 +0000

No one likes the word discipline, but as parents, we realize it’s necessary.

In this episode, we address the Top 3 Struggles parents face when it comes to disciplining their kids—reminding listeners what is MOST important in our parenting journey.

We even tackle the dreaded “S” word—spanking—and break down the verse in Proverbs that is often misquoted and highly misunderstood.

Autism Causes

Thu, 21 Oct 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this episode, we tackle the age-old question: “What causes autism?” On a more personal note, we wrestle with the question, “What did I DO to cause my child to be autistic?”

With humor sprinkled in along the way, we then share with our audience the biggest question in our faith journey, “Did God cause my child to be autistic?”

Our Story

Tue, 05 Oct 2021 21:00:00 +0000

In this episode, we share a little about our family and our journey. In 2012, our oldest daughter was diagnosed with Level 3 Autism and it sent us into a tailspin. Four years later, we traveled the same highway, to the same development center, to receive the same bleak diagnosis for our son. We were angry at life, at God, and at each other. We candidly share how we processed this news differently and what God has taught us through it all.