What about when did I do that? Or I never meant to hurt you. Oh heres a good one Look what you made me do?

My name is Sandra Luckey I am a victor of abuse. I have picked up clamlng habits, most fortifying for peace and clarity of thought. Like meditation, painting, making jewelry, writing. You see I heard all of the above statements. And yes even said some of them. I have learned that any abusive relationship will have you acting and saying some really DESTRUCTIVE things.

I want share with you some of the the things that have helped me to find my better me, to learn to "Talk It Out Not Fight It Out" LetZ!! Design a better way of living than that of what ABUSE wants us to.